Thanks for reply. I did not have RBF on first Tx. The id is the same. Not sure whats happening.
Will the coins eventually be returned to my wallet? How long can this take? Can you tell me anything based on TX id?
It would indeed be a double spend if you would sent them again with a higher fee.
If 42981e630fe9561364b167cc8f1025f6464cc0f7da84d01655e7bf2a61d7b56d is the one with the higher fee, then i think it will take some time before it will be confirmed, the average fee currently is around 450 sat/b, according to
https://bitcoinfees.earn.com/, while yours is ~80sat/b.
Will the coins eventually be returned to my wallet?
Not if the transaction confirms. And yes, eventually nodes will drop it out of their mempool if you don't keep rebroadcasting it.