Shyness in gambling

[voztata]

Yes, I had personally experienced this. In fact, all the gamblers out there must have experienced this when it was their first time. I can relate myself to the scene you described here and that is a common scenario for all the newbies. But yes, no one really cares. They all are busy in their own planning and playing games. They will also welcome you if you have pocket full of money.

I understand there may just be that feeling you will always have when you are entering a place for the first time since you really do not have friends around, you have not mixed around to know how things are done, so there could still be some element of being a bit shy but not because you are being perceived as a gambler like some people have portrayed while reading through the thread.

Being shy however, depends on each individual's personality, as some people who are extroverts always find it easy to mix in new places compared to introverts.

It is really weird to hear that a gambler faces trouble while gambling. If it is that annoying in any way to be in a casino then why on Earth he is there at first place. A man should own his acts fully. Any activity that can become a cause of embarrassment should be avoided.

Besides, if casino crowd is there real problem or being watched out, internet is the answer. Gambling sites have been created for such reasons.

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[justdimin]

if casino crowd is there real problem or being watched out, internet is the answer. Gambling sites have been created for such reasons.

Online gambling sites are here for many purposes at the same time we must need to understand the dangers of using online gambling sites. If you are feeling shy while gambling in front of more people then you will avoid gambling over time. This will reduce the chances of bad consequences of gambling. When you are gambling within your home and at any time you prefer, you will get addicted to gambling more quickly.

I mean to say feeling shy in casino must be a good thing and we should not find a solution for it. We must enjoy being a hero by watching out but thousands of people and it will help to get rid of our gambling thrust.

[Pan Troglodytes]

Yes and I think it is perfectly normal. I felt the same once in a sushi restaurant when the cook would prepare the sushi for me in front of me. I just had to order the fish, the kind of a roll or sushi or whatever kind I wanted. I didn't know all the japanese names involved and I felt really shy and I just ordered what the other guy did. Really. We humans work that way...

[AicecreaME]

Yes and I think it is perfectly normal. I felt the same once in a sushi restaurant when the cook would prepare the sushi for me in front of me. I just had to order the fish, the kind of a roll or sushi or whatever kind I wanted. I didn't know all the japanese names involved and I felt really shy and I just ordered what the other guy did. Really. We humans work that way...

That is what always happening during the first time we are trying something, we are shy, afraid of making things messed up, but we have to know that it is just normal, we are not going to learn if we are not going to commit mistakes in our life, the failure that we are having are the ones that will makes us more stronger. The first time that I have tried gambling was not that bad at all, I've tried it online so that nobody will know about it.

However I quit playing gambling after I tried it a few times because I've realized that it is not good for me, earning money is so hard but losing it on gambling is so fucking easy.

[logicgate]

Yes, I had personally experienced this. In fact, all the gamblers out there must have experienced this when it was their first time. I can relate myself to the scene you described here and that is a common scenario for all the newbies. But yes, no one really cares. They all are busy in their own planning and playing games. They will also welcome you if you have pocket full of money.

Yeah the first entry is full of shyness because gambling is a bad thing and when you want to start any bad thing you will want to hide yourself from other people and this is shyness. New gambler tries to have a seat far in a corner and tries his luck. But shyness and gambling are two opposite things and shyer person never play with confidence and clear mind.

I don’t think the first entry in a gambling casino is full of shyness for the gambler because there is nothing to feel shy about. If the gambler is feeling shy just because of the other gamblers that are present there, I think this is not something else than a blunder from his side because they all are the travelers of same boat. If he is doing something wrong, what other gamblers are doing, they are also doing the same thing.

[Blondy12]

A common scenario for all the newbies in casinos. I personally experienced this thing, I feel like an ignorant guy who just go to casino to make some mess but yeah they actually don't care as long as you have the money to play then they will seat with you. Also some gamblers saw this as an opportunity to fool you and have some money, I encounter this thing before. Well if you are a shy type person, online gambling is way better for you.

I agree with you and i guess it really happens to all newbies. I think it is supposed to be clled as shyness in gambling but instead being ignorant as you what you have said. Because gambling in casinos is a like more different than playing gambling inside your house or your friend’s house. In casino have different rules and different people you will encounter in the table until later on we will get used to it.

[megynacuna]

A common scenario for all the newbies in casinos. I personally experienced this thing, I feel like an ignorant guy who just go to casino to make some mess but yeah they actually don't care as long as you have the money to play then they will seat with you. Also some gamblers saw this as an opportunity to fool you and have some money, I encounter this thing before. Well if you are a shy type person, online gambling is way better for you.

I agree with you and i guess it really happens to all newbies. I think it is supposed to be clled as shyness in gambling but instead being ignorant as you what you have said. Because gambling in casinos is a like more different than playing gambling inside your house or your friend’s house. In casino have different rules and different people you will encounter in the table until later on we will get used to it.

