Yes, there is basically no other method as a preventive measure except self-control and some restrictions, that's it, it looks quite easy but I'm sure almost all gamblers find it difficult to apply this method. The biggest risk they can face is addiction, honestly I'm not sure if you or they can survive in such conditions, because addiction will always be the worst point for someone in gambling. I'm sure everyone doesn't want to get into the addiction zone but on the other hand they always focus on chasing victory, even though that mindset is always your starting point for addiction. So the point is if they know about the concept of luck then I'm sure they won't act like that, because no matter how often you try, if in the end you are unlucky, you will lose again. So it's also important to understand what luck means and how it works. It is very important to understand so that when you experience defeat you will not continue to chase victory.
But that awareness must also really come out of his conscience by understanding the concept of luck, because it is not uncommon for them to just say it but not really realize and the next day it's like that again. Yes, of course it will return to each individual in his awareness, the point is I hope they understand the concept of luck.
If having this record can make them reduce their gambling activities, they shouldn't need to worry about anything. They can prevent them from gambling continuously because they have good self-control so they can limit themselves. But some gamblers don't have a gambling record and they are still doing well now because they can be disciplined in gambling and don't pursue anything except just wanting entertainment from gambling. They also never think about chasing victory if they manage to win, whatever the amount because they know it is difficult so they would rather accept whatever the winning amount is. They also know that gambling requires luck, so if they lose because they don't have luck, they won't continue gambling because that will only make them lose more. And that's the point of having discipline in gambling so that we are not influenced by anything we see from gambling. Additionally, for gambling records, it will depend on each gambler. If they are comfortable seeing the number of wins and losses, they can keep a gambling record. But if not, they also don't need to keep a record of their gambling. |
|
|
|
|
I almost became a heavy gambling addict in the past. Fortunately, there were people close to me who knew this and immediately pulled me out of gambling and invited me to do other things that were not related to gambling so that I could divert my attention from gambling. It was a really difficult day for me, where I had to divert my attention from gambling completely. But I still did it because of help from close people so I didn't find it difficult after doing it for a while.
You have to really learn to control yourself because you have spent 5 months of your savings on gambling. After all, it seems you have started to become a gambling addict. If you don't stop immediately, you could become a worse gambling addict and I'm afraid you could even use up or spend all your savings. In gambling, there will be a desire to win more often. But unfortunately, we can't always get that, so we have to be aware of it because gambling is not a place to make money.
|
|
|
|
Unfortunately, in today's conditions it isn't possible to keep young people away from gambling. For this reason, instead of giving advice to young people not to gamble, it would be a better option to teach them how to gamble and that they should only play gambling for fun without becoming addicted to gambling.
I already heared from many people that gambling is not good, it can ruin you life, etc. But i didn't listened to them and ignored them and now I learned my lesson hard way, like just deposit money you will not regret after losing, never chase losses, etc. It would be better for new players(young people) to learn from others mistake who are ruining their health day by day and quite gambling or just gamble for fun and try your luck with small amounts, We can still advise the younger generation not to use gambling as entertainment because the younger generation now has more options for entertainment so they don't need to approach gambling. We should advise them to do other things that can benefit their lives and prepare them to face competition in the future. It will be more meaningful for them because they can prepare themselves so they can get or achieve their targets rather than introducing them to gambling. The younger generation may be more susceptible to gambling addiction problems, especially the younger generation, who are unstable about things that could tempt them to continue using it. Gambling can indeed draw them to keep gambling so that if the younger generation knows about the fun they can get from gambling, they can get deeper into gambling without anyone even knowing. |
|
|
|
In my opinion, getting help from other people in the form of guidance and advice to cure depression experienced by gamblers is very helpful, because someone who has experienced depression tends to be alone and less social with other people because they are confused about what to do. . right now maybe what he is thinking about is whether telling other people will lighten his burden and he thinks that other people don't need to know what he is experiencing, maybe he feels embarrassed if other people know the truth.
