Relying on gamble wins is dangerous to mental health

[LUCKMCFLY]

I met a friend who used about $1 to play gamble to win about $2500 in a game of different matches, all the early games went well but the last game cut which made him loose the game.  This lose made him to be sick for 3 days, the reason for his reaction was not because of the money he used to bet but he felt so bad because he has already put all his hope on the money he would have won.

People needs not to put all their hope in games they are not sure of winning, because relying on it can be very dangerous to the mental health. Play gamble and remove your mind from the money that will be gained till it is achieved.

A good gambler is someone who is always assessing the risks, in the example you gave there was the option to lock in a certain amount of winnings by placing opposite bets, I would always prefer a guaranteed $1,000 return from $1 than a possible $2,500 with plenty of potential to lose. However most gamblers are terrible when it comes to odds, as are people in general, so will inevitably be unable to calculate value. The best gamblers are those who do it casually, never expecting to walk away with any money they put into it and not relying on a certain outcome, like trying to double their money. Those sort of people are chasing a very dangerous dream that is unlikely to convert into reality and will leave them feeling more desperate.

This is possible, but yes, when luck is on Someone's side it is impossible for things to go wrong, I think that if a person with a low budget could do Great things , of Course if she has the touch of luck, because otherwise I don't believe it , where you see this type of things the most is when they Play in the slots, and obviously you have to have the respective touch of luck, because there is no other option, I don't see any other possibility until things happen , So we try to see what is most feasible, there are those things, but they don't work or Happen all the time, in reality what that person did was to play and win with that 1 dollar and achieve something very good, for that reason When we start to observe from a very Objective Point of view , when people start playing games, sometimes they spend a lot of money looking for big profits, and sometimes they lose everything, and they don't win anything, or they win, but it's less than what they think. have Played, in games the most Surprising thing is to Lose than to win , Due to the house Advantage.

Now, we must always put something into consideration, when we have a budget just to ensure that it is enough so that we can generate good reuses, there is no other option, for those who play in an uncontrolled way , because it is not good to do so because it is very likely that they will lose, Although gambling and casinos refer a lot to luck, they also have to concentrate and do things well, if you play too crazy, then the results will never be good, that's why self-control is not letting yourself be carried away. the impulses and salgo that have to be seen as the best or the best strategy, otherwise I would not see it well, so that we can have better perspectives of how a Player can be successful, there are many characteristics that must be met and among those the It is better that you Always be a profitable person, even with little income, so that your balance is always increasing.

[ethereumhunter]

I met a friend who used about $1 to play gamble to win about $2500 in a game of different matches, all the early games went well but the last game cut which made him loose the game.  This lose made him to be sick for 3 days, the reason for his reaction was not because of the money he used to bet but he felt so bad because he has already put all his hope on the money he would have won.

People needs not to put all their hope in games they are not sure of winning, because relying on it can be very dangerous to the mental health. Play gamble and remove your mind from the money that will be gained till it is achieved.

Unhealthy things that make you stressed in gambling are,
- consider gambling the fastest way to make money.
- consider the winning percentage to be the most important thing than the losing percentage.
- using money you can't afford to lose.
- gambling without remembering the time.
- not having good money management in gambling.

now what about your friend's condition! is he still unable to forget the defeat he received previously! is he still not willing to accept that defeat? you must be able to try to persuade him to forget that defeat and look at the future better so that he will be able to win again in the gambling that he will do next.

From everything you said, it will frustrate someone because instead of getting the win he wants, he will lose a lot, which might cost him all his money. He couldn't use gambling to make money, let alone quick money. Gambling can be a quick way to lose all his money, especially if he cannot limit his money and control himself.

It seemed like his friend was still imagining his painful defeat, hoping that someone could turn back the time so he could get his money again. But that is all in the past and he must be able to rise from his downturn and not repeat it.

