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Yes, i know i sounds like a bad guy, but i just couldn't get this girl out of my head. we talked few times, i do not have her number yet. the moment her friends told me she has a boyfriend already was my most heartbreaking moment. and i'm still heartbroken. yeah i don't know what she's done to me lol until i'm so crazy for her.
Mostly the advice i received is move on and find another girl. i don't know what i can do or what should i do. anyone has experience in this kind of situation can offer some advice?

You just need to get distracted by something else to forget it and then after a while you can start looking for a more worthy girl.

There are plenty of other fish in the sea :) Cheer up.

I agree. There are a lot of people on earth and you can always find someone much better. So do not bother with this trifle.

It's ok, don't worry. I had the same ''problem'' 2 years ago. It's had to forget her and take her out of your mind, but you have to thing, what if someone has a crush with your gf? You have to go out meet new people, new girls, do things that you like. I did the same, sometimes I thing about her, but I know that she is with someone she wants, and that's enough for me.

Were the same and I'm even experiencing it right now. It is really hard to had some feelings to people had already their lover. I don't even think of my self seizing the girl for my own happiness. If you truly loved the girl or whatsoever it should be wiser to respect her ideas or feelings, its also good to find some distractions so you will forget it, that is what I am doing right now but its also hard when you will always see each other everyday. There is nothing wrong to have a crush, besides its just a crush its not like you are going to court her or what. All i can say is that i really feel you.

I highly agree with you, what if your GF would also seized by another man would you be happy? It really hurts when you think on putting your self on that guy's shoes.

She didn't do anything to you. You did this to yourself.

Let me guess you met her and immediately liked her. So after that you went home and started thinking about her (FIRST MISTAKE!). Then you started to fantasize about what it would be like if she was your girlfriend, how life would be nice, etc.. (SECOND MISTAKE). You probably did this for more than a couple of weeks. You basically programmed yourself to fall in love with her even though you do not really know what she is like.

This is a common mistake made by young guys. Falling in love is just you doing it to yourself no matter the circumstances. Falling in love is a mental state you put yourself into. Maybe when you realize this you're going to be able to forget her and hopefully you don't do this to yourself again.

Consider this one of the best advice that has been given to you.

We need to move on and have a chance to meet another more suitable girl. Do not take this as something very bad, it's just a little lesson.

thank you everyone for the advice! so its 100% 'let it go' ;D oh well, i will try that. yeah my original intention was trying to seize her, but that's maybe im not thinking straight. i better chill out first and and keep myself calm.

my man, you put it very well. that's exactly what happened and after i read what you said, immediately i realized my mistakes. huge thanks to you.

just go searching for someone else cause girl isnt only ner, so much outside there who waiting for you

You're not alone mate. :D 
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hey man, i know its hard but i wanna give you suggestion, if you cannot move on from her you can fight with her boyfriends and if you win you can get your girl again man ;D

slowly men, Your experience is the same as mine.. just wait until she break with her crush. Do Not Cheating ok

I think it is really normal to be attracted to someone really beautiful or sweet something like that you just have to know your limits,And just give it up already I think it is what you really have to do right now cheer up you might just found someone else.

Just confront her what's the big deal! Every beautiful girl has a boyfriend and the only way to get her is to show her that you love her! Just try your luck my friend, she may likely fall for you too :) Don't let her boyfriend stop you from getting in to her, that's my advice to you! Remember everything good has competition to it. And if you don't play the game how do you know you can win or lose???

Cool advice! Thank you. Its does makes sense what you said. you wont know unless you try ;D

Hey you're welcome. Just remember the golden rule: Bros before Hoes.

you should be brave to move on, and trying find other girl, because one day you can find soul mate in your real life...

That's right my friend ;D For me, I don't always go for girls without boyfriend because they pretty look cheap to me! :) One lesson I learned in this life, "don't let anyone stop you from getting what you want" that's pretty cool right?

I also have a crush on someone who already have a boyfriend but as long as you can control it and know what you are doing I think there isn't wrong in it.
having a crush on someone isn't a bad thing it can't be help.

stay cool, and dont worry.. take some activity that you like or make your self busy, so you can forget it

We need to constantly evolve and move forward, to get better every day and then regret that you lost.

There are more Queens in the world than Kings so I would say be brave and move on. The perfect one for you will come not by chance

be her good friend, even if she has a bf.

If you can't leave her then you should impress her and his friends, then difinately she will get some feeling for you, if still she not get impressed from you then you should leave her .I am single
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Yah i know ,how does it feel like that ,as i was in ur position .well i can tell you that dont be the villian and dont try to break the relationship as it might happen that you might never get her back.My suggestion for you that go search another one,there will b someone who  is single and wanna mingle with you.

