Running out of money fast!

[SysRun]

http://www.hulu.com/watch/1389

[adamstgBit]

http://www.hulu.com/watch/1389

this is US only...

[elux]

*depressed
life has me beat and I'm about to give up, break up, moving back to my parents, pay child support.

Try telling the missus how you feel?

[Herodes]

*depressed
life has me beat and I'm about to give up, break up, moving back to my parents, pay child support.

Try telling the missus how you feel?

Managing money and being responsible is part of growing up. If your wife will not adapt to a manageable level, you're probably not meant to be. Talk to her.

[01BTC10]

Money is overrated! 

[underminer]

I kind of get the feeling you have hyped up your bitcoins to the point your significant other thinks they are something she can fall back on.  I don't know if this is true, but if she is by nature irresponsible the ball is certainly in your court on how to proceed.  Either you guys communicate better and crack down on misunderstandings and set some boundaries--or you two are going to break up and believe it or not, the situation will degrade further. 

Not getting any now?  Imagine when you are paying child support while living with your parents looking for dates.

[smoothie]

Adam perhaps you have the problem with having so much bitcoins? 

[cbeast]

Disregard Women.
Acquire Bitcoin.

... of course only after begging and pleading hopelessly.

[adamstgBit]

I kind of get the feeling you have hyped up your bitcoins to the point your significant other thinks they are something she can fall back on.  I don't know if this is true, but if she is by nature irresponsible the ball is certainly in your court on how to proceed.  Either you guys communicate better and crack down on misunderstandings and set some boundaries--or you two are going to break up and believe it or not, the situation will degrade further. 

Not getting any now?  Imagine when you are paying child support while living with your parents looking for dates.

this is whats keeping me from leaving... is this a good reason to stay together?! really?

[adamstgBit]

we will not break up.....

she was the one saying if i didn't stop yelling at her she would leave me -_-
but now that i told her how I feel, she says she'll do more around the house and stop spending...

so its all up to me now.....

i think I'll try harder not to get mad ( or say stupid jokes ... ) that and cutting the VISA... might help.

tonight i'm alone at home, thinking about how it got this bad.

[underminer]

Well dude.  I take that as good news.  Open line of communication is key, when people can't talk and disregard others feelings, that's when everything truly hits bottom.  Cursing, "you statements," blame, resentment, etc.

It's hard to stay objective over worldly matters like money, but when cash flow is low, its absolutely necessary.  Agreement over how to proceed is probably the biggest step you could take in the right direction. 

Are you feeling any better?

[adamstgBit]

Are you feeling any better?

a little...

I still feel like a slave to a corrupt system that's bent on making money off my hard work. lol

I think we will survive... its just hard right now, new baby and all.

[underminer]

I still feel like a slave to a corrupt system that's bent on making money off my hard work.

To some extent, you are.  Fight the power, I've become increasingly suspicious of society as I've grown older.  I really feel everything in the modrn world is specifically designed to keep the contributors down, and the would-be revolutionists distracted.  I personally hate the bogging down of the everyday existence, I make it a priority, and work hard--to keep my head in the clouds.

[adamstgBit]

i smoked a joint with a buddy earlier, we both had not smoked in a while.
also... wife is back home, things are better now...  

lol! weed 

[Third Way]

lol! weed 

[BR0KK]

we will not break up.....

she was the one saying if i didn't stop yelling at her she would leave me -_-
but now that i told her how I feel, she says she'll do more around the house and stop spending...

so its all up to me now.....

i think I'll try harder not to get mad ( or say stupid jokes ... ) that and cutting the VISA... might help.

tonight i'm alone at home, thinking about how it got this bad.

I would throw her out for that ... It's all up to u ? Is she serious about that?
She spends all YOUR money and you have to cover for that?

She should better get a job to .... At least she can coner something of the dept form her money...

Why does man always fall for women logic :/

[adamstgBit]

Car wont start.. gr8 just gr8!

[Herodes]

Car wont start.. gr8 just gr8!

I'll give you a very important piece of advice. See if you can take it to heart.


Life is hard.

There will be shit coming your way.

You are the only one that can decide how your life shall become.

Therefore, you need to get away from the sense of being a victim, and start getting in charge.

There will be setbacks and fuckups, which is all part of life.

But it is your choice whether you will cave in to the circumstances, or if you will work hard to create the life for yourself and your family that you deserve.

Nobody else can fix this, but yourself.

Merry Christmas.

[adamstgBit]

Car wont start.. gr8 just gr8!

I'll give you a very important piece of advice. See if you can take it to heart.


Life is hard.

There will be shit coming your way.

You are the only one that can decide how your life shall become.

Therefore, you need to get away from the sense of being a victim, and start getting in charge.

There will be setbacks and fuckups, which is all part of life.

But it is your choice whether you will cave in to the circumstances, or if you will work hard to create the life for yourself and your family that you deserve.

Nobody else can fix this, but yourself.

Merry Christmas.

good unadulterated advice... I've always been in charge and prepared, its in my character.

but i also like to bitch and complain