Gambler avoiding friends after a big win.

[darkangel11]

He probably kept friends as a gambler because they'd be like him, so at times they'd lose some money and cry about it and he'd be able to tell himself that he's not so bad at this, others are also winning, or even better, others are losing more money than him, so it's all good.
I lost $100 today, but Frank lost $500, so at least I'm not at the rock bottom
Also, if one of his friends won big their would be a chance for a celebration, maybe even he could borrow some money from the winner.
That's how degenerates think, so I'm not even a little surprised.

[Oilacris]

He probably kept friends as a gambler because they'd be like him, so at times they'd lose some money and cry about it and he'd be able to tell himself that he's not so bad at this, others are also winning, or even better, others are losing more money than him, so it's all good.
I lost $100 today, but Frank lost $500, so at least I'm not at the rock bottom
Also, if one of his friends won big their would be a chance for a celebration, maybe even he could borrow some money from the winner.
That's how degenerates think, so I'm not even a little surprised.

Good thing if you do have that kind of friend on which they wont really be hiding on their own house and never intend to show up their faces on the time that they do make out some win.
It would really be just that a sad part that your co fellow gambler and your friend did really make out such action on the time they win and not on the time that they do lose.
Its really that normal that there would really be some sort of competition on whose the loser of the day and whose the winner of the day on which it is really that something that interesting
if you do have that kind of race specially in between of your friends who do also do some gambling but on the time that jackpot hits then this is where you could really be able to say
whether your friend is a greedy fella or simply that still normal despite of those huge wins. It cant be avoided that you would really be asking out some bonus. lol

Somehow it would really be that understandable that there are really that people who would really flock out and telling you about bonus
on which it makes people to hide right away. 

[ethereumhunter]

Well that's right, this can really make misunderstandings or end up with misunderstandings, and of course their friendship at least will definitely be tenuous, I really understand how when you are in such conditions and indeed I have also experienced the same thing. The role of money can indeed be an intermediary for us to find out how the real nature of the person is, whether our friends or relatives or whoever it is, money is very sensitive. Everyone wants money but not everyone wants to give money to others for free. If we really don't want to give a small portion of our winnings to others then it's better to keep it a secret, because of course if you tell but don't share the winnings at all then there will definitely be misunderstandings, even though there are other factors that are the reason why you don't give it, but other people won't care about all your reasons, they won't believe it.

This has often happened to many people where friendly relationships that were previously fine, after dealing with money, everything falls apart and they even become enemies. Money can change a person quickly because human nature can change according to what happens. That's why we have to differentiate between what we need to tell other people and what we need to hide from others. We don't need to tell everything in detail to other people, especially those who are not our family, because that could cause misunderstandings and various kinds of thoughts from them.

There is nothing better unless you hide it, I'm sure you want your relationship to remain good with friends, so it's better to hide it, rather than causing problems that don't have to be a problem, if they don't know then obviously they won't ask anything or even borrow money, well it's true that if you still want to give your friends such as treating friends to food then you can just find another reason, the point is not to mention that the money is the result of gambling winnings.

Yes, that's what I do if I don't need to tell my best friend anything. I also sort out what I can tell my friends and what I can't so there are clear understandings between you. And to tell about my winnings in gambling, maybe only friends who are really close to me will tell. For the others, I won't tell them about my winnings but I'll buy them food and drinks to enjoy together.

[Jody.Drummer]

Well that's right, this can really make misunderstandings or end up with misunderstandings, and of course their friendship at least will definitely be tenuous, I really understand how when you are in such conditions and indeed I have also experienced the same thing. The role of money can indeed be an intermediary for us to find out how the real nature of the person is, whether our friends or relatives or whoever it is, money is very sensitive. Everyone wants money but not everyone wants to give money to others for free. If we really don't want to give a small portion of our winnings to others then it's better to keep it a secret, because of course if you tell but don't share the winnings at all then there will definitely be misunderstandings, even though there are other factors that are the reason why you don't give it, but other people won't care about all your reasons, they won't believe it.

This has often happened to many people where friendly relationships that were previously fine, after dealing with money, everything falls apart and they even become enemies. Money can change a person quickly because human nature can change according to what happens. That's why we have to differentiate between what we need to tell other people and what we need to hide from others. We don't need to tell everything in detail to other people, especially those who are not our family, because that could cause misunderstandings and various kinds of thoughts from them.

