There exist over one million and one reason why people hate gambling, but few benefits of gambling can make a player to outsmart his colleagues in the office. Or even in an interview. I was able to check how gambling benefits relate to what HR officers look out for in a candidate before hiring them. There are 2 main benefit of gambling that improves the major skills people look out for in an employee in every offices.

1. Critical thinking: there have never been any job opening that doesn't require candidates to have this skill, because every company needs it to grow. And under critical thinking include skills like problem solving, idealist etc.

2. Socialization: Mainly the corporate world will call it interpersonal relationship. It's a very crucial skill anywhere we find ourselves in the world. And gamblers who participate in board games, easily develop the skill. When in the office, they'll always socialize and make friends with co-workers.

Personally, I've experienced these two, in my daily conversation with people. And realized that my responses are now more effective than it used to be in the past, before I began gambling. I'd always think fast and respond accurately what the next person wants to hear. And most times it makes them laugh. 

There are other benefits of gambling, and how it has helped your gambling life. It'll be great if you shared some of it with us. Cheers.

It's not completely a dumb strategy, few gamblers benefits using the method. Although, it's not easy to risk more, a win could be our next result. I'll always advice gamblers not to follow the strategy of another gambler. It doesn't work for you, chasing the losses. Many that do chase the lose end up in regrets and have nothing left to bet. Still some people benefit through the same strategy. Gambling is not a niche with a general skill that works for everyone. We all have a goal, and the advice of gamblers around us shouldn't concern us, the aim is hitting our goal. Which should be personal to each of us. A player might stop his strategy because he read your post, yet he'll blame himself, if he doesn't get similar results like you do. Those players whose aim is to win big in gambling should monitor their games, and be able to diversify in strategies. Until something works out. Sticking to one way of gambling to win big, Isn't gambling in the first instance. As we are expected to gamble with everything; skills, strategies, decisions etc. What works, we don't know. Hence, saying you can't follow this step or must stick to this step depends on what a player is looking out to get. Our personal idea, should be valued greater than other people's advice. It'll be useless trying to convince anybody to use a procedure or blame them for not using a specific strategy. In gambling sense, those who advised OP are completely wrong, if Op tags them wrong and vice versa. In a nutshell, gambling is a personal encounter.

Not loving our self, will affect others not to love us. Gambling addiction, helps our loved ones to some extent, to stop loving us in future. They'll pretend to stick by us, but when the addiction doesn't allow us enough time to think properly, they, our loved ones, will find a way of adjusting their friendship with the addicted person. It's certain that most indoor gamblers expose themselves to gambling addiction, because their actions are hidden. And can hardly be traced by other people around them. It's normal to find a person we can trust, as gambling newbies, could be a gambler, and discuss our new habits, and how it's affecting our daily activities. Because most of them don't enjoy the money won, which is attributed to greed. They easily get glued to gambling and forget about other exercises like reading and working out. Which they used to practice before they became gamblers. Such a new development, opens an avenue for questions. Close family members can query him. Nothing can be hidden for so long. They can ask questions like, I hardly see you reading, like before, what is it that replaced your reading habit? The way we ask the question also determines if they'll tell us the truth or get cunning about their answer. Asking such people questions like "what's wrong with you?" may not be effective. Because within them, nothing is wrong. Hence, having a discussion session with them using questions to steal the truth from them can be very effective. The reason, which is bad, why people or friends avoid addicted gamblers is, they feel nothing can be done to help. Some only get concerned, if the addicted person now steals or borrows money from them without paying back a dime. If not for actions like that, the addicted person will be allowed to waste years in addiction, provided he uses his funds to finance his bad habit. Thereby leading the player to a more difficult situation, as getting depressed. 

