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Gambling is not for the weak minded ones but for those who can withstand with the bad motion/feeling when it occurs. Any gambler that thinking to win always is not well prepared for the gambling space. As a Gambler, you have to prepare your mind that the game you are playing might favour you or against you and if the game against you, then you have to wear a thick skin to over come the lose. Gambling is not for butter and bread but for the better and the worst. So any of the above come to your way as a gambler, you take. No man/woman should cry for gambling though it is painful but you don't have to cry. The casino company never cry when you win. She would have known that gambling is not her loss is another person win and her win is another person loss. Casinos want you to loss and you want casinos to loss and that is how gambling game is. Many people don't understand gambling and all what they want is to play and win. And I believed that she didn't read the Ts of the casino and probably she was excited for the game and placed her bet and loss.
This is the first time I am seeing a lady playing gamble in the public domain. Though I have been hearing but not seen. Well she should take heart, the matter how she cried the money will not come back again. What do you say about the Lady? Did she do well in the public? As I said, gambling is not your mate, take precautions.

That only shows how immature she is, crying because she lost in gambling makes it look like she wasn't aware of the risks of losing. I mean, that shouldn't hurt her, as both outcomes are normal in gambling, and no gambler wins all the time. That's why it's important to gamble with what you can afford to lose, so if you lose, it will not significantly affect your life. Crying over a loss means it has affected her life, and there might be more problems related to that, such as not having enough money for survival, which is a big challenge.

Gambling does not discriminate based on gender. As long as you are mature and responsible, you should be fine.

I don't think that was even important here because it is not about issues withdrawing or any other matter on KYC etc. This is about how she wanted to go for the multiplier and lost her money. Gamblers know it that it is risky between multiplier and losing what you have staked so it is not about terms. Every gambler has the innate orientation that you can lose the money or you can have more and that is why they are gambling.


I have witnessed female gamblers alot but maybe not going on social media and crying. She probably would have another agenda in her mind, like to trend for the moment on social media or to get sympathy from the public for refund or part of it. All those are possible but also difficult to refund a gambler except she threatens to commit suicide.

Well you can cry all you want after the bad things have happened but it will not solve you anything.In order to stop being in such situations like the lady here it is essential to know your inner self,if you are strong mentally and have a strong character that you pass even difficult things like gambling addiction with ease you can continue to play but if you start crying for a lost bet this means that you must stop immediately and never again touch gambling in your life,not even the smallest amount you should gamble.

That is the moral of the story,I lost everything yesterday playing slot machines yet today I am like nothing have happened and I look forward to playing again,I am extremely strong mentally that is why.

It's a kid losing his school fees to gambling the other day and then we have a thread for a crying woman for a lost bet to the same gambling platform hehe. This is another instance which proves that woman cannot take Ls well. It's crazy how they need to post these things on social media instead of taking the loss on the chin and take accountability silently.

That only proves that gambling is not for everyone. No matter how positive you are with your bet, that will not guarantee that you will eventually win the game. I just hope the lady has acted maturely than showing the world how immature she is. Probably she's one of those people who believe that gambling will make you profitable instantly, but in reality gambling will make you doomed especially if you don't know how to deal with its risk.

This what happen when someone think gambling is 100% chance to win and 0% to lose, so she will not think about the risk and keep gamble until she make money from it.

Maybe she want to get a sympathy from other people, increase her follower or getting donated by rich people or other casino. There are so many people are only looking to earn money, even it will harm other people or a made up story.

I think the objective behind making this is to gain public attention and sympathy in order to milk money out of the kind hearted people.

When a person gambles, they are bound to the term that they understand the risk and the potential of loss. Accepting that they play the game and the outcome is not depending on their gender, colour or any other bullshit parameter.

I would take the above with a grain of salt, a lot of shit gets posted on social media, some are true some may not be. Of course gambling is bad if one is not clever enough to understand it, but crafty manipulators exist too.

Sorry to say but she's dumb, lacking the basic survival skills, never learned to face consequences of her actions. The same people have a child and then find out they don't have enough money to raise it, or drive drunk and suddenly have to face losing license and getting fined, then they start crying.
I don't feel any remorse reading these stories. I'm not heartless, but it's one thing to have an accident, or lose money because you got drunk and got robbed. When you bet money you do it willingly and there's always a chance to lose it. If you don't understand it, you're unfit to live in the modern world, just like people who steal and cry when they have to go to jail for it.

Gambling is for those who can afford losing money and are conscious about this possibility. About the lady, I think she is trying to sensibilize the audience to feel bad as well for her loss. I don't know if the post involves donation request from viewers, but that is not uncommon when people post videos and stories like that, especially when it comes with a sad background of needing the money for daily expenses, to feed children or to pay for health treatments or medicines.

I can't say if she is right by posting it to the public, because maybe she felt she needed doing this in order to feel better and overcome the loss she faced. If that was good for her, who am I to blame this attitude? I just hope she has learned with the mistake and won't repeat it again futurely.

The woman in the story is not ready to change. All she needs is sympathy and a man somewhere who would tell her it's okay and send her whatever amount she lost. Or maybe she ways Netizens to crowd fund for her. If she truly needs help, she would have sort for the help of a professional therapist secretly and get her gambling problem solved. Crying on the internet about your gambling problem doesn't fix the problem. She's just overwhelmed with guilt and pain. I know she'll be back to sports bet next day to recover her losses.

Just to gain views and like? Sure, why not? It's a trend these days and probably all was just scripted. I don't think you should share it across social media if you end up getting lost to a gambling, it's still your fault that you're crying considering how uncertain and risky gambling is. If she has gambling problem, call some professionals not those who will give you false sympathy over comments.

This 2 news that just shared here in the forum but in reality this event always happened to somebody who gamble money that he/she can’t afford to lose. There are much worst than this 2 like the games who committed suicide after losing all his funds on gambling and so on that involves violence. At least on the 2 stories share only crying is their action which is understandable when you are sad.

Social media makes everything accessible to the public and I commend them for being bold on sharing their sad reaction in the public just to get sympathy to the public which doesn’t have any relation to them.

I respectfully submit that I think you are going about this in the wrong way. The first rule of good gambling is to only bet money you can afford to lose. I usually bet between 0.01% and 0.05% of my monthly income and obviously those things don't happen to me.

The point is not that gambling is not your mate, it's that you have to be aware of what it is and follow some basic rules so you don't end up like her or worse: the above mentioned, only bet what you can afford to lose, consider it as entertainment, never think that it will be a good way to win money, on the contrary, and things like that.


I agree 100%.

The casino does not see you as a woman or a man and even if you have to cry, cry because the casino will not care about you, the money you have lost because of gambling will not be returned because before playing gambling, aren't there always rules and requirements that must be agreed to and also have you heard? advice from old gamblers that gambling is full of big risks, not a place to get rich quick.

I once experienced this when I was gambling with my friend and at that time my friend was crying and whining asking for his money to be returned because it was his savings and I didn't want to return it, but he called his father and tried to ask me for his money back, but still I I won't return it, because I said he lost the gambling and I didn't take his possessions, when we gambled we agreed on the risks. so his father no longer forced me to return his son's money. It is important for people before gambling to understand the risks, don't think that gambling can make us rich. that was a mistake  :D

No room for the faint-hearted in the gambling world, you know? Those folks are why gambling gets a bad rap in the community. They dive in without realizing the risks they're taking with their money. Sometimes, when desperation kicks in, gamblers get a bit delusional. The reason that lady was crying? She's all about the win, not seeing the bigger picture. If she tried her luck in the investment world, she'd probably fall for a scam and end up in tears. Hopefully, she can come to terms with the losses and move forward.

This just shows how gamblers can be greedy at times!

Can you imagine her reaction had she won this bet...she would have been on top of the world telling everyone how gambling is such a blessing and she will be gambling more as she has found a way to make money online..now things didn't go her way and she's calling it bad lol.

Otherwise gambling makes grown a*SS men and women cry which shows that your emotions and mental strength count, better luck next time lady  8)

I have seen a similar video but this one was a man that play virtual bet, it's one of the riskiest and volatile way of winning and so losing, when I say volatile, you can lose huge amount of money in the space of 5 minutes and can lose everything, including your home in 5 seconds and I don't know why gamblers enjoy playing this particular type of bet, maybe that's addiction we discussed here every day and ways people gamble irresponsibly.

Man came with ₦52,000($50) and stake everything, he lose everything within 10 minutes, he was angry and looked for solutions to get back his money but none was available and then he decided to go violent, told the agent to pay him back his money, how is that possible? Who will pay for the money you willingly bet on? Maybe he was not informed how risky the kind of bet he wanted to play.

This lady is not different from the man I saw a video online, she is looking for sympathy just maybe online non government organizations will come to her aid for her own decision, if she has won that bet, people will not hear anything from her but not that the bet went hay, she is crying for sympathy.  :'(

So it is now become a trend to post about losing money on gambling and with an act like being sad, regret, etc in social media? What's the purpose?
To gain some attention from viewers? to gain empathy and sympathy from viewers? While in fact these people are embarassing themselves.
What if they win their bets? Will they share it in social media by showing themselves laughing a loud to express their happiness of the victory?
Lets just ignore such a person, social media is full of BS, full of gimmick, dont be fooled with such a post in social media.

I spent some time with the link in the OP and saw the original tiktok video where she posted it. I wanted to see if donation links was posted but I saw none of that. It looks like she wants to make it viral with all those hashtags in the caption so who knows if she could get some reward for taking a video of herself while crying.

It's funny how one comment says leave sportybet and then inviting her to play on another gambling site.

People do anything for clout these days.

The crying part to me I believe is just to get sympathy and probably get attention either to grow her followership in whatever social media platform she will further post it.


Surely if really she lost out, she will go back to try regain her lose. Gamblers have this in common, they chase back losses but I hope she doesn't get bruised badly when she does go back for her chase.

I agree I don't think the woman belongs here, she should realize the risks and rewards are equal.
So if you expect good things to always happen to you then you are wrong.
a person can win and lose the entire amount of money at stake, just be prepared for it to happen because it will definitely happen when she bets his money.

I don't see crying as an option in some situations just as you have said if you cry from now till tomorrow it does not bring back the money that has been lost is just for her to embrace her faith and if she is still interested she can try again she might get lucky this time around. I know people that will feel buttered about losing and eventually still go back so there is a probability that she might go back. I believe that it's just time I feel it is her first time playing when she becomes a pro she can only feel bad when she loses she will become stronger then, but women hardly get addicted to gambling because the end of the day when they get continuous lost they will eventually stop, unlike the men that will continue in search of money. sorry for losing the slot machine and you can try again at least with a reasonable amount.

The subject reminds of some blackjack video.

While some young guy, playing blackjack in landbase video. Other people video him playing, with betting 100$ he took so long to hit 12 and got busted. The reaction are kinda make me think.

If you can afford to lose 100$ in LasVegas and think to much. I believe gambling is not for him.

That is why from the beginning these gambling platforms already knew the emotional implications of gambling that is why it is 18-plus because I wonder how someone would gamble with their school fees if not for being a child without considering the implication of his action if he was matured enough he would have placed his thought on a different dimension and I am sure that the only thing his thought was focused on was the money to be won. the same thing happened with the lady who was crying just imagine she has won she won't cry but she should know what she was going into before placing a bet. am sure someone would have encouraged her that she would make a lot of money forgetting the risk behind it. and we all know how women are bad at handling bad situations know how soft and emotional they can be sometimes.

This is a person who is not ready for anything; she is not really ready to take any risk at all in her life, assuming she won the game as she had expected. What we could have seen is some sort of self-praising on how her gambling skills are perfect and have made her win plenty of money in a short period of time, but now that she lost the game, her so-called positive mindset on gambling has now turned out to be a bad thing.
 
This is exactly what happens when someone has high expectations over something; it always turns out to be a high disappointment. Just imagine how she has planned on what to do with the money that has not even been won. I believe what makes this entirely bad situation, as it appears to be to her, is because she believes that she has won the game, and when things turn out the other way around, the disappointment hits her differently.
 
I just hope she learns from her own lesson and does not just use these tears and warnings to gain more followers on her page, as many social media users are ready to do anything in order to gain the influence that they desire.

There is no gender in gambling and probably the feminist who seeks equality can respond to her better than anyone cause what if the reaction given by a man?

But just because it happened to a woman, she can't expect sympathy or whatever. No one should bet more than they can afford to lose and if they do then they are the ones who have to face the consequences. This is just another reminder to practice responsible gambling by setting limits to their money, time spent for gambling, and knowing when to quit followed by many others.

It's simple: do not gamble if you are not prepared to lose the money. Otherwise, you'll find yourself breaking down in the end. I am sure that this has happened to many people many times; most cases are just not documented like this lady's. Remember, folks, do not gamble with what you cannot afford to lose. But if you do, be responsible.

It won’t be called a gamble if you have assurance of the outcome; losing is part of the game especially if you are not lucky for that day, week, or month. If you would cry of losing then better not to gamble at all. Problem is with gambler’s expectation; if you think winning is easy then why aren’t we all rich? Not because some people have won big time, it would mean that each of us would also do so; think of how huge the number of gamblers who are also losing big time. There’s no such thing as an easier way to success. Yes, in some instances risks could be managed such as with sportsbetting but still, nothing’s assured. Even underdogs are winning despite of discriminative attitude towards them and this should simply be a warning to those who are expecting for an easy win no matter how good your analysis.

Sometimes those who bet and cannot accept losing are those who make gambling their source of income. So sometimes they use money that should even be used to shop for life's necessities. And that's the problem. They don't understand that gambling is better to just think of as fun and only use money that they are ready to lose. If you want to make more money then it is better to work harder and increase your working hours. The problem of addicted people today is due to their misperception about gambling itself. They don't see it as entertainment. They will not even feel pleasure in this matter. They will only feel tension and subconsciously their psychology will be disturbed. But nowadays many women are also used to gambling. That's pretty commonplace nowadays. But I hope they don't get out of control and end up spending money on household purchases.  :-X

Well sad to hear this but still I hope this serves as a learning, firstly your tears actually mean nothing after you must have played a game and you lost the game. Gambling is not a game that the odds are fully in your favor you should always understand that and that is why you should not gamble with any amount you can't afford to lose, and don't gamble with loaned money too.

Gambling is just like investment and trading anything can happen be aware of this possibility so no matter the outcome you should not be surprised about it

Well I don’t want to be a jerk but I’m always surprised when I come across video online where a content creator will just set his/her tripod and then start crying in front of the camera, what if the video doesn’t go as planned then they’ll have to start the cry all over again? lol

 It on a more serious, there are addicts out there that are going through a lot of issue because of gambling some of them have even resorted to doing unethical things just so they can get funds for their account will those that were unable to bear the issues that comes with gambling addiction took their life.

The media didn’t mention how she got into gambling, what motivated her? If it was purely to earn passively as she might have seen some of her lucky colleagues cash out big bucks on gambling then she decided to hop in as well or prolly due to boredom, nothing was stated just that she lost a huge amount from it.

Crying is a natural emotional response to feelings of loss and sadness so I wouldn’t fault the lady for crying about her loss. Posting about it on social media, perhaps In a bid to elicit some sort of sympathy is what I find annoying.
Perhaps, the prospects of having a win made her forget momentarily that losses also happen too which in this case, it did and obviously, she didn’t take it well.

Playing with funds that you can afford to lose as well as keeping in mind you could also incur a loss after playing helps. You win some, you lose some. There shouldn’t be any need to be dramatic about your loss.

One should not make firewood from the fallen tree and even less expose others' stories believing they are right about a story that you know from a news story that seeks to mock this person.(!?)

Therefore, sports betting is and should be a "workout" to leisure activity and a way to entertain oneself, like going to the movies, for example, so, the moment of betting, You is doing that process, that in itself, is the intangible gain of the process of doing betting, hence that distracts you.

Consequently if you later have an extra profit, getting a result right is the icing on the cake.

So, this sentimental process is normal in betting, crying, laughing, suffering, the problem with such a thing is that it harms your economic situation, which is perhaps the situation of anyone at a certain moment.

Finally, in the reality of any entertain, betting is fun and open to anyone, you just need to have common sense to avoid making mistakes and if you make them, there is no problem, You can rectifying it, If not, seek professional help.

The lady is funny enough to have made plans on how to spend profits from gambling,  how can she build castles in the air is quite unfortunate for her but just as others have mentioned a very important possibility is that she wants to trend on social media that is why she brought up this case to social media if not,  the lady should have known a better way to console herself of the loss,  and also make other plans to get money to spend on the right thing she wanted to spend her imaginary bounty on.

This case is over sad for her and considering the increase in the number of female gamblers in the society lately,  I think she should have taught lessons from her previous bets not to trust any ticked no matter what games are listed on it,  because then minutes will change and define everything.

On the time that you do make yourself that getting involved with gambling then you should really that make yourself that being prepared on whatever situation that you would really be facing on, because on the time that you would really be losing money then this is something a feeling which it would really be making you that experience that stir up of emotions and whatever things that you would really be able to encounter which it would really be just so normal that you would really be that being that having  those kind of feelings but we cant really deny that women are really that indeed too soft when it comes to these situations on which whenever you do lose up money then you would really be that seriously be minding off specially if you are thinking that what if you have just that make use of it on other things.

You would definitely cry if you didnt really expect or anticipate for those things to happen because if you do really just make yourself that be prepared then you wont really be having these kind of reactions.
It is really just that a certain person doesnt really know about the risks. This is a lesson learned for him because once you do make yourself experience something then
you would really be pretty wary on next time.

