Stop the self entitlement claims on others gamblers winnings.

[stomachgrowls]

I understand the hype people feel when you see big wins from others, I understand it because I also get it as well, so there is really nothing wrong with that at all, but at the same time you should not act on it neither, you should be considering it as just another possibility.

I get that it may not be all that much, but we need to end up with something that would benefit us all. I know that life is not always happy, and seeing others be happy makes you feel like you want to be happy just like them, so you end up going and just trying your best to get the same results.

The danger here is that it could cause you to not feel happy but instead feel quite sad about it because the result could be very different and you may lose a lot.

This is why it would really be that important that you shouldn't really make yourself trying to mimic out those winners or those lucky fellas on the time that you do play gambling because results would really be
entirely different considering that luck factor would really be always the real thing and if you do able to experience different result or outcome then it would really be bringing out that kind of frustration
and disappointment on which it might lead up into that kind of desperation which might lead into those impulsive actions which might cause even more losses.

Going back into the situation having on having that self entitlement on claims on others gambler winning then you should really be realistically be wary that its not your money that had been risked out.
Yes, you could really be able to make out some tips and hints or suggestions but on the time that they would be making those wins then you dont have the right on trying to ask
for some part of those winnings. Better to make yourself wait if ever there would be amount would be given or have not.

[swogerino]

I understand the hype people feel when you see big wins from others, I understand it because I also get it as well, so there is really nothing wrong with that at all, but at the same time you should not act on it neither, you should be considering it as just another possibility.

I get that it may not be all that much, but we need to end up with something that would benefit us all. I know that life is not always happy, and seeing others be happy makes you feel like you want to be happy just like them, so you end up going and just trying your best to get the same results.

The danger here is that it could cause you to not feel happy but instead feel quite sad about it because the result could be very different and you may lose a lot.

In this specific case or many other cases like this it is entirely in the discretion of the winner.I understand also that amount is a very low amount comparing to winning 15.6 million N and giving only 100k as a reward to the person that helped you win that bet yet there is nothing we can do.

I also agree with the guy who tells him in life we can be better individuals as I think it would not cost that much to the winner of 15.6 million N to give 1 million back to the helper and this amount I am sure would have been a normal one as it would be about 7-8% of the full amount while the amount given is less than 1 percent so I understand that the helper feels sad.

[Sanugarid]

As elucidated in detail on the image the story of a gambler in my country who won a whopping amount of N15.6M  that's about $16,000 and out of his generosity gifted one of the punters a sum of N100k an act which IMO could be referred to as an appreciation for doing nothing.


Getting to X  (twitter) some people started dragging and criticizing the gambler and calling him names, that the N100k he gave to the punters out of N15.5M he had won was too small and that he could have done better. Below in the image  is one of many tweets from the critics.



On the contrary against the critiques some persons where on the side of the gambler saying he the gambler was too magnanimous to have released a N100k as appreciation for someone who did nothing for him or added nothing to his winning bet

It's kind of becoming a norm in the gambling house for people to act with some sort of self-entitement to other gamblers money just because it was money won through gambling. Some even go further to argue that using so little amount to winning so much amount of money you ought to share it with others in a ratio of 60:40. What a nonsense!

IMO, there's no law in gambling mandating that a gambler must share part of his winning with eith friends or fellow gamblers in the gambling house, for that, you owe no one an apology either or not you chose to give a penny whatsoever. Let stop the self entitlement claims towards fellows gamblers that won big amount of money. The attitude is disturbing.
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It's not mandatory for the winner to share what he won with a friend or anyone lol, it's a good thing the winner shared because if it was me, I wouldn't give it. There are really many people like this, even if you give, they will still say something bad, no matter what you do that is good for others, they will still say something. People like this are annoying, if you can do better than that donate your own money instead of hanging around or dipping.

[hedgeh0g]

I understand the hype people feel when you see big wins from others, I understand it because I also get it as well, so there is really nothing wrong with that at all, but at the same time you should not act on it neither, you should be considering it as just another possibility.

I get that it may not be all that much, but we need to end up with something that would benefit us all. I know that life is not always happy, and seeing others be happy makes you feel like you want to be happy just like them, so you end up going and just trying your best to get the same results.

The danger here is that it could cause you to not feel happy but instead feel quite sad about it because the result could be very different and you may lose a lot.