That's right, when we want to gamble we have to face all the risks, losing and winning are common things experienced by gamblers, by having thoughts like that at the start of course gamblers will try to control themselves as much as possible. , so as not to experience too many losses and too many losses. , and this will also be an important experience for them if they want to gamble again, self-control is very important.
Those who experience depression feel afraid to open themselves up, especially to meet other people, because they feel guilty or something else that makes them uncomfortable meeting other people. But if other people nearby want to understand the situation and conditions, those other people will not give up. They will continue to try to approach the depressed person, even using various methods. Depression resulting from experiencing a lot of losses from gambling and having used up a lot of money often occurs in people so they try to recover their losses. But that doesn't guarantee they can recover their losses because that could increase the amount of their losses even greater. And if that's the case, the depression can get worse and it will be more difficult for other people to help. That is why we do not need to recover the losses we experience from gambling because it will be difficult. We can experience deep disappointment, frustration and depression and the worst thing is that we can experience gambling addiction. |
|
|
|
yes because gambling has made them addicted even though they always lose but successful gambling makes them crazy to gamble. They pursue satisfaction that never gets so they continue to gamble with high hopes of winning, occasionally they will win but because they are crazy about gambling so they don't have a sense of satisfaction because they haven't reached their highest point, so they will continue to chase that empty dream with hope.
Whatever results they get, it will make them still crazy about gambling and they will continue to gamble even more often than before. They cannot control themselves to limit their gambling because they still hope to win more money from gambling. And when they lose from gambling, they will only experience disappointment and perhaps anger because they have lost and that causes them to return to gambling again. They will not be able to realize that gambling is just for fun. That's right even though they get support or encouragement but they themselves don't realize the bad effects of gambling it's a waste of time, advice and suggestions will pass by without them being considered in the future. I myself admit that getting rid of inherent habits is difficult, in my opinion gambling addiction is not much different from drug addiction, I have seen people who are heavily addicted to gambling where they have not gambled because their money has run out but they sell all the things they have to return to gambling, the same is the case with drug addiction, they will do anything to return to the addiction that has been attached to them. So as you said the importance of self-awareness must be set in their mindset.
That means his family has wasted their time trying to advise the gambler to realize his mistake because the gambler still doesn't want to accept advice from anyone. It is difficult for gamblers to realize their mistakes because no one can change their mindset and they think they are right and for this reason, they continue gambling. Gambling addiction is indeed difficult to get rid of and it requires a lot of things to be able to make gamblers who are addicted to gambling realize their mistakes. Their mindset must really be changed by providing understanding and perhaps real evidence that they have a serious gambling addiction. There are still ways that those closest to him can do to help the gambling addict to cure his gambling addiction. |
|
|
|
Exactly what defines existentialism; choices. And in his situation, he'll be confused on what choice to take. Have he ever bragged somewhere that he'll never have to do with gambling. It'll be a shame to him to jeopardize his thoughts and believe for his love for money. In the business world, nothing as such exists especially when in a legalized business conversation. We can't be or think like him, no one knows his deep reasons, could be a childhood upbringing. And if so, he'll never have rest after renting out to those lottery guys. One, like myself, would immediately say that he's not serious doing business. But, his choice that doesn't sound like a choice to me is still a choice.
And it would be better for him not to rent out his place for a lottery outlet and choose to open another business. He could invite other people to partner so they can have more money to open a new business that can develop even better. In business, if someone is already hesitant about making a decision, he should not go ahead with it because it might not work well, especially if the place is used as a lottery outlet, even though lottery is legal in his country. I would advise him to look for other investors who want to rent his place and have nothing to do with gambling so that his heart is calm and he doesn't think about morality or anything else. |
|
|
|
It is not his kindness that make him giver but His ego and wanted a popularization , because helping is normal but if you are giving everything even the food for the mouth of your family then that is completely a bad attitude.
the man is truly a Big headed person that don't know how to value His winning , buying luxurious things when you did not established a Business to cover your daily expenses is a stupid idea.
how can you sustain a luxurious living when all the winnings are just being spend and nothing comes back? that is the problem in most Lottery winner that just enjoyed their Happy days for couple of years and ending going back being poor person, money is never permanent not unless we knew how to earn it back.