[junder]

I few time that i made such mistakes of putting some hope in my bets to make something good, it all ended in regret and bad feelings because I lost both games at separate times so since then I become more conscious of my actions and I never rely on or put faith in any bet, no matter how sure those games are but also I know that gambling is not a source of income and should be done just for fun, but this days allot of gamblers now rely on gambling most especially on sports bets to make daily ends needs.
Making bets on multiple games only increases the risk of the gambler since the risk becomes higher with multiple games selection compared to when you only pick a single game and make a bet on that one games.

I don’t think it’s that bad having a little bit of hope here and there whenever a bet is placed. What I would advise against is having high expectations for your bet that you unconsciously start planning on how to spend your winnings on making various purchases when you haven’t actually won anything yet. I guess having unrealistic high hopes could also hurt when there is a loss later on.

A large portion of people who gamble as a means of making some income usually end up borrowing money to continue playing still having hopes of having that big enough win to cover up all losses. It’s absurd how people would seek to earn constant income from gambling. Financial ruin awaits such individuals.

Having hope in every bet does not hurt because every round is different if you are lucky maybe it's good, but luck does not apply to every round as well as every value you bet. And it's true that having high expectations will also be detrimental because with the hope of winning big it will make you continue to play even though only losing you always get.

That is one of the bad effects of gambling with the hope that you will still win if you continue to play, of course this is wrong. The further you go in, the greater the loss you will experience. Borrowing here and there to continue playing and this will have no end because of the hope of winning big that you have. It's best to immediately reduce playing gambling, don't go too deep because there will be worse impacts waiting.

[Silberman]

even so, doing multi bets requires a strong mentality, I mean like the OP case if you only use a few $ but the odds are very high which makes us hope that we will win and if we mentally can not accept defeat and hope too much I think that will torturing our own minds and damaging our mentality because as you said if you are lucky you will get a large amount quickly but you will also lose quickly.

Its very normal and I might understand the situation that the OP is telling because maybe he really needs money, even though he almost won a large amount, but his mistake was not being able to accept all the risks or even ignoring the risk of losing in a multi bet, the possibility of losing is very high. because luck still applies in multi bets.

Parlays are a rollercoaster, on one hand they make your gambling experience way more fun and the potential for a big win using a small amount of money is there, however very rarely you will win a parlay, and this is because as anyone that has tried before has noticed, it is almost impossible for all the favorites of each match to win, there is always a surprise here and there which basically guarantees that you will never get all of your bets right and you get the win you have been looking for.

[knowngunman]

I don’t think it’s that bad having a little bit of hope here and there whenever a bet is placed. What I would advise against is having high expectations for your bet that you unconsciously start planning on how to spend your winnings on making various purchases when you haven’t actually won anything yet. I guess having unrealistic high hopes could also hurt when there is a loss later on.

Having hope and positive expectations is always a good thing but the expectations should not be too high because luck is not something you can control. Gambling can be a lot of fun but it's very necessary to always approach it with a healthy attitude. It's a game of chance in which there's no guarantee of winning. Unrealistic expectations can lead to disappointment and frustration, so it's best to be mindful of them and remain calm waiting for the outcome of the game than to start planning on how to spend invisible money. There's nothing wrong with a little bit of optimism when you're placing a bet. But it's paramount to keep your expectations realistic and to understand that the odds are not in your favor because your chance of losing is always higher than the chance of winning.

[Fiatless]

Having hope and positive expectations is always a good thing but the expectations should not be too high because luck is not something you can control. Gambling can be a lot of fun but it's very necessary to always approach it with a healthy attitude. It's a game of chance in which there's no guarantee of winning. Unrealistic expectations can lead to disappointment and frustration, so it's best to be mindful of them and remain calm waiting for the outcome of the game than to start planning on how to spend invisible money. There's nothing wrong with a little bit of optimism when you're placing a bet. But it's paramount to keep your expectations realistic and to understand that the odds are not in your favor because your chance of losing is always higher than the chance of winning.