Nowadays there is such a society that in most cases there will be much more hateful comments than positive ones, because people are almost not happy for the success of others, when everything is fine with them. This is exactly what happens, we begin to compare ourselves with others on a subconscious level, whether we want it or not. We begin to be dissatisfied with ourselves and our mood begins to deteriorate when our neighbor is more successful than us. I start to get into our heads that we are weak and look for reasons why we couldn’t do everything we had in mind. This is how depression arises, which will eat us away from the inside.

This is more serious than it seems at first glance, so it is better not to spin the spiral of your thoughts, but to do everything to the maximum and live your best life, then we will have no time to be distracted by such thoughts.

[livingfree]

It's not mandatory for the winner to share what he won with a friend or anyone lol, it's a good thing the winner shared because if it was me, I wouldn't give it. There are really many people like this, even if you give, they will still say something bad, no matter what you do that is good for others, they will still say something. People like this are annoying, if you can do better than that donate your own money instead of hanging around or dipping.

These people truly are self entitled.

They think that a person should give back to them because they are fortunate and have won such amounts. But, that's not the real way of dealing life and winnings.

If someone gives them big or small amount regardless of the person's intention or whether it's personal money or just some giveaways because of winning, they shouldn't give the person negative reaction.

Take it or leave it, that's it.

[Outhue]

This is also happening out of gambling, it's something we now see as normal thing in my country, it happens in the family too, imagine everyone shutting you off when you ask for their help? Imagine you needing a vehicle to move some heavy objects and you know someone in the family has a lorry that can get the job done and they deny you?

But when your own time comes, and you get your vehicle and everything, this same set of people will come and start asking you to borrow your vehicle for a while, they have seems to forget all the maltreatment they did with you, one thing I though its just been shameless of them but I was wrong, I found out that they are trying to outsmart you, like indirectly calling you a fool.

I am sure that the people that feel entitled the most are those who will never allow anyone to do the same to them, it is all intentionally, forcing you to take a bow, pretending to be normal, as if it's the way it should be, let their own time comes, they won't do the same.

[angrybirdy]

This is also happening out of gambling, it's something we now see as normal thing in my country, it happens in the family too, imagine everyone shutting you off when you ask for their help? Imagine you needing a vehicle to move some heavy objects and you know someone in the family has a lorry that can get the job done and they deny you?

But when your own time comes, and you get your vehicle and everything, this same set of people will come and start asking you to borrow your vehicle for a while, they have seems to forget all the maltreatment they did with you, one thing I though its just been shameless of them but I was wrong, I found out that they are trying to outsmart you, like indirectly calling you a fool.

I am sure that the people that feel entitled the most are those who will never allow anyone to do the same to them, it is all intentionally, forcing you to take a bow, pretending to be normal, as if it's the way it should be, let their own time comes, they won't do the same.

I feel you! This is usually happens to everyone, you will notice that if you are reaching for help from them but no one will help you and give you an attention because for them, you are just a normal family member and they think you will never progress in life like what they currently have but once you already achieve the life that you've prayed for, you will see that they will be the first one to approach you as if they did nothing to belittle you when you were the one who needed help.
funny but this is true.

[Gozie51]

But when your own time comes, and you get your vehicle and everything, this same set of people will come and start asking you to borrow your vehicle for a while, they have seems to forget all the maltreatment they did with you, one thing I though its just been shameless of them but I was wrong, I found out that they are trying to outsmart you, like indirectly calling you a fool.

Human beings are of different types and they exhibit different types of character, some are selfish, jealous and envious. Those that have good heart are always taken for a fool, they are override just because of their nature. But however, keep doing good for the reward will always come in ways that we don't expect. Don't measure bad with bad but pay good to bad.

I am sure that the people that feel entitled the most are those who will never allow anyone to do the same to them, it is all intentionally, forcing you to take a bow, pretending to be normal, as if it's the way it should be, let their own time comes, they won't do the same.

You are right because some gamblers when they win would not allow you to know that there ticket is in green because they don't want to give you anything from the win not even a bottle of drink. They know if you are aware of the winning then they would have guilty conscience to give something out of the much that they have won so they would surreptitiously go for the cashout and then avoid you for the moment.

[junder]

I understand the hype people feel when you see big wins from others, I understand it because I also get it as well, so there is really nothing wrong with that at all, but at the same time you should not act on it neither, you should be considering it as just another possibility.

I get that it may not be all that much, but we need to end up with something that would benefit us all. I know that life is not always happy, and seeing others be happy makes you feel like you want to be happy just like them, so you end up going and just trying your best to get the same results.

