go on #bitcoin-otc IRC channel
How do we access this channel from firefox?
Google the exact line.
I don't know what OP wants but you either open an order in exchanges and wait or you don't, no one will sell you unless you use escrow, unless you go to localbitcoins, there is a good reason why buying from exchanges is the most simple and convenient way to buy Bitcoin.
I'd suggest mine altcoins and then exchange them for Bitcoin in unregulated or even regulated services, many people tackled the issue of staying anonymous for privacy reasons by doing the same thing, you just need to buy a few GPUs.