Decisions for a better life

[Debonaire217]

As you said, gambling can't be the first priority thought, It's so risky and at any time you can lose all of your money. Choosing family and holding your money is the better choice to be honest, I'm not saying that you'll just quit gambling forever, people can just gamble, but at least they need to control themselves and do not be greedy.

In life you need to put any thing in order for us to make a good decision. In life we need to prioritize our family first before anything else. Then career will be the next priority , it will bring us the money that we can use to support the needs, our gambling profession right now is what should I call career. Put everything in moderation and the rest will follow.

Would it be better if we consider our career first then family? Basically my principle in life is to first tackle all the needs of myself, especially to improve myself and if I have enough, or more than enough then I will help my family, in addition, that is the time I could spend some funds in gambling considering its risk for me to get addicted, I will enhance my self control.

[Hippocrypto]

As you said, gambling can't be the first priority thought, It's so risky and at any time you can lose all of your money. Choosing family and holding your money is the better choice to be honest, I'm not saying that you'll just quit gambling forever, people can just gamble, but at least they need to control themselves and do not be greedy.

In life you need to put any thing in order for us to make a good decision. In life we need to prioritize our family first before anything else. Then career will be the next priority , it will bring us the money that we can use to support the needs, our gambling profession right now is what should I call career. Put everything in moderation and the rest will follow.

Would it be better if we consider our career first then family? Basically my principle in life is to first tackle all the needs of myself, especially to improve myself and if I have enough, or more than enough then I will help my family, in addition, that is the time I could spend some funds in gambling considering its risk for me to get addicted, I will enhance my self control.

Good thing if we can manage to initiate self control boost even though you're in middle of a gambling addiction. One thing that's very important in our self control was, family's important time particular on spending very memorable situations that gambling can't even buy those wasted days. Family was the most priority of all, so strive harder to make gambling to be a least priority just to overcome addiction.

[Mumbeeptind1963]

But it is hard to say gambling is a career because if people are trying to use gambling for searching for money, they will not feel easy to make money. People will only lose money if they cannot play with cautious because gambling is something that they can use for having fun. Gambling will be like that, we cannot bring that money, and we should know that the family is the most important than gambling.

If people would take gambling as only source of money they I would say that it is not a career. We dont need to stop gambling if that is our recreational activity and if makes us fun. But I think few more months from now I will stop it, since I want to have a break on it , and focus on other things. We should not get addicted on it.

[mitchr4]

But it is hard to say gambling is a career because if people are trying to use gambling for searching for money, they will not feel easy to make money. People will only lose money if they cannot play with cautious because gambling is something that they can use for having fun. Gambling will be like that, we cannot bring that money, and we should know that the family is the most important than gambling.

If people would take gambling as only source of money they I would say that it is not a career. We dont need to stop gambling if that is our recreational activity and if makes us fun. But I think few more months from now I will stop it, since I want to have a break on it , and focus on other things. We should not get addicted on it.

Making money by playing gambling is not a problem as long as you don't prioritize it. If in an urgent situation or want something looking for money by playing gambling is the right choice you can get money easily without asking for a loan. Just don't think gambling is the main thing to get money at least you have a real job and a fixed salary to finance your future life.

[Betwrong]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

I would never pursue a career of successful gambler because I'm trying to eliminate uncertainty, as much as possible, from my life, and there is a lot of uncertainty in gambling. If you have wife and kids, you are no longer risking by yourself alone, but you are putting all of them at risk. A family man just can't rely on something with so much chaos in it as gambling.

Yes, you can try to put some order in it by sharpening your skills and inventing various strategies, but that should be done for entertainment purposes only. The welfare of your family shouldn't depend on your luck.

[stadus]

I would never pursue a career of successful gambler because I'm trying to eliminate uncertainty, as much as possible, from my life, and there is a lot of uncertainty in gambling. If you have wife and kids, you are no longer risking by yourself alone, but you are putting all of them at risk. A family man just can't rely on something with so much chaos in it as gambling.

That's pretty safe, but if you have the skills, aren't you gonna invest on it?
well, I get your point, not every gambler are willing to take that journey due to its risk level and even if we really tried our best, there's no guarantee that we will be successful in the end. I don't know, maybe it's just me, until now, I am still looking for ways to improve my skills and to be consistent as it has been a dream of mine to make big money in gambling, which until now I can't still find a clear path to walk.

