Have you ever felt remorse after gambling?

[LUCKMCFLY]

I saw this online and thought maybe i should bring on to bitcointalk for discussion.

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

It's normal that we felt remorse after gambling everytime we loss an amount. Because we cannot force ourselves in to calm mode, when we are in Lossing. And mostly we can say that what a wasteful bet hope next time we won't lose again. In the world of gambling we must know and put in our mind that we gamble what we afford to lose so that we can not feel romorse every after bet.

If indeed it is or is something normal , we are not going to get well if we have lost some money, even if it is 1 dollar that we lose and something that we do not like, because 1 dollar can be useful even if it is to buy something to Drink and enjoy it , then when you lose in the game it is obvious that we Must feel bad, or with a lot of remorse, but the best thing is to see it like me , every time I go to play in the casino, I deposit 10 usd, sometimes less, and that money is that I have the will to lose , that is, I have it for my pure enjoyment, I see it as an investment for my fun, if I lose it, it doesn't hurt me because in my mind I tell myself that this is the price I must pay to enjoy a good game. That's the idea.

It's like paying for a Service, nothing more , it's just that it's possible that those 10 usd or less if I make a lucky move and I can earn more than what I have, it's something Spectacular for me Because mostly a person is very excited about your Deposit money to multiply it , this is something that Should never be done , because the blow is Hard.

[Altryist]

Remorse is a strong word to use in this situation. I personally have felt sadness after losing some bets, but this is natural behaviour when losing at anything. It's compounded by the fact that you started with a certain amount of money, which is hard to attain, and then ended without it. I've never gambled big enough amounts to feel that sad, but understand that some people have so little self control that they bet far higher amounts than they should - or greed gets them carried away, thinking they can beat inevitable mathematical odds and variance over time. For that it is hard to have sympathy.

Most likely, remorse is the consequences of upbringing, if, perhaps, in adolescence, parents told us that it was bad, then it is quite possible that there will be such feelings. But I agree that basically after the loss there is a feeling of disappointment from the fact that the bet is lost, nothing more. Especially if the bet was low enough, I mean regarding the game deposit, then this will not have a big financial impact and the disappointment will be insignificant.

[SamReomo]

Gambling is risky and can drain our bank accounts; I often felt remorse for my takes action, but it was only temporary, and the next day, I returned to gambling, and this time, I used everything at my disposal, disregarding the repercussions. That is completely one of the characteristics of an addict, ready to place anything valuable to raise money for gambling, but that was my previous life, and I'm a changed guy with good examples. I bet frequently, and I'm able to regulate the amount of my gambling rate; I gamble twice on weekends, and only on games that I'm confident about; if it goes according to my predictions, I enjoy; if it goes against my predictions, I lose; in any case, I liked.

It's not bad to gamble but gambling above your budget is. We should know how much we can afford to lose and only gamble within our limits.
It's always good to acknowledge your mistake and do the right thing. While you knew you were spending more on gambling you still took control started saving.
Not everyone has the capability to do that. Make sure you stick to it and never fall for the money making through gambling trap again.

I agree with you, and I must say that gambling above one's budget is the riskiest thing and one should avoid it at any cost. The ones who get addicted to gambling will gamble without any limits and they lose almost everything with such a low-level habit. One should also be careful to not gamble when his/her mind is in a bad state because in those times people often want to have gratification in the form of winning and unfortunately they forget about the limits. It's always better and secure to gamble only when you are in good modes and your mind is in a happy state, and also to stick to the limits in order to not lose everything in a sitting.

[klidex]

Many gamblers feel this remorse when they lose money but most of them are so addicted that they soon after this happens they forget about it and they already start thinking about the next session where they think they will win it big.People who are continuously in this loop are the people in most risk when it comes to extreme gambling addiction,they are not at all aware what is happening towards them and these are the persons which are most difficult to acknowledge that they are addicted in the first place.These people are almost always those that end up badly as they keep increasing their bet every upcoming session,the true winners are those who after feeling remorse think carefully before planning the next move.

In fact, if it happens to a gambling addict, it will be very difficult to think that if you are already sorry, you have to think about immediately changing your attitude to be careful about gambling, while the extreme addict himself doesn't think about regret.
Except perhaps the average non-addicted gambler might be able to have a logical mind when regretting losing too much money and think carefully after the incident.
From some of the comments I think that this is all about failing self-control and making ourselves regretful.

