3. Do not beg for merit
I have noticed some newbies that have no more than 2 posts and zero merit begging for merit. This signifies unseriously and a perfect no-fit to be among the forum members. Let your topics and posts do the work.
Exactly, it is not called merit for nothing. It is the result of your outstanding effort to contribute and help your fellow members. There's no need to beg when you can just use your knowledge to educate others and share your experiences to make good advice. It is not something to beg for, if you badly want it, then make an action. Don't depend on other people, that way you will be able to prove you deserve it.