I don't even want it confirmed as in a blind panic I attempted to do a double spend, to make a long story short the transaction just ended up resending again as normal but my receiving address changed in the past few days so it resent to an old address and my new address isn't registering an incoming payment.
Don't panic. As long as you can check your balance on the blockchain, and it is what you expect it to be, you're fine.
Send a message to
Lauda- they might be able to help you recover those funds for a fee.
PM sent to OP. Thanks for notifying me.