A Chinese Man Won $29,392,922.00 & Refused to tell His Wife and child

[Finestream]

A southern China Mann won 219 millions Yuan which is equivalent to $29,392,922.00 and kept all bybhim himself without telling his wife and child for the fear that it will change their life and will not make them not to work again. And he gave 5 millions yuan to charity home. And contemplating what to do with the remaining amount. He said, "I didn't tell my wife and child, for the fear that they would be too complacent and would not work or hard work in the future".
What do say about this kind of man?

Man Keeps Whopping N13 Billion in Lottery Winnings from His Family: “I Didn’t Tell My Wife and Child”

I can’t say he’s selfish but definitely his mindset is not good. If he is really a good father and husband, he should be honest to his wife and child about the money he won, and not hide them about it. But I guess some people have really different mindset and mentality that made them unique, which also made them look bad from the eyes of the majority.

[Accardo]

Not letting his family know he won big doesn't mean he won't spend or meet their needs with the money. He has got his reason which is handwork, if his family finds out, the money may not stay for long or get invested the right way. No money is too big not to vanish. Moreover, some athletes that got compensated with $100m still go bankrupt. I think his opinion shouldn't be justified as unjust he is doing it for his family safety and a way of securing a long lasting wealth.  

[Fivestar4everMVP]

A southern China Mann won 219 millions Yuan which is equivalent to $29,392,922.00 and kept all bybhim himself without telling his wife and child for the fear that it will change their life and will not make them not to work again. And he gave 5 millions yuan to charity home. And contemplating what to do with the remaining amount. He said, "I didn't tell my wife and child, for the fear that they would be too complacent and would not work or hard work in the future".
What do say about this kind of man?

Man Keeps Whopping N13 Billion in Lottery Winnings from His Family: “I Didn’t Tell My Wife and Child”

Someone have posted this same story on this forum before, maybe I wil try to look for it for reference purposes.

My opinion is, that man is very stupid, forgive me yeah for my using that word, but if I was the wife and kids, I would never forgive him, he's so selfish and self centered, so does it mean his wish is for his family to die of hard work, God blessed him to enable him take care of himself and as well give his family a good and better life, he's decision is completely unwise...

Though I still believe there is more to this, like I said, this story have been posted on this forum before,  I can make it a guarantee to you all that this Chinese man is some where right now enjoying this money with his wife and kids.

[seoincorporation]

I think it was a wise move from him, as the article says, the fear of seeing how his children don't want to study or to work is a good reason to avoid letting them know.

Is a known fact that people who win big amount doesn't have a happy end. And having that money as backup and moving on with normal life was really smart from his side.

[Vaculin]

I think that is not something new in the gambling. There are bunch of news about the winner refused to publish their identity for the various reason. Im thinking about that guy may not wanna see his wife knows if he was actively doing gambling. That's why even he was winning big reward and his wife may become lazy to did work with him caused by he understood once someone was winning big reward and it can make his family become lazy and they didn't wanna work again. I think that must become most potential reason why he didn't wanna tell his wife and child about his reward from doing gambling.
There were so many old cases that pretty similar with it. From his reason if he wants also educate his family to always working hard and not depends with the reward that already won.
that's such a very wise decision by him to educate his family.

I understand the he is only concern whatever negative effects that the money will cause to his family, but if I were to win that huge amount, I’ll chose to be more honest to my wife and child. It could give us more opportunities to improve our lives by building business of our own and helping each other to make it grow. Or it could also be a good educational insurance for the child so that his future will be more secured. But the money is gone now, so better not to tell his wife and child forever.

[Kasabus]

A southern China Mann won 219 millions Yuan which is equivalent to $29,392,922.00 and kept all bybhim himself without telling his wife and child for the fear that it will change their life and will not make them not to work again. And he gave 5 millions yuan to charity home. And contemplating what to do with the remaining amount. He said, "I didn't tell my wife and child, for the fear that they would be too complacent and would not work or hard work in the future".
What do say about this kind of man?

Man Keeps Whopping N13 Billion in Lottery Winnings from His Family: “I Didn’t Tell My Wife and Child”

Its greediness and inconsiderate, he will not like that if his wife is the one who won that amount and kept it to herself, if they are married its conjugal property and his action proves that he is not the head of the family and cannot trust his own household and since he is not honest, his children will sow resentment.
Charity always begins at home but he choose one outside his home, it's a bad idea to think that you're children will become lazy, as a father you should educate your children on the value of money, your wife could charge him for hiding the winning its betrayal of trust.