but the reality is that most people who win big waste their money on things they don't need. they use their money to buy luxury things that they wanted in the past such as cars, houses, etc. the result is as you said, when their money runs out they are confused about getting more money and in the end they sell their assets to cover all their needs and when everything goes wrong they end up bankrupt. this is the reason why when someone wins big, they need to hire a financial manager or investment manager to be able to manage their money so that with this they can manage the money from their gambling winnings well and with more direction. Yes, it's understandable if they waste their money on things they don't need because they've never had much money. Once they have the opportunity to have a lot of money, they use all their money to buy things they don't need instead of preparing for the future by creating a new business that can provide income for them. We have to take lessons from them so that if we can win the lottery or other gambling games and it is big money, we have to think about our future. It is better for us to focus on finding and creating new businesses that can provide income so that we will not depend on gambling to make money. If we can make money from a new business, we can still gamble but not to make money but just to have fun. |
|
|
|
There are sometimes she might just wanted to share the pain to everyone. I have seen a lot people sharing what happened to them on their status on social media and this happened in most cases in WhatsApp and Facebook status. Like my sister was robbed by arm robbers last month and she shared on her Whatsapp status and that is when I became awared that she was robbed. So in some cases it is to give awareness to her friends and family members that something like that happened to her and she is in pain. So loves ones would have compassionate for her. So when you look at it from another angle it is good to share pains so that love ones will sympathize with you.
Many people share their stories on social media, but actually, there are things that don't always need to be shared on social media. But people nowadays tend to seek attention from other people by showing what they are doing or what has happened to them so that people can pay attention or even insult them. If they can use social media well, they will feel that there are stories that can be shared on social media and some that don't need to be shared and only they and their immediate family know. It depends on each individual to share what they have experienced. Those of us who read the story also don't need to be excessive, especially if we don't know the person sharing the story well so that there are no misunderstandings between us and that person. |
|
|
|
Age was also discussed there and the rate of 18-25 years old young men getting into gambling is currently going through the roof. So yes minimum age to gamble, it is difficult because I think any adjustments of minimum ages for either alcohol or smoking hasn't really changed much either. If there is a way to do something, people will try it out. I think it should never be too low, but hoping that minimum ages change entire social landscapes is a broken dream.
Age isn't a measurement on the maturity of a person so restriction on gambling and other vices is utterly useless because it maturity of a person on mind and behavior is different for each and everyone. What really needs to be done if we really want to prevent people from gambling too early or doing vices too early is to teach them basic responsibility and not in a way that teaches them using boring videos about the negative effects portrayed by art students that needs to do it for extra credit, also it's worth mentioning that a stricter and more stern punishment for illegal gambling will help big time in preventing early introduction to gambling. If you ask me, there should be no minimum age and as I have said earlier, the metric should be on how mature a person is and not their age because it can be deceiving. Maybe it would be better if there was education about gambling for young people because they are vulnerable to finding wrong information if they are not accompanied by people who understand gambling. They can find what they want from many places and will find out more about gambling or other things that may not be appropriate for them. Maybe the regulations regarding gambling need to be changed to keep up with the times because, nowadays, everything has changed with increasingly advanced technology. Providing counseling or explaining many things about the risks, impacts and dangers of gambling can help children understand it easily and they know how to react to it. Teenagers are very vulnerable to all the temptations they see and they tend to follow them to see how it feels. What's dangerous is that teenagers often lose control when they gamble. Even though adults experience this, teenagers are still unstable in their thinking and often do what they like. |
|
|
|
The reality is that the key component to the addiction in gambling is the hope to become rich.
