Let me start off by telling you that we do not control what happens to us, but we do control how we react to it.
Example: Your spouse of nine years that you have a baby with is leaving you for a rich doctor who sexually satisfies them.
I am going to disagree with the highlighted part, we do control to some extent what happens to us and if my wife is leaving me for a
RICH Doctor then it's not at all about her sexual needs but it's that she was always a money-grubbing whore and now that I am not making enough money to pay for her luxuries she has found someone else who will.
And I will accept that it's my fault and I should have married the other girl who was a little less hot but had a good heart and therefore I will say, what happens to us is the result of what decisions we make.