Quit Gambling for Good, think for your loved ones

[MWesterweele]

my partners   addticed to gambling he just been getting worse and Im so fustrated with him as why he cant stop he will spend every penny he has , I have to hide my purse incase he takes my money   I have to make sure kids have everything as he doesnt he is only intrested in gambling in bookies and feels sorry for him self after he has done it,I feel like if it doesnt stop I cant go on been with him constantly letting me down, 

Try to talk to him and explain it to him clearly if he just always wasting your money in gambling you both should not spend high eveyday. You had kids already and he is just destroying your lives when the kids know this they gonna hate him for sure and they gonna addopt this kind of attitude soon.

[vinsil]

trust me i tried talking to him...i even called his mother for help but didn't get any resul
t  i really dont know what to do 

[tabas]

trust me i tried talking to him...i even called his mother for help but didn't get any resul
t  i really dont know what to do  

When worse case becomes worst if anything you did isn't resulting into a good solution. I would advice that just let yourself secure together with your kids to have enough money to survive. And if he keeps on losing and he is unstoppable, too bad that losing a lot of money and to have nothing will be the way to stop him, I guess so.

[cinchin]

- No particular cures, you can only rely on yourself

Yes, our willpower must be stronger than anything in this world and only through self control we will be able to quit gambling even after got its addiction. For the sake of welfare of our family members, a gambler must think and gain the power to overcome the desires of going back into gambling.

There are many history of many disabled peoples had achieved many miracles, so why not gamblers with willpower...

Well you're right. In the end, it would all be up to the person gambling and how he or she prioritize things. For me, it doesn't even have to be family, it can be friends or relatives, or things that are more important. These things for me are reason enough to think about how you want to live your live and where gambling places itself in it.

If you know how to prioritize things in life then gambling would not a problem as long you dont compromise things specially on financial things and your relations to your family.If you know how to control yourself its not bad to gamble at all if you just play for entertaining yourself.

- I think when we got addicted, we will no longer think of anything, the game control us
- I do not know how to explain emotions when addiction, feel tired, exhausted and not thinking only gambling and gambling
- Feeling not want to stop until losing all money, it is about my bad time

[Idrisu]

It always depend on a case to case basis I think most of the human love gambling because they feel that they're alive, nothing beats boringness other than entertainment itself, however most of you say was genuine and could change someones' mind.

many people take gambling as a hobby, others take as a business and many see it as scamming. It depends on the side of mind op is reason from. For those that see gambling as a hobby, they go into gambling because of they want to satisfaction that aspect of their lives. For those using as a business, they see gambling as a way of live, many of them developed their skills and knowledge in gambling and their making millions from it. People like op who see gambling as too risky, that they have to quit gambling because of their family and love see gambling as risk, scamming and unethical.

[CyberKuro]

Hi everyone, want to share my story here, I was once a gambler that I can gamble big amount of money in one day, I have this thinking that maybe I can make a living off gambling and get rich. I won big before but I lost back on the other day too.

And once you lost, you will try to recover back your lost amount and from there, the snowball just keep rolling, and you find yourself in bad mood everyday as you will keep on depositing all your savings and always hoping to recover back your loss. I have seen too many people losing big amount of money in Bitcoin Gambling.

Think for your family, your parents, your loved ones, your wife or kids, they love you, do not let gambling ruin your life, many people are always thinking they will win big from gambling and get rich in one night.

It happens, but out of 10000 people, maybe just 1 person are that lucky to really win a huge amount of money for him to retire.

Human concept always look at the lucky guy and envy him and thinking they will be the next him, but out of 10000 people, 9999 people have lost big, so why do you want to hurt yourself and your loved ones.

I am not trying to change people mind here, I just hope I can help some people that are addicted to gambling.

Life is good and wonderful, do not get yourself stuck in front of the pc everyday rolling dice and even you win big today, you will still lose back in other day, money that come fast go away fast too.

