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Title: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Botnake on June 20, 2025, 09:09:06 AM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Hewlet on June 20, 2025, 09:41:53 AM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
The reality is that once you've lost, there's always the urge to shift the blame to the next person which can be the casino or any third party. It's just a ways of trying to get oneselves out of the trauma of loss but in the real sense, such shift doesn't in any way bring back the amount you've lost. When I win, I always count it as loss and even before losing I always have it in mind that I can just lose the game at any point in time. That is one way that keeps me standing even when when I win or loose.

Gambling is 50/50 thing, it's either you win and gain or you lose and the casino gains. For the casino to remain in business, they normally should win more and because of the greed that gamblers always have, they always lose more but in the end, regardless who loses and regardless of the blame game it doesn't bring back lost money.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ziskinberg on June 20, 2025, 09:50:34 AM
Gambling is 50/50 thing, it's either you win and gain or you lose and the casino gains.

Are you really convinced it’s a 50/50 shot? Either way, that’s not what matters most, what counts is taking responsibility and knowing the risks we’re facing. If we own that, we’ll never find ourselves blaming the casino for our own mistakes. Nobody’s forcing us to play, so if we lose, that loss is on us.. unless the house is actually cheating, which almost never happens.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: romero121 on June 20, 2025, 10:03:49 AM
I lost big money in a week. Through the week I was lucky to win big, and by the weekend I lost everything and went beyond my limits. That's a massive loss, which I wasn't able to accept all of a sudden. By the time I know the mistake is completely mine, it happened because of my belief that somehow I can recover what has been lost. At the end I realized the truth that things won't happen according to our expectations. By the time I didn't blame the casino, I contacted the support team requesting help. Finally, the owner of the casino provided me with $300, as the loss was very huge, around $23,000.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: TheUltraElite on June 20, 2025, 10:19:33 AM
Shifting the blame is a common method to defend one's own bad habits. To be honest with yourself if difficult and puts the mind in anxiety and hence the mind works like this to avoid the anxiety.

However most gamblers fail to correct this maladaptive nature of the human mind. Accept the loss and move on is the mature thing to do in any gambling situation. Never try to ease your ego or fall into the trap laid by someone else intended to harm your finances. Because there is no such thing as win in gambling if you dont stop.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Judith87403 on June 20, 2025, 10:21:44 AM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

 I have been in a situation where I took a big loss, but I don't always put the blame to the casino but myself for being greed. However, if we keep blaming the casino whenever we experience big loss definitely we won't stop risking big, since we think that the casino is the reason behind that. And for how long should we keep blaming the casino for that? If it's to use that as excuse just to avoid feeling stupid, honestly this doesn't make any sense to me, and it will look More stupid if we use that as an excuse instead of looking for a way to deal with it.





Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: avp2306 on June 20, 2025, 10:24:38 AM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Only immature people would blame the casino on their losses encountered since we have choose to decide whatever things happened to us while playing.

Casino is just there offering such nice platform to people and people abuse their selves that's why they came unto that point which they lose a lot or what even more worse is they started to experience heavy addiction that's why they can't decide to quit whenever the situation started to go so bad on their side.

But if people is well discipline and know the consequences of their gambling activities for sure that they won't came to the point that they blame the casino.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: MArsland on June 20, 2025, 10:28:48 AM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
Of course, and everyone must have, including yourself if you don't mind admitting it unless you are a professional gambler, even so I have also seen professional gamblers vent their stupidity to the casino. Basically the behavior of blaming the casino in gambling is common and unavoidable because a depressed mental situation can involve anything to blame. Like this, have you ever seen a gambler who after losing then gets angry at the closest person who is not at fault? Well, that's a simple description. It's a spontaneous reaction that is temporary because after the anger subsides the situation returns to normal.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: hyudien on June 20, 2025, 10:33:30 AM
..So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I admit to having experienced something like this, at one time I got a winning streak on a local online site and I took the initiative to play on another site the first deposit failed the second failed and so on until the point the win was taken back I was quite emotional at that time and poured out my frustration on the site with the awareness that it was indeed a wrong action other causes because before I got that winning streak in the previous week I lost quite a lot on the site, because of this my emotions could not be controlled as usual. And I'm sure quite a lot of people have experienced incidents like this, admitting mistakes is not a prohibited action. ;D


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Z-tight on June 20, 2025, 10:33:52 AM
I have never been one to blame others for my own mistakes, but i have to admit that i have seen a lot of people do it, even on this forum. There are certain users who lose money to a casino fair and square, but you see them creating scam accusation threads about this or that consipracy, asking to get their money back. If you gamble with money you can afford to lose, you are not going to find yourself blaming the casino or regretting your gambling actions.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Odohu on June 20, 2025, 10:43:12 AM
Humans naturally love blaming others for their ordeals and it us only on few occasions we accept responsibility and never tend to shift the blame. In gambling, the same thing happens, sometimes one blame the casino, or the players or even the coach in sports betting. It's even worse for casino games like slots where the first thing that comes to mind is to question the integrity of the providers. These are normal and despite those tendencies, we still accept the losses and come back to gamble and hope for better luck.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: masulum on June 20, 2025, 10:58:35 AM
I never blame anyone when I experience a big loss. I fully realize that all of this is the result of my own decisions and actions. Instead of blaming others, including the provider, I prefer to evaluate myself, maybe this is not the time for me to win big. I will try to realize that, when I try to chase losses in the hope of being able to cover them immediately, what happens is the opposite, we get carried away by emotions, lose control, and fall deeper. The mind becomes narrow, logic is replaced by desire, and unknowingly we enter a cycle of loss and win that continues to repeat itself.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Raflesia on June 20, 2025, 10:59:05 AM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
For discussion in one thread maybe not but when the discussion is a little wide this has happened and I also often find that there are some of us who try to blame the other party including for the casino when we get a situation that we don't expect such as when losing and can't bear it all.

This happens because there are some in us who don't want to be blamed in some occasions when we know we are playing on our own will and when we lose then in the end we ourselves also bear it.
Blaming other parties including casinos would obviously be silly because after all we know that casinos are their place of business so it is quite natural when they get profits and we must be aware that our position is a player so this must be a consideration where the player will obviously lose when we are in gambling because it is a concept that although indirectly but this will happen sooner or later. Blaming others for the mess we make is cowardly and reflects that we still cannot take responsibility for ourselves.



Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: stompix on June 20, 2025, 11:04:34 AM
Casino is just there offering such nice platform to people and people abuse their selves that's why they came unto that point which they lose a lot or what even more worse is they started to experience heavy addiction that's why they can't decide to quit whenever the situation started to go so bad on their side.

Yeah right!
Casinos are just offering some nice games and they’re all fair and stuff like that,  until you dig deeper and see that some are offering RTPs below 80%, they withhold your money and do 1000 checks when you cash out and zero checks when you deposit, that they care so much about your health and addiction that they don’t enforce the self-exclusion list unless threatened with a lawsuit, and many more.

Let’s be honest here , how many times is your VIP host contacting you to offer a bonus if you deposit more, and how many times is he asking if you can afford the sums you play, or reminding you to only play what you can afford to lose and to take breaks when you do so?

It’s indeed not healthy to blame the casinos for all your losses, but portraying some of them that have turned into outright scams as angels just offering you a good time is ten times worse than that!


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Churchillvv on June 20, 2025, 11:19:40 AM
If you're the type of people who usually refuse to own up their mistakes you will keep looking for excuses to blame casinos, choices etc but if you know what it means to stand up to your own mistakes you wouldn't complain or fix excuses on what isn't the problem why you lost. and it's very important for a man because if you do own up to your responsibility you will know you flaws and find a way to fix them but if you give an excuse you will end up repeating the pattern.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on June 20, 2025, 11:28:04 AM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

I have not find myself in such a situation where I start shifting blame on the casino knowing too well it was my mistake or just the usual coincidence of the gambling process. For someone that doesn't have any experience yet, they might always blame the casino but that's not the issue, the casino is designed to win and nothing can be done about it, anyone that can not bear to withstand the process should just stop gambling because they can only win based on luck.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Gozie51 on June 20, 2025, 11:31:51 AM
I don't think I have blamed the casino for losing in a game. I don't have to do that. This is because before I go into playing and selecting my game, I already know that I should take responsibility for my actions and which is that I either lose or win. So making my mind up in that direction gives me that strong emotion and precision to take the best decision for myself. I know that I'm playing against an opponent or the casino and so I should be serious with it because my money is involved in it.

One major reason that some players turn back to blame casino is when they have overstaked and chase loses. Then you could hear something like there should have been limit to how many times you can bet or amount you can stake. Those are flimsy excuses that gamblers make because they have lost but they are happy when they win.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Merit.s on June 20, 2025, 11:37:35 AM
I haven't blamed the casino before for my lost but I have blamed my friends for my losses many times. I know that the casino has nothing to be blamed for only if it's a scam casino that their algorithm isn't provable fair.

I lost big one day, because my friend gave me a prediction to bet on and he told me that it's sure if I can use a big amount of money to bet on the game, that I will surely win big. Out of the eagerness to win big, I fell for it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Altryist on June 20, 2025, 11:48:52 AM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I doubt that players who understand how casinos work can blame anyone but themselves for losing. I will consider this from the point of view of betting, because it is closer to me. If I choose the bet myself, then I can only blame myself for my loss, maybe if my bet loses because of some player I will think about putting the blame for the loss on him, but the casino is definitely not to blame here. Maybe some players blame the casino when they lose in slots, I think that casinos are able to control probabilities, but this is also not true.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Beparanf on June 20, 2025, 12:00:42 PM
This happened to me many times in the past but for the record I play on shady casino that is now shutdown due to no players and lots of complaints.

My withdrawal was delayed too long that I become impatient. I blame them because they do have instant withdrawal feature as they advertised their casino before.

I learned my lesson by playing only on trusted casino.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: justinlamode on June 20, 2025, 12:03:30 PM
Blaming the casino is proof that the person has not really come to terms with what gambling is all about. No matter how smart or lucky we are, losses will always come, so we have to accept this sad reality and plan for the losses and not to blame casino for our greed and recklessness. Proper risk management and good control of greed are all that are required to gamble and not have any reason to blame anyone.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: stadus on June 20, 2025, 12:19:12 PM
Blaming the casino is proof that the person has not really come to terms with what gambling is all about. No matter how smart or lucky we are, losses will always come, so we have to accept this sad reality and plan for the losses and not to blame casino for our greed and recklessness. Proper risk management and good control of greed are all that are required to gamble and not have any reason to blame anyone.
That’s not real gambling if a gambler ends up blaming the casino, if they do that, it just shows they were in it to make money which has a high failure rate.
From the start, they clearly didn’t understand what kind of journey they were getting into.

People like that have no place in gambling as they're often the ones most prone to addiction. And the more that type of person increases, the worse it is for the gambling industry because it could lead to stricter regulations or even a government ban.

And that’s something we, as responsible gamblers, definitely don’t want to happen.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Cantsay on June 20, 2025, 01:22:14 PM

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I have already shared my experience countless number of times and I don’t really know why people would want to blame the casino or bookie for something that they know wasn’t the fault of the bookie? It’s really stupid because deep down you know that you were the cause of your loses but outside you’re just going around pointing finger at the casino making yourself feel better while your conscience keeps eating you.

The biggest loss I have experienced in gambling was caused as a result of me changing my initial bet - I can’t recall the exact team but I initially bet on team A to but after going through some discussions about the match and how everyone seems to have confidence in team B I went back to the bookie canceled the first bet and placed it on team B and that was the hugest amount I had ever placed on a single game. But, at the end of the game, team A won and I lost the bet. It was a sad experience for me and that’s why no matter what other people think about a game I don’t bother to change my bet on it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Accardo on June 20, 2025, 01:43:14 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
The reality is that once you've lost, there's always the urge to shift the blame to the next person which can be the casino or any third party. It's just a ways of trying to get oneselves out of the trauma of loss but in the real sense, such shift doesn't in any way bring back the amount you've lost. When I win, I always count it as loss and even before losing I always have it in mind that I can just lose the game at any point in time. That is one way that keeps me standing even when when I win or loose.

But it's a bad way of avoiding the trauma of losing in gambling. Taking up responsibility fixes mind control because we love ourself and won't find a good reason to be sad about our mistakes. Blaming someone else helps to raise up hostility, anger and retaliation. These factors suffer the player into a Lossing streak and regrets yet won't acknowledge that it's his fault. If only the person accepts the losses with not grudges, they wouldn't lose a lot in future.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: dimonstration on June 20, 2025, 01:47:02 PM
Blaming the casino is proof that the person has not really come to terms with what gambling is all about. No matter how smart or lucky we are, losses will always come, so we have to accept this sad reality and plan for the losses and not to blame casino for our greed and recklessness. Proper risk management and good control of greed are all that are required to gamble and not have any reason to blame anyone.

It’s a sign of immaturity and sore loser attitude. There’s a lot of user like this on scam accusation board that accusing casino for rigging their games despite the game itself is provably fair.

Sometimes losing your money clouded the mind to think logically instead they are resorting to blaming so that they can escape to the pain of losing.

I’m like this when I’m knew on dice site but back then it’s very hard to understand the PF system that’s why I always have doubt when I’m losing.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: joeperry on June 20, 2025, 01:51:06 PM
Yes it happened to me and of course a lot, I know it's my own fault but I'm just a person sometimes I just blame the casino for my own mistake. What happened is I am playing sports betting and beside the area where you can type amount is the enter key and beside it is the "max bet" and of course I misclicked it and place a bet and there's no cashout at that moment because the match is around 3 mins before the end, and in the end I lose the bet and I tried blaming the casino for it. (I didn't say it to them/send them a message and it's just in my head, but I know deep inside that it's my fault not double checking everything before placing a bet).


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: lienfaye on June 20, 2025, 01:54:14 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Well, to be honest yes. It happened when I was a new gambler in online casinos. I'm in denial of my own mistake, so I put the blame to the casino who took my money. I also accused them of not being fair that's why I lose. But the truth is, it happened because it's my own will, I lose because I gamble and even i'm not good in handling unwanted situation, I still chose to take risk.

Martingale strategy really hits me hard. I thought it's the effective way to get back fast my money but it's the opposite. Anyway, it's all in the past and I already learned from those experience.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: nutildah on June 20, 2025, 01:59:36 PM
Over the years, I've seen quite a few addicted gamblers tell their stories either here on in the Scam Accusation section -- people who truly don't know when to quit. Quite a few of the complainants blame the casino for their losses, how they shouldn't have allowed them to gamble so much, etc. And it can be a serious addiction, just like alcohol or cigarettes. But part of freedom is allowing people to have access to these vices. They are considered the little joys in life and most people don't develop serious problems with them. I would rather live in a society where such choice is available to me, which is why you'll never see me blaming casinos for existing and doing their thing.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Pandu Geddon on June 20, 2025, 02:02:53 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I have to admit that I have also felt something like that in the past. Especially in slot games. After losing, of course what happens is not accepting defeat and thinking that everything has been set by the slot provider and blaming them for cheating. The result is trying a new site, and the result is still complaining about the same results.
I realize that this thought is not something I fully believe in. It all arises because of an outburst of emotion and dissatisfaction with defeat.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Oluwa-btc on June 20, 2025, 02:06:55 PM

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?


Funny how some gamblers always want to push blames on things including the casino at the expense of their loses and make themselves feel like they got it all right. But I haven't being found in such situations as this and while gambling and little mistakes occur i would take the blame to myself other than pushing it to someone else or the casinos. So if any gamblers can't man up to their responsibilities then they shouldn't be found gambling.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: cryptomaniac_xxx on June 20, 2025, 02:10:13 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I have to admit that I have also felt something like that in the past. Especially in slot games. After losing, of course what happens is not accepting defeat and thinking that everything has been set by the slot provider and blaming them for cheating. The result is trying a new site, and the result is still complaining about the same results.
I realize that this thought is not something I fully believe in. It all arises because of an outburst of emotion and dissatisfaction with defeat.

Who wouldn't have gone thru this kind of situation? And I would say that this is regular for gamblers to blame everyone around him or her including casinos. But later we realized that there's no one to blame but ourselves.

We are the one who put money in the casino and not that other way around. But I guess it's human nature though to still look for excuses and be emotional specially if we lost big money. Heck, we might tell ourselves that we will not play on that casino again.

But days later here we go again, depositing and then the cycle repeats itself.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: bitzizzix on June 20, 2025, 02:18:43 PM
Shifting the blame has become part of human nature because of feelings of not accepting what happened and trying to shift the blame to the related parties or the casino because of uncontrolled emotions so that they look for reasons that are actually their own fault. I have felt that way but I can control it and immediately realize it because losing in gambling is a consequence that must be accepted with an open heart and fix it. And this is not because gamblers do not understand or understand gambling because everyone will definitely feel unacceptable when experiencing a big loss, especially for those who have a mediocre or lower middle income because I often find people like this who feel unacceptable with the defeat that occurred and ramble or talk to themselves unclearly accompanied by emotions and also blame the casino but this is only temporary. However, this is better than those who immediately shift the blame to the casino just wanting to get pity or there are also those who reveal it so that many people think that the casino is a fraud.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Free Market Capitalist on June 20, 2025, 02:22:45 PM
It hasn't happened to me, but because I've known what this is all about for a long time.

I have to admit that I have also felt something like that in the past. Especially in slot games. After losing, of course what happens is not accepting defeat and thinking that everything has been set by the slot provider and blaming them for cheating. The result is trying a new site, and the result is still complaining about the same results.
I realize that this thought is not something I fully believe in. It all arises because of an outburst of emotion and dissatisfaction with defeat.

You would be better off understanding that if the slots have an average RTP of 95, you go one day with $100 and what the machine will give you back on average in the long run is $95. As in the sessions the prizes it gives you are thrown back, that $95 becomes 90.25, and so on, until you lose it all. So if you go one night with $100 and in the first few spins you win a $5,000 jackpot, the best thing to do is cashout, spend the money and come back another day, because the machine has given you an unusually good result for you that in the long run is going to be compensated downwards with that tendency to 0 that the compound RTP has.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Peanutswar on June 20, 2025, 02:26:30 PM
In some point there is but at the end of the day before you make a risk on the deposit you knew already what will possibly happen, not all deposits are wins and not all games are profit, so me personally I do already knew that its just a funds that I'm willing to lose now its up to me how do I handle that possible risk to lessen with the assistance of the knowledge do I have with the game and skills through out the experience in playing gambling if there's a chance to blame a casino I guess if there's a technical error happens during the game which is unexpected.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: rachael9385 on June 20, 2025, 02:37:06 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I always take responsibility for my actions, I'm aware of that risks that gambling comes with so I don't blame the casino for my mistakes. Gambling is a 50/50 thing, this means that you are ready to put your money on the and accept whatever outcomes you get from it. As a gambler that's responsible you are not supposed to exceed your limits and start blaming the casino when things don't go your way


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: $crypto$ on June 20, 2025, 02:39:21 PM
Will not justify yourself, because you used to blame the casino for the losses you experienced, maybe because of high lust then threw out the words, but still play casino even though you have experienced defeat.

This pattern is still experienced by many people, maybe they are not aware of the emotions it causes, now they are aware that they cannot blame the casino entirely because gambling is a matter of luck not skill.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: danherbias07 on June 20, 2025, 02:45:56 PM
It actually happened to me just recently, last night.

Instead of betting just 1, I forgot that the game resets to its default betting amount whenever the game is refreshed. I pressed it twice, betting 40, and I know it was my mistake.
Still, this could actually be fixed. Most slot games have a memory of your bets. Let's say the default is 5 and you change it to 1. Even if you refresh the game, it will still start at 1 because of its memory for each user.
I don't blame the slot provider, though. It's on us to be keen on details before we press the bet button.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: CryptoHeadlineNews on June 20, 2025, 02:46:05 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
Deep down to ourselves, I'm pretty sure that every gambler knows that just the same way he/she prays to win a game while gambling, that's the exact same way the casino prays that gamblers loses their bet too, so that they can make more profits. And as such, been a good and experience gambler that had got knowledge about all this, it is only wise enough such individual gambles responsibly, knowing fully well that he/she will bear the full responsibility if he either wins or loses. Because blaming a casino will literally not solve any issue, but learning proper money management and self control will go a long way in helping you make the right decision at all times.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: alastantiger on June 20, 2025, 02:49:34 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here… Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

Always I do this but I have started to learn how to control myself and avoid blaming others or the casino when I lose. Blaming others has been a way for me running away from my responsibilities and when I discovered that's what I was doing, I started looking for various means in which I can use to stop doing this. What I ended up with is that immediately I lose. I just let it go and not try to justify why I lost. I noticed when I started looking for reasons, I don't attack myself but put the blame on others. We're responsible for our own losses because despite who gave you the betting code, you're still the one that decided to make use of the code and nobody forced you to put your money. If you were to win, you won't give credit to the right source but claim the victory hence as you lose, do well to claim the lost


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: mak013 on June 20, 2025, 02:52:51 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
There are two things why i blame casinos.
First of them: When i limited after several wins in a row. I understand why they do it, but i think that it mustn`t be my problem.
Second: When casino cancels bets. If casino decide that it is fixed match or if the bookie made a mistake - they cancel bets. I understand it, it is right decision, but i`m angry.
PS. And when i make hedge bet - they cancel only win bet. After it i think that i can blame them.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Dunamisx on June 20, 2025, 02:58:38 PM
To clarify the air the more, most of the losses we had in gambling were often shifted blame ion the gambling platforms, while wee failed to result our winning as well to them being the main reason behind how we won, it is better that we learn to know how to gamble in a more responsible manner and stop shifting blame on anyone, because I've also seen some gamblers trying to blame their friends for influence on how they missed the winning opportunity, when the decision to conclude on how to play lies on their own hands, yet they find someone to blame for their loss.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: coin-investor on June 20, 2025, 03:32:50 PM

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I take my losses on myself. This is gambling, it's already a gamble picking the casino to play, so no use blaming the casino you picked to play, and if you open an accusation, you will just shame yourself and you will look stupid,  because people will find out that you are a sore loser and your accusation is just to blame the casino for your losses.
The casino can defend itself from wrong and weak accusations, so it's pretty useless to open an accusation just to blame the casino, and besides, it's immature not to own your mistake.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: goldkingcoiner on June 20, 2025, 03:35:27 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I think most people who are blaming casinos on this forum complain about the casinos in question freezing their funds or denying their withdrawals after a large win. And while many of these complaints are effectively just people complaining about getting caught breaking the terms of service of said casino in one way or another, there are also a lot of legitimate complaints about casinos acting in bad faith by conducting bad business practices or outright unfair scams.

This is rare but it does happen. Especially with casinos that have had many people making the same claims in the past.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Aanuoluwatofunmi on June 20, 2025, 03:44:00 PM
Anger and vexation are part of what makes some gamblers to put on blames to the casinos, forgetting that they are not the ones taking in the decisions for us, instead they only provides us with the gambling opportunity and services, while we are left to make choice on what we want as we are gambling, meanwhile, if we don't want to run into unplanned circumstances like this, we had better adjust and calm down the way we are gambling and ensure we make a proper analysis base on the risk in gambling before playing games.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: asarfiar on June 20, 2025, 03:47:55 PM
To clarify the air the more, most of the losses we had in gambling were often shifted blame ion the gambling platforms, while wee failed to result our winning as well to them being the main reason behind how we won, it is better that we learn to know how to gamble in a more responsible manner and stop shifting blame on anyone, because I've also seen some gamblers trying to blame their friends for influence on how they missed the winning opportunity, when the decision to conclude on how to play lies on their own hands, yet they find someone to blame for their loss.
I agree with you. Nowadays, there are many people who participate in gambling games without gaining much experience in gambling. Gambling is not just a matter of pleasure, it is a game where your financial condition is completely dependent. Many people participate in gambling games with friends for pleasure. At one stage, it is seen that they lose. One thing to note here is that in addition to gaining experience in gambling, you should also participate in gambling games regularly. If you participate in gambling games regularly, your chances of winning will be very high and you will not have the opportunity to depend on anyone.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Kelward on June 20, 2025, 03:58:51 PM
Sometimes when people make wrong choices it's always easier to blame the system or others to feel better and justified that it's not their fault. If you gamble irresponsibly and lose, it doesn't matter how much you choose to blame the casinos, it won't bring your money back. When you gamble you want to take from the casino likewise the casino wants to take from you too. What some gamblers don't know is that casinos have an edge over us gamblers so we need to knowledgeable house edge before gambling. Have knowledge about how gambling works to avoid blaming them unnecessarily when you lose.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Slow death on June 20, 2025, 04:01:31 PM
Fortunately, I haven't been in this situation, but I've read a lot of news about people complaining about various situations they've experienced at the casino. One of them is that they pressed the self-exclusion button and during the period of time that the casino took to exclude the account, it warned people to withdraw all their money, not make any new deposits and not play.

They didn't listen and deposited money, played and lost. Then they started to blame the casino for not having stopped them from playing. These types of stories have been increasing in number. People with gambling problems tend to blame the casino even when the mistake is on their side.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: YOSHIE on June 20, 2025, 04:07:12 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
The point: I will not violate the casino, if the defeat that I experienced really from myself, I really understand what a game is, you can win and you can lose it is already a law of nature in the gambling arena.

I might blame the casino, if they don't pay my victory for various reasons, but I have not experienced that right, some of my casinos Use them to pay, but the mistakes come from me of course I will blame myself not a casino and as well.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: justinlamode on June 20, 2025, 04:08:35 PM
Most the complaints against casinos in this forum are from people who might have had bad experience with the casinos like being accused of cheating, forced to submit KYC and having their funds seized for one reason or the other. I have not seen people complaining about casinos for losing because everyone should already know that gambling is a game of luck and there is no guarantee of winning. There also instances people complain of certain games not being fair to the players, maybe due to the casinos interfering with the game, although such complaint is minimal. Some complaints are genuine while some are baseless, but the truth is that people will always complain when they perceive unfair treatment.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Obim34 on June 20, 2025, 04:19:58 PM
This happened to me many times in the past but for the record I play on shady casino that is now shutdown due to no players and lots of complaints.

My withdrawal was delayed too long that I become impatient. I blame them because they do have instant withdrawal feature as they advertised their casino before.

I learned my lesson by playing only on trusted casino.
It might not be blaming but times when the casino begins to look fishy you have to complain and ask what's wrong. Some casino are not real as they say especially the new ones, if the house hedge is too big and complains are coming from many gamblers aswell, it is okay to blame the casino but on standard circumstances of losing money in the casino, you don't first blame the casino, the house is always the survivor, at times luck shines on our sides not always.

Gamblers are impatient when trying to withdraw their win, if the casino has a really long time for withdrawal it will reduce participation on that casino, that is the primary factor to look into before using any casino.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: crwth on June 20, 2025, 04:20:49 PM
I see this often, and sometimes they blame the RTP and the house edge. I agree that it is about taking accountability for your actions. I think that's the most common thing with gambling addicts: they see the problem with what they are doing. Those people are somewhat narcissistic in that they don't see anything wrong with how they approach gambling.

