Problem Gamblers here who are in Debt ?

[birra guzez]

In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.

I guess you can learn from your mistake and not doing the same mistake again for now. it is not good if we are still gambling with the money from debt because we can not pay back the money if we are loose. it is better to gamble for fun and enjoy the games than we are chasing our loss because it is really difficult for us to get our money back.

That is something we have to avoid, chasing our loses is a big recipe to disaster and you will likely to loss control if you keep doing that.
Be smart and accept if you loss in a certain day because you still have a chance to win tomorrow, what's necessary is to always spend based on your limit as gambling is a big risk game that does not guarantee a win.

Trying yo win back losses is commen mistake that gamblers make. The moment after lossing money is hard to surpass without doing a reaction. Learning how to control ourselves as gamblers is the hardest thing. If you ever loose money just get over it because that's gambling sometimes you win sometimes you loose. Just forget it and start playing again without the idea of winning it back.

[Oilacris]

In my younger years of gambling I would spend most of what I had and some. I was always chasing losses. It was hard to change my mindset to you can't win them all and only gamble what I can afford to lose. It took a while to work off debts accrued but at least now I can gamble for fun rather than profit.

I guess you can learn from your mistake and not doing the same mistake again for now. it is not good if we are still gambling with the money from debt because we can not pay back the money if we are loose. it is better to gamble for fun and enjoy the games than we are chasing our loss because it is really difficult for us to get our money back.

That is something we have to avoid, chasing our loses is a big recipe to disaster and you will likely to loss control if you keep doing that.
Be smart and accept if you loss in a certain day because you still have a chance to win tomorrow, what's necessary is to always spend based on your limit as gambling is a big risk game that does not guarantee a win.

Trying yo win back losses is commen mistake that gamblers make. The moment after lossing money is hard to surpass without doing a reaction. Learning how to control ourselves as gamblers is the hardest thing. If you ever loose money just get over it because that's gambling sometimes you win sometimes you loose. Just forget it and start playing again without the idea of winning it back.

Moving on is the thing on which most gamblers do fail to do so when they do play gambling because they cant just easily accept that they do lose on that play and rather they do chase up with rage and this is the time they do possibly go all in with their money without thinking that they are already risking too much money without their proper awareness to theirselves.

[Rinsend]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

It is a sad predicament he is in, but nothing really we can do about his money debts. If there would be good people that could try and pay off his debts then that is the best thing for him. However, the root of the problem has not been solved. The problem here is that he is an addicted gambler and he does not even want to work to pay off his debts then we cannot do anything about him.

it would be a miracle if someone suddenly arrived and paid off all the debts he had,
but this would be impossible
because rarely is there anyone who can help the gambler regardless of the debt winding that he is suffering
except for his parents who helped him

IN real time it is not possible, nowadays there is no helping nature like this. People all become selfish if they have enough money also they will not help others who are in trouble. So as you said the parents or brothers or sisters only the family members can help. The friends and other people just give free advice nobody will help.

and this is real happening,
friends can only help morally.
this may be of little help to us
and for the next we must be able to try to get out of debt.
and I'm a little suggesting here to keep our own effort without asking anyone to help pay off the debt.
because if we can get out of debt by own business of course we will be happier when that time happens

A gambler needs attention from friends or any family member, that's why it kept on a recurring situation that they went on debt most of the time. They've seek attention most of the time from their reliable sources, and borrowed more money just to satisfy their gambling motives. Getting out of a debt will not happen if a gambler doesn't change his attitude and never cut the gambling activities he had in his life.

if this happens and all debts that have occurred because of gambling,
meaning gambling is not suitable for the job
the best advice is to avoid and get out of gambling.
but all of this will come true when many people support it mentally.
because the gambler must be approached emotionally.
so that they realize that gambling will only make them miserable in life

[onrise]

Its not easy i personaly know person which he had big debt,he lose house,cars and lot of money but he stops to play over the night for begining this is a crucial decision by the time he paid some his debts but he stops to gamble,in those moments, the most important thing is to find a motive to continue life.

I've also felt that way. But my debt is not in large quantities. I just sold my phone. In gambling games, it is very prone to debt. Therefore, dont bet in large numbers in order not to be in debt when it gets defeated.

The first mistake is to gamble because the problem starts from there itself. Second if you play for money and not for fun. Third inspite of losing you still continue to play forgetting that casinos will be making money and not general public by large. Fourth when you take a debt to recover those loses and you lose back .