Look, spreading his photos around his street, like a lost person, wouldn't solve the difficult problem. He is struggling with addiction and this method can't stop him. By any means he'll be elligible to gambling outside his province. Inviting him to order, is the best tool required to fix a broken person. Although, it's not simple, as it'll need his cooperation. Reading the story, he failed to cooperate with his parents, and it led to a public disgrace of the young gambler. If they had a second thought, working on his resistant would solve a bit of his problem of avoiding them, if he did. Have a rethink on if the boy doesn't return home again forever. Who is going to feel the most pain? his parents of course, as relatives would flood them with millions of questions about their son's where about. It's indeed a shame, but we need to control our actions towards our wards. No matter what they do, they still are our loved ones. His parents are acting out of fear. The reason, because gambling has destroyed many homes. Their son is doing it already, improvising a solution as that as their all. Elaborates how unprepared they are in stopping the bad habit of their son. Investing anger on the boy, will only get them extra disgrace in future. Nobody cares if he wins big later, like OP said. What matters is changing him, first. After that, the family can send him to learn skill. Distracting him from any thought of moving back into gambling.

At young age I knew about sports gambling from a friend who made some funds through gambling. He talked to me about gambling, as a way I could be making some fund, instead of asking for fund all the time from my parents. Then, I had no funds or device to gamble on the site, he showed me. Through his guidance I was able to learn how to play big odds on teams that seem vulnerable to their opponent. To maximize my win, if they eventually won. When I began gambling, that very site wasn't functional anymore. But, I don't remember blaming anybody about my gambling habit. I took it upon myself, as my responsibility, despite being introduced to gambling by somebody else. The last time I checked he's no longer a gambler. Already moved on with his career. Hence, he wasn't addicted, just did it as a way to make money. Neither I'm I addicted to gambling. The fun of calculating the right slot on a roulette game still makes me enjoy playing the game. Although, with little funds that'll amount to huge money if summed up today. Yet, the fun of it, doesn't ring any alarm of regret or stretching out blame on my friend. If I had not controlled the way I gambled, or lost huge amount of money in a single day. Definitely, I'll blame the friend that introduced me into such a lifestyle. It's actually the reason, me as a person, doesn't direct anybody into gambling as a method of earning money. I'm surprised that a good number of friends who made money via gambling, stopped along the line. With no going back, at the top of their of mind. I prefer letting people choose what, how, and when they want to spend their money. Especially regarding gambling.

In our daily life activities, going to the mall with large budget, for example, we end up buying things we don't need. Same is applicable to gambling. A good number of gamblers who don't follow money management techniques, end up regretting why they gamble. I've read some blog posts that encourage gamblers to engage in gambling with few cash and keep their card aside. Gamblers can go to an extent of having two signatories in their account. Enforcing certain restrictive criterion would help the gambler to mange money, when in gambling session. As most times, we may not be careful enough, we'd be carried away by the cool experience of gambling. If that happens the money management measures will stop us, the gambler from falling into a trap. The bank can be instructed to set a daily limit on our expenses. These limitations helps the gambler to return back to their right senses. Even, during the next gambling session urge, the gambler will be more conscious, in spending money. The whole war against not becoming addicted, is dependent on the gambler. At the initial stage of gambling, before being deeply involved in gambling. The player can trust a family member with his decision. Then, the person, will work closely with the gambler, to observe when he begins to add odd behaviors to his existing attitude. But, when we keep it a secret, the gambler will have to suffer with money management. Though, not all players. Yet, nobody can predict, their fate in gambling. A day can come when we'll not be emotionally stable to keep up with being conscious of our decision. That's why even the most professional of all gambler can be a victim of crazy gambling someday. Which still keeps money management a top of any other gambling precaution available. At least we can't gamble when we don't have access to money.