I have a friend who has very high expectations regarding his bets. He told me that he would move his entire family to a developed world when he wins some huge amount of money. I like his expectations and goals but he has a wrong perception about gambling. I have also observed that he is not always happy and sounds depressed sometimes. From all observation, he gambles within his means but his expectations are too high which is affecting his mood. As you observed @knowngunman we should have a reasonable expectation because gambling is unpredictable to avoid mental health issues.

[Fivestar4everMVP]

Lol, last time i fell sick because of a bet i lost, i actually fell sick not because of the money i was supposed to win, but i fell sick because of the amount of money i staked in that game and then lost it, its was a very painful experience for me to be honest, but i did blame myself for staking way more than i can afford to lose in one game.

Now, coming back to falling sick because of money the gambler expected to win which eventually did not come through, i would say that such attitude is nothing but being stupid, and this can only be as a result of the gambler not really understand what gambling is all about and the risk involved, it is often said in an adage that a bird at hand is worth millions of birds in the bush, why should someone already put his or her hopes in a money that he or she has not won, to the extent of falling sick because the money expected to be won was not won, we indeed have some people who are still kids and gambling, forgetting that gambling is not for kids.

[Silberman]

Lol, last time i fell sick because of a bet i lost, i actually fell sick not because of the money i was supposed to win, but i fell sick because of the amount of money i staked in that game and then lost it, its was a very painful experience for me to be honest, but i did blame myself for staking way more than i can afford to lose in one game.

Now, coming back to falling sick because of money the gambler expected to win which eventually did not come through, i would say that such attitude is nothing but being stupid, and this can only be as a result of the gambler not really understand what gambling is all about and the risk involved, it is often said in an adage that a bird at hand is worth millions of birds in the bush, why should someone already put his or her hopes in a money that he or she has not won, to the extent of falling sick because the money expected to be won was not won, we indeed have some people who are still kids and gambling, forgetting that gambling is not for kids.

Also it is not like we were talking about a massive amount of money here, since I could understand if someone got sick if they were close to winning millions of dollars and they failed to do this by a single number, in that case even if that money was not theirs that kind of money could change the life of almost anyone and I could comprehend why they are so depressed about it, but 2500 dollars albeit a nice amount of money cannot really change our lives and no one should be that depressed about not winning that amount.

[maydna]

Having hope and positive expectations is always a good thing but the expectations should not be too high because luck is not something you can control. Gambling can be a lot of fun but it's very necessary to always approach it with a healthy attitude. It's a game of chance in which there's no guarantee of winning. Unrealistic expectations can lead to disappointment and frustration, so it's best to be mindful of them and remain calm waiting for the outcome of the game than to start planning on how to spend invisible money. There's nothing wrong with a little bit of optimism when you're placing a bet. But it's paramount to keep your expectations realistic and to understand that the odds are not in your favor because your chance of losing is always higher than the chance of winning.

I have a friend who has very high expectations regarding his bets. He told me that he would move his entire family to a developed world when he wins some huge amount of money. I like his expectations and goals but he has a wrong perception about gambling. I have also observed that he is not always happy and sounds depressed sometimes. From all observation, he gambles within his means but his expectations are too high which is affecting his mood. As you observed @knowngunman we should have a reasonable expectation because gambling is unpredictable to avoid mental health issues.

Actually, having expectations about the bet is okay, but we shouldn't have too high hopes because in gambling, we don't have a certain outcome regarding winning, and we also don't know when we can win. So instead of being frustrated by waiting for our winnings to come, it's better for us just to enjoy gambling and always limit the use of money so that we don't lose much money. And that's why we don't need to have too high expectations when playing gambling rather than regretting that our expectations were not achieved.

[Frankolala]

I few time that i made such mistakes of putting some hope in my bets to make something good, it all ended in regret and bad feelings because I lost both games at separate times so since then I become more conscious of my actions and I never rely on or put faith in any bet, no matter how sure those games are but also I know that gambling is not a source of income and should be done just for fun, but this days allot of gamblers now rely on gambling most especially on sports bets to make daily ends needs.
Making bets on multiple games only increases the risk of the gambler since the risk becomes higher with multiple games selection compared to when you only pick a single game and make a bet on that one games.

