Must you be noisy about your wins

[giammangiato]

And I should not really give attention to what others thing about me, there will always be someone to criticise what we do no matter how perfect we try to lead our life, it's better just ignore them for a peaceful life than hiding away what we are.

There will be people always! that likes to criticize what we're doing. Whether we win or lose, they're there just to drag us down.

It's a real thing that these people only wants something for themselves to get satisfied with.

And if we're noisy when we win, they're be silent. If we become silent with our losses, they're there to make noise to make fun of our losses.

In fact, I believe this is precisely why there are people who happily publish their victories, to give a moral slap in the face to all the people who have tarnished their lives.
In reality, however, they're digging their own grave; publishing, especially a big win, poses a significant risk to their safety.
It varies greatly from country to country; in my country, $10,000 is a good amount, but not enough to put you at risk of threats, for example.
If, on the other hand, the win exceeds $500,000, then clearly the risk becomes high anywhere in the world. Personally, I'm certainly happy if someone wins; it means that at least someone manages to make significant money (I've never managed that). Furthermore, if they manage to change their life with a big win, I can only congratulate them and wish them the best, but not everyone is like me; evil exists in the world and is unforgiving.

[Frankolala]

No every win should be share or posted in social media, not because some will ask for money, but because there are lots of bad people around who will take everything away from you, achievement should be celebrated in silence and only family and trusted friend should be in there, i would say he make himself expose i don't know if he just want attention or we want to brag but that's the worse idea, and it can cause him his life in an instant, worse with his family also be in danger.

I don’t celebrate my gambling wins with my family or even with close friends. For me, gambling is just a personal hobby that I enjoy, whether I win or lose, I’ll keep playing. I understand that not everyone will accept or support this kind of addiction, especially because of the risks involved. That’s why I believe if we win, it’s better to celebrate quietly and alone, not with family or others.

Of course, there's nothing wrong with what you're doing because you might be discouraged to stop gambling especially, when you share your win and loss story with closed friends or family. I do share my win with my family but I don't tell them that the money was from gambling. I keep my gambling activities to myself.

[Sticky Bomb]

It's understandable to be overjoyed after winning a decent amount because it's rare to happen. But it's still safe to keep it as a secret to avoid unrealized problems. Just what happened to your friend, he exposed his winnings on the internet and many people saw it. Hence, what can you expect? He just put himself in danger for doing so. Thus, if possible, keep it private. Think of when you lose, no one will be there to lend money as a support for chasing your losses, but they will be there if something good happened.

Players are to be happy, it's not an easy going to win huge amount, but louding it exposes the gamer to threat and lavish expenses. The more people finds out the more they're likely to demand favors and send bills to the winner. Thereby shortening the longevity of the money in the savings of the gamer.

There is no better way to enjoy your money than keeping silent about it and doing your things low-key. Being loud about financial dealings exposes you to unnecessary attention which most times undermines your security. It's always safer to keep people in the dark about your finances. This issue with exposure with wins is what made me resort to online gambling only since it gives me the level of privacy I want in the event of a big win

[CryptoYar]

That is truly frightening story and your anger is completely understandable. You are absolutely right that  main question is why someone would share win publicly when they keep their struggles and losses private. This happens because lack of emotional control can make person act without thinking and as your story shows this can put both them and others in danger. Your wise conclusion is correct it is very important for gamblers to be private and control their emotions to stay safe and protect their families.

[$crypto$]

What we should often concentrate more is about if there is any benefit for us in making it aloud that we won, because many have silently won huge amount of money from gambling and never exposed themselves to the public about what happened, because they value their integrity and wouldn't appreciate various public opinions about them regarding the money they won and the risk it may also bring on them if targeted for an attack.

At its core, there's no point in announcing your wins to others, but I think it's okay to just tell close friends to celebrate the win, like treating them to a meal. Of course, comfort and privacy should be the top priorities that must be very well guarded. Many disturbances may arise if you publicize too much about your private life, especially concerning gambling. People will praise you when you get a big win, but they will judge you when you have a losing streak.

