if you want to win big...accept defeat

[Btc_1856]

How I could win big if we are consistently be losing? I'll never accept that, though it is a part of gambling but isn't be a good indication that we have to be.
Losing is not what we aim for but winning, and we have to make it change before we lose everything and turn us down.

You are right, the most gambler will not choose this option because they are here to win, every gambler will fed up if they keep on loosing through gambling. So most of the gamblers will not accept the word defeat, it will not help them in any way.

[CryptopreneurBrainboss]

Your OP can be summarize as, failure is a process to success so we should learn to accept defeat, what OP is trying to say is that, when we lose lets not make it a priority to get our fund back by paying more games instead we should accept that defeact and move on. Playing more games for the purpose of winning back your fund will end you more losses. I have to agree and disagree, as this doesn't apply to all individuals. Some individuals are good at comebacks while others aren't. We have gamblers that need a loss for them to profit while other don't recover after defeat. So the message you intend passing here doesn't apply to everyone.

[Barbut]

Having a good judgement in gambling is necessary, it could help you win sometimes but most especially it could help you to minimize your loses all the time and stay discipline. It's hard to assume on the winning side as majority of the gamblers are losers, and therefore the best thing to do is just to enjoy gambling, take some winning if you are lucky but never expect you can do that all the time, or even most of the time, unless you are gifted with skills.

It`s true that the majority of gamblers are losers. Most people are not familiar with gambling games, they just open the game and place bets without thinking, without any strategy, the only thing they see is a possible profit. You can`t gamble and expect to win just because it`s your turn to win, you need to know how to win, you need to know when to place lower bets and when to place higher bets, you need to have some kind of strategy if you wish to be profitable in the long run. If you just bet randomly, without any kind of bankroll management, you will suffer from losing more often.
I agree with one more thing with you, people should learn to enjoy and have fun while they gamble, like that every win will bring more fun, and losing will not hurt so much.

[stadus]

once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover,

I can't deny that I have this kind of attitude sometimes, it's a mistake actually but I was able to control myself and learn.
This is a bad mentality in gambling, not accepting our loses will make our journey hard and probably we might end up getting bankrupt in the long run.

[rachman mahesa]

once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover,

They will reject defeat, because according to them this will end in victory. And in the end they always experience defeat and cannot recover. Which initially won big, because not accepting defeat that happened was a big loss.

[buwaytress]

Or maybe you got it all wrong in the first place by trying to have a "be successful in gambling" mentality?

Perhaps try to realign your objectives. Be more realistic, more practical. Understand that the odds and the edge is against you. Math already means that you are EXPECTED to be in negative value monetary wise. So accept that. And then, see the value in entertainment. What would you expect to get back for a movie, or for a song, or for an hour's worth of games at some carnival? Entertainment, fun, the chance to maybe come out with something more.

Be at peace with all that and you win the moment you deposit. =p

[samputin]

Accepting your defeat won't simply allow you to win big. You also have to do something (either with luck, or strategy, or both) and in gambling, we all know that everyone loses or gets defeated at some point. With that comes the lesson. We know that we can't avoid defeat or even losses but what we can do is how to minimize those loss in order to save big.

[bering]

If you were talking about greedy then people already discuss it plenty that greed can ruin your gambling results and regarding your words i think most of people here already accept their lost during gambling but it will not makes us can able to win big because gambling winning is unpredictable and for me personally accept my losses while gamble not makes me confident to win more money but it can makes me more realize that i wasn't lucky to start gambling on that day

[Botnake]

once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover,

I can't deny that I have this kind of attitude sometimes, it's a mistake actually but I was able to control myself and learn.
This is a bad mentality in gambling, not accepting our loses will make our journey hard and probably we might end up getting bankrupt in the long run.

As long as you learn from your mistakes, that will change your future.

Everyone makes mistakes in gambling especially when we were still a newbie, I also thought in the early stage of my gambling journey that winning is easy and I can fulfill my dreams here but that didn't happen, I learned the hard way and realize gambling is better if we just treat it for fun.

[Moiyah]

It is really hard to stop especially when you are losing and your thinking is to get back what you lose. Most of the gamblers are like these, greed to get back when losing and greedy if they won, they want to win more. In reality, our emotions are hard to control but I must admit that your advice should be followed. We have to know when to stop.

[Johnzky]

Nope don't accept defeat wherein always make a strategy to minimize losses .  Because if you always accept defeat on any gambling site you will end up losing money gradually and you will realize what you have done afterwards that can cause regrets . So always bear in mind to play safe and always make a specific move or decision before anything else because that's the most important on this kind of game.

Maybe what OP want us to understand is accepting defeat will give you chance to control your demand in time of wanting to win back the losses.
I can understand what he wanna say here because there is always a demand for every losers to bet still even though they knew that continuously losing is in their ways.

What you know OP wantes to say is:
When you have $100 to gamble for the night and lose all after a couple of hours then stop at once and accept your defeat. Go home with unwounded budget and stop being greedy taking back your loss.

But it doesnt mean you are winning big like what the title said. Its just minimizing the loss.

Exactly mate,that’s what also what I wanted him to understand I only use other way to express but its indeed that we must accept our defeat for the said time and maybe come back again the next time and do same attitude .in the end what’s best here is just allocate some exact of definite amount everytime that we wanted to play so the risk of losing big is lessen and the control in our self will be in practice as always

This is the best way of doing it but this is also easier said than done. I personally know of someone who gambles almost on a daily basis. The good thing is that he sets aside a specific amount of money for it and will never exceed that if he ends up unlucky. If he is lucky, he is also setting a strict amount of winning for him to call it a day and pack up. I call it sheer discipline and I take my hat off to such kind of person.

