man up and stop blaming casinos

[justinlamode]

Blaming the casino is proof that the person has not really come to terms with what gambling is all about. No matter how smart or lucky we are, losses will always come, so we have to accept this sad reality and plan for the losses and not to blame casino for our greed and recklessness. Proper risk management and good control of greed are all that are required to gamble and not have any reason to blame anyone.

[stadus]

Blaming the casino is proof that the person has not really come to terms with what gambling is all about. No matter how smart or lucky we are, losses will always come, so we have to accept this sad reality and plan for the losses and not to blame casino for our greed and recklessness. Proper risk management and good control of greed are all that are required to gamble and not have any reason to blame anyone.

That’s not real gambling if a gambler ends up blaming the casino, if they do that, it just shows they were in it to make money which has a high failure rate.
From the start, they clearly didn’t understand what kind of journey they were getting into.

People like that have no place in gambling as they're often the ones most prone to addiction. And the more that type of person increases, the worse it is for the gambling industry because it could lead to stricter regulations or even a government ban.

And that’s something we, as responsible gamblers, definitely don’t want to happen.

[Cantsay]

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I have already shared my experience countless number of times and I don’t really know why people would want to blame the casino or bookie for something that they know wasn’t the fault of the bookie? It’s really stupid because deep down you know that you were the cause of your loses but outside you’re just going around pointing finger at the casino making yourself feel better while your conscience keeps eating you.

The biggest loss I have experienced in gambling was caused as a result of me changing my initial bet - I can’t recall the exact team but I initially bet on team A to but after going through some discussions about the match and how everyone seems to have confidence in team B I went back to the bookie canceled the first bet and placed it on team B and that was the hugest amount I had ever placed on a single game. But, at the end of the game, team A won and I lost the bet. It was a sad experience for me and that’s why no matter what other people think about a game I don’t bother to change my bet on it.

[Accardo]

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

The reality is that once you've lost, there's always the urge to shift the blame to the next person which can be the casino or any third party. It's just a ways of trying to get oneselves out of the trauma of loss but in the real sense, such shift doesn't in any way bring back the amount you've lost. When I win, I always count it as loss and even before losing I always have it in mind that I can just lose the game at any point in time. That is one way that keeps me standing even when when I win or loose.

But it's a bad way of avoiding the trauma of losing in gambling. Taking up responsibility fixes mind control because we love ourself and won't find a good reason to be sad about our mistakes. Blaming someone else helps to raise up hostility, anger and retaliation. These factors suffer the player into a Lossing streak and regrets yet won't acknowledge that it's his fault. If only the person accepts the losses with not grudges, they wouldn't lose a lot in future.

[dimonstration]

Blaming the casino is proof that the person has not really come to terms with what gambling is all about. No matter how smart or lucky we are, losses will always come, so we have to accept this sad reality and plan for the losses and not to blame casino for our greed and recklessness. Proper risk management and good control of greed are all that are required to gamble and not have any reason to blame anyone.

It’s a sign of immaturity and sore loser attitude. There’s a lot of user like this on scam accusation board that accusing casino for rigging their games despite the game itself is provably fair.

Sometimes losing your money clouded the mind to think logically instead they are resorting to blaming so that they can escape to the pain of losing.

I’m like this when I’m knew on dice site but back then it’s very hard to understand the PF system that’s why I always have doubt when I’m losing.

[joeperry]

Yes it happened to me and of course a lot, I know it's my own fault but I'm just a person sometimes I just blame the casino for my own mistake. What happened is I am playing sports betting and beside the area where you can type amount is the enter key and beside it is the "max bet" and of course I misclicked it and place a bet and there's no cashout at that moment because the match is around 3 mins before the end, and in the end I lose the bet and I tried blaming the casino for it. (I didn't say it to them/send them a message and it's just in my head, but I know deep inside that it's my fault not double checking everything before placing a bet).

