man up and stop blaming casinos

[retreat]

But the funny thing is, there are many gamblers like that - the moment they lose several times in a row, they immediately blame the casino. They quickly accuse it of having a rigged system that robs them of the chance to win more money. In reality, the fault lies entirely with those who chase losses or bet emotionally, unable to control their gambling habits and ultimately losing all their money due to their own greed. If they truly understood that the casino has a built-in house edge and that they are playing a game of luck, they wouldn’t be so quick to blame the casino for their losses.

[gunhell16]

But the funny thing is, there are many gamblers like that - the moment they lose several times in a row, they immediately blame the casino. They quickly accuse it of having a rigged system that robs them of the chance to win more money. In reality, the fault lies entirely with those who chase losses or bet emotionally, unable to control their gambling habits and ultimately losing all their money due to their own greed. If they truly understood that the casino has a built-in house edge and that they are playing a game of luck, they wouldn’t be so quick to blame the casino for their losses.

Maybe this type of gambler can't accept that they are really losing at the casino they chose to gamble at, they just can't accept that they can't accept that they are always losing to the house edge which is always in control of the game.

So instead of blaming the casino, they should just play without expectations in every bet on any casino games, it's better to get used to this style than to expect to fail in the end.

[JunaidAzizi]

This is a sign of immaturity, and decision making abilities are basic. A real man or a gambler will not do such a thing as you said above. What he will do is accept all the losses and the mistakes he made, take the lesson, identify the reason, and make sure it doesn't repeat in the next one. Whenever I see some gamblers like this, I laugh at them because they are the ones running from their own mistakes, and they won't fix them. When they win, they don't put this winning in the casino, but when they lose, they blame the casino. Grow up, guys, and take responsibility. Identify the things where you made mistakes and fix them for tomorrow.

[suzanne5223]

This is a sign of immaturity, and decision making abilities are basic. A real man or a gambler will not do such a thing as you said above. What he will do is accept all the losses and the mistakes he made, take the lesson, identify the reason, and make sure it doesn't repeat in the next one. Whenever I see some gamblers like this, I laugh at them because they are the ones running from their own mistakes, and they won't fix them. When they win, they don't put this winning in the casino, but when they lose, they blame the casino. Grow up, guys, and take responsibility. Identify the things where you made mistakes and fix them for tomorrow.

You have a point but it's not about being a real gamblers for its about being a mature gambler.
A gambler can be a real one but still not mature enough to accept the concept and result of the game which is what mostly lead to gamblers shifting the blame on the house instead of their naive model of playing or wrong decision making about the game.
To be clear about what real gamblers mean.

A "real gambler" can refer to a few different things, but it generally implies someone who gambles for the challenge and the thrill of risk, rather than just for entertainment or casual fun. They might be more strategic and focused on their bets, potentially even developing their own methods or systems. However, it's important to note that "real gambler" can also be used to describe someone with a compulsive gambling problem, which is a serious issue.

[panjul07]

Maybe this type of gambler can't accept that they are really losing at the casino they chose to gamble at, they just can't accept that they can't accept that they are always losing to the house edge which is always in control of the game.

So instead of blaming the casino, they should just play without expectations in every bet on any casino games, it's better to get used to this style than to expect to fail in the end.

Expectations is normal, there is no gamblers who spend their money without any expectation at all, I wonder what kind of gamblers who play without any expectation.
Some gamblers may say that they are gambling for fun, they must have an expectations whether it is expecting to have some fun or expecting to make small profit.
Expectations is fine but it should be realistic and players also need to realize the fact that the chance to win is small so they should accept losses.
Most people blame the casino of their losing because they are expecting too much but they forget that the chance of losing is bigger.

[Promocodeudo]

Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Who will do this, I think a really gambler can never think towards this end, we are talking gambling, I think the player should be blamed for whatever loss he or she encountered because it is his or her responsibilities to chose whichever game he wants and beside the casinos or the system has nothing to do with your selection so why the blame ok then, as a responsible gambler, any things that happens should be personal stuff unless in the case of an obvious cheat from the casino which I think is even rare for such to happen, if that's the case who is to be blamed when a player win, so what happens in this situation, I think is high time people take gambling be it sports bet or casinos game they way they are, those are pure gambling some when we lose the blame is purely on us and nothing more.

[JunaidAzizi]

You have a point but it's not about being a real gamblers for its about being a mature gambler.
A gambler can be a real one but still not mature enough to accept the concept and result of the game which is what mostly lead to gamblers shifting the blame on the house instead of their naive model of playing or wrong decision making about the game.
To be clear about what real gamblers mean.

A "real gambler" can refer to a few different things, but it generally implies someone who gambles for the challenge and the thrill of risk, rather than just for entertainment or casual fun. They might be more strategic and focused on their bets, potentially even developing their own methods or systems. However, it's important to note that "real gambler" can also be used to describe someone with a compulsive gambling problem, which is a serious issue.

