can u give me a link how that works
You can message pretty much anyone on the link below to act as an escrow (make sure the buyer agrees on the escrow that you choose as well) once you make a deal with someone to purchase your item. I would probably stick with one of the Big 5. Message them and tell them the amount you will be selling the item for, who you are selling the item to, what the item is, and any other details of the deal and ask them if they would be willing to act as an escrow for your deal. They will then be able to walk you through the process.
As far as how an escrow works: basically the person purchasing from you will send the
BTC to the escrow account and then you will ship the item once the escrow account has been funded. Once the person verifies that they have received the item, the person you have chosen as an escrow will release the funds from the escrow account to your account and the deal will be complete. It protects both parties and is a very good idea to use it
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