I think one of the basic ethics of a good gambler is his confidence and so if you are shy then you have no business venturing into gambling in the first place. I am tempted to believe that many of the people who feel shy at gambling are the ones that are not ready and resolved but for the sake of what they stand to get they enter into gambling.

[darewaller]

No. I've never felt being shy in gambling but i feel pressure while i am playing gambling and it is normal. Unlike being shy it is not normal in gambling because if you are shy you will never enjoy the game, remember just enjoy the game and no one would be mad to you if you sit in tables as long you will bet or a player.

This is what the gamblers are forgetting now, they forget to enjoy the game as everyone is chasing the profits and losses. The shyness only comes if someone witnessed my losses and that's humiliating when someone actually sees your bad moments in gambling.

Let’s just say if they start enjoying the game, what good would that bring them financially ? Can it save the money that is destined to be lost by the end of the bet ? Absolutely not. The truth is, no matter what a gambler is trying to get out of this ridiculous game, threat of being ruined financially lies. That is why I think a person should try to avoid this game as much as he can. It can be a pain after some times of engaging with it.

We may make use of shyness to come out of gambling. Because we just need some reason to come out of gambling which is similar to most gamblers are needing some reason to continue it. If the reason is good enough (it will be more effective when it is linked with personal things like shyness) then we can easily quit it.

[nelsledma]

No. I've never felt being shy in gambling but i feel pressure while i am playing gambling and it is normal. Unlike being shy it is not normal in gambling because if you are shy you will never enjoy the game, remember just enjoy the game and no one would be mad to you if you sit in tables as long you will bet or a player.

This is what the gamblers are forgetting now, they forget to enjoy the game as everyone is chasing the profits and losses. The shyness only comes if someone witnessed my losses and that's humiliating when someone actually sees your bad moments in gambling.

Basically gambling was introduced for fun purpose only but the people of this world made gambling a source of earning money rather than a source of having joy and pleasure which was totally a bad thing and it destroyed the lives of many gamblers in which young and old both people are involved. Everyone chases profits because no one wants to give away money they earned.

[yoseph]

A common scenario for all the newbies in casinos. I personally experienced this thing, I feel like an ignorant guy who just go to casino to make some mess but yeah they actually don't care as long as you have the money to play then they will seat with you. Also some gamblers saw this as an opportunity to fool you and have some money, I encounter this thing before. Well if you are a shy type person, online gambling is way better for you.

I agree with you and i guess it really happens to all newbies. I think it is supposed to be clled as shyness in gambling but instead being ignorant as you what you have said. Because gambling in casinos is a like more different than playing gambling inside your house or your friend’s house. In casino have different rules and different people you will encounter in the table until later on we will get used to it.

I think one of the basic ethics of a good gambler is his confidence and so if you are shy then you have no business venturing into gambling in the first place. I am tempted to believe that many of the people who feel shy at gambling are the ones that are not ready and resolved but for the sake of what they stand to get they enter into gambling.

Being shy means that you lack the self confidence to begin betting in the first place, and with the lack of self confidence, you will see yourself making mistakes which means that you will be losing money as a result of that.

[wozzek23]

Maybe because of being newbie in physical casinos that's why you have a shyness in gambling. I am also shy especially if there are a lot of people watching you when you play especially when they look at you because you are new to that place. I think it is normal with casinos but eventually your shyness will gone after all.

I think it is more to nervous instead shy when people around you watching the game .
But if you really do then it might because shyness to meet new people , things can go wrong if you talk to someone etc.
try to do a small talk and you will think that socialize won't make you feel that way anymore.

Maybe a shyness and some nervous at the same time if we go to the casinos, especially if we are new to that place. Socialization can help us overcome our shyness it can also make some friends for a while with some strangers. So I guess playing gambling in casinos can also help boost our socialization to other people.

Not all the gamblers are this much expert at gambling that they can do all the things in the best possible way and then make some good earning. Most of the beginners find it very much difficult to play well and that because of which, they lose their money as well but even then, they don’t learn any kind of lesson and that they keep on trying their luck and at the end, lose all their money.

[supermine]

No. I've never felt being shy in gambling but i feel pressure while i am playing gambling and it is normal. Unlike being shy it is not normal in gambling because if you are shy you will never enjoy the game, remember just enjoy the game and no one would be mad to you if you sit in tables as long you will bet or a player.

This is what the gamblers are forgetting now, they forget to enjoy the game as everyone is chasing the profits and losses. The shyness only comes if someone witnessed my losses and that's humiliating when someone actually sees your bad moments in gambling.

Basically gambling was introduced for fun purpose only but the people of this world made gambling a source of earning money rather than a source of having joy and pleasure which was totally a bad thing and it destroyed the lives of many gamblers in which young and old both people are involved. Everyone chases profits because no one wants to give away money they earned.