The danger here is that it could cause you to not feel happy but instead feel quite sad about it because the result could be very different and you may lose a lot.

This is why it would really be that important that you shouldn't really make yourself trying to mimic out those winners or those lucky fellas on the time that you do play gambling because results would really be
entirely different considering that luck factor would really be always the real thing and if you do able to experience different result or outcome then it would really be bringing out that kind of frustration
and disappointment on which it might lead up into that kind of desperation which might lead into those impulsive actions which might cause even more losses.

Going back into the situation having on having that self entitlement on claims on others gambler winning then you should really be realistically be wary that its not your money that had been risked out.
Yes, you could really be able to make out some tips and hints or suggestions but on the time that they would be making those wins then you dont have the right on trying to ask
for some part of those winnings. Better to make yourself wait if ever there would be amount would be given or have not.

gambling is a game of chance, where luck plays a role in this and also not everyone has the same luck because if that happens the dealer will lose. It is also not recommended to follow or imitate winners in gambling, even if they are given tricks, the results may be different from those of the winner. never try to force yourself to gamble because this will bring bad disasters, not only in gambling but in other things too if  you force yourself it will result in something less than optimal and even the possibility of bad things is better to gamble sensibly by not forcing yourself Continuing to gamble can be done to minimize the risk of loss that will occur, nothing good can result from forcing yourself.

and if they have carried out these impulsive actions then  it is likely that they will get into big, serious problems that can lead them to become addicted to gambling. This needs to be addressed so that addiction does not occur. It is best to avoid things that trigger gambling addiction, such as not borrowing money, Don't be annoyed by losing, don't get emotional when gambling, don't be careless in taking action, because prevention is better than cure, especially if you are addicted to gambling, it will be difficult to recover and the recovery process will be very difficult if you really want to leave this addiction.

[Blitzboy]

I understand the hype people feel when you see big wins from others, I understand it because I also get it as well, so there is really nothing wrong with that at all, but at the same time you should not act on it neither, you should be considering it as just another possibility.

I get that it may not be all that much, but we need to end up with something that would benefit us all. I know that life is not always happy, and seeing others be happy makes you feel like you want to be happy just like them, so you end up going and just trying your best to get the same results.

The danger here is that it could cause you to not feel happy but instead feel quite sad about it because the result could be very different and you may lose a lot.

This is why it would really be that important that you shouldn't really make yourself trying to mimic out those winners or those lucky fellas on the time that you do play gambling because results would really be
entirely different considering that luck factor would really be always the real thing and if you do able to experience different result or outcome then it would really be bringing out that kind of frustration
and disappointment on which it might lead up into that kind of desperation which might lead into those impulsive actions which might cause even more losses.

Going back into the situation having on having that self entitlement on claims on others gambler winning then you should really be realistically be wary that its not your money that had been risked out.
Yes, you could really be able to make out some tips and hints or suggestions but on the time that they would be making those wins then you dont have the right on trying to ask
for some part of those winnings. Better to make yourself wait if ever there would be amount would be given or have not.

The unpredictable nature of gambling must first be understood. Each dice throw and card turn is independent of prior outcomes. Gambling is risky because of this randomness. We must remember that luck is ours. Not portable or replicable. Imitating others' techniques or expecting their luck is a myth.

Emotional modulation. As you said, gambling's ups and downs can cause frustration and despair. Gambling should be fun, not money. Self-imposed time and money constraints are healthy. Knowing when to stop is as important as playing.

Entitlement: never feel entitled to others' wins. Gambling is personal and risky. Expecting a portion of someone else's achievement is different from giving guidance. Separating one's gambling path from others' is respectful and wise. Please focus on our own decisions and accept their results gracefully.

[Accardo]

This is also happening out of gambling, it's something we now see as normal thing in my country, it happens in the family too, imagine everyone shutting you off when you ask for their help? Imagine you needing a vehicle to move some heavy objects and you know someone in the family has a lorry that can get the job done and they deny you?

But when your own time comes, and you get your vehicle and everything, this same set of people will come and start asking you to borrow your vehicle for a while, they have seems to forget all the maltreatment they did with you, one thing I though its just been shameless of them but I was wrong, I found out that they are trying to outsmart you, like indirectly calling you a fool.