[Tapyaks72]

Its not easy i personaly know person which he had big debt,he lose house,cars and lot of money but he stops to play over the night for begining this is a crucial decision by the time he paid some his debts but he stops to gamble,in those moments, the most important thing is to find a motive to continue life.

I've also felt that way. But my debt is not in large quantities. I just sold my phone. In gambling games, it is very prone to debt. Therefore, dont bet in large numbers in order not to be in debt when it gets defeated.

The first mistake is to gamble because the problem starts from there itself. Second if you play for money and not for fun. Third inspite of losing you still continue to play forgetting that casinos will be making money and not general public by large. Fourth when you take a debt to recover those loses and you lose back .

many people would say gambling is just for fun of the pleasure of winning, but if you do it several times it become a hobby if you still continue to gamble become a vicious activities specially when you are using your money that is not for that purpose and lastly when you lend money from other person or lending institutions just for gambling then it start to ruin your life and your family.

[equator]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

I had also faced the same situation and was in very bad debt but after coming to bitcoin and sports betting i started to recover my loss and now earning decent bitcoin through lot of tasks.

[betMaster]

I knew a guy who had the same problem as you. He came asking me to loan him money so gave. When i demanded him to pay me back after a while he was giving me excuses every time. Then he opned up to me and told me about his problem. He was i serious problem because his depts were too high and he couldn't pay back since he is jobless and thought gambling will provide him money. He lost most of his properties and he still haven't collect enough money.
His life became such a mess and i did what i could to help him by giving him advice. We lost contact now. Too bad to see gambling leeds to that kind of situation.

[Aikidoka]

Its not easy i personaly know person which he had big debt,he lose house,cars and lot of money but he stops to play over the night for begining this is a crucial decision by the time he paid some his debts but he stops to gamble,in those moments, the most important thing is to find a motive to continue life.

I've also felt that way. But my debt is not in large quantities. I just sold my phone. In gambling games, it is very prone to debt. Therefore, dont bet in large numbers in order not to be in debt when it gets defeated.

The first mistake is to gamble because the problem starts from there itself. Second if you play for money and not for fun. Third inspite of losing you still continue to play forgetting that casinos will be making money and not general public by large. Fourth when you take a debt to recover those loses and you lose back .

Yes, that is why my main reason as to why I quit gambling is because I do not want to make the same mistakes. I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I lost much money, and I really regret getting into the field of gambling. But I had never taken a debt to recover the money I lost.

It is really bad to see a friend of yours being in debt and getting into a real bad depression. He is definitely going to have some suicidal thoughts. People need to think before they get themselves into a big mess!

[Ayiranorea]

Its not easy i personaly know person which he had big debt,he lose house,cars and lot of money but he stops to play over the night for begining this is a crucial decision by the time he paid some his debts but he stops to gamble,in those moments, the most important thing is to find a motive to continue life.

I've also felt that way. But my debt is not in large quantities. I just sold my phone. In gambling games, it is very prone to debt. Therefore, dont bet in large numbers in order not to be in debt when it gets defeated.

The first mistake is to gamble because the problem starts from there itself. Second if you play for money and not for fun. Third inspite of losing you still continue to play forgetting that casinos will be making money and not general public by large. Fourth when you take a debt to recover those loses and you lose back .

There are problem gamblers who end it up in a short time period due to the greed of making money in a short. In reality none will get into gambling for fun, because we've got lot other things for fun, just expecting profit people get into gambling which is the truth. What's been mentioned finally is true, expecting profit getting debt and gambling will surely ruin the life of the user.

[FooliNgNooBs]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

They need to know that money isn't everything in life, anyway if they are in big debt they should start to create a plan to repay them, success in any other ambit of the life and maybe ask a professional.

[Dontme]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

They need to know that money isn't everything in life, anyway if they are in big debt they should start to create a plan to repay them, success in any other ambit of the life and maybe ask a professional.

You are right but my main opinion is that gambling is a big distraction to all of us because it will cause you to make debts or borrow because of your addiction on it.

[machinek20]

No matter what, the debt need to be solved, sell your things, do extra job to cover it and stip gambling at once, never attempt to cover your debt by gambling, suicide is not the answer, if you borrow money from loan shark, they will still target your family

[nethan1btc]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

They need to know that money isn't everything in life, anyway if they are in big debt they should start to create a plan to repay them, success in any other ambit of the life and maybe ask a professional.

You are right but my main opinion is that gambling is a big distraction to all of us because it will cause you to make debts or borrow because of your addiction on it.

