Your value counts

[Markinzo]

Today many tend to believe people are pretending, not minding to know the present situation or probably the shits such persons might be facing. Like the popular saying goes, "twenty friends can't play together for twenty years", people that are close to you might slowly recede from you especially when they are not gaining anything resourceful from you, ranging from financial, attention, care, ideas, connections and updates, etc.

In our present world you should understand that priority has taken over humanity, in that no one ventures into a non_profitable business, not equally you. Moreso, in a world as this, putting yourself first is a quintessential antidote especially, for one who is genuinely a good person, so as not to feel fooled or having the feeling of have being surrounded by fake friends/people who benefits from you and disappear only to reappear when another need arises. For when you have the mental pictured of yourself as one who's naturally good, people's actions and inactions towards you won't take a torn on you ( whether positive or negative).

Going further, and viewing this from a another perspective, some persons are the sole reason why they are cut off or left behind from the circle. From a background check on oneself you will come to the realization that you're not bringing anything valuable to the table and that had made you irrelevant, insignificant, and non_garmane to the circle. The very moment many persons realize this inevitable truth and accept it and let go of any negative feelings towards the cut_off or jettisoning, letting go of any feeling of depression and rejection. And take the decision of building and developing yourself to a height not expected by any, then, when you create such value within yourself, you will observe  that everyone that ran off will starting fighting their way back to you, like a magnetic_pull.

Just like the popular saying goes,"value/wealth has many relatives but loss/want/poverty is an orphan.

In conclusion, make yourself valuable or add value to yourself by all means legitimately possible and stop complaining about being abandoned or forgotten by people,  cause no one wants to attach themselves to things of no value, (not even you).

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[Raymond Gary]

In this our 21 Century, no one wants to go with someone without a value , for someone to be important in the society and won't be left out in the society you must have a unique thing that you offer that will differenciate you from others or a problem that you help people to solve and this in turn gives you value , it can be skills, Advice, Mentoring etc. The Ecomists said that the value of money is what money can buy. In order words if you relate or imply this to humans, that means the value of a person is what that person can offer.

[nakamura12]

This seems to be a motivational thread when I read some of it but I read some things that are made me think something else. Though I did read some of the wall of text but it is not true that some would cut-off or remove any attachments to another person when you don't have any value or you won't get anything valuable. Friendship is also valuable but compared to other values then it is more like a sideline if it's a job. What you have stated is another way of portraying yourself as a gold digger because of the last thing you stated and also what you mostly say is you have to make create such value to yourself.

cause no one wants to attach themselves to things of no value, (not even you).

[Doan9269]

In our present world you should understand that priority has taken over humanity, in that no one ventures into a non_profitable business, not equally you. Moreso, in a world as this, putting yourself first is a quintessential antidote especially, for one who is genuinely a good person, so as not to feel fooled or having the feeling of have being surrounded by fake friends/people who benefits from you and disappear only to reappear when another need arises.

Understanding the principle of live is very important that what goes up surely comes down but may not necessarily landed at the same arrival point, meaning that if you invest on people, they may not really be the same person to pay you back, we tend to help people atimes and sit down to wait for their pay back, but you can always ensure that your investment on people do really worth it, meaning that help those that will maximize their potentials through your impact in their lives.

[GeorgeJohn]

In this our 21 Century, no one wants to go with someone without a value , for someone to be important in the society and won't be left out in the society you must have a unique thing that you offer that will differenciate you from others or a problem that you help people to solve and this in turn gives you value , it can be skills, Advice, Mentoring etc. The Ecomists said that the value of money is what money can buy. In order words if you relate or imply this to humans, that means the value of a person is what that person can offer.

One thing we doesn't understand in this life is that, you may differentiate yourself from others and thinking you are in right track, i know it's courageous to be innovated in all ramifications, but emulations is the principal key of values and also add additional things to human life cycle in all forms, been creative is what people will assimilate that will give you a preferential credit, so i agree with buddy.

[Smartvirus]

You know, value could be all that is to life. In most things we do ethically, we tend to apply the concept of value. We use it in a trades, exchanges and defining a person's or something's worth. Having that in mind, that value defines worth, you've got to prove to yourself, someone and to the world that you aren't worth loosing.

A cup of water might mean everything to someone on the desert but means nothing to someone in the delta and coastal region. In life, people have got to surround themselves with those that inspire them to be more or enable them carry an energy that pushes forward to where they need to be. Anything short of it could bring about a lot of comfort which isn't desirable for a person person is enthusiast towards a goal.

Hence, you don't have to feel left out when cut off but instead, find that which makes you special and build on it to add value with yourself.

[darkangel11]

You're right OP, but valuable people also have to watch out for people who are there only so that they can use them as stepping stones in their own career.
People are selfish in nature and you need high empathy and education to evolve into a selfless being. When you're poor, people avoid you, but when you're rich they seek your attention and respect. Life is never easy.

Just like the popular saying goes,"value/wealth has many relatives but loss/want/poverty is an orphan.

I know this as "a victory has many fathers but a defeat is an orphan".

[Agbe]

One can have value but pride can kill the value one has.

Can you value yourself when nothing is found in you. Valuing oneself come with self respect.. prestige, reputation.

You value yourself yet people will disrespect you because you are poor..

Valueing oneself is not the guarantee to have respect, but working on oneself in a specific area of knowledge will make you to receive that respect and value from people..

[decodx]

OP, I don't completely agree with you. We should all make the effort to seek help on the situations that we do not have solutions for and to overcome the challenges we face in our lives. Sometimes even the best leaders do not know the correct solution to a problem. Every human being will face numerous challenges in his/her lifetime. It's just how you handle them that makes the difference. That's how growth happens!