This is ingrained in our minds very deeply so it will be difficult to overcome it, there is a very strong tendency for humans to disregard their failures as just having some bad luck and think of their success as caused by their skill, so even if a person is only being temporarily lucky when gambling instead of thinking about themselves in this way, they will believe they have acquired some sort of skill that is making them win, and even when losses naturally follow they still believe this was the case and they can make that money back.

Well, I think that women know nothing about mathematics, when you enter a casino to play, dice, roulette or any other game in a casino , you Know very well that Bears can be quite good when it comes to doing something like spreading some mathematics , patterns of even , odd, or something like that have already been Established, but When we are doing this it is something difficult, in my case I have an experience Regarding this , because when I was at the University, I was with a friend, we always went to roulette, because roulette had Certain patterns, sometimes we only discovered them to win, but from one moment to the next things Happened that he learned a pattern and I learned a different pattern, only that sometimes Sometimes we were also confused because the pattern was destroyed when we found the Pattern , things quickly started another pattern, also with the colors, one of the easiest ways to win is with the Colors , we always did Something like that because when we were present, What made us lose was 0 or 00, and in this case it was difficult to define how we could win.

In this order of ideas, we as a person can look for a way to earn more money , but it is Difficult, in fact we discovered that when we played it was Difficult when there were only the two of us in the roulette, it was easier when there were more people in the Roulette, people, now when it was completely full, things were easier because if or if someone at roulette had to win money, and that was when we were most interested, usually we would go at 6 in the afternoon because that was the way we saw it. The big fish arrived, told us what they were betting on the most, that was when we applied our biggest secrets, we already had signals and everything, so sometimes we were confused, we were confused because the music, the drink, the emotion, everything had an Influence.

It's practically true that some gamblers who have won a lot of money may feel compelled to win more due to the overwhelming pleasure and greed they experience, especially if they win an enormous amount of money. Some people who are aware of their limit will also gradually stop gambling since they are already satisfied and only want to recover the money they had lost from gambling. Some gamblers are also dissatisfied with their winnings and have experienced so many losses that they have begun to chase losses, which is what leads to addiction.

Gamblers' lifestyles are also influenced by their mental state, which is beyond our control. True, a lot depends on the people around you. It is common for many people to consider themselves to have a huge impact on your life, regardless of whether you gamble or not. Even if they believe that all you desire is to improve yourself, they will still criticize you for your actions. Up until the point at which you feel driven to convince everyone that you achieved, thinking, "I must prove something." being desperate to prove to everyone that you succeeded. If and only if you choose the right path, since some people tend to suddenly deviate from it.
The same is true with gambling; even if you win, many people will respect you and ask you about your strategies or offer you lots of advice on how to improve your game. On the other hand, if you lose, many people will doubt you and assume that you are an addicted gambler who only plays to win money but still ends up losing.

Let them determine their own path in life, meaning whether they are good or bad at gambling, they are the ones who judge and if a husband and wife enter the world of gambling and they enjoy it and it doesn't even become a burden on their family then what's wrong with them gambling?? And it must always be remembered that husband and wife as gamblers must cover up this behavior as much as possible in front of their children so that their children do not follow in their parents' footsteps.
However, gambling is a bad behavior in life and not everyone can control themselves well when gambling.

If a husband and wife are already gambling, enjoy it together and maintain good control and always be careful in every gambling game they play.

Yes this defines my  situation. I have for times lost everything on a gambling site and I once, lost all of my balance rage betting as I lose more and more. Not only the balance on gambling sites but also depositing all of my bank balance.
I was in a relationship at that time and I went to a severe anxiety that I could not do my daily task and my work for days. It was my partner who consolidate and made me promise I'll not gamble again.
The promise was not a legit one from my side but since than I have been able to stop me after emptying balance of some gambling sites on rage bets. It might be controlling your brain or learning from your mistakes but since that day I didn't lost more than I was willing to gamble.

Greed is always a negative factor when dealing in this activity. Gambling can bring enjoyment and a type of entertainment that you are aiming at, but once greed starts to dominate, the fun will change with aggression and the intensity of your desire to keep playing, linking that to how OP describes that with the single win things can change.

Your treatment with gambling will be more about repeating that outcome and once you suffer from failure, it will lead you to keep trying to recover and worse things will come along after.

I feel you! This is usually happens to everyone, you will notice that if you are reaching for help from them but no one will help you and give you an attention because for them, you are just a normal family member and they think you will never progress in life like what they currently have but once you already achieve the life that you've prayed for, you will see that they will be the first one to approach you as if they did nothing to belittle you when you were the one who needed help.
funny but this is true.

I don't really know what kind of gambling there are a lot of addicts today but certainly what I can see now is that everything depends on the perspective and preferences of the addicts and every game must have its own addicts in this case even though there are many and some are only a few but all forms of games in gambling must all have addicts in it.
Currently, maybe for some countries in the absence of land-based casinos, online gambling, especially in slots, has a lot of enthusiasts and that is proven today in the country I live in because most people will definitely be in the slots even though there are some of them in the lottery.

But on the other hand, for those who have a land-based casino and it has been certified by their government, there must be a lot of gambling enthusiasts there because the satisfaction of being online and land-based casinos is different so that surely not a few of them like it and can even be categorized as addicts.

I often see sites like that that are clones of the main site, sometimes I think that they stand with one flag and one company but it turns out to be different, but I never touch cloned sites because it looks like they are not creative and don't have the talent to make the appearance of the site which is different from others in building a gambling business so it can be seen that they are not really safe because of course the security of our money is very important if the site is hacked.

