Ok how exactly can it be explained through the block chain not updating? Also how can i locate the coins using my clients private key?(where do i locate the private key also) You instructed me to Back Up my wallet...How do i do this? I'm assuming you check for connections by hovering over the icon at bottom of wallet page..Sorry about the million questions but im lost and desperate for these coins..
If you have seen the transaction at blockchain.info with confirmations, there's no need to panic. After you close the client, find your
wallet.dat file and make a few copies of it to secure locations. It's located in Bitcoin's data directory:
https://en.bitcoin.it/wiki/Securing_your_wallet#Locating_Bitcoin.27s_data_directoryI'll feel safer when you do that, because if that file is accidentally deleted, your coins will be lost forever.
The blockchain has the transaction information and your client doesn't know it until it downloads that block. The wallet file doesn't contain your coins, it contains the keys that you need to access your coins.
The download might not be stuck but very slowly advancing, so it would be wise to follow which block it's stuck at. The chain is more than 2 gigabytes now, so it might take some hours to complete. Hover on the rotating arrows icon to see if it's advancing.
It might be stuck because you don't have enough space in your drive. It might also be stuck because it got corrupt somehow. If you are absolutely sure it isn't advancing, then you can delete everything in your data directory (except
wallet.dat) and start from scratch.
EDIT: If you decide to give up and change your client, you can extract your private keys from command line and import them to another client. I suggest Electrum, because you still get to keep your coins on the computer but don't have to store the block chain.