Gambler avoiding friends after a big win.

[Gozie51]

I will also support this kind of decision in avoiding friends when you make a big win in gambling, this is not because you wanted to intimidate them or got them disappointed, but you wouldn't like to engage in doing any mistake that will result in loosing the entire money back to gambling and unnecessary spendings that are mostly orchestrated through friends, when you should be sitting down in planning how you can Invest with the money.

Nothing wrong with planning to grow or invest the money you won but not to totally avoid friends who know how you guys have come along way. Although, there are people who call those who are not their friends as friends but in real sense they are just acquittance but a real friend is that person who stood by you through thick and thin, so if you have a big win such people can even guide you in ideas to manage the money into lucrative business so that you don't go back to the dusk. The little beginning is always a cherish one so no point running out of friends when we win big, you only have to know who is your friends.

[boty]

I will also support this kind of decision in avoiding friends when you make a big win in gambling, this is not because you wanted to intimidate them or got them disappointed, but you wouldn't like to engage in doing any mistake that will result in loosing the entire money back to gambling and unnecessary spendings that are mostly orchestrated through friends, when you should be sitting down in planning how you can Invest with the money.

Nothing wrong with planning to grow or invest the money you won but not to totally avoid friends who know how you guys have come along way. Although, there are people who call those who are not their friends as friends but in real sense they are just acquittance but a real friend is that person who stood by you through thick and thin, so if you have a big win such people can even guide you in ideas to manage the money into lucrative business so that you don't go back to the dusk. The little beginning is always a cherish one so no point running out of friends when we win big, you only have to know who is your friends.

Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.

[ethereumhunter]

I am very jealous about these things, I am not one to be with friends, because I consider most of them that at any moment they cannot betray, they can talk too much, I try not to give them too much encouragement, my friends are few, they do not even reach 5 fingers the hand, why? because people nowadays are quite bipolar or betrayal, disappointing most of the time, my wife is a woman who told me that she had friends, then those friends, two of them were very bad, the good thing is that she I let her know with tests, one I discovered that she was a lesbian and a witch because she did witchcraft on her when spirits came to kill them, and since I'm not afraid of that I just got scared and realized that it was her, and I told her that I didn't even want to see her. that woman more, and another one was quite biolar and toxic, then I also told her the same thing, and I told her what friends? Those who try to harm other people are not friends, but I can't understand why people focus on harming other people? What do they gain from that? I don't understand it, instead of worrying about getting money, or business, something that produces them.

Although that story has nothing to do with this, I tell it because there is a certain analogy and that is that people like to use others to climb and they don't mind trampling them as long as they clarify, so this means that when we do certain things like those friendships, which for me are not, and what this man did when he earned that money, well, they are things that show that when they do not have a common interest they use others and when they get what they want they leave , that is not about friends, so companions are one things and a friend is another, that is what we must differentiate, so when we do the analysis it is difficult when there are friends and money mixed at the same time, that is why when we We see the money and friends, we should not mix them, it is always more likely that there will be problems that will arise.

You don't need to be jealous of all that because we can be friends with whoever we want. From these friendships, we have to select friends who can truly be friends so that they will be our friends whatever the conditions and situations we face so that we can give and receive well from each other. There won't be many and maybe it will only be 5 people or fewer because finding friends who can become friends is not easy and we can find them after having a few friends. And those who understand us and vice versa will maintain good friendships and not hurt each other. And if someone succeeds in winning at gambling, they will invite all their close friends to share their winnings but no one is jealous of what their friend has got because they know that it depends on their own luck and the luck of each person will be different.

Many people like to use other people for their own interests and when they get it, they will just leave it, especially if nothing is left to use. Friends like that don't need to be approached because they will approach us, especially when they need something. This has often happened to us and other people, so we have to be careful in socializing and always look for people who can be our friends in every situation and condition. Good friends are hard to find but friends who are just friends are easy to find. It's possible that the man knew that he didn't have any friends who were really close to him, so he started to stay away from people who weren't close friends because he knew that the people around him only wanted to take advantage of his winnings. He doesn't want to be lied to by friends who pretend to be nice to him but they have a specific purpose behind their good attitude.