[doomistake]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

I would never pursue a career of successful gambler because I'm trying to eliminate uncertainty, as much as possible, from my life, and there is a lot of uncertainty in gambling. If you have wife and kids, you are no longer risking by yourself alone, but you are putting all of them at risk. A family man just can't rely on something with so much chaos in it as gambling.

Yes, you can try to put some order in it by sharpening your skills and inventing various strategies, but that should be done for entertainment purposes only. The welfare of your family shouldn't depend on your luck.

Very well said, I think this is the answer that I wanted to hear about what I've posted, this is the most realistic and the accurate answer I'm waiting since I've posted this topic.

Just like what you have said, it is indeed should be done only for entertainment purposes only but beyond that, you have to think always that you have family on the line to feed and to take care of, that includes their needs and wants in life, and you can't support that if all of your money is always getting in the bankroll of any gambling sites.

P.S: gonna close this thread now.

Happy New Year guys.

[vintages]

As you said, gambling can't be the first priority thought, It's so risky and at any time you can lose all of your money. Choosing family and holding your money is the better choice to be honest, I'm not saying that you'll just quit gambling forever, people can just gamble, but at least they need to control themselves and do not be greedy.

In life you need to put any thing in order for us to make a good decision. In life we need to prioritize our family first before anything else. Then career will be the next priority , it will bring us the money that we can use to support the needs, our gambling profession right now is what should I call career. Put everything in moderation and the rest will follow.

Totally true.
Gambling shouldn't be compared to life, family and career. Not that one can not take it serious: you should, especially when you are playing it. But it's shouldn't be made a priority.
Putting gambling as a priority will easily make way for addiction.

[Mahanton]

As you said, gambling can't be the first priority thought, It's so risky and at any time you can lose all of your money. Choosing family and holding your money is the better choice to be honest, I'm not saying that you'll just quit gambling forever, people can just gamble, but at least they need to control themselves and do not be greedy.

In life you need to put any thing in order for us to make a good decision. In life we need to prioritize our family first before anything else. Then career will be the next priority , it will bring us the money that we can use to support the needs, our gambling profession right now is what should I call career. Put everything in moderation and the rest will follow.

Totally true.
Gambling shouldn't be compared to life, family and career. Not that one can not take it serious: you should, especially when you are playing it. But it's shouldn't be made a priority.
Putting gambling as a priority will easily make way for addiction.

If we arent that sensible enough then expect for these things to happen.Gotten easily addicted not only on gambling but in all sorts of hobbies or things you are involved on.
We should know on whats priority and what is not.Balance things up then you would be fine and having a good live will vary into decisions that you do made along the way.
Gambling is just for fun no strings attached and if you do treat it differently then you're in big trouble.

[diazepam666]

We all know that being an addicted gambler is a very tough spot in our life, but what if you need to decide what to choose, your addiction or you family? i.e., the given situation will be that you need to decide on the spot if you want to pursue your "career" in gambling or make a good simple life with your family? what will you choose?

If we are planning for good life and good career gambling is not at all a choice for you we need to choose the best available options like service base works in crypto market.
I believe such business will be helpful than the gambling. It gives good enjoyment for the people who only cares about the fun life.

[joshy23]

As you said, gambling can't be the first priority thought, It's so risky and at any time you can lose all of your money. Choosing family and holding your money is the better choice to be honest, I'm not saying that you'll just quit gambling forever, people can just gamble, but at least they need to control themselves and do not be greedy.

In life you need to put any thing in order for us to make a good decision. In life we need to prioritize our family first before anything else. Then career will be the next priority , it will bring us the money that we can use to support the needs, our gambling profession right now is what should I call career. Put everything in moderation and the rest will follow.

Totally true.
Gambling shouldn't be compared to life, family and career. Not that one can not take it serious: you should, especially when you are playing it. But it's shouldn't be made a priority.
Putting gambling as a priority will easily make way for addiction.

Addictions that will place your life and your family into a big disasters, you should always give much of your time and money to yourself and your family not to this kind of activities. Having some fun is good enough not to the point that you'll keep engaging yourself and keep losing your savings. Think into
a much brighter side of your life, there's a good things around you and not only gambling.

[STT]

People throw around the word addiction too much.  I used to play every day for years and its not especially negative when its just a pasttime.  Its only a negative when the money is a big deal and its altering your ability to pay for basic things, the key base line for healthy use of betting platforms is only spend the spare cash, same as drinking or any luxury.

[ontrackk]

Family matters more than anything else. Money is nothing if there is no family, we earn money and we work hard because of our family, so choosing family over gambling is pretty obvious. This question may be for those too addicted to gambling who can not regulate their mind playing gambling. Perhaps choosing the two is hard for them.