[lienfaye]

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

Well, to be honest yes. It happened when I was a new gambler in online casinos. I'm in denial of my own mistake, so I put the blame to the casino who took my money. I also accused them of not being fair that's why I lose. But the truth is, it happened because it's my own will, I lose because I gamble and even i'm not good in handling unwanted situation, I still chose to take risk.

Martingale strategy really hits me hard. I thought it's the effective way to get back fast my money but it's the opposite. Anyway, it's all in the past and I already learned from those experience.

[nutildah]

Over the years, I've seen quite a few addicted gamblers tell their stories either here on in the Scam Accusation section -- people who truly don't know when to quit. Quite a few of the complainants blame the casino for their losses, how they shouldn't have allowed them to gamble so much, etc. And it can be a serious addiction, just like alcohol or cigarettes. But part of freedom is allowing people to have access to these vices. They are considered the little joys in life and most people don't develop serious problems with them. I would rather live in a society where such choice is available to me, which is why you'll never see me blaming casinos for existing and doing their thing.

[Pandu Geddon]

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I have to admit that I have also felt something like that in the past. Especially in slot games. After losing, of course what happens is not accepting defeat and thinking that everything has been set by the slot provider and blaming them for cheating. The result is trying a new site, and the result is still complaining about the same results.
I realize that this thought is not something I fully believe in. It all arises because of an outburst of emotion and dissatisfaction with defeat.

[Oluwa-btc]

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

Funny how some gamblers always want to push blames on things including the casino at the expense of their loses and make themselves feel like they got it all right. But I haven't being found in such situations as this and while gambling and little mistakes occur i would take the blame to myself other than pushing it to someone else or the casinos. So if any gamblers can't man up to their responsibilities then they shouldn't be found gambling.

[cryptomaniac_xxx]

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I have to admit that I have also felt something like that in the past. Especially in slot games. After losing, of course what happens is not accepting defeat and thinking that everything has been set by the slot provider and blaming them for cheating. The result is trying a new site, and the result is still complaining about the same results.
I realize that this thought is not something I fully believe in. It all arises because of an outburst of emotion and dissatisfaction with defeat.

Who wouldn't have gone thru this kind of situation? And I would say that this is regular for gamblers to blame everyone around him or her including casinos. But later we realized that there's no one to blame but ourselves.

We are the one who put money in the casino and not that other way around. But I guess it's human nature though to still look for excuses and be emotional specially if we lost big money. Heck, we might tell ourselves that we will not play on that casino again.

But days later here we go again, depositing and then the cycle repeats itself.

[bitzizzix]

Shifting the blame has become part of human nature because of feelings of not accepting what happened and trying to shift the blame to the related parties or the casino because of uncontrolled emotions so that they look for reasons that are actually their own fault. I have felt that way but I can control it and immediately realize it because losing in gambling is a consequence that must be accepted with an open heart and fix it. And this is not because gamblers do not understand or understand gambling because everyone will definitely feel unacceptable when experiencing a big loss, especially for those who have a mediocre or lower middle income because I often find people like this who feel unacceptable with the defeat that occurred and ramble or talk to themselves unclearly accompanied by emotions and also blame the casino but this is only temporary. However, this is better than those who immediately shift the blame to the casino just wanting to get pity or there are also those who reveal it so that many people think that the casino is a fraud.

[Free Market Capitalist]

It hasn't happened to me, but because I've known what this is all about for a long time.

I have to admit that I have also felt something like that in the past. Especially in slot games. After losing, of course what happens is not accepting defeat and thinking that everything has been set by the slot provider and blaming them for cheating. The result is trying a new site, and the result is still complaining about the same results.
I realize that this thought is not something I fully believe in. It all arises because of an outburst of emotion and dissatisfaction with defeat.

You would be better off understanding that if the slots have an average RTP of 95, you go one day with $100 and what the machine will give you back on average in the long run is $95. As in the sessions the prizes it gives you are thrown back, that $95 becomes 90.25, and so on, until you lose it all. So if you go one night with $100 and in the first few spins you win a $5,000 jackpot, the best thing to do is cashout, spend the money and come back another day, because the machine has given you an unusually good result for you that in the long run is going to be compensated downwards with that tendency to 0 that the compound RTP has.

