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Parents making their kids fat is abuse. End of story.

People being fat is personal choice and will power more than genetics. Fat people have the choice to be fat. No one's born fat. It's something that's learned.

I'll just put this Tim Minchin Song here:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FXr9T5xpVFs


And no, I don't believe it's always abuse. I'm not a father or mother but I sure as hell don't expect the parents to be able to monitor their kids 24/7

LOL~i can't stop laughing when im listening to the song XD im a mother of 3 kids but i won't control what they eat, and they won't look fat too. They are just kids don't over control them. They deserve to have a happy kids moment, don't u agree?

We just have to be more conscious of what we eat. And yes, normally fat parents have fat children because they have the same food at home and family members tend to have the same eating habits lol

If you are obese, it will make you susceptible to dangerous diseases and people are teasing. Choose the right diet to ensure your health and have a healthy body.

There are people though that are really blessed with super metabolism. I know this girl who eats like a trucker but is really slim.

I don't think there is a problem in being fat. If its dangerous for your health, than its bad. otherwise it is a matter of choice.
But when parents feed their child with candy and pasta only when they are abuse - it is disgusting

The problem is the quantity of processed food that peple are eating, and the additives that are being added.  I suspect that fat people are more easily controlled by the elite, and this is why they include those additives. Lack of exercise doesn't help either. The newer types of fat are not natural, so the body doesn't know what to do with them, so it just stores them.

i think problem is with education about what we eat  and proper healthy life style,

We agree, because this is also influenced by consumerism and all the garbage that we sell, in addition to bad eating habits that are acquired either by education received at home or by the schedules that we acquire in our lifestyle. In addition, this could have serious consequences for our health. ;D

I believe that parents must make the effort to educate their children on how to eat healthy, however, children should not be forced to eat less than their bodies demand. As long as a child is not obese they will be fine. I must also point out that in some cases a person's obesity can be directly attributed to things that are beyond their control. Sleep apnea and diabetes can cause many problems to anyone afflicted. Anyone who is overweight should seek out a doctor to run some tests to determine if anything else might be responsible for the extra weight. Having the proper diagnosis will enable the parent to better take care of their child as well as themselves.

That's true. Though it is not their choice to be fat. They don't want to get fat either but they just can't resist their eating habits and lifestyle. What they don't have is discipline.

But op.some have no choice due to their economic situation  .They make due with what they have

I want to be that situation when i have kids

1. Dont worry about gasoline/ekoshit on car`s tank 2. Private school education 3. Private daycare 4. "Quality time" on my wife 5. Business rolling smoothly (for summerhouse, large private home and yacht)  8) -Have nice holidays :)

"Why daddy is sitting always on working room"  ::)

Not all fat people are living a great life. Some of them are so stressed in their life that they end up eating too much as their stress reliever. I've been there.

I agree. Being Fat is not their choice. They're just having a hard time to discipline their self because of whatever situation they were in.

There are people who are fat, not because they eat a lot, but for example they suffer from some kind of illness. If the parents were fat, then the child can be so. But of course with this you can fight diets and sports, but many people are very lazy

The illness is eating too much of the wrong food, and indolence of course.

I visit McDonalds and Supermarkets a lot. When you see what people re buying and eating, it's pretty obvious why they are fat, and why they are turning healthy kids into obese unhealthy people with allergies and other problems.

It is sad. Then it will be difficult for children to lose weight in adulthood.

I couldn't agree more. It's definitely a choice!

It's their lifestyle, the people around them and personal choice.

In childhood it is normal to be fat. I was like that too. :D

Fat people and fat children are those who are happy or stress.

That's for sure! I even envy them :)

So wrong.
This used to be true but not anymore. Ever heard of hormonal disorders ? We live in a fucked up world where environment has completely changed peoples' health standards.
Gluten ,dairy, additives are just a few things that can mess your body.

Of course some fat people lack willpower but not all fat people "chose" to be fat.

What is worse is being "skinny fat" like 95% of the population : people who could look good, say they want to look good but never make the efforts to actually look good.

I don`t agree that people are not born fat. There are people who are predisposed to fatness.

I agree. Sometimes it is a predisposition or even a disease.

Wish I could agree but there is more to the picture. People also get fat because of treatments and medications. In my case, the entire family line has always been lean on fathers and mothers side both. I was quite lean till Grade 3 when I started haing severe headaches and also fainted once. On thorough checkup with MRI and CT scans some kind off infection was found in my lower part of brain and I had to undergo minor surgery and a strict medication for 3 years. It had some kind of steroids and I quickly gained weight. Though I am much more conscious about my fitness these days but I am never able to achieve the lean structure because my metabolism is very slow. I am almost 85 kgs with 1.8m of height but if you compare my diet with my friends with a leaner structure, you would be amazed at how I am bulky and they are not.

Sometimes, genetics and medical history have a role to play in your body structure. But yes obesity like the ones found in America is solely because unhealthy lifestyle and food eating patterns.

Well... genetics is a thing. For example, It's really hard for one of my friends to gain weight.
Because of the stomach problems. And he can eat only specific healthy food.
He always tells me that he wishes to be fat at least for one day.

