THE MOST PAINFUL DAY IN MY BETTING CAREER

[iv4n]

There isn't a single gambler with all good days behind him! Painful days are normal as lucky days, one doesn't happen without other! And in the middle you have many days when we were even in the end of the day, so we don't count them. There's no light without dark, simple as that! If you count that you can be positive in gambling all the time, in the end of every gambling session, you will end up disappointed many times, so many times that it will hurt your mentally! It's why you gambling with what you can afford to lose, when your bankroll hits zero you just move from casino and take a break, after some time when you have money to spare try again!

[Alucard1]

What a sad story buddy, I feel so sad as well because we cannot turn back again the money that has lost to us in gambling, it is hard to the day that we can come back when we play again and try it again, that is the most common mistakes of every gambler once they lose, they always think that they can turn back the money by playing again but in the end, they lose again another money. We should always be careful about betting a huge amount of money, remember that the way we handle our money while gambling is really important for us.

[Naida_BR]

Well, the pain should have started when you bet 5k in a parlay of 12 matches.....!!!!!
How would you do that? You should have a huge fund for gambling according to that.
Another plan would be to cash out. You were waiting just one match and the odd was 1,27 so you would not get very little from your expected return if you would have cashed out initially.

[Darkelf11]

'Do not count your chicks until they are hatched.

I am also believing on this saying too, however, there are times that you cannot take off your excitement so easily, it's hard with the fact that you have a very good potential to win or get a certain thing, and your whole body just get excited more as the clock ticks.
It's exhausting after the chicks that you've been expecting and counting for does not arrived.

[Latviand]

What was already money turned to stone.

This quote is one of the most popular proverbs in my country that mostly used by people who lose an amount of money in the brink of time for being unlucky. Well its said not to celebrate too early when you have yet not got the money on your hands, it must be the most upsetting time for a gambler who expects it coming and then suddenly lost it all.

Due to greed, we can really relate on this quote because we know that if we win, that is our lucky day.

Sometimes we need to consider that lucky day is far different from being lucky in a short period of time.

If we know how to control and if we know how to become contented in a certain winnings, we should think for several times if we will continue or not. Sometimes it is true that don't celebrate too early especially that if it is not yet the end of your gambling hours. Don't be upset because you lose, it is your own accountability why you lose your winnings.

[TedMosby]

that is a hardcore bet. $5,000 for a mix parlay bet, for 12 matches, 67 odds.
I've never placed a bet higher than $5.

but..

I have experience with sportbetting affiliate program.
Usually I got bonus from this affiliate program every first day of the month.
on the last day of that month, it said that I will got like $2,200.
but when I woke in the next day, I got nothing.
when I checked the stats, I saw that one of my referral got a big win.
it's enough to make my bonus turned to minus 

[Becky666]

Well, the pain should have started when you bet 5k in a parlay of 12 matches.....!!!!!
How would you do that? You should have a huge fund for gambling according to that.
Another plan would be to cash out. You were waiting just one match and the odd was 1,27 so you would not get very little from your expected return if you would have cashed out initially.

The problem with the cashing out when you're winning some bets but left with those whom you believe take huge grace and encouragement. Though Cash out after the very few games in the bet sometimes look odd because the rest games could be successful after cash out. Some of my games last season where half cash out because of this uncertainty that happened to this dude, so, better to take half bread than to miss the loaf.

[2double0]

I don't remember the exact date but the worst day 'night tbh' was when I had a BTC0.2 bet on 10 matches and I was going to win BTC20 but lost because of one match loss and at that time (in 2016), there was no 1 match insurance (like in Sportsbet) in the website I made this bet on.

[Ridwan Fauzi]

That's a huge amount of money, I never try to do that. I'm still remember high money that I spend to play gambling was $100 when I start to play, didn't know much about the gambling dice but I just bet my money and never use a specific strategy. And just need several times my money was burn and I it hurt to see that happen.

I guess there will be many people who spend a lot money when they just started. Because they will have a healthy mind and focus to get win, different with a gambler who has been several times to play the games, they will know and wearing a money management to play. When he should bet a huge money because they believe that he has a high chance to win and they spend a little bet because he is not confident to do that.

[agustina2]

For an experience like this, it's hard to move on.

It's ok to cry but we need to move forward and come back better. Either we still want to gamble or end it up now because of that experience.

Take that as a motivation.

[Hippocrypto]

There isn't a single gambler with all good days behind him! Painful days are normal as lucky days, one doesn't happen without other! And in the middle you have many days when we were even in the end of the day, so we don't count them. There's no light without dark, simple as that! If you count that you can be positive in gambling all the time, in the end of every gambling session, you will end up disappointed many times, so many times that it will hurt your mentally! It's why you gambling with what you can afford to lose, when your bankroll hits zero you just move from casino and take a break, after some time when you have money to spare try again!

This is the saddest part of gambling if a person can't manage financially, it would turn out bad most of the time. However, learning how to control someone's emotion would certainly fix something that really making it hard by the time of pressures. We must move forward and don't let fear and anxieties be the stoppage of our desires in winning with our favorite bets.

[goinmerry]

Charge it to experience. Before we do gambling, we should already know that something worst has a chance to happen. That's why it called gambling to win or lose.