You've made a remarkable point, about staying in control. While gambling, the gambler holds full culpability on their decision. Whether to lose control or not. The demoralizing factor is their emotions on the results of other gamblers. Failing to acknowledge the individual difference in gambling experience, leads gamblers to choose a wrong route in decision making. A player that possesses critical thinking, has better advantage over others who don't. Continuously, playing games due to the outcome of another gambler's bet, restructures the self control of the gambler to think he deserves to win, like everyone else. If he is in control, what matters to others won't be meaningful to him. Hence, he'll move ahead with his conclusion of hitting the exit button. Notwithstanding the success of the player next to him. Healthy thoughts, facilitates in minimizing loss of control as gamblers. As the brain would keep reminding us of the repercussion of trying again; running broke. Which brings forth anxiety. When we win, it's superb and worth celebrating with more trial, to see if it's our most lucky day. But, the opposite may surface as a result. Then, our thoughts should also go to the opposite side. Gambling is a game of mind. Refusing to respect our instinct, is wrong, mainly in gambling. The possibility of experiencing a simultaneous win, isn't one in gambling. When a player wins twice or thrice in a roll, it's a trap. Though we call it luck. But, when the losses starts appearing, withdrawing from the initial happiness easily is very hard. The player wants to hit another joy again and again. Here, he'd lose all his wins, trying to regain the money he lost. What stopped him from stopping, needs to be studied.

This sounds like a viral story in your country, even, I tried to look it up using some keywords, but was able to find few blog articles on the event. There is no place it's written on the article I read, the amount he spent on the case. In 9 years, which isn't a transient period, pursuing a court case should cost him lots of cash. But, it shouldn't be close to his reward. It's quite disheartening to spend 9 years with the person who burnt or rumpled the bet ticket. Seeing his daughter as the facilitator of his stress and trouble, wouldn't cease to visit his mind. It'll lodge in his subconscious. Thereby, worsening a new day, between the both; father and daughter. You have got a reasonable thought, about not allowing money to build a foundation of argument and hatred in your home. Imagining the difficult days and trauma the father passed through, from day 1 of the event down to 9 years. Only a few percent of men would not take offense on the main genesis of the problem, regardless of who or what the person is to them. Don't forget he's a gambler. And the jackpot would have been his all time favorite breakfast. That morning, she ruined his happiness. On the second flip, nothing supersedes family. Money may try to, but it's not worth the angst behind a broken home. Somewhere in his heart, today, he'll be regretting his actions on his daughter. The delay, brought him more fame, and respect  from the worldwide gambling community. Many victims of delay can corroborate, the wait is always worth it, as it comes alongside multiple rewards.

Aside the notion behind the giveaway, as we all know the reason why Influencers send giveaway and the tricks that walk behind it. Giving back to the community is definitely salient, at least in making us better gamblers. Knowing that other people in the society have a little share off our big win. Involuntarily encourages us to craft out good predictions and analysis, each time we are about to gamble. And, also, help us organize our big wins, prior to another day of bounty distribution. Giving back to the society shouldn't or isn't a one time exercise. The community is large and not every user would get the first giveaway. Therefore, big winners, will need to manage their wins, in preparation for another win big season. Such that their wealth of gambling skills can be disseminated across more users in the community. Additionally, the traffic they gain through the consistent giveaway, can be thought or lectured on the ethics of gambling. Returning wealth to the society isn't only about physical materials; laptops and money. These are just mediums of attracting people, then in my jurisdiction, those who don't get these items, would also gain from the gambling advice I'd be tweeting. Example; informing the users about the disadvantages of gambling addiction. And, providing them with the reason why I'm winning big; is because of self control, risk management and money consciousness. Few lines of good words can spread across multiple readers and change their gambling perspectives. For good. This would be my personal method of reaching out to the wider community. No way is it possible to get my big win across everybody on my timeline as an influencer. I didn't go through his tweets, but some influencers still demand users to execute a kind of survey; retweet and share, to be eligible.