I don’t think it’s that bad having a little bit of hope here and there whenever a bet is placed. What I would advise against is having high expectations for your bet that you unconsciously start planning on how to spend your winnings on making various purchases when you haven’t actually won anything yet. I guess having unrealistic high hopes could also hurt when there is a loss later on.

A large portion of people who gamble as a means of making some income usually end up borrowing money to continue playing still having hopes of having that big enough win to cover up all losses. It’s absurd how people would seek to earn constant income from gambling. Financial ruin awaits such individuals.

Having hope in every bet does not hurt because every round is different if you are lucky maybe it's good, but luck does not apply to every round as well as every value you bet. And it's true that having high expectations will also be detrimental because with the hope of winning big it will make you continue to play even though only losing you always get.

That is one of the bad effects of gambling with the hope that you will still win if you continue to play, of course this is wrong. The further you go in, the greater the loss you will experience. Borrowing here and there to continue playing and this will have no end because of the hope of winning big that you have. It's best to immediately reduce playing gambling, don't go too deep because there will be worse impacts waiting.

Gamblers are positive thinkers when it comes to their bet, they will never believe that they will loss, as they believe that they will win the next game the moment they loss the previous. This is what has made so many gamblers continue to place their bet even though they are running at loss.

I really prefer to bet on a single or two games rather than multiples of games because the chances of winning is very slim compare on when you bet on a dingle game that you are sure of, rather than multiples games that you might not be sure of. The problem is that famblers think that gambling is to make profit and they will use very small amount of money and want ro win bug with it, and at the end of the day when they end ip losing, they end up with gambling trauma.

[Westinhome]

I met a friend who used about $1 to play gamble to win about $2500 in a game of different matches, all the early games went well but the last game cut which made him loose the game.  This lose made him to be sick for 3 days, the reason for his reaction was not because of the money he used to bet but he felt so bad because he has already put all his hope on the money he would have won.

People needs not to put all their hope in games they are not sure of winning, because relying on it can be very dangerous to the mental health. Play gamble and remove your mind from the money that will be gained till it is achieved.

If the gambler starts to rebuild their balance in the gambling sites,the first thing was he use more time compared to the normal gamblers.The gambler who had increased the 1-2500 dollars in not the easy task,being the gambler we know how hard to increase the deposit amount of 100 dollars to the 200 dollars.Apart from the game,the gambler should have the luck and time for the big money.The gambler should not play the multiple games in the gambling sites to multiple the money in the gambling sites.He should master in the one game and increase their strategy to make the big win in the gambling sites.

[romero121]

I met a friend who used about $1 to play gamble to win about $2500 in a game of different matches, all the early games went well but the last game cut which made him loose the game.  This lose made him to be sick for 3 days, the reason for his reaction was not because of the money he used to bet but he felt so bad because he has already put all his hope on the money he would have won.

People needs not to put all their hope in games they are not sure of winning, because relying on it can be very dangerous to the mental health. Play gamble and remove your mind from the money that will be gained till it is achieved.

If the gambler starts to rebuild their balance in the gambling sites,the first thing was he use more time compared to the normal gamblers.The gambler who had increased the 1-2500 dollars in not the easy task,being the gambler we know how hard to increase the deposit amount of 100 dollars to the 200 dollars.Apart from the game,the gambler should have the luck and time for the big money.

Agreed, when one is able to make $2500 from $1 it is really great thing in gambling. As stated it needs lots of time and patience to achieve it. Not everyone is able to do it. Same time when one achieve it, they get big confidence that they can win big. This is where they go wrong, and this mindset makes them go for increased bet and ends up losing. I've personally experienced it. Once I made $900 from $3, but I lost it all. It took me two weeks to reach, so it is all about greed and over confidence that leads to loss.

[klidex]

Actually, having expectations about the bet is okay, but we shouldn't have too high hopes because in gambling, we don't have a certain outcome regarding winning, and we also don't know when we can win. So instead of being frustrated by waiting for our winnings to come, it's better for us just to enjoy gambling and always limit the use of money so that we don't lose much money. And that's why we don't need to have too high expectations when playing gambling rather than regretting that our expectations were not achieved.