Sites that have developed a lot lately show that the gambling business is really very profitable, which is why there are so many new sites that clone other sites to make it easier for other people to play and make deposits, at least get money faster, but most of them actually ignore security. their site, so it doesn't really look serious and it would be better to stay away from sites like that.

Its normal about payment salary in job, some one have skill and experienced will earn much payment salary than beginner with less experienced and first time working on some company. I think not relate when comparison with some worker have skill but many of them keep working in front of computer have higher salary payment than worker on the field with hard working but keep less payment salary. Simple way in job system, you want to earn much payment salary you need push up your skill and automatically become more needed by many companies and get priority with bigger salary payment.

In fact, our job is not relate with how much our responsibility such as delivery workers with potential risk on the road but they payment under some one else working in the front of computer have low risk.

Life is very simple, friend, don't make it too complicated.
Look at the people around you, they make money in their own way, more simply they will do work depending on the skills they have to make money (other than those you mentioned above). There are many paths to the level of financial freedom according to each individual, as long as you are still able to lift weights such as working at a construction site or developing skills in the field of technology, you can still bring money into your wallet.

Once in a while, come to a tourist spot like a beach, then pay attention to how the people there make money by selling services to visitors. If you are a creative type of person, it is not difficult for you to find ideas for making money by selling services to other people.

The purpose why some people gamble is not because they like gambling and risk, it is because they don't have any option left and that is why they just gamble if not I believe no sane person will see a good method of making money with less risk and will want gambling, only a psychopaths' person who is demonic with money love will do that except for person that loves to spend his time and not doing it for the sake of money but the fun and entertainment as primary way to spend good time.

We have gamblers that were successful, made their first hit and they never return again. The money that was made was invested into real estate and they are doing fine today by not addicted or even looking back because as I said the other time, many people are doing gambling because they want money, as soon as the money is around and they have what they want, they don't come back again which is good, the second they have that thought, they might lose everything back into the platform.

When looking for a means of generating money I think putting all hope on the certificate is not the best, their is need to have a skill to back it up because this days the jobs out there is not sufficient for people out. Let their be an alternative means of generating money than just relying on certificates.

Yes, it's like that, the best motivation is from within yourself. Just like when we first tried to gamble, we must also have the responsibility to try to stop. but of course stopping is sometimes not as easy as starting. I've had a few mistakes before, when people warned me not to play too long when winning, but I always played to the end of winning only to end up losing. From this, I feel that I must take full responsibility, both for playing and for stopping gambling. That's why I say input from other people can be useless if we don't follow it and there is rejection from ourselves

Well, let me first say I appreciate your time to make your opinion known, after all, we are all contributing here. But at times, if it's getting to this point of ours, I think it's wise for either of us to go external to research this to ascertain the truth. You know, at times, if we limit it to our understanding alone, we might never move forward in understanding. When I first saw your reply, truly, I was shocked because you are the only one who refuted what I wrote, others agreed to it. And this can only be for a reason, you might not actually know that it is pointing to, even if it is confusing, and whether you like it or not, if a thing is right, nothing can change that fact. When I was replying to you, I never checked for any external articles until our posts had gone back and forth replies. Thereafter, I resorted to external knowledge, and fortunately, I was sided in this argument. It's not about who is wrong or right now but eventually establishing a fact. However, the truth as the case may be, I believe the links below should shed more light on this. Maybe you don't know the meaning of addiction itself. it's the feelings for anything you like to do often and when missed you don't feel good about it. If you can agree that gambling is addictive even people, at the same time some people will always run to it for either fun or money, and this same gambling can make this person lose (negative aspect). It also makes some people win consistently (positive). How do you now entirely say all addictions are bad (negative)? Is this not plain enough? You might want to make your research far or near, it will not change the fact that there are also positive addictions, and all addictions cannot be negative, it's only the negative part that people often focus on and abuse due to its harmful side. But for positive addiction, since it doesn't affect negatively, people often forget about it while some don't even give it a thought at all.

Frankly, I don't know why you relate this to drugs whatsoever, it further shows you do not understand what we are saying here. Drugs can never be positive to anyone, for what temporary gains which will subside over time and will continue to take hold of the victim and ruin the system and brain of the person unless the supervised ones and the ones they use in medicine? Common! Is gambling like that without any positive stories? Can't gambling earn you money? We are talking about gambling and positive addiction, you had better leave drugs out of it, and all those dangerous things that negate positivity which is the context here.

Yes. In contrast to people who are addicted to gambling, they do not realize that if they borrow money just to gamble then they will have new problems later in life. If we have good control then this will not be a problem because we can control ourselves well.
That's right, it's better for us to just play with the money we have, even if it's only a little, and that way we won't be too burdened if defeat befalls us, because we only lose the money we have and not the loan. from other people and besides that we don't need to think about how to return it, so we will play more comfortably and regularly without any burden on our minds.

I totally agree with you. Because it is best if you can do something by yourself. If you can do small business by yourself there is no extra hassle like you can manage your business as you like. Whenever you are under someone else.  You won't have any freedom when you work. I don't like it at all. I want to work independently and do something good by managing my own business. So I decided to start a small business from now on and try to grow it slowly.

I probably have some gambling problems, but they are not severe gambling problems. I think they are not badly needing any help from a professional. Little problems like when I say this is my last round but I ended up playing another couple of rounds. Or when I say when I lose this round I won't be betting again, but I ended up betting after a losing round. These are probably my gambling problems. But I am not feeling worried about them. They occur less often.