So? Have you confronted her? What happened? Inquiry minds want to know.

Move on good sir :) what is meant to be is meant to be and that could also mean if you are meant to be together then let nature take its course
Cheers

Many strategies you have to hit on her. Easiest way would be to move on but you could also try to hit on her. Especially if they are for longer together and she needs some adventure.

Play some games, talk with people and you will soon forget it!!

Actually the right solution according to "pick up" is to fuck 10 other girls than you forget the "One it is"

hahaha. this is the funniest advice ;D i may not going to do it, but still thanks for the suggestion

this may be funniest advice but fortunately its very bad idea to do this , he may be forget her for a while but not for always, so what do you think he "pick up" 10 girls( not girls) and fuck daily (when he thinking about her)?

Lol ;D Love is not about sex alone but feelings too!

I'm in the same situation as you..  ;D there's nothing to do hehe  :P ::)

Your problem is that you have a fantasy idea of what this girl is like.

You don't even know her.
You haven't spent enough time with her to be annoyed by all the habits or personality traits that would drive you crazy.

Ask her friends what her bad habits are.

She is probably very shallow .

You should quit fantasizing about gger and find a nice girlfriend, that doesn't already have a boyfriend that will beat you up.

Cheers :)

yeah im still having small chat with her anyway. just never said anything about my feelings to her yet lol.

You wont get to anywhere with that kind of mindset and one thing let her be happy with her current relationship. For you try to find some other girl and get to know her well before deciding, I also really don't understand most girls today, they are dreaming for their ideal man which is described to be a perfect man, I don't even know if it still existed nowadays and more importantly is it way too selfish?

This is something you should stay away. Not only ethical reasons, also it may bring unrest to your life.

Some things are not worth forgetting, trust me :)

You have to go and get it for yourself, to prove yourself you can do it 8)

There are some things you can never forget in your life and if you can't get them you can remember them for the rest of your life!

stay cool, and dont worry.. take some activity that you like or make your self busy, so you can forget it

go get her !
if she is worth fighting for, and if she have the same feeling as you did, and if she okay that she already have a boyfriend, and if she knows that cheating is bad.

Lots of good looking girls around the globe. Just try to notice them...

You can find another girl that loves you

My advice is to keep your options open, maybe she will become available later, but since at the moment she is not then try to find someone else, you never know you may find someone more compatible.

Try to talk to her sometime. And make her feel that you are not a bad boy like her boyfriend. And I've saw something on facebook. He waited for somebody that has a boyfriend and after that couple broke, he said that he didn't knew that he was waiting for his wife.

I was literally in this situation. It's not impossible to get this girl but let me warn you, it is not for the faint of heart. You have to play your cards right. Also depending how committed she is to her now "BF", you are going to experience a range of emotions that are going to make you feel sad, then happy.

And while you're in it, hope for the best and prepare for the worse.

But at the end of all this, you're going to ask yourself this question: Is this a risk you want to take and potentially waste your time.

my advise for you is to wait for the right time, if you are really into her you have to respect the relationship she is having right now. and also you have to respect the guy coz if you put yourself into he's situation you will be feeling bad too. so i guess to sum it up just wait for the right timing if you are destined together you will end up happily ever after.(too corny for the closing remarks haha)

Eh, i don't believe in boyfriends. They exist to keep the girls I like happy and healthy until i come along.
If she wants to break it off with her BF to get with you, that's no foul play. Better than making her stay in a relationship she could do better.

Married is a different story. That's a commitment regardless

respect their relationship. but if the boyfriend of the girl is a bastard then make a move to get the girl and make her happy when she was with you.

There's nothing wrong on having a crush to someone who already has a boyfriend. What's wrong is that if you make a move to ruin their relationship and get the girl for you. Just respect their relationship just like what he said. And also, put your self on their shoes. Think if you can deal with a ruined relationship just because someone has a crush on your girl. And besides, there are so many girls out there. Crush can fade but love does not.

Nothing can stop love if it is real. On the other hand if a woman chooses you it means that they have no relationship with her boyfriend, so you do not destroy. If it is not you will choose you won't ruin. I see no reason for your doubts.

Respect that relation, and more if you are in love with a friend. He/she is happy now, so why turning that into a painful scenario?

if it's not a goer from the off then it's a waste of your time and life. sitting around and moping won't help you. i've had unrequited feelings for people in the past. i cut them out of my life and moved on. time is running away from you every single second. don't throw it away.