This is actually, my first time reading about such thing, did it actually happen in your region or you're predicting it. Because most local traders are beginning to take their business online; Instagram and Facebook. The issue delaying their decision in joining the ongoing competition in the online marketplace is, the local traders don't know where to begin. How to get a marketer, set an advert and build a social media page. These things still are not clear to them. Because if they understood that the online trading is the reason they're not making enough sales. Nothing would have been a barrier, other than getting started. And online marketers don't scout offline for local stores. As they think that such business men would decline their offers. Or maybe not comply to what they don't understand. But, if online marketers get sales people that'll visit local businesses and share with them the magic associated with online marketing. They'll definitely get an appointment. Another problem that can make such local traders to resist digital marketing, is the slow return on investment. After paying the digital marketers they'll be expecting a fast return. Therefore, it'll be appropriate for the marketers to teach them about the wax and wane nature of online sales. Before letting them pay in the first instance. Promoting a business requires enough time than money. The enormous time it requires to build an unswerving online presence in the digital world, is the reason traditional traders are not innovative in consistent promotion of their goods and service. Rather, staying completely offline, feels conducive to them.

Such gamblers always find it difficult to be responsible gamblers. They spend most of their time trying to turn gambling into a full time job. By participating extra hours, gambling with the little money they've left. They'll go to gamble with borrowed money and when they're not winning, instead of halting the game, that's when the eagerness to gamble more erupts. Relating them with what Op has on his thread, you'd see that they're those that lose control when they're losing. Don't know if they'll be greedy enough not to take their win immediately they win. Because, it could a golden opportunity. As they're aware about the next result when they continue playing games. Most gamblers looking for quick money don't need to test another luck, after seeing a significant win. Maybe in their next gambling session, they can increase a little bit the amount of money to wager. The problem about such gamblers also include, causing harm to their family and society, by wasting resources. Since they have in mind from the onset that gambling is the only way of getting their daily bread. They can waste family money on gambling. I wonder if they don't care about feeding with the money, instead of trying to multiply the money in gambling. In a nutshell, your response, also contributes to the fact that in Op's question, it has to do with the situation of the gambler. Not everybody would lose control, when they're losing or vice versa. A responsible gambler, will definitely think about his decision, whether win or lose.

It's not a must that everyone that gambles online has the tendency of becoming an addict. There are multiple factors that lead people to gambling addiction, which has nothing to do with the comfort of gambling online in our private rooms. Some were caused by the lost of a loved one like any other addiction or maybe failure, even relationship heartbreak. Your line about those who are already gambling is right, reducing the rate at which they gamble is fine. At least to an extent where they'll be enjoying their habit, without causing harm to their various loved ones. And due to the false believe that gamblers are toxic, married men should respect their homes and try to not go public about their gambling habit. Especially when their wife is against it. Not to break the home. But, when addicted or in trouble, they'll be no benefit not to let the cat out of the box. As they're the direct first aid to any mental disorder that gambling could cause. Hence, the money used to gamble should mainly be spare cash. Therefore maintaining our duty as the head of the family. Instead of letting gambling to remove the trust and respect our loved ones have for us. It also contributes to the addiction; lack of self control. The goal is to be responsible at all cost. That is gambling when we are completely free from any other task; company or business. Many have lost their good paying jobs because of gambling. It's not encouraged at all. That's one the reasons, Dewi Aries may have suggested that those who don't gamble, yet, shouldn't try it in the first place. Additionally, keeping few amount of money aside a week can also be a better method of not hurting the financial economy of our household.

Some people would think the game won't be fruitful and tend to drop their ticket carelessly. But, in the case of the man he noticed he won the game and went immediately to redeem his winning. But, with the rumpled paper not all information written on the paper were seen. Hence they declined it, that means he was right in time, but the dispute began with the rumpled paper. Before he had to file the case to a law court. It's not like the ticket was reading till the period of 9 years. No. They were already in court, with the both parties providing evidence to make each side look guilty. Luckily the man wasn't.