She is new to what gambling is that is why she cried, but crying does not solve anything and her money will never be returned, crying does not kill, so she will gather herself together when she is done crying. Maybe she has learnt her lesson the hard way for thinking that she can easily just make some money from gambling. Maybe the experience will be enough to teach her not to gamble again, or not. It looks like the money was something she wanted to really use but because of the greed of doubling it, she lost it.

There is no point in this woman crying and regretting it on social media, because losing is a part of gambling that we cannot avoid, therefore here we are required to gamble only moderately and also with money that we can afford to lose.
He cried because of his big loss and I think all gamblers when they experience a big loss will definitely regret it and even cry but it's just not publicized. Because that will only make him embarrassed or even laughed at, because it has become a gambling risk.

This reads a bit like "a child is crying after putting his hand into a boiling water."
Is this woman a child? Is she mentally challenged? I feel like these are some important questions one should ask.


You're right, I guess. Maybe she's being emotional, maybe that's how she handles stressful situations? I don't blame her for losing, nor do I blame her for crying.
She should seek support of her man or parents, or whoever close she has and calm down. Crying to random people on the Internet is not a way to get out of this because she'll get mixed responses and those negative ones are only going to make her feel worse.

 
This is still the Sportybet just like the teen boy who did also beg for his money back.

I am really up to believe this is just a Sportybet marketing. It's quite working on the internet since people are very sympathetic to the kids and ladies. But not sure if this newfound way to market the casino will last. It is okay for the first time but 2-3 times getting this kind of victim crying marketing on camera, it's no moral marketing I say.

It looks like the lady lost a huge sum of money.  Maybe she used all her savings to bet on a sports hoping to double his money without thinking the possibilities of losses.  it is a pity that she failed to control herself and regret her action later when she lost all his money.

It is a good thing that she fear death since according to the article the lady stated that she almost took her life due to the losses.  This is a warning that gambling with money we can't afford to lose will always lead to devastation.

Honestly , this is too sad to read a thing like this. I just hope that people will soon realize that they are making gambling as passive income though some of  the people really can make a daily income with this but then we should not rely all our future in gambling. We should learn to find jobs , make business then have fun in gambling , it is meant to entertain us not to ruin us nor make us broke.

If you do really just make use of your own common sense then you wont really be ending up something like this on which you do really that believe that gambling could really give out that kind of opportunity on someones life? No its not.! It was built for leisure and entertainment thing and why the hell that there are those people who are really that anticipating that they could really get some income with gambling knowing off the risks on which its never been that something that will really be ideal for someone to take on. You would definitely cry if you are really that so dumb into believing that you could really be able to make or achieve such thing on gambling field. Always consider about the potential risks because if you do really that being too optimistic towards things then you
would really be experiencing those devastations on which it could really make you cry and something that makes you impulsive afterwards. This is why we should really be that careful.

For the lady to cry like the walls of her house are crumbling, completely shows that she is new to gambling(she started it newly).

This is how it is when someone started gambling recently. He or she will have strongly defined expectations of the betting to go in his or her favor to win the gamble at a go without the idea of even losing it at the end.

Anyway, it is like nobody breaks down to the lady on how gambling is, for her to be crying out loud in a pitiful manner.

It is a shame and loss to her that nobody would tend to give her back her lost money in gambling. She has at least had her first unforgettable experience with gambling, that gambling knows or favors any gender.

I firmly believe that gamblers often lack realistic expectations when they embrace high-risk activities. The odds of winning in gambling are typically quite low, and the potential rewards are often exaggerated. It's crucial to reduce risk when engaging in gambling, avoid borrowing for it, and recognize when it's time to step away from the table.

Mate you're right when you say gambling isn't for the weak mind persons. For it is their kinds that goes about complaining and lamenting about every loss they make in their gambling. And from all indications from the image seeing how sober the lady cries you can tell she has gambled with an  amount beyond what she can afford to loss . That's why here in the forum we always reminds ourselves to never use amount of money you can't easily forget should you lose your bet. Maybe she needs to be introduced to the forum particularly for gambling tips from the gambling discussion board. ;D

She could be just doing it for the clout, or just to get views and make her famous, that's what social media is right now. More weird stuff you do in front of your camera, the better for them as they can make huge money out of it.

And for sure she knows what gambling can do to her if she loses that big money. But she took the risk and now she is bitching around like a child. So yes, it's not for everyone I guess it will really put a lot of mental stress and could drove her to depression and that could be bad. But if he can go back to her feet after a few days, for sure she might turn to be addicted as she believed she can get back the money she lost and now it's going to be cyclical. And to continue her clout, maybe the follow up to this video is her winning huge money again.  :)

Probably she wanted the whole world to know that sports betting is dangerous so that the people will start avoiding from falling into its addiction just like what happened to her. I know it’s also her right to express her freedom of expression but I don’t still get it why she have to cry out loud and show it to the world how irresponsible gambler she is. Instead of gaining sympathy, the people had end up bashing her due to her immaturity.

Crying over defeat is a knee-jerk reaction, but we have seen that there are many crazier things than crying when you lose. In fact, some gamblers who lose bets actually end their lives because the money they used to gamble was borrowed money or something like that, so cases like this are actually very common.

The impact of wrong gambling is when gamblers are no longer able to control their emotions when gambling. They become greedy and their addiction has made them fail to think about something logical like having a budget limit, but it keeps repeating itself even though there are experiences that can be a lesson.

According to the story she had already made plans in how to use the money. This is to show you that many people see gambling as an investment. This is why they will in most cases put in more than they can afford to lose. The lady I saw in the picture is over eighteen years old, so she is not underaged and is fully aware of the risks of gambling. And she cannot claim to be unaware of the casino's terms of service. So I guess that she will never get back her money. Her cries are just a waste of time because she has no moral and legal backing to challenge her loss. Her relative should monitor her because, from the way she is weeping, she might need some counseling to avoid sickness or even suicidal thoughts. I guess the money she lost is too much for her to endure.

I don't feel like blaming this person.
However, I realize that there is exaggerated ignorance in this sector.
I see more and more people risking sums that they cannot afford to lose or, even worse, underestimating the risks behind this activity :( it's sad because consequences are hitting hard :(

If we are not prepared, especially mentally, then whatever you do, in the end it will only end in regret. So, never mind, don't cry, madam... because that will never return everything, both the time and the amount of money that is risked in gambling.

And here I am quite surprised that there is someone who deliberately shows how stupid he is and how immature he is, both in doing something and in dealing with a problem. Hey madam, what's all that for? Are you trying to attract other people's sympathy and hope they can help you? Hey, we have to remember that it is ourselves who cares about ourselves, not other people. So this is where we think more advanced and are more mature in our thinking so that we will be wiser in doing things, including gambling.

Exactly. Gambling has only two options, it will make you instantly rich or it will make you totally doomed and lost all your hard-earned money. In this situation, it seems like the lady had used a very huge amount and lost all of it with just a blink of an eye. That’s what one gets when you believe that gambling will provide us with big opportunities to be in profits, when in reality it’s the opposite. Gambling with sports is not actually bad, it only gets wrong when you start falling into its gambling addiction, and that’s how this lady had fallen into its trap.

Let her cry, it is part of the experience. We all have experienced a feeling of sadness, pain and maybe even cried during our early days as gamblers. It is one experience that we never forget. But the difference between us and the lady in the narration is that we didn't tell the world whole. Now that thing is going to be on the internet forever. Her kids are going to watch it.

Trading, Bitcoin investment and gambling all have almost the same experience. When we lose or things don't go out way, we cry.

This both shows her lack of mental fortitude and foresight that this could very well happen. Traits that are so important if you want to stay sane and well, not addicted to gambling in the process. People downplay these important stuff so much until such a time comes that they need it the most, it's utterly pathetic and disgusting at some point. It doesn't help either that she broadcasted her issue for all the world to see. It's one thing to create content to serve as caution for people to take gambling with utter care, but it's another to subject yourself to the rest of the world where you can be laughed at, ridiculed, blamed for your situation which as a matter of fact, you're supposed to be blamed for anyway, but at least keep some dignity to yourself yeah?

Well somebody bet way more than they were willing to lose.  This is the issue with gambling when done in an out of control environment.  If ypu are begging and pleading to win the money you shouldn't be betting.  It should be entertainment not a form of trying to pay important bills

You know it’s okay to cry because you become devastated of your losses, but posting it on social media is such a big mistake. You just prove to yourself that you are a very irresponsible gambler and that you enter gambling without preparing for its risk. Although I understand why this lady had resort into posting her experience just to raise awareness to her viewers, but I can it’s not the sports betting that is at fault but it’s all the gambler itself. This is why gambling should only be for people who have strong identities and will never be for weak hearts that gets easily affected whenever they experience their first losses.

Firstly, she looks older than 18years of age, and as such she is responsible for her predicament.
Gambling is not really for the faint hearted and it has been stessed here so many times, how much emotions accompany gambling. Where it is worse is when the gambler has become addicted.

Furthermore, I don't see any reason why anyone should really feel remorse for the lady, after all, what a man can do, a woman can do better. She only needed to have a taste of the emotions men get to stomach and probably still return to try their luck the following day.
Am sure this is her first experience. She may have to rethink her plight to decide if she wants to continue gambling frequently or occasionally or never.

sometimes people are using the social media to attract attention from the public. we don't know exactly their motives. but to raise awareness, that's fine. but this kind of situation should be kept to yourself. if you are not ready to lose in this game, then, don't bet in the first place. sportsbetting or any other gambling game, if not handled properly, will really push you to addiction.
this will not be her first loss if he will continue to bet, so better prepare herself for more losses if she will continue her journey in this game.

First of all, I didn't know how much money he had bet on this woman's gambling session and made her frustrated and crying. secondly, it is possible that this woman is trying to gain sympathy. because, he said what he said via social media which is currently trending, namely TikTok. thirdly, there was no strong evidence that he had carried out gambling sessions even though he mentioned one of the gambling platforms. because in the link you shared, you don't put the results of the loss. So, there are many factors that I took into consideration in reviewing this thread.

But even if that's true, I can feel how frustrated a gambler feels when he experiences consecutive losses. at least, I've experienced situations where that feeling of frustration overwhelms us, "thankfully this is in the past".
talking about gambling, betting, losing, winning, even addiction. we have reviewed it and even as this woman said in the content of her TikTok video. in this position I don't want to judge what this woman does on her social media, with her TikTok. because after all, he has the right to do so even though it reaps reactions from various groups, especially those who comment on this woman's social media.

Well, referring to you say. as a gambler, or let's say as a fan who loves in this type of entertainment. the important thing to know is that gambling carries a lot of risks. despite its context, it is an entertaining game. The point is that someone must be fully aware that this type of entertainment involves risks. Therefore, apart from being an entertaining game, it is also fun. but we need to remember, there are risks that we need to know about.
For me, it's actually simple. if one is not willing to lose money, it is best to avoid gambling. however, if we know and are ready for all the risks, then nothing prohibits us from engaging in this type of entertainment. the most important thing is that we can take responsibility for every risk we face. after all, gambling also offers us a big hit or win when we are lucky.

Gambling ordinarily is not for the lily-livered, it has to do with a lot of emotional maturity for you to take your money and support a certain bet and I think women should not get involved much in gambling because emotionally they are always most times weak.
Though if she's a regular gambler, then she didn't have to cry, but if she's a first timer, then you should expect her to cry, especially if she staked a high amount of money.

If she continues staking, she will get used to it and see her lost on betting as a normal thing with time. It's always advisable that you stake with a little token, something that you can easily do away with.

Maybe she thought gambling was like a bed of roses and started celebrating early even before her final game was played, whereby maybe she might have been overconfident that her last game was going to play as predicted, but unfortunately, it played the opposite. And this should stand to be a lesson to every other person to ensure from this day forward to only gamble with the amount of money they can always afford to lose, and not put all hope in gambling, as it is like a double edge sword where you are likely to win or lose, and whichever comes your way, you accept it in good faith.

And so I have to tracked this lady,

https://www.tiktok.com/@just_that_girl_divine/video/7286400477812624645

She mentioned one gambling sites, but I will say that I'm not familiar with it. But in any case, we all know that gambling is all based on luck and so she doesn't have it that day, so eventually she losses. What's scary though is the thought that she wants to commit suicide, so maybe this is her first time to gamble?

Indeed, the standard is, when we want to enter the world of gambling or carry out betting activities, we really have to be prepared, both financially, mentally, emotionally and various other things related to our ability to gamble. but unfortunately most people don't realize it or even realize it but ignore it. What they have in mind when they gamble is that they can win and get a lot of money, but unfortunately it won't be that easy.

I don't get why people need to take a video of themselves crying and posting it on social media afterwards. I get that you're frustrated and sad because of what happened, but isn't that something that you should take ownership because it's a consequence of what you did? If she can't handle the loss, then she shouldn't be gambling in the first place. Why would you pursue something that you aren't ready to face failures with? Pretty sure that money that she used is for something far more important than gambling, that's why her reaction is just like that.

I'd laugh in front of her if I was there.

Women are very emotional, so i expect her to cry even more than this regardless of that being her first attempt or not, it is very rare seing women gambling except they received an offer to do so freely without them paying any dime, one of the things women enjoy doing are what comes out of platter of gold for them without any demands, they prefer saving than spending, a woman is not as bold as a man to the extent of them being able to cope with losses with gambling.

We've got a detective here, folks! :D

She looks like she could use a hug right now :-[

There's some things we cannot change, like getting drunk and sleeping with someone we didn't want to. We're people we make mistakes and she made some herself.
She's crying because the realization is setting in. She'll be all right when the wave of emotions goes away.

I never cry like that because I treat the money like it's lost. I think about my situation if I lose the bet and get ready for what's coming. She forgot to do it.

This is another reason why one shouldn't expect  good news all the time in gambling. Gambling is a game of chance and luck the ability of an individual to win doesn't make him the champion and losing in gambling doesn't mean you don't know how to gamble it only means its not your lucky day so I think anyone who's interested in gambling should be ready to accept the good news who may be few and the bad news which is always more then the good news. For the lady in the picture, I don't know the amount might have staked that's making her to cry but she should understand that she must be willing to accept losses if she's interested in gambling because tears alone cannot help here to win.

It looks like the lady got hooked on sports betting and got addicted eventually.  She got an uncontrolled urge so she bets all her money and lost them.  The thought of her addiction to sports betting were supported by her claim and message that sports betting is addictive.  She cry due to the frustration that she lost a huge sum of money and possibly doesn't know how to recover or re-earn it.

This is the problem with people who think gambling is the easiest way to earn money only to find out that their wealth are sucked out due to their uncontrolled manners when it comes to gambling.

I bet she was smiling before she took that bet because she might have been sure about it if she put a lot of money into that team or whatever she picked.
This is crazy. She didn't know the risk she took in the first place and that is why she cries at the end.
A person will become emotional if he/she uses the money that must be meant for something important, irresponsible gambling. I call this passive begging if she posted her photo on social media crying because she lost. She wants other people to have pity on her and maybe get some funds from them so that she could have something to bet again or just the money being returned.
A good lesson for her. She wouldn't be crying if she hadn't taken the risk, staying away from gambling is better.

People like her needs guidance from the professionals. Why? Because with this incident, this can go worse than what was her reaction after losing her money in sports betting.

She for sure didn't anticipated that she's going to lose or if she knows that losing has got higher chance, she's just surprised with the outcome instead that she expected to win a lot.

Next thing is that, she might do more when she continue to gamble and if she understands the risk and the importance of what's in it for her as she gambles, it's scary what she might do next aside from crying and feeling sorry for herself about her losses.

I'll stop you right there.

I don't think it's constructive to call anyone weak minded just because are more vulnerable to addictions. And i tell you why:

It takes guts to admit one has a problem, and as long as it's seen as shameful and weak condition, people rather live in denial and say themselves that they don't have a gambling problem, then see them selves as weak minded. Coming out from the addict closed should be normalized and seen confessions as a thing that honourable people do.

And yes, gambling is not for everyone, but an addiction doesn't make them weak minded.

It's kind of funny though, someone posted her TikTok here so I went to check and she had some videos about "thinking about her future" or something along those lines, then a few videos after here we go. Not really something you'd consider when you're "thinking" of the future. There's also some stuff about suicide I think so really, what she needs here isn't to post to social media crying about losing money to gambling, she needs a therapist. Not exactly the kind of combination you want in your life, gambling + suicidal thoughts.

Kinda confusing as well why she even posted it as a TikTok video. Like why even?

People who cry or are sad because they lost gambling are people who misinterpret what gambling really is, they definitely think that gambling is the best and fastest way to make money, come on.. that is wrong thinking.  If you gamble once or twice and then you lose then you should think again about whether to continue or stop because it could indicate that you are not suitable for gambling.  gambling is not for the weak and mentally unstable, i hope there are many important lessons that this woman has learned.

I saw cases like these of people who put money into sports betting and lost everything and then started crying a lot on social media, I still remember to this day the woman I saw crying, she didn't even understand what there was a difference between investment sites and investment sites. gambling, this is because according to her, she was watching videos on YouTube when she saw a YouTube channel of a very famous person saying that there was a website where people could put money and it increased a lot in a few minutes. The woman then decided to create an account on that website, she was not aware that she was in front of a casino, after creating an account, submitting documents and making a deposit, she saw a YouTube channel telling how she should bet

but on the YouTube channel they didn't tell her which game she should have bet on, so she assumed that she could just bet on any game that saw 2.00, she didn't even know what 2.00 meant and she bet and lost everything. She had bet $1000 and lost everything, then she saw that the site's account balance no longer had the $1000, so she asked the site's support where the $1000 went and the site's support told her that she had lost the $1000. $ in the game she bet on. The lady asked for her money back, but the support told her that it was impossible to get the money back because she lost the bet she made. So she started recording videos crying and explaining everything that happened to her.

