A Chinese Man Won $29,392,922.00 & Refused to tell His Wife and child

[Ttelas]

A southern China Mann won 219 millions Yuan which is equivalent to $29,392,922.00 and kept all bybhim himself without telling his wife and child for the fear that it will change their life and will not make them not to work again. And he gave 5 millions yuan to charity home. And contemplating what to do with the remaining amount. He said, "I didn't tell my wife and child, for the fear that they would be too complacent and would not work or hard work in the future".
What do say about this kind of man?

Man Keeps Whopping N13 Billion in Lottery Winnings from His Family: “I Didn’t Tell My Wife and Child”

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[makishart]

I think that is not something new in the gambling. There are bunch of news about the winner refused to publish their identity for the various reason. Im thinking about that guy may not wanna see his wife knows if he was actively doing gambling. That's why even he was winning big reward and his wife may become lazy to did work with him caused by he understood once someone was winning big reward and it can make his family become lazy and they didn't wanna work again. I think that must become most potential reason why he didn't wanna tell his wife and child about his reward from doing gambling.
There were so many old cases that pretty similar with it. From his reason if he wants also educate his family to always working hard and not depends with the reward that already won.
that's such a very wise decision by him to educate his family.

[Oshosondy]

What do say about this kind of man?

If this is true, I always dislike this kind of people with stupid mentality of poorness. We have discussed this in the past, I think last month, but I could not remember which thread it is. This kind of people should know that some people's children are rich because their parent was rich, I think people that got no money in the past should know that. A wife living with him for long and having children with him, not letting her know when she is worthy to know about it is perfectly not only a wrong decision but also a very stupid decision.

[Crypt0Gore]

A man knows his family more than anyone...if he says this is what he wants then there is more to this decision than we know, do not judge him unless you know and understand how it feels to be in his shoe.

I've seen wives, daughters and sons that only knows how to squander money on unnecessary things because their husbands can afford it.

If a wife is very productive his man will be willing to bring them up, some don't know how to turn 2+2 to 4, all they know is spending.

[fortunecrypto]

A southern China Mann won 219 millions Yuan which is equivalent to $29,392,922.00 and kept all bybhim himself without telling his wife and child for the fear that it will change their life and will not make them not to work again. And he gave 5 millions yuan to charity home. And contemplating what to do with the remaining amount. He said, "I didn't tell my wife and child, for the fear that they would be too complacent and would not work or hard work in the future".
What do say about this kind of man?

Man Keeps Whopping N13 Billion in Lottery Winnings from His Family: “I Didn’t Tell My Wife and Child”

Its greediness and inconsiderate, he will not like that if his wife is the one who won that amount and kept it to herself, if they are married its conjugal property and his action proves that he is not the head of the family and cannot trust his own household and since he is not honest, his children will sow resentment.
Charity always begins at home but he choose one outside his home, it's a bad idea to think that you're children will become lazy, as a father you should educate your children on the value of money, your wife could charge him for hiding the winning its betrayal of trust.

[Strongkored]

He can give money to charity but not to his family then he is a bad man but felt wise, how could he think that his wife and child would become lazy just knowing they earned big money, After all, he is the one most likely to become lazy or use his money for personal pleasure
If he loves his family whatever fear he thinks will happen will not keep him from sharing this happy story with his family and having fun with some of the money he has after using it for something important else.
What if in the short term he suddenly gets sick and dies then no one enjoys the money, him or his family and his actions prove that he doesn't love his family, he's just a selfish guy.

[gunhell16]

This story seems to be similar to this link https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5419252.msg61345254#msg61345254

But in fairness, he gave a lot to charity, in fact, 5M yuan is still not a joke amount. But the only difference between this and the link I gave is that he is afraid or worried that he won't be able to work because they already have many families. And it seems that he doesn't want their behavior to change badly just because of money, the kind of person who doesn't want his family to be lazy because of the thought that they have a lot of money, that's how I understand this article.

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And it seems that he doesn't want their behavior to change badly just because of money, the kind of person who doesn't want his family to be lazy because of the thought that they have a lot of money, that's how I understand this article.

He do not want his family to be lazy? He wants them to work like a slave or like he has no money. Both of them are not good. About this one he gave money to charity but not his family, if anything like sickness happened to him, people would see who will be available for him, if it will be his family or charity. The man is a bad person.