Don't let gambling ruin your life, many of you are still young and have a good future ahead. That's all

I'm glad you made it, it's a bad thing to chase and want to recover our lost in gambling as the house always win in the long run.
Remember my first game when I lose, it may a luck for me to be aware of ruin my next game.
Gambling not made to make us rich instead of the owner, so I just gamble for fun and limit my daily capital to prevent big loss.

[Whosdaddy]

It always depend on a case to case basis I think most of the human love gambling because they feel that they're alive, nothing beats boringness other than entertainment itself, however most of you say was genuine and could change someones' mind.

many people take gambling as a hobby, others take as a business and many see it as scamming. It depends on the side of mind op is reason from. For those that see gambling as a hobby, they go into gambling because of they want to satisfaction that aspect of their lives. For those using as a business, they see gambling as a way of live, many of them developed their skills and knowledge in gambling and their making millions from it. People like op who see gambling as too risky, that they have to quit gambling because of their family and love see gambling as risk, scamming and unethical.

People should bet smartly! Maybe you must to be lucky but there is skills and experience of bet.
Pro gambler, know how to gamble and how to lower the risk. There is a lot of games, but you should choose the safest ones. Then there will be no need of quitting gambling, we can continue it side by side along with our regular job.

[carlfebz2]

It always depend on a case to case basis I think most of the human love gambling because they feel that they're alive, nothing beats boringness other than entertainment itself, however most of you say was genuine and could change someones' mind.

many people take gambling as a hobby, others take as a business and many see it as scamming. It depends on the side of mind op is reason from. For those that see gambling as a hobby, they go into gambling because of they want to satisfaction that aspect of their lives. For those using as a business, they see gambling as a way of live, many of them developed their skills and knowledge in gambling and their making millions from it. People like op who see gambling as too risky, that they have to quit gambling because of their family and love see gambling as risk, scamming and unethical.

People should bet smartly! Maybe you must to be lucky but there is skills and experience of bet.
Pro gambler, know how to gamble and how to lower the risk. There is a lot of games, but you should choose the safest ones. Then there will be no need of quitting gambling, we can continue it side by side along with our regular job.

THere is no safe since the word "safe" is 100% win and its not really possible on playing gambling.Yes,there are lots of gambling games thats why you should really choose on the game on which you are knowledgeable so that you would able to get an advantage and increase your winning rate on playing it.

[roadbits]

It always depend on a case to case basis I think most of the human love gambling because they feel that they're alive, nothing beats boringness other than entertainment itself, however most of you say was genuine and could change someones' mind.

many people take gambling as a hobby, others take as a business and many see it as scamming. It depends on the side of mind op is reason from. For those that see gambling as a hobby, they go into gambling because of they want to satisfaction that aspect of their lives. For those using as a business, they see gambling as a way of live, many of them developed their skills and knowledge in gambling and their making millions from it. People like op who see gambling as too risky, that they have to quit gambling because of their family and love see gambling as risk, scamming and unethical.

People should bet smartly! Maybe you must to be lucky but there is skills and experience of bet.
Pro gambler, know how to gamble and how to lower the risk. There is a lot of games, but you should choose the safest ones. Then there will be no need of quitting gambling, we can continue it side by side along with our regular job.

THere is no safe since the word "safe" is 100% win and its not really possible on playing gambling.Yes,there are lots of gambling games thats why you should really choose on the game on which you are knowledgeable so that you would able to get an advantage and increase your winning rate on playing it.

Safe means 100% win and also save you are lost in gambling playing with only known games. But we can not make 100% win in gambling. If you play skill games, you can reduce the loss but can't make 100% win. Yes if you play known games it will help you to make some profit, but you should be a pro in that game.