This shows that there are misleading advertisements that can lead people to enter the world of gambling without knowing it. I don't know how real this op lady's story is or not, but the story I told is real and that casino has already been banned from that country for shady practices, paying influencers to deceive and deceive other people into depositing at the casino.

Now a days,many lady get into the gambling after the awareness about the gambling.But the gambler should able to face the loss.If the gambler is boy,they will take this as an lesson and move on.Crying is not the solution for the loss.Either the woman should take this lesson and try to compensate their wiln in the upcoming games.The woman was softest soul in the world,So they won’t control their emotion into the gambling.By this knowing,our anchester had teach the woman gambling as the sin to the family.

She had posted it to the social media. Though it looks funny, it needs to be taken in the right way creating awareness. Many gamblers after losing have the urge of crying likewise, but they keep it within themselves. She had cried and this gives her some relaxation. People who aren't expressive used to have suicidal thoughts. She looks expressive and through this she had reached the people and surely she'll get mental support. Quite often we were able to see more and more similar News coming out of Nigeria. More rehabilitation and awareness is required in the country.

Why give a damn meaning if she cries on loss? Isn't it a human nature? Isn't it even more comforting if she voiced out that expression rather than keep it to herself? Sooner or later, if she's really eager to be a good sports bettor, those losses will be bearable from now.

Give her time. She will realize what's the best thing to do next.

Gambling is not on us if for more years in gambling, we don't even hit a good win.

all a woman can do when she is disappointed is cry and I think this problem is very normal when she loses a bet and loses her money because if men are considered not to be crybabies maybe when they lose there will be many male gamblers who cry at gambling after seeing their money run out in gambling and in this case this reminds me of a story in another thread when a woman cried when she won big at a slot game but the casino refused to pay out.
In this scenario, it is almost the same as what the OP told, its just a different story, but still women always cry when they are disappointed.
thats why female gamblers have the wrong mindset about how gambling works, even male gamblers also have the same mindset regarding gambling as a place to double their money even though they are often given advice that gamble responsibly using money they can afford to lose and control their emotions when betting. so you dont get disappointed when you lose.
unfortunately, they ignore this problem and can only regret it if they have lost their entire budget.

These person and people like her are sick. They are not right in the head. They think it will solve all of their problems if they win but they won’t stop playing either way. It is because winning or losing don’t matter to them. They just want to keep playing. They need to take professional help for their addiction because it affects their mental health. This woman is a great example. Imagine this woman being your mom. What a shitty luck for the kids. She would spend her kids’ food money on gambling. You may think I am exaggerating it but we all know there are people like that all around us.

Well.. I hope that she learns from her mistake. These sort of issues arise when people who are new to gambling indulge in it, without learning about the rules and possible consequences. A lot of people start like this. Some of them are scarred with the initial experience and never venture again. Some others learn from their mistakes and become more responsible for their actions. And then there is the last category, who lose their mental balance and start chasing after the losses. And we all know which group will end up in big trouble. 

The truth is obvious to the gambler's psychology, and the difference is evident when the gambler has experienced the feeling long enough to realize that it is necessary to control emotions before playing games. It certainly isn't everything, so don't let it dictate the opposite. I'm not unfamiliar with gamblers reporting debt and getting stuck, but honestly if they were smart enough from the beginning they could choose. Choose to take less risks in life. And most of these games cause gamblers to fail, not win.

if he knows gambling hurts him why should he follow it. not many people are ruined by gambling. he knows the limits in gambling. He should be an adult at that age and can think about that. but if it's like this, wouldn't it be a good idea to take him to a psychology doctor? I'm sure that can help him.

I don't know whether to feel sorry or laugh, but it's just funny to see people cry after losing from gambling. I know it's really annoying when you lose from gambling and I've felt that too, I was very annoyed and felt like slamming my computer after the loss, but I realized that it was just a game and the risk of losing money was definitely there and like it or not we had to accept that risk. And gamblers should understand this risk because it is normal to lose money on gambling and we have to accept that.

But it seems he will learn from his mistakes, sometimes gambling requires failure and loss to enable him to learn better in the future, I'm sure he will stay away from gambling and really think that it is a game full of risks and he will not touching him again after his defeat, I have felt what he felt since the first time I played gambling and was taught by my friend who encouraged me at that time.

I don't blame my friend at that time for encouraging me to gamble, it was my fault, because I was the one who decided and had the choice to refuse it, but I continued to try to gamble and ended up losing so my money ran out and in the end I could only be silent that I was wrong gambling with the desire to get rich quickly, apparently gambling is not a place that can provide instant wealth, that's clearly a lie, I hope he learns a lot after that because crying is also useless

How stupid to see someone crying just because they lose in gambling .
and more specially here is that a woman in which I cant see big reason how she needs to gamble when she can have more things to do in life.
because she is greedy enough to trust gambling system to make her instant rich ...

Is it true that she cried because she lost a sports bet? because in my opinion, the picture doesn't show anything clear that she can cry because of anything and the picture is only used to make the news look legit.
Gambling must be done with caution and responsibility, never think that gambling is about winning because the chances of losing are just as big even when we bet at odds below 1.10, because unexpected things can still happen.
Maybe the woman used the money for important things and hoped to double it but the opposite happened.
However, it is quite rare for women to express themselves about the gambling they do because it is not a common thing.

It's funny, and very immature of her, why expose herself online after losing her money? Is this move going to return her money to her? Or she did do this so that people could have pity on her and maybe they would refund her money? I found this to be very funny, I am sorry for that.

It's possible that I am right and people like her will still have hope in gambling after losing a lot, she might end up having some money again and still go back to gambling, thinking she can make back the money again.

I do hope she learns a real lesson and either quits gambling or learns how to be a responsible gambler, these are the two choices left to take, some people just get up from their bed one day and decide to start taking risks on something they have no idea about.

This sad story is very interesting and its making me even want to laugh rather than having empathy for her.This is happening to people everyday,and they are not crying or complaining because they are aware that gambling is not something friendly,It is something one needs to be very careful about because the moment you are addicted to it,you won't have any control about yourself again,the little money that comes into your hand,you will definitely use it to gamble.I can't blame her for crying because she is just a woman,and she doesn't know what men are facing in order to make money.
Atleast she would know that being a man is not easy,and won't blame people that are addicted to the game,because she now has experience about it.

Gambling is about gambling in a responsible way and not to use a huge amount of money that you can not afford to lose to gamble. Gambling can be for the weak minded people if they are not using huge amount but small amount to be gambling and having very small gambling budget. Assuming I have $1000, I can gamble with $10 to gamble and be happy even if I am a weak minded person.

Seeing someone cry over a loss, public or private, is heartbreaking. Right? We've all been there. Why is it surprising when we lose when we know the odds are against us? Eat spicy cuisine and be surprised it's hot. Digression...

She may have cried to release steam. Coping techniques are universal. Some people gamble without comprehending it, which bothers me. The game requires strategy, control, and comprehension, not luck. Although I've lost bets, I didn't cry in the streets. That's my thing.

Don't forget that casinos are companies, not pals. Money is their goal. Before betting, why not talk to yourself?

A woman who has lost all her money, who has weak nerves, and who cannot bear defeat Another thing is interesting: if she had such a reaction, what was she thinking about when she started playing? What will definitely bring her luck? Here, I agree with the OP; she is either a fool or a sick fool. Just assuming that everyone has to win completely defeats the purpose of the game, but yes, that's how it was for her. She's not ready to lose. However, men can cry too. And that's not the worst thing. It’s scary when a person bets everything on which his life depends. And then, having lost, you simply cannot console yourself with tears.

Obviously, they know the risk behind gambling but greed will not let them be, they will make decisions that will hurt them and when it doesn't favour them, they manipulate people around them, greed people are insatiable with this habit. When they have money, they spend recklessly the way they want and when they notice that the money is going zero, they risk it to bet thinking the money can be double and if this don't happen, they cry victim. Almost everybody on earth knows what gambling is about and she knows exactly what she was going into, she is not a baby.


The subject says it's a she and you are consoling her as a he.  :-\
Don't act like you don't know that they know what gambling is/was about, even if she don't know. She could have just try it with a few dollars and see the outcome and if it's not favorable thing to play, she could have stop but from OP explanations, she lost a bet and was looking for sympathy with cry, is that how life works. Next time, she will learn better, life itself is not fair.

Most gamblers are optimistic to win their bet but the more experienced prepare for eventuality and that is the reason you should bet as you can bear the loss incase the bet goes south.

So in her own case and in some others who don't come public to show their pain, she might have thrown in alot into her bet and thinking she will hit a jackpot but unfortunately her plans didn't work for her. She isn't seeing it as one of those things that is possible to happen but she chose to cry her tears out.

Meanwhile, why are some users referring to "her" as "he"?. I have read a couple of responses like that, why replacing the personal pronoun "She" with "He" ? At least she got a beautiful face and some attractive female looks  ;D. Or we didn't just read the thread/link.

- Maybe she does not have anyone to talk to about what she's going through. This is really not funny, you see, there are different types of people and different impact of losing money in gambling. Some may be able to at least laugh but some really is being emotional.

- She might do that, everyone knows it that those who experience gambling, if we lose we feel stressed, irritable and the feeling of wanted to take a break from it. But at the end of the day, even with the experience of losing, she will still continue to play.

I think it's normal to be sad if you lost a bet because that happens to every one of us. But not to the extent where you have to be too emotional and take video of yourself and post it online for it to be seen by public. As what has always been said on this platform, when you enter gambling, you should expect the worst things to happen so that you will prepare yourself emotionally and mentally. I have seen several gamblers who acquired major loss as well, but they were able to manage their emotions. This is not to invalidate someone's feelings, but this is to tell that gambling is a risky activity and should only give us fun and entertainment, and not despair and loss.
Again, crying is a human response when we feel sad and have regrets. But I don't think it's a good idea to show it publicly. And maybe turn that loss into a lesson, so that the next time you engage in gambling again, you can do better, and you will be able to handle your emotions well.

What a weird topic to discuss. Women live with emotions. She could have also started crying if she would won a bet. Then what? Also "gambling is not your"? I see no big drama here, nothing do discuss much, move on people. She would have made a small cut and also start crying, broke nail, or scratch beloved bag. The results will be unexpected.

Stupid to cry if you have lost money. Money can always be earned. More stupid is to post that online. Especially if you tag people in description and add hashtags #viralvideo and #trend.

In my own opinion, I do not think she was educated and prepared for the risks. We do not know who influenced here to start sports betting without some education first.

I think she bet an amount that is way above her boundaries or limits, which is why she is crying after losing. Nothing but lessons learned for her and move forward.

She must always remember the next time doing sports betting, only bet an amount that she can afford to lose and acknowledging the risks at the same time.   

People like to do short cut to success which we all know is not possible, expectations of the newbies in gambling are always very high, they don't give it second thought, I know someone have to think positive in everything their doing but still is better we think about the bad side of it. I really pit her is so painful but that is the risk of life not only in gambling people loss money. She just her to bear the loss and move on, this is part of life challenges, the way am seeing her she is not ready for gambling, if not she wouldn't be cry like this in social media platform, she should take it has a lesson.

We seldom see ladies playing in casinos or admitting they are playing in casinos but this scenario can also happen to men I have friends who experienced this, it's better this way that they let it all out than just keeping it in their head and committing something that will hurt their loved ones.

I'm sure the lady will feel better after this and she will learn her lesson well, her video is an example that we should not put everything in gambling because of the uncertainty attached to it, gambling addiction can lead to depression can lead to suicide, so if you have friends that you think are spending too much in casinos better watch him or her he could put himself in trouble and he needs someone to stop him.

I worry a little bit about gambling in third world countries and how it will affect the people there. It seems like the potential to make a lot of lives worse is there and marketing to them via streamers making millions of dollars is probably not the most ethical thing in the world, but you hope that education will keep them from taking risks they cannot afford.

Everyone can gamble but with conditions, they must be able to accept the results. That's why gambling has a wise saying: "only gamble with money you can afford." But it seemed that the woman had gambled beyond her limits so she couldn't bear to see her lose. That is another valuable lesson for us to really pay attention to how many bets we want to place so that if we lose, we won't be too sad because we already know the risks. And for that woman, hopefully she can learn from her mistake to avoid placing a bet if she is not ready for the loss she will receive.

Pretty much why my take on the post is that it was meant to become viral and catch sympathizers and not actually make any point. Although it is true that many people are suffering from gambling addiction but such people on losing money usually try to get more money to gamble - such outbursts on social media may be due to such a disorder itself.

The decision to play with the money was their's and thus they have to suck up the loss and move on with it. It is how this industry works, if you cannot control your habits you will suffer because of them.

Whether she read the terms of service of the casino or not, that does not have anything to do with the fact that she lost her money in sports betting, and even if she had won, it still have nothing to do with the terms and conditions or service of the casino.
Loses are loses and wins and win regardless of terms of service of what ever casino one is betting on.

All the same, I have to agree with you, Gamblers should always take precautions when gambling and should never bet with money they cant afford to lose, because the only reason why this lady is crying is because she probably bet an amount of money she was not ready to lose and she eventually lost it.

This is another reason why we should take care, and i believe that this will serve as a lesson to several other gamblers out there.

What was the girl in question really thinking? Was she thinking that she will just win the more and use it to settle what ever problem that they have? If gambling and winning game was that easy I don’t think she would have seen any gambling shop or site open for her to make her betting because many people could have taken advantage of that and win to platform to close of their business.

I feel pity for her and at the same time I also don’t see reason to pity her, let her just take it as a hard way to reduce her expectations and see gambling the way it should really be seen and not just a place where she can make quick money, she should have also have this losing part at the back of her mind knowing fully well that she winning the game means the gambling site will also lose some money and she losing the game the betting platform have added another money to their earnings. She should just accept it with good faith and wipe those tears away.

Why did this woman gamble without knowing all the rules of gambling. I think this woman already knows everything and she participates regularly. Here the girl may have lost some big bet for which she cried like this. It's true gambling is not for the faint of heart. Gambling is not at all right for those who cannot control themselves from crying in defeat. I have nothing to say about the lady who should learn from what happened. May he not engage in such activities in the future. On the one hand he has done well by crying in public and everyone has learned from him, which I think is good. Gambling is no one's companion and should never be thought of as a companion. If you are lucky you might win from gambling. And if luck is not good then you will lose the win. In this case, you can never break down and always keep yourself strong and move forward.

Yes, that is true, and the thing is that gambling are very much alive in third world countries, and there are legal casinos and then there are illegal gambling dens, being protected by crooked cops or even corrupt politicians, and so the cycle is really vicious and it will take a lot from a person being born there to not get involved themselves in gambling.

Just like in the example here, maybe she thought that he can get away with it, win some and then have a good day or night. Unfortunately, gambling will be no fun if the money you play is not really intended for gambling as there will be dire consequences if you lose that money.

Hopefully this will be the first and the last time that we will hear from this lady because she needs to stop gambling away her money.

She is one of millions who will have done this in history. It leads to two outcomes, either the pain that led to this crying was ingrained enough that it steered her away from making similar gambling mistakes in future or she may have come to the wrong conclusion of chasing losses. The only people winning long term in these situations are the casinos and bookmakers who offer odds which are stacked against you. Even if you have a good run on sports betting for example, they will find ways to either limit your successes or adjust the odds so they are more favorable to the house. This ignores the fact that there is a whole spectrum of sensitivity and some people will cry for any reason, while others find it hard to cry ever.

In the third world countries, there is more poverty and the chances of gaining money or changing lifestyles are very rare therefore even if people know the risks involved in gambling they will still take the risks. They have no option but to go for the kill, even it if it is a do or die situation for them, they will still risk it.

Even if gamblers from the third world, read these stories of unsuccessful attempts to make money, this will not let them back away. They have no other hope and their only hope remains with gambling. This becomes even more true for those who do not have any skills to get money, they only need to gamble and that's the only way they have to make money.

To be honest, I do not understand the point of a woman doing her sorrow public in this way, for everyone to see. If she was streaming her gambling session for his friends or followers, then it is understandable, but if she decided to record and then upload this then makes me wonder about the possibilities of ulterior motives behind this.

Anyways, whether this is true or not and regardless she lost big time or not, I wish she recovers eventually and can overcome her problem with sport betting.
When gambling anyone mature enough is supposed to be ready to lose whatever they put at stake

Obviously, the girl is not used to playing and he has no control she may have a good run, and because of her greediness he best everything she has and lose everything that is the most likely scenario I can think of.

 I have a lot of friends who almost lose their minds because they have a wrong conception about gambling, they are not there to enjoy and have fun, their mindset is how to beat the house which is impossible, and losing everything is the result that is why she is so disappointed with what happened to her, if she got good support from her love ones she will overcome this.

Lol, I just want to hear what she actually says and what casino it is.

Yeah, she seems she could use a hug to calm her down because she seems to be really on a big mess and mentally stress because of the money she lost in gambling. But I guess we really need to go to this phase in our life. I mean this is a big life lessons for him, if this money is not for gambling, then she shouldn't play simply as that. However, she could be driven by gambling perhaps there are a lot of ads in their country about this casino that's why she was tempted to play.

Maybe the girl is one of the few gamblers who just came, in the sense that they are still new to gambling so maybe they don't know what actions to take to minimize losses which in the end experienced a deep slump with a very large amount of loss, and also besides that I would not fully say that those who do things like this are always them as novices, Because in fact even though they have been gambling for a long time does not mean they can always control themselves when gambling, and of course as you say greed is very likely to occur and will not see who the person is, even though at first winning but it's not over yet, after greed controls you then the final story will be different, that is, what initially won will lose and even run out of everything they have.