[Wexnident]

Sounds fine to me really. I reckon what he thought was worded poorly or something, the idea is he didn't want to indulge the money they got and well, lead to thinking that said money is something normal they can get every now and then. Can't exactly tell what kind of person he is though since we only know he donated a part and hasn't said anything else about the rest but if it was say used as an investment for their children, building a business then I reckon all is good even if he did keep it from his family. If it was used for gambling or well, selfish indulging then that's a different case altogether.

What if in the short term he suddenly gets sick and dies then no one enjoys the money, him or his family and his actions prove that he doesn't love his family, he's just a selfish guy.

I don't think that's an issue unless his money was stored physically somewhere with no one knowing about it. Banks would probably distribute the money to their family and children, which may vary from the laws of each state but I reckon it's something similar, granted the deceased didn't leave a will ofc.

[TopTort777]

Recently I have seen Asian movie, about a family of four that were barely making both ends meet, but when the head of the family died, the rest found out that husband-father was a millionaire. First they did not understand how to react, but later went on a spending spree and in few years they have spent everything and returned to what they were.

I think that that Chinese man is afraid of similar, that the money will spoil his family. I dont know what I will do if I was on his place. I think I will tell my family about 29 millions, but will continue living same life style, but probably we would travel more.

[noorman0]

Unless this man has family members who are consumptive (bad habits) so that even $ 29 million is not sufficient for the rest of his life, keeping secret is a reasonable enough reason as long as he still wants to share the winnings with his family in secret.
But, yeah this is just a man's confession in the media. We never know someone's true plan. It is China, some freedoms may be deprived.

[ethereumhunter]

Maybe that was the best path he chose for his family because we would have different ways of thinking, especially when we could earn a lot of money. But it could be better to tell his family because he lives with them and honesty in the family is the best. He can explain that even though they have made a lot of money gambling, that doesn't mean they can be complacent and won't work. It will be a good moment to have more opportunities because they can run several businesses that can make them earn more money.

[len01]

I say the man is very wise. because he has good thoughts for his wife and children so that in the future he will not depend on the wealth that already exists.
maybe the man has the thought that if he tells his wife and children, of course after that they will go on a spree without thinking about working again because they know that their husband (man) has a lot of money and their children will only keep asking without having any thoughts of moving forward in terms of making money .
but actually it was for the best that the man at least told his wife about the victory. because they are family and whatever happens the family must know about it all and their children do not need to be told


Anyway, I experienced this when I got a lot of money from gambling and I didn't tell my wife and it was just that suddenly I bought a new car and a new house.

[gantez]

I say the man is very wise. because he has good thoughts for his wife and children so that in the future he will not depend on the wealth that already exists.

How is this possible ? Is not offense that your dad has money that you can be comfortable with. It is the child and wife luck that the head of the family make a profit from his gambling habit so why they won't enjoy from it? This is just the responsibility of the man to control them and if he is having control over on them he should still be in control of them with the money. It is not bad to let his wife know about his winning if they are happy together and not separated. Maybe the wife and child not staying with the man together in one home.

[danherbias07]

This story seems to be similar to this link https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5419252.msg61345254#msg61345254

But in fairness, he gave a lot to charity, in fact, 5M yuan is still not a joke amount. But the only difference between this and the link I gave is that he is afraid or worried that he won't be able to work because they already have many families. And it seems that he doesn't want their behavior to change badly just because of money, the kind of person who doesn't want his family to be lazy because of the thought that they have a lot of money, that's how I understand this article.

I was just about to look for that, but thanks to this gunhell16 you save me some time. 
Very similar. Aren't they the same news? I think they are.

Same agenda. Both are trying to keep it to avoid spoiling their children so that they will still keep on working and not be lazy in their life.
But this kind of jackpot should be shared with the wife and discuss how they will spend or save the money. They are partners in their lives so he would best take the side of his other half about his plan.
I think there's a part of being selfish in the winner's decision.

[iv4n]

I say the man is very wise. because he has good thoughts for his wife and children so that in the future he will not depend on the wealth that already exists.

How is this possible ? Is not offense that your dad has money that you can be comfortable with. It is the child and wife luck that the head of the family make a profit from his gambling habit so why they won't enjoy from it? This is just the responsibility of the man to control them and if he is having control over on them he should still be in control of them with the money. It is not bad to let his wife know about his winning if they are happy together and not separated. Maybe the wife and child not staying with the man together in one home.