The hope or goal of enriching oneself always results in bad things happening such as addiction and also losing more money. It would be a shame to think that can enrich yourself by gambling because that will only lead to bankruptcy not wealth. Even though there are one or two people out there who have managed to become rich by getting big wins, this kind of luck is only experienced by few gamblers. You are both right but that is what happens to many gamblers where they chase their hopes of getting rich through gambling. Unfortunately, there are still many gamblers who don't realize that gambling is not a way to get rich but rather a way to lose money quickly, especially if they don't have good self-control. It is true that there are people who can become rich from gambling, but that is not the case for most gamblers, so they must be aware that chasing a win after a win is not worth it because they will experience more and more losses. When they realize this, they only gamble moderately and think that when the time comes for them to get a big win, that big win will come to them even though they don't know when it will happen. |
|
|
|
And the core problem experienced by gambling addicts is in terms of their disturbed minds, like humans in general where the mind will move our bodies to move, I mean the mindset that will be the first driver for us to do everything in our lives, therefore when their mindset always thinks of gambling then some advice that comes in to prevent it they will not hear and they will only focus on the encouragement of their minds that they always think is true, even though it is not at all. It is very difficult to stop gambling if in fact their mindset is completely disturbed, gambling addiction can come without us realizing it and usually that's what they experience, they don't realize that they are already addicted so far. Some help from the closest person might help, but I wouldn't be too hopeful that it will work, and certainly in my opinion they will be able to stop when they have experienced a very significant downturn in gambling such as for example running out of all ways to gamble, in the sense that all the assets they have are gone, and from a distance the casino will smile to see it haha.
That means gamblers must try to change their mindset to avoid gambling so that they can stop gambling and not be dependent on gambling. This is suitable for people who are getting married and really want to stop their gambling activities because they are afraid that their gambling activities could disrupt their family's finances later if they are married. But they should get help from the people closest to them so that they don't get into any problems when they want to start giving up gambling. With the gambler's strong desire to end his gambling and help from his family, the gambler can cure or reduce his gambling activities until he can really leave gambling forever because he wants to build a good family. Maybe this gambler needs to talk to his partner about what they should do so that there are no misunderstandings between them. If indeed some advice and help from his family can not help at all then honestly I do not know what else to do, because it is very difficult and quite confusing. But well while the family is still excited then keep trying because the process will never betray the results, hopefully with all the experiments they have done they can improve the situation of the person who has been addicted, although it is quite small chances but that does not mean it is impossible.
That's right, I hope they can be more open to the people around them in the case of their addiction, because obviously with them being open then some of the closest people will help them according to what they need there, and yes definitely the healing process will be faster and easier. But it will really come back to the addicted person, if they really want to stop then they will definitely be more open, different from people who are just talking nonsense, talking but their little hearts actually refuse to stop, there are those who turn out to be like that, they talk about wanting to stop because they are in a defeat phase, not that they really want to stop.
Yes, while all of them can still provide support to the gambler, they should not just give up because there will be a way for all of them to really help the gambler to cure his gambling addiction or reduce his gambling activities. The gambler must also realize that he has a family who really cares about him so that they can work together to heal the gambler. The gambler can also start undergoing healing without any burden because he really wants to cure his gambling addiction. This requires awareness from all parties, especially from the gambler, because he will be the one who will undergo the healing process so that he can live it well. Openness to the people around him can provide an opportunity for the people around him to find out the real problem and they can find ways or solutions that the gambler can use to reduce his gambling activities or even cure his gambling addiction. If he continues to get support from his family, especially from his husband/wife, that they will stay by his side to help him cure his gambling, he will not feel that going through the healing process is tiring because they all have one goal. With this openness, they can feel that they trust each other and support each other so that the gambler can undergo the healing process well and has a goal to change himself for the better. |
|
|
|
To ensure a bright future of children, no harmful and negative behavior should be done in front of them. Children especially have a soft mind and can learn many important things from the environment. Therefore, any harmful negative activity like gambling should never be done in front of children. As adults we need to continue this responsible work and convince others that gambling should never be done in front of children.