To get rid of the problem with debt, much better to do if you avoid gambling if necessary.but if we are in debt and we using the money for gambling then we get loss it in our mistake before we realize that our money  has gone for nothing.  So it's better if we have a plan to get debts or owe to other people,  we used  it in a right way.

[carlisle1]

Whenever i remember my bad times i remember those peoples also who lost their everything in this gambling addiction. i want to know what you think about such peoples and how they need to survive after so much losses in their life.
I personally knows some people who are in big debt and they even cant recover that debt and tries to commit suicide every time . so guys can you tell me whats the best solution for them regain their happiness in their life ?

This thread is only for those peoples opinion who faced such situations and recovered or atleast know how to tackle such situations in easy way ( btw i know its not easy )

I'm not in that state but I know some people who lost everything in gambling addiction even their own life. One of the best example is what happened in the Philippines : http://cnnphilippines.com/news/2017/06/03/resorts-world-manila-timeline.html

Maybe they can't cope up with their sadness that's why they have made something like that but it's a reminder for all of us that like drugs the gambling industry is a pretty dangerous are, without self discipline and control you might one of the people who will go nuts and just go stealing and killing other people just to survive.
Last year when Ive lost almost 3000 dollars due to sports betting and have some issues financially I've realized that there are much more important than your own addiction like family. If you realized that your love ones and your life is at stake then maybe you can have some courage to control your addiction not just in gambling.

I may not be addicted into gambling because i only play when i want to take my
stress and gambling gives me enjoyment.but all vices is addicting such as Womanizing ,
chain smoking ,alcoholic drug addiction and gambling addiction so i think i can make
my self here..

I use to be an alcoholic and chain smoker,but you know what change me?its GOD he
made my life new,he opens my heart and he became the center of my life.so for
those whos into addicting now.just Let God be in your life.i promise goodness will come

[Lionidas]

I would say that about 80-90% of gamblers are in debt at one point in their lives until they hit a winning streak.
But they still end up in debt more than half the time because that is just statistics.
You can never beat the house with their edge.
It is statistically impossible to keep a good winning streak going no matter how much skill and luck you have at a certain game.

[Don Pedro Dinero]

I would say that about 80-90% of gamblers are in debt at one point in their lives until they hit a winning streak.
But they still end up in debt more than half the time because that is just statistics.
You can never beat the house with their edge.
It is statistically impossible to keep a good winning streak going no matter how much skill and luck you have at a certain game.

That’s simply not true. Nothing could be further from the truth. Can you quote any source to back what you are saying?
Your percentage of gamblers in debt is, by far, too exaggerated, and to say that those gamblers get out of debt by hitting a winning streak is just making up a story.

People who have problems with gambling are statistically similar to those who have problems with alcohol. Most people are responsible gamblers, as well as responsible drinkers.

[chris200x9]

Its not easy i personaly know person which he had big debt,he lose house,cars and lot of money but he stops to play over the night for begining this is a crucial decision by the time he paid some his debts but he stops to gamble,in those moments, the most important thing is to find a motive to continue life.

I've also felt that way. But my debt is not in large quantities. I just sold my phone. In gambling games, it is very prone to debt. Therefore, dont bet in large numbers in order not to be in debt when it gets defeated.

The first mistake is to gamble because the problem starts from there itself. Second if you play for money and not for fun. Third inspite of losing you still continue to play forgetting that casinos will be making money and not general public by large. Fourth when you take a debt to recover those loses and you lose back .

The main reason for all things to happen to people first start only for fun or experience the game how it works or wants to make an easy money from these games. But slowly if they like the game will continue playing regularly or if they lose money to continue gambling to get back their money. That makes people slowly to addict this game and continue every day. That's why if we can't control our emotions then never go to gambling at all instead find other means to get fun or enjoyment.

[Lionidas]

I am saying it to this range because that is what you hear from the media with 1 in 10 actually walking away with atleast some winning but out of those they have 9 people who walk away empty handed.
I do not think that is much exaggerated one bit.

[vv181]

The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

[alisafidel58]

The person who is gambling with loaned amount indeed indicates that they are an addictive gambler. I personally don't think they will be successful in their gamble since they carry a big responsibility that affects their greediness and emotion so that they will fail and get a more significant problem.

To add to that, having a big loan will largely affect the decision making of a person, its not good for a gambler to think that he/she has to pay all his/her loan or debt while sitting down on a gabling table.
More problem might occurred if a person tends to loan more just to pay a previous loan who has lost into gambling.