True, I think everyone will definitely know about this problem and most of them I'm sure they must have experienced it, as we know money is very sensitive, no matter if it's other people, close friends or their own family, there will always be misunderstandings and of course with talk behind them. Therefore, to be honest, when I experience problems like this, whether it's money from gambling or anything that is definitely about money problems, I always try to give in, none other than I do it because I am afraid there will be ugliness in terms of friendship relationships that should have high solidarity. So by giving in, there will be no excessive problems. Or it's better not to tell them anything, as we discussed above, rather than causing problems, especially misunderstandings, it's better to keep it a secret. I understand they are very enthusiastic when they get the victory but they should be able to think again, if they tell it to many of their friends then surely they will ask for the money, and if you don't want to give it then it's better to keep quiet, from the beginning don't ever tell anything about the victory.
 

There is nothing better unless you hide it, I'm sure you want your relationship to remain good with friends, so it's better to hide it, rather than causing problems that don't have to be a problem, if they don't know then obviously they won't ask anything or even borrow money, well it's true that if you still want to give your friends such as treating friends to food then you can just find another reason, the point is not to mention that the money is the result of gambling winnings.

Yes, that's what I do if I don't need to tell my best friend anything. I also sort out what I can tell my friends and what I can't so there are clear understandings between you. And to tell about my winnings in gambling, maybe only friends who are really close to me will tell. For the others, I won't tell them about my winnings but I'll buy them food and drinks to enjoy together.

Yes, if it can cause problems then you better consider it carefully, none other than for the good of our friendship too. I am the same as you, I also tell the victory to one of my friends who is very close to me, who indeed we have the same thoughts and understand each other. The point is that before I tell about the victory, I will first look at the character of some people, if the possibility of unwanted things can happen, it is better for me to keep it a secret and use the money for my personal needs.

[khiholangkang]

There is nothing better unless you hide it, I'm sure you want your relationship to remain good with friends, so it's better to hide it, rather than causing problems that don't have to be a problem, if they don't know then obviously they won't ask anything or even borrow money, well it's true that if you still want to give your friends such as treating friends to food then you can just find another reason, the point is not to mention that the money is the result of gambling winnings.

Yes, that's what I do if I don't need to tell my best friend anything. I also sort out what I can tell my friends and what I can't so there are clear understandings between you. And to tell about my winnings in gambling, maybe only friends who are really close to me will tell. For the others, I won't tell them about my winnings but I'll buy them food and drinks to enjoy together.

Yes, if it can cause problems then you better consider it carefully, none other than for the good of our friendship too. I am the same as you, I also tell the victory to one of my friends who is very close to me, who indeed we have the same thoughts and understand each other. The point is that before I tell about the victory, I will first look at the character of some people, if the possibility of unwanted things can happen, it is better for me to keep it a secret and use the money for my personal needs.

It would be even better if they don't know we gamble, so there is no need to tell them about your gambling experience, whether you win or lose from gambling, so you can enjoy it yourself.

For people whose friends already know that you gamble, and see the character in your friends is very bad when you get a win in gambling, it should indeed be a step that needs to be taken is not to tell it to your friends, it can be told but you should know what your friends will do when you get a win, whether your friends ask or borrow or something else, when you have the intention to tell your friends it should already be a consideration for yourself sir.

[n00ber]

It would be even better if they don't know we gamble, so there is no need to tell them about your gambling experience, whether you win or lose from gambling, so you can enjoy it yourself.

For people whose friends already know that you gamble, and see the character in your friends is very bad when you get a win in gambling, it should indeed be a step that needs to be taken is not to tell it to your friends, it can be told but you should know what your friends will do when you get a win, whether your friends ask or borrow or something else, when you have the intention to tell your friends it should already be a consideration for yourself sir.

This is usually bad behavior. Why should we hide the fact that we are winning this game, that I have a large amount of money? Let's spend a little and treat our friends. I think this is the most amazing thing. We should remember that when we lose gambling, we have no money to continue. At that time, almost everyone will intend to borrow and be willing to borrow from friends. Then they'll lend it to us.
Why avoid friends when we win?