[wxa7115]

I will also support this kind of decision in avoiding friends when you make a big win in gambling, this is not because you wanted to intimidate them or got them disappointed, but you wouldn't like to engage in doing any mistake that will result in loosing the entire money back to gambling and unnecessary spendings that are mostly orchestrated through friends, when you should be sitting down in planning how you can Invest with the money.

Nothing wrong with planning to grow or invest the money you won but not to totally avoid friends who know how you guys have come along way. Although, there are people who call those who are not their friends as friends but in real sense they are just acquittance but a real friend is that person who stood by you through thick and thin, so if you have a big win such people can even guide you in ideas to manage the money into lucrative business so that you don't go back to the dusk. The little beginning is always a cherish one so no point running out of friends when we win big, you only have to know who is your friends.

Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.

It is never that simple, there are many people that have problems saying no to other people, while at the same time there are those which are very pushy and will not accept a no for an answer and will keep asking for money nonstop.

And if we also consider that one of most crucial factors that may lead a gambler to lose the profits they got out of their gambling activities are their loved ones which squander their money, we can begin to understand why someone may take the decision to avoid them for a time until things are more clear on their minds.

[dezoel]

I would have done the opposite. I would tell all my friends and see which one is my real friend or not. If I tell all my friends that I won 30 million dollars today, even without actually winning, I guarantee you that none of them will want even a single dollar from me, they would congratulate me, maybe some of them would talk behind my back Which is normal really nothing to worry about, if I learned they got 30 million then I would say stuff like "lucky mofo.." too but nothing to their faces, and ALL of them would act like everything is exactly the same and never ask a dime from me. That's the important part, if any of them ever ask me for money, unless I know that they really need it, then I would just cut ties with them.

Obviously, if its a hospital thing, like some sickness, I would help even right now as much as I can, which is my downfall because I help everyone with their hospital bills, but aside from that they wouldn't ask I am sure.

[Fredomago]

I will also support this kind of decision in avoiding friends when you make a big win in gambling, this is not because you wanted to intimidate them or got them disappointed, but you wouldn't like to engage in doing any mistake that will result in loosing the entire money back to gambling and unnecessary spendings that are mostly orchestrated through friends, when you should be sitting down in planning how you can Invest with the money.

Nothing wrong with planning to grow or invest the money you won but not to totally avoid friends who know how you guys have come along way. Although, there are people who call those who are not their friends as friends but in real sense they are just acquittance but a real friend is that person who stood by you through thick and thin, so if you have a big win such people can even guide you in ideas to manage the money into lucrative business so that you don't go back to the dusk. The little beginning is always a cherish one so no point running out of friends when we win big, you only have to know who is your friends.

Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.

Logically right,  with proper explanation with what you are planning to do with your earnings can give your friends that approval on why you need  to avoid them, it's more on communication and how you deliver those good explanations that can enlighten  them with your plans. Better to tell them as if they are your true friends they will surely understand  things that you wanted to push forward.

A friend is always a friend proper explanation will help to settle if there's miscommunication that happened, it can be resolved by means of good communication.

[Lanatsa]

I am very jealous about these things, I am not one to be with friends, because I consider most of them that at any moment they cannot betray, they can talk too much, I try not to give them too much encouragement, my friends are few, they do not even reach 5 fingers the hand, why? because people nowadays are quite bipolar or betrayal, disappointing most of the time, my wife is a woman who told me that she had friends, then those friends, two of them were very bad, the good thing is that she I let her know with tests, one I discovered that she was a lesbian and a witch because she did witchcraft on her when spirits came to kill them, and since I'm not afraid of that I just got scared and realized that it was her, and I told her that I didn't even want to see her. that woman more, and another one was quite biolar and toxic, then I also told her the same thing, and I told her what friends? Those who try to harm other people are not friends, but I can't understand why people focus on harming other people? What do they gain from that? I don't understand it, instead of worrying about getting money, or business, something that produces them.