[Docnaster]

I don't think that there's any gambler that hasn't for one time felt remorseful after gambling in the history of the game of gambling. Though most of these gamblers will still have to go back to gambling immediately the pains of losing is reduced especially the gambling addicts.
It is believed that there's a level one will get to in gambling and wouldn't be feeling too bad when they lose because they know that losing is also part of the game

[FinneysTrueVision]

When I was new to Bitcoin there were a few times where I lost my entire balance due to Martingale strategy. When you first start out and you go several minutes without losing it feels amazing. It feels like a perfect strategy until you hit a losing streak and everything is gone. When you are acting greedy you tend to ignore reason and don't think about how severe your losses can be. I don't make such foolish mistakes anymore but occasionally I'll mess up by doing something like betting 50,000 sats instead of 5,000 and it can ruin your mood for a while if the bet doesn't turn out in your favor.

[Josefjix]

I don't think that there's any gambler that hasn't for one time felt remorseful after gambling in the history of the game of gambling. Though most of these gamblers will still have to go back to gambling immediately the pains of losing is reduced especially the gambling addicts.
It is believed that there's a level one will get to in gambling and wouldn't be feeling too bad when they lose because they know that losing is also part of the game

As a gambler, there's every tendency that we already passed through horrible events. Gambling is capable of generating both gains and losses. I've moved beyond the point where I felt remorse for my gambling practices, always yearning for a better tomorrow. Feeling apologetic after substantial losses is merely a sensation at the time, but doing something completely different will also keep those thoughts away, and one may even forget that he made losses earlier from the system. Losing is part of the game; the moment we engage in gambling activities, we accept the appropriate terms and conditions. 

[ethereumhunter]

Changing our thought process is always a challenge as this is something we do automatically, and if you do not make an effort to change you will eventually go back to your previous habits, however it can be done by those that are decided to make a change as they understand that if they keep behaving in this way then sooner or later dire consequences could come their way, and while gambling can be an extremely nice hobby, for a person that is out of control gambling can be a terrible obsession as the losses can accumulate at an impressive speed.

And not many gamblers can change their mindset to be able to change their gambling habits because gambling can make them forget and feel comfortable while gambling. That is why many people still find it hard to leave gambling forever or reduce their activities in gambling. They regret it but that doesn't mean they will reduce their gambling activities. Maybe they will gamble more often. And if people make gambling their hobby, they must quickly realize that it will only get them into a lot of trouble and one of them is gambling addiction. If they are already experiencing gambling addiction, it will be difficult to get out and even if they regret it, they will still return to gambling because their thoughts are only to want to gamble.

[pakhitheboss]

When I was new to Bitcoin there were a few times where I lost my entire balance due to Martingale strategy. When you first start out and you go several minutes without losing it feels amazing. It feels like a perfect strategy until you hit a losing streak and everything is gone. When you are acting greedy you tend to ignore reason and don't think about how severe your losses can be. I don't make such foolish mistakes anymore but occasionally I'll mess up by doing something like betting 50,000 sats instead of 5,000 and it can ruin your mood for a while if the bet doesn't turn out in your favor.

Messing up with the zeros happens to everyone, you are not the only one who messes up. When you are winning the excitement and the adrenaline makes you believe that the next bet will also be in your favor. If it goes on for some time you would feel that today is your day and like a fool, you will make the big mistake of going all in. That's when you lose and then the frustration kicks in with the belief that another deposit will counter your loss. Until you realize that it is gambling and you were only playing for fun.

[fullhdpixel]

I don't think that there's any gambler that hasn't for one time felt remorseful after gambling in the history of the game of gambling. Though most of these gamblers will still have to go back to gambling immediately the pains of losing is reduced especially the gambling addicts.
It is believed that there's a level one will get to in gambling and wouldn't be feeling too bad when they lose because they know that losing is also part of the game

To be totally honest, I think no matter how deep one gets into gambling and how far one goes in making gambling a habit of their life, one would still feel bad when one loses because that's a natural feeling, a human feels regret when they lose money because of themselves and they feel happy when they win something because of their own self, so no matter if you are new to gambling or an old school, you will always feel bad for your losses.

Some people might say that those who gamble for fun won't feel bad when they lose money but that's also not true because even if you are gambling only for fun, you won't like losing because that simply means that you are not going to have fun anymore, fun in gambling is to keep gambling and when you lose, you can't keep doing that.

[LUCKMCFLY]

Losing certainly feels bad. I know the feeling of losing a lot of money due to my stupidity but that has not stopped me from losing even more money in the all-too-near futures after that. Just put it out of your head and not dwell on it too much. Otherwise you start thinking you can win your loss back but end up losing more money...

You're right, I think we've all experienced at some point that things like this, losing because of a bad move feels ugly, sometimes with sadness, anger, of course that turns into remorse with the desire to have a feeling of revenge, and that Sometimes you have to control it, sometimes we must humbly accept that we lose when we gamble, it is the best, since seeking revenge or chasing losses is the worst, because that turns into continuing to lose money, and that is not correct, because gambling In a casino it should be synonymous with fun, but not with pressure, stress or something that turns into a nightmare.