[stomachgrowls]

It always depend on a case to case basis I think most of the human love gambling because they feel that they're alive, nothing beats boringness other than entertainment itself, however most of you say was genuine and could change someones' mind.

many people take gambling as a hobby, others take as a business and many see it as scamming. It depends on the side of mind op is reason from. For those that see gambling as a hobby, they go into gambling because of they want to satisfaction that aspect of their lives. For those using as a business, they see gambling as a way of live, many of them developed their skills and knowledge in gambling and their making millions from it. People like op who see gambling as too risky, that they have to quit gambling because of their family and love see gambling as risk, scamming and unethical.

People should bet smartly! Maybe you must to be lucky but there is skills and experience of bet.
Pro gambler, know how to gamble and how to lower the risk. There is a lot of games, but you should choose the safest ones. Then there will be no need of quitting gambling, we can continue it side by side along with our regular job.

THere is no safe since the word "safe" is 100% win and its not really possible on playing gambling.Yes,there are lots of gambling games thats why you should really choose on the game on which you are knowledgeable so that you would able to get an advantage and increase your winning rate on playing it.

Safe means 100% win and also save you are lost in gambling playing with only known games. But we can not make 100% win in gambling. If you play skill games, you can reduce the loss but can't make 100% win. Yes if you play known games it will help you to make some profit, but you should be a pro in that game.

100% on gambling is impossible and if that is possible then theres no gambling sites at all because most gamblers would insure their profits and just milking the gambling site until it collapse and we all know that gambling site is an investment and no owner would give free money for random people.

[olushakes]

I believe this advise is meant for someone who has been having badluck in gambling or whose losses is more than his winning then I will say this advise is really on point but for someone who has been able to turn .05btc to 0.52btc I am sure OP wont give the same advice and even the loved ones being referred will be happy if I can take them out for chocolate or to the cinema out of my profit. I am sure they wont want the source of my resources to dry which is nothing but gambling.

[diegz]

I believe this advise is meant for someone who has been having badluck in gambling or whose losses is more than his winning then I will say this advise is really on point but for someone who has been able to turn .05btc to 0.52btc I am sure OP wont give the same advice and even the loved ones being referred will be happy if I can take them out for chocolate or to the cinema out of my profit. I am sure they wont want the source of my resources to dry which is nothing but gambling.

Your experience too is not applicable to all. Everyone has his/her own experience in gambling, either good or bad, everyone wishes that they win and do something good with what they win.

Actually if your parents saw you gambling and one day you treat them using your winnings, I doubt that they will love that too, they could even think that they are a failure since they raise a child that is a gambler and not the one that they expect them to be.

[kodes88]

my partners   addticed to gambling he just been getting worse and Im so fustrated with him as why he cant stop he will spend every penny he has , I have to hide my purse incase he takes my money   I have to make sure kids have everything as he doesnt he is only intrested in gambling in bookies and feels sorry for him self after he has done it,I feel like if it doesnt stop I cant go on been with him constantly letting me down, 

Your partner is already addicted to a high level, it is very severe. You're as close to him could be a cure for addiction. I know you're upset with his habit, but you can not leave him. You should keep him busy with other activities. You must know his likes other than gambling. You must persuade him to perform another favorite. And make sure it is the most preferred favorite things besides gambling, so that he could possibly be interested. At least to reduce his addiction to gambling.

[LuanX3]

I believe this advise is meant for someone who has been having badluck in gambling or whose losses is more than his winning then I will say this advise is really on point but for someone who has been able to turn .05btc to 0.52btc I am sure OP wont give the same advice and even the loved ones being referred will be happy if I can take them out for chocolate or to the cinema out of my profit. I am sure they wont want the source of my resources to dry which is nothing but gambling.

Turning 0.05 bitcoins to 0.52 bitcoins would really be great and I don't think no one will care if you quit or not. Actually if they receive something from you or they benefited from those winnings then they would be more than happy to let you continue! But if you are indeed losing tons of money every time you gamble, then that's when you should just stop and quit it.