I am sure that the people that feel entitled the most are those who will never allow anyone to do the same to them, it is all intentionally, forcing you to take a bow, pretending to be normal, as if it's the way it should be, let their own time comes, they won't do the same.

I feel you! This is usually happens to everyone, you will notice that if you are reaching for help from them but no one will help you and give you an attention because for them, you are just a normal family member and they think you will never progress in life like what they currently have but once you already achieve the life that you've prayed for, you will see that they will be the first one to approach you as if they did nothing to belittle you when you were the one who needed help.
funny but this is true.

These are mostly underdogs in society, people rarely believe they'll skyrocket financially someday, hence treat them like a dead dog and try to low ball them. People love kicking on fallen men, not knowing that someday they'll rise and claim the responsibilities allocated to them in society. When the table turns and the underdog becomes a prominent person in society, the same people who looked down on him would run coming to him for help, not just genuinely asking for help, but feeling in them the entitlement of getting help from the person. At first, the belief within them doesn't diminish immediately as they'll wait for the person to fall financially again, but once they realize he's now made man, they'll come to claim that the said person was their friend, when he had nothing. Many people experience similar reactions outside of gambling even in the family. Take the story of Joseph in the bible, even that of David, and Mephibosheth son of Jonathan.

Most people who were looked down upon, stood up strong and ruled over their peers. Moving forward, in the context of this thread, the gambler in question doesn't owe anybody some explanation for giving out few funds to the punter. That's not his business. He's paid his dues before staking the game and he came out lucky. Though he won the jackpot and was supposed to do more according to those Twitter users, the money he gave, is it not better than nothing? I mean those people are ingrates, they show no appreciation for any form of tip they get from gamblers. They feel like the gambler has some connections with them which mandates him to pay a certain percentage of his earnings in gambling after winning. That's why most people wouldn't book games in the game house anymore, due to such entitlements. They are mainly stingy people, seeking to reap where they didn't sow. No need giving them some attention. They'll always have something to say. They expect him to divide his winning into two parts and give one to the punter. Hmm.

[DubemIfedigbo001]

Most of those news coming from this legit new outlet are fake but that not withstanding since we can still learn one or two lessons from the discussions,  because the topic is most appropriate at this point in time,  since gambling is something that comes with some form of unexpected outcome such as in form of jackpot winning like the case with the ops,  it make more sense to make sure we protect our privacy at all time,  because hard it been that the gsmbker in question just gamble online,  he won't get called out for such because no body will know about the wining unless those he be tell at some point.

This is a high risk situation for the gamblers because he already get called out on social media which will further expose him to ore extortion from those around him,  but what the contribution of the guy that is calling him. Out for sending 100k in the winnings of the 15 million.

Exactly bro, this is what you get when you gamble offline. People claiming right to your hard earned money and going as far as calling him out on social media. That's greed on that other guys part because he shouldn't dictate for the  winner what to do with his money. With the security threat all over the country, the guy's identity exposure can possibly get him kidnapped and funds  paid as ransom, leaving him with little or nothing after all.
The importance of privacy in gambling is 100%. Play online, win online and transfer the proceeds to your account and case finished. Continue your life as though nothing happened

[Rabata]

It is a rare occurrence, usually such occurrences will not be seen often. But it is possible for few people to do such a thing. We can spend money behind maximum closed friends there if we get a big win but never give him liquid money or if we give him the amount is very small maybe 5 percent maximum it will be below 10 percent in most cases. We will think that we will never get such a big win again so we will use the money for our own needs. But there are many people in the world who are not greedy for money. Based on this incident I can definitely say that person does not gamble only for money.

[ethereumhunter]

It is a rare occurrence, usually such occurrences will not be seen often. But it is possible for few people to do such a thing. We can spend money behind maximum closed friends there if we get a big win but never give him liquid money or if we give him the amount is very small maybe 5 percent maximum it will be below 10 percent in most cases. We will think that we will never get such a big win again so we will use the money for our own needs. But there are many people in the world who are not greedy for money. Based on this incident I can definitely say that person does not gamble only for money.

Indeed, incidents like that will rarely happen but it depends on each person. Some people distribute some money to several people they know so that they can also enjoy their winnings, but some people don't do it because they think this is their winnings that they should enjoy themselves. Maybe they'll give you a small portion of their money to celebrate. If the winning money is kept from other people, they will use it to meet their daily needs because that is more important than sharing it with other people. But there is no obligation for gamblers who win to share their winnings with other people, even people they don't know.