[rahmad2nd]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Usually, cases like this are something that normally happens if I refer to my country. however, it doesn't actually have to be as specific as the content of the story in this thread. Before we assume too far, basically we don't know how the friendships between them are, especially those related to gambling. We often encounter cases like this everywhere, especially those involving money. In fact, there are various classic reasons that can refer to why the winner avoids his gambling friends. It could be that they are not close friends as you might assume. or, it could also be that his friends who gathered at the gambling shop also did the same thing before with their winnings. It could also be that when you win, there is no tradition of treating or sharing a little good fortune for your win.

In conclusion, cases like this often occur in society, depending on how we socialize. but suppose, the man who won by deliberately avoiding his friends because of his victory. This could indicate the man's natural character. So, when we talk about capital, especially large amounts of money, our natural human nature will be seen when we have money, especially large amounts.  Money can show a person's personal characteristics, how he uses that money. In this case, I actually can't assume and speculate too much.  in fact, we don't know what really happened. plus, a person has the right to do anything with the money on his winnings from his gambling. Most importantly, he does not disturb or harm other parties, even his friends.

[mvdheuvel1983]

He probably kept friends as a gambler because they'd be like him, so at times they'd lose some money and cry about it and he'd be able to tell himself that he's not so bad at this, others are also winning, or even better, others are losing more money than him, so it's all good.
I lost $100 today, but Frank lost $500, so at least I'm not at the rock bottom
Also, if one of his friends won big their would be a chance for a celebration, maybe even he could borrow some money from the winner.
That's how degenerates think, so I'm not even a little surprised.

This is very hilarious. Imagine gambler's having this sort of logical and cognitive thinking but when it comes to placing bets they become emotional and irrational in their thoughts. Well it is being said that friends of a feather flock together therefore you are not far from the truth. A gambler who avoids his "friends" after a win knows that they are no friends at all. A friend is someone you call to celebrate with you after a win not someone you run away from.

[tjtonmoy]

My father always says and I quote, "when you become successful, your friend circle will shrink, and when your friends become successful, if you are not successful, you won't be their friend".
I have experienced this in real life, so now I know how the person who is avoiding their friends is feeling. You are a villain in other's stories, and someone else is a villain in your story. From both of their perspective, they are right but when you see from the opposite perspective they are both wrong.
Now imagine this, you are friends with gamblers and you gamble together. So you know how they gamble. Now you have on a big amount of money by gambling. And those friends haven't won anything. When you have the money, people will come to you asking for money for no reason. Even if they have reason, if you don't give them money you are a bad person to them. On the other hand if you keep giving them money they will keep coming back. And being a gambler, it is hard to keep money in your hand if you are an addict.

So I don't blame the man who has won the prize and decided to avoid those who haven't won anything. But it also makes sense not to avoid them and ask before doing so. If he is ignoring them for no reason then that's bad. But it is his personal choice right? So who are we to judge?

[swogerino]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

They have one saying here if people ask for borrowed money like someone asking you 100 dollar loan,it is better to spend those 100 dollars to give to this so called friend and get rid of him if he doesn't pay rather than continuing your relations with him.The same can be applied to the above scenario,these bold gamblers learned the hard way but learned that this other friend is not what he looked like and what these other friends used to think of him.It is better that he is avoiding them if he is cheap that he won't share a tip with them as is tradition between all gamblers,now if he comes back to them they should be the one avoiding him and keep their relationship in gambling only between them.

[Westinhome]

They have one saying here if people ask for borrowed money like someone asking you 100 dollar loan,it is better to spend those 100 dollars to give to this so called friend and get rid of him if he doesn't pay rather than continuing your relations with him.The same can be applied to the above scenario,these bold gamblers learned the hard way but learned that this other friend is not what he looked like and what these other friends used to think of him.It is better that he is avoiding them if he is cheap that he won't share a tip with them as is tradition between all gamblers,now if he comes back to them they should be the one avoiding him and keep their relationship in gambling only between them.

The loan will be the reason for the gambler to use of the avoid of the friends after big win from the gambling.The gambler friends consider the win of his friend as like their win to the gambling,So most probably the gambling addicted friend will ask the money for the commitment to their friends.The gambler friends will use the opportunity to get the loan from their friends.If the friend had repaid the loan to their friend,So it won’t be any problem to the gambler.But if they not paid the money for the longer period,it will kill the relationship between the true friends.So it’s better to avoid such cheap character friends in your life.

[wxa7115]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

It would have been nice to know how much money is what that person won in terms of dollars as that will give us a clearer view about his reasons for avoiding his friends.

