VIRGINITY before getting married

[Coffee_Lover]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Personally, I still believe it is important. Even if it is important to the family, it still depends to the person. Some still think it is a sin to commit pre-marital sex.

[RonJohannson]

 wouldn't worry too much about it, if you stay a virgin you may end up marrying a girl you want to have sex with all the time.  If you get sex out of your system before then, you may actually select a girl who is a better fit.
 

[cramcram21]

Nowadays couple does it even if they are not yet married so I guess that doesn't really affect your relationship,
I mean does that lessen the woman's value ? if you truly loves her it wouldn't matter to you her past wouldn't matter you would accept her for who she is and what ever personality she has.

[Liquidhero]

I think it is not necessary but perfect idea to keep virginity untill married. Everyone wants to get brand new wife for his children. Besides any sexual act may cause some influence to unborn child, even sex with condom

[Babyboy423]

Saving ones' virginity for marriage is GREAT and completely congruent with waiting until marriage.
Although.. No one here has yet to address the person who... well... couldn't "get any".  Because she/he is socially awkward or a jerk, hence why they could be a virgin.  Then it would be easy to say they believe in virginity.  Just some food for thought.

[Lance70t]

Depends where you live, in Asian virginity still important in marriage, mostly in US or others country virginity not too important, they love the person not the virginity, it can say open minded person, we can not blame if the girl not virgin, many people has different story in their life.

[FlareX]

Love is different from LUST. If you love someone and respect her dignity, you should marry her first. But if LUST comes first, the reason why you marrying her is because she's pregnant. SHUTGUN marriage is what they called it.

[pombur]

No, not necessarily. Even if the guy is humble and can not do anything, not with the first so on the fifth time, he will still do the job.)))) And they will not have reason to reproach each other. After all, the ideal love is when one and for all life... And the experience will come.
On account of 30 years is certainly age. I do not know. But whether necessarily goes to bed with the unloved. Certainly not everyone will be able to go, You will not these girls to blame for it.
Maybe honesty and openness is the best there is in the relationship...

[ColdSphere]

I think it depends upon on what your partner prefers. You are the ones who will decide which will comes first. Virginity nowadays is not an issue, if a girl love a guy, and she thinks that they are destined to each other, why not to trust him her virginity right? Lets just respect each of our own decisions because we are the ones that will regret it in end if we FAILS.

[Sithara007]

Love is different from LUST. If you love someone and respect her dignity, you should marry her first. But if LUST comes first, the reason why you marrying her is because she's pregnant. SHUTGUN marriage is what they called it.

This is all rubbish. There is nothing wrong with having sex, if the couple is serious about their relationship. In fact, I would advice them to delay their marriage for 5-6 years, to find out whether they are really compatible to each other. And it will be foolish to abstain from sex during this period, as humans are expected to indulge in sex during the 20s. If you wait until the 30s to have sex, then by that time your libido will be gone.

[lalith12345]

sex before marriage is definitely a sin. How ever it is depend on you and your religion. And most important thing is do you believe your religion

[Marjo04]

Virginity still important but it depends on the boy if he will accept his girl if sjes virgin or no.and nowadays its not a big issue anymore moat couple get married if the girl already pregnant:)

[sandu123]

Yes.if it is not considered cultural ethics and moral values will destroy.still births,abortions,pervations will be a normal thing in the society.

[realcrypto]

Getting married to virgin is good but married is not all about virginity, It comprises of so many other component. So do not marry because of virginity.

[zhuiyongliang8]

I don't think that's important. Now premarital sex has developed into something normal.

Two people like to be together, actually like to like each other's all, not virginity.

[feonaishere19]

This question makes me dizzy,For me it is. Call me a prude or anything but virginity before marriage is important for me. So I'm a child out of wedlock. i'm not saying that I had a bad life, I'm totally content with what I have. So I haven't met my father and I get curious and sad sometimes. I sometimes get jealous of complete families and things is always awkward when there is a family day. If only they waited until marriage, I would think to myself. I think people must think of the consequences of what they are doing.

[darkarchon88]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Virginity or not virginity aren't the problem. The problem is how you evaluate this thing. If it's okay with you then fine but if it's not it turns into a huge problem and could make you lose your lover. It's 21th centuries, please guys stop being a self-opinionated.

[icons6]

Virginity is one of the most valueble thing specially in marriage...For me,virginity before marriage is important for me because it might be your valuable gift that you can have to your future husband.For me,it's a treasure that we need to take care and gave it to the future husband that we dream.

[Potatohead]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Not at all. I mean the good thing about giving one's virginity to a man is to simply know if he is really going to stick around. The problem these days with getting married as a virgin, there is no turning back from that decision and if a person actually regrets about getting married, how will it be able to reverse the damage that has been done.

[francisvien]

It is not necessary for a virgin to bleed the first time she has sex. In fact, is one goes by the statistics, only 42 per cent of women do so. ... Remember, virginity and chastity are not the only measures to base a happy marriage on, honesty and trust are far more important traits that both partners should possess.