I see that you need to take responsibility and not blame anyone else.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Patikno on June 20, 2025, 04:41:15 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I used to be someone who blamed a casino for my loss, but that was in the past when I didn't know anything about gambling, after I found out that the casino's game system was fair, I started not blaming the casino anymore until now. We all know that every game in a casino is fair enough, and one of the reasons is the RNG system used, which makes the game results random, while if there are people who play sports betting but blame the casino, then this type of person is really not smart, and in fact people who think like this are around me.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Zlantann on June 20, 2025, 04:41:51 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Gambling has an age limit because they want only people who can take full responsibility for their actions and inactions to gamble. If you blame a casino for your loss while you are aware that it was your mistake,  you are not qualified to gamble. Maybe you should quit.

During my early years of gambling, I would sometimes complain that a casino was not fair if I had a long losing streak. Due to my inexperience, it is common to make mistakes, but I will still blame the casino. But that's not the case today because I am more experienced and use only reputable casinos.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: sunsilk on June 20, 2025, 04:56:31 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I think everyone has common experience about that. We win, we don't blame anyone nor the casino but only ourselves because we bet for it.

But when we've been losing, there is no other one to blame but only the casinos. We mess up, and there is no admission of our mistakes because we think that it should be us who's only good at winning.

And when we're losing, it's definitely the casinos that we're pointing to. At some point, I guess that everyone have their fair share about blaming the casinos but that's wrong.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Agbamoni on June 20, 2025, 04:58:50 PM
Maturity in gambling means you are ready to take responsibly of your actions no matter the outcome. Shifting blame to the casino or the closest person involved in the process is immaturity. Yes. casinos are designed to have edge over the house, but that is not enough reasons why we should blame them for the choices we make.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Mrbluntzy on June 20, 2025, 05:36:33 PM
Casino is another man's legal business that is designed to give customers pleasure and deceive them into believing that they can win something tangible while the win rate is already know to be so small. In that case, there's no reason to man up, if you can not spend a certain amount in gambling, don't start it believing that you are going to man up, when you man up, you continue losing. There are sometimes you would doubt if the game you are playing is even returning fair reward because you don't know when the casino is manipulating things and when they are not, that's why you don't even have to start it when you can not bear it or afford it. Don't man up  to think you can be lucky next time, if you can not lose just $1 without thinking about it, don't gamble, it's applicable to everyone and how much they can gamble with and not bother about it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Apocollapse on June 20, 2025, 05:41:15 PM
I still see many gamblers are like that.

They blame the casinos instead of themselves, the casinos can't be blamed because the system was been like that, it's up to the gamblers who accept it or not.

We can blame the casinos if the casinos did something ridiculous like cancel withdrawal, reject KYC etc. You can blame as long as you're right.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: shield132 on June 20, 2025, 05:44:21 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I haven't lost a lot and in my life, I'm in a big profit against casinos but when I was a kid and a newbie in the gambling world, when I was using a martigale strategy and had no idea about house edge, then I was blaming casinos because I couldn't imagine how it was possible that while I was playing Dice, over 49.5 wouldn't appear 10 times in a row but later when I grew up, learned some advanced math and matured, I understood that there is a house edge that gives casinos a guaranteed advantage over players and I started to look at things differently. Casinos don't need to cheat because they use house edge. For me, casino is like a video game. When I want to play a video game, I buy it on a steam and then play. In casino, if you want to have some fun, you pay for that experience too. You can play every game for free, except live casino games. Live casinos cost a lot, they need equipment, teams, shuffler, dealers and etc, so when I play it and lose the hand, I tell myself that it's the price I pay for having this fun experience because everything these costs money and I pay a small money to experience that. If I win, that's a bonus for me, not the goal of my gambling sessinos.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: m2017 on June 20, 2025, 05:51:25 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
The gambler should feel guilty because all the conditions in the casino are created in such a way that he will end up a loser and purely mathematically his chances of winning are extremely small? :)

In fact, the gambler is "guilty" of only one thing. When, instead of wisely managing his money (investing or otherwise profitably managing it), the gambler "in pursuit of quick and easy money" decides to take a risk in the casino.

Almost all losers will blame the casino, not themselves. Who wants to admit their mistakes? No one.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: lionheart78 on June 20, 2025, 05:52:44 PM
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Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

I have read some members creating thread blaming the casino for being unfair.  Telling us that the casino is not implementing provably fair games.  Some even accused the casino of rigging the games while others think that casino games are set up in a way where the player is betting a bigger amount of money than his usual bet will have lower RTP.
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This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

True this kind of mindset can mess with us to the point of being paranoid by publicly accusing the casino without concrete evidence.

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

No, I never blame the casino for my losses. I am well aware that the casino is a business and is set up in a way the house has the edge.  So it is not surprising for me if I end up emptying my bankroll if I become careless, it is up to me to be cautious and avoid such result.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Oasisman on June 20, 2025, 06:00:20 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

Nope. I haven't put any blame to the casino or any other gambling places because of my stupid losses. I held myself accountable all the time. I never actually thought that someone have this kind of mentality. However, the only time someone can blame a casino or any gambling place, which I find it valid, is when you learned after losing that they are being unfair or cheating on you and all the other people dealing with their business. Outside of that, it's all on you.
It's actually not so common to find someone who had a solid evidence that a casino is actually cheating against their clients.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Perfectbaby on June 20, 2025, 06:00:43 PM
From the onset of my gambling I have never blamed the casino because I know one thing for sure is that we can never be 100 percent right in gambling neither would the casino make winning so common to the gambler, therefore as a gambler you must be prepared for any lose because you can never expect winning all time because already we know gambling Is a game of chances And probability so, anyone gambling should be willing to accept whatever results they may have than panicking or blaming the casino for their loses. I think anyone who keep blaming casinos for their loses aren't really a gambler and does not understand the rules of the game before joining the line of gamblers.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: BitMaxz on June 20, 2025, 06:07:55 PM
I don't have a similar case. If I lose, small or big, why would I blame the casino since I am the one who decides if I am willing to risk my money at the casino?
In my case, if I lose big, I accept the fact that I lost and regret why I'm too aggressive to bet a big amount.

Maybe those other people who are blaming casinos are expecting at least to win half of their bankroll. We shouldn't treat casinos as a source of income; we should think that we gamble for fun, not for profit.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: DaNNy001 on June 20, 2025, 07:59:54 PM
Gamblers need to learn to accept defeat instead of thinking that they are being cheated by the Casino...of course it's not a charity organization and your are bound to lose your stakes at anytime... It's a winning and losing game...most people tend to forget when they win but they get pissed off and think that they are being cheated when they lose...you have to be more mature mentally otherwise quit gambling


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Agbe on June 20, 2025, 09:00:12 PM
The truth is that most people don't like accepting blame as they will like to shift the blame to the casino but I don't think that blaming the casino for your will full actions is the right thing to do because gambling is something that is done without the pressure from anyone casinos are just doing business so they will do any thing possible to attract customers to their business the thing there is that when the temptation of gambling without control comes in we just has to set boundaries for ourselves by having self control


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Fortify on June 20, 2025, 09:16:36 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

This applies to many addictions in life and the modern world we live in where everyone is the "victim" instead of facing up to the consequences of your own actions. While I think that people should be offered help with addiction, they ultimately have to want that change deep down before it will actually take affect. At a certain point personal responsibility plays a part and children are too often taught there are no consequences for bad actions in life. A real man (or woman) will take responsibility for their own future and that includes not frittering away their hard earned money by giving every dollar to the casino. I have much more respect for people who have lost everything and learned a lesson, than I do for people who keep digging that same hole every day.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: peter0425 on June 20, 2025, 09:32:21 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Is it not human nature to want to defend ourselves and instead blame others? Lol. It’s pride. We can’t admit to others that we have lost. I wouldn’t call losing in gambling stupid, it’s just unlucky.
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So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I don’t have any stories as such but I’m also curious how many people spread bad reviews about a casino just for this reason alone.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: baeva on June 20, 2025, 09:36:10 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

Nope. I haven't put any blame to the casino or any other gambling places because of my stupid losses. I held myself accountable all the time. I never actually thought that someone have this kind of mentality. However, the only time someone can blame a casino or any gambling place, which I find it valid, is when you learned after losing that they are being unfair or cheating on you and all the other people dealing with their business. Outside of that, it's all on you.
It's actually not so common to find someone who had a solid evidence that a casino is actually cheating against their clients.


Cases of cheating are quite trivial and if there are any, it is definitely not in popular casinos that have already earned their reputation. Of the banal ways to cheat the user is simply not to withdraw the funds he won, or simply ban the account, if we talk about online casinos. In physical casinos I think there is no deception towards users for a long time now


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Su-asa on June 20, 2025, 09:41:01 PM
If you cannot accept losses then it's better to stay away from gambling. You can't blame the casino for your losses, the only time you have the right to blame the casino is when your wins are not properly settled, no one is going to take the side of the casino when it comes to things like this. But in the aspect of losing you should know that it's just a game and at the end of the day anything can happen


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: gunhell16 on June 20, 2025, 09:42:53 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I think that there are many times when the mistakes we make are really our own, but because of our pride and sometimes the confidence that we feel, this is what motivates us to think that what we are doing is still right even though in reality it is really wrong.

These feelings are just like ego to us that we have a hard time accepting that we are the ones who made the mistake, it seems like that, though I have not experienced losing a big amount but it seems like this is what I often see from what I read here on the forum, particularly from others who complain about the casino platform they gambled on but in the end it turns out that they are the ones who made the mistake.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Miles2006 on June 20, 2025, 09:50:42 PM
Op is right, trying to blame the casino as a means of self care doesn’t make any sense rather it makes things more worst like an addiction. Few gamblers blame the casino then decide to quit because they feel the casino just drain their money meant for something else, it’s understandable if they never get addicted by gambling consistent. There’s this guilt whenever I encounter a huge lose or probably I had hope winning the game, I don’t blame the casino instead I regret betting when I had zero interest meaning gambling activity comes with a kind of mood well I guess not everyone will develop the courage to accept defeat or accepting the fact they made a mistake then try some other day with a good mindset although gambling is not that cool because having a good mindset doesn’t guarantee a win.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Onyeeze on June 20, 2025, 09:53:26 PM
Many gamblers does that, and that is on of the things that make me to listen to people who complain about casinos website and their games, sometimes some players or gamblers have realised that the reasons why they gambles almost every day in gambling and lose is their faults, but they will portion the blame to another person in order to free their self from getting much emotions, so that is why you need to keep quiet whenever you see a gamblers complaining to you of its lost in the gambling.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Shinpako09 on June 20, 2025, 09:57:00 PM
Yes, the blame should be on us because we’re the ones playing, but I think that kind of reaction is normal for a player. I’ve cursed the casino a lot when I’m losing, just to release my frustrations. But I also end up cursing myself afterward because deep down, I know it’s my fault. Still, I tend to blame them most of the time, even though I know better. Especially when I’m winning, I feel overly confident, then the red streaks come. I start chasing losses and end up betting higher instead of just playing normally like I did at the start. But I still blame them, coz, again, that's my way of releasing my frustrations for what I did.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ojima-ojo on June 20, 2025, 10:04:56 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
We have often lose because of our stands and the way we take positions on game's that are available to us to bet on, one of the Major things that affects us the most is the greed factors, offen times, gambler's allow they greed to have the better part of them to the point that they start picking game's based on that feeling following high odds whereas those odds are just tricks to lose their money along the line.


There is need to be realistic in dealing with our game's and at the same time, being accurate means a lot in terms of selecting the right game to win on.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Davidvictorson on June 20, 2025, 10:09:04 PM
This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?
Finally someone had to say it. Some people would go and register on a casino that is unknown without any reputation and when they get scammed or their account gets banned they would come here and blame the casino for it. This is wrong it is all the persons for fault. Furthermore, if you don't know your risk level and you lose knowing that the casinos has an house edge, it is on you. We are calling a spade a spade.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: robelneo on June 20, 2025, 10:09:33 PM

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

There's no use blaming the casino it will backfire on you if you blame it and make it public people will see that's you're a bad loser I know the consequences of blaming others when you really is at fault I learned my lesson the hardway, one lesson is enough to teach me when it comes to gambling you are in full responsibility of your action and and blaming others will just add misery to your losses, the best thing to do is to move forward get it over as soon as possible.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: GxSTxV on June 20, 2025, 10:16:24 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
True, that happened to me multiple times, even though I didn’t go to the casino contacting them directly about losing because of them. However, after losing a lot of money for bad luck, or the game I chose was just not good for me, I felt like the games were manipulated by the casino, but the truth is just having a bad day gambling and instead of taking responsibility for my actions, I went searching deep to prove the casino is just manipulating games for their own profit.

Overall, I personally think once you deposit any amount into a casino, it’s good to enjoy it and count it as gone until you get lucky. Anything else, losing or being unlucky that day is totally on my responsibility.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Smartvirus on June 20, 2025, 10:50:52 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

That’s completely delusional to know that it’s clearly your fault and choose to blame it on the casinos. I mean, every gambler out there is clearly gambling on their own decision. Now, how is it not your fault if you are gambling on your own terms… if any gambler feels there are tricks to the game? Then why gamble at all since, you’re going to be tricked into loosing anyway! Should you go ahead with it, then you are sure okay with the terms to the game.

I have never had that feeling, I always know it’s my decision to gamble and the loses are always welcomed too.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: len01 on June 20, 2025, 11:28:06 PM
First of all I often hear a gambler say that casino X is very good always giving benefits and bonuses etc. But the next day that gambler says the opposite and says casino X is very bad, cheating, system manipulation etc. This is familiar to me.  :D


If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I'd rather be realistic and say about honesty that I always admit my own mistakes when losing bets and choosing the wrong options. But I never brag about a particular casino to defend myself because I recognize that winning or losing is something normal in gambling. And I also realize that we gamble just for fun and to test our luck.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: blockman on June 20, 2025, 11:46:33 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Not my story but it's a typical thing in our country when all of those gamblers that had a bad day, they're blaming the casinos at all times. And we'll just fed them with some justification that they shouldn't gamble in the first place so that they will not lose anything at all. We do not like that when we're losing and we don't take it into account. What mostly happens is we look for the benefits only and when losing streaks are shooting from the above and we're catching it, we become depress. And this is what's happening in most of our countrymen that are into online gambling. They blame the casinos and even throws their phones because many of them are gambling through their devices and the apps that are required to download out of bitterness.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: lovesmayfamilis on June 21, 2025, 06:52:55 AM
Finding fault with another person, or in this case, the casino is typical of a person who has never grown up. Such individuals will always accuse the world of injustice, not realizing such a trifle-that all the problems that exist in our lives are always created by us. Therefore, do not be surprised to see in the fraud section so many accusations and accusers of casinos that allegedly do not get paid. Almost everyone does something wrong or illegal and then begins to complain.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: SATWAT on June 21, 2025, 07:40:47 AM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Not my story but it's a typical thing in our country when all of those gamblers that had a bad day, they're blaming the casinos at all times. And we'll just fed them with some justification that they shouldn't gamble in the first place so that they will not lose anything at all. We do not like that when we're losing and we don't take it into account. What mostly happens is we look for the benefits only and when losing streaks are shooting from the above and we're catching it, we become depress. And this is what's happening in most of our countrymen that are into online gambling. They blame the casinos and even throws their phones because many of them are gambling through their devices and the apps that are required to download out of bitterness.
This is not story of one country because it's happened around us everywhere we never check our mistakes and never do self-accountability because this can end many problems always blaming others or crying about things which are not possible give us loses and regret at the end.
Good education and better and positive engagements with our nearby peoples can end many problems before they started but this need strong character and powerful mind which can accept mistakes and then start better way of living many peoples around me living terrible life because they fail to accept ground realities and have done mistakes on time when they needed to be show some balance things.
Recent social media revolution is also had negative impact on lives because mostly peoples are going with wrong side of this instead of taking good lessons for having better things around life.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: avp2306 on June 21, 2025, 09:02:35 AM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Not my story but it's a typical thing in our country when all of those gamblers that had a bad day, they're blaming the casinos at all times. And we'll just fed them with some justification that they shouldn't gamble in the first place so that they will not lose anything at all. We do not like that when we're losing and we don't take it into account. What mostly happens is we look for the benefits only and when losing streaks are shooting from the above and we're catching it, we become depress. And this is what's happening in most of our countrymen that are into online gambling. They blame the casinos and even throws their phones because many of them are gambling through their devices and the apps that are required to download out of bitterness.

Well people already know such action done by gamblers which cannot accept their defeat. They would just embarrassed their selves for doing crazy action since people won't believe on their immature actions done to the casino they are playing.

What's more better for them if they can't accept defeat is to quit playing since by having that attitude it means that they are not ready for gambling because they don't know how to manage the risk that's why they usually get a problem while engaging in this activity then what's more worse is they blame on the casino after they lose on their bad decisions made.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: sompitonov on June 21, 2025, 09:12:39 AM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Not my story but it's a typical thing in our country when all of those gamblers that had a bad day, they're blaming the casinos at all times. And we'll just fed them with some justification that they shouldn't gamble in the first place so that they will not lose anything at all. We do not like that when we're losing and we don't take it into account. What mostly happens is we look for the benefits only and when losing streaks are shooting from the above and we're catching it, we become depress. And this is what's happening in most of our countrymen that are into online gambling. They blame the casinos and even throws their phones because many of them are gambling through their devices and the apps that are required to download out of bitterness.

Well people already know such action done by gamblers which cannot accept their defeat. They would just embarrassed their selves for doing crazy action since people won't believe on their immature actions done to the casino they are playing.

What's more better for them if they can't accept defeat is to quit playing since by having that attitude it means that they are not ready for gambling because they don't know how to manage the risk that's why they usually get a problem while engaging in this activity then what's more worse is they blame on the casino after they lose on their bad decisions made.
The thing is that you need to understand - losses are also part of the game and you can't do without them. Of course, there will be players who will go to the casino for the first time and win a lot of money, but there will be so few of them that they can be considered lucky 1 in a million. I will not fly in the clouds and think that the same will happen to me, I just play and realistically assess my capabilities. I know how to lose, because I understand that casinos make money on people like me, and luck comes by chance. Sometimes I think that it is the players' self-confidence and thoughts that they are exceptional that interfere with their game process. Still, it is important to understand that all players are equal, you can only manage your emotions and game strategies.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: btc_angela on June 21, 2025, 10:12:41 AM
Finding fault with another person, or in this case, the casino is typical of a person who has never grown up. Such individuals will always accuse the world of injustice, not realizing such a trifle-that all the problems that exist in our lives are always created by us. Therefore, do not be surprised to see in the fraud section so many accusations and accusers of casinos that allegedly do not get paid. Almost everyone does something wrong or illegal and then begins to complain.

It's the hard truth, it's really hard not to blame the casino if you have lost big and it's a sign that you are still immature. We should really take responsibility of what we do, our actions have consequences and so if we lose then we should be man enough and accept our defeat.

But I guess there are still people who didn't have the courage or at least not grown enough despite years of gambling. They find the casinos at fault and then even have the guts to put up a scam accusations against top tier casinos.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: mindrust on June 21, 2025, 11:23:29 AM
True dat. Casinos don’t force us to play. We play because we like to play. It only gets dangerous when we gamble too much, lose our control over our emotions, the greed takes over. These are our own fault. The casino isn’t responsible for our mistakes.

But you know it is much easier to blame others when we fail at something. If we take responsibility for our own mistakes, then we’ll have to ask why we have made those mistakes. And the answer is often the same. “We were dumb” Most people don’t want to admit that but if they can’t admit it, they will never improve so, ignoring the root of the problem is not smart either. And just like that they insist on being dumb instead of making a progress.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: kotajikikox on June 21, 2025, 11:35:09 AM
But you know it is much easier to blame others when we fail at something. If we take responsibility for our own mistakes, then we’ll have to ask why we have made those mistakes. And the answer is often the same. “We were dumb” Most people don’t want to admit that but if they can’t admit it, they will never improve so, ignoring the root of the problem is not smart either. And just like that they insist on being dumb instead of making a progress.
People are often shy when they lose. They think it’s a sign of weakness. Winning in gambling makes people boastful and egotistical and when they lose, they don’t like to show it. If there is any chance he loses and people see it he will do everything to make it seem like it wasn’t his fault. This is how a man with no maturity thinks.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: maydna on June 21, 2025, 11:44:24 AM
I don't blaming the casino for my losses but feeling regret why I use that big money to gambling. I will blaming because of that myself and perhaps, leaving gambling for a while will be better for me to calm down myself.

We should admitted our mistake and cause us lose big money in gambling. We can not blaming the casino because they don't ask us to keep playing gambling. It is our personal decision and the casino only show their promotions.

It is not justify if we do that thing because we know the risk of playing gambling. That is why we need to be careful in gambling and not let us to use more money if we are not ready with the losses.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Nwada001 on June 21, 2025, 11:54:10 AM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
I can't recall shifting blame for my failure into something else. This is something I don't like doing. Taking responsibility for my actions will help me know how to handle that next time, but I can also recall one time when I was using a phone with a faulty screen, and I was playing Aviator (the crash game) when it got to about 10 multipliers, and I was struggling to cash out. My touchscreen decided to start malfunctioning, which led to the game ending before I could succeed. I can also recall blaming my phone for that loss that day but later taking it back to myself because the moment I placed a bet, I should have already regarded that money as something which was gone.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: ovcijisir on June 21, 2025, 12:04:09 PM
I never blame casino because their business is to earn money from people who gamble. If I deposit I already count that I will lose that money, if I earn anything that's pure luck and exception. If you accept that mindset you will never be tempted to blame casino again.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Z390 on June 21, 2025, 12:14:45 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

The blames are everywhere, even on this forum I've read many topics about how casinos locked them out or how they aren't able to withdraw their money anymore but down the road you will see that they are to be blame for their actions.

Using two accounts on casinos.
Not going through the casinos terms and conditions.
Spending bad Bitcoin on the casino internationally to get good money out.
The crimes goes on and on.

No one is willing to admit that the faults was theirs to begin with, this doesn't mean that few casinos are not guilty too but most times it's the gamblers playing games on people so as to get free defenders out of the people.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: swogerino on June 21, 2025, 01:09:10 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I have blamed the slot provider and I still do, the Pragmatic Play provider. One day just like any other day before I quit spending excessive money in gambling I was playing Rabbit Garden slot from them, it made me do 24 consecutive buy bonuses conclude as lost ones and that alone was crazy. I still tried right after these 24 buy bonuses to buy 5 super buy bonuses in Sweet Bonanza 1000 and guess what, they were all lost also, I consider this the world record of bad luck and I think I am right to have blamed the provider together with the casino doing such thing at that time in January of this year. I thank them now though as thanks to them I am free from gambling addiction as I stood up and decided to never do this mistake again, I only play now 20-30 dollars a month from 100 or more dollars a week I used to spend before.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Crypto Library on June 21, 2025, 01:15:11 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Actually, no such incident has happened in my gambling experience so far. Because I know that gambling depends entirely on luck and besides, I never gamble at unpopular or non-reputable casinos so that there is no chance of that they can scam me so I would blame them.

I think each of us should remember before going to gamble that it depends entirely on luck and I can lose or win my entire fund in a moment. So we have to bet on that assumption so that we don't face any big losses. For which we don't have to blame anyone.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: taufik123 on June 21, 2025, 01:38:10 PM
I never blame casino because their business is to earn money from people who gamble. If I deposit I already count that I will lose that money, if I earn anything that's pure luck and exception. If you accept that mindset you will never be tempted to blame casino again.
But some people will never think that they will continue to lose in the casino,
I will expect to win even though the percentage of wins will not always be big.

Some legal casinos that have been audited provide a high RTP rate that provides a chance for players to win,
although it ultimately depends on the management done and how much is put into the casino.

Blaming the casino for losing more money is actually not justified if you have done research on the chosen casino,
good management for a more effective use of capital and the main goal is in gambling. 
Casinos have a high risk so they must be aware that losing is a natural thing as long as it can still be controlled.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: r_victory on June 21, 2025, 02:27:30 PM
I used to shift the blame onto others. I did this with casinos at first. I said they were all programmed to steal. When I bet and lost, I used that fact to say I was right. Deep down, I knew that most of my losses were caused by my own stubbornness. I could have stopped and walked away with a small profit, but I kept going until I lost everything. Over time, I learned to have self-control and take responsibility for choices that were solely my own.

I would like to take this opportunity to recommend a book that helped me a lot in this regard: The Power of Self-Responsibility (author Paulo Vieira). I don't know if there is an English version, but if you can find it, it's definitely worth reading.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Josefjix on June 21, 2025, 02:51:02 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
Yeah, I've seen similar situation that happened to my cousin few weeks ago, he placed a long bet of about 14 games in sport betting and about 10 games has played so far.

The platform showed him cashout option to withdraw out 14k Naira and he refused, saying all the games wanna be played, I instructed him to proceed cashing out but he refused.

After some few times, the 11th game was going sideways and not what he predicted, by then the platform was not showing the cashout option anymore, he started blaming the platform for their stupid actions of not showing cashout option again when I knew that it's all his fault to not cashing out the first time.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Grace333 on June 21, 2025, 03:04:00 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Those who truly aren't mature blame casinos for their losses. Well it's really easy to understand,  the casinos are just bunch of running code, and we barely hear of cases where casino spend your money for you. Every action taken by the casino is executed by a human being, so if you lost your money, you actually did it yourself, the only connection with the casino is that they were the channel you used in exhausting your bank roll, casinos should be immune to accusations like this because they did nothing.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: uneng on June 21, 2025, 03:10:20 PM
Worst yet when the gambler goes ahead and sues the casino for the loss he faced, claiming he is a problem gambler and that he had a self exclusion feature enabled at some point in the past, therefore it's responsability of the casino to return him the lost funds.

However, this kind of gambler ignores the fact he disabled the feature himself or cheated the feature somehow, so he could continue gambling. Moreover, if profit was reached by the gambler, he wouldn't be blaming the casino for allowing him to continue playing, therefore, he wouldn't wish to return the prize received to the house.

In every cases, people who can't take responsability for their own acts and decisions are dangerous and can create lots of issues for people around, including the services they make use. So, as soon as you spot an individual like that, stay away, or at least protect yourself with data and enough proof in your favour if you need to explain something later.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: bias on June 21, 2025, 04:19:25 PM
Are you really convinced it’s a 50/50 shot? Either way, that’s not what matters most, what counts is taking responsibility and knowing the risks we’re facing. If we own that, we’ll never find ourselves blaming the casino for our own mistakes. Nobody’s forcing us to play, so if we lose, that loss is on us.. unless the house is actually cheating, which almost never happens.