How many times do you think a person would continue winning his bets in a role without losing. That's where the win and lose syndrome comes to play with the instinct of the gambler. In a situation where he wins and along the line loses then wins again. Would he have the self control to stop playing and go home. It's like a more interesting day. And along the line the system begin to bring losses to him. The decision he takes during this period can determine the outcome of what would be his gambling experience that day; joy or sadness. As it's rare to just win consecutively without losing. But, players can lose consecutively, without having any win. In such a situation, then I'd agree with you, because he'll gamble more to see a win. And he'll greedily expect to see a big win. Most times the house would trick him by giving him a big win equivalent to all he's lost that day. At that moment if the player has strong self control, he can stop and try next time. But, because he believes winning follows after winning, he'll continue playing with same thoughts that before his bank roll exhausts he'll get a bigger win. There the house can sweep all the funds leaving him with nothing. In my previous response, you'd notice that even if the winner doesn't have the self discipline to stop, he'll blow it up and end up playing like he's been losing. That's why I'd suggest that both factors are alike and we must not be carried away by one more than the other. Although losing can be worst than winning, in taking decisions. Yet it still depends on the player.

Hey mate, why did you spoil this famous meme  it's just funny you changed the whole perspective behind the meme, with something as smelly as that. How would someone drop that in a cave, how possible?. However, giving up can be an option. Because sometimes things won't work and the more we try to make it work, the energy invested in it would be wasted. It's also good to go for a break and try something else. It's an example of failing, because others fail. You'd see a group of gamblers following the same procedure. Despite losing out on it, because they know it's what others are doing, giving it a second thought won't cross their mind. Gambling is a free niche, and people are allowed to have different ideas and techniques that'll be favorable to them. Why would a gambler listen to his friends, regarding an advise they aren't comfortable practicing. It's better we follow a skill coined out or devised by us, and take the glory or blame, if it does or doesn't work. Those people advising OP, if they weren't losing more, trying to win big, would they have gotten the chance to talk to him about their strategy? They want him to lose with them, believing it's the only way to hit a jackpot. Gambling technique should be personal. Even the professionals don't really release their strategies to newbies that buy their books. They'll always tell their readers to figure out a way to go about their own skill, as theirs, the professionals, would be hard to understand. Why is it so, because nobody wants to be blamed for the loss of another gambler.

To feel less disappointed about bringing nothing home. It'll be better to first think that, you'll bring back nothing, then play to win something home. This way the player would be more calculative about his moves and try his best not to lose. Unfortunately, if the win doesn't show up, then the player won't have to bite himself with anger. Because, when we think of our games going to bring us more win and it doesn't it's more painful. Hence, if a player doesn't want to accept that gambling is for fun, then he should face whatever results he gets with joy or sadness. These two only have a thin line and is controlled by choice. Not the results we get. We've seen other experienced players who don't feel bad after losing out in gambling. Just because they chose not to be sad. I don't get it why people would choose to be controlled emotionally by win or loss in gambling. Such a person isn't expected to be a gambler, or should be completely categorized a newbie. Everyday we lose money, ranging from food, transportation, bills etc and it doesn't get us sad. But, once it's about gambling, the facial reaction begin to change in anger. Who then is the brain deceiving? when the decision is on our own side. Whenever a player notice he's about to spend more that his emotions can't control. Then, to stay happy, he should stop. Imagine if the player gambles everyday, and losses each time he gambles. Does it mean he'll never see happiness all week round? That means his gambling journey will lead him to a different dimension of life, where he can't mention to anybody; addiction. As he'll be chasing happiness, until he's no longer in control of the race. Happiness should be from within, win or lose shouldn't have the authority to change it.

