Gamble with a controlled mindset

[robelneo]

Ever had of a story of people who committed suicide or attempted it because they lost funds which is huge to them. Most of the stories are made up but also some a true and real.
I would never tell anyone to stop gambling come to think of it I gamble also myself but I will Ask we should be guided while doing so to avoid unseen calamity.

A chronic gambler will not commit suicide even if they lose a huge amount I read a story where a gambler loses millions of dollars and yet continues to live, as though nothing happens.

How can you control your mindset while gambling, this is really not easy I must say you are drawn to playing it over and over again it doesn't matter if you are winning or losing

If you a responsible person and you know your priority, coming to gambling and controlling your time to gamble will be easy

Get engaged in other things~ other than this helping out it can also fetch you funds that can be used for gambling or any other uses.

This is very important the urge to gamble will only be there if you don't have something to get busy in, like a business, a family a religious or anything that is interesting to you that is much better than gambling.

[andycarrol]

Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost, that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it. I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.

in what way to limit that? especially if the person is a heavy gambling addict, in my opinion the person needs a therapy, so that the person can choose when to stop (limit) so as not to spend all his money when profit or when losing. if not an addict, just a gambler, it might be easy to do that thing because from the beginning have mindset would not play too far (play safe) can limiting the amount of money and avoid spending a lot money.

if the case is that the person has become a heavy addict it would be difficult to change his mind. we should have known from the beginning, the purpose of gambling for what, for fun or for needs.
because if for needs you must be disciplined by limiting funds and having a winning target. while having fun, you are free to gamble, as long as you can control yourself.

[leea-1334]

Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost, that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it. I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.

The thing is,,, try to make sure you have a maximum limit of loss, and always always bear in mind that your emotion and feelings will come into play 100%

But if you make sure your money loss is limited, then no matter what, you cannot lose more than you can afford. How to do this? Get a friend to be with you, get someone you trust to watch you, and return the favor.

[AliMan]

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Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost, that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it. I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.

in what way to limit that? especially if the person is a heavy gambling addict, in my opinion the person needs a therapy, so that the person can choose when to stop (limit) so as not to spend all his money when profit or when losing. if not an addict, just a gambler, it might be easy to do that thing because from the beginning have mindset would not play too far (play safe) can limiting the amount of money and avoid spending a lot money.
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Is there any therapy services that offers that kind related with gambling addiction? Well, I don't thinks so, and  If I were to advice this certain problems that needs to be resolve seriously, limiting ourselves over gambling cannot be done that easy. Because when a person choosed to stop or limit himself, therapy is useless and will cost you huge amount of money. Every gambler who've already addicted, needs to seek any diversions of activities in many ways, that can be famlily time, events and anything that rehabilitates a person discreetly.

[doomistake]

You cannot control your mindset if your greediness is stronger than your dedication on controlling what you want to control, you'll always lose if you are not going to be honest to yourself, another factor that affects people in gambling that destroys their focus is their adoration about money. Those individuals who worships money are the worst gamblers, even not gamblers.

Why? it is simply because they are willing to risk everything just to get the money they want, they are even willing to offer their life on it, like borrowing money on loan sharks knowing that they could be killed if they couldn't pay their debt on time.

[hahay]

Having a controlled mindset in gambling is indeed a great way to take precedence because a healthy mindset like that will at least make you able to use your money better or wiser, meaning not to spend too much money on gambling because usually those who don't having a controlled mindset will spend a lot of money in gambling and don't know when the right time to stop.

[DoublerHunter]

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Why? it is simply because they are willing to risk everything just to get the money they want, they are even willing to offer their life on it, like borrowing money on loan sharks knowing that they could be killed if they couldn't pay their debt on time.

^ But for me, I won't generalize the situations. Because there are some gamblers that willing to risk a big amount of money but they can afford it. As they say, the higher amount you have been risking the greater the chances of profit you will get. Forget the profit, let's proceed to the words that can afford to lose even that is a big amount of money. Nevertheless, all of this is through controlling your self and that is very helpful for your own good.