The big problem is that if the casino is cheating, you will lose a lot of money until you or someone else figures it out. So, you will blame yourself for your bad luck instead of the casino. However, I agree that if we understand from the start that we are the ones who have the responsibility for our actions/ bets, then blaming the casino doesn't help. IMO, the people who do this are the most addicted ones.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: free-bit.co.in on June 21, 2025, 05:50:47 PM
True dat. Casinos don’t force us to play. We play because we like to play. It only gets dangerous when we gamble too much, lose our control over our emotions, the greed takes over. These are our own fault. The casino isn’t responsible for our mistakes.

yeah, actually most of the time people often blame the casino when they lose but we never question our own judgment. when you win it feels great, so you completely ignore house edge. everyone should keep in mind gambling always has two sides fun & risk. You know when real danger comes? it comes if you bet more than you can afford or chase losses, and that is when addiction also headed up.

actually awareness is important here, if people treat gambling as just a tool of entertainment not as a digital money making machine then they could avoid most losses. Gambler should set their limits, while betting you should controll your emotion, also keeping track your losses keeps the game under control.

Depositing extra bitcoin to the casino is like walking into a trap. one last thing be humble, know your limit when to stop, and blame yourself when you face lose, not the casino. That is how people could gamble responsibly.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: retreat on June 21, 2025, 06:39:41 PM
But the funny thing is, there are many gamblers like that - the moment they lose several times in a row, they immediately blame the casino. They quickly accuse it of having a rigged system that robs them of the chance to win more money. In reality, the fault lies entirely with those who chase losses or bet emotionally, unable to control their gambling habits and ultimately losing all their money due to their own greed. If they truly understood that the casino has a built-in house edge and that they are playing a game of luck, they wouldn’t be so quick to blame the casino for their losses.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: gunhell16 on June 21, 2025, 07:34:52 PM
But the funny thing is, there are many gamblers like that - the moment they lose several times in a row, they immediately blame the casino. They quickly accuse it of having a rigged system that robs them of the chance to win more money. In reality, the fault lies entirely with those who chase losses or bet emotionally, unable to control their gambling habits and ultimately losing all their money due to their own greed. If they truly understood that the casino has a built-in house edge and that they are playing a game of luck, they wouldn’t be so quick to blame the casino for their losses.

Maybe this type of gambler can't accept that they are really losing at the casino they chose to gamble at, they just can't accept that they can't accept that they are always losing to the house edge which is always in control of the game.

So instead of blaming the casino, they should just play without expectations in every bet on any casino games, it's better to get used to this style than to expect to fail in the end.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: JunaidAzizi on June 21, 2025, 07:45:26 PM
This is a sign of immaturity, and decision making abilities are basic. A real man or a gambler will not do such a thing as you said above. What he will do is accept all the losses and the mistakes he made, take the lesson, identify the reason, and make sure it doesn't repeat in the next one. Whenever I see some gamblers like this, I laugh at them because they are the ones running from their own mistakes, and they won't fix them. When they win, they don't put this winning in the casino, but when they lose, they blame the casino. Grow up, guys, and take responsibility. Identify the things where you made mistakes and fix them for tomorrow.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: suzanne5223 on June 22, 2025, 12:27:24 PM
This is a sign of immaturity, and decision making abilities are basic. A real man or a gambler will not do such a thing as you said above. What he will do is accept all the losses and the mistakes he made, take the lesson, identify the reason, and make sure it doesn't repeat in the next one. Whenever I see some gamblers like this, I laugh at them because they are the ones running from their own mistakes, and they won't fix them. When they win, they don't put this winning in the casino, but when they lose, they blame the casino. Grow up, guys, and take responsibility. Identify the things where you made mistakes and fix them for tomorrow.
You have a point but it's not about being a real gamblers for its about being a mature gambler.
A gambler can be a real one but still not mature enough to accept the concept and result of the game which is what mostly lead to gamblers shifting the blame on the house instead of their naive model of playing or wrong decision making about the game.
To be clear about what real gamblers mean.
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A "real gambler" can refer to a few different things, but it generally implies someone who gambles for the challenge and the thrill of risk, rather than just for entertainment or casual fun. They might be more strategic and focused on their bets, potentially even developing their own methods or systems. However, it's important to note that "real gambler" can also be used to describe someone with a compulsive gambling problem, which is a serious issue.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: panjul07 on June 22, 2025, 12:41:58 PM
Maybe this type of gambler can't accept that they are really losing at the casino they chose to gamble at, they just can't accept that they can't accept that they are always losing to the house edge which is always in control of the game.

So instead of blaming the casino, they should just play without expectations in every bet on any casino games, it's better to get used to this style than to expect to fail in the end.

Expectations is normal, there is no gamblers who spend their money without any expectation at all, I wonder what kind of gamblers who play without any expectation.
Some gamblers may say that they are gambling for fun, they must have an expectations whether it is expecting to have some fun or expecting to make small profit.
Expectations is fine but it should be realistic and players also need to realize the fact that the chance to win is small so they should accept losses.
Most people blame the casino of their losing because they are expecting too much but they forget that the chance of losing is bigger.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Promocodeudo on June 22, 2025, 12:42:11 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
Who will do this, I think a really gambler can never think towards this end, we are talking gambling, I think the player should be blamed for whatever loss he or she encountered because it is his or her responsibilities to chose whichever game he wants and beside the casinos or the system has nothing to do with your selection so why the blame ok then, as a responsible gambler, any things that happens should be personal stuff unless in the case of an obvious cheat from the casino which I think is even rare for such to happen, if that's the case who is to be blamed when a player win, so what happens in this situation, I think is high time people take gambling be it sports bet or casinos game they way they are, those are pure gambling some when we lose the blame is purely on us and nothing more.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: JunaidAzizi on June 22, 2025, 01:30:18 PM
You have a point but it's not about being a real gamblers for its about being a mature gambler.
A gambler can be a real one but still not mature enough to accept the concept and result of the game which is what mostly lead to gamblers shifting the blame on the house instead of their naive model of playing or wrong decision making about the game.
To be clear about what real gamblers mean.
Quote from:  Google
A "real gambler" can refer to a few different things, but it generally implies someone who gambles for the challenge and the thrill of risk, rather than just for entertainment or casual fun. They might be more strategic and focused on their bets, potentially even developing their own methods or systems. However, it's important to note that "real gambler" can also be used to describe someone with a compulsive gambling problem, which is a serious issue.
Firstly, I can't make a difference between a mature and a real gambler. For me, a mature gambler is the real gambler who can accept the losses, adjust to the situation, and move on. What a noob gambler does is blame the house and other factors for his loss, and he can't tolerate it, living in that negativity. This shows he is immature, and if he is immature, how can he be a real gambler? If he can adjust the factors through which he lost and then move on, then it's a clear sign of a real gambler. You are just splitting it between a real and a mature one, while the core truth says they are both the same thing, set the situation, learn from it, and move on is the qualities of the real and mature gambler's


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: serjent05 on June 22, 2025, 02:17:39 PM
Who will do this, I think a really gambler can never think towards this end, we are talking gambling, I think the player should be blamed for whatever loss he or she encountered because it is his or her responsibilities to chose whichever game he wants and beside the casinos or the system has nothing to do with your selection so why the blame ok then, .

There are people who, instead of admitting their mistakes, blame others.


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as a responsible gambler, any things that happens should be personal stuff unless in the case of an obvious cheat from the casino which I think is even rare for such to happen, if that's the case who is to be blamed when a player win, so what happens in this situation, I think is high time people take gambling be it sports bet or casinos game they way they are, those are pure gambling some when we lose the blame is purely on us and nothing more.

The sad thing is, even without solid proof that the casino is cheating, they think that they are being cheated since the gambling result does not end up as what they expected it to be or did not give them a good win. Worse thing, they even open a scam accusation to the casino in social media and forums.

The thing is, since they expect that they will win in their session these kinds of people bet an amount they can't afford to lose and when the result favors them, they think that they are great in correctly predicting the outcome of their bet but when the result does not favor them, they shout "foul" and blame that the casino is cheating them. 

So yeah, as a gambler, we should be aware that the gambling result is random and unless we have solid proof that the casino is cheating us, we should deal with the losses and blame ourselves if we lost a huge amount because we did not gamble responsibly. The casino does not dictate or threaten to bet the amount we cannot afford to lose; in fact, they have on their website a reminder about gambling responsibly.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: blomen on June 22, 2025, 05:00:34 PM
not just for a particular casino, not just for a particular gambling game, but we all experience this almost everywhere. for example in a mines game when there's a mine in the block that we click on we forget that it's completely random and it's designed to cause us to lose in a general sense.

and as a contradiction, we never do this when we win. when we win it's because of us, but when we lose it's because of the casino. here too, the human being is an egoistic and somewhat arrogant creature. we hold ourselves responsible for good results, but we don't talk about ourselves much in bad results.

if you gamble consciously without falling into this trap, none of this will happen. we have to enjoy it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: fruktik on June 23, 2025, 06:50:44 AM
People are often shy when they lose. They think it’s a sign of weakness. Winning in gambling makes people boastful and egotistical and when they lose, they don’t like to show it. If there is any chance he loses and people see it he will do everything to make it seem like it wasn’t his fault. This is how a man with no maturity thinks.
What nonsense? Why should I be ashamed of my loss? No, it's not like that. On the contrary, if someone asks me about it, I talk about it as part of this process. This is normal, since an adult understands perfectly well what a casino is and how everything works there. There should be no naivety here. My friend and I used to constantly share such information and we drew conclusions based on it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Bitinity on June 23, 2025, 09:13:23 AM
People are often shy when they lose. They think it’s a sign of weakness. Winning in gambling makes people boastful and egotistical and when they lose, they don’t like to show it. If there is any chance he loses and people see it he will do everything to make it seem like it wasn’t his fault. This is how a man with no maturity thinks.
What nonsense? Why should I be ashamed of my loss? No, it's not like that. On the contrary, if someone asks me about it, I talk about it as part of this process. This is normal, since an adult understands perfectly well what a casino is and how everything works there. There should be no naivety here. My friend and I used to constantly share such information and we drew conclusions based on it.

Some peopla act like that when they are losing on gambling, some people do not want to admit when they are losing and telling others that they are not losing. I am not sure what is the reason why some people do such a thing, it can be because they are ashamed or because other things that we do not know. However, it is their own right to do so and we cant judge them as they must have their own reason to do it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Altryist on June 23, 2025, 09:13:54 AM
not just for a particular casino, not just for a particular gambling game, but we all experience this almost everywhere. for example in a mines game when there's a mine in the block that we click on we forget that it's completely random and it's designed to cause us to lose in a general sense.

and as a contradiction, we never do this when we win. when we win it's because of us, but when we lose it's because of the casino. here too, the human being is an egoistic and somewhat arrogant creature. we hold ourselves responsible for good results, but we don't talk about ourselves much in bad results.

if you gamble consciously without falling into this trap, none of this will happen. we have to enjoy it.

It is not always like that, I think it also depends on a person’s character and how they were raised. I do not argue that there are people who are ready to blame others for all their failures. But there are also people who are used to relying only on themselves, and such people will evaluate the results based on their own actions. They will not blame the casino for their losses. In fact, when I evaluate a bet, I understand that I am the one who chooses it. So, in case of a loss, there is no one to blame but myself. I think it is really quite simple. Unless someone wants to blame the casino for unfair play, then you can just change the casino.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Hispo on June 23, 2025, 10:27:42 AM
But the funny thing is, there are many gamblers like that - the moment they lose several times in a row, they immediately blame the casino. They quickly accuse it of having a rigged system that robs them of the chance to win more money. In reality, the fault lies entirely with those who chase losses or bet emotionally, unable to control their gambling habits and ultimately losing all their money due to their own greed. If they truly understood that the casino has a built-in house edge and that they are playing a game of luck, they wouldn’t be so quick to blame the casino for their losses.

Though, we both have to admit that in the case of suffering a losing streak, it can be incredibly difficult for some gamblers not to throw the blame upon the casino because it could indeed feel as if the system was rigged against us from the beginning, when in reality it is not.
It is a psychological response many gamblers have to explain their unlucky session and in order not to feel bad for their own choices.
Sadly enough, there are gamblers who are not even aware there is such a thing as a house edge when they start to gamble or bet, so they do not realize there game is always slightly set in a tendency to favor the house in the long term. It is part of the ignorance many newbies have and what pushes them to commit mistakes they end up regretting very quickly.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: alastantiger on June 23, 2025, 10:30:37 AM
Who will do this, I think a really gambler can never think towards this end, we are talking gambling, I think the player should be blamed for whatever loss he or she encountered because it is his or her responsibilities to chose whichever game he wants and beside the casinos or the system has nothing to do with your selection so why the blame ok then, as a responsible gambler, any things that happens should be personal stuff unless in the case of an obvious cheat from the casino which I think is even rare for such to happen, if that's the case who is to be blamed when a player win, so what happens in this situation, I think is high time people take gambling be it sports bet or casinos game they way they are, those are pure gambling some when we lose the blame is purely on us and nothing more.

Real gamblers blame the outcome of the games on their own decision and not shifting the blame to anybody else. Anybody blaming others should know that the blame won't change the outcome of the bets, they're only wasting time and not ready to become a gambler. When gambling, there are bets that you can't do anything about because no matter how many times you try, you'll end up losing. Haven't you seen a game that no matter what your bet was, it wouldn't had still favoured you.

Knowing this will make it easier to accept your defeat when they come because you know that as you're losing right now doesn't define your gambling outcome for the rest of the week because you know you're still going to win again. Passing the blame to others isn't a good way to take responsibility of your actions. After we start accepting that the decisions we took isn't the best for us, we'll begin to have better results in the future.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Akbarkoe on June 23, 2025, 10:45:21 AM
It is natural for someone to experience a big loss when gambling, then after that say negative things about the casino, it can even happen like that. And what he did was just to vent his frustration over the loss.

I think it's okay, especially if it's just online gambling, because in reality what he did did not harm anyone including the online casino he visited. Unless the person goes further by making negative statements and information about the online casino and then spreading it to social media or the internet. However, if you play at a land-based casino, then never blame the casino just because of the loss you experienced, because it can cause chaos in the casino, which can make you crossed out by the casino and you can no longer visit the casino anywhere.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: mirakal on June 23, 2025, 10:45:30 AM


Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?


I could blame the casino sometimes, but seeing the situation, it was my mistake. Why should I have thrown it? We are not perfect, and we can commit mistakes, but blaming others when it was our fault is a stupid thing.

I remain fair in all cases. Being a responsible gambler means accepting the consequences of our wrongdoings, and blaming is not a good behavior. Our losses are just ours. We only blame the casino when it is their fault. That is why we don't put pressure on ourselves to gamble, because this will lead to uncontrollable emotions.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Makus on June 23, 2025, 11:01:22 AM
Real gamblers blame the outcome of the games on their own decision and not shifting the blame to anybody else. Anybody blaming others should know that the blame won't change the outcome of the bets, they're only wasting time and not ready to become a gambler.

Blaming the outcome of the game is only applicable to sport games where individuals players contribute to the outcome of the match, including the referees and coach.  But when talking about casino games, sometimes the difficulty is too high and the casinos no better than acting as those their services are fair while broadcasting their ads. Though since we know that the casinos aren't gonna be fair with the wining difficulty the best idea is to apply good risk management. An addicted gambler or an irresponsible gamble has only himself to blame for not being realistic with life knowing that nothing is fair, especially when it's a business.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: bubilas on June 23, 2025, 11:14:23 AM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

So far, God has protected me from such big mistakes that I would lose my entire deposit and start blaming everyone except myself, including the casino. But so far, the casino was really to blame for one of my biggest losses! I won a poker round and they didn't give me my winnings. And here everything is obvious. And there have been no such cases where I was guilty, but simply blamed the casino or bookmaker for nothing - there have been no such situations so far, and I hope this will not happen.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: yenerbatmaz on June 23, 2025, 11:35:25 AM
People who lose usually find excuses elsewhere, but the real culprit (if there is a culprit) is the gambler himself. Casinos do not force anyone to gamble. Instead of looking for excuses, the person who does not want to lose will stop gambling.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: blomen on June 23, 2025, 11:46:59 AM
In fact, when I evaluate a bet, I understand that I am the one who chooses it. So, in case of a loss, there is no one to blame but myself.

everything is fine in theory. "let me gamble with a certain amount of money, i'm in control." i don't know what your limit is, maybe you are really patient and conscious enough to skip this stage. but usually this kind of approach lasts until you start losing. we can accept losing up to a certain point. but when we lose money over and over again, every person starts to doubt the fairness of the casino. i do it too, even if it shouldn't happen.

Unless someone wants to blame the casino for unfair play, then you can just change the casino.

this casino or that casino, it won't make any difference to this kind of person. someone with this approach doesn't even sincerely blame the casino. they just use it as an excuse to cover up their own mistakes. denying that they are responsible is the easiest thing to do in case of a loss. the problem is not with the casino, not with the gambling game they played. it's with the person themselves. it's only a matter of time before they blame the next casino too.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Raflesia on June 23, 2025, 11:58:57 AM
People are often shy when they lose. They think it’s a sign of weakness. Winning in gambling makes people boastful and egotistical and when they lose, they don’t like to show it. If there is any chance he loses and people see it he will do everything to make it seem like it wasn’t his fault. This is how a man with no maturity thinks.
What nonsense? Why should I be ashamed of my loss? No, it's not like that. On the contrary, if someone asks me about it, I talk about it as part of this process. This is normal, since an adult understands perfectly well what a casino is and how everything works there. There should be no naivety here. My friend and I used to constantly share such information and we drew conclusions based on it.
Indeed, we should be able to understand gambling well and correctly that defeat is something that we will definitely experience so when we lose and can accept it, that's where there is a good understanding in interpreting gambling, in contrast to those who misinterpret gambling where they think gambling can provide victory, those who have high hopes for gambling certainly have an attitude that is not ready to lose and this is what I think triggers them to blame circumstances or other people or even the casino itself.

Therefore, a defeat in gambling is a natural thing and we as players must be able to accept it, even if we are not ready to lose money, it is better not to gamble from the start. Moreover, blaming anyone in gambling is useless except maybe blaming yourself why you have to know gambling is more reasonable than blaming others for the defeat you experience.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Questat on June 23, 2025, 12:19:52 PM
People who lose usually find excuses elsewhere, but the real culprit (if there is a culprit) is the gambler himself. Casinos do not force anyone to gamble. Instead of looking for excuses, the person who does not want to lose will stop gambling.
Indeed. A real gambler doesn't give any excuse but rather accepts defeat and losses. Perhaps the casino just accepts whatever we bet. Making mistakes and losses is not their fault, but it was ours. That is why, before we gamble, we must ensure that we are ready to accept whatever the results are, rather than blaming the casino.

Having this kind of attitude, you should not gamble. Otherwise, you only stressed yourselves too much. And many gamblers pretend they are gamblers, yet they don't understand what they are doing.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Sanitough on June 23, 2025, 12:29:26 PM

Indeed. A real gambler doesn't give any excuse but rather accepts defeat and losses.
That’s just being realistic about the outcome of gambling. We understand that losses are always possible ,  in fact, we’ll probably experience more losses than wins. So we should be used to that by now and make sure we handle it the right way. Man up, meaning stop whining. Be a man and accept that you lost, but never lose the belief that one day, you’ll be the one walking away as a winner.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Strongkored on June 23, 2025, 12:29:34 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I never blame the casino when I lose because losing that causes losses is something that all players will definitely experience, even feeling strange if there are a player who does that.
I blame the casino that requires me to do KYC when I want to make a withdrawal, this is very annoying and I have experienced it several times.
One thing I want to say when experiencing loss is not a mistake, because it is impossible for players to always win, so winning and losing are things that all players will experience.
The mistake in my opinion is when you can't secure the profit you get because you are too greedy thinking about getting more.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Frankolala on June 23, 2025, 01:06:15 PM

Indeed. A real gambler doesn't give any excuse but rather accepts defeat and losses.
That’s just being realistic about the outcome of gambling. We understand that losses are always possible ,  in fact, we’ll probably experience more losses than wins. So we should be used to that by now and make sure we handle it the right way. Man up, meaning stop whining. Be a man and accept that you lost, but never lose the belief that one day, you’ll be the one walking away as a winner.
I feel that those who blame the casino for their losses are gamblers that don't understand how gambling works. Take for example, a football match. It has nothing to do with the casino but the clubs that are playing against each other. If you lose such bet, how does it concern the casino. In gambling, losing is inevitable and you need to accept your losses without blaming anyone.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Dunamisx on June 23, 2025, 01:11:29 PM
I still don't understand the logic here, whereby you will discover that a gambler who is gambling willingly to all of a sudden assumed that his chances of winning or loosing is being determined by the casino, which is a wrong mentality to me, though there could be some reasons on their own side to back it up, but all these are when we are gambling to make money and earn from it, because a normal gambler with the expectation of having fun will not be thinking in this manner, so if we win or lose, we should take it as fate and stop blaming the casino or those around us for their influence contributing to the failure we had.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: DaNNy001 on June 23, 2025, 02:07:16 PM
Shifting the blame is a common method to defend one's own bad habits. To be honest with yourself if difficult and puts the mind in anxiety and hence the mind works like this to avoid the anxiety.

However most gamblers fail to correct this maladaptive nature of the human mind. Accept the loss and move on is the mature thing to do in any gambling situation. Never try to ease your ego or fall into the trap laid by someone else intended to harm your finances. Because there is no such thing as win in gambling if you dont stop.

People tend to do this when they gamble irresponsibly. This reminds me of the times I was gambling on aviator games, most people chatting In the discussion section usually rant about how the casino is a scam when they are losing forgetting that gambling is just a game. Whenever you stake any amount of money in it you must always be prepared to lose it. Instead of blaming the casinos they need to take responsibility for their actions


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: TheUltraElite on June 23, 2025, 02:11:34 PM
People tend to do this when they gamble irresponsibly. This reminds me of the times I was gambling on aviator games, most people chatting In the discussion section usually rant about how the casino is a scam when they are losing forgetting that gambling is just a game. Whenever you stake any amount of money in it you must always be prepared to lose it. Instead of blaming the casinos they need to take responsibility for their actions
The chatbox on bustabit goes into full retard mode during the evenings, you would not feel like talking there after a while.

Indeed people will blame the casino to be bad and not that they were not controlling their urge to gamble in the first place. While losses can be minimized by this and bankroll management, they will spew their hatred on forums and trollboxes.

Fact is that people dont like responsibilities and try to avoid them and hence this situation.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Promocodeudo on June 23, 2025, 03:22:31 PM
Real gamblers blame the outcome of the games on their own decision and not shifting the blame to anybody else. Anybody blaming others should know that the blame won't change the outcome of the bets, they're only wasting time and not ready to become a gambler. When gambling, there are bets that you can't do anything about because no matter how many times you try, you'll end up losing. Haven't you seen a game that no matter what your bet was, it wouldn't had still favoured you.
For me i think it will look very absurd for any gambler to even reason like this, gambling is an individual game, lets not forget that any decision you make while gambling may not really come as you expect it and thats the reason why as gambler who understands what gambling is you should in the first place that there's no one to blame to what happens to your betslip, you lose or win whichever way take it as it is no one has to be blamed but you alone, infact you don't even need to blame yourself when you lose after all  no one can say what happens in a bet but as a bettor you must take responsibility of your actions no diversion of blames I think that defines a real gambler.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: GigaBit on June 23, 2025, 04:35:18 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
Some people get very excited when they lose after placing a bet. There are some gamblers who can blame the casino when they cannot control themselves and get into trouble. However, in reality, the casino cannot be blamed because the casino runs at its own way. There is no point in blaming others. If a person loses control over himself, then various types of complaints can come from him, which is normal. Because there are many gamblers who cannot control themselves. I will not say that all casino institutions are 100% transparent. All the reputable casino platforms never cheat gamblers. If an addicted gambler or a gambler who has lost in gambling makes negative thoughts, I never consider those thoughts legitimate.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Sandra_hakeem on June 23, 2025, 04:59:09 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
I've always emphasized the importance of taking accountability on ones own mistakes in gambling. It's not about feeling stupid; well how you gonna learn when you keep running away from the fact?. Someone was even blaming the governments for legalizing them casinos -- as if the casinos casted a spell on him.

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This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that?
..and that's the truth. Nobody's ready to admit what they're doing wrong behind their closets. All we keep reading are series of complaints about casinos. Unless, this thread would serve the purpose of a confession bay (checked through the comments and, nothing yet)


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: o48o on June 23, 2025, 05:11:56 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I am pretty sure that most of the healthy adults are admitting their own mistakes, but there are some of the people in here in the forum as well who will blame casinos for them. And on a closer look their accusations about casino scamming them, are based on their own unwillingness to admit their mistakes.

Other group of people are the ones who try to find errors from their own system, referee or anything else then themselves, because they are convinced that they are either doing something wrong, or someone else is doing something wrong. They don't have randomness or luck for an answer and they believe to have a skill to make money with gambling even without evidence. 

I have known few of people like these in my life and they seem to think that world owes something to them, and that's why they should be paid. Because they are entitled to it. They will blame everything from liberals to casinos being rigged if they won't win. Because nothing is harder to them, then facing their own mistakes.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: hedgeh0g on June 23, 2025, 05:28:09 PM
I am pretty sure that most of the healthy adults are admitting their own mistakes, but there are some of the people in here in the forum as well who will blame casinos for them. And on a closer look their accusations about casino scamming them, are based on their own unwillingness to admit their mistakes.

Other group of people are the ones who try to find errors from their own system, referee or anything else then themselves, because they are convinced that they are either doing something wrong, or someone else is doing something wrong. They don't have randomness or luck for an answer and they believe to have a skill to make money with gambling even without evidence. 