Personally, though, I am easily swayed by the fun in gambling, and probably the insuppressible feeling to get back or to recover one's loss, that I often end up losing more than I supposed to.

Correct on that mate,and actually that’s what I am pointing from the very start because that’s what is my strategy now.
being a former gambling addict from my younger age and that’s what I’ve learn from experiences.

now everytime I decide to gamble online I make sure wifey is around and she will allow me to use specific amount and also a target winning.
if I reached both the capital losing or the winning amount I will quit and try again the next time.
i know it’s hard but if we will try our best to control our lust (ofcourse with the help of someone close to us)for sure we will skip being a loser always

[emberbekas]

hello gamblers
many players are complaining about the way they always get busted, they keep playing in the same way and they are doing nothing but making their loss bigger. the point here is not about greed or being greedy, its all about the right time to stop which is very hard since no one can predict the next move in gambling. many players make good profits but they keep playing instead of stoping, and it always leads to one result,,,bust. how ? once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover, and it ends up losing all they have, the case here is not about greed, but about accepting defead. once you accept the loss and say ( its enough losing ) you can take what left from your profit, do it over and over and you will make a good profit.
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

When we are able to accept loss, that means we aren't greedy. Stopping at some points, especially at losses state, is indeed will help us to calm down our emotions therefore when we come to gambling place again, we are already fresh and can forget the previous loss. My point here is, although we can accept our loss, that doesn't mean we will become a successful gambler. Gambling just to get fun would be better tho!

[DoublerHunter]

If you are not consistently defeated in gambling and end up with the profit I accept that. In gambling, there should be a defeat but that is not good if it is consistently in a row, we can not avoid that matter. Nevertheless, we can not chase big profit on gambling if your capital is too small to start with. But, you can gamble not for only seeking profit, it is just for fun and limits the capital that you ready to lose.

[Ranly123]

hello gamblers
many players are complaining about the way they always get busted, they keep playing in the same way and they are doing nothing but making their loss bigger. the point here is not about greed or being greedy, its all about the right time to stop which is very hard since no one can predict the next move in gambling. many players make good profits but they keep playing instead of stoping, and it always leads to one result,,,bust. how ? once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover, and it ends up losing all they have, the case here is not about greed, but about accepting defead. once you accept the loss and say ( its enough losing ) you can take what left from your profit, do it over and over and you will make a good profit.
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

Does this mean, if losses piles up then we should stop gambling? Yes, it's about greed to take back what is lost but it's in the nature of a gambler not to stop even in lossing streak. So accepting defeat is not a gamblers way.

[Muzika]

hello gamblers
many players are complaining about the way they always get busted, they keep playing in the same way and they are doing nothing but making their loss bigger. the point here is not about greed or being greedy, its all about the right time to stop which is very hard since no one can predict the next move in gambling. many players make good profits but they keep playing instead of stoping, and it always leads to one result,,,bust. how ? once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover, and it ends up losing all they have, the case here is not about greed, but about accepting defead. once you accept the loss and say ( its enough losing ) you can take what left from your profit, do it over and over and you will make a good profit.
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

you cant blame gamblers if they want to continue to gamble for the sake of pleasure,greediness or the chance to make some profit after loses, greediness is not good if they only have a little capital, just always remember gamble for diversion purpose and not to lose most of your money.

[zhea]

That's the beauty of gambling in my opinion, you can improve the way you gamble to achieve your ultimate goal which is to win big and it is not an easy process as you loss some money but with the attitude of "Quitter's never wins, Winner's never quits" you can overcome those obstacles.

[michellee]

hello gamblers
many players are complaining about the way they always get busted, they keep playing in the same way and they are doing nothing but making their loss bigger. the point here is not about greed or being greedy, its all about the right time to stop which is very hard since no one can predict the next move in gambling. many players make good profits but they keep playing instead of stoping, and it always leads to one result,,,bust. how ? once they make good profits and starts to lose they refuse to accept the defeat and keep playing to recover, and it ends up losing all they have, the case here is not about greed, but about accepting defead. once you accept the loss and say ( its enough losing ) you can take what left from your profit, do it over and over and you will make a good profit.
if you want to be successful in gambling accept the defeat first, and the game is all yours.
best of luck rolling

Does this mean, if losses piles up then we should stop gambling? Yes, it's about greed to take back what is lost but it's in the nature of a gambler not to stop even in lossing streak. So accepting defeat is not a gamblers way.

I think to stop gambling for a while will be the best solution for gamblers to take a break and stay calm because when we lose, we will feel that we have a chance to win in the next game. But if we continue, we don't know how big our chance to win but we will have the opportunity to get more losses in the next game. So stop gambling will help you to calm down, release tension, and take a deep breath.

[boyptc]

its all about the right time to stop which is very hard since no one can predict the next move in gambling.

It would be hard if you have no discipline.

This is one typical problem that each gambler is dealing with. We have different approach on when's the right time to stop. The solution is to practice discipline when you gamble and be aware of your actions.

[Indamuck]

I think people just go in with unrealistic expectations and they keep playing until they are disappointed.  If you are going to gamble it is best to set achievable goals that are actually reachable and be prepared to walk away if you make that much.

[Russlenat]

I think people just go in with unrealistic expectations and they keep playing until they are disappointed.  If you are going to gamble it is best to set achievable goals that are actually reachable and be prepared to walk away if you make that much.

That should be, most of us make our own goal but not all of us can follow that goal.
Our problem can be normally seen when we are in the gambling session as it's really hard sometimes to initiate the plan or the goal as somethings we end up getting so greedy and we sometimes fail to control our emotion and I believe as long as have that kind of weakness, we will be able to make mistakes from time to time.