Firstly, I can't make a difference between a mature and a real gambler. For me, a mature gambler is the real gambler who can accept the losses, adjust to the situation, and move on. What a noob gambler does is blame the house and other factors for his loss, and he can't tolerate it, living in that negativity. This shows he is immature, and if he is immature, how can he be a real gambler? If he can adjust the factors through which he lost and then move on, then it's a clear sign of a real gambler. You are just splitting it between a real and a mature one, while the core truth says they are both the same thing, set the situation, learn from it, and move on is the qualities of the real and mature gambler's

[serjent05]

Who will do this, I think a really gambler can never think towards this end, we are talking gambling, I think the player should be blamed for whatever loss he or she encountered because it is his or her responsibilities to chose whichever game he wants and beside the casinos or the system has nothing to do with your selection so why the blame ok then, .

There are people who, instead of admitting their mistakes, blame others.

as a responsible gambler, any things that happens should be personal stuff unless in the case of an obvious cheat from the casino which I think is even rare for such to happen, if that's the case who is to be blamed when a player win, so what happens in this situation, I think is high time people take gambling be it sports bet or casinos game they way they are, those are pure gambling some when we lose the blame is purely on us and nothing more.

The sad thing is, even without solid proof that the casino is cheating, they think that they are being cheated since the gambling result does not end up as what they expected it to be or did not give them a good win. Worse thing, they even open a scam accusation to the casino in social media and forums.

The thing is, since they expect that they will win in their session these kinds of people bet an amount they can't afford to lose and when the result favors them, they think that they are great in correctly predicting the outcome of their bet but when the result does not favor them, they shout "foul" and blame that the casino is cheating them. 

So yeah, as a gambler, we should be aware that the gambling result is random and unless we have solid proof that the casino is cheating us, we should deal with the losses and blame ourselves if we lost a huge amount because we did not gamble responsibly. The casino does not dictate or threaten to bet the amount we cannot afford to lose; in fact, they have on their website a reminder about gambling responsibly.

[blomen]

not just for a particular casino, not just for a particular gambling game, but we all experience this almost everywhere. for example in a mines game when there's a mine in the block that we click on we forget that it's completely random and it's designed to cause us to lose in a general sense.

and as a contradiction, we never do this when we win. when we win it's because of us, but when we lose it's because of the casino. here too, the human being is an egoistic and somewhat arrogant creature. we hold ourselves responsible for good results, but we don't talk about ourselves much in bad results.

if you gamble consciously without falling into this trap, none of this will happen. we have to enjoy it.

[fruktik]

People are often shy when they lose. They think it’s a sign of weakness. Winning in gambling makes people boastful and egotistical and when they lose, they don’t like to show it. If there is any chance he loses and people see it he will do everything to make it seem like it wasn’t his fault. This is how a man with no maturity thinks.

What nonsense? Why should I be ashamed of my loss? No, it's not like that. On the contrary, if someone asks me about it, I talk about it as part of this process. This is normal, since an adult understands perfectly well what a casino is and how everything works there. There should be no naivety here. My friend and I used to constantly share such information and we drew conclusions based on it.

[Bitinity]

People are often shy when they lose. They think it’s a sign of weakness. Winning in gambling makes people boastful and egotistical and when they lose, they don’t like to show it. If there is any chance he loses and people see it he will do everything to make it seem like it wasn’t his fault. This is how a man with no maturity thinks.

What nonsense? Why should I be ashamed of my loss? No, it's not like that. On the contrary, if someone asks me about it, I talk about it as part of this process. This is normal, since an adult understands perfectly well what a casino is and how everything works there. There should be no naivety here. My friend and I used to constantly share such information and we drew conclusions based on it.

Some peopla act like that when they are losing on gambling, some people do not want to admit when they are losing and telling others that they are not losing. I am not sure what is the reason why some people do such a thing, it can be because they are ashamed or because other things that we do not know. However, it is their own right to do so and we cant judge them as they must have their own reason to do it.

[Altryist]

not just for a particular casino, not just for a particular gambling game, but we all experience this almost everywhere. for example in a mines game when there's a mine in the block that we click on we forget that it's completely random and it's designed to cause us to lose in a general sense.

and as a contradiction, we never do this when we win. when we win it's because of us, but when we lose it's because of the casino. here too, the human being is an egoistic and somewhat arrogant creature. we hold ourselves responsible for good results, but we don't talk about ourselves much in bad results.

if you gamble consciously without falling into this trap, none of this will happen. we have to enjoy it.

It is not always like that, I think it also depends on a person’s character and how they were raised. I do not argue that there are people who are ready to blame others for all their failures. But there are also people who are used to relying only on themselves, and such people will evaluate the results based on their own actions. They will not blame the casino for their losses. In fact, when I evaluate a bet, I understand that I am the one who chooses it. So, in case of a loss, there is no one to blame but myself. I think it is really quite simple. Unless someone wants to blame the casino for unfair play, then you can just change the casino.

[Hispo]

But the funny thing is, there are many gamblers like that - the moment they lose several times in a row, they immediately blame the casino. They quickly accuse it of having a rigged system that robs them of the chance to win more money. In reality, the fault lies entirely with those who chase losses or bet emotionally, unable to control their gambling habits and ultimately losing all their money due to their own greed. If they truly understood that the casino has a built-in house edge and that they are playing a game of luck, they wouldn’t be so quick to blame the casino for their losses.