I have known few of people like these in my life and they seem to think that world owes something to them, and that's why they should be paid. Because they are entitled to it. They will blame everything from liberals to casinos being rigged if they won't win. Because nothing is harder to them, then facing their own mistakes.
Self-confident players and those who think that they are smarter than others in the game, will simply pay dearly for their confidence. For example, I do not consider myself confident and play carefully and cautiously, doubting various actions. But this makes me try to develop constantly in order to improve myself, search for new strategies in the game and so on. Modesty in the game personally helps me and I think professionals who manage to earn money are also modest and question many of their actions and strategies, which ultimately gave them a positive result.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Z_MBFM on June 23, 2025, 05:51:37 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
Yes, this has happened to me many times. When I was addicted to gambling, I gambled a lot and lost a lot of money. Although I tried to control myself a lot, I could not control myself. And I lost a lot of my savings. And then I got emotional and blamed the casino a lot that they were somehow cheating me. To tell the truth, gambling is a test of luck, if your luck is not good, no matter how many strategies you use, it will not be of any use. When emotions work in us, this thing is not visible in us. I have found that proof in myself. But I am now in enough control and trying to stay.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: suzanne5223 on June 23, 2025, 07:44:21 PM
You have a point but it's not about being a real gamblers for its about being a mature gambler.
A gambler can be a real one but still not mature enough to accept the concept and result of the game which is what mostly lead to gamblers shifting the blame on the house instead of their naive model of playing or wrong decision making about the game.
To be clear about what real gamblers mean.
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A "real gambler" can refer to a few different things, but it generally implies someone who gambles for the challenge and the thrill of risk, rather than just for entertainment or casual fun. They might be more strategic and focused on their bets, potentially even developing their own methods or systems. However, it's important to note that "real gambler" can also be used to describe someone with a compulsive gambling problem, which is a serious issue.
Firstly, I can't make a difference between a mature and a real gambler. For me, a mature gambler is the real gambler who can accept the losses, adjust to the situation, and move on. What a noob gambler does is blame the house and other factors for his loss, and he can't tolerate it, living in that negativity. This shows he is immature, and if he is immature, how can he be a real gambler? If he can adjust the factors through which he lost and then move on, then it's a clear sign of a real gambler. You are just splitting it between a real and a mature one, while the core truth says they are both the same thing, set the situation, learn from it, and move on is the qualities of the real and mature gambler's
That's okay, but based on your explanation, you have technically distinguished between a mature and a real gambler.
The mature gamblers accept the consequences of their mistake after making a loss, and the real gamblers are those who work on a solution to prevent the recurrence of the same thing.
Meanwhile, it could involve the creation of strategy but they will always find an answer to the issue they experience when gambling.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Rockstarguy on June 23, 2025, 10:00:10 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
The truth is that many gamblers blame casinos or gambling for their losses while forgetting that gambling is a game of luck and unpredictability. The reason why gamblers always blame the gambling companies for their losses is that they gamble with so much money that they can't afford to lose. To them, the gambling company has collected their money, which they expected would yield a good profit. The truth is that when you don't understand gambling and believe that money can always be made, one will always place the blame on the casino for their losses. When there is a proper understanding of gambling, you don't need to blame the casino for your losses.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Yamifoud on June 23, 2025, 10:19:02 PM
Blaming the casino for our losses means that we are not gamblers who understand how gambling works. Living with this kind of attitude has no chance of becoming successful in life, but rather will be a failure. This is not just gambling, but also other things. A responsible gambler doesn't blame but rather takes their faults.

I just remember my neighbor, who, every time he loses, blames the casino and says they are cheating. But until now, he has kept using that casino and is still losing. The sad thing is that we keep complaining, yet we are still gambling.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Hazink on June 23, 2025, 11:05:37 PM
People are often shy when they lose. They think it’s a sign of weakness. Winning in gambling makes people boastful and egotistical and when they lose, they don’t like to show it. If there is any chance he loses and people see it he will do everything to make it seem like it wasn’t his fault. This is how a man with no maturity thinks.
When a man lacks the courage and decency to take the fall for their own decision, then they should never be gambling in the first place. Gambling is not for such a type of person.

Anyone with cowardly behavior will not only exercise that in gambling but will extend it to other areas of life, as they will never be bold enough to take responsibility for their own mistake; they will always look for something or someone to take the fall.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: finaleshot2016 on June 23, 2025, 11:11:28 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
It's very stupid to blame the casino, if I lose something that's pretty big, I'll shut up myself and going to go touch some grass or maybe have some fun with my loved ones. I don't need to blame something for what I did, I don't need to justify things just to make me feel better and do the same mistakes again in the next days. I learned and it's fine, it's part of the game and we already knew that gambling relies too much on luck and casino are rigged to make the odds in favor of the house, it's a business after all. That's the thing that will destroy yourself, if you can't accept such damages or mistakes, then don't gambling because it's gonna be a path for more problems to you.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: livingfree on June 23, 2025, 11:14:31 PM
Blaming the casino for our losses means that we are not gamblers who understand how gambling works. Living with this kind of attitude has no chance of becoming successful in life, but rather will be a failure. This is not just gambling, but also other things. A responsible gambler doesn't blame but rather takes their faults.
I think that for every failure a gambler like this does, will find ways to blame the mistakes he's done to other people.

I agree that someone who's like this will definitely not find any success in life. Because instead of taking the blame to himself, he would want to find the comfort of blaming others which is a mistake.

That's why people who like to blame casinos will always do this and will never be satisfied with the results with their bets.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: PX-Z on June 23, 2025, 11:32:58 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Those are problematic gamblers, if you lose regardless of the amount, it's your fault in the very first place. Blaming casino is just like blaming your parents for how you turned out now. You have your own choices already.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: fruktik on June 24, 2025, 06:09:54 AM
Some peopla act like that when they are losing on gambling, some people do not want to admit when they are losing and telling others that they are not losing. I am not sure what is the reason why some people do such a thing, it can be because they are ashamed or because other things that we do not know. However, it is their own right to do so and we cant judge them as they must have their own reason to do it.
I also don't know what the reason for such behavior is. Perhaps, as you already wrote, it's all about the shame they feel. But it's not their fault. So why would they be ashamed? 90% of players lose at the casino, if that number is not higher. So it's quite natural. It's strange, of course, to see such things these days. Yes, people are very versatile individuals and we have no right to tell them what to do and how to do it, unless we are, for example, their bosses at work.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Fortify on June 24, 2025, 06:19:02 AM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

If you have a problem controlling your emotions, whether that is bursting out crying or going into a rage, the first time that happens you should probably recognise gambling is to be avoided. It's a little bit embarrassing when people do these things in actual casinos, when they have probably thrown alcohol into the mix and cause a massive scene. It usually comes back to the fact that they spent money they shouldn't have on this pursuit, instead of keeping it at a manageable amount and accepting that they are probably destined to lose it from the outset. Even then, some people get ahead and into the money, yet stay for too long, inevitably giving it all back to the casino when they had a chance to walk away a winner.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Cryptmuster on June 24, 2025, 07:30:37 AM

If you have a problem controlling your emotions, whether that is bursting out crying or going into a rage, the first time that happens you should probably recognise gambling is to be avoided. It's a little bit embarrassing when people do these things in actual casinos, when they have probably thrown alcohol into the mix and cause a massive scene. It usually comes back to the fact that they spent money they shouldn't have on this pursuit, instead of keeping it at a manageable amount and accepting that they are probably destined to lose it from the outset. Even then, some people get ahead and into the money, yet stay for too long, inevitably giving it all back to the casino when they had a chance to walk away a winner.

The main problem with the game league is that people start playing for money that is more than they originally planned to spend. It is clear that everyone comes to the casino to win, everyone wants to win, maybe even a small win, but still leave the casino with a win. After they start losing, there is a desire to just win back and leave, with what they came to the casino. But no one thinks about what will happen if they start losing and when they have lost everything they had, they try to add a little more money to win back. As a result, they lose even more than they originally planned.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: summonerrk on June 24, 2025, 10:37:12 AM
It seems to me that a gambler can always fairly blame the casino when he made a wrong move in the casino due to bad software. For example, I had a case when I started to press the button to increase the bet per spin, but nothing happened.
And when I pressed it again a second later, the bet increased by two clicks. It was an interface glitch. And it's not about my Internet, but about the fact that the casino site was not optimized properly. And imagine someone accidentally places a bet of x100...


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Natalim on June 24, 2025, 01:13:50 PM
It seems to me that a gambler can always fairly blame the casino when he made a wrong move in the casino due to bad software. For example, I had a case when I started to press the button to increase the bet per spin, but nothing happened.
And when I pressed it again a second later, the bet increased by two clicks. It was an interface glitch. And it's not about my Internet, but about the fact that the casino site was not optimized properly. And imagine someone accidentally places a bet of x100...
That is literally a casino's problem, and it was right to blame them. But when we blame the casino because we are wrong in placing our bets, I don't think they deserve it. We can be fair in our decision. If we commit mistakes, we also learn how to accept the consequences of them rather than throwing them at others. It was not responsible gambling but rather stupid gambling. Aside from that, not all mistakes should be blamed on anyone (or ourselves or the casino). We need to analyze the situation first, rather than bursting with our emotions.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Reid on June 24, 2025, 03:24:41 PM
Good comparison.
We are old enough to gamble which means we are old enough to make our own choices. Those who blames the online casino for having a bad day in gambling are those who doesn't really understand how gambling works. It's a business, we should not forget about that and what they want is to make money, not to give them easily.
It's better if we understand those facts so that we won't be expecting too much when we are playing. Expect losses, that's better.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: hedgeh0g on June 24, 2025, 03:36:36 PM
It seems to me that a gambler can always fairly blame the casino when he made a wrong move in the casino due to bad software. For example, I had a case when I started to press the button to increase the bet per spin, but nothing happened.
And when I pressed it again a second later, the bet increased by two clicks. It was an interface glitch. And it's not about my Internet, but about the fact that the casino site was not optimized properly. And imagine someone accidentally places a bet of x100...
Of course, there were such cases, visual bugs and so on, but I thought that there could be another situation when this would lead to the player winning a large sum. The player would definitely think that this was his merit and would not complain about it anywhere, but would only tell everyone how lucky he was and how cleverly he calculated this bet. Therefore, there are two sides to the coin, although I also had visual bugs, but I never wrote to support because of this. I even think that some casinos can meet halfway and give the player additional bonuses because of this.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: OgNasty on June 24, 2025, 05:36:20 PM
A lot of people should hear this advice about a great many things.  Made a bad investment?  Don't blame the company, the government, the exchange, or the economy.  Blame yourself for making a bad decision.  Too many people think they can do whatever dumb thing they want and if it doesn't go perfectly they can find someone to blame.  I mean, sure.  Sometimes you get lied to or bamboozled by a con artist, but far more often people don't think through their decisions and then blame others when things don't go as they assumed they would.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on June 25, 2025, 12:38:51 PM
I still don't understand the logic here, whereby you will discover that a gambler who is gambling willingly to all of a sudden assumed that his chances of winning or loosing is being determined by the casino, which is a wrong mentality to me, though there could be some reasons on their own side to back it up, but all these are when we are gambling to make money and earn from it, because a normal gambler with the expectation of having fun will not be thinking in this manner, so if we win or lose, we should take it as fate and stop blaming the casino or those around us for their influence contributing to the failure we had.

Before someone even starts gambling, they should have agreed within themselves to accept the results they get from their wagering because gambling is a two swords edge that you don't know which results to expect, that's why you must prepare your mind to take the lose or profit. When I started gambling, I actually thought that winning was easy until I started losing more than I thought of, but I had to get used to it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Raflesia on June 25, 2025, 01:13:20 PM
It seems to me that a gambler can always fairly blame the casino when he made a wrong move in the casino due to bad software. For example, I had a case when I started to press the button to increase the bet per spin, but nothing happened.
And when I pressed it again a second later, the bet increased by two clicks. It was an interface glitch. And it's not about my Internet, but about the fact that the casino site was not optimized properly. And imagine someone accidentally places a bet of x100...
There must be people who blame the casino whether it is a technical error like what you experienced or with other incidents, but the point is that we have a choice which one we should be prepared for the risk because clearly gambling is something that has quite a big risk and of course, with the problem you are experiencing, maybe you can notify the staff online for the problem you are experiencing, but I don't think they will respond to it completely. So what can we do? Nothing except to accept it, besides it is a mistake that I think the casino doesn't really care about, especially if we are just ordinary players. I understand what you are experiencing and what you said, remember that gambling can make us upset, emotional when doing it and with you who experienced this I think it happened because you were upset, as well as what you said someone accidentally placed a bet with x100, this would not happen if the player could be patient.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: madnessteat on June 27, 2025, 05:37:04 PM
Since childhood, I have been taught to always take responsibility for my actions, so I don't understand people who always try to shift the responsibility for their actions onto someone else. This applies to both gambling and other areas of our lives. When a person acknowledges their mistakes, they can analyze what exactly their mistake was and use this negative experience in the future. I believe that admitting guilt is the path to self-development, while shifting the blame onto someone else is a path to nowhere.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Get-Paid.com on June 27, 2025, 05:41:28 PM
A lot of people should hear this advice about a great many things.  Made a bad investment?  Don't blame the company, the government, the exchange, or the economy.  Blame yourself for making a bad decision.  Too many people think they can do whatever dumb thing they want and if it doesn't go perfectly they can find someone to blame.

Personal responsibility matters, but addiction isn’t just a series of bad decisions - it’s a real disorder.
Blaming the individual without acknowledging that some systems are designed to exploit people misses the full picture.










Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Beparanf on June 27, 2025, 05:41:53 PM
Since childhood, I have been taught to always take responsibility for my actions, so I don't understand people who always try to shift the responsibility for their actions onto someone else. This applies to both gambling and other areas of our lives. When a person acknowledges their mistakes, they can analyze what exactly their mistake was and use this negative experience in the future. I believe that admitting guilt is the path to self-development, while shifting the blame onto someone else is a path to nowhere.

People that has honor and easy to accept losses like you is the minority on gambling because it’s easy to escape their losses pain by blaming rather than accepting losses.

Human pride is the main culprit that’s why easy acceptance on mistake is not that easy for average person.

I always blame myself alone for all the losses and mistakes I commit on gambling because I’m the one who choose that decision to play instead of blaming others or the casino.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: passwordnow on June 27, 2025, 05:52:44 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Those are problematic gamblers, if you lose regardless of the amount, it's your fault in the very first place. Blaming casino is just like blaming your parents for how you turned out now. You have your own choices already.
A problematic gambler won't accept the fact that if he didn't gambled, he won't lose that and there is no one to blame for. But finds pleasure in blaming others but cannot account themselves for the results that they are in. Shame on those gamblers because they're coward and don't want to embrace the reality.

I always blame myself alone for all the losses and mistakes I commit on gambling because I’m the one who choose that decision to play instead of blaming others or the casino.
This should be it, we gamble with our own money and there should be no other people to blame for and take account into it but ourselves.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Lanatsa on June 27, 2025, 05:57:22 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
For discussion in one thread maybe not but when the discussion is a little wide this has happened and I also often find that there are some of us who try to blame the other party including for the casino when we get a situation that we don't expect such as when losing and can't bear it all.

This happens because there are some in us who don't want to be blamed in some occasions when we know we are playing on our own will and when we lose then in the end we ourselves also bear it.
Blaming other parties including casinos would obviously be silly because after all we know that casinos are their place of business so it is quite natural when they get profits and we must be aware that our position is a player so this must be a consideration where the player will obviously lose when we are in gambling because it is a concept that although indirectly but this will happen sooner or later. Blaming others for the mess we make is cowardly and reflects that we still cannot take responsibility for ourselves.


On the moment that we do lose then we do normally be having that kind of defense mechanisms on trying out to ease up that frustration and disappointment that you are currently that experiencing since we are that on the situation that we are on losing condition then our mind and emotion are all stirred up on this time. It will be just that normal that you would be trying out to point out all of those fingers which is mostly that you would be blaming out the casino for it to be that not fair at all even if you are dealing up with those known and popular ones. So it will be that normal for these losers to have that kind of reactions just because they are expecting something like being profitable into the bets that they are making on which this is just that a very common thinking and inputs on which a certain gambler do have in mind.  All of us do comes into a point on which we are that having those kind of blaming and thinking that the site isnt fair. Its normal and on the moment that you do have that revenge kind of feeling then this is where we do make out even mor deposits.

Its important that you should be wary into the actions that you are taking and be sensible or just simply make use of your own awareness on how things works. Gambling is a game of chance on which you cant be able to guarantee that you can be a winner at the moment that you do gamble which it is just that very wrong. People do usually have these kind of thoughts at the moment that they do gamble is that they do make easy money with it until the reality do slap into their faces then they would be able to realize that it was never been that easy to make money with gambling. This is why you should be doing it for the sake of fun and entertainment and dont go beyond with those assumptions that you can make money with it. Blaming casinos would do nothing because if you are that unlucky then there's nothing you can do with that and just that accept it. We do know that chances are just that slim and dont make yourself that being having that kind of defending yourself just because you cant just accept your current condition.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Z_MBFM on June 27, 2025, 06:02:48 PM
Since childhood, I have been taught to always take responsibility for my actions, so I don't understand people who always try to shift the responsibility for their actions onto someone else. This applies to both gambling and other areas of our lives. When a person acknowledges their mistakes, they can analyze what exactly their mistake was and use this negative experience in the future. I believe that admitting guilt is the path to self-development, while shifting the blame onto someone else is a path to nowhere.
Casino sites operate their business according to their ToS, if someone gambles there and loses money, it should be their personal responsibility because casino sites clearly state everything in their ToS, if someone reads them and jumps into gambling and becomes addicted, it is their personal failure. Blaming casino sites after losing money is completely worthless.

When a person who cannot control himself starts blaming the casino sites, there is nothing he can do but think they are crazy. They go there emotionally and when they make a profit, they are very excited and happy about it, but when they lose, they start blaming the site.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Awaklara on June 27, 2025, 06:06:55 PM
I always blame myself alone for all the losses and mistakes I commit on gambling because I’m the one who choose that decision to play instead of blaming others or the casino.
But sometimes the feeling of blaming the casino remains with us. Continuous defeat can cloud our rationality, even though we previously knew that the defeat we received was part of the risk that we had actually agreed to ourselves.
I am the one who bets and takes the risk, if I lose then I will bear it myself. No need to blame anyone, even the casino. But human selfishness and arrogance may have a different response.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: GIF-JOBS on June 27, 2025, 06:24:52 PM
I always blame myself alone for all the losses and mistakes I commit on gambling because I’m the one who choose that decision to play instead of blaming others or the casino.
But sometimes the feeling of blaming the casino remains with us. Continuous defeat can cloud our rationality, even though we previously knew that the defeat we received was part of the risk that we had actually agreed to ourselves.
I am the one who bets and takes the risk, if I lose then I will bear it myself. No need to blame anyone, even the casino. But human selfishness and arrogance may have a different response.
It is not logical to blame others for your losses, because why couldn't you stop yourself after the first loss? You continued to gamble more and you had a losing streak, as a result you faced more losses, here the entire responsibility is only yours, because did the casino force you to gamble? You did everything according to your own will, so the responsibility for the losses will also be yours, and this whole issue should be understood by every gambler, and one should always gamble responsibly, then big losses can definitely be avoided.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: DaNNy001 on June 27, 2025, 09:20:09 PM
I lost big money in a week. Through the week I was lucky to win big, and by the weekend I lost everything and went beyond my limits. That's a massive loss, which I wasn't able to accept all of a sudden. By the time I know the mistake is completely mine, it happened because of my belief that somehow I can recover what has been lost. At the end I realized the truth that things won't happen according to our expectations. By the time I didn't blame the casino, I contacted the support team requesting help. Finally, the owner of the casino provided me with $300, as the loss was very huge, around $23,000.


When there's a big win there's also a big loss around the corner but this can only happen if you allow it...You made the common mistake every gambler usually makes and that's chasing losses...any amount of money that's lost is gone trying to get it back is only going to make things worse... $23000 is a lot of money, even though you were being compensated with $300 for your losses it's nothing compared to what you lost.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: rachael9385 on June 27, 2025, 09:24:40 PM
I lost big money in a week. Through the week I was lucky to win big, and by the weekend I lost everything and went beyond my limits. That's a massive loss, which I wasn't able to accept all of a sudden. By the time I know the mistake is completely mine, it happened because of my belief that somehow I can recover what has been lost. At the end I realized the truth that things won't happen according to our expectations. By the time I didn't blame the casino, I contacted the support team requesting help. Finally, the owner of the casino provided me with $300, as the loss was very huge, around $23,000.


$23000 wow, In some countries that's worth a fortune, the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on from your losses and focus your mind on something else otherwise it would affect your mental health. This is why it's good to stick to your limit no matter how tempting it might be to chase your losses. Stopping when you made those profits would have prevented you from losing such a huge amount of money


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Agbe on June 27, 2025, 09:33:02 PM
I lost big money in a week. Through the week I was lucky to win big, and by the weekend I lost everything and went beyond my limits. That's a massive loss, which I wasn't able to accept all of a sudden. By the time I know the mistake is completely mine, it happened because of my belief that somehow I can recover what has been lost. At the end I realized the truth that things won't happen according to our expectations. By the time I didn't blame the casino, I contacted the support team requesting help. Finally, the owner of the casino provided me with $300, as the loss was very huge, around $23,000.


$23000 wow, In some countries that's worth a fortune, the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on from your losses and focus your mind on something else otherwise it would affect your mental health. This is why it's good to stick to your limit no matter how tempting it might be to chase your losses. Stopping when you made those profits would have prevented you from losing such a huge amount of money
True I definitely agree focusing on the lose is not going to be doing you any good so the best thing to do is to removing your mind from the money that you have lost in gambling because if you think so about the money the probability of one going back to gambling will be high


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Oluwa-btc on June 27, 2025, 10:29:45 PM

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?


I don't have to blame the casino for my losses cause if I counter one I'll see it as my own deliberate act of mistake but I can't find myself blaming the casinos or whoever is involved in it. Some gamblers always want to play the blame games and take  it off their head but I've not been found in this situation because I'm very intentional about my habits  and even when I counter loses i don't shift blames rather i accept them cause they are part of my journey of learning.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Issa56 on June 27, 2025, 10:44:00 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Why will I be losing, then I will want to put the blame on another person, I don’t think I will be losing, then I will be putting the blame on casino, it doesn’t make any sense, just accept your mistake, and look for possible ways to avoid similar mistake later in the future, if you keep on blaming the casino for your mistake, then you will keep on making similar mistake, and you are going to keep on losing. The only time I blame a gambling site is whenever their is maybe a technical error from them, but whenever I place bet and I lose, then I will blame myself for that.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ryu_Ar1 on June 27, 2025, 11:12:27 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Why will I be losing, then I will want to put the blame on another person, I don’t think I will be losing, then I will be putting the blame on casino, it doesn’t make any sense, just accept your mistake, and look for possible ways to avoid similar mistake later in the future, if you keep on blaming the casino for your mistake, then you will keep on making similar mistake, and you are going to keep on losing. The only time I blame a gambling site is whenever their is maybe a technical error from them, but whenever I place bet and I lose, then I will blame myself for that.
But indeed there are not a few gamblers who do things like this where cowardly actions do not want to admit their mistakes and try to shift it to others even to the casino where they play as if they were cheated and that often happens today.

In fact, if we are aware of the conditions, we should be the ones to blame when we lose and cannot control ourselves, then a big loss will clearly occur and it is very unethical to blame others for what we do in the end.
From this we must realize that in the end it is quite important for us to be responsible for ourselves, especially in the gambling that is done so that things like this where when we lose or feel a lot of losses in gambling, then we don't need to look for scapegoats as if we are not guilty of anything for the actions we do.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Smartvirus on June 27, 2025, 11:16:57 PM
$23000 wow, In some countries that's worth a fortune, the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on from your losses and focus your mind on something else otherwise it would affect your mental health. This is why it's good to stick to your limit no matter how tempting it might be to chase your losses. Stopping when you made those profits would have prevented you from losing such a huge amount of money

You bet you’re a$$ it is a fortune in my nation. Amounts like this could be the start of changes towards better standards of living to some families that knows how to invest money. Not that you would have the best of life but, you would have your way towards a good standard of living.
Losses like these are always not an easy to forget but when you know there isn’t anything you could do about it, let it be a history and a lesson on how much you are allowed to gamble with, take your bankroll a little more seriously and ensure you stick to policies you did put in place to check your gambling habits.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Asiska02 on June 27, 2025, 11:36:42 PM
This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

This is a very risky thing to do and a very bad thought to have when gambling and ending up in a loss. Before starting to start gambling, it is be known by a gambler that the game of gambling will either result in a loss or a win and not on a consistent win basis only, with such mindset and approach into gambling, it will not make you have such feelings after a loss.

One of the problems of having such feeling over again is that it can lead you to starting to chase your loss which is a very bad practice as a gambler because it’ll make you break all your rules set aside to gamble responsibly and end you up messing up with your bankroll. It is very much better to accept loss and come back to gamble again another day than chasing after your loss or blaming the casino. If you always have someone to blame for your loss, you will never admit to your mistakes and made amends the next time you’ll play again.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Samlucky O on June 28, 2025, 05:05:32 AM
One thing about human is that they like shifting blames on others for their own misfortune, and this is also applicable to Gambling. I have blamed the Casino countless time and later discovered that it was my fault afterall. But even as that we don't always want to take our blame but always want somebody to be responsible for our misfortune.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: bubilas on June 28, 2025, 09:02:37 AM
One thing about human is that they like shifting blames on others for their own misfortune, and this is also applicable to Gambling. I have blamed the Casino countless time and later discovered that it was my fault afterall. But even as that we don't always want to take our blame but always want somebody to be responsible for our misfortune.

At the same time, our human brain is very skillful in throwing up arguments in favor of the fact that it is the casino that is to blame for our loss. For example, I witnessed how my friend could not log into the casino site for a long time to play slots, and when an hour later he used another VPN, he was able to log into the online casino site and began to play. He quickly lost his entire deposit and was angry because he thought "while I was logging into the casino site for a long time, the good time passed and I got an unlucky streak."


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Cityhunter34 on June 28, 2025, 09:58:28 AM
One thing about human is that they like shifting blames on others for their own misfortune, and this is also applicable to Gambling. I have blamed the Casino countless time and later discovered that it was my fault afterall. But even as that we don't always want to take our blame but always want somebody to be responsible for our misfortune.

At the same time, our human brain is very skillful in throwing up arguments in favor of the fact that it is the casino that is to blame for our loss. For example, I witnessed how my friend could not log into the casino site for a long time to play slots, and when an hour later he used another VPN, he was able to log into the online casino site and began to play. He quickly lost his entire deposit and was angry because he thought "while I was logging into the casino site for a long time, the good time passed and I got an unlucky streak."
Sometimes we are the cause of our many losses in gambling, then at last we keep on shifting the blames to the casino. However, this has happened to me many times were I will be trying to force myself to login to my casino site to play some games, then at last I ended up regretting why I didn't have some patience. Because I have come to realized that such thing normally happens to prevent us from often losses, but still most people wouldn't understand. Then after losing everything they would start putting the whole blames to the site, noing fully well that is their own fault. Honestly, I didn't see any reason why a gambler would be blaming a casino after losses. Because it is own responsibility to decide whether to gamble or not since no one is forcing you to play gambling.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Fortify on June 28, 2025, 10:42:46 AM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

There are lots of people out there who refuse to accept personal responsibility or tend to make constant bad decisions that compound their "bad luck". They spend too much money through a lack of self control, even going into debt sometimes. It's hard to have sympathy because they are often unwilling to face up to reality, which is you have to sacrifice and give up things like addictions before they can even start to rebuild. It is painful to break free of addiction and will feel like hell for the first couple weeks, but it gets easier. The only way to gamble responsibly is to keep your bets small and contained, that way it can stay fun. Don't expect to retire or take a shortcut to wealth by making some big win.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on June 28, 2025, 11:25:53 AM
I lost big money in a week. Through the week I was lucky to win big, and by the weekend I lost everything and went beyond my limits. That's a massive loss, which I wasn't able to accept all of a sudden. By the time I know the mistake is completely mine, it happened because of my belief that somehow I can recover what has been lost. At the end I realized the truth that things won't happen according to our expectations. By the time I didn't blame the casino, I contacted the support team requesting help. Finally, the owner of the casino provided me with $300, as the loss was very huge, around $23,000.