Also, consider the possibility of unexpected attacks on you when they find out you've won big in gambling this will attract a lot of attention, especially from those with malicious intentions before this happens, it's better to keep things private than to make them public, even if you want to share with a friend who feels close and safe.
Don't be too casual about flaunting your winnings, as this will attract a lot of attention from people, even though society doesn't view all gambling as good.

[uneng]

Also, consider the possibility of unexpected attacks on you when they find out you've won big in gambling this will attract a lot of attention, especially from those with malicious intentions before this happens, it's better to keep things private than to make them public, even if you want to share with a friend who feels close and safe.
Don't be too casual about flaunting your winnings, as this will attract a lot of attention from people, even though society doesn't view all gambling as good.

If a winner wants to flaunt himself on social medias and around the neighborhood, better that he has a Plan B in case something like OP mentioned happens... Wealthy individuals can't expose themselves like that without attracting undesired attention to themselves, therefore, they have to make sure to live in a safe area, where strangers don't have access to. That is why rich individuals spend a lot of money with security, like high walls around the house, cameras, bodyguards and electric fence around the property.

In every cases, you are right, the best approach is to be discreet about winnings and patrimony in general.

[Solodoski]

Personally I mind the things I share on social media, so I wonder why someone will share their winnings on social media. I believe if you do it, you are only exposing yourself to problems.
It would have been okay to tell people about your winnings and celebrate it with them, but the world right now is a very bad place and you really can't trust anyone.
Your friend is really lucky, because he don't even know the plans of the guys that are looking for him. If something bad had happened to him, it would have been his own making, so I will advice every gambler to be careful with who they share their winnings with, especially posting it on social media space.

[bitzizzix]

What we should often concentrate more is about if there is any benefit for us in making it aloud that we won, because many have silently won huge amount of money from gambling and never exposed themselves to the public about what happened, because they value their integrity and wouldn't appreciate various public opinions about them regarding the money they won and the risk it may also bring on them if targeted for an attack.

At its core, there's no point in announcing your wins to others, but I think it's okay to just tell close friends to celebrate the win, like treating them to a meal. Of course, comfort and privacy should be the top priorities that must be very well guarded. Many disturbances may arise if you publicize too much about your private life, especially concerning gambling. People will praise you when you get a big win, but they will judge you when you have a losing streak.

Also, consider the possibility of unexpected attacks on you when they find out you've won big in gambling this will attract a lot of attention, especially from those with malicious intentions before this happens, it's better to keep things private than to make them public, even if you want to share with a friend who feels close and safe.
Don't be too casual about flaunting your winnings, as this will attract a lot of attention from people, even though society doesn't view all gambling as good.

The question is, what's the benefit of flaunting a big win?
Flaunting a big win can potentially lead to self-harm and attract attention, including fraud or theft, even from siblings or close friends who might be tempted by the large sum of money. This can happen unexpectedly and cause major problems for you, even your life.
It's best to keep this a secret for your safety and comfort. If you want to share your big win with those closest to you, try not to tell the truth, and instead, simply say it was a normal win that wasn't particularly large.

[HONDACD125]

Of course, there's nothing wrong with what you're doing because you might be discouraged to stop gambling especially, when you share your win and loss story with closed friends or family. I do share my win with my family but I don't tell them that the money was from gambling. I keep my gambling activities to myself.

I also believe that some things are better if kept a secret, because not everything is supposed to be shared with others, sometimes not even with your family, especially when you know that people might judge you if you share the experience with them or tell them everything specifically. I have learned this the hard way, because I used to share every single thing with people, but with time, I realized that it's not worth it, because most of the time, the people you are sharing it with won't behave or react the way you might have imagined it in your mind, and that's hurtful.

