VIRGINITY before getting married

[Mometaskers]

These days the chances of getting pregnant out of wedlock has decreased because of contraception. Same can be said for some STD, they are no longer life-threatening. People are having sex for fun, not just to make babies. IMHO it should be the woman's choice. She should not be pressured to keep or lose her virginity.

[wenya]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

I think it is very important yesterday, I saw a news, 19-year-old model auction her first night, her practice was stopped by her family, her father felt shameful daughter, want to cut off her father and daughter relationship, I think people are very care about the girl's first sex.

[joebrook]

These days the chances of getting pregnant out of wedlock has decreased because of contraception. Same can be said for some STD, they are no longer life-threatening. People are having sex for fun, not just to make babies. IMHO it should be the woman's choice. She should not be pressured to keep or lose her virginity.

Sex which should have been something sacred between married couples is nowadays just for fun and entertainment and it could be blamed on liberalism. When a woman is a virgin before marriage, it leads to a strong bond between then couple and there is indeed a lot of trust as a result of that.

[Leane Lee Natividad Cuenc]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Nope.. Nowadays most of the individuals are getting married in their mid 30s. A good part of the biological peak will be over by that time and it will be foolish to abstain from sex during your teens and 20s. I am not saying that you should be promiscuous and have sex with whomever you want. But there is no harm in having sex with someone with whom you are in a relationship.

For this generation i donth think so...that still need the verginity before getting married...most of the teens was having sex...without their maturity...they are so eager to find out what is sex? so they are still young they are already having sex...

[carrymem79]

It depends in the area you stay, religious belief and family background. If it's important to you saving one's virginity to show purity and sees it as your asset then reserve it for the man whom you want to spend your life with. On the other hand, if it's not important because you want a woman with quality experience to satisfy your bed fantasies then it's your choice.

[RamBahadur.Gurung]

I was not a virgin when I got married. So I would say that it is not very important. Anyway, it is up to the individual to decide. But at the same time, if someone is not a virgin at the time of marriage, that doesn't mean that the individual is a bad guy.

[Gintron]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Depends on the environment in which you are located. If you live in Muslim, Jewish or Christian environment you will
most likely think it is. I personally think virginity before marriage is not important. But I respect and adore the sacrifice
that couples make. I think that virginity before  has some positive sides such as: You can focus more on the personality
compatibilities between you and your partner.

[bippy123]

Speaking as a 50 year old virgin , virginity is very important to me as I'm a virgin by choice waiting until marriage and ima practicing Catholic . Now while it's important to me and I'd love for my future wife be a virgin , it's not absolutely necessary . What's important is that at the time I meet her if she doesn't believe in premarital sex I'm ok with dating her . What matters most is where she's at at the time I get to know her . The past is the past . People can change

[spaceman87]

I believe that in the 21st century it does not matter whether your
bride is a virgin or not

[Chusnul]

I think it is important virginity before getting married. Whatever it is moral depends on your personal code. It is not only moral, but highly desirable according to mine, because I put a high value on strong, loving, long-lasting relationships as a foundation for raising children, and I believe that young people who learn how to love and be loved froma series of close intimate relationships normally grow up to be better, more loving, and more mature adults, who chose better partners and are more likely to become better and more committed partners and parents.

[Macai]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Gone are the days when women value their virginity and gone are the days when virginity is the best gift that a woman can offer to her husband on their first night together. Sad to say, virginity now is like a commodity being offered to lucky patrons for free.

[dondexter]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

No, not really. Nowadays, people are more liberal about these issues. For both men and women.

So, I don't think it is really important.

[Hifemih]

It depends on the woman, but, personally, I think it's best to keep it

[xvids]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

I think it depends on the person because for me I don't really care if my wife is a virgin or not,
Our feeling towards our partner should not change because of it,Maybe they aren't virgin anymore so what?
Does that make them a less human just because they lost it or give it to someone they love before?
Just because they thought that they already fund the one that would stay with their side forever.

[Phebz]

Virginity before marriage is good because its one of the precious gift for your husband. Or wife. It depends also for a person to protect oneself in order to hold virginity before marriage.

[hugoworld]

This question makes me dizzy,For me it is. Call me a prude or anything but virginity before marriage is important for me. So I'm a child out of wedlock. i'm not saying that I had a bad life, I'm totally content with what I have. So I haven't met my father and I get curious and sad sometimes. I sometimes get jealous of complete families and things is always awkward when there is a family day. If only they waited until marriage, I would think to myself. I think people must think of the consequences of what they are doing.

Because of your experience in your life , you are right to choose to remain until your marriage but Time has changed. Virginity is an obsolete stuff which people pay atttention to. If you think properly, I am sure that you will change your mind.

[sayyank]

Do you think virginity is still important before getting married?

Of course yes, virginity is important thing that every women must keep it until they get married. In my opinion, virginity same as woman's pride that very valuable. If woman can keep her virginity until she get married, she can prove that she has a good knowledge that sex after married is really important and she can control her desire/ lust. It proves that she is loyal with her partner and can keep the sacred promise of marriage. Keep virginity (say no to free sex) can help us from attacked with sexually transmitted disease. When you lost your virginity, your pride as a women will lost too. Because as we know together that most of men want his wife still virgin when they get married. So, if women lost her virginity because of free sex, she will regret it later.

[renggileh]

for some people maybe yes, but in my view it is not important
The important thing is that both couples love each other

[Ravenangel]

Before, virginity was very sanctified that one can be immoral if she/he is known to have lost her/his virginity before marriage, but now, I think it is as if very normal for couples to have sex even if they are not yet married. Even teenagers are engaged on it even if how the parents educate their children not to do that thing yet if you are not blessed. Social media is one of the factors that contribute to the early knowledge of teenagers about sex.

[Sithara007]

for some people maybe yes, but in my view it is not important
The important thing is that both couples love each other

I agree with you. Those guys who want to marry a virgin girl must advertise for the same. I don't think that they will get many proposals. Nowadays, the youth is hyperactive, as a result of the proliferation of the social media. Their sex lives start when they are in their mid-teens. If you ask them to abstain from sex, then they are not going to listen to you.