There is no guarantee of a bright future for children because it depends on how parents can educate their children and support their children's growth and development. Nowadays, many children don't get enough love from their parents, which makes them look for other ways and they find that their friends can provide protection or other things they need. It makes them closer to their friends and not to their parents. If parents have a bad influence on their children, their children will also imitate what their parents do. If they often see their parents gambling, there is a possibility that their children will also gamble and they will do it with their friends. Parents must be careful if they want to gamble by not showing it to their children to avoid their children's curiosity and curiosity. |
|
|
|
Well, when it comes to the things that can make the difference, we have everything we can get here to get advice, in fact here in the forum there is a great discussion of football and many things can be learned, of course I consider something like that Like me, we like soccer a lot because we have played it, we still continue to play it and we are interested in knowing every detail of the games because understanding is easier, because this marks a life where there has been a lot of emphasis on how much football, in the case of many here it is because they have Practiced the sport since they were little, they have followed the games since they were little, they have a fairly strong learning experience, they know what the style of play that some coaches propose is, I believe that all of this influences the time to show who knows and who doesn't about football, then this can make a difference, what can be learned little by little is better, but this is learned, perhaps not everything is learned at once, because ocnisdero It is very difficult but you can learn it.
I have always believed that desorptive bets are the bets that can be used with the most intelligence and that the most skill a person can have, the rest are those who have not done it, since they can basically face any style of bet as if they were making gambling, then that is not what you are looking for, it is analogous to trading, you bet on the best technical, fundamental analysis that is done, and if it doesn't work it is because something failed, but betting like gambling is not the idea, because we must always use our intelligence, even our senses, for the hunches they may give, and of course experience in sports games also has a lot of influence, not to mention the games when they are well analyzed and the opposite happens as a matter of luck, That sometimes happens a lot, wow this usually gives a big blow to everything.
Yes, in this forum, everyone shares what they know and that allows us to learn from each other and find out what we need to learn. We have also experienced what @OP got by betting and winning the match with a big win and that was a big luck because we only bet with small money. But if we look at what other people get when they win and continue gambling or placing bets on other matches, they don't have as big a chance of winning as before, especially if they don't have the information to choose their team. They just bet randomly again and hope they can win like before, which won't always happen. But if they can gather information for the match, they can have the opportunity to choose a team that will win or at least have a higher chance of winning than the opposing team. And if that's what they do, they can win again like before. Betting using analytical skills can give us a chance of winning. On the other hand, if you only bet using hunches, feelings, or even predictions from other people, they don't have a greater chance of winning because those are just predictions and they place bets randomly. But there are also people who, by using random predictions, can give them a win and that is because luck comes and helps them win but that doesn't happen to most gamblers because luck only comes to the right people. So if you want to have a chance of winning in sports betting, you have to learn about analysis in sports betting so that you can analyze each team and find which team has a better chance of winning than the opposing team. |
|
|
|
|
Actually, from your story, we already know what his answer is but he is still hesitant to decide because there is still conflict within him. He already knows that renting out his place to a lottery outlet is against his morals because he will see people buying lottery tickets. Even if it is legal in your country, he still may not feel comfortable.
We leave the choice up to him because we don't want him to regret what he did. And we know this is a dilemma for him where he sees the benefits before his eyes but it is all against him. Maybe it's better if he doesn't rent out his place to a lottery outlet and shouldn't regret his decision. But if he still wants to rent out his place, that's up to him. Each has consequences.
|
|
|
|
Indeed, addiction isnt merely limited to substances, it latches onto feelings. Strong feelings, whether from gambling, love, or anything, can spiral into addiction. The pleasure derived from gambling can be all-consuming, overshadowing rational thought. People, as you've mentioned, can be in this pleasure-filled trance, often oblivious to their spiraling habits. Its akin to chasing a mirage; they seek the euphoria but are never truly satisfied.
Your point about self-awareness is paramount. Introspection is the first step towards breaking the shackles of any addiction. Relying on advice alone is futile if the individual doesnt perceive a problem. Self-regulation, like limiting gambling to weekends, demands immense determination. Yes, its a herculean task to alter ingrained behaviors, but the realization and acknowledgment of a problem can be a transformative force. When they find themselves in the thrall of the casino, its this self-awareness that will act as their anchor.