[supercanada1]

The lucky things, i always have my own midset "Never doing a gamble using your own pocket" most of the money i used only from the payment freelance like Signature Campaign/Bounty. The reason i never using my own money, i don't want to get a crisis financial for my life because doing a gamble went i lose doing a gamble using my money (Payment from freelance) just feel i was really wasting my time.

So I would say your mindset is quite poor because this is in fact, your own money. Store it for a year and than try to waste it in gambling, you will see how hard it will be, just like "using your own pocket". I would advise you to stop lying to yourself. This is the exact reason why people develop problems with gambling. Honesty with thyself is the most important thing.
Fun and profits combined with the honest attitude that is, hard erned money wasting, is the best. Rationalising will only get you in trouble.

Every money is hard earned certainly. There is nothing wrong with gambling but no penny should be considered as free one because this is impossible to get cash without working hard for it. Most probably he earns through bounties for the sole purpose of using it in entertainment. I liked the division because he does not play with the other income source. So he is safe but must look for not becoming an addict.

[pixie85]

It is quite tough to handle the situation specially when you are in state of straight losing. It takes for about a days, weeks just for the individual to imbibe the clarity of controlling mindset whenever you gamble. In addition, sometimes it is not about learning but to an individual itself who taught and mold by culture of having a good mindset and perspective towards life.

If you can't follow your plan when you start losing you don't really have a plan or are too stupid to gamble.

Plan is there to be followed. If you know that you have to quit after hitting certain number and don't do it you should not gamble. What would you say a driver who has to go from point a to point b and then turns half way and gets lost in some woods? If he can't follow the path he should find another job.

[Lucasgabd]

It is quite tough to handle the situation specially when you are in state of straight losing. It takes for about a days, weeks just for the individual to imbibe the clarity of controlling mindset whenever you gamble. In addition, sometimes it is not about learning but to an individual itself who taught and mold by culture of having a good mindset and perspective towards life.

If you can't follow your plan when you start losing you don't really have a plan or are too stupid to gamble.

Plan is there to be followed. If you know that you have to quit after hitting certain number and don't do it you should not gamble. What would you say a driver who has to go from point a to point b and then turns half way and gets lost in some woods? If he can't follow the path he should find another job.

definitely this!
discipline equals freedom.

if you're able to trace your first plan, follow it!
if you don't have a plan, don't gamble.

and NEVER hamble with money you can't afford to loose. like rent's money or somebody else's money.

[Debonaire217]

Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost, that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it. I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.

Basically the reason is because we want to get back the lose that we've had when playing, for me, my experience in gambling especially when I don't stop is because I lose, to the point that I want to stop but I am still thinking of ways how get my funds back so I continue playing. Sometimes I win, but most of the times, I lose. Thus, implying that we should stop already and let the lose be forgotten. Continue playing tomorrow and also bet the money we are willing to lose.

[Reatim]

Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost,

that is obviously Greed is what you are talking about,sometimes the love for money is what brings us failures,so many times that we are already winning but we don't find it enough so the thing is we demand for much more.

that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it.

and that is what we need to overcome,not just a controlled mindset but the Lust and Greediness in which part of characteristic and not just an ordinary attitude.

I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.

but if you have no control this is impossible because we will always seek for opportunity to get/provide money to play still.better to prepare our self first before getting into deeper gambling habit.

[bering]

People common mindset when they try to gambling is they really hoping will always win and if they lost then into their mind is how to recover it and back again to gambling so this is can lead people to being an addicted but luckly for me that my mindset while gamble is i was ready to accept my lost which mean i never pushing myself to always win everytime i gamble and i think this mindset  can save me from addiction

[kotajikikox]

what i remember is my friend being Killed because he won a big amount in local gambling,it is sad that just because of money from gambling someone needs to give his life.

this is what lesson we've got from our gambling ways,that never let anybody learn of our winning and this is what also lead us to play Online for more safer gambling habit.

if they lost then into their mind is how to recover it and back again to gambling so this is can lead people to being an addicted

but this is what we must learn to over power because if not?then we will always lose and expect more worst scenario in future.