That's just a very silly and funny action that your friend has done, how can you beat the house that is clearly the gambling system set by the house itself, it doesn't make sense with that kind of mindset. It will only bring you to a deeper downturn, especially the number of large losses, instead of wanting to beat the house, you yourself are drained by the casino itself. So be wiser and more realistic in looking at gambling if you want to survive.

These are the reasons why it is said to gamble with fun, to gamble responsibly and to gamble with what you could afford to lose. It is obvious that she might have used a good reasonable amount of money valuable enough to play gamble without thinking of the consequences.  Such a big mistake she made to gamble with her thoughts of winning and taking profit. I believe she must have been disappointed with herself for such steps she has taken hence her display but at the same time too I became curious to why she would come public to make such stunt for public consumption. This is what I am yet to understand and I am trying to figure the reasons for this public crying ovation.

Your statement is the fact from the case above, no one will cry in sadness unless he loses a large amount of money due to actions and decisions that she thought would bring victory, but unfortunately she made the wrong decision which could cost him all the money she had bet on gambling.

We will never know why she told everything in public, at least she has given a warning to anyone who doesn't follow the mistakes she made, so for anyone, don't follow in this woman's footsteps and keep gambling with the amount of bets you can afford to lose.

This is what happens to people that think that they can make profit from gambling. If you look at the statement written there, the last said that she has plans for the money that she expected to win. Can you imagine that planning for something that is under probability and a game of luck.

She forgot to into consideration that her chances of winning the game is 50-50. This is what addiction can make someone do because that gambler will forget to understand that gambling is for fun and that there is no way one can win the house hedge. Only gamble with the amount of money that you can afford to lose so that you don't end up in frustration after a big loss.

Having a plan to get money from gambling is indeed a very unnatural thing to do as you said that in gambling it is only about luck so if we have luck then we can easily win at gambling, but in my opinion it is very rare for people who gamble to be able to know when they get good luck. You are right, we can bet with money that we can afford to lose because we never know when luck in gambling is on our side.

She shared it because she felt the rage... There was nothing left for her but to share her anger with others, and of course her disappointment... but all of that was caused by a gambling loss. In case she won, we wouldn't read this for sure.

Well, it's gambling... we all win & lose all the time. And most of us knows how it feels when we lose a lot of money, and we know that anger & rage toward gambling/gambling game/casino when we lose. More we risk more we feel it, so it's not in vain when we say "gamble just with money you can aford to lose". We all learn that sooner or later... in an easy or hard way.

Nobody likes losing a bet but if you get hysterically upset then it means you are either betting more than you can afford to lose or you are too emotionally unstable to gamble. There are places out there that can help you with both of those situations.

The number one rule for gamblers is to stop when it’s not fun any more. Never gamble with more than you can afford to lose.

Crying was the biggest emotion in this world,the woman express the cry at their saddest part.The woman are not physically strong,So they will express their feelings in crying.This loss may be the bigger one to that woman who had shared this post.Some woman are getting into the gambling with some good intension,but this video will become the viral one and reduce the woman participants in to the gambling.The woman should understand before start to play the gambling,the gambling had two heads the win or loss.

I was not expecting the woman to cry because I knew that before the woman has been playing gamble for sometimes and provably she understood the our of gambling so for she crying as others said have said, I also believed that she was looking for Social Media support to increase her followers and financially. And since it will s a woman, some people might have sympathy and empathy to help her but l doubt.

OMG she really looks desperate in the video, and seems to have undergone nasty losses. I hope she's fine now, and some people took care of her, because it's dangerous to leave someone in this state, and according to the article most comments on her video have been ruthless and didn't share any empathy for her situation and her pain. When you bet on sports it's crucial to only dedicate to your bankroll funds you can afford to lose, to limit your bankroll and to manage it carefully. It's also important to look at the RTP of your bets. And to avoid bets with high margin or to bet fewer money on them, otherwise you will quickly deplete your bankroll.

There should be an underlying reason why the woman freaked out.  It is possible that the money she lost was not actually hers but is from loans or the money isn't really free to gamble because it has already allotted to some expenditures.  She was probably enjoying her time while gambling and when all the bankroll is drained, she then realized the horrors of the consequences that may happen next due to her excessive gambling behavior and losing all the not free money to gambling.


I also think that too, and If she got the readers and audience's sympathy then good for her.  I hope she can come up with the money she needs to recover her financial status and learn from the experience.  I hope she will take responsibly next time and never use the money that has already been compromised to expendentures.

When gambling, we are supposed to always set limits for ourselves, never exceed your limit because you will end up regretting why you did that. The woman exceeded her limit, that’s the main problem. Maybe she gambled with money that did not belong to her, or she took out a loan to gamble. When gambling, we should always avoid being addicted to gambling. The woman is addicted to gambling, which I think is one of the things that affected her. When you are addicted to gambling, you can do anything just to make money to gamble, you can use all the money you have left to gamble, and after losing, you will end up regretting it.

I have no doubt that she will have learned her lesson and cease unnecessary gambling. You shouldn't gamble if you are not emotionally and financially prepared. You don't have to risk with your little funds in the hope of increasing your money, instead, gamble for pure entertainment. You will definitely lose more money if you gamble for the sake of making money.

I don't think she cried to attract the attention of people or to gain more followers on social media because If she's a well known person the Media would have tagged her name but none of that happened so I think her main reason for crying out on social media was to attract sympathy and donations from people because looking at some few words she said while crying in the video she made mention of some one will use his school fees to bet and still not win so is either she used the money that was meant for something very important to gamble orcshe used a very huge amount of money to play that's why she couldn't help it but cry out load. There was a similar case like this where Neymar was seeing crying after losing in an online gambling I don't think he did that to gain sympathy I believed he did it to always show how emotional it is when you lose in a bet especially when the amount used in stacking is huge.

The social media space is broad, you might be correct, she can be a clout-chaser, just crying just to attracts the attention of the public and trends. She's held to the possible outcomes of gambling. Why crying when she already knew what she signed in for? Before jumping into gambling, she has already read the terms and conditions and completely know the risks involved, because this is definitely not a recreational activity that pleases the heart, rather it breaks it to pieces after experiencing hugh losses. That's why we ought to place wagers on games with the amount of money we can afford to lose.

I am very very disappointed in the action of the lady for goodness sake,  how can a mature person cry because they do lost a bet which they placed not under due rest,  I wonder how and what people take gambling for God sake,  how can a woman be so addicted to the point of not being able to control their emotions and gambling activities since she ought to have known the risk associated with such actions and how one should not expect anything from bet. 

Regardless of what be the outcome of the bet.

Many possibilities could happen to this woman, causing her to cry. But he couldn't accept his defeat and said that sports betting makes gambling addictive. But if he could control himself, he would not lose much money in gambling and would still be able to have money. Gambling addiction will give a person even more problems, and if he is not aware of it, his life will be destroyed, and the woman will almost end her life. This is a very valuable lesson for us that if we want to gamble, we have to use the money we can afford. Never gamble excessively because it will make us very regretful because we have lost a lot of money.

Everything you say is true because gambling with the money we can afford will minimize the risk of losing money due to future losses. Gambling is entertainment, and not many people can win much money, so we don't need to chase those wins. We should gamble moderately to avoid gambling addiction and the greater risk that we will also lose more money.

I think she lost a lot of money compared to the earlier times that she was playing but if she is just acting to gain more followers and people help her financially then she has good potential to be a good actress, she looks convincing in how she cried but I will not donate to her and people should also not if we donate we have no guarantee that she will try to recover her losses because we never know how deep is her addiction.

I have seen and experienced people acting out so people will donate to their cause because they lose everything from gambling only to come back after accumulating money coming from donations, we must first see how sincere they are before we donate to these people.

That's really bad because if gambling is affecting you so much then you are better off not gambling.
You should never be so much emotional when you are gambling and if you can't control your emotions then gambling is not for you.

Mine is a bit combination of sorts, I feel pity against people like this. I mean they are gambling and they are aware of the odds and they know that they could lose it and they still do it and they end up losing it, that was one of the expected outcomes of it so why would they be shocked about it is still beyond me. In any case, I believe that we are going to end up with something that will help people out on the long term, that should be the most important part of it and could definitely result with them not being shocked about it all that easily.

We could lose while betting and we need to say goodbye to that money before betting it, if we end up somehow luckily winning that bet then that's great but that odd is not high and we should not be expecting it. This allows us to consider the money gone before we even gamble, and that definitely helps on the long run. It makes you accept your faith when gambling and assume that it is already gone and you do not get upset like this lady when you lose it.

I guess she needs a su***daddy to give her both the wood and the money. ;D

Honestly these gamblers become manipulators at one stage, they cannot live without having money to spend, much like a withdrawal on not gambling and they attempt to find sources of money - easy targets are close friends and family, money-lenders and then online plebs.

It would be better for them to just swallow up the loss and get treated for their gambling addiction with professional help.

You have got a fair point there, it would not be the first time someone on internet abuse of their fan base in order to milk them out their money and continue to gamble away.

I recall the case of a Twitch streamer who started to gamble, grew desperate and started to ask for loans to their fans, family and friends. It was quite an scandal.

The worst is that there is people who actually fall for the trap some golddiggers setup... I would dare to say a gambler golddigger is way worse than a regular one.

Exactly,  she would have left gambling before it shocked her for throat. And as others as said but I don't know if that can work out for her, she would have set a gambling limit for her to play gamble every day. And one thing I also noticed in the setting of gambling limit is that, it would not work in for addicted gambler. I am also suspecting that she used all the savings to gamble on that faithful day and that was she cried a lot in the public for notificatiion.

Never plan how to use the money when it's not in your bank account or crypto wallet yet, if it's still on the other side of becoming yours then it's not yours yet, sports bets are supposed to be enjoyable but it's a shame that many people have turned this into a means of surviving, I understand that the world is frustrating right now, some countries are at war and while others are very hard to survive in, but over-gambling isn't the solution.

This lady is in tears because she lose money she wasn't prepared to lose, if that money is very small she wouldn't be in tears, how can you be prepared to win and not prepared to lose? This is not the right way to win a war, you have to be willing to taste defeat too, this is how things are.

I can't ever be addicted to gambling because it's just as simple as using your common sense, if your risk is limited your winning ain't going to be that much, but this is safer than using a large amount of money, yes the winning will be huge but so is the loss too, and I can guarantee you that losing is waiting precipitously for you when you are gambling, you can't escape losing money, I do hope you gain some lessons.

More over the way she is looking or allowed her upper body to be revealed, she probably would be having a second agenda which could be attraction. People are easily attracted to what they see both man or woman, the flesh is attractive and most selling point these days is exposure. So most likely she is using that to get sympathy. I don't think she even revealed how much she lost at least that could be justifiable if it is huge stake and if that was revealed as big stake people around could also verify or debunk it on other publication.

I personally think it is mostly because of revenge gambling. She would have lost a little earlier and in order to recover the losses she gambled more than she could lose.
When she lost the gamble she lost her mind as well and then broke out into tears. Every gambler faces one turning point where he/she stops gambling.
May be this one is for her and I hope she understands her mistake and takes steps to avoid it.

Some people will cry after getting served the wrong flavor ice cream or getting splashed from the pool, it doesn't really matter what triggers someone off. I don't think you should judge someone for this reason, we can all be caught off guard at times and should always be trying to support each other through life. However some people do set themselves up for failure, for example if they keep putting any money they find into this losing endeavour because they have zero self control and impulsively want to continue. There is nothing wrong with failure, as long as you learn from past mistakes.

That's the world of gambling where we always expect more from the results of gambling, no matter the origin of the money used to gamble, Maybe that's what happened to this woman, I'm sure she was devastated by the loss and suffering she experienced in betting.

I hope that everything that this woman experienced will really be a valuable lesson for the women here. Gambling really can't guarantee anyone what they hope for, Remember, never use other people's money to gamble, hoping to replace it twice as much, if you don't want to regret it.

Really? getting a wrong flavor won't make you sick and splashed from the pool is nothing compared you get a shower where everything on your body become wet. If some people can cry from that, I'm sorry but how they live on this dangerous world? not everyone will do anything to make you happy, no one cares except himself.

Nothing wrong with failure but we must wonder if this person will rather learn from this mistake and stay away from sportbets, specially using money she cannot afford to lose. In many occasions the answer is no. She may not stay away from this or learn something from this, but even try to leverage on her social media, family and friends who wish to support, so can try to chase loses.

It is an never ending path which I wish noone to go through.
Sometimes learning can be easy or hard, but when comes to addiction, it is not about being able to learn but wanting to.

To be honest people should seriously consider how much money they risk before starting sports betting. Its so funny to me that some people are like its nothing if they keep winning, but they lose only once and they directly start whining. People should really grow up. There are no games or bets existing in a world where you will be winning always. There will always be losers so money will be in different hands over time.

Let's hope she will do the right thing from now on. She has already had a negative experience and can act now conducted by past experience example. Although nobody wants to face negative situations, it's the best way to learn in order to avoid similar situations later. When people tell us we shouldn't do this or that, we tend to ignore what they say, because it doesn't have the same intensity in ourselves than when we go through it.

However, if even though she doesn't learn anything from this, I fear it will have to happen over and over again until she finally understands and accepts the fact same actions don't result in different outcomes...

A news (https://www.gistreel.com/nigerian-lady-cries-her-eyes-out-after-losing-all-her-savings-to-sports-bet-video-causes-buzz/?fbclid=IwAR0MJ_MgydeK2zUPSQW89csv12EPNwbuKvLZqCGiLCfAIGhImO1oYdTrKLI) reaching me today that she gambled all her money and that was she breakdown to cry. Addiction can make someone to loss everything and she was addicted to gambling in that matter. Well she has seen the result of the addiction. This one would have been a good lesson for her but since was an addicted to gambling I don't think she would learn lesson from it. And if she doesn't stop this habit, it will affect her in her husband family. So I wish her to learn her lesson and quit gambling and focus on real life business and probably invest the money in bitcoin.

If this isn't just a marketing of Sportybet. Then the family of that woman already knows what she's battling already and I think the husband will have doubts about giving her all the funds. The father will likely assign someone or will simply do it himself to buy stuff for the kids and pay the bills himself.

All it needs to make her stop is just to have no money to play. It will be different from now on for her. That might just be how the husband would handle it.

Sadly, she has a gambling addiction. That is the biggest consequence someone will receive if she gambles without limits and risks a lot of money. But a gambling addict will not think about limits and other things because she only thinks about how to win the next game. That will clearly have an impact on her husband, and who knows what he will do if he finds out that his wife has lost a lot of money. This is certainly a lesson for us to be more careful when gambling and not to take too big a risk. The most important thing is to try to reduce gambling time to prevent gambling addiction like the one experienced by this woman.

It’s sad to here this,but the women should have confidence to face the loss in the gambling.Because the gambler only need the most courage person to the game.The gambling give the good impact to the winner and some sorrow to the loser of the game.The lady should take it as a lesson to the game and get back to the gambling with more courage to the gambling.Once she back to the gambling,the gambling god may give him some good luck in the upcoming matches.It’s possible to recover their loss in the gambling.

Sure, sometimes it takes some pain for us in order to learn any meaningful lesson, not only within gambling but in life as a whole.
It may depend on the reaction people have on social media about her sorrow over lost money, if people feel sorry for her and go as far as donating money, I would not be surprised if she got back on track and continued to gamble, on the other hand of people talk frankly to her, then she may realize the mistake she has done and straighten her ways and only risk money she can afford to lose in the future (and won't record her sorrow for anyone on the internet to see, of course).

People post about everything, if you get enough views then the bet is refunded by your channel getting revenue I guess.  Thats why a online streamer or personality can up doing so many silly throwaway things, especially Tik Tok is famous for this because if they get the views the loss is of no consequence.
   She is crying alot and reactions get view so the meta fits on that platform but as alot of people said this is awful gambling strategy play, some people are this emotional and I would always just stress stick to spending money you would consider 'spent'  dont count the wins as anything but a nice surprise, a bonus icing on the cake  ;D.   Win a game result for your team, now you got the beer money great.    Gambling is a game, a leisure pursuit its dangerous to say you make money while risking it & most of us can acknowledge this.

not only learning for women but also men, when a man places a large bet but can't win, they will definitely get emotional and feel hopeless, but they don't cry because they think a man can be stronger when facing anything.
different from women, when they experience defeat they vent it by crying like this woman did. why cry over money that has been lost because it is useless, the money will not be returned, it's just that he immortalized the moment so that it serves as a reminder that if they (gamblers) want to bet, they have to be more careful in betting large amounts so that they don't suffer the same fate as that the woman experienced.

Maybe she couldn't bear to see the total losses until she cried like that. This is a normal thing that happens to someone because they see the loss in gambling. Well, maybe it was a huge amount he had lost in gambling while she couldn't recover all her money. Even if she tries to recover, it won't be easy, and she could suffer more losses. The woman should accept the consequences of gambling, accept her loss, and try to stop her gambling activities. Otherwise, she could experience an even bigger loss and use it as a lesson.

Most people who gamble have the idea of what may be coming. Now there are people who gamble without knowing the loss possible. Then there are those who always complain about their habits and try to act as the victim. This lady is likely the last one. They are losing or appearing to lose money with possibility of siphoning off money from others.

Give them money and they will continue to lose the money earned by others. Without their own habit change, there will be no reduction in these types of posts.

These are the reasons why one is advised to gamble with the little or what they can afford to lose while gambling. I was wondering what must have convinced her of having that confidence to go that far to gamble such amount she had lost. Possibly she had no one to advise her on gambling and if care is not taken the casino might be one that popped up through adds on her screen with promising bonuses and wins luring her to opening an account to play games. Probably she had no one to talk to about it and went ahead to gamble and the end result was a devastating blow on her.