There maybe other reasons for their shyness other than the losses is maybe religion too because many people want to gambling but in their religion it considered as sin so they have shy to enter into gambling.But now there it is modern era of gambling through online where you can play anonymously without any hesitations or shyness,just enjoy it whether making money or losing some.

[agentx44]

Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?

No. I have never been shy in gambling because how would you supposed to play if you are shy to sit in tables. You better pushed yourself to.play because you really can't play if you are shy, all you will do is watch them play. It is not normal to be shy when you are playing gambling feeling pressured is normal while playing.

[Lady Coquet]

Have you ever felt that you didn't play just because you were shy? I have felt this in casinos, and I just felt the pressure, but there's no need to be because everyone just minds their own business in gambling. Probably some people even pushed you to start gambling. I just thought about this because when I tried gambling for the first time in casinos, I don't know if it's okay to sit in tables whether the game is blackjack, poker, anything in the casino just so that I just felt shy because I'm a newbie.

Have you felt this way? I don't know if playing online casinos would have that effect also. What do you think?

I think i never felt being shy in gambling i only feel pressured while playing and sitting in tables. Even you are just a newbie in playing gambling you won't need to be shy to play and join tables because you won't be able to play and there are players who are kind to their opponents, so just get a long with them and play.

[GoodLuck2]

I actually did feel shy when I first gamble when I was legal to gamble, I have no experience or anything I just went there at first and feel shy to play that's because I'm afraid that someone will look at how I play and judge me that when I started and gain some confidence, I just don't care what other people think and just have fun playing and winning. This is really common if you are a newbie who doesn't know what to do. There is nothing to be shy and admitting it, what it matters is that you overcome it and just play and have fun. 

I don’t understand what you mean by when I was legal. How the person becomes legal for gambling. Are there some special requirements by the state that you would have to fill and after filling them, you would be legal to gamble? I don’t think there is anything to feel shy about when you go to casino for the first time to play gambling. If you feel shy then it’s better for you to leave gambling.

[BTCappu]

There are times when a gambler is in a difficult position, it is when the desire to gamble is so strong but there is no money can be used to fulfill the desire. At times like this, the tendency to do bad things happen. For example, use the money that should be used for other more important things. If a gambler has done something like this, shame will surely come up.

I think only the people having a big heart and patience should play gambling and the people who don’t have both of these characteristics in them, they probably should stay out of this gambling business because gambling leads you to very sad ends at the end of the day when you come back home after gambling. Also, when the people become addict to it and have no money for it, they simply want to suicide.

[bitgolden]

Yes and I think it is perfectly normal. I felt the same once in a sushi restaurant when the cook would prepare the sushi for me in front of me. I just had to order the fish, the kind of a roll or sushi or whatever kind I wanted. I didn't know all the japanese names involved and I felt really shy and I just ordered what the other guy did. Really. We humans work that way...

This is our nature. Humans are shy whenever they are prone to something new. We don’t just become easy at all in start instead, we have to take some time when we manage ourselves according to the environment and people. This nature comes out at gambling table too. But this gambling shyness is seriously ill. We don’t have to face such shyness because gambling isn’t healthy for us.

[Digital_Lord]

the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.

I don't see it as a bad thing. Gambling is a bad thing every time you became proud of yourself on winning some even though you lose a lot more than that.

Losing your self esteem means that you will be having a hard time gambling again especially in the casino where you got embarrassed and I see that as an opportunity to get yourself out of gambling, it is for your own good, man. Think again on gambling your money since you might build again your self esteem on gambling and the worst might happen, in which being addicted on gambling.

I think if it is our first time to bet in a real casino then its normal to feel ashamed setting on the table, like me when I first to play real tong-its, I feel shy from my opponents and watchers thinking that they have bad comments about my play strategy.

In my opinion to avoid shame and shyness in real casinos you should quit gambling. It is bad experience to lose money and there are many people sitting on a table looking at you and you lose. Definitely you will feel shyness. Shyness is good because you may feel that gambling is bad thing and I should quit it as soon as possible to avoid shame and shyness.

[Devawnm367]

Yes but once you start betting the big money, and play gamess like, Blackjack, Poker, etc, you began to see familiar faces and people you just like to play with!!!!

[plescruslo]

the only thing that made me embarrassed was when I lost a second time, like losing my self-esteem. as well as money lost, such as losing self-esteem.

I don't see it as a bad thing. Gambling is a bad thing every time you became proud of yourself on winning some even though you lose a lot more than that.

Losing your self esteem means that you will be having a hard time gambling again especially in the casino where you got embarrassed and I see that as an opportunity to get yourself out of gambling, it is for your own good, man. Think again on gambling your money since you might build again your self esteem on gambling and the worst might happen, in which being addicted on gambling.

So you better know the badness of gambling. Losing money and self-esteem means to destroy yourself and when you destroy yourself definitely your family will automatically destroy. Before the end comes quit gambling today and start any online or offline business. It will be better for survival and you will be respectful in your community and in your family as well.