You hit the nail on the head:
1. People asking, "hey, can you help me with X?"
2. Worrying about the whole kidnapping of members of the family.
You want people to like you for YOU, not for what you can do for them.
I always say, "not enough".
I have never understood why people think it is such a taboo to talk about ones net worth or salary.
I think many people are jealous, and if you told them you had a million dollars, they'd view you differently and expect you to pay for everything 'since you're rich'.
If you have a couple grands, that's not special. But once you have a lot of money, people around you start behaving differently.