Gambling addiction initially makes us feel that we like what we start doing often and gradually, it changes to us increasingly liking to do it more often but we don't realize that we have started to become addicted. It's like us replying to WhatsApp messages on our smartphones, which makes us open the WhatsApp application more often to reply to messages or want to see the status of our friends so we can comment. If you can refrain from this, it seems you can reduce your gambling addiction and to begin with, you can divert your attention to other things that are not related to your smartphone. That's why I always emphasize the importance of self-control when playing gambling because I don't think anyone wants to experience a gambling addiction, especially if they have often seen what happens to people who are addicted to gambling and what impact it has on the people around them. If people who are addicted to gambling cannot realize or introspect that they have a gambling addiction, they will find it difficult to accept the fact that they are addicted to gambling and need help. Gambling addiction will change his behavior to become a different person than before. And even the people around him wouldn't be able to recognize him anymore. |
|
|
|
Right, none other than that because yes they think that this is a great opportunity for them to multiply the money from the victory, even though on the other hand there is no guarantee whatsoever to get back the victory, but strangely their mindset can work like that. And yes, it's true because the thrill comes out of our subconscious so maybe that's what makes us finally not think that there are big risks waiting, and usually something based on greed will always end up worse and they regret it. I'm not saying that every time you are greedy you will lose, but usually something that is done uncontrollably always ends up with worse results.
It is true there is no guarantee that they will be able to get or double their winnings by continuing to play because they have the opportunity to suffer losses that may be greater than the winnings they have previously obtained. They don't realize this because their subconscious mind has been influenced by the winning money they get so it will influence their minds to continue gambling. It will not always end well but often ends badly, where they will only experience greater losses. We don't need to be greedy by wanting more results than we have gotten and we should be grateful for it because not many people will get the winnings like we have. Yes, because it should be like that friends, do not overdo it in gambling let alone consider that gambling as a place to earn, honestly it is not recommended, none other than because the first risk there is very large, secondly there is no guarantee whatsoever for you to produce victory, and the last is that victory there is very dependent on luck, while there is no consistent word in the concept of luck, but to lose it will happen more often. Therefore, it is only natural and has been proven in reality that you or anyone will experience more defeats than wins. And also yes of course if you have won then it is better to withdraw, do not overdo it because it is only a temptation, so be grateful for whatever the amount of your victory.
By gambling moderately, we can prevent us from bigger risks that not many gamblers can accept or can see. This risk will become greater if we are unable to control ourselves when gambling and cannot say that we have had enough gambling because we continue to be influenced by the temptations that exist in gambling. If we have managed to win, it is better for us to immediately stop gambling so that we don't have the desire to win more, especially since we know that our chances of winning are not that big. |
|
|
|
Watching someone's money drop like that because they are addicted to gaming is shocking. Giving away money that was made, and for what? A brief chance to be lucky? This is unbelievable. You hit the nail on the head when you said that there might be a rise in young people gambling. This careless approach toward gambling in public places shows a scary shift in social norms. What' even scarier, though? Mom and dad. They get so caught up in their lives and work that they forget what their main job is. The job of care, supervision, and direction. Yes, friends are important, but parents should really be the ones to set limits and teach knowledge.
What will happen to these young minds if they dont learn the value of money and how to be responsible with money? You keep asking your parents for money, then you spend it on a game of chance and ask them for more? It keeps going and going. And parents need to wake up to what they need to do. They are indirectly helping their child become addicted to drugs if they dont keep an eye on where their money is going. Its not enough to just give money; you need to know what its for and step in when you need to.
