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March 17, 2022, 07:41:10 PM |
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Today many tend to believe people are pretending, not minding to know the present situation or probably the shits such persons might be facing. Like the popular saying goes, "twenty friends can't play together for twenty years", people that are close to you might slowly recede from you especially when they are not gaining anything resourceful from you, ranging from financial, attention, care, ideas, connections and updates, etc.
In our present world you should understand that priority has taken over humanity, in that no one ventures into a non_profitable business, not equally you. Moreso, in a world as this, putting yourself first is a quintessential antidote especially, for one who is genuinely a good person, so as not to feel fooled or having the feeling of have being surrounded by fake friends/people who benefits from you and disappear only to reappear when another need arises. For when you have the mental pictured of yourself as one who's naturally good, people's actions and inactions towards you won't take a torn on you ( whether positive or negative).
Going further, and viewing this from a another perspective, some persons are the sole reason why they are cut off or left behind from the circle. From a background check on oneself you will come to the realization that you're not bringing anything valuable to the table and that had made you irrelevant, insignificant, and non_garmane to the circle. The very moment many persons realize this inevitable truth and accept it and let go of any negative feelings towards the cut_off or jettisoning, letting go of any feeling of depression and rejection. And take the decision of building and developing yourself to a height not expected by any, then, when you create such value within yourself, you will observe that everyone that ran off will starting fighting their way back to you, like a magnetic_pull.
Just like the popular saying goes,"value/wealth has many relatives but loss/want/poverty is an orphan.
In conclusion, make yourself valuable or add value to yourself by all means legitimately possible and stop complaining about being abandoned or forgotten by people, cause no one wants to attach themselves to things of no value, (not even you).
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