The man seems not a good father and a good husband considering that he choses to make his family struggle more and work hard more to earn a living, than to live a good life with the amount he won. He’s very inconsiderate thinking he’s now already a family man. And if ever his wife will be in his position and also do the same, it might be this type of man will decide to leave his wife just because of her stupid decision. Well, it’s good to donate but always make the family a top priority first.

[Die_empty]

A southern China Mann won 219 millions Yuan which is equivalent to $29,392,922.00 and kept all bybhim himself without telling his wife and child for the fear that it will change their life and will not make them not to work again. And he gave 5 millions yuan to charity home. And contemplating what to do with the remaining amount. He said, "I didn't tell my wife and child, for the fear that they would be too complacent and would not work or hard work in the future".
What do say about this kind of man?

Man Keeps Whopping N13 Billion in Lottery Winnings from His Family: “I Didn’t Tell My Wife and Child”

Most time people become very lazy when their close relative suddenly becomes rich. They would resign from their jobs and start depending on such relative totally. This man knows the behavior of his wife and children more than us, it might be possible that they might become lazy because of his win. But he should also ensure that his family enjoys the money he won even if they are not aware of the source or his current worth. It would be very bad if he secretly spend the money on friends while his immediate family members are not partakers of this big win.

[Alisha-k]

The Chinese man should not ignore the fact things will be more complicated if the wife and Child finds out. News like this cannot be hidden for so long and will be even more difficult if it leaks outside his home. Instead hiding the win from his family he should invest in his family, give them a comfortable life that way they will still have more motivation to work.

Sudden riches can bring about laziness that is well understood that is where the father figure comes in. A father with such a win and refuse to spend on the family fir fear of them becoming lazy needs to be cross examined.

[Fatunad]

A southern China Mann won 219 millions Yuan which is equivalent to $29,392,922.00 and kept all bybhim himself without telling his wife and child for the fear that it will change their life and will not make them not to work again. And he gave 5 millions yuan to charity home. And contemplating what to do with the remaining amount. He said, "I didn't tell my wife and child, for the fear that they would be too complacent and would not work or hard work in the future".
What do say about this kind of man?

Man Keeps Whopping N13 Billion in Lottery Winnings from His Family: “I Didn’t Tell My Wife and Child”

If its a true intent or honest view in life then it is something thats understandable but it would be good that he should really be honest at least into his wife which means that everything is conjugal where he also have
the rights on the money that you had able to win.If you do have that kind of reasoning for them not to be lazy then its valid but not all would really be turn into that even if they do hit up jackpots.
There's no way that you could make out conclusions on how they would really be acting or behaving if they do know that they do have lots of money.
Well, there are indeed tendencies but to mind off that they are your family which they do really have the right to know.

[Baofeng]

Good for the guy and his family, yes we can't blame him for not telling his wife and kids because as he said, maybe his kids will be complacent because now they have money and will not work.

Here is a good article on how it is to win a lottery, it's not from Asia though,

https://nypost.com/2022/11/06/powerball-winner-reveals-what-wont-change-after-you-win-the-1-6-billion-in-lottery/

Worst part is that winning the lottery can put pressures on some, and worst death.

[Viscore]

A southern China Mann won 219 millions Yuan which is equivalent to $29,392,922.00 and kept all bybhim himself without telling his wife and child for the fear that it will change their life and will not make them not to work again. And he gave 5 millions yuan to charity home. And contemplating what to do with the remaining amount. He said, "I didn't tell my wife and child, for the fear that they would be too complacent and would not work or hard work in the future".
What do say about this kind of man?

Man Keeps Whopping N13 Billion in Lottery Winnings from His Family: “I Didn’t Tell My Wife and Child”

The man is not good enough for his family because of his wrong mindset and his wrong decision in life. While most of the jackpot prize winners bring home their rewards to celebrate with their family, this man is different. He prefer to think first the negativity that money could bring to his family, when in fact it could be a great blessing that will make their lives more comfortable and secured to live with.

[Johnyz]

Good for the guy and his family, yes we can't blame him for not telling his wife and kids because as he said, maybe his kids will be complacent because now they have money and will not work.

Here is a good article on how it is to win a lottery, it's not from Asia though,

https://nypost.com/2022/11/06/powerball-winner-reveals-what-wont-change-after-you-win-the-1-6-billion-in-lottery/

Worst part is that winning the lottery can put pressures on some, and worst death.

There’s a lot of shocking stories of a lottery winner and most of them their lives turned into a miserable one, so I think that winner is just protecting his family from any possibilities of becoming more greedy and lazy. If I were on that position I will also do the same because who knows, your family might influence you more to do things out of budget even if you already have that millions, he knows his family very well and we have respect that.