Absolutely, loss is part of the game, and its acceptance safeguards us from the treacherous cycle of vengeance gambling. However, your view banks on players having the emotional wisdom for self-discipline.

Also, consider the socio-political undertones of your stand. By pushing "gambling as fun," you're aiding giant casinos that glorify gambling. For them, its a goldmine, but for others, it morphs into a compulsive demon.

Therefore, I endorse stricter oversight and public enlightenment about gambling hazards. A community-centric strategy, mixed with personal duty, is the future.

Yes, I know what you mean, the only thing is that many like casinos, others like to smoke, others like alcohol and others like drugs, of all the drugs that I would never recommend doing or trying are because that is seeing how a human being is lost, I think that it is the most rotten thing that exists that a human being becomes nothing, I know that some drugs are used for medicine, others to cure, but to a degree under optional judgment made by a doctor, however, since there are many forms of "fun", I believe that all of them in excess are bad.

Whoever drinks alcohol will bring Problems to his life if he doesn't control it , because it can take him to a very ugly critical point Those who like to smoke know that they are killing themselves, I think it goes without saying much , but in a casino No , a casino can give fun and money at the same time, but if you don't relax and take things well, everything It can get out of control, that's why you Always have to be 18 years or older for these Games , because you are under the full Responsibility of the Person.

I have seen how in some families they quit because of alcohol , and I have seen how a person's smoking makes his family suffer a lot because he dies of lung cancer or something like that, so everything under an eighth scheme is what else should be done, when we are 18 years old , we know what we are doing , we know what we are going for , there is nothing to do but do things right to guarantee a good Old Age..

[tusandii]

I don't think that there's any gambler that hasn't for one time felt remorseful after gambling in the history of the game of gambling. Though most of these gamblers will still have to go back to gambling immediately the pains of losing is reduced especially the gambling addicts.
It is believed that there's a level one will get to in gambling and wouldn't be feeling too bad when they lose because they know that losing is also part of the game

It's impossible if someone doesn't regret in the gambling game because no matter how much money a gambler has when they experience a big loss, there must be regret that they will feel.
No matter how great a gambler is, they cannot really accept every loss that occurs.
As a gambler, I also have an understanding and awareness that defeat must occur and have become the most dominant part of gambling, but when I lose because of my own mistakes, a feeling of regret arises by itself and cannot be avoided.

[len01]

-snip

To be totally honest, I think no matter how deep one gets into gambling and how far one goes in making gambling a habit of their life, one would still feel bad when one loses because that's a natural feeling, a human feels regret when they lose money because of themselves and they feel happy when they win something because of their own self, so no matter if you are new to gambling or an old school, you will always feel bad for your losses.

Some people might say that those who gamble for fun won't feel bad when they lose money but that's also not true because even if you are gambling only for fun, you won't like losing because that simply means that you are not going to have fun anymore, fun in gambling is to keep gambling and when you lose, you can't keep doing that.

not as you think. indeed everyone who gambles just for fun doesn't want to lose or definitely wants to win but the feeling of regret when losing here is different from gamblers who don't have self-control because to gamble for fun they have good self-control by committing to a predetermined budget set it with a small amount that you can afford to lose.
In contrast to gamblers who have no control over their own bets, they will gamble more often to chase losses without planning a budget to use so that when they lose they will regret what they have bet on gambling.

with this, we can conclude that the definition of regret differs between gamblers having fun and gamblers who seek victory as income.

