OTC isn't any more 'full of scammers' than this forum is.
Briefly to address your points:
*When you first come into the room (if you can figure out how to get registered and authenticated) you will be approached my about 50 scammers.This is exaggerated but it's true that scammers will try to scam you. That's no different to the forum.
* Using the site is difficult and seeing who is trust worthy is also difficultIt's easier to know who's trustworthy on -otc than on the forum. Here you have post count and you can trawl through post history, on -otc you just have to check who's rated the person you're dealing with.
*Even trusted sellers have negative feedback, the problem is anyone can rate anyone regardless if the have had transactions or not.This isn't true. You have to be rated to rate.
*You don't know who you are dealing with there are no identifiers in there so it could be a 12 year old or a 60 year old.That's the same on the forum. Why do you care if you're dealing with a 12 year old or a 60 year old unless you're selling something a 12 year old isn't legally allowed to buy?
*People rate on personality conflicts so if you are new and don't share the opinion of the feed they may ruin you reputationIt happens but very rarely, mostly the channel will side with whoever's in the right.
*There are as many scammers as legit sellers
*The channel is full of spamming
*There are no clear guidelines for behavior in the channelThe rules are pretty clearly set out:
http://wiki.bitcoin-otc.com/wiki/Bitcoin-otc_channel_guidelines*Even sellers with good reputations may still rob you because they know they could deny new comer negative feedbackMost transactions are proveable. If you sent Bitcoins, you can prove that by signing a message with the input address. When in doubt, get somebody to witness the transaction or use escrow. Many people in the channel will escrow for free or for a small donation.
*The main way of getting coins is to pay with money pak. There are several problems with this payment method. First you have to go and get it which sucks if you live far from a green dot location, second there is a fee!! of five dollars, so if you only need 3 or 4 coins it adds to the cost considerably, third gas and time ware on you car (if you have a car). And for sellers of coins for money pak it can tie you to a felony crime. When money paks are stolen from green dot locations and the value of the card is over 1000 dollars the police get brought in. If you cash a stolen card or load it to your pay pal it could link you to a felony.No, the main way of getting coins is by using sites like aethero's and BitInstant. MoneyPak is a terrible way to get Bitcoins, and you should only take MoneyPak from someone who has a receipt for the Greendot purchase.
* Lots of tech guys on otc, so they are good at working the systemThis isn't a bad thing... is it?
* Filled with lots of high school kids there is not a section for businesses people or trading onlyOTC is primarily a trading room, it doesn't need a place just for trading.
*There is no place to do trades that are not anonymousThis is down to the users, most users don't feel comfortable giving their life story and urine sample out over the Internet.
When using OTC, there are things you can do to protect yourself. One of the easiest is to register your nickname with nickserv and set up name enforcing (this will mean nobody can use your name):
/q nickserv register password
yourem@il.com/q nickserv set enforce on
After this, you register with gribble, the otc bot (use the ;;guide).
Whenever you're going to trade with someone, don't just look at the number of their rating, take time to read the ratings, check if they're from reputable members etc. Same for negative ratings, scammers like Coolio
gave a few of us -50 from his five accounts but as they're all negatively rated it's quite obvious that they're not legitimate accounts.
Is OTC perfect? No.
Is it the hell you made it out to be? No.
I've never been banned, once been muted and never been scammed in #bitcoin-otc. Newbies should give it a go, treat it with caution and realize that it's actually a pretty good place to trade.