[Russlenat]

What do say about this kind of man?

If this is true, I always dislike this kind of people with stupid mentality of poorness. We have discussed this in the past, I think last month, but I could not remember which thread it is. This kind of people should know that some people's children are rich because their parent was rich, I think people that got no money in the past should know that. A wife living with him for long and having children with him, not letting her know when she is worthy to know about it is perfectly not only a wrong decision but also a very stupid decision.

If he wants to stay poor forever, then I just hope that he should also think about his wife and his child if they want to live poor the whole time. Because if he is good and responsible enough, he should consult his wife first and both plan on what to do with the money. But what he did is really stupid, donating is good but we should also take consideration if the money will be mostly needed by the family or not.

[Saisher]

Good for the guy and his family, yes we can't blame him for not telling his wife and kids because as he said, maybe his kids will be complacent because now they have money and will not work.

Here is a good article on how it is to win a lottery, it's not from Asia though,

https://nypost.com/2022/11/06/powerball-winner-reveals-what-wont-change-after-you-win-the-1-6-billion-in-lottery/

Worst part is that winning the lottery can put pressures on some, and worst death.

That's a good article but it's on a case-to-case basis you should not bet a lottery if you are not thinking of winning and you are not ready to have a lot of money, the article says you become a larger version of yourself when you have a lot of money there is no way you can hide that money from your family because in the first place they are the one who deserves it and your family will lose trust on you if keep it to yourself, and this will ruin your family more than they ruin because of lots of money.

[livingfree]

Aren't these news manufactured? Some weeks ago we have seen an exactly story like this one, but it was about a japanese man. Now they come with a story about a chinese man, displaying a picture of the probable man that looks more a model from google images.

I think this is the same with that news and it's like reposted by OP. Because I also saw this news being posted by someone but I just can't recall if it's on the forum or on the other social media.

Anyway, the justification has a noble purpose and in case it's real, I can understand why the winner chose acting like this. Money changes people's minds or reveal their natural instincts. The man is simply trying to preserve his family from turning greedy and lazy.

It's truly understandable why he's done this. It's because that the amount won by him will discourage them to work hard. They will be dependent on it until the money is all gone through their spending habits.

Because whenever someone is aware that he's got money to spend, he'll spend it by not thinking twice.

[goaldigger]

Aren't these news manufactured? Some weeks ago we have seen an exactly story like this one, but it was about a japanese man. Now they come with a story about a chinese man, displaying a picture of the probable man that looks more a model from google images.

I think this is the same with that news and it's like reposted by OP. Because I also saw this news being posted by someone but I just can't recall if it's on the forum or on the other social media.

This is not the first thread about this topic, I can’t see the old one as well but I’ve seen it before.
Anyway, that guy knows his own family and he did it on purpose so there should be no issue here and instead congratulate him for his winnings and for him being wise with his money. That money will last as long as he knows how to handle it, slowly he can tell it to his own family and I believe that time will come.

[Mahanton]

Aren't these news manufactured? Some weeks ago we have seen an exactly story like this one, but it was about a japanese man. Now they come with a story about a chinese man, displaying a picture of the probable man that looks more a model from google images.

I think this is the same with that news and it's like reposted by OP. Because I also saw this news being posted by someone but I just can't recall if it's on the forum or on the other social media.

This is not the first thread about this topic, I can’t see the old one as well but I’ve seen it before.
Anyway, that guy knows his own family and he did it on purpose so there should be no issue here and instead congratulate him for his winnings and for him being wise with his money. That money will last as long as he knows how to handle it, slowly he can tell it to his own family and I believe that time will come.

Yes, theres similar situation but that guy had wore a costume for him not to reveal himself but i dont know if this recent one on how it had been done.In overall in speaking about winning big then it would
really be normal that your family should know because you are their father or husband which it is really just right that they would know everything specially on financial part.
Come to think that they've been on your side on those hard time or before you do hit up the lottery and now that you do able to win millions then you dont tend to share it out
and keep it a secret to them? You are just too selfish imho.

[robelneo]

Come to think that they've been on your side on those hard time or before you do hit up the lottery and now that you do able to win millions then you dont tend to share it out
and keep it a secret to them? You are just too selfish imho.

Yes, its selfishness and greediness the guy want it all to himself, it's the conjugal property your wife and your children have the right to what you own, and it's based on existing laws of many countries and I'm sure the guy's country is also included, even if you control all the money your children has the right to know, if you keep it a secret they will lose trust and faith on you and no alibi can justify that, fathers should show charity and trust to his family or you are a big failure as a father.