3 things:

- She could have said she has a boyfriend, when actually that's not true. This is a thing many girls do, for several reasons.
- Even if she has a boyfriend, you are a Bitcoiner! Of course, you are better than him. Just wait until she realize it.
- You may think it's a good, romantic stuff if you can't stop thinking about her. Well, actually, it's just a crush. The world is full of beautiful women, so hang out with others in the meanwhile. Don't focus just on one girl.

yes and I know that's wrong because of that I'm trying to my my self run away I'm the girl I know is difficult but that's the reality

Guys, never fight with a couple. I mean if there is a relationship for the person you'll fight, be careful. He or che might not control himself.

Deep and true, we can't live in the past.

I agree with the European Central Bank on this one. (And only on this one) Life's too short to chase a fantasy.
There are plenty of women out there that are available and great to spend your time with, all you have to do is go out there, meet them and be yourself.

I also once had such a problem for a long time, but then I remembered that there are still a lot of people on earth and for myself I can find an even better girl instead of falling into depression.

forget about her! don't treat someone the way you do not want to be treated :) plus karma. Even if she leaves that guy fro you - remember! Later she will leave you for another guy

Just don't kid yourselve into thinking it's ok because it's all due to how much you love her and how perfect you'd be togeher.

Nop. It's the attraction, the attension and the taboo.

Try find something else to excite you. This scenario will only go one way. Do yourself proud, keep it as mates

just go searching for someone else cause girl isnt only ner, so much outside there who waiting for you

Don't worry about it too much. Sooner or later your view of her will chhange as you age

How old are you now dude? Maybe it is just a puppy love, you can find someone another and maybe that girl will love you back. GOD'S TIME is a Perfect time. :)

find a better girl and shares some picture about yours .
you can try!

I I have the same situation. I like a girl from past 3 years and she is in a relationship. And it sucks

You can't do nothing, just let them live.

Thst sounds funny but how about if she has same feelings for you? How about if she doesn't really like her boyfriend like you think? How about you pretend you dont know she has a boyfriend and approach her to see how she feels about you?If she refuses togo out with you, let that motivate you to develop yoyr self into a successful and visionary person and she will regret she didn't give you a chance.

LOL, if this isn't a troll, then you seriousely have to look at yourself.

If a girl is in a relationship with someone, she is not interested in having a relationship with you. Just accept that.

you should find another girl, if you love her then let her go and move on, just hanging with your friends or your families until you forget her.   

My sister is offended when a guy instantly loses interest in a girl because she already has a boyfriend. What if the current boyfriend isn't right for her??? No respect for the girl at all here!!!!!!

What if she likes the new potential boyfriend more? It's not like they're married or engaged.

If you think you are better than her boyfriend you should give a try. But always be cautious because if she really love her boyfriend she will kick your ass. :D

Same situation, but I confessed. she said it was okay but dont hope for anything. It helped me to move on. It really depends on your situation but I recommend confessing too.

If you can beat his boyfriend then she doesn't have a boyfriend ;D ;D ;D

Dam man, hope the girl didn't give you a heartattack, I hated when this happened to me as younger, now I'm single and dad of 2 boys.

You should find someone else and respect your crush because she is in a relationship and you don't want to be remembered by her as the one who destroyed her relationship and will hate you. Or get yourself distracted something/someone else. You know the saying "there are plenty of fishes in the sea". Good luck mate  :) :)

That`s true you can still find the best for you, you just need to wait and be patient. But for me i don`t mind if that happens i go enjoy myself spending more time with your family even here in bitcoin.

It's okay to have crush on someone even though they already have boyfriend. Because crush is just a crush. Crush is when you admire someone. :-) which means it's just an admiration, And there are lots of girls in this world anyway! xD

I think almost all guys have been there before. Morally the right thing to do would be to leave her alone, be her friend if possible and give her her chance at happiness with her current boyfriend. If you like her enough you should be happy if she's happy. If things don't work out with her boyfriend then maybe you'll get your chance then.

You are doomed dude. There are plenty of hot chics in the world. Or better yet just use your hand.

I experienced the same situation as you have experienced ..i was heartbroken too for a few days. My advice would be just wait for a few days or months until they breakup in the meanwhile just chat with the girl and make her a bestie. If things don't work out.. just remember that there are billion other girls out there.

Do stuff to take your mind off her/reduce the time you spend around and with her. Funny thing with crush like this most times if you end up getting the girl, you discover it doesn't turn out to be all you imagined. I have seen situations where a guy 'moves heaven and earth' to win over a girl (and vice versa) and years later  when you see them fighting and get separated, you wonder what they saw in each other in the first place. That is not to say you should give up on her just yet, just let things flow...sometimes when you try too hard to get something, you loose it entirely.