That's why, I now barely share a lot of things to other people, I hide a lot of things to my direct family as well, because I now understand what kind of reactions or responses I'm going to get for every specific thing or situation, so I only share things that I know won't create problems or at least won't give me some extra stress to handle because there is already enough.

[Frankolala]

Of course, there's nothing wrong with what you're doing because you might be discouraged to stop gambling especially, when you share your win and loss story with closed friends or family. I do share my win with my family but I don't tell them that the money was from gambling. I keep my gambling activities to myself.

I also believe that some things are better if kept a secret, because not everything is supposed to be shared with others, sometimes not even with your family, especially when you know that people might judge you if you share the experience with them or tell them everything specifically. I have learned this the hard way, because I used to share every single thing with people, but with time, I realized that it's not worth it, because most of the time, the people you are sharing it with won't behave or react the way you might have imagined it in your mind, and that's hurtful.

That's why, I now barely share a lot of things to other people, I hide a lot of things to my direct family as well, because I now understand what kind of reactions or responses I'm going to get for every specific thing or situation, so I only share things that I know won't create problems or at least won't give me some extra stress to handle because there is already enough.

You can be discouraged in life if you tell people what you're doing. I could remember when I started my bitcoin investment, my friends discouraged me and said that it's a scam. I left them alone and continue with my bitcoin investment because I was determined. Same applies to gamble, you will hear a lot of people suggesting what you're to do with your own money if you let them know that you hit the jackpot.

[Cityhunter34]

This is totally a child's play because as a good gambler that knows what huge win is all about would never in any way try such thing. even though Facebook in that matter, noing fully well that you are exposing yourself to the whole world.

However, winning is supposed to be only for your own self because there are people who claimed to be your friend but immediately they see you processing they would start looking for way to harm you.

Money loves silence, and if you have money or you managed to get a good win, then just be happy about it and do not tell anyone about it, because there will be those who want to borrow money from you (most likely they will not give it back), those who want to help you spend it and those who will simply envy you. I think this is unnecessary and this can be avoided if you do not advertise your money, if you managed to win, then keep it a secret and this will make it easier for everyone, including you.

I wonder why a gambler would be that excited to disclose his winning. We all know that winnings brings a lot of joy and happiness, but even as that it's very essential for us to always keep it between ourselves. Because just like they always said that money is the root of evil that is it because once people around you notice that you are on money they would definitely go extra mile just to make sure that they render you useless.

[Dickiy]

I wonder why a gambler would be that excited to disclose his winning. We all know that winnings brings a lot of joy and happiness, but even as that it's very essential for us to always keep it between ourselves. Because just like they always said that money is the root of evil that is it because once people around you notice that you are on money they would definitely go extra mile just to make sure that they render you useless.

Everyone wants to express their joy in different ways, but from the way that person can be considered ridiculous if he shows proof of his big win to the public, after all we don't know what the thoughts of outsiders who see that person's post are, and of course it will invite evil intentions, as you said that money can invite evil.

[Strongkored]

Now my question is must the whole world know when you win, when you were quietly staking the odds without winning, chasing losses at times, when the gambling days where very rough did you announce it, then why now that you have a big win people to enjoy, invest your future people must know about it,

It happens because your friend is a show-off and feels the need to receive compliments or otherwise, but I am sure there are many more gamblers who prefer to keep everything, not just about their gambling but also about the winnings they get. In fact, it is better not to post about what we have on social media, it is dangerous, even if the intent is good, it will not always be responded to positively.

[panjul07]

Now my question is must the whole world know when you win, when you were quietly staking the odds without winning, chasing losses at times, when the gambling days where very rough did you announce it, then why now that you have a big win people to enjoy, invest your future people must know about it,

Keeping a huge win as a secret is the best option for me if I have the chance and luck to win huge amount of money, I wont even tell my family about it LOL.
Lets say I want to share it online, perhaps I will use an anonymous account so no one with bad intention will try to do something bad to me.
Money may attract criminal to come so sharing it publicly and if we do not hide our identity, it is a big risk.