It's posts like these that make me throw up with disgust at modern men and what they would do for a glimpse of some skin. The women aren't to blame, because if there is demand, there will be a supply.
Men don't understand that they are used like cheap whores.
Men want sex, women want money. We want other things, but those are the main things being traded when relationships are treated as transactions.
But dating isn't an exchange of money for sex - it's an exchange of money for the HOPE of sex. So already men are "putting out" more than they're getting - and a lot of times they never get anything at all no matter what they give. "But the man got to enjoy her company." And she got to enjoy his. They both ate the dinner, but only he paid. They both watched the movie, but only he paid.
So typically the man is the only one giving anything at all, unless and until he gets to have sex with her. And even then, when he gets what he's spent endless time and money to get, he's expected to give her pleasure in addition to all the other things he's already given her. Why? For the hope of more sex. But that's beside the point, because vaginas are seen as far more valuable than penises in our society. Most men accept a lower position in the bargaining, willingly giving women the upper hand in the negotiations.
Now, if a woman gives a man sex immediately and without asking for anything in return, she has placed a low value on herself. She has made herself cheap and easy. A man doesn't want to marry a woman who sleeps with him immediately, because he knows that she will sleep with a man as soon as she meets him. Therefore, he can reasonably expect that she will continue sleeping with new men after he marries her. And even if he just wants sex and not marriage, he probably won't value her more highly than she values herself. If any man can have sex with her, then why would he spend a lot of time and money when it's not required? That's why dirt isn't expensive; anyone can pick it up whenever they want.
So. What happens when a
man is "cheap and easy"? If all you're offering a woman is money, hoping to get sex, why would she give you sex if you give up the money immediately? And she wouldn't want to marry you, because you'll hand over money to any woman who smiles at you. Why would she marry a man who's going to give thousands of dollars to every waitress or camwhore who flirts with him? She's not going to value more highly than you value yourself. In fact, she will smile and take your money, and you'll think you've impressed her, but she sees you as disgusting for groveling and begging like a dog.
The fact is that most women you date are not that attracted to you, and they see you as disposable and easily replaced. Have you ever wondered if a woman finds you attractive? Then she doesn't. If you were Brad Pitt, you would know it. If women treat sex as a favor they do for you, then obviously they don't enjoy having sex with you. Or at least they know you want it more than they do, so they use that as leverage to get things from you.
How do women have this control over sex? Don't most women want babies, and don't they need men too? Yes, but you believe that your manhood depends on whether or not you can have sex with a woman. If you're a 40-year-old virgin, you don't tell anybody. You're ashamed, because you have been trained to define your self-worth on the approval of women. And there couldn't be a better system for women. That's why women know you'll wait and work and pay for sex - you HAVE to, or you're not a man.
You're not a man until she says you're a man. And even then, she can take away your manhood at any time, simply by saying no. "You're not a man unless you buy me this. You're not a man unless you take out the trash and pick up your socks. You're not a man unless I have sex with you." And the ultimate enslavement in our society is when you marry a woman on these terms. At least when you were dating, you could always find another woman to validate your self-worth. But when you've agreed to give this one woman complete control over whether or not you're a man, how can you not see what will happen?
Why are you puzzled that women gain weight after marriage, they stop giving blowjobs, they stop trying to please you?
Why wouldn't they? The only leverage you ever had in the relationship was the possibility that you would find another woman. Other than that, it was just her stringing you along with the hope of sex, until you legally agreed that all your property belongs to her and you're not allowed to have sex with any woman but her, and not even her unless you do whatever she wants. After you marry her, you have nothing left that she wants. She has it all. She no longer has to bribe you with sex, because she can nag you and make your life miserable if you don't please her.
Looking at all of these things, people struggle to understand the insane shrieks of feminists. How can they say our society is against women? How can they say we live in a rape culture? Obviously, they're spoiled by their supreme privilege. They are so sheltered from the harsh facts of reality that their first-world problems seem like real problems to them. In fact, they have an entire set of problems which are more ridiculous than regular first-world problems, because even first-world men don't have it as easy as first-world women.
But why? Why are they so spoiled, and how did they get that way? Because we protect them. The fact is, most any man has the strength to rape most any woman. That would "prove he's a man", according to women's standards of not being a man unless he can have sex. How do men allow women to degrade them so consistently?