Forget him, maybe he's not your soul mate. Better to find someone else who does not have a lover ...

enjoy the feeling and cherish it. You are not taking her away from her boyfriend anyway.

You cannot deny yourself the best feeling in the world.

sometimes love is coming anytime and anywhere, tampa regarded the status of a, if already love and love org husband can, but love itubbauyak persebsi, we we love the girlfriend someone, not mean to have it, because love does not have to cause love coming from the eye down from the heart, love smells meaning

I think you should get to know more about their relationships. Sometimes people date because of stupid reasons and if you find out their love is fake you need to tell her the truth. When you love someone, it's worth fighting for no matter what the odds.

You're not a bad guy if you like a girl who has a boyfriend, I was in the same situation a couple years ago and I did nothing because her boyfriend was a good friend of mine. Time will help you move on.

the best thing for you to do is honestly move on. you're stepping into territory where potentially three hearts can be broken, and you shouldnt mess with that. theres plenty of other fish in the sea

that's awful, guys! I have a GF and I recently met another girl and yes, I had a crush on her. And she answered back! And now I don't know what to do.. such a lousy situation!!

The best way to get her out of your head is simply dating with other girls.

forget her and find another girl. do not ruin others relationship

We all have that one love which will never acomplish :(

so what?) if you are single and she answers you back, go for it! life should be full of adventures!

Is she attractive?

The one thing that you should truly understand that the attraction is based on your hormones. Maybe that can help you move on.

you should think about other people!
if you were her BF, would you like it?

Its really hurting me so much and i was like dying when i saw the both of them .

Make it as your motivation to excel in the world of cryptocurrency.
Forget girls and focus here in bitcoin.
If you have enough build a business.
By that time girls are just around the corners waiting for your attention.

Try not to think about her and keep your distance from them as much as possible.

Also consider these points:
a) If you succeeded in stealing her, would you be able to trust that she wouldn't do the same thing to you with somebody else,
b) how would you feel if someone stole your girlfriend?
c) If someone did that with your mom or sister, how would you feel towards them, and how would you feel about your sister?

In my opinion, if you really love her, you can wait for some time later, I think she and her boyfriend will not last long if he knows someone is interested in his girlfriend....

I think that's not good, you could be considered a bad guy, you should spend time looking for another job, and in this new job I think you will meet the girl of your life

suggestions are the same, we do not grieve and have to learn move on looking another girl better than him

A good saying, long life and many girls, that is the same sentence you

I think loving other is giving them happy not owning them. Just let her choose.

Just try to forget her and move on.

Just dont come in if the door is close. But if your ass go to the window

Familiar feeling. Sadness, anger, pain and depression - they are all there :'(.
Have to just keep waiting what the future has to offer...

It happen a lot sa akin dati,
Yong type mo Kong paano sya magpatawa, yong nakaka miss marinig yong tawa nya kahit simple lang yong joke mo, nakakatuwa kapag gagastusan mo sya tapos aambag pa kahit para naman sa kanya yong bibilhin, tapos cowgirl pa kapag may mga event na pinupuntahan, tapos aamin ka Na sana pero nang araw na aamin ka inintroduce nya BF nya sayo...
Nakakatawang isipin na hindi mo inalam ang kunting background nya kasi masaya ka tuwing kasama mo sya.. At wala ka nang inisip kunti ang kaligayahan ng mga uwas na yon...

Advice ko lang pre,, let go kisa makasakit ka, okay Na Yong nasasaktan tayo kisa makasakit o makasira ng relationship ng iba....
GOD will let you meet the one for you....

Would honestly recommend you to distract yourself and not interfere with their relationship. Liking her doesn't make you bad but if you break them up, then yes you're the bad person.

Forget about her. Someone in there got a crush on you, you are just blind because you like someone who doesn't like you. Focus to those who love you and give them a chance!

Sometimes you just think very simple, do what you like, love the girl you love, whatever the outcome, it is interesting

Dont waate your time or your world in only one girl.  Theres so many girl up there and single. Dont be so stupid to follow a girl that has a boyfriend or to a girl that had another love. You only hurting yourself find a girl that loves you.

I have experienced it before, and what I did was just focus on other things I enjoy. This can range from hobbies, to basically whatever you enjoy. You will eventually forget her, and find someone else one day. Good luck!

oh man this is bad...anyway..if you found your love would be difficult to giveitaway!! :D

As long as they are not married, you can have a crush to her bro.

Don't do it, you will only regret later.

I know that you are very hard to give up, but I advise you to stop because it will not have good results
Be strong!

if it`s not her husband - thats ok

dont try to destroy their relationship
just try to distract yourself

All's fair in love and war. You just have to decide how much she's worth to you.