[Peanutswar]

In some point there is but at the end of the day before you make a risk on the deposit you knew already what will possibly happen, not all deposits are wins and not all games are profit, so me personally I do already knew that its just a funds that I'm willing to lose now its up to me how do I handle that possible risk to lessen with the assistance of the knowledge do I have with the game and skills through out the experience in playing gambling if there's a chance to blame a casino I guess if there's a technical error happens during the game which is unexpected.

[rachael9385]

Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

I always take responsibility for my actions, I'm aware of that risks that gambling comes with so I don't blame the casino for my mistakes. Gambling is a 50/50 thing, this means that you are ready to put your money on the and accept whatever outcomes you get from it. As a gambler that's responsible you are not supposed to exceed your limits and start blaming the casino when things don't go your way

[$crypto$]

Will not justify yourself, because you used to blame the casino for the losses you experienced, maybe because of high lust then threw out the words, but still play casino even though you have experienced defeat.

This pattern is still experienced by many people, maybe they are not aware of the emotions it causes, now they are aware that they cannot blame the casino entirely because gambling is a matter of luck not skill.

[danherbias07]

It actually happened to me just recently, last night.

Instead of betting just 1, I forgot that the game resets to its default betting amount whenever the game is refreshed. I pressed it twice, betting 40, and I know it was my mistake.
Still, this could actually be fixed. Most slot games have a memory of your bets. Let's say the default is 5 and you change it to 1. Even if you refresh the game, it will still start at 1 because of its memory for each user.
I don't blame the slot provider, though. It's on us to be keen on details before we press the bet button.

[CryptoHeadlineNews]

Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

Deep down to ourselves, I'm pretty sure that every gambler knows that just the same way he/she prays to win a game while gambling, that's the exact same way the casino prays that gamblers loses their bet too, so that they can make more profits. And as such, been a good and experience gambler that had got knowledge about all this, it is only wise enough such individual gambles responsibly, knowing fully well that he/she will bear the full responsibility if he either wins or loses. Because blaming a casino will literally not solve any issue, but learning proper money management and self control will go a long way in helping you make the right decision at all times.

[alastantiger]

Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here… Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

Always I do this but I have started to learn how to control myself and avoid blaming others or the casino when I lose. Blaming others has been a way for me running away from my responsibilities and when I discovered that's what I was doing, I started looking for various means in which I can use to stop doing this. What I ended up with is that immediately I lose. I just let it go and not try to justify why I lost. I noticed when I started looking for reasons, I don't attack myself but put the blame on others. We're responsible for our own losses because despite who gave you the betting code, you're still the one that decided to make use of the code and nobody forced you to put your money. If you were to win, you won't give credit to the right source but claim the victory hence as you lose, do well to claim the lost

[mak013]

Not sure if this has been brought up before, but it crossed my mind so I’ll just throw it out here…

Have you ever been in a situation where you took a big loss. clearly because of your own mistake but instead of owning it, you ended up blaming the casino? Maybe made some excuses just to avoid feeling stupid?

This kind of mindset can mess with us. If we keep shifting the blame, we never really reflect on what we did wrong. We stay stuck, and the same cycle just repeats. So now I’m wondering anyone here willing to admit they’ve done that? Blamed the casino or the system for their loss, though deep down you knew it was on you?

If yes, I’d like to hear your story. How did you justify it to yourself at the time?

There are two things why i blame casinos.
First of them: When i limited after several wins in a row. I understand why they do it, but i think that it mustn`t be my problem.
Second: When casino cancels bets. If casino decide that it is fixed match or if the bookie made a mistake - they cancel bets. I understand it, it is right decision, but i`m angry.
PS. And when i make hedge bet - they cancel only win bet. After it i think that i can blame them.