[MonsterV]

You cannot control your mindset if your greediness is stronger than your dedication on controlling what you want to control, you'll always lose if you are not going to be honest to yourself, another factor that affects people in gambling that destroys their focus is their adoration about money. Those individuals who worships money are the worst gamblers, even not gamblers.

Mindset is a person's mind that is deep so that it reaches a certain level that ultimately produces confidence. Mindset is formed from the beginning before gambling is done, when someone can not produce that belief it will be difficult to avoid greed and people who are greedy are people who have not reached their beliefs.

[Genemind]

There's actually a piece of recent news in our place where a wife has committed suicide because she has lost all their assets and properties because she really got addicted to gambling. It was frustrating for the husband because he really worked hard just to give his family a great life. That's the reason why we have to be mindful and we should know how to control emotions so we'll never have regrets in the future. Setting a target goal and knowing when to stop is still an advantage. It's mind over matter and we have to think of the possible consequences of our decisions and actions.

[angrybirdy]

Controlling yourself while gambling is hard, especially if you are enjoying the game from your winnings and if you are experiencing a lose streak that you can't get back all of your lost,

that is obviously Greed is what you are talking about,sometimes the love for money is what brings us failures,so many times that we are already winning but we don't find it enough so the thing is we demand for much more.

No, it is not the love for money, it is the needs and our own mindset of money is all that we need. It drives a person in everything when it comes to money.

that is why a lot of gamblers are greedy and ends up getting addicted to it.

and that is what we need to overcome,not just a controlled mindset but the Lust and Greediness in which part of characteristic and not just an ordinary attitude.

Which is really hard. There are some people who can overcome it, but most of the gamblers, they just end up in the same direction where they will become addicted to it.

I think the best way to control yourself while gambling is by limiting the amount of your money to avoid spending a huge amount of profit and to continue to play.

but if you have no control this is impossible because we will always seek for opportunity to get/provide money to play still.better to prepare our self first before getting into deeper gambling habit.

It will only become possible if there is someone that will guide you and stop you once you can't limit yourself to gambling. Having self-control is hard but with the help of someone dear to you, it will become possible.

[peter0425]

You cannot control your mindset if your greediness is stronger than your dedication on controlling what you want to control, you'll always lose if you are not going to be honest to yourself, another factor that affects people in gambling that destroys their focus is their adoration about money. Those individuals who worships money are the worst gamblers, even not gamblers.

Mindset is a person's mind that is deep so that it reaches a certain level that ultimately produces confidence. Mindset is formed from the beginning before gambling is done, when someone can not produce that belief it will be difficult to avoid greed and people who are greedy are people who have not reached their beliefs.

greed person has no beliefs but to gather more and more,they don't even have adjustments thats why they mostly fail in gambling.

and greed people will never win,because they don't have contentment in life so the more they earn is the more they seek for another.

[ethereumhunter]

Gambling with a controlled mindset will never easy as we know because many gamblers lose their minds when they see a chance to win in gambling. They will continue to play gambling, no matter if they lose. They will think that what they do will be worth it, and if they don't try, they never know what the result is. That can make they got to lose all of their money because without having to control our mind, we will end up by losing all of the money.

[DabsPoorVersion]

You cannot control your mindset if your greediness is stronger than your dedication on controlling what you want to control, you'll always lose if you are not going to be honest to yourself, another factor that affects people in gambling that destroys their focus is their adoration about money. Those individuals who worships money are the worst gamblers, even not gamblers.

Mindset is a person's mind that is deep so that it reaches a certain level that ultimately produces confidence. Mindset is formed from the beginning before gambling is done, when someone can not produce that belief it will be difficult to avoid greed and people who are greedy are people who have not reached their beliefs.

greed person has no beliefs but to gather more and more,they don't even have adjustments thats why they mostly fail in gambling.

and greed people will never win,because they don't have contentment in life so the more they earn is the more they seek for another.

Yes, and that is the main reason why most of them getting addicted and do terrible things that affect not only their life but also their family.
I do agree. as long as they feel that they are lucky, they will push through their luck, repeating the same scenario until they get more addicted.