$23000 wow, In some countries that's worth a fortune, the best thing you can do for yourself is to move on from your losses and focus your mind on something else otherwise it would affect your mental health. This is why it's good to stick to your limit no matter how tempting it might be to chase your losses. Stopping when you made those profits would have prevented you from losing such a huge amount of money

Am not surprise, it usually happen like this with some gambler but that's when the person is so delusional and don't quickly come back to reality that gambling is two swords edge where nothing is certain and losing money is more certain than making profit. If you don't realize too early, you will only know after you have empty your balance. If not for how I tried to control myself in the past, I wou have been like that too.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: junder on June 28, 2025, 11:53:48 AM
One thing about human is that they like shifting blames on others for their own misfortune, and this is also applicable to Gambling. I have blamed the Casino countless time and later discovered that it was my fault afterall. But even as that we don't always want to take our blame but always want somebody to be responsible for our misfortune.
Blaming others is indeed human nature, in any case there must be people who like to blame others for their own mistakes, including in gambling. Although gambling is basically done by individuals, sometimes when they lose they can blame others, this is funny because they try to find a scapegoat for their own wrong behavior. When we want to gamble then we must be prepared to lose and in my opinion those who blame others are people who are not prepared to lose their money.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: gunhell16 on June 28, 2025, 12:10:01 PM
I lost big money in a week. Through the week I was lucky to win big, and by the weekend I lost everything and went beyond my limits. That's a massive loss, which I wasn't able to accept all of a sudden. By the time I know the mistake is completely mine, it happened because of my belief that somehow I can recover what has been lost. At the end I realized the truth that things won't happen according to our expectations. By the time I didn't blame the casino, I contacted the support team requesting help. Finally, the owner of the casino provided me with $300, as the loss was very huge, around $23,000.

I just shake my head at gamblers who manage to lose such a huge amount that, considering that it takes other people with regular jobs 15 to 20 years before they reach a total income like 23000$, that's really a lot of money in this day and age.

It seems like the casino owner just gave you a tip or a tip for the money you lost on their platform or that the amount of 300$ didn't come from their pocket but from yours, but at least you learned a lesson from that mistake.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Kelward on June 28, 2025, 12:47:33 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Why will I be losing, then I will want to put the blame on another person, I don’t think I will be losing, then I will be putting the blame on casino, it doesn’t make any sense, just accept your mistake, and look for possible ways to avoid similar mistake later in the future, if you keep on blaming the casino for your mistake, then you will keep on making similar mistake, and you are going to keep on losing. The only time I blame a gambling site is whenever their is maybe a technical error from them, but whenever I place bet and I lose, then I will blame myself for that.
It's easy to blame others or systems for our personal failures, some people don't like to accept responsibility of their failed actions. Somebody will gamble in the hope of doubling their money multiple times forgetting that they are risking their money in the same process. They don't know that the casino is also looking to take their money from them, furthermore they don't know that the casinos have greater chances of taking their wagers than them winning. If you must gamble you need to be aware that you can either win the casino's money or they will take you own.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: KiaKia on June 28, 2025, 01:22:48 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Blaming the casino will be the only thing to do if I risk a lot of money and I lost it, I will be mad at everything and want to make the casino look bad, wouldn't you do the same? It's in human nature.

It's why I don't want to be in such position, so hopeless and helpless, because of gambling decisions that I made, sometimes you just have to accept the truth about gambling, don't think you are special and others are dumb.

Dumb people can go on for years shifting blames because they don't want to accept defeat or accept their own mistakes, it happens, but someone who can change something knows deep down that accepting mistakes and learning from them is how we truly wins.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ziskinberg on June 28, 2025, 01:33:02 PM


Dumb people can go on for years shifting blames because they don't want to accept defeat or accept their own mistakes, it happens, but someone who can change something knows deep down that accepting mistakes and learning from them is how we truly wins.

One of the mistakes that's hard to accept is when we lose because we lost control.. it's frustrating, especially when you know the loss didn’t come from a bad read or poor stats, but simply from letting emotions take over, that kind of mistake is tough because it's on us, not the game.

On the other hand... errors like picking the wrong team or misjudging the total can be learned from as those are based on stats and analysis, and over time we can improve. But if you can’t control your emotions it’s really hard to stay consistent and win in the long run.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Woodie on June 28, 2025, 01:39:01 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Having played some games here and there , I can assure you that not all loses should be conceded, some are because of a glitch of a gambling platform and for a regular you are able to tell when this happens.
But for general loses its just human to blame the loss on something or someone else as vindication to a loss.

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
Personally I have blamed them and taken videos of whats happening and made my point to them..and luckily they did refund the losses  :)


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: YOSHIE on June 28, 2025, 02:51:58 PM
Blaming the casino will be the only thing to do if I risk a lot of money and I lost it, I will be mad at everything and want to make the casino look bad, wouldn't you do the same? It's in human nature.
Maybe everyone can understand that, maybe no one does not agree if that happens, the casino must be responsible for losses.

But what for those who always blame the casino, clearly proven they violate your rules, whether it can be tolerated.....!

We all understand casinos have real rules that can be obeyed, not vice versa, for that every user needs to understand First, everything in the casino before depositing more to bet, we have no problem than having to have problems, basically: Risk Casinos.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Aanuoluwatofunmi on June 28, 2025, 02:57:19 PM
The casinos only exist to provides us with gambling services, ours is to search thoroughly on which platform to use for gambling, how we can play games safely as to the rate of our affordability, we are not expected to shift blame on anyone if we gamble, they are not the cause to our lose, because behaviors in this manners often happens when players get nuked sown by losses when the bet being played turned a failed attempt, then they shift the blame on the casinos, but if they won, there is nothing they would have say against the same casino.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: CryptoYar on June 28, 2025, 03:18:44 PM
It is common for people to blame outside factors when they lose especially in gambling where emotions run high. This happens because it is hard to admit our own mistakes and blaming others protects our pride.

Things we might say to ourselves include dealer was lucky or game was rigged or if only one thing went differently. These excuses stop us from learning from our errors and growing. Many of us have done this as it is natural to avoid discomfort. However true growth comes from realizing and owning up to our part in what went wrong.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Die_empty on June 28, 2025, 03:19:26 PM
One of the mistakes that's hard to accept is when we lose because we lost control.. it's frustrating, especially when you know the loss didn’t come from a bad read or poor stats, but simply from letting emotions take over, that kind of mistake is tough because it's on us, not the game.

On the other hand... errors like picking the wrong team or misjudging the total can be learned from as those are based on stats and analysis, and over time we can improve. But if you can’t control your emotions it’s really hard to stay consistent and win in the long run.
There is no need to blame the casino except you have genuine proof that the games were rigged or unfair. I am usually pained when a player's performance, such as missing clear chances, causes me to lose a bet. Players getting a red card due to some stupid mistakes could also be painful. Another painful experience is when referees make some wrong decisions that affect the outcome of the game. In some cases, making mistakes while placing results in losses could also be frustrating. I don't blame betting platforms for my losses especially if it is sports betting.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: GIF-JOBS on June 28, 2025, 04:02:43 PM
One of the mistakes that's hard to accept is when we lose because we lost control.. it's frustrating, especially when you know the loss didn’t come from a bad read or poor stats, but simply from letting emotions take over, that kind of mistake is tough because it's on us, not the game.

On the other hand... errors like picking the wrong team or misjudging the total can be learned from as those are based on stats and analysis, and over time we can improve. But if you can’t control your emotions it’s really hard to stay consistent and win in the long run.
There is no need to blame the casino except you have genuine proof that the games were rigged or unfair. I am usually pained when a player's performance, such as missing clear chances, causes me to lose a bet. Players getting a red card due to some stupid mistakes could also be painful. Another painful experience is when referees make some wrong decisions that affect the outcome of the game. In some cases, making mistakes while placing results in losses could also be frustrating. I don't blame betting platforms for my losses especially if it is sports betting.
There are risks in every situation, and there are unexpected situations in every game, so nothing is guaranteed. It is very common for a strong team to face any unexpected situation on the field of play for various reasons, which can completely change the final outcome of their game. These things are beyond anyone's control, so you can't blame anyone, not even the platform, so first of all, you have to be aware, and have a mindset of accepting any outcome, since everything is unpredictable.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: pawanjain on June 28, 2025, 04:14:18 PM
I haven't faced such situations myself but when I read of how people lose money in gambling on this forum and still blame the casinos I feel that sometimes it's their own fault.
Its very common for people to put their blame on others. We as humans don't like when someone pin point our mistakes.
But we have to act mature and know what are mistakes are and we should learn from them.
If people know when to stop gambling and control themselves from over gambling then the number of issues from gambling will be decreased.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: irhact on June 28, 2025, 04:36:57 PM
There is no need to blame the casino except you have genuine proof that the games were rigged or unfair. I am usually pained when a player's performance, such as missing clear chances, causes me to lose a bet. Players getting a red card due to some stupid mistakes could also be painful. Another painful experience is when referees make some wrong decisions that affect the outcome of the game. In some cases, making mistakes while placing results in losses could also be frustrating. I don't blame betting platforms for my losses especially if it is sports betting.

Sport betting is different from casino games and you can blame the club, coach, players or referees for sport betting because their decisions can influence the result of the game. If a striker keeps missing chances and wasn't substituted from the match early and it makes you to lose your bet, you can blame them but it won't affect the results that you have already gotten. For casino games though apart from errors from the casino, you have nobody to blame when you lose because you picked the wrong game to play. Fair casino don't have time to make you to lose but it's just you that isn't lucky that day and that's why you're losing.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Die_empty on June 28, 2025, 04:59:30 PM
There is no need to blame the casino except you have genuine proof that the games were rigged or unfair. I am usually pained when a player's performance, such as missing clear chances, causes me to lose a bet. Players getting a red card due to some stupid mistakes could also be painful. Another painful experience is when referees make some wrong decisions that affect the outcome of the game. In some cases, making mistakes while placing results in losses could also be frustrating. I don't blame betting platforms for my losses especially if it is sports betting.

Sport betting is different from casino games and you can blame the club, coach, players or referees for sport betting because their decisions can influence the result of the game. If a striker keeps missing chances and wasn't substituted from the match early and it makes you to lose your bet, you can blame them but it won't affect the results that you have already gotten.
You are right, casino games and different from sports betting. But some casinos offer sports betting services, that's why I said you cannot blame them for losses ( I used casino as a general word to cover betting platforms). No amount of blame or complaint will affect the outcome of the match since you are not part of the team. But as humans, it is common to complain about something you don't have control over.

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For casino games though apart from errors from the casino, you have nobody to blame when you lose because you picked the wrong game to play. Fair casino don't have time to make you to lose but it's just you that isn't lucky that day and that's why you're losing.
That's was why I said if you don't have proof that a game in the casino is rigged or unfair, you don't have any need to blame anybody.  Casino games are determined mainly by luck.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Dr.Bitcoin_Strange on June 29, 2025, 08:51:36 AM
It is common for people to blame outside factors when they lose especially in gambling where emotions run high. This happens because it is hard to admit our own mistakes and blaming others protects our pride.

Things we might say to ourselves include dealer was lucky or game was rigged or if only one thing went differently. These excuses stop us from learning from our errors and growing. Many of us have done this as it is natural to avoid discomfort. However true growth comes from realizing and owning up to our part in what went wrong.

I agree with you, some people put the blame on something else because it makes them feel relief but that doesn't solve the problem because next time they will find their self in such situation and they will find another to blame since they are not comfortable to convince their self that they are the cause of the problem and they don't also want learn to accept defeate and do what will not affect them emotionally.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Frankolala on June 29, 2025, 09:08:27 AM
It is common for people to blame outside factors when they lose especially in gambling where emotions run high. This happens because it is hard to admit our own mistakes and blaming others protects our pride.

Things we might say to ourselves include dealer was lucky or game was rigged or if only one thing went differently. These excuses stop us from learning from our errors and growing. Many of us have done this as it is natural to avoid discomfort. However true growth comes from realizing and owning up to our part in what went wrong.

I agree with you, some people put the blame on something else because it makes them feel relief but that doesn't solve the problem because next time they will find their self in such situation and they will find another to blame since they are not comfortable to convince their self that they are the cause of the problem and they don't also want learn to accept defeate and do what will not affect them emotionally.
When you keep on putting the blame on people, you will never learn and will continue making the same mistake over and over again, which will lead to more losses. I don't see how blaming someone will make you feel relieved because in the long run, you are the one losing and not the person that you are putting the blame on because it's your money.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: purple_sparkles on June 29, 2025, 10:59:15 AM

When you keep on putting the blame on people, you will never learn and will continue making the same mistake over and over again, which will lead to more losses. I don't see how blaming someone will make you feel relieved because in the long run, you are the one losing and not the person that you are putting the blame on because it's your money.

When we blame external factors for our failures, whether it’s the casino, work, family, or something els, it shows an unwillingness to take responsibility for our own actions. That’s simply a childish mindset.Relief may come, of course, but it won’t solve the problem. Aside from a moment of emotional satisfaction, it changes nothing ,especially in terms of long-term strategy. If you don’t take responsibility for everything happening in your life, don’t be surprised when the results are far from what you actually wanted.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Frankolala on June 29, 2025, 11:37:01 AM

When you keep on putting the blame on people, you will never learn and will continue making the same mistake over and over again, which will lead to more losses. I don't see how blaming someone will make you feel relieved because in the long run, you are the one losing and not the person that you are putting the blame on because it's your money.

When we blame external factors for our failures, whether it’s the casino, work, family, or something els, it shows an unwillingness to take responsibility for our own actions. That’s simply a childish mindset.Relief may come, of course, but it won’t solve the problem. Aside from a moment of emotional satisfaction, it changes nothing ,especially in terms of long-term strategy. If you don’t take responsibility for everything happening in your life, don’t be surprised when the results are far from what you actually wanted.
As long as you are up to 18 years of age, you are responsible for whatever actions that you take, even though, you were lured to do something that has a negative impact on you. If you don't want to take the blame of your losses, there is no need for you to gamble. If those gamblers that blame people for their losses happens to make profits will they blame anyone for their actions. I guess NO. Humans only blame others when things go wrong.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ever-young on June 29, 2025, 11:48:28 AM
One of the mistakes that's hard to accept is when we lose because we lost control.. it's frustrating, especially when you know the loss didn’t come from a bad read or poor stats, but simply from letting emotions take over, that kind of mistake is tough because it's on us, not the game.

On the other hand... errors like picking the wrong team or misjudging the total can be learned from as those are based on stats and analysis, and over time we can improve. But if you can’t control your emotions it’s really hard to stay consistent and win in the long run.
There is no need to blame the casino except you have genuine proof that the games were rigged or unfair. I am usually pained when a player's performance, such as missing clear chances, causes me to lose a bet. Players getting a red card due to some stupid mistakes could also be painful. Another painful experience is when referees make some wrong decisions that affect the outcome of the game. In some cases, making mistakes while placing results in losses could also be frustrating. I don't blame betting platforms for my losses especially if it is sports betting.
I believe the problem is that, those gamblers who usually blame the casino for their losses forget the fact that the odds are mostly in favour of the casino, meaning that the players are believed to lose more often than they win, and some gamblers have not come to the realisation of this fact, and that makes them think it's the casino rigging the games.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: lienfaye on June 29, 2025, 11:54:20 AM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
I'm guilty on this. It happened to me when I was just a newbie playing in online casinos. Since it's accessible (making deposits conveniently), I became fool to not controlling myself. I was blinded by the profit, seeing some gamblers who made fortune in gambling. That time, dice is quite popular and it seems easy to win.

To make the story short I lose a decent amount, and clearly i'm the one at fault. But even so, I just can't accept that it happened. Therefore, to lessen the guilt, I tend to be indenial and blame the casino instead. This is the reason why it's important that you know the consequences of your action to be prepared for the outcome. Because it's our decision to use our money in gambling. Anyway, it's all in the past now.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Tungbulu on June 29, 2025, 12:07:34 PM
There is no need to blame the casino except you have genuine proof that the games were rigged or unfair. I am usually pained when a player's performance, such as missing clear chances, causes me to lose a bet. Players getting a red card due to some stupid mistakes could also be painful. Another painful experience is when referees make some wrong decisions that affect the outcome of the game. In some cases, making mistakes while placing results in losses could also be frustrating. I don't blame betting platforms for my losses especially if it is sports betting.
I believe the problem is that, those gamblers who usually blame the casino for their losses forget the fact that the odds are mostly in favour of the casino, meaning that the players are believed to lose more often than they win, and some gamblers have not come to the realisation of this fact, and that makes them think it's the casino rigging the games.
I totally understand what you're trying to say, but then again, we may have a few exceptions to your POV concerning when gamblers blame the casino for their losses. Inasmuch as the casino may not have much influence on certain game outcomes, we still can't pay deaf ears or pretend like we don't know that there are actually certain games that the casino actually have much of an influence on the game's outcome.

A lot, at least almost all online casinos have a few virtual and simulation games that gambler can go try just to test their luck, to an extent, I may have to believe that the casino can actually influence the outcomes of these types of games.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Joy- maker on June 29, 2025, 02:14:07 PM
Due people really blame casino for their lost? If yes that's a fuck because you don't blame casino for your lost.
To my own best of knowledge I don't think people blame casino if they lose their money rather they blame the team which they placed their bet on, why because the casino has no hands in your lose, it is just a gambling site where you make your deposits and stake bets, so if you lose your money it is not their fault rather it is the fault of team you predicted to win and they lost. But in my opinion I will say no one is to blame including yourself, why because gambling is a game of luck, you can't predict the future, so if you eventually predict a game and it plaid according to your own predictions that's your luck and not you predicting the future okay.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Wonder Work on June 29, 2025, 02:24:20 PM

I haven't faced such situations myself but when I read of how people lose money in gambling on this forum and still blame the casinos I feel that sometimes it's their own fault.


Yeap Bro, The mistakes are within ourselves, but they are blame others. Gambling should not be done with any emotion, it will go at its own pace, but when people come here, they create such an emotional environment that it seems that if they had won because of their emotions, it would have been better. The matter is completely different. It is not right to blame others for their mistakes. It would be better for them if they could correct their own mistakes, but in reality, they do not want to correct themselves, so we sometimes have to read such posts.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: yahoo62278 on June 29, 2025, 02:39:04 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
People blame the casino because they don't understand gambling and they let their emotions take over. They think the casino has rigged the games for them to lose. Yes the casino could 100% rig the games and make people lose, but the casino that does that and gets caught will ruin themselves and lose way more money then they ever took from customers. They'd be in court for years being sued by everyone they stole from.

It's gamblers fallacy that screws the player. There is no such thing as "DUE" or this machine is hot. It's all independent rolls on dice, spins on slots, cards in blackjack. All random. The casino doesn't need to cheat anyone.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ricardo11 on June 29, 2025, 02:44:36 PM
It is common for people to blame outside factors when they lose especially in gambling where emotions run high. This happens because it is hard to admit our own mistakes and blaming others protects our pride.

Things we might say to ourselves include dealer was lucky or game was rigged or if only one thing went differently. These excuses stop us from learning from our errors and growing. Many of us have done this as it is natural to avoid discomfort. However true growth comes from realizing and owning up to our part in what went wrong.

I agree with you, some people put the blame on something else because it makes them feel relief but that doesn't solve the problem because next time they will find their self in such situation and they will find another to blame since they are not comfortable to convince their self that they are the cause of the problem and they don't also want learn to accept defeate and do what will not affect them emotionally.
When you keep on putting the blame on people, you will never learn and will continue making the same mistake over and over again, which will lead to more losses. I don't see how blaming someone will make you feel relieved because in the long run, you are the one losing and not the person that you are putting the blame on because it's your money.
But gamblers do not want to understand this simple fact, that if you blame others, your losses will never come back, rather, that gambler should have learned the right lesson from it, so that he does not gamble uncontrollably in the future, but this is the only problem with gamblers that they never know how to understand anything properly, or instead of learning the right lesson from it, after they lose, they become more emotional, and this is why they can never bring themselves back on the right path. Until they can admit their mistakes and behave consciously and responsibly, they will never achieve anything good, they will become more deeply addicted to gambling and at one point become completely destitute.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: cabron on June 29, 2025, 02:56:48 PM

Maybe for some gambler but sure they know its stupid to blame a casino when they already know the house always win. Unless they cheated and then still thinks its the casinos fault. That would be too immature for him and not fit to really play at all.

I'm not even sure if I ever heard someone in here actually blamed a casino but regretting someone have been pretty common. And for that they know its their fault.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: pawanjain on June 29, 2025, 03:44:32 PM

I haven't faced such situations myself but when I read of how people lose money in gambling on this forum and still blame the casinos I feel that sometimes it's their own fault.


Yeap Bro, The mistakes are within ourselves, but they are blame others. Gambling should not be done with any emotion, it will go at its own pace, but when people come here, they create such an emotional environment that it seems that if they had won because of their emotions, it would have been better. The matter is completely different. It is not right to blame others for their mistakes. It would be better for them if they could correct their own mistakes, but in reality, they do not want to correct themselves, so we sometimes have to read such posts.

The thing is that they are so involved with gambling that they tend to feel that they cannot make such a big mistake to lose it all.
It is as if everything is falling apart and it's all because their own mistake but they can't accept it and instead chose to blame on it everything else.
The real reason is that we always have a choice in almost everything and it's because of our own choices that we face the consequences.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: rachael9385 on June 29, 2025, 04:08:26 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

 I have been in a situation where I took a big loss, but I don't always put the blame to the casino but myself for being greed. However, if we keep blaming the casino whenever we experience big loss definitely we won't stop risking big, since we think that the casino is the reason behind that. And for how long should we keep blaming the casino for that? If it's to use that as excuse just to avoid feeling stupid, honestly this doesn't make any sense to me, and it will look More stupid if we use that as an excuse instead of looking for a way to deal with it.





It's funny when people blame the casinos for their mistakes and greed, like you said, if we keep blaming the casino we won't stop gambling irresponsibly. Before someone blames the casino because they think that the game is rigged they tend to forget the times that they actually won. It's a win and losing game, the casinos are not cheating, gamblers use this excuse to cover up their irresponsible acts


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: iv4n on June 29, 2025, 04:15:24 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

As you wrote, "Man up!". You made a mess, now bear the consequences and solve the issue. Crying never helps, blaming others (even addiction) is foolish/childish... It's easier to point fingers at others, but it can be hard to take responsibility for your actions.

Those who wish will find a way, those who don't will find an excuse. Like in gambling, we need to pick a side and stand on it... It shows character and who we are.



Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Hispo on June 29, 2025, 05:31:11 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

As you wrote, "Man up!". You made a mess, now bear the consequences and solve the issue. Crying never helps, blaming others (even addiction) is foolish/childish... It's easier to point fingers at others, but it can be hard to take responsibility for your actions.

Those who wish will find a way, those who don't will find an excuse. Like in gambling, we need to pick a side and stand on it... It shows character and who we are.



Haven't you gotten  the impression it has become harder for people to "man up" in these lastest years when comes to taking responsibilities on the actions they do with their own money? It could be because those people have been targeted with advertisements which have created false expectations on their minds and even though they could be considered to be legal adults, they have not reach mental maturity yet, so they lash out against the casino and casino games when they find themselves losing money, completely different from what they saw on advertisements on social media and on Television, about people getting life changing amounts of money thanks to their luck and no effort whatsoever.

Anyone mature enough who gamblers their money on casinos would first picture what would happen if they lost the money they are about to put at stake and decide whether they are okey with it, so they won't yell on social media if they are unlucky with their session. It seems barely anyone thinks before betting or gambling nowadays, specially the youngest generations of gamblers.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: madnessteat on July 03, 2025, 06:05:33 PM
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Losing money is always unpleasant, but I completely agree with you that a responsible gambler should consider and accept the possibility of defeat before the start of the gambling session, rather than foaming at the mouth and proving that the casino is to blame for his loss. I have seen such people many times, and I was really amazed at how deeply convinced they were that they were not to blame for losing all their money. I would not recommend such people to gamble at all, because it is partly because of such people that society has a not very good opinion of gambling.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Fivestar4everMVP on July 03, 2025, 06:13:12 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
People or gamblers who mess up, lose money and end up blaming the casino instead of their self, do not do it because they don't want to feel stupid, they do it because they don't want other persons to see them as being stupid, a gambler who messes up knows within him or herself that he or she messed up, and is definitely regretting it.

I've had a similar experience where I mistakenly placed bets on a particular sports three time, that is, I betted on the same match three times and this was because I wasn't paying attention to what I was doing at the time, when I noticed, I wasn't agree because I felt I could win the bet and that would be 3x profit, but unfortunately, I lost, I felt very stupid myself but I still blamed the casino because I don't want the people I told about that incident to see me as stupid, I blamed the casino for not having a system that warns gamblers when they mistakenly bet again on the same match they have betted on before.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: tvplus006 on July 03, 2025, 06:41:02 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?..

This is a common practice, when you win, you believe that it's all due to your own strategy, and when you lose, a person usually looks for reasons elsewhere, without acknowledging the fact that he made the decision himself and this wrong decision led to a loss.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Mahanton on July 03, 2025, 06:59:27 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

As you wrote, "Man up!". You made a mess, now bear the consequences and solve the issue. Crying never helps, blaming others (even addiction) is foolish/childish... It's easier to point fingers at others, but it can be hard to take responsibility for your actions.

Those who wish will find a way, those who don't will find an excuse. Like in gambling, we need to pick a side and stand on it... It shows character and who we are.



Haven't you gotten  the impression it has become harder for people to "man up" in these lastest years when comes to taking responsibilities on the actions they do with their own money? It could be because those people have been targeted with advertisements which have created false expectations on their minds and even though they could be considered to be legal adults, they have not reach mental maturity yet, so they lash out against the casino and casino games when they find themselves losing money, completely different from what they saw on advertisements on social media and on Television, about people getting life changing amounts of money thanks to their luck and no effort whatsoever.