But that's why he put on this costume, to stay hidden, now his family won't be able to find out anything about this, but if they found out they would probably leave him. I certainly wouldn't hide something like this from my family, but we are not all the same. I would not like to condemn him, in the end, everyone has the right to be free and do what they think it's the best for them, he thinks so and maybe we don't like it, but this man has the right to do what he wants with his winnings.

[PX-Z]

I say the man is very wise. because he has good thoughts for his wife and children so that in the future he will not depend on the wealth that already exists.

How is this possible ? Is not offense that your dad has money that you can be comfortable with. It is the child and wife luck that the head of the family make a profit from his gambling habit so why they won't enjoy from it? This is just the responsibility of the man to control them and if he is having control over on them he should still be in control of them with the money. It is not bad to let his wife know about his winning if they are happy together and not separated. Maybe the wife and child not staying with the man together in one home.

Not telling about the win ^{(money you receive)} and a father's responsibility is too different thing. You might not say about the win he received to his family because of the valid reasons he mentioned, but still providing the needs of his family is the most important thing. Well, it will improve probably.

[rahmad2nd]

This thread bears almost resemblance to another thread, both of which kept his lottery winnings a secret from his wife and children. however, regarding the case from this thread. first of all, if this is true. the money he got from the lottery was not a small amount. he even voluntarily donated 5 million yuan to a charity house. thus, the reason why he refused to tell his wife and children made perfect sense.

here, I do not want to judge someone by what he did. in this particular case, if we refer to the fact that he gave away 5 million yuan to a charity house. this man's reasoning became reasonable, because he was afraid that his wife and children would be too complacent and would not work hard in the future.

I might even add, they will live their lives in a hedonistic style where in the end the money will run out because it is not used properly. So, it's not that he doesn't want to share it with his family. and based on the story above, he contemplates what to do next with the remaining amount of money.
I'm not going to jump to any conclusion, or judge it. actually this goes back to the way a person thinks, if he has a good mindset and intellectual. he will not feel confused and already has plans for the future with the money he has from the lottery draw.

[m2017]

A southern China Mann won 219 millions Yuan which is equivalent to $29,392,922.00 and kept all bybhim himself without telling his wife and child for the fear that it will change their life and will not make them not to work again. And he gave 5 millions yuan to charity home. And contemplating what to do with the remaining amount. He said, "I didn't tell my wife and child, for the fear that they would be too complacent and would not work or hard work in the future".
What do say about this kind of man?

Man Keeps Whopping N13 Billion in Lottery Winnings from His Family: “I Didn’t Tell My Wife and Child”

I would say that this man did the right thing not to tell his wife and child about the win. Most often, such stories with big wins and easy money lead to poverty. These lucky ones spend all the prize money on entertainment and, moreover, go bankrupt, losing even what was acquired before these events. Mann is trying to protect the family from this and not let money ruin his wife and child. Money in the family should be in abundance, not in excess.

The question of how the prize money will be spent and whether it will be invested remains open.

[cryptomaniac_xxx]

This story seems to be similar to this link https://bitcointalk.org/index.php?topic=5419252.msg61345254#msg61345254

But in fairness, he gave a lot to charity, in fact, 5M yuan is still not a joke amount. But the only difference between this and the link I gave is that he is afraid or worried that he won't be able to work because they already have many families. And it seems that he doesn't want their behavior to change badly just because of money, the kind of person who doesn't want his family to be lazy because of the thought that they have a lot of money, that's how I understand this article.

I was just about to look for that, but thanks to this gunhell16 you save me some time. 
Very similar. Aren't they the same news? I think they are.

Same agenda. Both are trying to keep it to avoid spoiling their children so that they will still keep on working and not be lazy in their life.
But this kind of jackpot should be shared with the wife and discuss how they will spend or save the money. They are partners in their lives so he would best take the side of his other half about his plan.
I think there's a part of being selfish in the winner's decision.

Yes, this story strikes very familiar and I would say that it was the same story as this one. Or if it is different, then obviously, the man has his own reasons as he doesn't want his wife and child to like enjoy the winning and live a life that is easy.

I will admit that in the beginning it doesn't make sense, but upon closer look, maybe the man is right. He might be raised by his parents this way and so he want his children to experience it and not have a life that they are very comfortable because they are more into our lives than money.