[skarais]

~~~

It's impossible if someone doesn't regret in the gambling game because no matter how much money a gambler has when they experience a big loss, there must be regret that they will feel.
No matter how great a gambler is, they cannot really accept every loss that occurs.
As a gambler, I also have an understanding and awareness that defeat must occur and have become the most dominant part of gambling, but when I lose because of my own mistakes, a feeling of regret arises by itself and cannot be avoided.

It's true, as you said, regretting losing at gambling is something that every gambler can experience. Regardless of how much they lost, the regrets would still linger. It's okay to regret losing, but what must be avoided is the impact of these losses, especially if they lose in large numbers.

Most of us gamble for money, in fact it is very rare that we find a gambler gambling for fun. But as long as we are responsible for whatever is the consequence of gambling, then the bad effects will likely be minimized.

[madnessteat]

I don't think that there's any gambler that hasn't for one time felt remorseful after gambling in the history of the game of gambling. Though most of these gamblers will still have to go back to gambling immediately the pains of losing is reduced especially the gambling addicts.
It is believed that there's a level one will get to in gambling and wouldn't be feeling too bad when they lose because they know that losing is also part of the game

It's impossible if someone doesn't regret in the gambling game because no matter how much money a gambler has when they experience a big loss, there must be regret that they will feel.
No matter how great a gambler is, they cannot really accept every loss that occurs.
As a gambler, I also have an understanding and awareness that defeat must occur and have become the most dominant part of gambling, but when I lose because of my own mistakes, a feeling of regret arises by itself and cannot be avoided.

Almost all people feel a sense of regret after losing and it is quite normal because we lose some of our money. The main thing is that the feeling of regret should not turn into an obsession to try to win back the lost money as in most cases such ideas lead to even greater losses. As I have said many times to protect yourself from losing money that is needed for other purposes is very important to learn to limit your budget for gambling and play only on the money that is not sorry to lose.

[Iroh]

I saw this online and thought maybe i should bring on to bitcointalk for discussion.

If a person gamble and at the end of the game he starts to feel remorse is that a good thing or should the person be on alert?

Obviously, I would feel a little bad after losing a considerable sum but never have I felt remorse after playing. I personally don’t see gambling as anything bad or anything to be ashamed about if you play responsibly so I wouldn’t feel remorseful about it.

Regarding your question, if someone plays and feels remorseful at the end of the game, then it’s best you quit playing as you most likely haven’t got the heart to play and perhaps still in conflict worth yourself about gambling in general.

[rendravolt]

Many gamblers feel this remorse when they lose money but most of them are so addicted that they soon after this happens they forget about it and they already start thinking about the next session where they think they will win it big.People who are continuously in this loop are the people in most risk when it comes to extreme gambling addiction,they are not at all aware what is happening towards them and these are the persons which are most difficult to acknowledge that they are addicted in the first place.These people are almost always those that end up badly as they keep increasing their bet every upcoming session,the true winners are those who after feeling remorse think carefully before planning the next move.

In fact, if it happens to a gambling addict, it will be very difficult to think that if you are already sorry, you have to think about immediately changing your attitude to be careful about gambling, while the extreme addict himself doesn't think about regret.
Except perhaps the average non-addicted gambler might be able to have a logical mind when regretting losing too much money and think carefully after the incident.
From some of the comments I think that this is all about failing self-control and making ourselves regretful.

We often encounter regret for losing money while gambling, and maybe the guilt often disturbs our minds. But I think as long as we have self-awareness to be more vigilant when gambling is better and can prevent us from getting out of control. Talking about self-control, of course, this is a very important point that all gamblers must have because by having this foothold we can be more calm and not too hasty to blame the circumstances that have occurred.

[bayu7adi]

I don't think that there's any gambler that hasn't for one time felt remorseful after gambling in the history of the game of gambling. Though most of these gamblers will still have to go back to gambling immediately the pains of losing is reduced especially the gambling addicts.
It is believed that there's a level one will get to in gambling and wouldn't be feeling too bad when they lose because they know that losing is also part of the game

Gambling is not merely a game of winning or losing; it involves betting one's money. Many gamblers deeply regret their losses after gambling and squandering their funds. Often, these individuals find themselves in dire financial circumstances, yet remain ensnared by their gambling addiction.

However, it all comes back to the individual, their approach to gambling, and the mindset they adopt. Never risk your last possessions, as the resulting regrets can have dire consequences, jeopardizing one's mental well-being.

[Apocollapse]

Gambling is not merely a game of winning or losing; it involves staking one's money. Many gamblers deeply regret their losses after gambling and squandering their funds. Often, these individuals find themselves in dire financial circumstances, yet remain ensnared by their gambling addiction.

However, it all comes back to the individual, their approach to gambling, and the mindset they adopt. Never risk your last possessions, as the resulting regrets can have dire consequences, jeopardizing one's mental well-being.

I don't understand what do you mean about staking one's money? staking is referred to locking a money in someone else site or pools to earn interest, actually it's a way to grow your portfolio without need to do anything.

People who try gamble first time with his money will felt remorse when they're losing, but if they try to gamble with faucet or worthless casino coin, he will not felt remorse because they've learn before.

[Razmirraz]

I don't think that there's any gambler that hasn't for one time felt remorseful after gambling in the history of the game of gambling. Though most of these gamblers will still have to go back to gambling immediately the pains of losing is reduced especially the gambling addicts.
It is believed that there's a level one will get to in gambling and wouldn't be feeling too bad when they lose because they know that losing is also part of the game

In gambling activities, defeat is certain, victory is a hope. Many cases have been experienced by gamblers who often suffer defeats rather than wins. Even though most of them regretted having spent money that could have been used for other purposes, this did not stop them from continuing to gamble.
Heartache is only limited to disappointment due to having just experienced defeat, but that feeling of disappointment or whatever will soon disappear when you have enough money to return to gambling. Losing and winning are part of the game, there's nothing to regret when you're losing because it's an unavoidable law of a game.