Because if that amount is high in terms of dollars, it is possible the reason he is avoiding them is that he does not want to listen to the loan requests of his friends, as he will have to reject them directly, probably putting an end to the friendship right there, or he will have to accept the request, and most likely he will never get his money back.

[ethereumhunter]

True, I think everyone will definitely know about this problem and most of them I'm sure they must have experienced it, as we know money is very sensitive, no matter if it's other people, close friends or their own family, there will always be misunderstandings and of course with talk behind them. Therefore, to be honest, when I experience problems like this, whether it's money from gambling or anything that is definitely about money problems, I always try to give in, none other than I do it because I am afraid there will be ugliness in terms of friendship relationships that should have high solidarity. So by giving in, there will be no excessive problems. Or it's better not to tell them anything, as we discussed above, rather than causing problems, especially misunderstandings, it's better to keep it a secret. I understand they are very enthusiastic when they get the victory but they should be able to think again, if they tell it to many of their friends then surely they will ask for the money, and if you don't want to give it then it's better to keep quiet, from the beginning don't ever tell anything about the victory.

Giving in can provide a solution but often if we give in, they will feel more than us so there is an impression of intimidating us. I also sometimes give in, depending on the situation and conditions. But if I can't give in because I prioritize family, I won't tell them anything and it's better to keep it a secret so that misunderstandings don't arise between me and my friends. But I'm lucky. All my friends understand each other. And we support each other too because that's what we need when one of us has problems. And when it comes to money or winnings in gambling, we share with each other because we feel we are nothing if we don't have them, our friends who we have built over the years.
 

Yes, if it can cause problems then you better consider it carefully, none other than for the good of our friendship too. I am the same as you, I also tell the victory to one of my friends who is very close to me, who indeed we have the same thoughts and understand each other. The point is that before I tell about the victory, I will first look at the character of some people, if the possibility of unwanted things can happen, it is better for me to keep it a secret and use the money for my personal needs.

I agree with you. By looking at who our friends are, we can choose who to tell so there are no problems later. Especially if this is a personal problem or about winnings from gambling because often when it involves money, a person's character can change drastically and we will no longer be able to recognize it. But if we know who is near us, especially our friends, we can share stories of winnings or whatever we experienced with them so that they will also be very happy if they find out that we can win at gambling.

[Oilacris]

They have one saying here if people ask for borrowed money like someone asking you 100 dollar loan,it is better to spend those 100 dollars to give to this so called friend and get rid of him if he doesn't pay rather than continuing your relations with him.The same can be applied to the above scenario,these bold gamblers learned the hard way but learned that this other friend is not what he looked like and what these other friends used to think of him.It is better that he is avoiding them if he is cheap that he won't share a tip with them as is tradition between all gamblers,now if he comes back to them they should be the one avoiding him and keep their relationship in gambling only between them.

The loan will be the reason for the gambler to use of the avoid of the friends after big win from the gambling.The gambler friends consider the win of his friend as like their win to the gambling,So most probably the gambling addicted friend will ask the money for the commitment to their friends.The gambler friends will use the opportunity to get the loan from their friends.If the friend had repaid the loan to their friend,So it won’t be any problem to the gambler.But if they not paid the money for the longer period,it will kill the relationship between the true friends.So it’s better to avoid such cheap character friends in your life.

They wont really be that so dumb if you do make those loan to be paid which would really be your main reasoning specially if the amount is big then it is really that safe to say that it would really be just more than enough for the said loan. You cant really blame them on the time that they would be saying that you are just simply avoiding them because you are afraid that they would really be asking some bonus or some money because you have won something significant. You cant really be able to avoid those kind of approaches considering that we are talking about money on here.
Reactions would really be that so common or be known and if you are someone who is selfish and totally dont consider out even giving some small amounts then its your choice. Its your
money then its just that your right that you will really be having choices whether you would be giving one or not.

One things for sure that on the time that you would really be making some approach again into your friends then you would really be that ignored just because
you have ignored them earlier. Not all friends would really be coming after for the money because there are ones who dont really care that much about on the money
you had won.

[Oasisman]

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Simple, he is avoiding his friends as they might be constantly asking him for money to bet and it was just your assumption that they are close friends, they might not, they are might just be a gambling friends and these gambling friends won't gonna help you financially when you lose. These same friends won't gonna find you if you don't have money or did not win big, they are just looking for that lucky guy to ask for money from him, outside of that there are no other reasons.
I'm pretty sure they are just gambling buddies, and I certainly do the same if I were on that lucky guy's shoes.