If I got you right, the borrowed money meant to be used for gambling, you mean the player should trade it in cryptocurrency exchange. Then the profit he makes can be used to gamble. The whole process would be riskier than using it straight ahead to gamble. Nothing stops him from losing his trades in cryptocurrency. As it's also uncertain, whether he'll double the win or not. Considering the time frame, for players in offline casinos. Would OP wait until they're done trading before they'll gamble the money. It's more like a fast business, and the lender will be present to see the result. Running such a service online would be a wasted effort. His main aim is the offline casino, if I'm not mistaken, and like you said the experienced gamblers would be better off as his target audience. The wealthy players, who for some reasons ran out of money, maybe physical cash, can patronize OP, and when done playing would refund him before or after 24 hours. That way, it'll be less stressful than when he targets addicts, who have nothing left on them. Raising arguments each day and refusal to comply to their own end of the deal. Some may try to deceive the lender, bring losses to him.

I think those things can be tackled with the collateral aspect before giving out the loan. OP can check those things out. It'll be wrong to lend money to a person who doesn't own a single property to hold on to if they don't payback their debt. It's a very risky business, and it could be why nobody is running the business. I've never seen such an initiative. The best method to do the business is by collaborating with the casino. Then they'll be able to point out players who are capable of paying back the money they are owing, despite losing out the whole funds. The people Op is targeting, the inexperienced, would bring him more troubles. Because they are novice and naive, they'll wind things up and turn back to get angry at OP for putting them into another level of stress. The only way we can determine if things would play out fine for the business, is by knowing the testimony of OP when he ventures into the business. In my opinion, instead of going directly to the gamblers to convince them, and the time it'll take him to sign agreements. It'll be best OP sets up his own platform somewhere close to the casino. Such that these players would be the ones meeting him out of their own choice to take loan for gambling. They'll agree on ways of paying him back, then strike a deal. Meeting them when they're down emotionally, can be risky on the Op's side. They can deny, they were drunk or weren't in control of their decision. Which such hacks can fold Op's business. Because players must find a way of cheating Op in the business. Hence, having a different establishment is better, than walking around in casinos to convinces inexperienced players.

@Yogee do you think the money if paid 9 years back would have been left today? The man must have finished the money. The equivalent of the money then and now is far very different, but the most important aspect of it, is that he got his money back. It's not like the money isn't fiat. However, the whole story is heartwarming, they is more to learn from it; don't give the gambling house a chance to eat your money. Isn't they an electronic way for the lotto company to trace his winning and pay him, without causing all the stress of having to take a legal proceed.  I don't know if the annual interest added to him would be enough to cover for the funds he spent, following the case for 9 years. Yet, I'm impressed to see he won his money back. Everything do happen for a special reason. Today he'll control the money and use it for other things. And replenish all he's lost in the process. Personally, If I have the resources like the man, I'd follow up the money till the better end. No need to let it slide. And remain in the pains of the past forever. The whole story sounds like they naturally helped him save his money for 9 years. As that duration is quite a very long time, that not everyone would stay without moving on to the next level. The battle between gamblers and casinos never ends. A misunderstanding follows the big wins. Causing the gambler lots of damages; emotionally and mentally. The man is indeed strong enough to withstand the disappointment. Some would call it a misfortune and blame it on their daughters. Which would leave the family in chaos for a long time.

Both factors affect gamblers. Because winning makes some players feel in control of the game and staying in control is always interesting. Hence, they won't stop easily, even when the wins stop flowing. At the moment of losses, since they've been winning, they'll think of being lucky and that more wins would follow. Until nothing else is left to play. They've never been a time when a gambler kept winning without losing. So, the player will definitely face the both factors in one day. While gambling. Therefore, no need of picking the side that actually makes a player to lose control. Win or lose wash each other's hands in gambling. They appear accordingly, unplanned and unexpected. Their duty is to destabilize the player in ways they can't comprehend. Unless in card games where the winner is expected to continue playing, the right thing to do after winning is to play a little more, then stop. No player has ever gained profits out of losing control in gambling. He would embrace void decisions, because his emotion is not stabilized. That's why players should deposit little amount of money, such that even though they've lost control. The lack of money in their balance would help them get back to their control. And, they'll have nothing to lose or regret on the long run.