I thought you're going to say that the gambling platform is going to return her money right after she cries because that was also crazy. I think everyone understood that gambling is a business and there is no way they will be affected even if the gambler begs them badly. All they can do is to give them advices and then they can also close the gamblers account for a while until they recovered from the addiction.

Those gamblers who are not addicted yet can also accept any outcome. That is what gambling all about ( only to experience a fun). If the girl is my mother, I can only wish that I have a good father to continue providing me with the basic necessities in life. If I'm on the right age or I can now speak clearly, maybe I will also ask a help from someone else.

I haven't seen such kind of posts coming often. It can be taken in either way and it is upto the user. Some take it as a publicity stunt to reach the people and get some aid. These days people are well aware of these kind of victims and they don't support. A person who had lost big, when provided with some aid he/she will surely get back to gambling with the hope of winning the lost amount and once again ends up losing. This is the reality with gambling, and most of them experience it at the beginning days of gambling. Because, when days pass people get to know better about gambling and set their limits.

Sometimes she didn't even know when she started crying. Probably she started crying and uncontrollable because of the amount which she lost was big. But as a chronic gambler she would have consoled herself. Though it was painful but as a regular customer of casinos she supposed know the risk involved. Now she made herself a public mockery. If you see the way people are mocking her on Social Media, you will pity the woman. Some of them are even congratulating her upon the loss oh!  ;D. And this the time she needs friends and family members to make her comfort and to make her happy. Mostly Social Media friends would have at least consoled and encourage her to over come the lost but she is getting the opposite.

the thrills and dangers of gambling? Right! Are we talking about avoiding scam casinos and sticking with respectable ones? A wonderful parable about gambling prudence! When placing bets, who doesn't like a safe bet?

You see, picking a casino is about comfort, safety, and, dare I say, excitement, not simply reputation! Don't we all love the comfort of our favorite gaming spots? Do we all have a tiny, adventurous gambler whispering, “Hey, what’s over there?”

It's a method to avoid significant expenditure to evade the casino's eyes, but is it thrilling? Hasn't the thrill of risk and return made gambling fun? The regulator's constant surveillance-friend or foe? Another gambler's day, or a timeless question?

Why should she care what social media says about her?She should only focus on herself,keep doing what she does usually and to stop gambling amounts which simply she cannot afford to lose.Nowadays people seem more evil and stupid than in prior times and I am afraid this will only get worse,to much technology is making people more stressful and crazy,technology was created to make our life easier yet people are becoming even more addicted to technology and the level of stress it brings.

I think by now the news about her loss should be forgotten already and she should have resumed her life doing what she likes.

The only way to avoid feeling sad when gambling is to gamble by controlling yourself. If a person can't control herself/himself and loses all his/her money in gambling unfortunately crying like this or sharing it by recording a video in an interesting way isn't a solution in any way.

If you are not addicted to gambling and are just going to gamble for fun, knowing how to control yourself and gambling in a controlled manner is a very important factor to avoid falling into such a situation. In addition, it is very necessary that the money you lose in gambling doesn't belong to any of your needs and that it is in an amount that will not upset you if lost.

Women don't really have that shock absorber to handle losses... I think I've said that in one of my post already... They can begin to blame everyone and get upset for losing over a trifle.
They'd also likely feel they've been cheated, or they won't even see any need to have invested in such games. If she did cried, then she didn't even overreact..lol cus, some peeps can even go as far as requesting for a refund.

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Who says she is not asking for refund  ;D

If the tear she is shielding is genuine then impliedly she is asking for help and help means refund. Nothing would make her cry if she is not regretting gambling with the money that she used on the game. Truly ladies are not able to stomach somethings particularly about your money and their money. Well if she didn't get support or refund then she would have learnt her lesson of gambling as she can afford to lose.

She can cry as much as she want, but there is no concept of refund as far as gambling is concerned. Had she won the bet and got a jackpot, will she be OK with a refund in exchange of the reward? There are certain basic rules to follow in gambling and those who don't know them should avoid placing bets. And a lot of people learn from their mistakes, rather than doing this drama of crying and making a scene out of it. My advice to her would be that gambling is not her cup of tea, and she should stay away from any sort of casinos for the remainder of her life.

This is the perfect example of someone that should not gamble at all, they do not have the maturity to understand that just as you can win you can lose as well, now this may seem to be elementary, and it is, but many people are unable to understand something as simple as this, and I am sure even now she does not understand, as she probably wants the whole world and the reality to submit to her desires all the time, and this will not happen regardless of how much she complains about it.

When someone gambles and that person loses, he cannot ask for a refund. The funds that have been lost already belong to the casino and the person cannot ask for them back. That is why when someone plays gambling, he must know the risks because defeat is already ahead and is only a matter of time. Meanwhile, a person will not know when he will win and even if he continues to gamble, it also does not guarantee that he will win. Many people can learn from their mistakes, but more people cannot. It's best for her to stop gambling again if she can't control herself in gambling because she could experience even bigger losses.

Though I feel bad seeing her cry and for what she has lost, I blame her for what has happened. She shouldn't have gambled if she knew that the money she was putting at stake was not to be lost and in case she loses it, she will have to face extreme consequences for it. I'm pretty sure that the money she lost was meant to be used for something else because someone who lost money that wasn't for another purpose wouldn't feel this much regret that they would start crying for it.

I also wonder why she made that video and posted it publicly, maybe to get some sympathy or to find someone who might feel extremely bad for her and pay her back for what she has lost, I don't know, but it wasn't necessary. However, it's a lesson for those who watch her, that one shouldn't gamble if one can't afford to do it and gambling is not to earn you money.

looking at the case told by the OP, it was her own mistake to think of gambling as a money multiplier and to place money on sports bets in the hope that her money would be doubled if she won and the woman was stupid, for some reason she had thoughts like that, ignoring the big risks in gambling, even though sports betting can be predicted, but comeback can always happen when the opposing team wins and the chosen team loses.

this is the bad thing about gamblers, not only female gamblers, even male gamblers also have the idea that betting on gambling can earn income and whats worse is betting using money that is used for other things and when they lose and lose their money they will only regret it and cry.

This is true, I believe that if you are gambling then you are aware that you are risking your money anyway. I feel like it could be all an act after she lost, she probably knew and didn't cry but made the video crying so that she could get some money. At this point, in the world there are a lot of people who are spending money online, so if someone makes a video that is crying, maybe some guy would send her some money, that was probably her thinking.

I bet that it is not going to be all that easy and it is going to take a while to see something that will make me believe it is real. Internet is full of lies and manipulation, and this could be very well one of them too so we shouldn't trust what we see just based on what we are seeing.

Have trust issues? Then its not really that shocking anymore or something that wont really be that new, considering that this world is really that full of lies or into those kind of intents on which it is really that be doing on everything just for the money and it isnt really that new with those kind of acts on which they are really just that getting that sympathize and really be might be ending up on some males would really be that seeing for her to be that so pity and ending up on getting or putting up some fund on showing some concern and care which its true that it might be all acts just to make people believe around that she did really mean it but we dont actually know whether its a real or legit reaction or just simply playing just because of that intent.

Its really that hard to trust nowadays because people would really be doing everything for the sake of money and this is why even if they would really be making themselves looks like a food but they would really be still doing it because they do know that they could really make some good money if ever they would succeed. In speaking about gender in gambling then men are really that tough and doesnt really that
could really be affected easily whenever they do hit up a losing bet or roll which it is really that totally opposite if women would be taking out such bet.

This shows that the lady has risk more than she can afford to gamble with. Some ladies don't understand what gambling is. They just do it because others are doing it, but they fail to understand that gambling is not for everyone.

However, there are people who don't know how to gamble, but because some of their friends or their co-workers are gambling, they just do it too, even if gambling is favouring anybody. Gambling habits are not the best for the person. If we can take our time to calculate some of the amount of withdrawals we have made from our gambling sites, we will see that the loss is more than the winning.
Gambling is not for weak-minded people. Yes, because if the lady is not weak minded she will not cry as she loss her money by gambling.

Male gamblers at least don't cry after losing, and even if they do, they don't make a video of them crying and then upload it on the internet. If a person knows that they are so desperate and can't afford to lose the money they have they shouldn't gamble with it in the first place. What's the point of gambling it and then crying in front of the public to gain sympathy? She is an adult and not a child, and an adult should know the negative consequences of gambling.

When a person knows that there are basically two positive outcomes of gambling, it can either go in their favor or go against them, they should know that it can go either way and they should be ready for both, and if they know that they are not ready to lose the money, they should stay away from gambling.

Most of this ladies crying online for losing their bets are influence to gamble by what they're seeing online. My Twitter timeline is always flooded with gambling posts from media influencers flaunting their tickets and winnings as well. Going through the comments section, you'll see how ladies are reacting and saying they will give it a try some day not knowing how harmful it can be. If you come across such posts even as a regular gambler, you'll be trigger to bet. Those who are not into gambling regularly are seeing it as avenue to double money. Recently, a TV show tittle BBN that came to an end, awarded the winner with millions of naira and people were advising the winner (a lady) to play 2 odds with the money to double it not knowing that she might lose all the money if she attempts it.


Although some of this stories are not genuine but for seeking for social media attention so that they can trend. Someone that really lost money will not have the strength to cry, record herself and post it on internet. Regardless of whether the story is true or not, I don't support helping such people so that they'll learn the lesson and others will not imitate them to gamble recklessly. If you need money, work and not gamble.

We need to understand that gambling is nit for everybody and not all that gamble would make money from gambling. There are some persons that has been gambling for long and had not been making profits from it. We need to understand what really works for us so we can try as much as possible to fix ourselves and try as much as possible to do things that will enable us win or we better leave gambling alone if we had been gambling and not making any profits from the market. Once we understand what truly works for us, that is when we are going to see the reality of our true self.

I think in some cases people should only gamble for tokens, just play the game for a prize like the ticket sales they do in arcades sometimes.  After you win you go up and pick a prize, that might be the better choice then the money management required for big gambling so as to avoid confusion on just adding more money in order to chase the win.
  If the money isnt spare and ready to be all used up it shouldn't be gambled, spending the money to enter a game and win a prize big or small makes it clearer the money is spent; less upset.

For us men then crying out is never been that a good image for a man on which no matter what the condition you are in then its unlikely that men would really be that showing about extreme frustration and disappointment of something and this is why that men are really that strong when it comes to different situations or conditions in life on which it is really just that typical.  For a certain person whether man or women
then if he cant really be able to bare up with the risks involved with gambling then it would really be just that normal that you shouldnt really be engaging on something risky.
I agree on some points that this might really be something having some motive behind those crying on trying to get some sympathy and would really be able to get some donation from other gamblers which
would really be having a pity on her. This is why its always that recommendable that before you would really be stepping into gambling world then it would really be always recommended that you should be
wary about the risks of losing money. This isnt something that you could just simply play and earn money or winning without having those risks of losing. Sometimes being that realistic
and making use of common sense are forgotten sometimes.  ;D

Gambling is indeed not anybody's mate.After you might have finished with your prediction and thought you have predicted the best thing,you will still see yourself losing that same game.And it is more painful when almost all your games have played, except one,which will eventually cut you and deprive you from making a huge amount of money,it might be enough to make a woman cry because they don't really know how difficult it is to make money.
It will be good that if one is finding it difficult to win games,he or she should just quit, because it is no doubt that there are some persons that gambling does not favour at all,and nomatter how they try,it won't just work for them.

The gambler with some tactics will win from the gambling in the skill based game.So gambling will give you the same opportunity to win the money from the gambling itself.It’s most essential to wait for the good time in the gambling.If you spend the money in the gambling,then you should not blame the gambling website for the loss.After the win from the gambling,you should do the holding of winning money in the separate wallet.The big price was the cause of the continuous game play after the continuous loss in the gambling.If you are the old gambler with some tactics,it’s better to use the free money in gambling.

Nah, I don't think that it is enough for some individuals to play just for tokens, after all it's just an arcade and it supposedly for kids play and not adults. Although this is already form of gambling to me, I mean you put some money and play and hope that you can win some tickets and then exchange those for items. So it involved money already and perhaps after these arcade games, many of them developed to be gamblers so it's a bad influence to everyone. As for the lady, big lesson learned for her. But I will say that every gambler has went to this kind of situation before, maybe we were able to get out and then don't gamble anymore because we are afraid of the consequences or just continue to play and become addicted, it's our choice.

Yes, it was her own fault because she had gambled and might have used a very large amount of money so it clearly disturbed her family's financial position. And now maybe she doesn't have any money left for her family and must also explain that to her family. It was a difficult situation for her but she had to face it and admit that she had made a fatal mistake for her family.

Everyone, whether male or female, still has the possibility of losing at gambling so this requires attention for everyone. They can win in gambling but they can also lose in gambling and often their losses in gambling can be so much that they lose all their money at once. This is a lesson for everyone to refrain from using a lot of money to gamble because they can lose all their money.

What I've gleaned from gambling is the importance of learning how to gracefully accept defeat. It doesn't imply that we should quit gambling when we're losing money. After all, the responsible approach is to wager only what we can afford to lose, and if we're acting responsibly, we should recognize that losses are an inherent part of the game.

Expressing distress over losses essentially reveals that we've been gambling with funds we couldn't afford to lose, which is a prime example of irresponsible gambling.

Furthermore, shedding tears on social media seems quite unreasonable. What's the purpose behind that? Is it to garner sympathy or to condemn gambling altogether?

mentally, men, when they lose at gambling in any amount, will never publish their defeat or cry, as in the case described by the OP, because in history, men are strong humans and crying is a shameful behavior for men, especially if it is caused by losing at gambling and If men lose from gambling, they only regret blaming themselves or even venting on negative things such as drinking large amounts of alcohol.

and in the case uploaded by the OP, I think the woman was just looking for someone sympathy to get help to return her money from gambling which was very impossible and it was actually funny behavior because she made her own mistake and indirectly embarrassed herself.

She treats gambling as a source of income and for sure that bet is that she has already planned out what she will do with her winnings as she is really sure that she will win but the luck doesn't goes her way. I've seen multiple people that are crying on social media but not to the point that they are showing their faces as they got lost in sports betting. Even though you bet on a stronger team it doesn't mean that always that stronger team will win as there are times when there are injured players or their play is not as great as before.

LOL. She may not know what gambling really is. She gambled only for money and lost all of it. Putting money first before entertainment in gambling will always cause losses and addictions. It's always a 50-50 chance in gambling and once you lose it, you lose it all. (The amount you place on bets).
She played only for money and that has caused this situation. As far as I can tell, she didn't even do the research before placing the bet. But that's how gambling works. Even with a perfect analysis you may lose your bet. It's always based on your luck. Enjoy the game. Don't run behind money while gambling.

We all don't have the same mentally capacity to tolerate losses, some persons have a very weak tolerance for situations such as this but they tend to cry as away of getting over the situation but then it's usually advised when you know you have little to no tolerance to hand losses then gambling isn't for you as you may most likely break down at some point when faced with bigger losses.

She happens to be such a person who can't bear loses so I don't think she should further engage in gambling if not this is jus the beginning as she has more crying to do ahead of her, it's also possible she risked too much,.more than she could possibly afford to loose and so she couldn't take it when it turned out against her, this is why it's always advised to risky only what one can afford to loose so as not to loose ones self and mind when losses happens but then some persons will not heed they rather risk so much thinking they will make so much aswell and end up coming to cry on social platforms.

Poor thing, she is a person who Had no Experience at all and thought she was going to win , I am sure that the lady Wanted to win so much that She Forgot that the bets could lose , or the other issue is that she only had her money , the only money and She lost it , these things are what may have Affected the lady , I feel sorry because there are many who trust that by making bets they can make more money than they have , for some it doesn't work out for Others , so this is what can do , I'm not one to bet a lot When I don't have Money because it's Worse , I spend it on what I need or I try to stretch the Money.

Yes, tolerance level on each person is really that different whether you are men or women then everyone does have their own level of tolerance or something that a border line when it comes to risks and losing money
but most likely on which women are really that too weak when it comes to gambling which losing money is never been their forte but it is really that actually her fault on why she had decided to go on playing gambling if he wasnt really like on losing money in the first place? This is the main mistake of someone on whose really that making out some actions without even thinking on what are the cons and possible effects or scenarios that she could be able to encounter or would really be able to face on and this is why it would really be that they would really be having those regrets but its already too late.

If you dont like on losing money then never ever consider on touching up Gambling because this would really be primarily the thing that you would really be able to experience and if you do really find yourself to be that impulsive then you might really be ending up on making decisions which would possibly make more the situation get more worst and  this is why you should really be careful about engagement or making out decisions
whether you would be gambling or not. You would definitely cry on the time that you would be losing money specially if its on significant numbers but we know that women are really that too emotional
or really that soft and this is why crying would really be that likely the case to happen literally.

Gambling is comparable to cryptocurrency because they both shared the exact similarity which is volatility. The lady in question ought to shed tears because she's have liquidated an enormous amount of money, leading to shattered hopes from the terrible outcomes of gambling. Perhaps we're only humans and none is above mistakes, we look forward to correct them in present time. It's never a wise decision to anticipate in gambling, rather there are other businesses to engage in and record gigantic profits. Gambling is not a negative thought but depending on gambling for income is totally worng and its a situation that needs to be entirely addressed.

