How to help someone who is not helping himself?

[SnowAugustine]

I have a friend who is really in very bad luck financially. He finds it hard to get a job etc etc and so I advised him to get a job online where he won't be judged by how he dresses or how he looks. He just have to get a job and then do his best to perform it. He just kept on saying that he will get into it but does nothing. Yet, he continues to complain how fucked up his life is. It is already annoying for a lot of us, his friends. However, I do not want to be a bad friend.

[FosterSofia]

what are some things he likes to do? try getting him a cat or dog (if hes not allergic) a companian. tryin taking him fishing. or walking at night (in a safe neighboorhood) lol. try making him think of good times not bad times

[oneblagobl]

You're a very good person to think about your friend. But look, if he doesn't want to change, why would he help?
It's one thing if he did anything for it, and he just says it.
Work on the Internet is difficult to find, but possible

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[iamchiara]

Only way to help after all efforts have been made to convince and give inspiration is to simply pray.  There are people who just don't  have the drive or enough reason to change their lives for the better no matter how much we wanted to help. 

[logitechwow]

Help your friend, don't lose your touch.
I'm sure sooner or later you will succeed

[Wolfencloud]

Always encourage your friend and show to your friend ypur support. Always cheer your frind and boost his confidence.

[axel20]

This is a dilemma.  You can only push so much.  Try to be supportive and see if it helps.

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[kriscamp]

Lets me be realistic. If you asking this question you probably already talked to this person or tried to help him or her. But there is no alternative way to help someone, because we are only in power to change ourselves. It is better to step back and let it be.

[JetAid]

Help him to build his self-esteem, and to realise that he can contribute to society. The rest will follow.

[arion6868]

nothing u can do n just wait until he realize he has to do something if he want something, i suggest u dont financially help him if not things will get worst if u do so

[Marsel12]

I think no need to help. A man must solve his problems himself.

[3lyntmy]

I have a friend who is really in very bad luck financially. He finds it hard to get a job etc etc and so I advised him to get a job online where he won't be judged by how he dresses or how he looks. He just have to get a job and then do his best to perform it. He just kept on saying that he will get into it but does nothing. Yet, he continues to complain how fucked up his life is. It is already annoying for a lot of us, his friends. However, I do not want to be a bad friend.

if u trying to help him but he don't accept then just leave him alone better 

[X-Ray.12]

You need to talk and be persistent in motivating that person. You need to show him that his behavior is not good for him. Show him good examples of people who had a lot of problems and became successful. He can try to find some online job.

[irina0699]

I think that you should make him go to psychologist. It is a problem of your friend and of psychologist, because you probably do not have special education to explain him what he should do. Moreover, it will get a huge amount of your free time. Of course, you can listen to him attentive, but nothing depends on you, but on the personal motivation of your friend.

[Areding]

I think that such people should more often participate in social activities, attend seminars and trainings that can cheer up people.

[AkexA95]

No need to impose help. Let the person solve the problem

[Firestax]

Try to show and convince him that he's loved. Believe in him in case to make him feel confident enough. Your support is everything

[DorisHank65]

Just tell him straight up how weak he is, even if he is unfulfilled, if he has made the wrong decisions, he has to stop being weak and stand up and rethink his life and work on improving.