Yes, supervision, direction and care from parents are very necessary for the development of their children so that they do not do the wrong things and take the wrong path. With today's more advanced technology, parents' tasks have become even more complex because apart from being required to work better so they can earn a good income, they are also required to be able to supervise their children so they don't go down the wrong path. Unfortunately, many parents spend their days with their children and are busy with their work for the reason of supporting their family. That's not wrong because that's a parent's obligation to their family, but everything has to be in a balanced portion so that everything can run well. So far, that is what happens to many young people where they see their parents can give them money, whatever they ask for, but they don't think about how they can make their own money from their work. That's what many young people don't realize and they will only feel it after they finish school and want to look for work. They will not be ready for the situations and conditions where they have to compete with other young people and it is those who are not ready who may take the wrong path because they do not see that they can compete but they do not want to try. |
|
|
|
You would really be able to see on whose your real friend and whose are really just that good when you are that beneficial to them because we know that there are friends who are really that taking advantage into someone which they do know that they could really be able to benefit out or something that could really be able to help but on the time that you arent that already needed then you would really be dumped and trashed and this is really that indeed happening and this is something that we do really know that do happen in real life.On the situation on which if you are someone who are really that able to hit up some huge win
then why would really be trying out to hide from your friends, what for? Afraid on getting asked out for some money? It would be normal but doesnt mean that they do really mean out since they cant really be able to force you out on giving or not.If you would then its good but if its not then its still good. Its not really that worth on putting up your friendship in line just because of money.
Somewhat its not really that bad on making yourself that able to give some small amounts on showing up some compliments into your friends specially if you do win up big
then it wont really be that hurting you on giving out some money that they could make use of but not necessarily for it to be big. It would really be just that sufficient or something not that big and not that small too.
Yes, we all know who are really friends, who are always there who want to help us and be by our side and we also act like that towards those who are really our friends. And there are indeed friends who only take advantage of the situation we are in for their benefit and once they get it, they will leave us as before and will not consider us their friends. We have experienced things like that so we can see the nature and character of each friend we have so we can know what kind of attitude we should have towards them. But if it were my friends, I would not hide myself from them and instead, I would invite them to celebrate the victory together because they are truly my friends who can understand each other. But for those who are not friends, I don't want to celebrate with them because they will use the situation to their advantage. |
|
|
|
I will honestly never get tired of saying that self-control and some limits are the first things that every gambler must have, and if they ignore this then don't be surprised when defeat always dominates you, as you said the more definite impact is that they will quickly enter the stage of addiction, In the event that you've got a lot of time on your hands, you're going to want to make sure that you've got a good idea of what you're going to be doing. Checking the amount of defeat that turns out to be greater than the victory, it is also very likely to make them upset so that they continue to gamble to restore the amount of defeat, even though it is not recommended because obviously they will waste time and money and what happens is that the amount of defeat is even greater.
Checking gambling records in my opinion can make people aware and better and also vice versa, as discussed above it can also make them even more upset because it turns out that the amount of loss is greater, and I think for the problem of awareness it depends on each individual in reacting to it. I think privacy will only make it more difficult for them to get out of the zone, because how can people help them if they don't tell their problems.
I would also say the same thing as you because after all, self-control plays a role in preventing us from experiencing a lot of losses so that we will not sink deeper into gambling. We have to overcome and avoid problems that will arise and this has been experienced by many people who often gamble. If we don't want to experience the same thing as them, we really have to learn better control so that it can protect us while we gamble and after we finish gambling, we won't experience a lot of losses or want to recover from those losses. If we lose, there will be a feeling of wanting to recover from that loss, but if we have good self-control, we will not try to recover because it will be difficult for us. We will lose more and more and that means we will lose more and more money. As long as the person is aware and willing to admit that he has used a lot of money just for gambling and is willing to reduce his use of money, he can really reduce his gambling activities so as not to experience more and more losses. But it all depends on each person's wishes because we can suggest something like that but if the person doesn't want to do it and thinks that he is still okay when looking at the gambling records, that's up to them. The important thing is that we should always limit ourselves and if we think having a gambling record is good for us, we can create one. But if not, we don't need to create it. |
|
|
|
|
If he is used to gambling and he is lonely, yes, he can become addicted to gambling. But if he is just lonely and uses his time to do other things, including gambling, he probably won't get addicted to gambling because there are other things he does that can distract him from gambling. He should have realized that gambling can make him addicted to gambling and if he is already addicted to gambling, it will be difficult to cure it, especially since he needs support from other people to cure it. It would be best for your friend to find other activities to reduce his gambling activities so that he doesn't get addicted to gambling, especially if he's lonely. Sooner or later, he will make gambling his best friend (or has he?) and won't do anything else.
|
|
|
|
|
Show Posts
