We already decided on an escrow who was suggested by user Toralf.
Just that right after user Torald was insuniating i would try to scam him via an "escrow link scam" - which makes no sense at all.
I think the best is to do everything on the forum, including PMs instead of email or "link scam".
You should both agree on a trusted escrow here, and discuss with PMs that include everyone.
You can send the same PM to multiple people and they see it.
Here is a list of trusted escrows :
https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=2439910.0I can safely recommend minerjones, Hhampuz, krogothmanhattan and OgNasty as escrows.
Make sure you are in touch with them, beware of impersonators !