Anyone mature enough who gamblers their money on casinos would first picture what would happen if they lost the money they are about to put at stake and decide whether they are okey with it, so they won't yell on social media if they are unlucky with their session. It seems barely anyone thinks before betting or gambling nowadays, specially the youngest generations of gamblers.
Totally depends on a certain individual on which it would be neither that they would be letting themselves that easily been getting hooked up with these advertisements or not. We do know that businesses would be that too aggressive when it comes into marketing and making it as catchy as possible and knowing gambling business is a profitable one then you could expect that ways of advertisement would be that somewhat aggressive on which means that you can see these stuffs on different mediums and as you as a person who do easily get hooked up on something that interest you specially on gambling then its most likely you would be ending up on having that engagement and the worst thing is that you do become addicted into it. It isnt that bad to gamble as long you do make yourself that responsible into the actions that you are taking then there would be no problems but this isnt always the case because most of the time gamblers do become addicted because they've been that expecting that gambling could make them rich, whereas it do made out that different result instead. It would be just that too impossible that you cant be able to determine about into those potential risks and danger about on spending up soo much money specially at the time that you do lose your control on playing and spending up money into it. Speaking about blaming the casinos then its a normal reaction for someone because at the time that we do gamble then the primary thing that comes up into our mind is that we can be able to make easy money with it but at the moment or time that reality would slap into our face then this is where you would be able to realize that it was never been that easy because luck factor will be the main thing that be needed for you to win and profitable on which we know that it cant happen in real situation because luck isnt something that could be that influenced nor can be forced for it to be applied on a certain gambler. Also, we should be that realizing it out in the first place that gambling was built for the sake of fun and entertainment and not for making money or income with it on which this is that very that common for most gamblers that they've been thinking up on this way and thats why they do end up on becoming that impulsive just because they've been that expecting that too much.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Oluwa-btc on July 03, 2025, 07:28:07 PM

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?


I clearly see reasons with this honestly, the level at which most people tend to make excuses for their own wrongs and mistakes it's so annoying and they go on to putting blames on whoever rather than manning up for their own mistakes. Well I've not for once found myself in this situation of blaming the casino for my losses cause it's irrelevant  and Yes we're meant to be aware that the casinos gets bigger chances and we are left we little or nothing, so when you lose accept your fate and don't put blames anywhere.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Orpichukwu on July 03, 2025, 07:32:55 PM
Yeap Bro, The mistakes are within ourselves, but they are blame others. Gambling should not be done with any emotion, it will go at its own pace, but when people come here, they create such an emotional environment that it seems that if they had won because of their emotions, it would have been better. The matter is completely different. It is not right to blame others for their mistakes. It would be better for them if they could correct their own mistakes, but in reality, they do not want to correct themselves, so we sometimes have to read such posts.
How can someone be in a very bad mood, and the only thing that they could ever think of is to enter a casino, fund their account or walk into a physical one with their credit/debit card or cash at hand and want to pour their anger on the game they want to play? And the moment they experience losing, their anger will double compared to how it could have been. Some people learn how to control their emotions. In such a state, there are things to do and things not to do, and we will also never stop seeing such types of complaints around.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Shinpako09 on July 03, 2025, 07:45:18 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?..

This is a common practice, when you win, you believe that it's all due to your own strategy, and when you lose, a person usually looks for reasons elsewhere, without acknowledging the fact that he made the decision himself and this wrong decision led to a loss.
Yeah, it’s a common scenario, blaming and cursing the casino out of frustration, but after cooling down, it’s back to normal again. I’ve never reached the point like that guy in another thread who demanded that the casino should return all his losses. No matter how frustrated I get or how much I blame the casino, deep down I know it’s really my fault. And I’d never do something as ridiculous as asking for my money back. LOL.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Z_MBFM on July 03, 2025, 07:52:13 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?..

This is a common practice, when you win, you believe that it's all due to your own strategy, and when you lose, a person usually looks for reasons elsewhere, without acknowledging the fact that he made the decision himself and this wrong decision led to a loss.
Yeah, it’s a common scenario, blaming and cursing the casino out of frustration, but after cooling down, it’s back to normal again. I’ve never reached the point like that guy in another thread who demanded that the casino should return all his losses. No matter how frustrated I get or how much I blame the casino, deep down I know it’s really my fault. And I’d never do something as ridiculous as asking for my money back. LOL.
Once someone wins in a casino, they forget everything before that. Many people do not want to accept that everything in a casino depends on luck. And because of this, when they lose, they start blaming the casino site. Then they do not think that it was their luck. After a few days of frustration, they start gambling again, and if they win, then they do not blame the casino site and do not say that the casino site made them win, they say that they are lucky or that they won using their sophisticated techniques. These are completely emotional things. When they are too emotional or too excited, gamblers do such activities. So they cannot be explained about these things. Because these are automatic according to the situation.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: DaNNy001 on July 03, 2025, 08:19:23 PM
I never blame anyone when I experience a big loss. I fully realize that all of this is the result of my own decisions and actions. Instead of blaming others, including the provider, I prefer to evaluate myself, maybe this is not the time for me to win big. I will try to realize that, when I try to chase losses in the hope of being able to cover them immediately, what happens is the opposite, we get carried away by emotions, lose control, and fall deeper. The mind becomes narrow, logic is replaced by desire, and unknowingly we enter a cycle of loss and win that continues to repeat itself.

That's a mature way to deal with losses, instead of blaming anyone or the casino for your losses just think of ways to limit yourself or ways to reduce your losses. anytime a gambler blames the casino for his losses or feels cheated he will definitely want to chase his losses, this is what I have observed about this. Approaching gambling with such mindset would cause more harm than good in the long run


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: MainIbem on July 03, 2025, 08:57:32 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Situations like these occur when the said gambler has bragged among his peers and end up losing, out of embarrassment, they'll channel all their frustration to the Casinos they gambled with instead of taking blames for their own mistakes, the Casino didn't choose predictions for him, they gave him options and he made his choice. Also casinos don't force anyone to gamble they advertise their business then attract and get costumers so instead of complaining the gamblers should try to quit gambling, since they can't control their emotions when they lose.On a second thought frustration can cause people to use the wrong statement.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Finestream on July 03, 2025, 09:24:05 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?..

This is a common practice, when you win, you believe that it's all due to your own strategy, and when you lose, a person usually looks for reasons elsewhere, without acknowledging the fact that he made the decision himself and this wrong decision led to a loss.
That's how an irresponsible gambler responds to their losses. Instead of accepting the consequences of their decision, they will blame elsewhere, thinking that they are right. A kind of gambler who will surely never find themselves confident, because everything they do will always have an excuse.

This kind of person should not gamble in the first place. Because a gambler should know the risk and accept the consequences. If this is difficult for us to do, then gambling is not the right place for us.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Stalker22 on July 03, 2025, 09:49:20 PM
When we make a stupid decision that costs us money, our first reaction is rarely "Wow, Im an idiot."  Instead, we look for something or someone else to blame - the market manipulated us, the casino had a glitch, or the game is rigged.  Its like a natural human defense to avoid taking responsibility and admitting we were the ones who messed up. 

I mean, Ive totally been there and  I bought some altcoin that tanked hard and my immediate thought wasnt that I made a reckless gamble.  No way! I was certain there must have been market manipulation or maybe the developers rug pulled.  Just couldnt accept that it was my own boneheaded move.

I guess thats just human nature.  Well do all kinds of mental gymnastics to shield our egos from the harsh truth that we screw up sometimes.  Easier to point the finger than acknowledge our own dumb decisions.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Odusko on July 03, 2025, 10:11:01 PM
Is quite a shameful thing to do for any one to blame casino for their loses, how the world will someone think like that, I have seen a few of such people who tend to shift their blame to casinos instead to man up and accept responsibility for their irresponsible gambling lifestyle , majority of them will go as far as accusing the casino of not abiding to their self exclusion deal there by making them to gamble more that they can control, whereas the casino is not surpose to be blame for that.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: RockBell on July 03, 2025, 10:28:36 PM
Losing money is always unpleasant, but I completely agree with you that a responsible gambler should consider and accept the possibility of defeat before the start of the gambling session, rather than foaming at the mouth and proving that the casino is to blame for his loss. I have seen such people many times, and I was really amazed at how deeply convinced they were that they were not to blame for losing all their money. I would not recommend such people to gamble at all, because it is partly because of such people that society has a not very good opinion of gambling.

And if you take note of people that are gambling they are always looking for people to blame so there is no need for them to blame anyone you selected the game your self so it is better to take blame and then try again next time, and when you are gambling you need to be responsible for what ever action you are taking, and we should know that even casino lose money so its a 50/50 thing so you don't need to over worry your self, and if not that they are not serious how would blame casinos for what you used your own hands to played it so you blame your self no body else and they feel its only fun when you are winning and you wont always win.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Hispo on July 03, 2025, 11:44:46 PM
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Losing money is always unpleasant, but I completely agree with you that a responsible gambler should consider and accept the possibility of defeat before the start of the gambling session, rather than foaming at the mouth and proving that the casino is to blame for his loss. I have seen such people many times, and I was really amazed at how deeply convinced they were that they were not to blame for losing all their money. I would not recommend such people to gamble at all, because it is partly because of such people that society has a not very good opinion of gambling.

There will be always stigma when comes to gambling and gamblers, that is not going to change as there will be always people who misrepresents the majority of gamblers how have common sense and understand what this whole game is about in order for someone to win, others have to lose.
Also, I have the personal theory those people who cannot accept the defeat and their bad luck during a gambling session and ultimately end up blaming the casino for their losses have a very distorted perception of gambling and betting, probably because they have been watching people winning big on social media during several months or weeks before they tried themselves to get money from gambling. From the very beginning, then they step in the casino, they already have high expectations and they explode when they are not met in reality.

Those people are not suitable to be gamblers and should invest their money in other hobbies and ways to kill time, it would make a big favor reducing the stigma and stereotypes society has on gamblers.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: masulum on July 04, 2025, 03:09:22 AM
That's a mature way to deal with losses, instead of blaming anyone or the casino for your losses just think of ways to limit yourself or ways to reduce your losses. anytime a gambler blames the casino for his losses or feels cheated he will definitely want to chase his losses, this is what I have observed about this. Approaching gambling with such mindset would cause more harm than good in the long run

I just trying to accept any risk, why do we have blame the provider, the system and so on, all the losses experienced are starting from our decision to deposit and betting. If I made a deposit, it means that I am ready with all the risks that will be obtained after betting or spin. Blaming the system or the provider or other people will not make the money from our losses back. Accepting the fact that we have lost will make our minds better.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Outhue on July 04, 2025, 12:16:45 PM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

As you wrote, "Man up!". You made a mess, now bear the consequences and solve the issue. Crying never helps, blaming others (even addiction) is foolish/childish... It's easier to point fingers at others, but it can be hard to take responsibility for your actions.

Those who wish will find a way, those who don't will find an excuse. Like in gambling, we need to pick a side and stand on it... It shows character and who we are.



They don't even need to man up, they can keep been the babies that they are but all they just have to do is risk only what they can afford to lose, then it's a byebye to all disasters that comes out of gambling and attack the greedy ones.

The blames, emotions and regrets are fueled by losing what you aren't ready to lose, it is very simply to understand, this is why I don't pity any gambler that decide to go the greedy part, everyone deserves what they get through gambling.

I don't have to make millions from gambling, not even the thousands, I got a job and investment plans for that, but people are so lazy this days that they want the miracle of escaping poverty through gambling, and when they lose big amount of money they start to blame the casino, yet they find it hard to believe that the house always win.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Fredomago on July 04, 2025, 01:36:18 PM
That's a mature way to deal with losses, instead of blaming anyone or the casino for your losses just think of ways to limit yourself or ways to reduce your losses. anytime a gambler blames the casino for his losses or feels cheated he will definitely want to chase his losses, this is what I have observed about this. Approaching gambling with such mindset would cause more harm than good in the long run

I just trying to accept any risk, why do we have blame the provider, the system and so on, all the losses experienced are starting from our decision to deposit and betting. If I made a deposit, it means that I am ready with all the risks that will be obtained after betting or spin. Blaming the system or the provider or other people will not make the money from our losses back. Accepting the fact that we have lost will make our minds better.

And will let you to move forward, if you know how to accept whatever the outcome of your gambling then you'll not going to pointfinger to anything, just use your spare and enjoy your game, a simple but hard to execute when you already engage deeply into gambling, blaming others especially the house/provider, they are just running the business, proving services to those who loves the activities, it's up to the gambler if they'll use the platform and risk their money.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: famososMuertos on July 04, 2025, 08:49:09 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?..

This is a common practice, when you win, you believe that it's all due to your own strategy, and when you lose, a person usually looks for reasons elsewhere, without acknowledging the fact that he made the decision himself and this wrong decision led to a loss.

OP, like many others, is trying to make the topic of gambling a matter of someone else's misfortune, when in reality it's like asking the same question: if you wake up late, it's not your fault; it's because your alarm didn't go off, and then a thousand blames fall on the alarm.

Or perhaps, in truth, we ourselves are the best example by responding to these hackneyed threads, so it's worth asking: whose fault is it OP's, or us who are responding? I don't know, but if this post is "spam," it's OP's fault.

; )


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: asyakashi on July 04, 2025, 09:01:19 PM
Of course that was a bitter moment that I have ever felt, besides blaming the system I also experienced severe depression, if I remember it now, I am very ashamed, now I have limited my gambling and now the situation has improved, I am still actively playing even though only occasionally


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: baeva on July 04, 2025, 09:10:05 PM
Of course that was a bitter moment that I have ever felt, besides blaming the system I also experienced severe depression, if I remember it now, I am very ashamed, now I have limited my gambling and now the situation has improved, I am still actively playing even though only occasionally

It seems to me if you do continue the game, you have not got rid of your problems globally and after a while you will have the same regrets, that's all. But basically, if you changed tactics and you feel more comfortable playing, then why not. When games don't put you in debt and don't hit your budget, there's nothing wrong with them


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: masulum on July 05, 2025, 02:14:40 PM
And will let you to move forward, if you know how to accept whatever the outcome of your gambling then you'll not going to pointfinger to anything, just use your spare and enjoy your game, a simple but hard to execute when you already engage deeply into gambling, blaming others especially the house/provider, they are just running the business, proving services to those who loves the activities, it's up to the gambler if they'll use the platform and risk their money.

Yes, they are just running a business but they are considered to have deceived their players. It is normal that many loser do this, the first reason is because of frustration, such as, players have not been given a win in betting for months, making users feel lied to and start blaming the service. It is not surprising that something like this happens.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Muba20 on July 05, 2025, 04:24:39 PM
Of course that was a bitter moment that I have ever felt, besides blaming the system I also experienced severe depression, if I remember it now, I am very ashamed, now I have limited my gambling and now the situation has improved, I am still actively playing even though only occasionally
I too used to blame myself when I lost, but when I looked at it more closely, I realized that blaming never leads to success. Rather, it can only increase my depression. Moreover, I am biased and blame the casino for losing, but if I had won, I would never have blamed myself. There are many people like me who try to blame the platform without understanding it, but when they win big, they will realize their mistake. It should be remembered that gambling platforms are not here to make me win only. They are also here to profit from their business. And there is also a saying about luck. If luck is not good, then there is no point in blaming others. Those who are wise never try to blame others. Although I did not understand the matter at first, after gambling regularly for a few days, I learned to understand it myself.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Mpamaegbu on July 05, 2025, 06:12:53 PM

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
Of course, that's why those who pass the buck do it. They do it so they don't appear or feel stupid before others. I think of when gamblers blame their bad games on casinos the same way when I see bad artisans blame their tools for their poor showing when they do shoddy jobs. Casinos may have an edge on gamblers but we should also accept responsibility for our gambling habit and outing whenever we goof. Shifting blame won't help us spot the mistake in choices of bet we make, accepting responsibility for our mistake does as it affords us that opportunity to have a reassessment of our bets.

I don't blame anyone when I lose. I know my engagements are solely my responsibility.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: madnessteat on July 06, 2025, 03:43:12 PM
~snip~

There will be always stigma when comes to gambling and gamblers, that is not going to change as there will be always people who misrepresents the majority of gamblers how have common sense and understand what this whole game is about in order for someone to win, others have to lose.
Also, I have the personal theory those people who cannot accept the defeat and their bad luck during a gambling session and ultimately end up blaming the casino for their losses have a very distorted perception of gambling and betting, probably because they have been watching people winning big on social media during several months or weeks before they tried themselves to get money from gambling. From the very beginning, then they step in the casino, they already have high expectations and they explode when they are not met in reality.

Those people are not suitable to be gamblers and should invest their money in other hobbies and ways to kill time, it would make a big favor reducing the stigma and stereotypes society has on gamblers.

Initially, we all come to gambling with inflated expectations, and only after gaining personal experience (mostly negative) do we lower our expectations. Most likely, people who blame casinos for their losses have a gambling addiction. It is quite difficult to convince such people that they are the root of the problem, because their mental illness prevents them from understanding that all their problems can be solved simply by stopping gambling. In my opinion, such people need serious help, and the sooner the better.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: danherbias07 on July 06, 2025, 03:59:47 PM
Of course that was a bitter moment that I have ever felt, besides blaming the system I also experienced severe depression, if I remember it now, I am very ashamed, now I have limited my gambling and now the situation has improved, I am still actively playing even though only occasionally

You learned from your own lesson. Sometimes that's what it takes for a gambler to learn. They need to experience the bad things that will happen so that they will change.

Now, it's up to you what you will do next. You said you are ashamed of what happened, but it doesn't really need to be like that. We just have to learn from it. Now that you are in control, you will just have to keep it up. It's not like we are not going to change, so maybe now it's a different you, and I hope it's all for the good.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: swogerino on July 06, 2025, 05:34:04 PM
Of course that was a bitter moment that I have ever felt, besides blaming the system I also experienced severe depression, if I remember it now, I am very ashamed, now I have limited my gambling and now the situation has improved, I am still actively playing even though only occasionally

I remember when I decided to quit in early January of this year and I completely blame the casino at that time, though honestly I was right as I have never experienced 24 consecutive buy bonuses in a row and exactly after that 5 super buy bonus lost making it in total 29 consecutive buy bonus lost in a row. On the other hand I also "thank" the casino for making me experience the worse feeling ever that ended up with a great decision on my side. Since then I have only gambled very little money with some exceptions to the rule a very few times when I got sucked in Gates of Olympus Super Scatter game lately. I had a similar experience again with this game so for me is enough even now, going back to not gambling a lot and very few times with little money.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: NotATether on July 06, 2025, 05:36:30 PM
Imagine doing that in Vegas. LOL. Security would escort you out before you could finish your scam accusation.

Gambling is a recreational pastime for a reason: because of the element of risk.

If you can't handle the risk, don't gamble.

Gambling is not a job.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: rachael9385 on July 06, 2025, 05:48:47 PM
I have never been one to blame others for my own mistakes, but i have to admit that i have seen a lot of people do it, even on this forum. There are certain users who lose money to a casino fair and square, but you see them creating scam accusation threads about this or that consipracy, asking to get their money back. If you gamble with money you can afford to lose, you are not going to find yourself blaming the casino or regretting your gambling actions.

Scam accusation threads for their losses? That's absolutely insane. It's high time people who are not mentally and emotionally mature to realize that gambling isn't for them. Asking the casino back for your money that you willingly staked is crazy, you can't eat your cake and have it back. Regretting your gambling actions is normal but venting and blaming the casino is quite an abnormal thing to do


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: JunaidAzizi on July 06, 2025, 06:04:33 PM
I have never been one to blame others for my own mistakes, but i have to admit that i have seen a lot of people do it, even on this forum. There are certain users who lose money to a casino fair and square, but you see them creating scam accusation threads about this or that consipracy, asking to get their money back. If you gamble with money you can afford to lose, you are not going to find yourself blaming the casino or regretting your gambling actions.

Scam accusation threads for their losses? That's absolutely insane. It's high time people who are not mentally and emotionally mature to realize that gambling isn't for them. Asking the casino back for your money that you willingly staked is crazy, you can't eat your cake and have it back. Regretting your gambling actions is normal but venting and blaming the casino is quite an abnormal thing to do
Yes, I agree. People have to use only the money they can afford to lose for gambling. Gambling is a game where you will win and lose, and when you lose, you should admit it the same way you admit your wins. Be honest and fair when you lose; how can someone blame the casino or call it a scam when they lose? We all know casinos have rules and odds, and they have to be responsible enough to admit their own mistakes and losses. If they can't handle it, then gambling is probably not for them. Losing and then being upset is okay, it's a part of the game, but calling it a scam is something unfair, and they have to be mature enough to realize it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Fredomago on July 06, 2025, 06:09:30 PM
I have never been one to blame others for my own mistakes, but i have to admit that i have seen a lot of people do it, even on this forum. There are certain users who lose money to a casino fair and square, but you see them creating scam accusation threads about this or that consipracy, asking to get their money back. If you gamble with money you can afford to lose, you are not going to find yourself blaming the casino or regretting your gambling actions.

Scam accusation threads for their losses? That's absolutely insane. It's high time people who are not mentally and emotionally mature to realize that gambling isn't for them. Asking the casino back for your money that you willingly staked is crazy, you can't eat your cake and have it back. Regretting your gambling actions is normal but venting and blaming the casino is quite an abnormal thing to do

Yup, and there's nothing that they can prove about their claim if ever that they are complaining aboutt conspiracy if they willingly deposit their money and eventually they've lost it when they put their bets, nothing but regret once you lose into gambling, whatever your explaination and even how good your investigation it will be tough to prove your claim and recever back your money, better to move forward and if possible quit your way or just limit your allocated budget.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Agbe on July 06, 2025, 06:14:14 PM
I have never been one to blame others for my own mistakes, but i have to admit that i have seen a lot of people do it, even on this forum. There are certain users who lose money to a casino fair and square, but you see them creating scam accusation threads about this or that consipracy, asking to get their money back. If you gamble with money you can afford to lose, you are not going to find yourself blaming the casino or regretting your gambling actions.

Scam accusation threads for their losses? That's absolutely insane. It's high time people who are not mentally and emotionally mature to realize that gambling isn't for them. Asking the casino back for your money that you willingly staked is crazy, you can't eat your cake and have it back. Regretting your gambling actions is normal but venting and blaming the casino is quite an abnormal thing to do
Yes, I agree. People have to use only the money they can afford to lose for gambling. Gambling is a game where you will win and lose, and when you lose, you should admit it the same way you admit your wins. Be honest and fair when you lose; how can someone blame the casino or call it a scam when they lose? We all know casinos have rules and odds, and they have to be responsible enough to admit their own mistakes and losses. If they can't handle it, then gambling is probably not for them. Losing and then being upset is okay, it's a part of the game, but calling it a scam is something unfair, and they have to be mature enough to realize it.
Anyone who is blaming casinos for their gambling problems is not mentally prepared enough to take part in gambling because gambling is one thing that is done with the foreknowledge of losing and winning so any one gambling is aware of this fact


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: alastantiger on July 06, 2025, 06:25:45 PM
Of course that was a bitter moment that I have ever felt, besides blaming the system I also experienced severe depression, if I remember it now, I am very ashamed, now I have limited my gambling and now the situation has improved, I am still actively playing even though only occasionally

Good for you and I hope others can take the decision that you took and it has change your life from being someone that used to blame the casino to acknowledging where you went wrong and did some corrections. We aren't losing because the casinos are cheating or being unfair to use but because of our greed hence when we lose, we should look at the steps we took and things that we didn't do right will get revealed to us. Becoming better starts from with in yourself and not from people that don't know about your existence. If you don't stake, you aren't losing and no one except yourself can stake on the game. There isn't anyone setting the games up for you but yourself hence you have to hold yourself responsible for what the outcome of the game is.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: |MINER| on July 06, 2025, 07:22:08 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I think if someone gambles with large funds or excessive time and faces a loss or gets into a bad situation and still tries to justify himself, he will prove himself to me as an even greater fool.

Because I never agree with the idea of ​​trying to cover up your own mistakes by blaming the gambling site after facing gambling losses due to your own mistakes.

There is no benefit in doing this, rather instead of justifying yourself, if you feel that you have crossed the limit of your affordable zone, you need to control it. And in the future, you should remember that you should never gamble with funds that you cannot afford to lose.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: $weetne$$ on July 06, 2025, 07:31:38 PM
How can someone be in a very bad mood, and the only thing that they could ever think of is to enter a casino, fund their account or walk into a physical one with their credit/debit card or cash at hand and want to pour their anger on the game they want to play? And the moment they experience losing, their anger will double compared to how it could have been. Some people learn how to control their emotions. In such a state, there are things to do and things not to do, and we will also never stop seeing such types of complaints around.
It sounds really crazy but it is funny how this is the exact thing some persons do in reality,  they will  go to the casino to "cool off" when they are mad at something or feel so angry but we know the truth remains that they only enjoy some adrenaline at that point that suppresses the anger for a while only to skyrocket it when they loose some more money to the casino. If you are sad, it is only an irony to wanting to get happy by going to a place where your chances of loosing money is high,  on a normal day, when you are loosing you even get angry so I believe on a day like this it will be even worse.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Hispo on July 06, 2025, 07:58:21 PM
Imagine doing that in Vegas. LOL. Security would escort you out before you could finish your scam accusation.

Gambling is a recreational pastime for a reason: because of the element of risk.

If you can't handle the risk, don't gamble.

Gambling is not a job.

One does not need to imagine it, though. I am sure it is a very common scene there in las Vegas and in any gambling resort which is very popular in the world. Also, it is well known security officers and security staff in casinos are trained on how to deal with people who suffer from break downs and mental outbursts because of losing money to the casino. They usually scort out people so they can calm down and won't disturb the rest of gamblers in the gambling floors.
You can go to YouTube, Reddit and other social media where you can find people literally shouting in the gambling floor or crying in fetal position on the gambling floor because of massive losses.

Anyways, the most important thing is to remember any money we wager on the casino should be considered to be lost at the very moment we step into their facilities. Indeed gambling is not a job, unless one works for the house and get a wage from it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Akbarkoe on July 06, 2025, 08:02:55 PM
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Anyone who is blaming casinos for their gambling problems is not mentally prepared enough to take part in gambling because gambling is one thing that is done with the foreknowledge of losing and winning so any one gambling is aware of this fact

Before someone blames the casino for his loss, he should ask himself, why is he gambling and why is he there? If the person comes to the casino with the aim of seeking profit, hoping to get a lot of money from the casino he visits, then everything will only end in regret because clearly the casino is not a place to multiply the money we have.

Before he starts gambling, he should understand well about the definite rules of gambling where the casino was created to provide profit for its owner, not for its visitors. Accepting defeat in gambling is indeed not an easy thing, but in gambling defeat is a certain thing that we will get.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: skarais on July 06, 2025, 08:15:55 PM
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Initially, we all come to gambling with inflated expectations, and only after gaining personal experience (mostly negative) do we lower our expectations. Most likely, people who blame casinos for their losses have a gambling addiction. It is quite difficult to convince such people that they are the root of the problem, because their mental illness prevents them from understanding that all their problems can be solved simply by stopping gambling. In my opinion, such people need serious help, and the sooner the better.
Instead of blaming the casino for a bad gambling experience, I think gamblers should always be able to introspect their gambling decisions. Everyone comes to gambling with high hopes of winning, over time their mindset can change for various reasons. Those who blame the casino of course because expectations never match reality, but this is not the casino's fault, unless the casino comes with evil intentions.