Although that story has nothing to do with this, I tell it because there is a certain analogy and that is that people like to use others to climb and they don't mind trampling them as long as they clarify, so this means that when we do certain things like those friendships, which for me are not, and what this man did when he earned that money, well, they are things that show that when they do not have a common interest they use others and when they get what they want they leave , that is not about friends, so companions are one things and a friend is another, that is what we must differentiate, so when we do the analysis it is difficult when there are friends and money mixed at the same time, that is why when we We see the money and friends, we should not mix them, it is always more likely that there will be problems that will arise.

You don't need to be jealous of all that because we can be friends with whoever we want. From these friendships, we have to select friends who can truly be friends so that they will be our friends whatever the conditions and situations we face so that we can give and receive well from each other. There won't be many and maybe it will only be 5 people or fewer because finding friends who can become friends is not easy and we can find them after having a few friends. And those who understand us and vice versa will maintain good friendships and not hurt each other. And if someone succeeds in winning at gambling, they will invite all their close friends to share their winnings but no one is jealous of what their friend has got because they know that it depends on their own luck and the luck of each person will be different.

Many people like to use other people for their own interests and when they get it, they will just leave it, especially if nothing is left to use. Friends like that don't need to be approached because they will approach us, especially when they need something. This has often happened to us and other people, so we have to be careful in socializing and always look for people who can be our friends in every situation and condition. Good friends are hard to find but friends who are just friends are easy to find. It's possible that the man knew that he didn't have any friends who were really close to him, so he started to stay away from people who weren't close friends because he knew that the people around him only wanted to take advantage of his winnings. He doesn't want to be lied to by friends who pretend to be nice to him but they have a specific purpose behind their good attitude.

You would really be able to see on whose your real friend and whose are really just that good when you are that beneficial to them because we know that there are friends who are really that taking advantage into someone which they do know that they could really be able to benefit out or something that could really be able to help but on the time that you arent that already needed then you would really be dumped and trashed and this is really that indeed happening and this is something that we do really know that do happen in real life.On the situation on which if you are someone who are really that able to hit up some huge win
then why would really be trying out to hide from your friends, what for? Afraid on getting asked out for some money? It would be normal but doesnt mean that they do really mean out since they cant really be able to force you out on giving or not.If you would then its good but if its not then its still good. Its not really that worth on putting up your friendship in line just because of money.

Somewhat its not really that bad on making yourself that able to give some small amounts on showing up some compliments into your friends specially if you do win up big
then it wont really be that hurting you on giving out some money that they could make use of but not necessarily for it to be big. It would really be just that sufficient or something not that big and not that small too.

[Orpichukwu]

I will also support this kind of decision in avoiding friends when you make a big win in gambling, this is not because you wanted to intimidate them or got them disappointed, but you wouldn't like to engage in doing any mistake that will result in loosing the entire money back to gambling and unnecessary spendings that are mostly orchestrated through friends, when you should be sitting down in planning how you can Invest with the money.

This is you thinking and looking at things in a positive way, which most people fail to realise and think the same way. If I'm also in the guy's position, I will buy into this idea, which is the best thing anyone can do. This is about security and also taking the right decision and not risking everything in the name of an old friend's gang.
 
Those groups of friends, if he doesn't let go of them, might affect his decision-making in the future; they might also lure him to misuse the money; or, to some point, envy and jealousy will come to the table, as it will come to a point where they will feel like the other guy is now too proud and showing off as he has made it. Let's also not forget that these friends in question are also gamblers; one of them might be an addict, so they might also want to drag him to still continue gambling with a higher amount this time to give him a higher chance of winning big, which can lead to losing all.

[goinmerry]

From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

This is the problem to some people especially when just a passerby listening to a conversation between two people, being assuming.

