What does getpeerinfo say?
Thanks for your question,
this is what it says

[
{
"addr" : "85.25.255.143:8333",
"services" : "00000001",
"lastsend" : 1385256607,
"lastrecv" : 1385256607,
"bytessent" : 1019837,
"bytesrecv" : 7481063,
"conntime" : 1385202138,
"version" : 70001,
"subver" : "/Satoshi:0.8.5/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 271080,
"banscore" : 0
},
{
"addr" : "108.18.105.67:8333",
"services" : "00000001",
"lastsend" : 1385256607,
"lastrecv" : 1385256608,
"bytessent" : 1146628,
"bytesrecv" : 22016386,
"conntime" : 1385202155,
"version" : 70001,
"subver" : "/Satoshi:0.8.5/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 271080,
"banscore" : 0
},
{
"addr" : "66.114.33.250:8333",
"services" : "00000001",
"lastsend" : 1385256609,
"lastrecv" : 1385256609,
"bytessent" : 960414,
"bytesrecv" : 6248274,
"conntime" : 1385202156,
"version" : 70001,
"subver" : "/Satoshi:0.8.5/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 271080,
"banscore" : 0
},
{
"addr" : "98.103.71.30:8333",
"services" : "00000001",
"lastsend" : 1385256607,
"lastrecv" : 1385256600,
"bytessent" : 675814,
"bytesrecv" : 3103394,
"conntime" : 1385213598,
"version" : 70001,
"subver" : "/Satoshi:0.8.5/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 271096,
"banscore" : 0,
"syncnode" : true
},
{
"addr" : "79.173.85.146:8333",
"services" : "00000001",
"lastsend" : 1385256609,
"lastrecv" : 1385256609,
"bytessent" : 517183,
"bytesrecv" : 5891359,
"conntime" : 1385227902,
"version" : 70001,
"subver" : "/Satoshi:0.8.5/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 271121,
"banscore" : 0
},
{
"addr" : "83.98.217.152:8333",
"services" : "00000001",
"lastsend" : 1385256607,
"lastrecv" : 1385256608,
"bytessent" : 261795,
"bytesrecv" : 1920366,
"conntime" : 1385240467,
"version" : 70001,
"subver" : "/Satoshi:0.8.1/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 271150,
"banscore" : 0
},
{
"addr" : "24.1.115.183:8333",
"services" : "00000001",
"lastsend" : 1385256607,
"lastrecv" : 1385256606,
"bytessent" : 175050,
"bytesrecv" : 2180322,
"conntime" : 1385244286,
"version" : 70001,
"subver" : "/Satoshi:0.8.5/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 271157,
"banscore" : 0
},
{
"addr" : "46.98.75.111:8333",
"services" : "00000001",
"lastsend" : 1385256600,
"lastrecv" : 1385256608,
"bytessent" : 22423,
"bytesrecv" : 236661,
"conntime" : 1385254781,
"version" : 70001,
"subver" : "/Satoshi:0.8.1/",
"inbound" : false,
"startingheight" : 271184,
"banscore" : 0
}
]
does that shed any light on my problem? thanks