I tend to feel guilty for any wrong decision, which is normal for me because it is basically very difficult to win every bet all the time. I never feel happy gambling just for money, gambling is not just money for me, it is a game that as far as I play it gives me the entertainment I need.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Orpichukwu on July 06, 2025, 09:11:46 PM
How can someone be in a very bad mood, and the only thing that they could ever think of is to enter a casino, fund their account or walk into a physical one with their credit/debit card or cash at hand and want to pour their anger on the game they want to play? And the moment they experience losing, their anger will double compared to how it could have been. Some people learn how to control their emotions. In such a state, there are things to do and things not to do, and we will also never stop seeing such types of complaints around.
It sounds really crazy but it is funny how this is the exact thing some persons do in reality,  they will  go to the casino to "cool off" when they are mad at something or feel so angry but we know the truth remains that they only enjoy some adrenaline at that point that suppresses the anger for a while only to skyrocket it when they loose some more money to the casino. If you are sad, it is only an irony to wanting to get happy by going to a place where your chances of loosing money is high,  on a normal day, when you are loosing you even get angry so I believe on a day like this it will be even worse.
One thing some people don't know is that no matter what mood you are in, especially when you are either having a bad day, family issue, monetary issue, etc., gambling can only distract you from that mood for a short time, but it can't solve the problem you are facing. The person needs to settle themselvesdown and get things solved instead of running into gambling all the time as if it's some kind of safe haven for them to escape their problem. Some gamblers need to be reoriented.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Rockstarguy on July 06, 2025, 09:29:23 PM
Of course that was a bitter moment that I have ever felt, besides blaming the system I also experienced severe depression, if I remember it now, I am very ashamed, now I have limited my gambling and now the situation has improved, I am still actively playing even though only occasionally
The best thing to do is to adjust and understand the system because blaming the system won't change anything. Gambling is all about understanding;

 when you understand it better, you won't feel anything because you are only gambling with the amount that you can afford to lose and you are not having high expectations. The way people understand gambling can be a problem, but it is unfortunate that what matters most to gamblers is how much money can be won in gambling, while they don't take the time to gain a clear understanding of what it really is.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: lienfaye on July 06, 2025, 10:53:03 PM
Of course that was a bitter moment that I have ever felt, besides blaming the system I also experienced severe depression, if I remember it now, I am very ashamed, now I have limited my gambling and now the situation has improved, I am still actively playing even though only occasionally
The best thing to do is to adjust and understand the system because blaming the system won't change anything. Gambling is all about understanding;

 when you understand it better, you won't feel anything because you are only gambling with the amount that you can afford to lose and you are not having high expectations. The way people understand gambling can be a problem, but it is unfortunate that what matters most to gamblers is how much money can be won in gambling, while they don't take the time to gain a clear understanding of what it really is.
Indeed. Many gamblers engage themselves in gambling due to their belief that they might gain huge and become rich. Then will blame the casino once their expectation didn't happened. But if we know what we're getting into and aware how it works, then we will not have high expectation to win. So yes it's because of the poor understanding of gamblers before deciding to use their money in gambling. It's not a get rich quick scheme since winning is not guaranteed.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: LUCKMCFLY on July 11, 2025, 12:52:57 PM
We think that when people are newbies they tend to blame the casino for their losses, and they don't see it as bad, they see it as normal since they think that when they deposit a lot of money the casino has to reward them by letting them win, sometimes that type of ignorance in newbies makes them lose a lot of money, they get a reality check in the forum when they see threads where they are explained the house advantage and the business of owning a casino.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Oluwa-btc on July 11, 2025, 02:34:43 PM
Some gamblers can never stop feeling cheated whenever they lose repeatedly and this leads to a feeling of resentment and unfairness.Gambling have the tendency to impart emotional reactions and regret.Blaming casinos is a way of self defence emotionally to avert their losses and it's been a lifestyle for a lot of gamblers.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: RockBell on July 11, 2025, 04:22:42 PM
One thing some people don't know is that no matter what mood you are in, especially when you are either having a bad day, family issue, monetary issue, etc., gambling can only distract you from that mood for a short time, but it can't solve the problem you are facing. The person needs to settle themselvesdown and get things solved instead of running into gambling all the time as if it's some kind of safe haven for them to escape their problem. Some gamblers need to be reoriented.

Everyone is looking for ways to escape what ever they are going through and when it comes to gambling I don't think it's the best option you know there are people that use alcohol to escape reality and the best thing that can actually happen to to face them and then fix them and let's even assume that you have something that is distracting you send it will only be for the main time, and your point is valid you can not continue to run away so face reality and become better. And if it is about gambling is not a business to venture into when you are not prepared because emotional majority matters a lot.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: masulum on July 11, 2025, 06:00:58 PM
Some gamblers can never stop feeling cheated whenever they lose repeatedly and this leads to a feeling of resentment and unfairness.Gambling have the tendency to impart emotional reactions and regret.Blaming casinos is a way of self defence emotionally to avert their losses and it's been a lifestyle for a lot of gamblers.

If they feel the casino is unfair, will they keep gambling or will they quit? Surely those who say it's unfair will return to gamble another time, either at the same casino or a different one. Accusing those who lose of cheating is an attitude that refuses to accept reality. Because in gambling, whether there is cheating or not, if we lose, it's just bad luck. Why don't people call out cheating when they win big? Aren't gamblers also being unfair to the casino? :P


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Mate2237 on July 11, 2025, 07:49:16 PM
Some gamblers can never stop feeling cheated whenever they lose repeatedly and this leads to a feeling of resentment and unfairness.Gambling have the tendency to impart emotional reactions and regret.Blaming casinos is a way of self defence emotionally to avert their losses and it's been a lifestyle for a lot of gamblers.

If they feel the casino is unfair, will they keep gambling or will they quit? Surely those who say it's unfair will return to gamble another time, either at the same casino or a different one. Accusing those who lose of cheating is an attitude that refuses to accept reality. Because in gambling, whether there is cheating or not, if we lose, it's just bad luck. Why don't people call out cheating when they win big? Aren't gamblers also being unfair to the casino? :P
It's unrealistic gambler's that always has one thing to say about casinos because there expectations are not ment I don't know the reason why anyone will blame casinos for their lose casinos because every casino has it rules and regulations that is clearly stated so any gambler can see before patronizing them.


Any responsible gambler will not blame casinos because he knows when to stop and when to gamble because when it comes to gambling self discipline is the key word


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Doan9269 on July 11, 2025, 08:03:28 PM
This kind of habits has been found so common to some people, whereby, they gambles and also ensures that they are the ones that made the final decisions, but when the result came out, they shift the blame to the casinos for one reason or the other, only because they had already got interested in seeing it come a wining game, but as everything turned the opposite, they continue to shift blame on for nothing, when they should be taking the consequence.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Oluwa-btc on July 11, 2025, 08:06:54 PM

 I have been in a situation where I took a big loss, but I don't always put the blame to the casino but myself for being greed. However, if we keep blaming the casino whenever we experience big loss definitely we won't stop risking big, since we think that the casino is the reason behind that. And for how long should we keep blaming the casino for that? If it's to use that as excuse just to avoid feeling stupid, honestly this doesn't make any sense to me, and it will look More stupid if we use that as an excuse instead of looking for a way to deal with it.


Exactly it's high time we accepts our mistake and embrace our responsibility and stop blaming casinos for our own deeds, yes this is purely greed leading the way. Countless times I've been generating loses but regardless I choose not to expel it to the casino cause I'm manned up to taking such responsibility so it's better off to see this differently other than putting blames on where it isn't meant to be.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ndabagi01 on July 11, 2025, 08:11:35 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

As humans, we may not want to feel blamed for many things even those that were caused by us. While trying to feel okay for the meantime after shifting the blame to the casino, we tend to forget the adverse effect it has on our relations to how we manage risks while gambling. It is okay to feel guilty if you’ve made a mistake and that guilt in you can make you to have a better approach when betting the next time to be cautious. It is okay to take blame and adjust for the next time and stop putting the blame on the casinos because in the end of all the blame, they are still the ones benefiting from all this.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: DaNNy001 on July 11, 2025, 08:38:52 PM
Shifting the blame is a common method to defend one's own bad habits. To be honest with yourself if difficult and puts the mind in anxiety and hence the mind works like this to avoid the anxiety.

However most gamblers fail to correct this maladaptive nature of the human mind. Accept the loss and move on is the mature thing to do in any gambling situation. Never try to ease your ego or fall into the trap laid by someone else intended to harm your finances. Because there is no such thing as win in gambling if you dont stop.

I have seen some posts of gamblers making complaints about the casino robing them of their win and they request for a refund because they feel cheated lol... people who do this are immature instead of moving on they start calling out the casino claiming that they got scammed...in gambling no one is promising you a win, you are responsible for the risks you take, if you lose just simply move on


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Lanatsa on July 11, 2025, 08:49:28 PM
How can someone be in a very bad mood, and the only thing that they could ever think of is to enter a casino, fund their account or walk into a physical one with their credit/debit card or cash at hand and want to pour their anger on the game they want to play? And the moment they experience losing, their anger will double compared to how it could have been. Some people learn how to control their emotions. In such a state, there are things to do and things not to do, and we will also never stop seeing such types of complaints around.
It sounds really crazy but it is funny how this is the exact thing some persons do in reality,  they will  go to the casino to "cool off" when they are mad at something or feel so angry but we know the truth remains that they only enjoy some adrenaline at that point that suppresses the anger for a while only to skyrocket it when they loose some more money to the casino. If you are sad, it is only an irony to wanting to get happy by going to a place where your chances of loosing money is high,  on a normal day, when you are loosing you even get angry so I believe on a day like this it will be even worse.
One thing some people don't know is that no matter what mood you are in, especially when you are either having a bad day, family issue, monetary issue, etc., gambling can only distract you from that mood for a short time, but it can't solve the problem you are facing. The person needs to settle themselvesdown and get things solved instead of running into gambling all the time as if it's some kind of safe haven for them to escape their problem. Some gamblers need to be reoriented.
Thats something that you do need up to consider on which you would be needing up to make yourself that realize that it was never been meat for you to solve out those problems that you are currently facing.
Yes, this could be able to distract you but it would be just that temporary because once you have done on doing gambling then you would be that going back again on what you are that currently facing on and thats why gambling is just that a diversion of your attention but there's no way that it could be able to solve out problems and this is something that should be put up in mind. There are just that those who are that being too positive towards it and believing that they can actually make money with gambling but in the end on which you have been able to lose up tons of money instead because thats how gambling works on which house would always win at the end and thats very normal. It is just that you do made out yourself that being that impulsive and delusional and thats why you are that believing into something on which its not that happening at all or lets say a very rare case because losing in gambling is definitely that tons of people to do end up.

You would be able to expect that there would be tons of people who would be pointing out their fingers into the casino because they do believe that they can make easy money with gambling without even trying out to analyze on whats the reality on this on which we know that gamblers would be always at the negative side of things and if you arent that good when it comes to handling emotional control then most likely you would be ending up on losing up that more just because you would be that desperate on trying out to achieve into those goals that you had set out since from the start. Blaming out is just that a diversion of their disappointment on which they cant just that believe on what really happen and telling up that the casino isnt fair or what. This isnt only happening on casinos but also in other person that you can potentially point your fingers into. It is just that laughable if someone do make out this actions on which they do blame out someone just because they do love to ease up that disappointment.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: BITCOIN4X on July 11, 2025, 08:56:20 PM
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I have seen some posts of gamblers making complaints about the casino robing them of their win and they request for a refund because they feel cheated lol... people who do this are immature instead of moving on they start calling out the casino claiming that they got scammed...in gambling no one is promising you a win, you are responsible for the risks you take, if you lose just simply move on
Not all cases are the same; some customer complaints may be valid and substantiated. I don't often explore the fraud allegations section, but there are a few cases where customers have been genuinely harmed by casinos, but they have subsequently been resolved fairly. In some other cases, customers feel they are being robbed by the casino, but in fact they are hiding something that is actually their own fault.

Being mature about gambling is sound advice, but I prefer to call it responsible behavior. Of course, being a responsible gambler can make gamblers more relaxed regardless of the outcome. Winning and losing are considered normal, and they won't even blame anyone for their gambling decisions or result.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Renampun on July 11, 2025, 09:13:19 PM
In reality, most gamblers shift the blame onto the casino because they can't accept the fact that they lost and blame others to avoid feeling guilty. this is a bad habit, because when someone decides to gamble, it means they are fully prepared to risk losing the money they gambled. when they deny their losses, it only worsens the situation and can lead to chasing losses, potentially leading to even greater losses.

accepting the reality of their losses not only shows they can be more responsible in their gambling, but it can also help them learn from their mistakes and also make them feel calmer and less stressed. it's not an easy thing, but if someone starts from the beginning, they will get used to accepting their losses and try to learn and reduce those mistakes in the future.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Orpichukwu on July 11, 2025, 10:28:25 PM
One thing some people don't know is that no matter what mood you are in, especially when you are either having a bad day, family issue, monetary issue, etc., gambling can only distract you from that mood for a short time, but it can't solve the problem you are facing. The person needs to settle themselvesdown and get things solved instead of running into gambling all the time as if it's some kind of safe haven for them to escape their problem. Some gamblers need to be reoriented.
Everyone is looking for ways to escape what ever they are going through and when it comes to gambling I don't think it's the best option you know there are people that use alcohol to escape reality and the best thing that can actually happen to to face them and then fix them and let's even assume that you have something that is distracting you send it will only be for the main time, and your point is valid you can not continue to run away so face reality and become better. And if it is about gambling is not a business to venture into when you are not prepared because emotional majority matters a lot.
My point is indeed valid, as you have elaborated more on it. The purpose of gambling is that we can use it to keep ourselvesbusy when we are bored; it becomes one of the available options that could be used to keep ourselvesout of that mood at that moment, but now some have chosen gambling and other activities that are used for fun only to be their temporary antidote, which they can rely on all the time each time they mess up, forgetting the problem might get bigger before they will want to solve it.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Hispo on July 11, 2025, 11:07:20 PM
We think that when people are newbies they tend to blame the casino for their losses, and they don't see it as bad, they see it as normal since they think that when they deposit a lot of money the casino has to reward them by letting them win, sometimes that type of ignorance in newbies makes them lose a lot of money, they get a reality check in the forum when they see threads where they are explained the house advantage and the business of owning a casino.


To me it is rather more about common sense, for example, it does not matter whether one is a newbie or not, it just takes some analysis of what a casino is to realize it is not a charity, but rather a business. The first thing one notices when walking into a casino is all the luxury and the well-kept facilities with trained professionals ready to give attention to hundreds of people, events and even giants resorts attached to the gambling area. One just need to wonder where all the money comes from in order to keep all those things going and running indefinitely and it won't take much time before all comes down to the house edge and the fact all it is being up kept by the money of gamblers who did not know when to stop or were very unfortunate in their sessions.

Whatever... not matter how many times or is explained and proved, there will be always people willing to blame the casinos and the games for their misfortune.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: ovcijisir on July 12, 2025, 01:00:46 AM
Some gamblers can never stop feeling cheated whenever they lose repeatedly and this leads to a feeling of resentment and unfairness.Gambling have the tendency to impart emotional reactions and regret.Blaming casinos is a way of self defence emotionally to avert their losses and it's been a lifestyle for a lot of gamblers.

Unfortunately the most of them will not see that the best thing in that situation would be stop blaming others for their losses and take pause from gambling for a month or two to calm their emotions.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Fivestar4everMVP on July 12, 2025, 01:23:51 AM
In reality, most gamblers shift the blame onto the casino because they can't accept the fact that they lost and blame others to avoid feeling guilty. this is a bad habit, because when someone decides to gamble, it means they are fully prepared to risk losing the money they gambled. when they deny their losses, it only worsens the situation and can lead to chasing losses, potentially leading to even greater losses.

accepting the reality of their losses not only shows they can be more responsible in their gambling, but it can also help them learn from their mistakes and also make them feel calmer and less stressed. it's not an easy thing, but if someone starts from the beginning, they will get used to accepting their losses and try to learn and reduce those mistakes in the future.
I was actually going to say that it's very easy for a gambler to accept his or her loses and move on when ever it happens, but you mentioned it not being easy at first which is at the beginning of when one starts gambling newly, but as time goes and passes, he or she will get used to doing this, this is absolutely true and I agree with you.

Those who can not accept their own loses to gambling but would rather look for who to blame the loss on are not qualified to become gamblers, there are still babies and need to go off from gambling and grow up first.
Whoever must gamble must first and foremost understand the risks involved and be willing to accept whatever the out come of their gambling activity is, why should a gamble turn and blame the casino for his or her loss when the casino did not force him or her to gamble; with a gun pointed to their head?


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: danherbias07 on July 12, 2025, 03:21:54 PM
Some gamblers can never stop feeling cheated whenever they lose repeatedly and this leads to a feeling of resentment and unfairness.Gambling have the tendency to impart emotional reactions and regret.Blaming casinos is a way of self defence emotionally to avert their losses and it's been a lifestyle for a lot of gamblers.

There will always be a part of a gambler who thinks he is being cheated by the online casino, and I don't blame them because of the lack of RTP, many times. Let's say a gambler deposited 5000 and bet only 1 per roll. He should expect to be given back at least in the middle of the losses, but if nothing happens and the losing streak continues, this is where doubts and blame will arise.

The gambler will probably think that he is just being robbed and put the blame on the casino, but we all know that's part of their business, although there should be some consideration if they want their customer back. We could always just look for another online casino if that happens. Maybe they did tweak the house edge to their advantage. It just went overboard.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Slow death on July 12, 2025, 08:51:48 PM
We think that when people are newbies they tend to blame the casino for their losses, and they don't see it as bad, they see it as normal since they think that when they deposit a lot of money the casino has to reward them by letting them win, sometimes that type of ignorance in newbies makes them lose a lot of money, they get a reality check in the forum when they see threads where they are explained the house advantage and the business of owning a casino.

This doesn't only happen to newbies, I've seen many cases of experienced players losing their minds and becoming violent when they lose at casinos, I tried to look for recent videos in which people lose their minds after losing money, see for example this case

https://www.talkimg.com/images/2025/07/12/UwqF48.png

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/F4i9VzBBy7k

you can read the article

Moment furious man demolishes gambling machine after losing money in casino

https://whatsthejam.com/world-news/moment-furious-man-demolishes-gambling-machine-after-losing-money-in-casino/

Unfortunately, most people aren't playing for fun; they're taking gambling too seriously. I've seen cases like this guy in the video here in my country. That's why whenever I see a slot machine on the street, I prefer to stay far away from it because I'm afraid that people who are playing will lose control of themselves and become violent.

I don't like fights, so I prefer to stay away from slot machines in my country. It's a sad scenario. Normally, you'd see people playing and having fun, but all I see are fights. People don't like losing money, and in the case of physical casinos, people cause confusion because they blame the machines in the physical casinos.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: LogitechMouse on July 12, 2025, 10:03:33 PM
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Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
I always lose whenever I gamble, but never in my whole life that I blamed a casino because I lost my money.

I don't know about others, but for me, I always treat my money that's being deposited for gambling purposes as "lost money" where I don't care if I lose that money as long as I gamble. I guess having that kind of mindset is also one reason why I don't blame the casino whenever I lose my money. In reality, they really aren't the reason because at first place, we're the ones that decided to gamble, and they didn't force us to gamble. I will not admit anything because I haven't done it. :P

This kind of scenario tend to happen to those gamblers that have a different kind of mindset. Like I always say, mindset matters in gambling, and it can help you big time, not in helping you make money, but on how you think about gambling.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Victorybit1 on July 12, 2025, 10:24:30 PM
The day a gambler starts owning up to responsibilities then he's mentally mature. A lot of gamblers lose money and out of anger they start blaming the casino for their losses. It's a different case when your wins are withheld or not properly settled but in a case whereby you placed a bet and lost there's no point in trying to blame the casino for your own actions. It's a game and whether you like it or not you signed up to win or lose when you staked


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: batang_bitcoin on July 12, 2025, 10:25:17 PM
This doesn't only happen to newbies, I've seen many cases of experienced players losing their minds and becoming violent when they lose at casinos, I tried to look for recent videos in which people lose their minds after losing money, see for example this case
I've also seen those people who became violent. They've got anger management issues and this is common for most gamblers. When we've lost a lot of money in any game that we're playing, online and physical casinos, it affects our minds and mood and that's the reason why many sees gamblers to be unstable and can't help ourselves when we're in that state. We cannot help ourselves control our emotions because it's harder for us when it's just fresh and our losses are recent. And it's even harder to manage it if some friends poke us.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Odusko on July 12, 2025, 10:40:00 PM
Very correct those that blame casinos for their gambling outcome is somewhat a misplaced priorities, since gambling is an individual thing, and not the casino, forcing you in any ways, I was having an argument with someone a few days ago, he said that crypto casino are using bonuses to trick gambler into playing more than expected, but what I told him is that, despite the available bonuses in various cryptocurrency it still doesn't attract those gamblers who have not made up their mind to gamble more than it expected of them.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: kawetsriyanto on July 12, 2025, 11:19:18 PM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
If someone experienced a big lose, it is because he did an excessive gambling. It is his own mistake, he can't control himself. It is important to have a limitation of the fund using for gambling. This will avoid the excessive gambling, so won't lose huge money. It is also necessary to have the right mindset about gambling, we never try to chase the prizes in a careless way. As long as we do this and we have a healthy way in gambling, I'm sure we won't experience that big lose.

Those people who blame casinos, they probably don't understand the nature of gambling. They may think gambling is an easy way to earn money, but it is actually a wrong mindset. We all know that the luck factor is the main factor in determining the winning in gambling. So, we have no way to ensure winning the gambling games. Understanding this matter, it is just strange that someone forces himself to use huge money instantly. As a gambler, we must be wise in managing our money for gambling.



Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: WhoYouCantKill on July 12, 2025, 11:25:12 PM
The day a gambler starts owning up to responsibilities then he's mentally mature. A lot of gamblers lose money and out of anger they start blaming the casino for their losses. It's a different case when your wins are withheld or not properly settled but in a case whereby you placed a bet and lost there's no point in trying to blame the casino for your own actions. It's a game and whether you like it or not you signed up to win or lose when you staked
You're right.
A lot of gamblers forget that the odds are always in favour of the house and not the other way around. Meaning that, the gamblers are expected to lose more often than they win and thats the reality of gambling, but it's quite unfortunate that so many gamblers are ignorant of this fact and then they end up taking careless risks and having expectations that are just so unrealistic. The more gamblers learn their place in gambling, the more likely they are to make better gambling decisions and avoid more losses.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: BitBakerr1 on July 13, 2025, 01:54:44 AM
The day a gambler starts owning up to responsibilities then he's mentally mature. A lot of gamblers lose money and out of anger they start blaming the casino for their losses. It's a different case when your wins are withheld or not properly settled but in a case whereby you placed a bet and lost there's no point in trying to blame the casino for your own actions. It's a game and whether you like it or not you signed up to win or lose when you staked
You're right.
A lot of gamblers forget that the odds are always in favour of the house and not the other way around. Meaning that, the gamblers are expected to lose more often than they win and thats the reality of gambling, but it's quite unfortunate that so many gamblers are ignorant of this fact and then they end up taking careless risks and having expectations that are just so unrealistic. The more gamblers learn their place in gambling, the more likely they are to make better gambling decisions and avoid more losses.
Well you may be right, but the thing is that those bet companies that are setting the odds don't even know how the game will end no one can really be too sure how a match will end because the team you may see as the strongest team may have issues playing that day maybe because some of the players are not really in the mood or healthy enough to play, so no one really knows what the at come of a match will be even the odd makers don't, so don't think since they are setting the odds it will always be in there favour, except the match is a fixed match, talking about fixed match does this really happen, I hear that it happens, but I'm still doubting because if there's fix matches then the coach will tell the players not to play well in a particular match so they can lose and I'm not sure they can tells football players such a thing because fans are always angry and blaming them for lost matches and if it was truly happening I'm sure one of the players would have said something relating to that when ever they lose any match, well if match fixing is real then that is what all this odd makers will always be relying on but I still doubt that something like that is existing in the world of football.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Fiatless on July 13, 2025, 03:41:46 AM
Very correct those that blame casinos for their gambling outcome is somewhat a misplaced priorities, since gambling is an individual thing, and not the casino, forcing you in any ways, I was having an argument with someone a few days ago, he said that crypto casino are using bonuses to trick gambler into playing more than expected, but what I told him is that, despite the available bonuses in various cryptocurrency it still doesn't attract those gamblers who have not made up their mind to gamble more than it expected of them.
Bonuses exist in almost all gambling platforms. So I don't think it is correct to blame crypto casinos for people's indiscipline. Bonuses are like discounts in businesses that are used to promote the service or product. You shouldn't use because of bonuses to gamble more than you can afford to lose.

Newbies could be enticed by bonuses, but as you gain more experience, you begin to know that bonuses shouldn't be a yardstick for gambling more.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: ₿itcoin on July 13, 2025, 04:11:04 AM
Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?
If someone experienced a big lose, it is because he did an excessive gambling. It is his own mistake, he can't control himself. It is important to have a limitation of the fund using for gambling. This will avoid the excessive gambling, so won't lose huge money. It is also necessary to have the right mindset about gambling, we never try to chase the prizes in a careless way. As long as we do this and we have a healthy way in gambling, I'm sure we won't experience that big lose.

Those people who blame casinos, they probably don't understand the nature of gambling. They may think gambling is an easy way to earn money, but it is actually a wrong mindset. We all know that the luck factor is the main factor in determining the winning in gambling. So, we have no way to ensure winning the gambling games. Understanding this matter, it is just strange that someone forces himself to use huge money instantly. As a gambler, we must be wise in managing our money for gambling.