How come you conclude right away that those people involved are CLOSED to each other and best friends? Since you don't know the real story behind their conversation, it doesn't make sense to judge the winner as that was surely a personal issue.

Next time, let's not only look at one side of the coin. The winner was judged quickly on this topic without getting its side.

[livingfree]

Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.

If you are best of friends, there's no reason for you to avoid them just because you have won. And your best friends will understand why you're avoiding them because you don't want to give some money on them.

But there's also no need for you to avoid them when you can just say that you need the money and there's an allocation that you shall do then.

Avoiding your friends makes it look odd when you have just won a big win. They will still be your friends after you spend all of that money.

[GiftedMAN]

I will also support this kind of decision in avoiding friends when you make a big win in gambling, this is not because you wanted to intimidate them or got them disappointed, but you wouldn't like to engage in doing any mistake that will result in loosing the entire money back to gambling and unnecessary spendings that are mostly orchestrated through friends, when you should be sitting down in planning how you can Invest with the money.

Nothing wrong with planning to grow or invest the money you won but not to totally avoid friends who know how you guys have come along way. Although, there are people who call those who are not their friends as friends but in real sense they are just acquittance but a real friend is that person who stood by you through thick and thin, so if you have a big win such people can even guide you in ideas to manage the money into lucrative business so that you don't go back to the dusk. The little beginning is always a cherish one so no point running out of friends when we win big, you only have to know who is your friends.

Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.

There might be different reasons why we have to avoid friends when we win a big amount of money but it should not be for our own selfish reasons. Gambling can be stressful when we don't always make profits and the amount we have out into it becoming bigger than the amount of funds we have won. We need to be very wise to avoid friends even when we are gambling because that can make us make more loses if we do listen to them without taking our own decisions. Their are some friends that are only after getting from us and don't care for us when we make loses.

[Hispo]

From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

This is the problem to some people especially when just a passerby listening to a conversation between two people, being assuming.

How come you conclude right away that those people involved are CLOSED to each other and best friends? Since you don't know the real story behind their conversation, it doesn't make sense to judge the winner as that was surely a personal issue.

Next time, let's not only look at one side of the coin. The winner was judged quickly on this topic without getting its side.

That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.

[Westinhome]

That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.

Their was huge difference between the friends and best friend,because the best friend will know all our financial struggles.So once we win the game,they never ask to do favour using that money.So if you share the winnings to the close friend will not affect you at point.But sharing to the friends will make you to some financial needs by your friends and ask to do favour to their needs.Most probably they will ask you to give loan,because the loan from the friends doesn’t need to pay the interest till the repayment date.The friends always depends on you to pay for all their needs and demands.When you go to the hotel,they demand you to pay the full money.

[shogun47]

That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.

Their was huge difference between the friends and best friend,because the best friend will know all our financial struggles.So once we win the game,they never ask to do favour using that money.So if you share the winnings to the close friend will not affect you at point.But sharing to the friends will make you to some financial needs by your friends and ask to do favour to their needs.Most probably they will ask you to give loan,because the loan from the friends doesn’t need to pay the interest till the repayment date.The friends always depends on you to pay for all their needs and demands.When you go to the hotel,they demand you to pay the full money.

Not sure if this can be considered a general rule, but first of all I don't know whether I would feel inclined to share big winnings at all, but that doesn't only count for winnings in gambling, it could also be inheritance or very high income from a well paid job. The truth is that money attracts people. But I think most people know that it is never smart to go bragging about your 10 million dollars lottery win. It jut can't be smart for so many reasons the same way it wouldn't be smart to let the world know that you are sitting on a huge bag full of Bitcoin. It should remain a personal matter for your own safety.

[Oilacris]

That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.

Their was huge difference between the friends and best friend,because the best friend will know all our financial struggles.So once we win the game,they never ask to do favour using that money.So if you share the winnings to the close friend will not affect you at point.But sharing to the friends will make you to some financial needs by your friends and ask to do favour to their needs.Most probably they will ask you to give loan,because the loan from the friends doesn’t need to pay the interest till the repayment date.The friends always depends on you to pay for all their needs and demands.When you go to the hotel,they demand you to pay the full money.