Right. There are only two real possibilities here in my opinion.
1. This lady is a complete newb and has just hit rock bottom for the first time in her gambling career ...and is so overly emotional about it/generally unstable that she apparently thinks social media will make some form of difference.
2. She's been paid, as an experiment to see how much money she can milk. You'd be surprised how fucked up some things turn out to truly be, and her being paid to milk money from SM by someone above her, is not unrealistic unfortunately.


Full agreement. I am not one for gambling, or the gambling industry, but I guess one thing that is undeniable about it is that it does not discriminate.


+1

perhaps the woman simply placed her bet on the club which she thought was the bookie's favorite team without using prior analysis as to what team they would be playing against or seeing which players would take part in the match, because sometimes a club that was considered completely strong would experience decline in performance when key players do not make their debut or are rested for a while to maintain their stamina to face stronger clubs in the near future.
indeed sports betting is more convincing but it is better if we search first to bet large amounts, but if you don't want to take risks like What this woman does is that it is better for us to bet a smaller amount so that we don't experience disappointment if the club we are betting on loses.

Perhaps he had bet on sports betting several times, but unfortunately, that time was not the time for his luck to come, so he lost. He may be so eager to win that he forgets that this is gambling where anything can happen. And if he uses big money to bet and loses, he has already lost the big money and probably won't get it back easily. And if it is money for his family's needs, he will definitely have difficulty because he no longer has money to meet his daily needs.

I do not see anything supernatural in the fact that a beginner loses money in the casino. The only mistake of this woman is that she used money for gambling that she cannot afford to lose. We all lose money that we need for important things someday because of lust for profit and misconceptions about gambling. I hope this loss was enough experience for this woman and she reconsidered her view on gambling and realized that there is no easy way to make money.

Lesson learn would always be at the end and there's no such thing or situation on which it would really be that up ahead. We know that all of gamblers did really come into that first time experience and learning that gambling isnt something that an easy thing in speaking about money making on which we do know that losing is inevitable and winning would really be just depending on how lucky you are on that particular time and also depend on the game type that you are dealing with. Speaking about sports bet then this is something that do talks about being strategic on which you could really be able to apply those analysis and other research on which it could really be helping you out on having that good chances or odds on winning up a bet.

Doesnt matter whether you are a boy or girl, man or woman on which losses wouldnt really be that choosing on how lucky you would be. On the time that you are making use of an amount
which you cant really be able afford to lose then you would really be ending up crying if you do lose big time. This is why its really important that we should really be that careful
on the decisions that they are making.

For what I have seen over the years it is very rare that a person is going to learn their lesson by going through a bad experience once, they need for this to keep happening to them until they finally understand that this is not something they should do, so it would not surprise me at all if we saw several more videos coming from this lady about losing money she cannot afford to lose to the casino, what we do not know is how much in the red she will be once this happens.

Losing money in gambling is normal, but what is not normal is when we cannot control how much money we can lose in gambling. Most people have experienced it by losing so much money that they will become frustrated because they lost at gambling. Hopefully, the woman can learn from her mistake and never repeat it, and it would be better for her to stop gambling than not being able to control herself and experiencing defeat again. And hopefully, the woman can earn money from other jobs to continue to meet her daily needs.

Well spoken bud, to be honest, lack of control in gambling is one of the major killer of the fun of gambling, and i guess it is not out of place to say that those who put money first in gambling are mostly the ones who end up being or feeling really heart broken, why?, because the major purpose of gambling is to just have fun, with the ability to make some money if lucky.

But unfortunately, most gamblers now put the fun part of gambling completely away, and channel all their attention and focus on the money or profit aspect of gambling, this is majorly where the whole losing money one never planned to lose emanates from. If gamblers can learn to adhere to the number one rule of gambling, which is to only gamble with money they can afford to lose, we will not see gamblers crying or regretting after they gamble and lost.

Gamblers who put aside the fun of gambling will only see defeat after defeat because it is true that gambling is just for fun by playing gambling games. They cannot hope to make money from gambling, let alone use a lot of money. Only people who can use the money they can afford can enjoy gambling as it should, so they will get that pleasure.

And that's why we really need good self-control when playing gambling so we don't experience more losses. Moreover, many people have experienced this, so we really have to be able to control ourselves while gambling. If they cannot control themselves in gambling, they shouldn't gamble rather than just lose money that might be big.

I am suspecting that probably she won at the initial time and she placed the bet high to win a very big amount but the game didn't go to the way she was expecting. People cry differently because of the source of the money. Probably someone gave her the money keep or her husband have to go to market and she loss all so the best way to break into tears. And other did not cry may be the money belong to them and not to another person so they have to be strong for the loss and hoping for get it back one day.

Not all people are made for gambling, some cannot stand losses and that is normal, I think many things need to mature, some just want to win, and in a casino things can happen the other way, losing It is not a reason to be ashamed, it is normal, in any casino you can get lost and it is seen as normal, the strange thing, the strange thing is that a person sees a casino as if it Were an ATM where they can do anything to win and win all the time, In fact, that would be a big loss for the casino and the casino would look for a way to get rid of the person, so this type of thing is difficult to happen to a regular player, when that lady realized that she lost it is because obviously in her mind she believed that when she played, what she played and the way she played for her because everything was fine and she knew she could win and I don't blame her, sometimes the person believes that because she makes good plays or with a lot of money, then the casino is going to recognize them as good players and that they can win, things are not like that, so every time you play a type of game like that you can subject yourself to things like that.

A casino will always have the house Advantage , so things When it comes to how to win, it is indifferent, there is no safe path, nor any strategy, it makes me feel a little painful that a lady cries because something like that, but you have to realize and learn that casinos are like that, there is no way to feel Pity , or for a person to be rewarded with money Ater having played very well, no, because casinos are a business, they are a company, they cannot afford to be Losing money, it is a business, and in every business you work to win not to lose, and in this case the lady had to lose due to her ignorance with the game, it is something that cannot be fight against it, you can Play very Well, but the casino is not like that.

She could have won at first but because of her greed which provoked her to place bets on other matches and by using bigger money in the hope of getting a big win, she ended up losing. Anything can happen in gambling, especially since we don't know how big our chances are of winning at gambling. She cried because she had experienced a loss where she could not return the money she had lost in gambling. In a match, there is no guarantee that the match will not change in the middle of the game because everything is still possible, so someone cannot expect to always win from gambling. Hopefully, she can learn from her mistakes and not repeat them again and make this experience the last time he gambles.

Smile!! Gambling is not something you hope upon because the disappointment that follows is very high. But whereby you removed you mind and play the game and go home without thinking of it then that is when you win games bey when you put the games in your mind and thinking to win big then failure is the name. The woman put her mind and soul in the bet but the slip disappointed her so she could not controlled herself and burst into cry. And things like this some would laugh at her and some would have the sympathy with her.

Its crazy how she has to share to the world how pained she was of loosing and how viewers would want to console her or perhaps she was trying gain clout with it. I don't like the fact that she has to blame her loss to the aforementioned gambling site in her caption - I don’t think I’ve ever cried for anything in my life the way sportybet made ne cry. This is why women are advised to stay away from activities that men mostly participate because they cant control their emotions or tolerate the outcome. If a woman is committed to gambling then she lacks managerial and economical skill. Which no man will want such a woman as his wife.

The woman in the video seems to be crying because the money lost may not belong to her. It may be money giving to her by her husband, friends or other relation and she decided to make the most out of it. She looks so much like one who has been gambling for quite a long time and she has been winning and loosing during all these time, What makes this loss so different that she has to video herself and share in the internet. Its obvious the money does not belongs to her and she is crying because she has to pay a huge debt soon or else they will come for her.

I always say, “If you're going to play, play for fun!” Treating gambling as entertainment rather than a business strategy is the key, my friend. Consider this: an app that freezes gaming funds after your monthly spending limit? It would guard against emotional overreach.

I bet some of us have felt that woman's situation emotionally. Its a tough place, so reactions would be a mix of laughs and pats. A loss is a lesson and a win! Perhaps the universe was telling her, “Hey, its time to take a break.”

It's really hard to sympathize with her as she posted her own reaction especially crying with what she did and her wrong decision. It's literally a common situation on sports betting whereas there are some matchup that may look like a one sided game but the latter team win and I guess most of us who do sportsbet already experience it.

She could've posted her experience and not her literal reaction as it only shows how much she just wanted some attention to her wrong decision making.

The modern social platforms are all about reactions, dancing and whatever appeals in 5 seconds.  Instant emotions candy, its a big appeal to the mainstream traffic hence numbers of views can be massive.  Posting about the technical data behind her bet and actually learning from the experience in exchange for the money gain some knowledge long term, this aint happening on that particular platform.
  I wont be surprised if she gained so many views if people share the same feeling and engage with the post that her ad revenue is greater then her losses, in that case I cant blame her for playing the game in a different way :P

Social media has always been geared in this direction, it is just that now it is even more obvious that on the past and this is causing a massive amount of distrust, in this case as you mention even if this particular case was a real one, this person could be earning more money out of the views an clicks they are getting thanks to all the people that saw her video, which will in turn just encourage her to keep doing this trying to pursue the money and fame she thinks she can get, and most likely she will end with neither since it is very difficult to maintain the attention of other people like her on those platforms.

Many gamblers miss out the major rule of gambling that is never invest all of your money in gambling. If you have some extra money for investment and wanna try your luck, then only go for gambling. If you don’t want to take risk at all, then gambling is not for you. In gambling there is always remains the fear of losing. So if your luck is not good then no one can save you. Crying won’t help, as the OP has mentioned above. You should always gamble in limit.

exactly mate , because this is a great example of how people can turn so stupid when it comes to gambling .
right , because the truth is? almost everyone that get involved in gambling nowadays has one belief and reason ,
that is to become an instant rich if not millionaire so they even gambler everything to reach that goal.
making them a loser all their life.

Well, sadness and regret is a human emotion and people handle situations differently. We should not judge people for showing their emotions, because we are all human.

It does not matter if she knew that she would lose her money or not.... she did and she decided to show her emotions. A lot of people are so desensitized to people around them and immediately perceive actions like this in a negative way.

Let's give people the opportunity to learn valuable lessons in life and allow them to cry if they learnt those lessons.  ;)

I want appreciate your thoughtful comments @Kakmakr. People make mistakes and when it leads to bad experiences they should be allowed to express themselves in different ways like crying. I have even made some errors that made me weep for more than a day. It is sad she learned her lessons in such a painful manner but I guess next time she will gamble only what she can afford. But I am not comfortable with people posting their experiences on the internet. I see it as unnecessary and it would also give the girl a bad reputation. But her story will also serve as a deterrent to others.     

This is how she deal with losses, and it's not a bad thing though since this also serve as an awareness for other gamblers on what can happen if you use your money in gambling. Her money won't come back even after crying but if this can somehow help her accept the reality then let her be.

Anyway, just a perfect example of don't use the money that you can't afford to lose and clearly this is the case for this woman. She made a mistake, but at least she learned a lesson that gambling is not for people who can't accept losses. If the result of her bet turned the other way, for sure she will continue what she used to.

She should not show her sadness due to her loss at gambling and instead, keep it to herself and realize her mistake and not repeat it. But maybe showing her sadness to the public could show that she was truly sorry about everything and warn everyone she knew not to gamble or they would suffer the same fate.

Yes, that is an example of not using much money to gamble, especially when they cannot afford to see the loss later. And those of us who may still frequently gamble must be able to learn from what has happened to us so that it doesn't happen to us. And we also have to remember to always use the money we can afford to gamble.

Everyone uses social media to share fundamental and inconsequential news, and we also utilize the system to print sufficient earnings as complies with our pattern rather than continuously liquidating our accounts. The woman who posted a video of herself bemoaning and crying only intends to draw attention to herself, and bloggers are also assisting in her rise to fame. Probably to get famous and win people's feelings of empathy. Wake up, people. Everyone who engages with the field of gambling has suffered significant setbacks, but we have all maintained our composure in these dire circumstances by not publishing and going viral. She of all people should have realized that gambling is detrimental, so why would she create a video lamenting the addictive character of her existence in the space? Probably for reasons best known to her.

It is true that in gambling there will be losses and wins, but the situation of the woman is bad because she could not control herself. Greed worked in him and considered a source of income but no one can give exact guarantee of winning in gambling. Therefore it is better to proceed according to your own strategy and after a win it is better to rest for a few days without re betting. Getting out of difficult situations is easy if you proceed with proper knowledge and intelligence.

It's bad because she expected a win. The moment she treat gambling as a source of income, it is not about the control of herself anymore. It's about thinking of having an easy life and having a fortune through gambling. She prefer to make money with gambling and hoping that it would be the time for her to have a better life. That's why she was left crying as she did not obtained what she wants, which is to win in gambling.

In this situation, realization will come. She should realize that gambling is not some kind of source of income. Ahe should find a better job and don't wish to have an easy life. It's better to have a hard earned money than earn it easily.

It is the right of him who wants to do it, no one has the right to forbid him. Indeed, this will give her a bad reputation in the eyes of other people, but she only expresses her sadness on social media and need people sympathy and attention, not only attention there will definitely be a lot of abuse that people will throw at her, especially since she is a woman, this cannot be done it's true that apart from embarrassing himself, it also causes his mental state to become even more down.
However, it also teaches us to always be careful when betting and use money we can afford to lose so that we don't feel too sad when we experience defeat.

He has now become famous in his community because of his video posts. But there is no need to do this because there may be people who are not happy to see the video and blaspheme what he has done in sports betting. Maybe the woman's goal was to gain fame after she posted her video and she has succeeded in getting it. But after what he experienced, hopefully, he will realize it and won't place any more bets. But if he still places bets on sports betting, that means what he did yesterday was in vain and he wants to seek fame without thinking about what will happen to his family. Now, it has become a trend that what we experience must be documented and then uploaded on social media so that people know about it.

if it was all about fame I would say that it is a very bad way to gain fame but he humiliated himself in public without thinking about the long term risks he would definitely be bullied for posting a video of him crying because he lost a bet or in gambling meanwhile, there are lots of gamblers out there who laugh at this woman behavior because its really funny when she loses and cries like a child losing her candy.
such behavior should not be done just for the sake of fame and if she wants to gain fame it would be better if there are still many ways to gain fame by showing her gambling activities because it is rare for women to gamble on sports betting and she will definitely get more positive fame.

Isn't that the story of sore losers. I mean we have seen a ton of people in our life that lost something because of their own mistakes and instead of learning from it as a response, they end up crying about it. I have seen even people who cheated their spouse and then cry about being divorced, dude you shouldn't have cheated then, not like this was a shocking response to it, you made it yourself.

I believe that we are going to end up with a lot of people who lose at gambling and cry over it, this lady wasn't the last one and I am guessing that it wasn't the first one neither, it's just the way some people are. I have lost and cried before as well, to be fair I was in my room all alone, but I did, nothing like big scene type, just some drops from my eye type, because I was scared and made a stupid childish mistake of losing a lot of money that I shouldn't have, but I learned from it and never made that mistake ever again in my life at all.

Crying would really be that a result of extreme frustation and disappointment or something that in result in losing too much money and somewhat we do know that women are really that just too sensitve on things.
Even if the said situation isnt really that too severe or simply had just lost some amounts on doing gambling but ended up with that kind of reaction which it is most likely that women would really be having this kind of reaction on which i could say that it is really that normal since losing money is never been pleasing or something a good thing. This is why its really that important that you should really assess the situation because if you do find yourself not really that tolerant when it comes on losing money then it would really be just that right that you shouldnt really be engaging on gambling.

Some people who do really just make dealing with some things just for the sake of curiosity and on the time that they had spend out that much and wasnt expecting to be like that then they would really be
that in state of shock and the worst you would really be ending up on crying. Gambling isnt for those faint heart on which they dont really like to experience some losses
specially into their funds but of course having your first experience on things would determine whether you do get interest or not.

Most of such news is just based on acting and the source of the news has been known for posting fake news which is something that has triggered suspicious views about the legitimacy of this news, but then if it is true about the woman gambling away such an amount of money and thereafter coming on social media to cry out os such a shame and will draw a lot of backlash for the lady if this news is true.
We also have to learn some lessons from the whole incident and as a woman, you need to weigh your actions, before you take them most especially in areas such as gambling that have high risk.

There is definitely nothing wrong with crying after regretting a decision or out of grief about what has happened, but why record yourself crying and put it for the public to see? That's the point I'm unable to understand, and it indicates that the person is probably trying to get sympathy from people for what she has lost when it's completely her own fault since she is an adult and she probably knew that one can lose everything in gambling as it involves a lot of risks.

People need to understand one simple thing; gambling isn't a way for them to double or triple their money, it's not a guaranteed way to achieve wealth but it's just a way to either have some fun or just try your luck, don't just keep spending your money with the hope that you might win something big in the next bet, that bet doesn't come.

Yes, she has used bad methods to gain popularity because she revealed her bad story in public without thinking about what she and her family would experience in their daily lives later. There were people who would recognize her as a bad gambler who couldn't control herself in gambling so they would distance themselves from associating with that woman. We will not overreact to the video because we already know that losing money is a consequence that we will receive in gambling so we continue to limit ourselves so as not to suffer a big loss. She shouldn't have to show herself crying in public but could tell people not to gamble excessively and within reasonable limits.

Maybe it's like that but we also don't know her motive for showing herself to be sad because of gambling. But maybe she likes to show what happened to her so that people can find out and be curious about what happened to her. Now many people show what they do and upload it to their social media. And if they experience something, they want sympathy from people but if they lose gambling, they will not get sympathy but instead they will probably get condemnation because they cannot gamble responsibly.

We can cry if we experience loss but not by showing it in public because that would embarrass us, especially if people know us. They will say bad things about us, eventually discovering that we often gamble and experience losses. It's better for us just to keep it hidden rather than show other people what we experience in gambling because maybe later, there will be misunderstandings between us.