[takingthis4]

Addiction occurs in various ways, some are addicted to alcohol, some to smoking, some to food, and so on. Only when you see your family suffering from your addiction does addiction become evil. So first decide what's good for your family and then think if your addiction causes your family to suffer. Then choose the right one. Thus I believe if you want to have a good life you can't be addicted to gambling

[ethereumhunter]

Money is very important nowadays. That is why we should be wise in handling it. Gambling could sometimes be a reason why we mismanage our funds especially when are addicted to it. Setting our priorities is very important to keep in track but the question is how we are seriously doing it cause it gonna be a big challenge and in most cases that we do first those who have less priority than the most important.

Yes, how we are serious about handling our money will be a big question and needs our attention because if it's not, we cannot hold the money in our pocket. We will always spend more and more money until all the money is gone. If we can know which is the priority in our life, and we know that gambling will be a part of life, then we will not spend much time in gambling. We can manage our time to gamble, to work, to spend for our family, so our life will be a balance.

If people would take gambling as only source of money they I would say that it is not a career. We dont need to stop gambling if that is our recreational activity and if makes us fun. But I think few more months from now I will stop it, since I want to have a break on it , and focus on other things. We should not get addicted on it.

No, I think it is hard to use gambling as a source of money. You will not have that chance because many people prove that, and they lose much money and time in gambling. That is great if you can think of a break and stop gambling because that is not good for your financial. You can prevent addicted if you can stop early.

[KnightElite]

People throw around the word addiction too much.  I used to play every day for years and its not especially negative when its just a pasttime.  Its only a negative when the money is a big deal and its altering your ability to pay for basic things, the key base line for healthy use of betting platforms is only spend the spare cash, same as drinking or any luxury.

It became negative if the addiction will lead you to choose to gamble your money than to spend it in important reason like paying bills and buying goods and services for our family. Gambling is fine as long we have control to our self, we should also have good gambling psychology in order for us to have better mindset. Why we will choose gambling over our family, those craze person will only choose gambling over their family.

[Fatunad]

People throw around the word addiction too much.  I used to play every day for years and its not especially negative when its just a pasttime.  Its only a negative when the money is a big deal and its altering your ability to pay for basic things, the key base line for healthy use of betting platforms is only spend the spare cash, same as drinking or any luxury.

It became negative if the addiction will lead you to choose to gamble your money than to spend it in important reason like paying bills and buying goods and services for our family. Gambling is fine as long we have control to our self, we should also have good gambling psychology in order for us to have better mindset. Why we will choose gambling over our family, those craze person will only choose gambling over their family.

You just repeated what the person above has said. Self control is hard to achieve in reality when you're addicted to gambling. Let me ask you how do you define an addicted gambler? Because there are gamblers who regularly gamble almost everyday through online or casino but they still managed to budget the cash for necessities and for luxury. Some of us here misinterpreted addicted gambler to a responsible gambler.

[The-Devil]

I'll choose both. I will live a simple life with my family and gamble. Because I can't quit gambling so easily. Gambling is like an everyday job for me. But I will try to gamble less. However, comparing the two, I will give more priority to my family. Because family is everything to me. Without gambling, I can stay but I cannot live without family. So I will try to live an average life with my family.

Thank you

[imstillthebest]

I'll choose both. I will live a simple life with my family and gamble. Because I can't quit gambling so easily. Gambling is like an everyday job for me. But I will try to gamble less. However, comparing the two, I will give more priority to my family. Because family is everything to me. Without gambling, I can stay but I cannot live without family. So I will try to live an average life with my family.

Thank you

im not impress that you say you choose both and you prioritize more your family but im more impress when you said that you you will live in a simple life  . i just hope that you keep that promise of yours when you already won a good amount of cash from playing  a gambling because you know most big winners were using thier money on a bad stuffs such as drugs , girls , more gambling  , etc  .  theyl end up broke forever and loosing thier minds   . we must commit a decision for a better life

[onrise]

I'll choose both. I will live a simple life with my family and gamble. Because I can't quit gambling so easily. Gambling is like an everyday job for me. But I will try to gamble less. However, comparing the two, I will give more priority to my family. Because family is everything to me. Without gambling, I can stay but I cannot live without family. So I will try to live an average life with my family.

Thank you

This is shocking as you know what you are doing and how it can result badly in the end and still into it . Take a resolution to learn new game or a new hobby which will help you to concentrate in new things and stay away from gambling .