Every gambler definitely has high expectations of being able to win, but sometimes gambling doesn't go according to our expectations, causing deep disappointment, and it's true as you said, it's better if we don't have too high expectations for gambling so that we don't experience disappointment. and gambling should indeed be used to have fun without expecting to win so that we can enjoy round after round of games that we like but still use limits so that we can stop when the money we use to gamble has run out without having to chase losses.

[topbitcoin]

Actually, having expectations about the bet is okay, but we shouldn't have too high hopes because in gambling, we don't have a certain outcome regarding winning, and we also don't know when we can win. So instead of being frustrated by waiting for our winnings to come, it's better for us just to enjoy gambling and always limit the use of money so that we don't lose much money. And that's why we don't need to have too high expectations when playing gambling rather than regretting that our expectations were not achieved.

Every gambler definitely has high expectations of being able to win, but sometimes gambling doesn't go according to our expectations, causing deep disappointment, and it's true as you said, it's better if we don't have too high expectations for gambling so that we don't experience disappointment. and gambling should indeed be used to have fun without expecting to win so that we can enjoy round after round of games that we like but still use limits so that we can stop when the money we use to gamble has run out without having to chase losses.

expectations that are too high and already have high hopes for gambling will only lead to deep disappointment with gambling and in the end you will only blame yourself for behaving carelessly. We hope it's okay but don't go too far because after all gambling is full of uncertainty. And we also need to remember that gambling will never change anything, including our lives financially. If you ever think that gambling can change someone's life, then we have to look at people. -people who lost everything, wealth, family and jobs just because of irresponsible gambling. And believe me, when we go to a casino with any amount of money, when we go home we will only come home with empty pockets. Gambling is very expensive and very risky to play, so be as careful as possible when playing it.

[maydna]

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Every gambler definitely has high expectations of being able to win, but sometimes gambling doesn't go according to our expectations, causing deep disappointment, and it's true as you said, it's better if we don't have too high expectations for gambling so that we don't experience disappointment. and gambling should indeed be used to have fun without expecting to win so that we can enjoy round after round of games that we like but still use limits so that we can stop when the money we use to gamble has run out without having to chase losses.

It is normal for every gambler to have expectations, but what is not natural is if every gambler does not realize that their chances of winning are not that big, they will not continue gambling and just have fun at gambling. If they were aware of it and could limit their gambling, they would not try to live up to their expectations because it is very difficult for them. They will only try to gamble moderately and just let luck come to them and not chase victory. If they win, they know that it is time for them to end the gambling game so that they don't lose too much.

[klidex]

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expectations that are too high and already have high hopes for gambling will only lead to deep disappointment with gambling and in the end you will only blame yourself for behaving carelessly. We hope it's okay but don't go too far because after all gambling is full of uncertainty. And we also need to remember that gambling will never change anything, including our lives financially. If you ever think that gambling can change someone's life, then we have to look at people. -people who lost everything, wealth, family and jobs just because of irresponsible gambling. And believe me, when we go to a casino with any amount of money, when we go home we will only come home with empty pockets. Gambling is very expensive and very risky to play, so be as careful as possible when playing it.

Hoping too much is not good, especially if you hope in gambling to be able for to win because that will be very risky for people who have the ambition to win they will use all their money to double that money we should not just put our hoped gambling in order to be able to win.
Achieving profits as expected in gambling is something that is difficult for us to achieve, therefore we must use our money and time wisely to avoid bad things that might harm ourselves.