Think about this concept: Women tell jokes about small penises. Men generally get embarrassed and/or want everyone to know their penis isn't small. But why would you ever care what these women are saying? Women have no penises at all! It doesn't matter how small yours is, it's bigger than hers! So how can she look down on you? How can you let her? It's all an illusion. It doesn't matter. It's not about your penis, because even porn stars can feel ashamed because their girlfriend slept with a guy that had an even more enormous penis. Your actual penis is beside the point, as long as they can keep you believing that their approval determines your worth as a person.
The concept of "you can't get laid" is the same thing. Women even use this on men they don't know - "You're an asshole, you probably can't get laid." What's the message? "If you say anything I don't like, you won't get sex, and therefore you have no worth." They threaten us by saying OTHER women won't sleep with us. If you comment on a Youtube video and say "Valentine's Day is a ripoff that makes men waste money," some woman will tell you that "You won't have much luck with that attitude." In other words, keep your mouth shut or lose the hope of sex.
But these methods of control only work if you let them. Just like a person with no penis making fun of yours, it's so stupid that it should never be allowed. If a woman says you probably have a little dick, say "It's bigger than yours." If a woman says you can't get laid, say "I could rape pretty much any woman I want." And you could. You don't, but they take that for granted and even mock you for it. If you've ever moved from a bad neighborhood to a good neighborhood, you can appreciate your neighbors for being friendly, helping you if you need help, and not robbing your house. But women don't appreciate that kind of thing. We build everything around them and make a society that is centered around their safety, but they just think everything runs itself and that we
have to be nice.
They slap us, we don't do anything. They think that means they won, when in fact it means the only reason they're still standing is because we protect them. We could easily punch them in the face, but we don't. Feminists talk about men like we're all rapists, when the fact that they don't get raped every day proves them wrong. It's like Eric Garner being arrested 28 times, and then he died during his 29th arrest. Somehow that's supposed to show that police kill people all the time? In fact it shows that being arrested is usually so safe that he did it 28 times and was completely unafraid of it happening again.
Women are like those protesters, screaming in the faces of policemen, saying they're dangerous murderers. They're so spoiled that they aren't the least bit afraid to get in a cop's face and scream at him. These cops are so non-violent that they do nothing while people scream in their faces, and those people use the cop's good nature and discipline against him. Same thing with feminists - because we would never rape anyone and we all agree that rape is terrible, we let them push us around while they scream about rape. If there was any truth to what they were saying, we would just rape them until they shut up. But men generally don't rape, as a rule, because we believe it's wrong. We don't want to hurt women, and we don't want to force them to do things they don't want. But we're so focused on protecting them that we let them force
us into doing things we don't want.
In the exchange of money for sex, raping a woman is off-limits. Our government will lock you up for years if you're caught taking from women like that. But our government doesn't protect men on the other end. Our government actively helps women rape our money. They take it from us and give it to the women, and we get no sex in return. All we have is our labor, our stress, our work, our money. And they take it from us, so we have an even smaller chance of "proving we're men". How can we pay for enough dinners and movies to get sex, when we're paying a mortgage for our ex-wife and her new boyfriend to live in our house while we also have to rent an apartment for ourselves?
The point is, the rules are already against us. Everything is set up in the woman's favor. So don't add to your own misery by throwing money away and playing into their games. Why would you give a huge tip to a cute girl? So she'll think you're special? Are you trying to buy her affection? Do you pay your friends money so they'll like you more?
The bottom line is that you can make your own rules. If you don't want your relationships to be about trading money for the hope of sex, then just say that up front. If they don't like it, you've saved a lot of time and can move on to someone else. If a woman is straightforward in saying that she has no interest in spending time with you unless you act like her servant, then you can decide whether you want to accept that kind of offer. Decide what you want, or you won't be happy with anything you get. Most women do have an idea of what they want, so at least ask yourself what you're hoping to accomplish before you give away piles of money.
If you have a particular result in mind, at least you can tell if you achieved it. Because the times I've seen guys leave $100 tips for waitresses, I doubt the intended result was for the waitress to tell her friends that she's afraid the guy might be a stalker and she hopes he doesn't come back. And yes, they'll say it about their boyfriends too. "I told him I like dolphins, but now he brings me some kind of dolphin present every weekend. I'm tired of all these dolphins, I wish he would stop." Again, if your intention was to make her take you for granted and see you as a subservient slug that will do anything she says, then mission accomplished.
