Well mining with nvidia is just a lost of money ...
use '-d X' where x is your device number in your bat file to set the device you want to mine on for cgminer. To get the device number you need to start cgminer with '-n' option.
So i didn't test with only one monitor, cause i have 2 ... my monitors are connecting to my gtx 570 and my 7950 is mining all by herself
i can't see the temp and fan speed but i trust her and i tried to add the 5 sec dummy plug but didn't worked ... I read that dummy plug are now useless so .
for -d option in cgminer :
https://github.com/ckolivas/cgminer/blob/master/README around line 190.
for 5 sec dummy plug :
http://blog.zorinaq.com/?e=11