I agree with you, this is indeed a choice! Parents feed their children to bulimia, and then they just start taking measures, this is very bad ((and it’s better to teach children activity and sports since childhood.

 I absolutely agree with you, parents instead of accustom children to an active life, go to McDonald's

This made me LOL  :D

I agree, people have a choice to not be fat you can workout and have a diet, it's just a matter of self control and hard work.

People are egotistical monsters. As long as it doesn't make them feel bad it's OK. They feel the need to oblige, then wonder why their child gets abused in school... Retards.

I feel extremely sad when I see fat children... First, that's how their parents "care" about their health and appearance. Secondly, if they look this way now, most likely they will look even worse in the adolescence. Thirdly, it is kinda not attractive...

I dont think fat is hereditary, it's just laziness you can always choose to workout.

You say abuse.. It could be and it could not be. You do know there are some places where extreme poverty is not a new thing right? Then tell me, if those people who have tasted poverty for almost all their lives finally get a chance to a better one. Do you think they will take it slow? Nah not really. Also, what about depression (that extreme sadness that is slow and very painful), stress, disease, natural. You do know there are those with natural big bones and might look gigantic or fat too. No one is an inch perfect, trust me 😊

It's not fair to act all perfect, when everyone isn't. Tell me a healthy chubby baby is not good enough next 😏

Words like these make people think less of themselves. It's things like this that lead to suicide you know that right. Attractive? There are more things in this life than being beautiful and attractive. Gosh if only the world will wake up 🤦‍♂️

Hmm sure, but can you say that for someone who lost both parents at a young age. Saw siblings disappear one by one, and lost both eyes too. What am trying to say is, first think of what those people are going through before passing judgment. Nobody is as they might seem to be, and that's the fact 😎

What I don't understand is.. Why attack those people's lifestyles and decisions? It's their choice and life isn't it 😜 Come on...be fair.

There are situation that children get fat because they eat too much , which may turn into obesity where is one of the problems of this world. There are children mistreated because they are fat , most of them got bullied in their school and in their community . Parents should be aware of their childrens health because they are the most affected not the parents.

Parents should really be responsible to their children and it does include their diet/nutrition. This is not body shamming. This is about health of the children, a top priority of any parent.

Agreed. Everyone should be responsible enough to consider that it is far beyond not about shamming people. It is about health

This is not just about obesity also, this can also be applied to other aspects of life. Just be responsible to every action and everything that is under your supervision. Life can be busy and new problems pile up, but never forget your duties and responsibilities because failing them can and will affect your entire life. Just like in this industry, we should be responsible enough to know that what is happening to us right now is because of the actions and decisions we made in the past. Those outcomes, whether it's good or bad, is our responsibility to carry for the rest of our time. It can feel heavy to our shoulders but fortunately new ideas are rising to help us in the near future just like the upcoming exchange of Bitrus (https://to.crwd.cr/z7G). So, don't give up and keep fighting for the things you value.

We have to watch the food we eat,Reduce calories
Because it leads to high pressure and Diabetes.

Like me, I was very fat
I wish only that the body returns as it was.
It has been much nicer than now.

Yeah.i raised being fat and its a hard task for me to lose weight till i have my own work,from there lots of things change so i started to learn many things,lucky that i become normal weight before getting married and now proud of my size

Usually kids who are fat have parents who are the same way. They got used to it and losing that fat seems way to hard for them so they decided they will live like that forever since it doesn't affect them that much. I hate to see fat people that are that way because they are too lazy to lose fat but at the end of the day it's their right to be however they want to be.

It's a choice for a person to be fat. And parental guidance that might act like that is a form of abuse. It's like you're forcing someone to become someone he doesn't want to.

I was once a not too fat person when I'm jobless and nothing to pick up on my pocket. But after being hired, getting compensated through my job, it started to make me think that I should reward myself every payday.

And it became a habit of rewarding myself through buying unhealthy foods, shakes, fast foods, processeds foods and other foods that can make one fat easily. Yes, it is a choice to become fat but there are people who inherited it and it's on their genes. I'm thinking of going to gym soon but due to stress and tiring day, I just can't day. So it's really a choice, if you want to reduce, you need to be encouraged and dedicated with it.

I don't think parents really want to make their kids fat because that's could be called abuse. The problem is that parents are also fat and they think there would be no problem is their children will be the same. They don't think it's a problem for them.

And then the kids blame their lives and commit suicide. End of story

People aren't born fat, these days the food habits were the one that makes people become fat. Sedentary lifestyle, less physical activities, more dependence on machinery lives, overeating, more intake of oily food. In simple terms imbalanced diet is the major reason for people getting fat.

Detailed information about people getting fat is really good to know. User who are fat could avoid these and can get good results. Being fat isn't a big problem, people easily gets depressed on being fat which too makes people go fatter and fatter even when they try to follow diets.

but sometimes some children are naturally fat. not a decision by their parent or anybody. i don't think because nobody will love to see his or her kid been called fatty.

Many times the same genetics tend to get fat, maybe the focus in society is wrong, often the type of food based on junk foods people get fat without realizing that it is due to it. Many people suffer from the thyroid and it causes them to get fat.