Sex behind bars. Conjugal Visits. Good or Bad?

[shogdite]

Have you been through a divorce because you come off a bit sour here.

Nope. I have been married for more than 5 years now, and so far there have been no major issues.

You're right that in most cases the mother is given the custody

Here is the problem. Why the custody of the kid is always given to the mother? The father should also have the same rights as the mother.

All Im saying is that you seem bitter, maybe because your parents also got divorced and your mom pocketed all the money or maybe you went through a divorce and now your ex wife is pocketing all the money.

My parents have been happily married for more than 40 years now. On the other hand, by your own admission, you seem to be the one who hails from a broken family.

I do hail from a broken family as you put it and I'm darn proud of my past. I think most women get the custody because in most cases the father is the major bread earner and he need to keep his job and focus on that so he can continue to pay for his kids.
Its just easier in most cases for the mother to take the kids especially if she was already a stay at home mom.

[bryant.coleman]

I do hail from a broken family as you put it and I'm darn proud of my past.

You were brought up by your mother, and I can sense a strong bias in favor of the females as a result of that.

I think most women get the custody because in most cases the father is the major bread earner and he need to keep his job and focus on that so he can continue to pay for his kids.

Do you think that the males are some sort of machines without any emotion, who should work till they die to feed gold-diggers? Also, in your country what is the work participation rate of the females?

In my country, I have seen countless examples of gold diggers winning custody of the children and then using their rights to prevent the fathers from even communicating with their children. And they don't work, as the alimony and child support payment is enough to sponsor their luxurious lifestyle.

[edward222]

Prison is HELL.
There should be no sex in that place.
Because if they do,
they will taste heaven.

[Miracal]

Wondering what the general consensus is regarding conjugal visits in prison. The way I see it, these criminals broke the law and it's been determined by a judge or jury that their freedom is to be taken away. So why let criminals have sex in prison? Do they let inmates on death row have them? If not. Why not? What do you guys think?

Prison is for punishment. Sex is an Enjoyment and Relax. How come when the person got imprisonment as a punishment, and he has been allowed to have sex enjoyment. The reason he has been sent to Prison to make sure the value of Enjoyment and Relax at his home life which he did not think as a gift and never been thankful for it.

If you have ever read a book about psychology, it expresses about the need hierarchy. The basic needs of a human are food, air and sleep. Then there are secondary needs which a human needs such as clothing, place to live, relationships with other humans. It is a basic human need. In the same way, sex is also a secondary basic human need. They can live without it, but having sex is human for them and not just enjoyment but a way to have peace of mind, which every human deserves.

[designerusa]

It's better to let them fuck than they fuck each other in prison. Just think about it if you are in prison, too.

[pureelite]

Wondering what the general consensus is regarding conjugal visits in prison. The way I see it, these criminals broke the law and it's been determined by a judge or jury that their freedom is to be taken away.

So why let criminals have sex in prison?

Do they let inmates on death row have them? If not. Why not?

What do you guys think?




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I think ses behind bars is not bad, inmates who were sentenced to several years in prison, that's probably because they enjoy an opportunity to have sex only a few times, it is only when their wife or girlfriend came to visit.

[pureelite]

Wondering what the general consensus is regarding conjugal visits in prison. The way I see it, these criminals broke the law and it's been determined by a judge or jury that their freedom is to be taken away.

So why let criminals have sex in prison?

Do they let inmates on death row have them? If not. Why not?

What do you guys think?




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I think sex behind bars is not bad, inmates who were sentenced to several years in prison, that's probably because they enjoy an opportunity to have sex only a few times, it is only when their wife or girlfriend came to visit.

[JJB]

In my country, I have seen countless examples of gold diggers winning custody of the children and then using their rights to prevent the fathers from even communicating with their children. And they don't work, as the alimony and child support payment is enough to sponsor their luxurious lifestyle.

What country is that? Most Mothers cannot prevent fathers seeing their children without good reason and I think if people were worried about gold diggers they should get a pre-nup and then problem solved. If women had the intention of trying to rob you of money then they wouldn't agree to a pre-nup and you would then know not to marry them. Also though, if your wife had more money than you you would also be entitled to half of her money but its usually the men that earn or have more.

[bitcoin revo]

i believe these visits should be available only to those men who are in a stable relationship
makes the time easier for both parties.

[freedomno1]

Depends on their crime in my opinion. If they are in jail for battery,domestic,diddling or anything against kids the answer should be "No"!

What if they are a drug dealer? Where does the line get drawn?

If its Ross Ulbrict getting laid behind bars since he has life in prison that is fine with me.
The question is to let the privileges fit the crime and then treat them case by case.
That said I also read about the facebook of prison mates seeking a relationship and that did creep me out a bit but if someone went through the process of getting vetted to choose a person in prison to date well its their absurd choice much as I'll dismay at it.
http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/montreal/luka-magnotta-joins-dating-site-for-prisoners-1.3132104