Yeah, backbone of smart gambling is you should have to strict on your limit and never chase losses. It is nothing but a distraction when people blame casino for their own fault. If you as me, I always prefer not using a large sum of your bankroll per bet, 1-5%/bet is good enough. And sticking to one unit size is useful to you to diversify & manage emotions. why? cause it will save your bankroll when luck is not favour. Punters should separate his gambling money from daily expenses, and using tools like deposit limits, loss caps, & session timeouts is also high priority. If you have a healthy mindset, then you would never consider gambling as a shortcut to wealth, it is just an entertainment. So healthy mindset always prevents emotional decisions and chasing losses.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ever-young on July 13, 2025, 04:35:54 AM
I have seen some posts of gamblers making complaints about the casino robing them of their win and they request for a refund because they feel cheated lol... people who do this are immature instead of moving on they start calling out the casino claiming that they got scammed...in gambling no one is promising you a win, you are responsible for the risks you take, if you lose just simply move on
I have also seen some thread where the gambler complained about how the casino allowed them to still be gambling even after applying for self exclusion which it was not supposed to be so they forget that they use there own hand to make another registration and started gambling with the new account, it’s always when they don’t win the way they plan that they will start blaming the casino and need there money back, assuming they won after the new account registration and continue to be winning we won’t see such complaints.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Mahiyammahi on July 13, 2025, 04:40:58 AM
If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Bro, you have spoken my mind completely. It seems that this happens to everyone more or less. As long as you keep winning, casino sites are good. When you lose, it seems that their programming is done in such a way that the user will lose the last match. This has happened to me a few times and it has been seen that I have been winning continuously. One day, I was playing for fun. I converted about two dollars to 15 dollars just by playing dice games. Don't worry, then I lost everything again and then I started blaming the casino. After a while, I thought to myself that there is no point in blaming the casino. Just as I was able to gain seven times, there is no point in not losing.

Another thing I've noticed is that when we keep winning, our greed increases and we gradually increase our base betting amount. I think this is a very serious thing.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: peter0425 on July 13, 2025, 05:24:35 AM
We think that when people are newbies they tend to blame the casino for their losses, and they don't see it as bad, they see it as normal since they think that when they deposit a lot of money the casino has to reward them by letting them win, sometimes that type of ignorance in newbies makes them lose a lot of money, they get a reality check in the forum when they see threads where they are explained the house advantage and the business of owning a casino.

This doesn't only happen to newbies, I've seen many cases of experienced players losing their minds and becoming violent when they lose at casinos, I tried to look for recent videos in which people lose their minds after losing money, see for example this case

https://www.talkimg.com/images/2025/07/12/UwqF48.png
This is pretty funny to be honest. Funny in a pathetic way. I know that it can be frustrating to keep losing so if you have some anger issues you probably should not be gambling. I would not be surprised if he ended up being banned from the place. This can be also worrying because he might have caused harm to other gamblers as well.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: fredericktaylor on July 13, 2025, 05:57:18 AM
Another thing I've noticed is that when we keep winning, our greed increases and we gradually increase our base betting amount. I think this is a very serious thing.

You are right, when we start gambling and keep winning, we are very happy and keep betting again and again, in a kind of greed, in the end when we lose, we kind of put the casino on the dock. After winning again and again, when we keep losing, we do not feel guilty through our conscience but through emotions. This has happened to me many times. Again, after some time, I started realizing that what I am saying is completely wrong, the casino is not at fault here, it is completely my fault. This happens to us who gamble sometimes. We start gambling based on assumptions that we do not know about the future, so it is not right to blame the casino after losing while gambling. It is absolutely true that greed leads people to destruction.  


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: bubilas on July 13, 2025, 06:24:54 AM
I have seen some posts of gamblers making complaints about the casino robing them of their win and they request for a refund because they feel cheated lol... people who do this are immature instead of moving on they start calling out the casino claiming that they got scammed...in gambling no one is promising you a win, you are responsible for the risks you take, if you lose just simply move on
I have also seen some thread where the gambler complained about how the casino allowed them to still be gambling even after applying for self exclusion which it was not supposed to be so they forget that they use there own hand to make another registration and started gambling with the new account, it’s always when they don’t win the way they plan that they will start blaming the casino and need there money back, assuming they won after the new account registration and continue to be winning we won’t see such complaints.

I don't even doubt that this is true, because from the casino's point of view it looks like this: a person files a statement about self-prohibition in casino games, but the casino can simply pretend that it forgot to add him to these lists and continue to impose its services on him. And when such a gambler accuses them of continuing to contribute to the development of his gambling addiction, the casino can say that there was simply a mistake and the database of self-prohibitions was deleted. Although in fact, the casino management does not like self-prohibitions, because this stops receiving profits from gamblers.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: ChocolateBitcoinK on July 13, 2025, 06:30:33 AM
We think that when people are newbies they tend to blame the casino for their losses, and they don't see it as bad, they see it as normal since they think that when they deposit a lot of money the casino has to reward them by letting them win, sometimes that type of ignorance in newbies makes them lose a lot of money, they get a reality check in the forum when they see threads where they are explained the house advantage and the business of owning a casino.

This doesn't only happen to newbies, I've seen many cases of experienced players losing their minds and becoming violent when they lose at casinos, I tried to look for recent videos in which people lose their minds after losing money, see for example this case

https://www.talkimg.com/images/2025/07/12/UwqF48.png

https://www.youtube.com/shorts/F4i9VzBBy7k

you can read the article

Moment furious man demolishes gambling machine after losing money in casino

https://whatsthejam.com/world-news/moment-furious-man-demolishes-gambling-machine-after-losing-money-in-casino/

Unfortunately, most people aren't playing for fun; they're taking gambling too seriously. I've seen cases like this guy in the video here in my country. That's why whenever I see a slot machine on the street, I prefer to stay far away from it because I'm afraid that people who are playing will lose control of themselves and become violent.

I don't like fights, so I prefer to stay away from slot machines in my country. It's a sad scenario. Normally, you'd see people playing and having fun, but all I see are fights. People don't like losing money, and in the case of physical casinos, people cause confusion because they blame the machines in the physical casinos.


This is due to lack of control, he should have stopped himself before the loss became big, but many times even experienced gamblers are unable to do this, so he continues to gamble uncontrollably and finally when he loses a large amount, at that moment he realizes that he has already lost something huge and he loses his mental balance. It can be said that this is the exact result of there activity, the casinos did not force him to gamble, he could have stopped gambling immediately if he wanted to, but he had the false hope that he would achieve a big win so that he could recover all his previous losses by winning a game, but this mentality and thinking ultimately led him to a bigger disaster and as you have given the example, he gambled and eventually lost his mental balance and destroyed the slot machine, so he must have been punished. That is, firstly, due to uncontrolled gambling, he has lost a huge amount of money, secondly, his mental balance has been lost and he has gone crazy, and thirdly, he may have been punished for destroying the slot machine, that is, just think about the amount of damage he has suffered due to the lack of control, due to which he has lost his mental balance. So, self-control is the most important thing in gambling, if you cannot control your greed, it will lead to a big disaster.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ishicryptic on July 13, 2025, 06:46:33 AM
Very correct those that blame casinos for their gambling outcome is somewhat a misplaced priorities, since gambling is an individual thing, and not the casino, forcing you in any ways, I was having an argument with someone a few days ago, he said that crypto casino are using bonuses to trick gambler into playing more than expected, but what I told him is that, despite the available bonuses in various cryptocurrency it still doesn't attract those gamblers who have not made up their mind to gamble more than it expected of them.
Casinos do not force anybody to gamble in their sites same way a restaurant doesn't force anybody to come inside and eat their food, it is all about the choice of anybody that wants to patronize them. I think that it is silly for anybody that gambles and lose to blame the casino because in the first place they want to play and win more than the money that they used to play, forgetting that the casinos survives from gamblers loses. That is why I tell fellow gamblers to always use small money to gamble so if they lose it won't affect them very badly.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: summonerrk on July 13, 2025, 09:48:30 AM
Very correct those that blame casinos for their gambling outcome is somewhat a misplaced priorities, since gambling is an individual thing, and not the casino, forcing you in any ways, I was having an argument with someone a few days ago, he said that crypto casino are using bonuses to trick gambler into playing more than expected, but what I told him is that, despite the available bonuses in various cryptocurrency it still doesn't attract those gamblers who have not made up their mind to gamble more than it expected of them.

And I understand your point of view perfectly well, but I myself believe that, after all, if a player has become addicted to these games, then he is 50% to blame, but the casino itself is also 50% to blame, because they make very attractive promotions of the company, starting from bonus money on deposits for the first deposit of funds to the balance, and ending with weekly tournaments, which also do not allow the player to mentally take a break from the casino, because he constantly thinks about the benefit that he can get in these tournaments.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Ever-young on July 13, 2025, 09:53:13 AM
I have also seen some thread where the gambler complained about how the casino allowed them to still be gambling even after applying for self exclusion which it was not supposed to be so they forget that they use there own hand to make another registration and started gambling with the new account, it’s always when they don’t win the way they plan that they will start blaming the casino and need there money back, assuming they won after the new account registration and continue to be winning we won’t see such complaints.
I don't even doubt that this is true, because from the casino's point of view it looks like this: a person files a statement about self-prohibition in casino games, but the casino can simply pretend that it forgot to add him to these lists and continue to impose its services on him. And when such a gambler accuses them of continuing to contribute to the development of his gambling addiction, the casino can say that there was simply a mistake and the database of self-prohibitions was deleted. Although in fact, the casino management does not like self-prohibitions, because this stops receiving profits from gamblers.
If th casino is the one at fault I mean the person have requested to be prohibited from gambling in that casino and yet the casino failed to activate that, to some level the casino is to be held responsible even if they want to deny it.. The situation where me I was referring to is a situation where the gambler after being prohibited from gambling with the account used in requesting for self exclusion have been banned they will now create another account with same casino to continue gambling and later blame the casino for allowing, forgetting the fact that even if the casino notice it's same person until their is something to trigger investigation they will not act.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Fredomago on July 13, 2025, 11:18:04 PM
Very correct those that blame casinos for their gambling outcome is somewhat a misplaced priorities, since gambling is an individual thing, and not the casino, forcing you in any ways, I was having an argument with someone a few days ago, he said that crypto casino are using bonuses to trick gambler into playing more than expected, but what I told him is that, despite the available bonuses in various cryptocurrency it still doesn't attract those gamblers who have not made up their mind to gamble more than it expected of them.
Casinos do not force anybody to gamble in their sites same way a restaurant doesn't force anybody to come inside and eat their food, it is all about the choice of anybody that wants to patronize them. I think that it is silly for anybody that gambles and lose to blame the casino because in the first place they want to play and win more than the money that they used to play, forgetting that the casinos survives from gamblers loses. That is why I tell fellow gamblers to always use small money to gamble so if they lose it won't affect them very badly.

Good argument, those gambler freely play the game bringing their money on their own intention, a business that designed to make money, every action is on the person itself and nothing to do with the house, though they are putting some ads like gamble responsibly but surely the intention is on the other side, they just want to remind but inside their business they wanted to keep those players to enjoy push for more money to deposit.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: LUCKMCFLY on July 22, 2025, 02:36:12 AM

To me it is rather more about common sense, for example, it does not matter whether one is a newbie or not, it just takes some analysis of what a casino is to realize it is not a charity, but rather a business. The first thing one notices when walking into a casino is all the luxury and the well-kept facilities with trained professionals ready to give attention to hundreds of people, events and even giants resorts attached to the gambling area. One just need to wonder where all the money comes from in order to keep all those things going and running indefinitely and it won't take much time before all comes down to the house edge and the fact all it is being up kept by the money of gamblers who did not know when to stop or were very unfortunate in their sessions.

Whatever... not matter how many times or is explained and proved, there will be always people willing to blame the casinos and the games for their misfortune.
You are right, in fact when many people see the Facilities of the chaos of that mere as that Motivates them more and Want to have a life According to that Luxury and that way of having fun , I think that having failures there do not want to lose that status , and the same Impotence makes them say all that, it is Natural that humans blame something else but Himself , only the wisest Know When they are wrong and Assume it , so here we have to try to have that Wisdom.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: OgNasty on July 22, 2025, 07:04:59 AM
This is great advice for not only casinos, but life. Too many people blame others for influencing their actions instead of blaming themselves for blindly following people without thinking. You don’t have to gamble. I would say a majority of the times I’ve been in a casino I didn’t gamble. It isn’t hard.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: ultrloa on July 22, 2025, 07:45:46 AM
This is great advice for not only casinos, but life. Too many people blame others for influencing their actions instead of blaming themselves for blindly following people without thinking. You don’t have to gamble. I would say a majority of the times I’ve been in a casino I didn’t gamble. It isn’t hard.

They are just immature and think about that there's easy money on gambling. Reality slaps them when they lose big and here they are blaming the casino for bad decisions they made.

If they just let them selves be more mature and have discipline towards budgeting also other aspect towards gambling for sure that they won't act like a cry baby once they lose. Gambling is fun if they just know the consequences of their possible action. This is the reason on why people should know first if they can able to lose the money they use and if they can handle emotionally if there's something bad happen and if they know for their selves that they can't lose their hard earn money then better for them not to gamble at the moment.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: swogerino on July 22, 2025, 09:15:19 AM
This is great advice for not only casinos, but life. Too many people blame others for influencing their actions instead of blaming themselves for blindly following people without thinking. You don’t have to gamble. I would say a majority of the times I’ve been in a casino I didn’t gamble. It isn’t hard.

Well may be it isn't hard in a physical casino yet in the software web casinos operating in crypto is very difficult to detain yourself, I did though I put some firewall rules in place and have not touched gambling ever since but without such enforcing policy for me is near impossible to stay out of gambling. I am man enough to not blame the casino as they didn't point a gun to my head and told me to spend every penny that I have in their platform, it was a decision of mine and I am the only one to be blamed. Most people though never take into account themselves and always do take into account others, I have made a joke for such persons "they organize the blaming event, they organize the event and others are to blame".


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Bright0515 on July 22, 2025, 09:28:35 AM
Blaming the casino for your mistakes is absolutely immature, sometimes it's hard for me to wrap my head around the fact that some gamblers lose and end up asking for a refund because they feel cheated, I feel embarrassed for them when I hear things like that. You can't eat your cake and have it back, if you win then happily take your Profit and if you lose also learn to accept defeat. All you can do is gamble responsibly


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: alastantiger on July 22, 2025, 11:40:07 AM
The day a gambler starts owning up to responsibilities then he's mentally mature. A lot of gamblers lose money and out of anger they start blaming the casino for their losses. It's a different case when your wins are withheld or not properly settled but in a case whereby you placed a bet and lost there's no point in trying to blame the casino for your own actions. It's a game and whether you like it or not you signed up to win or lose when you staked

Sometimes when people starts to take decisions to blame their own self when they lose, they get violent and destroy things hence people prefer to blame others or the casino when they lose. They don't do the same when they're winning but it's only the loss that they put into account and act upon. Casino doesn't have any hand in your losing, they don't want you win but the ones that are genuine won't do anything to put the name of their casino in a bad reputation because it's not easy to get out of such situations after your casino gets a bad reputation. Gamblers do some things that makes them to lose because they're too focused on wanting to win without knowing that they're making bad decisions that'll cause them their money.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: fruktik on July 22, 2025, 11:58:11 AM
The day a gambler starts owning up to responsibilities then he's mentally mature. A lot of gamblers lose money and out of anger they start blaming the casino for their losses. It's a different case when your wins are withheld or not properly settled but in a case whereby you placed a bet and lost there's no point in trying to blame the casino for your own actions. It's a game and whether you like it or not you signed up to win or lose when you staked
It is somehow stupid to blame the casino if the person brought and lost the money himself. After all, no one forced him to do this. Everything is voluntary. If the player cannot control himself and maintain discipline, then it is better to give up gambling altogether. In this case, they will only bring one big disappointment and big troubles not only in the casino itself, but also in the family, a total collapse of relations will begin.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Hatchy on July 22, 2025, 12:14:06 PM


If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
It's actually possible most times that the casinos makes us loss our games.. though it may not be directly but I've experienced something similar to this on crash... I actually got up to a reasonable amount of multiplier the highest I had for that day, but I kept on pressing the cash out button but was to no avail... I ended up losing that round . It was pretty annoying for me and I blamed the casino because it seemed to be their fault at some point... I couldn't think of any other thing at that point.. it might have been a network issue but I just concluded because of how bad other games were and the only game that went well ended up in loss...


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: bangjoe on July 22, 2025, 12:45:37 PM
This is great advice for not only casinos, but life. Too many people blame others for influencing their actions instead of blaming themselves for blindly following people without thinking. You don’t have to gamble. I would say a majority of the times I’ve been in a casino I didn’t gamble. It isn’t hard.

It is like that if other people's maturity is not at an intermediate stage, they will always blame others instead of blaming themselves for what they do themselves, on all decisions and whatever they do is on their own consciousness in gambling.

However, I think everyone must experience such a phase, but if he continues to always think like that after losing from gambling then it can be said that he is not mature enough in his mindset even though he is old.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: junder on July 22, 2025, 12:53:10 PM
The day a gambler starts owning up to responsibilities then he's mentally mature. A lot of gamblers lose money and out of anger they start blaming the casino for their losses. It's a different case when your wins are withheld or not properly settled but in a case whereby you placed a bet and lost there's no point in trying to blame the casino for your own actions. It's a game and whether you like it or not you signed up to win or lose when you staked
It is somehow stupid to blame the casino if the person brought and lost the money himself. After all, no one forced him to do this. Everything is voluntary. If the player cannot control himself and maintain discipline, then it is better to give up gambling altogether. In this case, they will only bring one big disappointment and big troubles not only in the casino itself, but also in the family, a total collapse of relations will begin.
In fact, I think people who blame the casino and feel cheated after losing money are quite ridiculous. I don't understand people like this. Perhaps they think gambling is something that will definitely bring them quick profits, so when they experience losses or lose money, they can't accept it. This is, in my opinion, immature. If we're going to gamble, we should be prepared to lose the money we deposited.
Our behavior and perspective on gambling can determine our future. If we have the wrong perspective and behavior in responding to gambling, we might feel cheated when we experience losses or lose money. But when we consider and understand gambling correctly, everything is normal. After all, this is a business that needs to be developed.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: LUCKMCFLY on July 22, 2025, 07:21:31 PM

I don't like fights, so I prefer to stay away from slot machines in my country. It's a sad scenario. Normally, you'd see people playing and having fun, but all I see are fights. People don't like losing money, and in the case of physical casinos, people cause confusion because they blame the machines in the physical casinos.


The truth is regrettable to see this type of acts, I am a person who always looks for the peaceful but there are people who do not have an acceptable culture and their memcoines blinds them, it is difficult because a person who is like this really loses control and becomes brute, a person like this needs medical and psychiatric attention, he is capable of anything.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Lanatsa on July 22, 2025, 07:55:52 PM
I have also seen some thread where the gambler complained about how the casino allowed them to still be gambling even after applying for self exclusion which it was not supposed to be so they forget that they use there own hand to make another registration and started gambling with the new account, it’s always when they don’t win the way they plan that they will start blaming the casino and need there money back, assuming they won after the new account registration and continue to be winning we won’t see such complaints.
I don't even doubt that this is true, because from the casino's point of view it looks like this: a person files a statement about self-prohibition in casino games, but the casino can simply pretend that it forgot to add him to these lists and continue to impose its services on him. And when such a gambler accuses them of continuing to contribute to the development of his gambling addiction, the casino can say that there was simply a mistake and the database of self-prohibitions was deleted. Although in fact, the casino management does not like self-prohibitions, because this stops receiving profits from gamblers.
If th casino is the one at fault I mean the person have requested to be prohibited from gambling in that casino and yet the casino failed to activate that, to some level the casino is to be held responsible even if they want to deny it.. The situation where me I was referring to is a situation where the gambler after being prohibited from gambling with the account used in requesting for self exclusion have been banned they will now create another account with same casino to continue gambling and later blame the casino for allowing, forgetting the fact that even if the casino notice it's same person until their is something to trigger investigation they will not act.
Once you do have noticed something shit situation then you would be always that free when it comes on trying out to verify or hearing out the community feedback on which means that you can post up anytime and providing all necessary details and proofs on which you do believe that this is that on casinos fault and the community would be giving out their honest feedback into it. Lets say that most of the time on which those gamblers are the ones who do have that at fault on why they are experiencing something specially on the losing part on which this is inevitable. Just like been said that they would be always have something to say whenever they do experience on losing money then they would be always loving on pointing out their fingers and blaming out the casino on which it is rigged or having those faults and causes up for them to lose on which they didnt even think about into the risks involved on dealing up with gambling in the first place on which this would be putting up gamblers at huge disadvantage and thats why at the time that you do gamble then you should be that accepting that you would be that likely to lose up in the end.

People cant just that easily stop at the moment that they are already that negative but instead they would be that trying out to chase up those loses and trying out to breakeven. There are just that those  times or moment that you would having that kind of boost up at the time that you do hit up a win after a series of loses on which the primary thing that comes up into your mind that this might be the time that you would be able to recover your loses. This is the main reason on why gambling business is soo profitable just because of this kind of mentality on which gambler does have. If you wont be able to have that control that kind of emotion urges or simply being impulsive then you would be that into that disaster and just like been said that majority of us would be that wanting or loving on pointing out fingers at the time that we are experiencing those unfortunate situations.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Hispo on July 22, 2025, 11:41:37 PM

To me it is rather more about common sense, for example, it does not matter whether one is a newbie or not, it just takes some analysis of what a casino is to realize it is not a charity, but rather a business. The first thing one notices when walking into a casino is all the luxury and the well-kept facilities with trained professionals ready to give attention to hundreds of people, events and even giants resorts attached to the gambling area. One just need to wonder where all the money comes from in order to keep all those things going and running indefinitely and it won't take much time before all comes down to the house edge and the fact all it is being up kept by the money of gamblers who did not know when to stop or were very unfortunate in their sessions.

Whatever... not matter how many times or is explained and proved, there will be always people willing to blame the casinos and the games for their misfortune.
You are right, in fact when many people see the Facilities of the chaos of that mere as that Motivates them more and Want to have a life According to that Luxury and that way of having fun , I think that having failures there do not want to lose that status , and the same Impotence makes them say all that, it is Natural that humans blame something else but Himself , only the wisest Know When they are wrong and Assume it , so here we have to try to have that Wisdom.


Actually, I had never assumed the luxurious facilities of casinos to be a factor which influenced on those who desired to gamble in order to become rich. I always associated those luxuries with the level of accomodations casinos are willing to provide for gamblers to feel comfortable while gambling money away for hours and hours without feeling uncomfortable and sore.
Though, now you mention it, I suppose there could be some gambler who get carried away in their sessions because of the level of wealth the see around them.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: Odusko on July 22, 2025, 11:45:33 PM

I don't like fights, so I prefer to stay away from slot machines in my country. It's a sad scenario. Normally, you'd see people playing and having fun, but all I see are fights. People don't like losing money, and in the case of physical casinos, people cause confusion because they blame the machines in the physical casinos.


The truth is regrettable to see this type of acts, I am a person who always looks for the peaceful but there are people who do not have an acceptable culture and their memcoines blinds them, it is difficult because a person who is like this really loses control and becomes brute, a person like this needs medical and psychiatric attention, he is capable of anything.

Frustration and anger couple with drugs have been the major fuel to this, but for sure we must have to apply wisdom to whatever we do in the end because going to a physical casino to play slot games or any gambling games at all us of high risk considering security situation around this region where those physical casino are found, but also we must have agreed that we must be prepared for the worst anytime we make up our mind to step down into those physical casinos, and avoid playing on the table with rugs who have other mission in the casino other than just to have fun.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: 2Pizza410000BTC on July 22, 2025, 11:52:38 PM
Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?
In fact, when people lose a lot of money, they look for many excuses to console themselves because it is also very important to console themselves because there are many people who cannot control themselves after losing a lot of money. In my case, it happened a few times but I blamed the casino platform but later I myself understood why I was blaming the casino platform because it was not my luck. However, as I gradually gained experience in gambling, now even if I lose, I never blame the casino platform because the casino platform is not responsible for my defeat. However, when you go gambling and lose, such thoughts are normal and later it is corrected.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: fruktik on July 23, 2025, 06:15:48 AM
In fact, I think people who blame the casino and feel cheated after losing money are quite ridiculous. I don't understand people like this. Perhaps they think gambling is something that will definitely bring them quick profits, so when they experience losses or lose money, they can't accept it. This is, in my opinion, immature. If we're going to gamble, we should be prepared to lose the money we deposited.
Our behavior and perspective on gambling can determine our future. If we have the wrong perspective and behavior in responding to gambling, we might feel cheated when we experience losses or lose money. But when we consider and understand gambling correctly, everything is normal. After all, this is a business that needs to be developed.
Why do people who blame casinos for their losses think so? Have you ever thought about it? The reason is quite simple - it is a lack of gray matter in the head. In other words: just stupid people. They need to learn to think, and not just eat with their heads. It is strange, of course, that in the modern world there are still those who do not know how to use the search for the necessary information. Indeed, there are a lot of them. Someone simply does not have the opportunity, and others simply do not want to because of laziness. Why am I saying this? You can go to this resource and read information about the casino, so that later there is no temptation to blame not only the casino, but also other people for your failures.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: dwyane36 on July 23, 2025, 08:50:10 AM
In fact, when people lose a lot of money, they look for many excuses to console themselves because it is also very important to console themselves because there are many people who cannot control themselves after losing a lot of money. In my case, it happened a few times but I blamed the casino platform but later I myself understood why I was blaming the casino platform because it was not my luck. However, as I gradually gained experience in gambling, now even if I lose, I never blame the casino platform because the casino platform is not responsible for my defeat. However, when you go gambling and lose, such thoughts are normal and later it is corrected.

Unfortunately, for many gamblers, especially addicted gamblers, common sense comes too late. More precisely, when most of the deposit is drained or the entire deposit is drained.
Of course, in this case, the gambler should blame only himself, but not the casino.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: purple_sparkles on July 23, 2025, 09:03:52 AM
In fact, when people lose a lot of money, they look for many excuses to console themselves because it is also very important to console themselves because there are many people who cannot control themselves after losing a lot of money. In my case, it happened a few times but I blamed the casino platform but later I myself understood why I was blaming the casino platform because it was not my luck. However, as I gradually gained experience in gambling, now even if I lose, I never blame the casino platform because the casino platform is not responsible for my defeat. However, when you go gambling and lose, such thoughts are normal and later it is corrected.

Unfortunately, for many gamblers, especially addicted gamblers, common sense comes too late. More precisely, when most of the deposit is drained or the entire deposit is drained.
Of course, in this case, the gambler should blame only himself, but not the casino.

What questions can there be for the casino if no one is forcing you to place bets? You make this choice yourself, with your own hands, without pressure or threats. Of course, it's tempting to blame someone else for your mistakes in order to justify yourself in your own eyes.But shifting responsibility won't change the result.


Title: Re: man up and stop blaming casinos
Post by: LUCKMCFLY on August 01, 2025, 08:21:52 PM
However, I think everyone must experience such a phase, but if he continues to always think like that after losing from gambling then it can be said that he is not mature enough in his mindset even though he is old.
Sometimes age does not determine how we can actually mature, sometimes people who are young have had to mature prematurely due to events that have happened , I personally could say that to be in a casino we must know what we are facing , it is known that it is a place where you can Easily lose money and if you lose you must accept it and assume it, all that remains is to improve and nothing more.