Are you born yesterday to ask that question? Of course she did that for clout and attention and you're already on point with the notion that she's asking for sympathy but we don't have to be quick to judge because it's not like everyone is the same, there are some people that's really not that good dealing with pain alone and social media seems to be able to do that so I should say that to a certain degree, not to judge the whole person.
I used to think that a lot of people know this but seeing this kind of stuff and knowing that there are people like this that I work with or I have acquainted that thinks that you can make money gambling, it's a good thing that we're reminded from time to time. I guess a lot of people are due for a little self-introspection nowadays.

There are always wins and losses but the biggest potential opportunity that gamblers always face is defeat because losing in gambling is certain and guaranteed different from winning that can be achieved if you are just lucky.

This woman was hysterical she cried and regretted what she had done because she made big mistake and resulted in losing a very large amount of money.
I was surprised that he cried and regretted it because it was all his choice and the decision to bet was a decision he made without anyone else invitation or order.
When someone tries to gamble they must be aware of all the risks involved and must accept whatever will happen one of which is losing any amount of money.

After this happens I sure he will bet some money again to recover his previous losses.
This is the attitude that gamblers have and I know that people like that will never give up even though they have experienced bad things or bitter experiences unless they have really lost everything anything that can make money then they can indirectly stop doing it.

1. Gambling is not for the weak and its also not for kids
2. Don't gamble with funds you can't loose or forgo.
3. Don't have expectations on gambling outcomes as they are not guaranteed.


The above should be the watch word for people who have considered to delve into the gambling industry. If you consider it an occupation, you might get the biggest disappointment of you life. As much as it has given people fortunes beyond their expectation, it has also extracted fortunes from their wallets.

I still wonder what a woman is lurking around for in gambling, they can't take risk, afford to loose money or even get the mind of gamblers, women are very emotional and therefore cannot have that kind of a risk bearing mind to take risk for gambling, she would have expected to see the winning coming instead of losses but things came to her surprised all of a sudden that she discover her money is gone for good.

First time I heard about this, and I think it's crazy. As a gambler, we should be responsible enough to know the risk of what we entered. Gambling sites won't give back the money that we spent, they will just keep on taking and it won't end unless you win, or you get out. That's the only two options we have and they won't even bother about us even if we tell a sad story that we badly need that money.
This is a business not a charity, the risk is higher because we are trying to win against them, and they will need to protect themselves and that is called the house edge. I am sad for her but that should not be posted in social media for privacy. Plus, she won't hear any good words from people who will read about this. It's a jungle out there filled with bad people hiding in their avatars.

well, that what is worrying if there might be criticism or bullying after he uploads the video, maybe he can receive all the criticism or bullying but maybe his family members will also receive the bullying and it would be very sad if that happens because family members dont know what the problem is suddenly getting bullied like that and unconsciously uploading the video has made things difficult for himself and his family.
and I am pretty sure that he only bet a few times in gambling because looking at the story written by the OP he like a beginner gambler who does not know any limits and can not accept all the risks that will occur in gambling. so maybe he really felt sorry when he lost the bet and after that ignored the limit.

Yes, that's why before we enter a gambling game, we have to take into account all the risks. And we must have a minimum amount of money to play. If I look at cases of women who really want to get an instant financial boost in gambling, and these women hope to win, there are many cases like this in every country and as far as I know, in these gambling games it is regulated. to experience defeat.

Women actually make better gamblers than men. Several opinion pools shows that women understand money management better than men. This is the reason they make better gamblers than men. If you remember that money management is one of the biggest challenge of gamblers, then you will agree with me on this.

Actually seeing female gamblers use to be very rare compare to men, I understand that one of the reasons while most women doesn't gamble is because they love respect and there dignity but however they believe that most people will see them as an irresponsible person, although I don't no about your side but were I come from you will hardly see a lady gambling, however not because they don't no how to gamble but because of the people perception on female gambling.

On a normal sense women are easily emotional in everything so imagine how they could feel if there gambling go against them, of course they are likely to cry there eyes out.

This is one of the reason why they said gambling is not for everybody because it has do with mind, emotions and determination for you to be able to withstand the pressure of losing a game because most of the lady feel that watching other people win from there gambling that they could also venture into it and start winning immediately without knowing the factors involved.

Gambling is majorly engaged by men for some reasons that the female gender aren't good and one of the is risk taking. Though gambling isn't gender based which means that any gender is absolutely free to gamble, it's still advised that women who can't stand the pressure that comes with taking those risks shouldn't engage themselves in gambling.
The kind of surprising shock that comes with losing your hard earned money in gambling can't just be managed by 80% of women population if you ask me so I'm other to save them from the shock, it's better to tell any lady that wants to gamble the disadvantages of gambling before she embarks on it

Yes, I don't know what is the reason why gambling is always dominated by men, but what I know is that usually those who like challenges are men, so with this alone in my opinion it is quite natural that men always dominate gambling which means that most gamblers are men, and also besides that someone who is obliged to make a living is the men in a family, therefore they at least have the freedom to where they allocate the money from their work. It is true that on the other hand women are vulnerable to pressure while in gambling there is a lot of pressure that they will feel, so maybe even though gambling does not see gender at all but with that alone I think it can be understood that all the risks and pressures that exist in gambling are not suitable for women.

Basically, men who are strong enough to face all problems can be very weak when facing the downturn of gambling, well, especially for women who have a gentle soul, so maybe that's a little logic that makes sense enough to be a differentiator even though gender doesn't matter there, and also yes, it's better for us as men to save them, like you said, because if it's too late then I'm not sure they can pass all the tests that are there.

Her family members, who didn't know anything about her gambling, would even feel embarrassed if they saw the video of her crying. They might also feel angry and ask the woman why she did it and upload it to the internet because it just shows her stupidity to the public, which is inappropriate. She can tell her family or friends about her gambling losses but not upload them to the internet.

Even if he has only gambled a few times and looks like a novice gambler, he should not bet an amount he cannot afford. She should have realized this before she gambled, but it was too late because she had already lost her money and could not recover it. Hopefully, she is truly sorry for what she has done and will not do it again.

Well, it seems she's already made one mistake by losing in gambling, and now another by venting on social media. You can really see how desperate she is, and it's clear he's in some serious trouble as he's making decisions that aren't ethical anymore. The thing is, once those mistakes are made, there's no turning back the clock. At this point, it's the family's role to provide comfort and support because this is when family is truly needed.

Addiction can be a real financial and life-wrecker, especially in gambling. It's something that shouldn't have happened in the first place. That's why emphasizing education and discipline in gambling is incredibly important to prevent this from happening again.

But it seems that he has been in social media for a long time already as per her account? So for sure her families knows that she is up too and could probably be accepting the fact that she lost in gambling and then venting in public. Yeah, maybe some of them are embarrassed, but we all know that everything now is in social media to make money posting videos. So you will be the judged.


That is the very first mistake of this newbie (if she is indeed a newbie). Even us experienced gamblers already, we play with the money that we can afford to lose. But there are times that really are out of control and gamble more from our initial capital. And if we lose, the feeling is very bad that it can affect us mentally for a couple of days. So for sure this lady will feel that and that could be the reason why she is crying like that.

People really need to think twice before they begin to gamble and it is cases like this one that make me think like that, after all this is a person that has the legal age and right to gamble, however it can be seen by her reaction and all the money that she lost that she has no business gambling at all, after all did she ever thought about the possibility of losing her money, and if not why is that? Anyone that takes the time to read a little bit about gambling knows that you are bound to lose a little bit more than what you earn, and yet she was completely unprepared for this.

Before we jump into addiction, I'll want to agree strongly with your point on she been in serious trouble. People loose money from gambling daily and we don't hear about it neither do they flaunt it on social media except they're dragging a possible Telegram group owner for supplying them games that turned south. But in her case, I suspect she used funds meant for another thing to adventure into gambling and that hurts deeper cos she has to not just live with the loss but also work to replace the lost funds. I just hope its not tuition fees though.

It is not really the point that what factors you are looking at happens to her alone. Even under boy has played and lost his school fees.

She is just a lady and this buttress that point saying women are weaker sex, guys consistently play without winning and they go to sleep to try another chance. Men take things that come to them any how it came even in the hard way. This probably a publicity stunt for sympathy that she is also gambling to try a chance of having some guys come to support her financially.

Well, you don’t have to wonder anymore as everyone is free to do whatever they want. You should get used to seeding more women in the gambling scene.
I don’t think all women are as helpless and emotionally fragile and they sure know the risks involved as men do. Everyone and not just women can get very dramatic after losing out on a bet. They’re way more men than women in the gambling scene today and if you do some little research, you’ll find cases where men have become so emotional about their losses that they go ahead to do some stupid stuff. As there are fewer women gambling, stories of them being dramatic would probably be noticed more often.

It depends on the individual and how he/she handles situations like these and nothing to do with gender. I know of women who are risk takers and who keep their emotions in check.

Hopefully, her family can continue to support her and provide her with the comfort she needs so she doesn't despair again. And the most important thing is that she doesn't have to gamble anymore, even if it's just for fun, because she has had bad experiences. After all, she didn't control herself. She can't turned back the time and now, bit's better for her to focus on doing other things where she can earn more money.

We already know the risks of gambling addiction, especially since we have seen many people who have experienced it. We must be able to prevent ourselves from experiencing gambling addiction in various ways that we know so that we will not have the same experience as that woman.

It may be true that he has been on social media for a long time so there is a possibility that his family also knows what happened to him. But this is a valuable lesson for him and us so that no one will experience it again. And be careful if we want to upload videos so that we don't get judged or someone doesn't like us.

That means she has to learn self-control so she doesn't have an experience like that again. But the best thing is that she doesn't need to gamble anymore to avoid big losses because she can't control herself when he gambles. I don't know how long the woman will experience her sadness, especially since she may have lost a lot.

If that was true then why the woman here in our subject ended up crying due to a loss? Oh well, she was only one anyway and I can rarely saw threads like this in the forum. I still believe that it wasn't about the gender. Both women and men can have the same capacity when it comes to gambling if they will do the same measures.

Gambling isn't only about money management but taking risk can also be a good thing here as we can get lucky in our first or last rolls. And betting a huge amount is only the way to earn big profits most of the time. If we are into money management it means we can be playing for the profit and not really for fun.

Everything she does now is useless. Even if she cries for a few weeks the money has gone, and it will never come back. If she still plays more, she will still lose. However, the lady knows how much she stakes. I believe the money is too much, which is why she is crying, so with this, I won’t pity her because that is not how gambling works, and this shows that she doesn’t know how to gamble or that she relies on gambling. I remember one topic on this board where someone lost tickets and she fell sick for 3 days. Probably this lady also had a plan for the money she would win, which is why she was crying, or she took a loan to gamble. Because it’s happened, we see people take loans to gamble, but at the end of the day they lose the game and start panicking.


You are right, women are not the same as men when it comes to emotions, and things like this, men often lose in gambling many times before winning a single ticket, and they don’t bother. However, the way some men lose in gambling, if that is how women gamble and lose, then definitely you will not see only cry; some will even try to commit suicide because small things change their mood. Most women don’t have the mind to endure pressure like men; however, I wish her good luck in her gambling habit, and I hope she shouldn’t say she will chase her losses in gambling.

It could be that she is a beginner in gambling and spent all her money on one bet and maybe that's the reason why she cried. If she really is a pro gambler she knows how to deal with it. Why the heck she uploaded a video crying on  what had happened to her on gambling?

That's what will happen when you're prepared to the outcome of your risk taking mate. Ladies have got weaker feeling on this one and their hearts are more fragile than us men.

We can take as much losses that we can while them, it seems that losing is a new thing to them. The mistake here is that she used the money that she needs for something else and it's likely an important matter.

She shouldn't have done that, she can't take back the money anymore and she's got the lesson not to gamble when she cannot deal with negative results.

Isnt it normal for people to cry when they lose and that person just chose to post it on social media?  People react to things differently, and crying is a natural response to emotions, even for experienced gamblers.  Maybe that significant loss trigger her frustrations and she posted that video of her as a way to reach out for empathy or advice from others who have gone through similar situations. Who are we to say that she cant play again?? Maybe you chose to closet your emotions but that’s you.

Yes, it is normal for some people to cry when sad, but they are not sad because they have lost when gambling. It will only provoke reactions from other people, and they may be bullied by people who don't like it. People's reactions are different, but you shouldn't cry in public because you lost at gambling. He could cry in his room and lament his gambling losses so that no one would know that he had gambled and suffered a big loss. It was to avoid people's dislikes so that he could avoid bullying from others. But there could be a sense of satisfaction if they could publicly upload their sad moments so that people could express sympathy for the woman.

It's not normal especially on gambling because people will just heckle and blame you but we know if you're active on social media you want to be popular and you want people to talk about you, you want to be viral so you can have a lot of followers, some people are making a living on social media especially on Tiktok if you have many followers, advertisers will ask you to promote their product and pay you if you're going to cry because of losing in gambling its better to keep it to yourself it's easy to heal than crying in social media.

Probably she is the gambling addicted person,So she can’t control the number of the games to the gambling.When she posses continuous loss in the gambling,every gambler may get sad.Since she is the woman with the soft heart,he may melted and start to cry for their loss in the gambling.The gambler should managed their mind set at all situation.My words was same all the time,gambling was the game for the strong heart person.If you are not the strong mindset person,you can play the other games like cricket or football in the offline mode.The pro gambler can handle the loss and will have the plan B for the loss in the gambling.

Stories like always cracks me up.
Well crying is better than those who committed suicide. After crying she's going to get a plate of ice cream after which she'll forget about her loss.
Real gamblers don't cry. We what that it is what it is. Anyone who doesn't gamble responsibly will face the consequences.

And at the same time, we click this kind of headline on the news. Somehow I believe this is a clickbait of the casino since there was also news about this being a kid begging for his money to be returned to him as the money is his school fee. Same bookmaker too.

Nonetheless, if the woman and the boy are true then this sportsbook has really gotten into the household of this country where even the housewives are already betting instead of doing chores at home.

There are still many women out there who don't actually want to gamble, but because they are curious, they do it until they finally lose and realize that actually gambling is not for them, the woman in the OP is one example.

literally we are moving into an era that is increasingly balanced in terms of gender but women have more needs such as powder - clothes - jewelry than men so when women lose gambling they will cry uncontrollably.

I gamble quite often, but I don't burden my mind too much with the losses I probably get when playing, I understand the consequences.

I disagree with that. What she did wasn't a mistake, it was a deliberate attempt to make money and she failed in that. How can you call something a mistake that you have done yourself while knowing all the possible consequences of it? A mistake is an action that is done unknowingly and/or without actually knowing the possible outcomes or consequences of it, but in this case, it's different, because she is an adult and she knows exactly what gambling is.

I bet she or anyone would say she did it by mistake if she had won a million dollars from gambling, why? If you lose your money, you've made a mistake, but if you make money, you did it through gambling, that's hypocrisy. She knew from the beginning that gambling has the quality to take all her money away but she still did it, so it's all on her and she should accept that, there is no other choice other than accepting the defeat and learning from the experience.

You're right, crying is better than committing suicide.

And with her reaction, she cried because she lost her money that she's not prepared for. It's okay to cry for someone who assumed that she's gonna make money quickly with sports betting because everybody does.

But on her case, she's not just prepared for it because of what she thought. Gambling isn't for her and she shouldn't gamble anymore because there can be a worst case scenario that she might do for herself when losses comes to her.

Better to know that crying will not do anything. Instead of crying, moving on should be done. By doing so, accepting the fact that the money is gone will be easy to accept and never get into gambling activity again if she's not prepared to lose her money. I'm not saying that crying is not okay, but the moment that the lady starts to gamble, it comes with the risk of losing her money. Crying only shows that she's not prepared and now after losing, that's the only thing she can do.

The loss was painful but as you said crying because of the loss will not help anything and it will not bring back the lost money. So she has to put herself together and move on because that her will lead to another sickness. And I believe it is not only her that have lost money in gambling, there are some people who have lost very big amount of money and they are not complaining to anyone. I think she needs a counselor to counsel her so she can adapt to the system if not she might collapsed.

It's okay to cry and that's a normal reaction after seeing that the money has gone away. And you're right that the next move is to move on.

For most of those gamblers that can't do that, they will struggle on that part of moving on. That's even still a painful thing for them because even if they have accepted the fate of their money and lost.

Woman like her can't just move on and there are men that are also being like that, when they gamble they cry when there's so much losses they've made or they just can't take it anymore.

If women are better gamblers than men then why women also get addicted to gambling?  I believe when it comes to gambling addiction, there is no better gender.  Both are gender are susceptible to gambling addiction.  One good proof is the documents and articles that is published on the internet and lots of documentary videos uploaded on Youtube and other streaming sites.

I believe gambling addiction can affect anyone regardless of gender because these two genders are both human and have the instinct and characteristics of a person.


True and the main reason why a gambler can't move on is due to greed.  They don't want to end at a loss and wanted to recover and at the same time get a big time revenge win which make them hook wagering and betting until they found themselves addicted to gambling.

there is really no gender when you talk about any addiction. it will hit on any person, so long you can't handle your activities too well. if you won't assess your situation and you will just follow your desires, you can easily be in trouble as before you noticed, you are already too deep and hard to shovel out from your grave. people have their different approach when it comes to their addiction, but if they won't pause, surely, more problems arise.

Doesnt matter whether you are a man or woman on which it would really be that normal that there would really be that moments that you would really be able to cry specially if you have lost significant or an amount that you cant afford to lose then it would really be that normal that those kind of reaction could really happen but this would really often that could be seen on women
since we know that they are really that too emotional compared to men and also they are someone who doesnt really like on losing money or simply not that adventurous and this is why
on the first time that they would really be able to experience gambling and lost up that much then you would really be that ended up on crying.