[angrybirdy]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

It would have been nice to know how much money is what that person won in terms of dollars as that will give us a clearer view about his reasons for avoiding his friends.

Because if that amount is high in terms of dollars, it is possible the reason he is avoiding them is that he does not want to listen to the loan requests of his friends, as he will have to reject them directly, probably putting an end to the friendship right there, or he will have to accept the request, and most likely he will never get his money back.

It is possible that way, he probably knows the behavior of his friends that if he wins his friends will ask for a loan that will never be paid by them. He might receive some reason such as you have won a big amount, why not disregard my loan. But on the other hand, if he considers them as his friends, why not deny the request for money and use some reason to avoid loan requests? It's better than to avoid your friends completely.

[klidex]

He probably kept friends as a gambler because they'd be like him, so at times they'd lose some money and cry about it and he'd be able to tell himself that he's not so bad at this, others are also winning, or even better, others are losing more money than him, so it's all good.
I lost $100 today, but Frank lost $500, so at least I'm not at the rock bottom
Also, if one of his friends won big their would be a chance for a celebration, maybe even he could borrow some money from the winner.
That's how degenerates think, so I'm not even a little surprised.

This is very hilarious. Imagine gambler's having this sort of logical and cognitive thinking but when it comes to placing bets they become emotional and irrational in their thoughts. Well it is being said that friends of a feather flock together therefore you are not far from the truth. A gambler who avoids his "friends" after a win knows that they are no friends at all. A friend is someone you call to celebrate with you after a win not someone you run away from.

yes, maybe there is a reason why the person left his friends after winning big, maybe he was afraid that his friends would borrow some money from him so it is very likely that he avoided him for some time because sometimes money can cause problems and money can be the cause of breaking the friendship circle if we experience it misunderstanding.
and it is possible that the person celebrates the victory with his family or gives the winnings to his wife for daily living needs or it could be that the money is used to open a business so they avoid their friends so that the winnings they get are not just spent on having fun.

[lienfaye]

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

There are few reasons that I can think of
1. He don't want to give away money to his friends.
2. He distance himself to refrain spending his won money to gambling again.
3. Or maybe he just want to leave everything behind to start a new beginning with different people particularly to upper class.

If this gambler is a true friend, somehow he will share or celebrate this special moment with his friends. Unfortunately, he just shows his true color for acting that way and it's because of money.

[michellee]

It is possible that way, he probably knows the behavior of his friends that if he wins his friends will ask for a loan that will never be paid by them. He might receive some reason such as you have won a big amount, why not disregard my loan. But on the other hand, if he considers them as his friends, why not deny the request for money and use some reason to avoid loan requests? It's better than to avoid your friends completely.

At least he knows his friends who are used to borrowing money from other friends. So he can prevent experiencing the same incident as his friends. He didn't need to tell many people about his win. It will only attract people to come to his house to congratulate him.

He was indeed able to refuse his friend's request to borrow money. But most of his friends wouldn't want to know about it and they would say that he was stingy and wouldn't lend them money. That has happened to many people so often that everyone already knows what to do if they get a lot of money from anywhere.

Only friends who are truly friends will understand and will not use the opportunity for their own gain. They will only congratulate you without any intention of borrowing or asking to celebrate their win.

[noormcs5]

He probably kept friends as a gambler because they'd be like him, so at times they'd lose some money and cry about it and he'd be able to tell himself that he's not so bad at this, others are also winning, or even better, others are losing more money than him, so it's all good.
I lost $100 today, but Frank lost $500, so at least I'm not at the rock bottom
Also, if one of his friends won big their would be a chance for a celebration, maybe even he could borrow some money from the winner.
That's how degenerates think, so I'm not even a little surprised.

When you have friends who gamble, then it is obvious that they will discuss about their losses and wins. No matter how sincere is your friend, he will never want that he loses in gambling and you win more than him. The jealousy factor exists between friends and this is natural. The best thing we can do is to avoid telling friends about our wins.

Yes, we can tell them about our losses, because in that case , the friends will usually show sympathy to us but the relationship will never get hurt. However, if we want that we remain at upper hand among friends, we would not tell about our loses, as in that case, people may think that we are inexperienced and do not know how to gamble.