[mirakal]

I believe this advise is meant for someone who has been having badluck in gambling or whose losses is more than his winning then I will say this advise is really on point but for someone who has been able to turn .05btc to 0.52btc I am sure OP wont give the same advice and even the loved ones being referred will be happy if I can take them out for chocolate or to the cinema out of my profit. I am sure they wont want the source of my resources to dry which is nothing but gambling.

Turning 0.05 bitcoins to 0.52 bitcoins would really be great and I don't think no one will care if you quit or not. Actually if they receive something from you or they benefited from those winnings then they would be more than happy to let you continue! But if you are indeed losing tons of money every time you gamble, then that's when you should just stop and quit it.

That's common, when you are winning you will be appreciated by your family and if the other way around they will not gonna like you. I'm sure we know that money makes the world go round, so we all work hard to make money, irregardless of the method we are making. If gambling can bring that to us, I mean by winning on a consistent basis, then continue doing it.

[terrate]

People ask u to quit smoke, can u?
Same question, gambling can u quit? can .
BUT the nearest ppl must support.

Its not easy. and if family only blame blame blame, then sorry not quit lol..
There's some association might can help gamblers and also can set limit for bet.

 

[diegz]

People ask u to quit smoke, can u?
Same question, gambling can u quit? can .
BUT the nearest ppl must support.

Its not easy. and if family only blame blame blame, then sorry not quit lol..
There's some association might can help gamblers and also can set limit for bet.

 

In short, if you have a will, you can do it. The more you think that you can't then you really can't quit. Start as soon as you think about quitting so you won't have a change of mind. When it comes to family, that's true, if your family would just blame you always about your gambling addiction, then they really can't help and worst, just push you away and continue with your gambling habit.

[virasisog]

People ask u to quit smoke, can u?
Same question, gambling can u quit? can .
BUT the nearest ppl must support.

Its not easy. and if family only blame blame blame, then sorry not quit lol..
There's some association might can help gamblers and also can set limit for bet.

 

In short, if you have a will, you can do it. The more you think that you can't then you really can't quit. Start as soon as you think about quitting so you won't have a change of mind. When it comes to family, that's true, if your family would just blame you always about your gambling addiction, then they really can't help and worst, just push you away and continue with your gambling habit.

You're right its just state of mind if you think you can ,You can but not just think make a right action on it .Ofcourse it is too hard on start even smoking is harmful to our health we know it but still to smoke but when you made a mistake by smoking sure you can do it especially if you are in the situation of life or death . It is same as gambling lucky if you have a choice think for it your family or your son will lose or your gambling activity ? Think on it just add some choices to your life wrong thing makes your life enjoyable but to limit yourself or stop is the better choice.

[kodes88]

People ask u to quit smoke, can u?
Same question, gambling can u quit? can .
BUT the nearest ppl must support.

Its not easy. and if family only blame blame blame, then sorry not quit lol..
There's some association might can help gamblers and also can set limit for bet.

 

The closest person / family will not be able to make you stop gambling if they continue to force. Unless indeed you who want to stop gambling. No matter how hard they impose on you to get you to stop gambling, its results will be zero, it will not work. The key there is you, if you want it and your family to provide support, then you will stop sooner or later.

[Ipwich]

People ask u to quit smoke, can u?
Same question, gambling can u quit? can .
BUT the nearest ppl must support.

Its not easy. and if family only blame blame blame, then sorry not quit lol..
There's some association might can help gamblers and also can set limit for bet.

 

The closest person / family will not be able to make you stop gambling if they continue to force. Unless indeed you who want to stop gambling. No matter how hard they impose on you to get you to stop gambling, its results will be zero, it will not work. The key there is you, if you want it and your family to provide support, then you will stop sooner or later.

Individual's willingness to stop and live a change life is based on a gambler who has a problem with gambling, I don't think any method will work it not properly implemented and I don't one can love himself so much than his family. We live to make our family happy as they are our happiness as well, without them our effort will not be appreciated.