Pregnancy before marriage or after marriage, which do you prefer?

[Hispo]

I like pregnancy before marriage in the sense that you have already known that you wife to be is fruitful. Pregnancy before marriage also is also good because as a man you know that your manhood is also active. Pregnancy before marriage also shows that you are in a safe relationship that will produce children. Though marriage before pregnancy is also good but the danger of unfruitfulness will take its toll on you if your wife delays in getting pregnant.

I have known cases of people who would directly divorce their partners because they would not be able to have children, which are always heartbreaking.
Though, in this new generation of young people in the west, there are many who do not actually seek to have children actively. Actually, much of this Z generation rather first to secure financial stability before going for the expansion of the family.

Some of my friends have that mindset and I believe I share some of the benefits and reasons why people may want to stay childless. As long as both the man and the woman of the relation are okey with it, I don't see any problem with it.

[Ruttoshi]

I like pregnancy before marriage in the sense that you have already known that you wife to be is fruitful. Pregnancy before marriage also is also good because as a man you know that your manhood is also active. Pregnancy before marriage also shows that you are in a safe relationship that will produce children. Though marriage before pregnancy is also good but the danger of unfruitfulness will take its toll on you if your wife delays in getting pregnant.

I have known cases of people who would directly divorce their partners because they would not be able to have children, which are always heartbreaking.

This is a norm down here in my country. You will see a man not happy with his wife because she cannot give birth. The funny thing is that, the mother of the man will go and bring a different girl of her choice for her son to get married to and divorce his real wife. Some men fall for it and some don't due to the love they have for their spouse.

I believe that this depends on the mindset of both the husband and wife because some people are getting married because they want kids and if such people don't have kids, they wouldn't want to continue the marriage. In some part of my country,  children is more important than anything to enable the marriage work.

[Youngrebel]

In my observations in our society today,there is an increasing rate up to ninety percent of men that prefer their woman to be pregnant before marriage, reason been that they feel most women have messed up their wombs out of youthful exuberance and may not be able to concieve again and for this reason most bachelors wouldn't want to stay in a marriage without a child and at such they prefer having a confirmed pregnancy result before proceducing for any marital right, what are your stand on this?

Pregnancy before marriage had been a culture for some tribal groups but is no way a norm for modern society. Every couple should have opportunity to enjoy a child free married life. Being in a relationship is good but being in married relationship let's the couple know each other more closely.
A gap between your marriage and your child also allows you a buffer time to change your mind if you feel the relation is not working.

Most women go into marriage because they're pregnant for the person they're dating,not necessarily because their are in love.getting married because of pregnancy is a no for me,get married love each other properly and the right way before thinking of children. pregnancy should not be  the reason why you are getting married.

[breske]

Everyone is different and thinks different
But I would say that things need to be planed before taking action
Most of people don't plan their day so how come they plan their life that's why it happen Pregnancy before marriage

[OkoroT]

Pregnancy before marriage is not the right thing for any young lady.
I prefer marriage before pregnancy

[Yablee0]

I like pregnancy before marriage in the sense that you have already known that you wife to be is fruitful. Pregnancy before marriage also is also good because as a man you know that your manhood is also active. Pregnancy before marriage also shows that you are in a safe relationship that will produce children. Though marriage before pregnancy is also good but the danger of unfruitfulness will take its toll on you if your wife delays in getting pregnant.

You are my kind of person my brother, pregnancy first before I will start thinking of getting married  to you because our present women now  are unpredictable, after they might have enjoyed their self, flex and commited all their numerous abortions in the past and got their womb messed up they will start looking for a man that will marry them with their damaged womb, funny enough most of them will prefer keeping you in the dark and if you are not lucky you will stay childless for something you have no idea of.

It very compulsory and mandatory for my woman or any female I want to consider my wife to conceived first before anything better follows otherwise I will just count you as a side chick.