so in the event of a loss or theft of a hardware wallet one must look at a strong passphrase as a little time bought, not as a fail-safe.
That's actually a very good point. I know if I physically lost my Ledger wallet, I would be transferring everything out of it as soon as I possibly could, including everything I have hidden behind the various passphrases I use. I'm not actually counting on the wallet or the passphrase to be permanently secure; all I actually need is them to be secure for a maximum of a few hours until I can sweep my wallets.
When you put it like that, the passphrases I use are massive overkill. I use enough characters to make them similar to a 24 word seed (or 2^256) in terms of entropy, when in reality, far less than that would be sufficient to buy me the time I need. Still, better safe than sorry. I did want to get another hardware wallet to use as an off-site back-up, but then I would probably only be checking it once or twice a month to see if it had been accessed. Do I trust the wallet to remain secure that long, even with my passphrases? I'm not sure.