Not sure if this can be considered a general rule, but first of all I don't know whether I would feel inclined to share big winnings at all, but that doesn't only count for winnings in gambling, it could also be inheritance or very high income from a well paid job. The truth is that money attracts people. But I think most people know that it is never smart to go bragging about your 10 million dollars lottery win. It jut can't be smart for so many reasons the same way it wouldn't be smart to let the world know that you are sitting on a huge bag full of Bitcoin. It should remain a personal matter for your own safety.

When you do win something then you arent obliged on sharing up your winnings which its none others business on what you would gonna do with your win. It do really just turns out to be that a traditional stuff that if you do win then you do need to share but just been said that it isnt really needed or necessary or you are really that obliged in doing so. Your true friends would really be staying to be friends with you doesnt matter whether you would be giving them or not,if  you are the ones who do leave out just because you've been afraid that you would be asked on then its your fault
and your mistake on making out that kind of judgement on which we know that not all friends would really be just liking money most of the time, there are ones which are true and sincere.
It is really just that it turns out that you are really just that too scared on being asked without even trying to act normal.

[Hispo]

That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.

Their was huge difference between the friends and best friend,because the best friend will know all our financial struggles.So once we win the game,they never ask to do favour using that money.So if you share the winnings to the close friend will not affect you at point.But sharing to the friends will make you to some financial needs by your friends and ask to do favour to their needs.Most probably they will ask you to give loan,because the loan from the friends doesn’t need to pay the interest till the repayment date.The friends always depends on you to pay for all their needs and demands.When you go to the hotel,they demand you to pay the full money.

Not sure if this can be considered a general rule, but first of all I don't know whether I would feel inclined to share big winnings at all, but that doesn't only count for winnings in gambling, it could also be inheritance or very high income from a well paid job. The truth is that money attracts people. But I think most people know that it is never smart to go bragging about your 10 million dollars lottery win. It jut can't be smart for so many reasons the same way it wouldn't be smart to let the world know that you are sitting on a huge bag full of Bitcoin. It should remain a personal matter for your own safety.

What if he was with his friends when he hit that jackpot in the casino? What if he was with his friends when they together decided to compare their lottery numbers to those which were being announced as the winning ones on Television?
Perhaps, there was no way we could hide it from his friends, because as it was stated in the beginning of this thread, their were gambling friends, so that means they likely shared their losses and wins because gambled next to each other. If so, what was he supposed to do since the beginning his former friends knew how much money he had earned?
Perhaps the only option for him, since he could to lie about how much he had, was to distance himself from his former partners, for his own security and peace of mind, it is something many of us would have done, unfortunately, security and self preservation are priorities.

[Hirose UK]

Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.

If you are best of friends, there's no reason for you to avoid them just because you have won. And your best friends will understand why you're avoiding them because you don't want to give some money on them.

It is indeed inappropriate if someone who is friends when they get a profit from gambling actually avoids them and doesn't want to get together again like before, but there are many reasons why this kind of thing happens lot.
I personally would not consider an incident like this bad because if you dispute money with friend it will only end in chaos or misunderstandings which will cause the friendship to be destroyed.

But there's also no need for you to avoid them when you can just say that you need the money and there's an allocation that you shall do then.

This is a logical reason but they may not necessarily accept it because everyone has their own thoughts.

Avoiding your friends makes it look odd when you have just won a big win. They will still be your friends after you spend all of that money.

I don't know what they will think, but even now there are still many people who have that attitude.
But still this happens due to some reasons and we cannot understand what is the real reason they do it.

[angrybirdy]

From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

This is the problem to some people especially when just a passerby listening to a conversation between two people, being assuming.