Cases like what you said have happened a lot among the middle and lower classes of society, they hope that gambling can be a step to change someone's life. In my opinion, thinking like that doesn't make sense, we can see many facts of today's life looking at someone who really destroyed by irresponsible gambling

[angrybirdy]

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expectations that are too high and already have high hopes for gambling will only lead to deep disappointment with gambling and in the end you will only blame yourself for behaving carelessly. We hope it's okay but don't go too far because after all gambling is full of uncertainty. And we also need to remember that gambling will never change anything, including our lives financially. If you ever think that gambling can change someone's life, then we have to look at people. -people who lost everything, wealth, family and jobs just because of irresponsible gambling. And believe me, when we go to a casino with any amount of money, when we go home we will only come home with empty pockets. Gambling is very expensive and very risky to play, so be as careful as possible when playing it.

Hoping too much is not good, especially if you hope in gambling to be able for to win because that will be very risky for people who have the ambition to win they will use all their money to double that money we should not just put our hoped gambling in order to be able to win.
Achieving profits as expected in gambling is something that is difficult for us to achieve, therefore we must use our money and time wisely to avoid bad things that might harm ourselves.

Cases like what you said have happened a lot among the middle and lower classes of society, they hope that gambling can be a step to change someone's life. In my opinion, thinking like that doesn't make sense, we can see many facts of today's life looking at someone who really destroyed by irresponsible gambling

That's how greed affects a persons life. I admit that some of us is hoping that once we gamble, it doubles our money. gamblers tends to expect much that's why if their expectation doen't meet, it will trigger to them to continue on playing. Winning in gambling is just a pure luck but some has their strategies to win, if you're greedy, Opportunities will slow down for you and it will leads to your downfall.

[tygeade]

expectations that are too high and already have high hopes for gambling will only lead to deep disappointment with gambling and in the end you will only blame yourself for behaving carelessly. We hope it's okay but don't go too far because after all gambling is full of uncertainty. And we also need to remember that gambling will never change anything, including our lives financially. If you ever think that gambling can change someone's life, then we have to look at people. -people who lost everything, wealth, family and jobs just because of irresponsible gambling. And believe me, when we go to a casino with any amount of money, when we go home we will only come home with empty pockets. Gambling is very expensive and very risky to play, so be as careful as possible when playing it.

That is the problem, people think that they could have a life style change because they can get richer but the reality is that we are not going to get any life style changes, if any then we would probably get worse which is the point and that would be a lot worse.

I think it should be noted that gambling is a null game where you will end up with zero the longer you play, there is no scenario where someone could win money forever, the longer you play the more that house edge will get into play and you are going to end up losing money because of it. I personally gamble knowing this fact and that's why I can easily limit how much I will deposit because that is the amount I am fine losing all together if I keep gambling.

[ethereumhunter]

That's how greed affects a persons life. I admit that some of us is hoping that once we gamble, it doubles our money. gamblers tends to expect much that's why if their expectation doen't meet, it will trigger to them to continue on playing. Winning in gambling is just a pure luck but some has their strategies to win, if you're greedy, Opportunities will slow down for you and it will leads to your downfall.

Yes, greed really knows how to bring someone back to gambling and greed will come to you continuously and tempt you. But you have the opportunity to avoid greed, namely by controlling yourself as best as possible and knowing your limits in gambling so that you will not gamble excessively. Relying on winnings from gambling is very difficult and many have tried it but most of them end up losing their money. You don't need to try it, especially if you have seen for yourself what impacts people have, so you have to be able to reduce your gambling activities so you don't experience what people experience.

[len01]

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Parlays are a rollercoaster, on one hand they make your gambling experience way more fun and the potential for a big win using a small amount of money is there, however very rarely you will win a parlay, and this is because as anyone that has tried before has noticed, it is almost impossible for all the favorites of each match to win, there is always a surprise here and there which basically guarantees that you will never get all of your bets right and you get the win you have been looking for.

that why I say that it requires mental readiness or a mind that is ready to accept all the risks that will be accepted after choosing a multi bet because as you said betting with this option has a very large choice of teams with big odds and still depends on luck because not all the one we choose will win, even the favorite team may not necessarily win because I admit that there are always surprises. so if we have the readiness to accept all these risks, even if we lose, we will not feel regret or expect too much to win because we are mentally and mentally prepared that multi bets will not be easy to win and very few can successfully win from multi bets.