This is why its really that important that whenever you do touch up gambling then you should really be preparing your emotion into it, because if you dont then for sure
you would really be ending up on having this kind of reaction or ended up on crying if you arent that prepared.  :'(

I think you meant that’s what would happen when you’re NOT prepared for the outcome of a loss. I don’t think any of this has to do with weaker feelings or fragile hearts although your opinion on ladies having weaker feelings and fragile hearts is arguable.

There are cases of men who didn’t take the news of their losses well. Would we use one or two examples to come to a conclusion? I think It totally depends on the individual and how tolerant the individual is to receiving unfavorable news.
She obviously wasn’t expecting an outcome like this and couldn’t take the loss well.

In as much as gender doesn't determine ones level of composure, it's also worthy to not that men are better in handling shocks especially the ones that comes from losing in gambling than women do and that's the number of men who gambles are way to higher than their female counterparts. Gambling isn't gender based activity but right from when gambling came to existence, it's been reported that more 80% of gamblers across the globe are all men.
In other to avoid the deep shocks that comes with losing ones gamble, it's advisable for women not to engage in gambling.

Actually it’s not about the gender inequality,if the loss was faced by the men.Most of the time,they understand the reality of the gambling.So they won’t bother about the gambling losses,because the game had both win and loss.The men also suffer the loss in the gambling,but they will not cry,because they had faced many problem in the real life.This was the reason for the gambler to not worry.If the men run the family with satisfying the family needs,he will be the biggest part of the life.This alone give lot of trouble and many money needs in the short period of time.But the most of the gambler was men compared to the woman.

Yeah, you're right.

I've forgot to include the "NOT". Thanks for that but yeah.

Those that have weak hearts will just put it through that emotion and feeling that there's nothing they can do but to just cry and look at those losses as it pass and won't be back to theirs.

Yeah, that's it. She's not prepared for it and she didn't thought that this is how heavy it will be.

Remove greediness and you'll be fine to accept whatever outcome with your bets.

You'll have lighter feelings on it and you're okay to the outcomes that you'll have. And the understanding of gambling that it's not always a winning day, you'll easily accept that it's the reality.

Exerting time and effort for recovering losses and what you say revenge, you're just likely to spend your efforts there useless because if greed is still there, you'll still end up with bad results.

Except the lady wants to trend with her crying about loosing money in gambling, if not, then it goes to show that she's an amateur gambler. A real gambler will not cry over a lose in gambling, because it's to be expected that it's either you win or lose. The casinos and bet companies wants you to loose as much as you want to win, and your win is a lose to them. They don't cry publicly when they pay out winnings, neither should the gambler cry out publicly when the casinos earn their money after they lose.

I also agree that gambling is not for the faint hearted, who get into depression after a lose, because it can affect their mental well being. It is for people who can withstand the pressure and heartbreak of loosing, who are able to move on after a lose. It is advisable that people should prepare their minds before gambling, to accept the outcome of it, whether win or lose.

Yes ladies are more emotional compared to the men and most times,  you see a lady crying for no just reason and you can't tell if it only shock that get ladies to cry because sometimes ladies cries when their are too happy and when they are sad also,  but on the other hand this cries out in the ops is about her heavy lost in staking and I believe that her bet was in sport bet and that is a big one because some of the gamblers get to the point that the risk what they can't afford to lose and when the loses occurs the get depressed.

So this situation is not peculiar to this lady but even the men,  we have seen several time when some gamblers bust out into crying all because of their loses,  and how the have staked higher than they can afford to lose and the lose have a negative impact on them and that physical reaction os all they can do at that moment.

If it was an important amount of money, I would personally never judge anyone for crying because of such loss at the hands of bad luck. You are correct when you say that any responsible gambler is not supposed to cry over a loss, since they are all supposed to measure their bets and gambling before carry them out.
This woman was the typical novice gambler who did not thought about the consequences of their actions. Even if she won, I would dare to say she would have lost that money eventually anyways, by continuing to bet or gamble, believing she has got infinite good luck in her hands.

Yes, women are more emotional than men and can express themselves without reservation. A man could bottle up his emotions and maybe cry in the secret but this is not the case for women. I have met some women who are gamblers in my area but I have never seen anyone behave in the manner the lady OP referred to did. This woman must have gambled with her life savings or it is possible that the money is not hers. These issues can lead to health issues or even depression and suicide. It is hard to see a man crying in public because it is assumed that men are emotionally strong. They might have incurredd several losses but they will express their pains in the secret. But I prefer to cry than to be dying silently inside. Sometime crying can relieve burdens or stress. It is better to express yourself than to become depressed and start contemplating something evil.  

Men cry but in secret.  Who of us men here did not cry when depression and frustration struct us?  Crying is a natural thing, it is that men is more discreet on that part while women is a bit showy.  But regardless, gambling frustration and disappointment affect both gender.  It is just men is too shy to show their real emotion in public than women.


True that we should not judge people but it don't deny the fact that the lady is somehow addicted to gambling because he could not lose that huge amount and get emotional when she think about her losses.  I hope she learned her lesson well and somhow restrain herself from gambling until she felt that she can control his gambling urge.

The woman was very depressed after losing in gambling, but we should not judge anyone and the case of this woman's loss can be used as a lesson to anyone who is still an amateur gambler without the knowledge to handle the risk of loss from gambling, there are many other cases of losses that have occurred in gambling if you don't Determine the limit of funds you can afford to lose.

I think it is difficult for a woman to retire from gambling activities if she experiences high losses, don't expect recovery of funds from gambling bets because there is no guarantee that gambling can return losses or even add to other losses, if she bets again she is more emotional due to the influence of previous losses.

Everybody has their own way of reacting to pain and disappointment. She's a lady and we all know that ladies have their unique ways of releasing pain like talking about it, yelling and even crying. I'm not  surprised at all. Ladies would always be ladies.  Betting is for the strong hearted quite alright, but sometimes and when desperation enters, Especially in bad days, You tend to stake more than you can afford to lose. Leading to a really big mess and I guess she's crossed her margin by a lot resulting in her  expression of pain publicly. I know quite well its to attract attention to herself that she went public with her emotions, but its possible that after crying, she became stable again as compared to many others that will bear the  great Loss and develop high BP or even lead them to depression.  We release hurt feelings differently and nobody should be victimized about how they offload their hurt.

Social media today encourages people to act without thinking at all, so in her state of depression and sadness she decided to record herself and upload this video, a very bad idea because as we can see she is not really warning other people to gamble with moderation after she reflected about her past mistakes, she is overly emotional still about what happened and it shows, and as such her advice cannot be taken seriously, even if she has a point, as if I were to guess I am sure she will not follow her own advice and she will gamble again.

It's true that we don't need to judge people when they cry publicly after a big loss, because it's natural to express such inner pains of having bad luck. But  some cries don't really deserve sympathy, especially when the person crying knows the consequences of their deeds and goes ahead to do it. Although they can cry all they want, still what is gone can not return back to them, this is why the importance of taking into account the risks involved in gambling before engaging in it can not be overemphasized. Gambling is based on luck, in fact the way I see it, there are more chances of loses than winnings. I hope the woman learns her lessons about the way gambling works, the next time she decides to stake her money.

I agree with you that without discipline and adequate knowledge about gambling, the money won in it will eventually be lost in it, because greed of wanting to win more will drive the gambler to loose everything.

If she isn't expecting a loss in a gambling then I am afraid she has wrong expectations from gambling.

Gameling is not a bed of roses or easy money making machine, infact it is a most difficult way to make money with gambling surrounded by the losses that may have an impact on your nerves.

When people invest their life saving in the gambling then of course they will have serious health issues if they lose their life savings in front of their eyes. For those who can't bear this loss, they better stay away from gambling and do something else like investment in startup a business or anything which is less riskier then gambling.

You know, I agree that everyone has their own reactions on things, but when you are really disappointed, you dont use hashtags (and a lot of them), to show how disappointed you are. Ok, you feel bad and wants to share your feeling of bitterness to other. But why use all that "😢😢😢 #money #sportybetnaija #bet #trend #สโลว์สมูท #fypシ #instagram #instablog9ja #viralvideo #tiktok #2023 #fyppppppppppppppppppppppp #fy #foryou #foryou #justthatgirldivine #fypシ" in a post? Why use smiles, or #trend, #viralvideo. All that makes me feel that those tears and cries are fake, whole video was make just to get attention. You cry with one eyes, but with other observe if people are buying that.

I understand that she probably felt to be positive when she bet and there's hope in her mind that she could win this big after betting. But yes, if she's not expecting a loss it's unfair on her end. Because if she's only expecting to win then she probably should expect to lose too because that's like the first rule in gambling that in fairness, you're about to win but you are also about to lose.

This is the misconception when new gamblers come in to gambling. They think that they've found a new way to make money online with an easy thinking that this is going to make them rich and it's all about profiting without having to lose with the bets that they'll do whether it's on sports betting or any games that they thought of going to make them win easily. The mindset is the hardest battle they'll have to go through as they get into gambling because it's been deceptive all over these times.

That's a severe addiction. Someone who uses his/her life savings to gamble, there's that much reaction on his/her end and that's going to make a person wanting to retrieve all the losses because they've just put all of their money on it. The tendency of crying, regreting and being hysterical is too high with that money they use for it.

Yes, that's true, but if she's a woman, she should know that crying in public, especially on social media, can look worse and she probably won't get sympathy from people in her circle. Still, maybe many people will blame her because he had gambled excessively. Excessive betting will only result in a person experiencing bigger losses, especially if he loses control of himself in betting and uses more money. That would only make him lose more and it would be difficult for him to try to recover the money he lost at the gambling table.

Maybe if he cried because of something else, he could get sympathy from the people around him. But he cried because of gambling and we know that gambling can cause a person to experience so many losses that he cannot imagine. For this reason, it is best for the woman to never return to gambling again, especially since the woman has also lost a lot of money because of gambling.

Greed is really bad it is true that the mistake most gamblers make is their lack of discipline in gambling. Every good gambler knows that discipline in gambling is as important as a good strategy so that they risk less. Be careful not to get greedy whenever you win in gambling raising the stakes will cause you losses. One can start gambling for fun and some win early on. Then they continue to play in the hope that they will win again. It is a complete misconception that luck does not always come.

Well people see gambling as a way for quick money and few people could have the patience of growing startup because that is not easy to do but with gambling it is envisage to be fast money spiner but unfortunately it doesn't turn out that way.

With startup, you have so much expenses to take care of before expecting returns like payment of rent, highering of staff or labour and payment for their bills and many other miscellaneous, yet you still need like 3/6 months before expecting profit if it will come.

Those who are gambling focus more on winning and not loses especially new gamblers like the lady in question. She might gambled with money that was meant for something extremely important which could be the reason that she is crying.

What she did by coming out in public to share her failure in gambling is not wrong, but she did it for some ladies that think gambling is very easy to make huge amount of money to learn their lesson from her tears. Gambling is a something you are not a professional for because, you can win today and spend all the money another day in gambling which is related to what this lady did because if not that she has gamble before she would have not come out public to expose herself to people on social media. I think she use her school fees to gamble that made her to raise such alarm in the public, if people can hear her out by contributing money for her concerning the incident because a real gamblers will not even allow her friends to know about her lost than to work for another money to gamble again.

Her performance was not to share, but to gain audience. When people win or succeed in something, they usually like to boast with that. When people fail, they usually prefer to hide that fact, as they try to forget that life experience as quick as possible. Why I think this was just a performance and a try to get audience, because she has used hashtags in her post, so that more and more people find her.

It would not surprise me if that is in fact the case, people these days do anything in order to gain attention on those social media apps and they do not care if they have to humiliate themselves in order to get it, however I cannot help to wonder what are those people thinking? This is the kind of stuff that even if she were to delete that video someone will probably download it and upload it again, and as such it will live forever on the internet and most likely whenever someone tries to find anything about her online that video is the first thing that will come up.

Let's not judge. Maybe she posted the video or her story just because she can't think straight anymore, and as we know, a lot of people rely on social media. Even slight happenings will be posted on social media, or all things will happen. People will first get their cameras and share them on social media before taking action. What's the point, right? She will not gain anything just because she posted on social media about what happened to her; she will actually get criticised and become a meme. But for those of us who play gambling or are in the gambling industry, we understand how devastated she is. Losing a huge amount of money through gambling is stressful, but at the same time, it's her own decision. She should be prepared to face the consequences of her gambling decisions. Anyway, sad for her, she doesn't get luck instead gets unlucky.

well, this makes perfect sense and I can understand that in this era of advanced technological development, many people use social media as a place to talk about small things and big things, even if they are just experiencing something small, someone will make a video and upload it to social media, its all like a form of expression of his feelings right then and there but the mistake that happened to this woman is not a story that should be published but it is a personal story that is very inappropriate to be told to everyone in this world and it is quite embarrassing when someone gambles who should know the risks anything but he actually cried over the defeat.

I understand that maybe the woman just wanted to tell a story but she forgot about privacy or that gambling is a sensitive matter that does not need to be published and I am sure now she is getting a lot of bad criticism and this story provides a valuable lesson for us to use social media intelligently.

There are sometimes she might just wanted to share the pain to everyone. I have seen a lot people sharing what happened to them on their status on social media and this happened in most cases in WhatsApp and Facebook status. Like my sister was robbed by arm robbers last month and she shared on her Whatsapp status and that is when I became awared that she was robbed. So in some cases it is to give awareness to her friends and family members that something like that happened to her and she is in pain. So loves ones would have compassionate for her. So when you look at it from another angle it is good to share pains so that love ones will sympathize with you.

Well, sometimes when we see and find many things on social media, from someone using any type of clothing to someone crying for having lost in a sports bet, we whenever we are thinking about how to win in sports betting, that is not It is not a game nor is it a riddle, nor that I am going to post because I believe, or because I believe that this is like this or in another way, the only thing is that one cannot be thinking that things can happen just like they always do. We will win, no, in sports betting, we have to give everything we have, and in sports betting what is necessary is to be fairly sure of what we have in mind, we must also read a lot about sports, know the latest of the news, as confirmed, and if, for example, in soccer, do a study of which players are available, which players are injured, how the squad looks according to what we have seen in previous games, all of that must be considered.

A weak minded person? Maybe this happens when they bet more than they can afford to lose, and that's not the case, that's apsotarism with all the irresponsibility in the world, obviously what the lady did was complain on social media to see if she could get some money, so part of the others, out of pity and that is not good, it is like asking indirectly , although I do not know if it worked for him, if they made many donations, because everyone has their way of attracting attention, the networks are many tools for Someone can monetize, and since they lost so much, well, it is a way to recover, if they recovered,? or else? Well, what I think is that with that act he was able to recover what he lost and more, it's not much of a strategy, but you have to have a tough face, in a bet you know that you can lose or win, so there the lady couldn't win , it is norma,  but he lacked luck, and he must accept it, otherwise even if it seems hard, he may not be able to suck at sports.

Sharing or not then it would really be that depending on a certain person in regarding on the gender on which there are ones who do love to share up their problems and there are ones who do love on making it private on which we know that this would really be situational. You would definitely be ending up on crying if you have lost up on the money that you arent that afford to lose. We know that women are really that too soft if we do speak about emotions on which it would really be just that normal that they would really be showing that crying situation which it is rarely to be seen on men
because we know that when it comes to tolerance then men are really that having higher which means that crying is unlikely despite of having those huge losses but instead they would really be  that becoming that too desperate and become impulsive on which this is where mistakes and errors do really happen for a gambler to do.

The gender in the gambling was not the specific one,because their is no any reservation for the woman.The only thing the men will not easily cry for the loss,because he facing many pains in their day to day life.But the woman facing less hurdles even in the family life.So the man will take this loss as the casual one and move forward to the next one.But only the woman was get cry because of the first facing loss in the game.The woman should get motivated by seeing the man in the real world who take care of their family and the carrier in the real world.The man never cry until he face the biggest problem.

But that is my point, she has already suffered greatly due to the losses she has suffered, the right thing to do at that point will simply be to learn from the experience so it never happens to her again, but by exposing herself in this way now she is victimizing herself as there are many people that will make fun of her, and if she tries to delete the video then someone will upload it and it will be there forever, which will allow people to keep victimizing her for as long as they want.

Many people share their stories on social media, but actually, there are things that don't always need to be shared on social media. But people nowadays tend to seek attention from other people by showing what they are doing or what has happened to them so that people can pay attention or even insult them. If they can use social media well, they will feel that there are stories that can be shared on social media and some that don't need to be shared and only they and their immediate family know. It depends on each individual to share what they have experienced. Those of us who read the story also don't need to be excessive, especially if we don't know the person sharing the story well so that there are no misunderstandings between us and that person.

and because of that, many people say that a gambler must have good psychology before gambling and must be prepared to lose his money at any time. because the casino will not care about whatever the players will experience, whether they cry, lose on a streak, or even commit suicide, the casino will not care about these things because all they need is profit and not losing from the players.

I have seen this thread for quite a while now, but it didn't get my attention until a few days back when I actually came across the woman videos on some local news platforms and when I watched the video I discovered that the woman in question was just faking it and from her story, you can easily know that she was never a gambler and at that she may have created such video to gain social media flowers because most of the content creators in this part of the world make all manner of videos just to sell out their self online line and the woman is likely one of them making such videos and acting out a script.
So as far as i know this video could and should be treated as just acting and not a real case of gambling losses, she chose Sportsbet for her acting because Sportsbet is the most popular game around here.