How come you conclude right away that those people involved are CLOSED to each other and best friends? Since you don't know the real story behind their conversation, it doesn't make sense to judge the winner as that was surely a personal issue.

Next time, let's not only look at one side of the coin. The winner was judged quickly on this topic without getting its side.

That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.

That's how society works nowadays, it's easy for some to judge and to conclude without knowing the real context of the story. We didn't know if they are real "close friends" or not, some may assume that they are included as their close friend wherein fact that person treated you as a colleagues or just a co-gamblers. We can't blame that person if he/she wants to avoid the, maybe there's a deeper reason and sometimes it's better to be left unsaid.

[livingfree]

Having a plan with the money we win from gambling is certainly a good thing but we shouldn't avoid friends who are always with us in various situations, but by telling them that we have a plan with the money we win from gambling will certainly make our friends understand it and of course they support whatever we have decided if it is good for us. Yes, of course we know which friends are always there with us and which friends are only there when they need us.

If you are best of friends, there's no reason for you to avoid them just because you have won. And your best friends will understand why you're avoiding them because you don't want to give some money on them.

It is indeed inappropriate if someone who is friends when they get a profit from gambling actually avoids them and doesn't want to get together again like before, but there are many reasons why this kind of thing happens lot.
I personally would not consider an incident like this bad because if you dispute money with friend it will only end in chaos or misunderstandings which will cause the friendship to be destroyed.

Well, money talks and that's when someone has to secure himself from his or her friends so that he won't be asked for it. But we're all different, someone that does that might have some acceptable reason and we know that friends for life are few and friends for money are many.

But there's also no need for you to avoid them when you can just say that you need the money and there's an allocation that you shall do then.

This is a logical reason but they may not necessarily accept it because everyone has their own thoughts.

Just because they are your friends, they should ask you money from your winnings? They can simply say, it's okay and the same as you that you're not going to give them any money. But you're right, they may not accept that but you're the one to decide not them.

Avoiding your friends makes it look odd when you have just won a big win. They will still be your friends after you spend all of that money.

I don't know what they will think, but even now there are still many people who have that attitude.
But still this happens due to some reasons and we cannot understand what is the real reason they do it.

They'll for sure going to have to distance from you after that incident but to who's lost is that? Yours or theirs?

[Fredomago]

From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

This is the problem to some people especially when just a passerby listening to a conversation between two people, being assuming.

How come you conclude right away that those people involved are CLOSED to each other and best friends? Since you don't know the real story behind their conversation, it doesn't make sense to judge the winner as that was surely a personal issue.

Next time, let's not only look at one side of the coin. The winner was judged quickly on this topic without getting its side.

That is what I thought initially when I first saw this topic, by the way.
Even if those people are close enough to be considered "best friends", one still would never know the whole context of the story behind someone quitting hanging out with their best friends.
For example, let us assume you had a very good night at the casino with your best friends and you happened to hit a jackpot, using your own money, in a blink of an eye now you are worth several hundreds of thousands of Dollars (at the very least). How would you feel if next time you hang out with your friends, they start to treat you differently and expect you to pay for their drinks, their food and their wager to gamble since they know exactly how much you have now in your bank account? Anyone would feel uncomfortable having people around who knows that kind of information about you, even if they are family members.
So before judging one side as the bad one of the story, let us put ourselves in the shoe of them.

That's how society works nowadays, it's easy for some to judge and to conclude without knowing the real context of the story. We didn't know if they are real "close friends" or not, some may assume that they are included as their close friend wherein fact that person treated you as a colleagues or just a co-gamblers. We can't blame that person if he/she wants to avoid the, maybe there's a deeper reason and sometimes it's better to be left unsaid.

Good point, there are also reasons behind that we can't conclude which side is telling the truth and like what you mentioned, it might be something that the person let go and not wanting to broadcast his reason, if he choose to move away and avoid those people behind it's his decision and his right whatever the reason behind it.

People decide on their own and we can't blame them if they think that they are doing the right thing, always depends on how they feel and how they see things behind.