I understand the frustration. It's really hard to accept when something you don't expect happened.

Moving on might take time but we can come back stronger and do our best not to have a bad experience again.

[TimeTeller]

Charge it to experience. Before we do gambling, we should already know that something worst has a chance to happen. That's why it called gambling to win or lose.

I understand the frustration. It's really hard to accept when something you don't expect happened.

Moving on might take time but we can come back stronger and do our best not to have a bad experience again.

If you condition yourself before getting inside the casino, you will be more accepting with the results.
But if you have high hopes with your bets and if it is as if your life is depending on it, then, you will have trouble afterwards.
At some point in our gambling life, we need to evaluate ourselves if we are ready for this life.
Because if not, better divert your attention to other things that will improve your quality of life.

[Lanatsa]

Charge it to experience. Before we do gambling, we should already know that something worst has a chance to happen. That's why it called gambling to win or lose.

I understand the frustration. It's really hard to accept when something you don't expect happened.

Moving on might take time but we can come back stronger and do our best not to have a bad experience again.

It doesn't need to come back stronger but to comeback on having those self realizations that gambling doesn't really work on that way.

We should really move on but on the way that we shouldn't chase up loses on next game because its somewhat common that people do keep on playing on the other day
just because theyre tending to chase up their loses which is really a very bad idea.

Painful stuffs is just normal when you do engage on gambling because we do know that we are risking our precious money.

[smyslov]

  That was how my hope of winning 260k bet was dashed. I can never forget that very day in hurry, Sunday 10 Nov.2013
 

That will be seven years ago but it's still haunts you well anybody will feel the same that's such a huge amount to ignore, you have to get over it you can make it a learning experiences but going back to the pain of not getting the win is not good for you in the long run, every gamblers have that experienced but we must take that ghost out of our system so we can play better.

[maydna]

  That was how my hope of winning 260k bet was dashed. I can never forget that very day in hurry, Sunday 10 Nov.2013
 

That will be seven years ago but it's still haunts you well anybody will feel the same that's such a huge amount to ignore, you have to get over it you can make it a learning experiences but going back to the pain of not getting the win is not good for you in the long run, every gamblers have that experienced but we must take that ghost out of our system so we can play better.

Every bad experience will still haunt us, no matter if that thing happened a long time ago. Our memories will keep that in our minds, and it will never leave us. But we can try to distract our minds not to think about that bad experience by doing something else that will make us happy. Perhaps, we need just to accept that worst experience and tell ourselves that we don't want to get the same thing, and we want to be a better person in the future.

It will need time to make peace with that feeling or experience, and we need to try every day. I am sure that we can do that, especially if we want to reduce our gambling time.

[Wexnident]

Welp, no use in crying over spilled milk. We all have those what-if moments, not just in gambling, in fact, every day in our lives we often think about what if moments, intentionally or not. Though mostly in you're case, it's actually just a what-if situation that was reliant on others, not on yourself, which probably makes it a lot more painful than normal. It'd probably be best if you actually moved on from it, or make it a laughing matter at that since remembering would only be detrimental for your mental health. Or, you can just remember the actual good days you know, since most people tend to forget those and instead remember the painful ones.

[Kong Hey Pakboy]

Welp, no use in crying over spilled milk. We all have those what-if moments, not just in gambling, in fact, every day in our lives we often think about what if moments, intentionally or not. Though mostly in you're case, it's actually just a what-if situation that was reliant on others, not on yourself, which probably makes it a lot more painful than normal. It'd probably be best if you actually moved on from it, or make it a laughing matter at that since remembering would only be detrimental for your mental health. Or, you can just remember the actual good days you know, since most people tend to forget those and instead remember the painful ones.

Indeed. We mostly have those what-if moments no matter what age we are that we sometimes became anxious about our decisions if it will have a good or lousy output. It's painful, or sometimes we feel disappointed when the events or decision that we expect happened differently at all, that is why we should always "expect the unexpected" for us not to be surprised when we try to bet in gambling. Expecting the unexpected will also help us to enjoy gambling because we don't expect considerable winnings in return and our only goal is entertainment or leisure time.

[mich]

When we read a story likes this we all think he same thing that you should have made yourself quit when you are ahead.
But of course this not possible to do now. 10 Nov. will always be a painful day for you but you have support of people here if you need to express your feelings.
260k is so much money you should not be gabbling with this amounts ever again. 

[iv4n]

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This is the saddest part of gambling if a person can't manage financially, it would turn out bad most of the time. However, learning how to control someone's emotion would certainly fix something that really making it hard by the time of pressures. We must move forward and don't let fear and anxieties be the stoppage of our desires in winning with our favorite bets.

8. “At gambling, the deadly sin is to mistake bad play for bad luck.” -James Bond book.
When you gambling you need to know what you are doing, how you are doing it. It's not just placing random bets and hoping for the big win, you need some plan! It's one part of the gambling, other is how you're handling with wins/loses! You can't allow big wins/loses to blurry your mind and make you change your plan, experience will tell you that changing your plan based on your current emotional state will do more harm than good! Changes are good, don't get me wrong here, but changes must come from logical thinking, not from your emotions. In gambling risk is always present, think of it like this, more coolheaded you are, more chances you have to be profitable. With the rising heat, risks is rising too.