Though, we both have to admit that in the case of suffering a losing streak, it can be incredibly difficult for some gamblers not to throw the blame upon the casino because it could indeed feel as if the system was rigged against us from the beginning, when in reality it is not.
It is a psychological response many gamblers have to explain their unlucky session and in order not to feel bad for their own choices.
Sadly enough, there are gamblers who are not even aware there is such a thing as a house edge when they start to gamble or bet, so they do not realize there game is always slightly set in a tendency to favor the house in the long term. It is part of the ignorance many newbies have and what pushes them to commit mistakes they end up regretting very quickly.

[alastantiger]

Who will do this, I think a really gambler can never think towards this end, we are talking gambling, I think the player should be blamed for whatever loss he or she encountered because it is his or her responsibilities to chose whichever game he wants and beside the casinos or the system has nothing to do with your selection so why the blame ok then, as a responsible gambler, any things that happens should be personal stuff unless in the case of an obvious cheat from the casino which I think is even rare for such to happen, if that's the case who is to be blamed when a player win, so what happens in this situation, I think is high time people take gambling be it sports bet or casinos game they way they are, those are pure gambling some when we lose the blame is purely on us and nothing more.

Real gamblers blame the outcome of the games on their own decision and not shifting the blame to anybody else. Anybody blaming others should know that the blame won't change the outcome of the bets, they're only wasting time and not ready to become a gambler. When gambling, there are bets that you can't do anything about because no matter how many times you try, you'll end up losing. Haven't you seen a game that no matter what your bet was, it wouldn't had still favoured you.

Knowing this will make it easier to accept your defeat when they come because you know that as you're losing right now doesn't define your gambling outcome for the rest of the week because you know you're still going to win again. Passing the blame to others isn't a good way to take responsibility of your actions. After we start accepting that the decisions we took isn't the best for us, we'll begin to have better results in the future.

[Akbarkoe]

It is natural for someone to experience a big loss when gambling, then after that say negative things about the casino, it can even happen like that. And what he did was just to vent his frustration over the loss.

I think it's okay, especially if it's just online gambling, because in reality what he did did not harm anyone including the online casino he visited. Unless the person goes further by making negative statements and information about the online casino and then spreading it to social media or the internet. However, if you play at a land-based casino, then never blame the casino just because of the loss you experienced, because it can cause chaos in the casino, which can make you crossed out by the casino and you can no longer visit the casino anywhere.

[mirakal]

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

I could blame the casino sometimes, but seeing the situation, it was my mistake. Why should I have thrown it? We are not perfect, and we can commit mistakes, but blaming others when it was our fault is a stupid thing.

I remain fair in all cases. Being a responsible gambler means accepting the consequences of our wrongdoings, and blaming is not a good behavior. Our losses are just ours. We only blame the casino when it is their fault. That is why we don't put pressure on ourselves to gamble, because this will lead to uncontrollable emotions.

[Makus]

Real gamblers blame the outcome of the games on their own decision and not shifting the blame to anybody else. Anybody blaming others should know that the blame won't change the outcome of the bets, they're only wasting time and not ready to become a gambler.

Blaming the outcome of the game is only applicable to sport games where individuals players contribute to the outcome of the match, including the referees and coach.  But when talking about casino games, sometimes the difficulty is too high and the casinos no better than acting as those their services are fair while broadcasting their ads. Though since we know that the casinos aren't gonna be fair with the wining difficulty the best idea is to apply good risk management. An addicted gambler or an irresponsible gamble has only himself to blame for not being realistic with life knowing that nothing is fair, especially when it's a business.

[bubilas]

Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

So far, God has protected me from such big mistakes that I would lose my entire deposit and start blaming everyone except myself, including the casino. But so far, the casino was really to blame for one of my biggest losses! I won a poker round and they didn't give me my winnings. And here everything is obvious. And there have been no such cases where I was guilty, but simply blamed the casino or bookmaker for nothing - there have been no such situations so far, and I hope this will not happen.

[yenerbatmaz]

People who lose usually find excuses elsewhere, but the real culprit (if there is a culprit) is the gambler himself. Casinos do not force anyone to gamble. Instead of looking for excuses, the person who does not want to lose will stop gambling.

[blomen]

In fact, when I evaluate a bet, I understand that I am the one who chooses it. So, in case of a loss, there is no one to blame but myself.

everything is fine in theory. "let me gamble with a certain amount of money, i'm in control." i don't know what your limit is, maybe you are really patient and conscious enough to skip this stage. but usually this kind of approach lasts until you start losing. we can accept losing up to a certain point. but when we lose money over and over again, every person starts to doubt the fairness of the casino. i do it too, even if it shouldn't happen.

Unless someone wants to blame the casino for unfair play, then you can just change the casino.

this casino or that casino, it won't make any difference to this kind of person. someone with this approach doesn't even sincerely blame the casino. they just use it as an excuse to cover up their own mistakes. denying that they are responsible is the easiest thing to do in case of a loss. the problem is not with the casino, not with the gambling game they played. it's with the person themselves. it's only a matter of time before they blame the next casino too.