Gambler avoiding friends after a big win.

[Blitzboy]

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Everyone has the right to share their gambling winnings with anyone or choose not to share with anyone because they are gambling with their own money, so that is the basic point of this long discussion. You are right, we tend to know the attitude of friends who are worthy of sharing the winnings from gambling because they are good friends and they will also do the same if they are lucky enough to win from gambling, so it is impossible for us to share money with random friends and we will definitely be selective in giving money to a good friend. But sometimes some friends are unreliable, they are very calculating with finances and they hide their gambling winnings so they won't be shared with friends, but that's a fact and we shouldn't trust anyone too much in the circle of life.

Yes, no one can forbid or allow us to give to whoever we want. They can only wait to see what we will do, and if we want to give a little money to other people they don't know, they also can't do anything because it's our money. And we will share this victory with friends who have been good to us so that they can feel the victory that we have achieved. Meanwhile, for friends whom we rarely see or who are not kind to us, we can hide our winnings and tell other friends not to say anything about our winnings. If there is a friend who is very calculating with finances and even hides his gambling winnings, that is not a good friend, and I think they will not make many friends.

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I have experienced what you said, by treating this shameless friend so badly that it makes him uncomfortable to be in a group of friends, When he came to me in a situation where I got a big victory and wanted to share the victory that I had got, I did not treat him well at all, I did not start a conversation with him, did not offer to eat or drink, and if he invited to chat I only answered him briefly, and in the end he was mentally affected by realizing that his existence was not considered. I was satisfied that I was able to make him realize that what he was doing was wrong, because it is impossible for friends like this to do well continuously. I think it's natural that they are occasionally given lessons because it is also to make him realize that he always comes when he is in trouble and disappears when he is happy.
I only share the benefits with friends that I trust even though I have a lot of friends, I can also choose which friends deserve to enjoy the victory I get, the rest are just ordinary friends, but the name of a friend in my opinion is worth keeping and deserves to enjoy the victory I get because we must have friends who always accompany us in any situation, so he deserves to enjoy the victory I get not even just a little maybe all the victories will be enjoyed together.

What you said is true because what they do, they can also experience from other people. If they can do good to other friends, other friends can also do good to them so that there is reciprocity in the friendship relationship. We also will not treat them badly because they can be pleasant friends who not only come when we are happy but will also come when we are experiencing difficulties and help us to solve them. Yes, we have had many experiences with various friends, so we can see which friends are good and which ones will only come around occasionally and expect something from us. Friends like this will not last long because they will leave. After all, they don't get anything from us, and we also don't give them anything because of their own behavior. We follow what they do so they don't do it to us again. We will celebrate with friends who can really be good friends and not friends who only come around occasionally. We don't need friends like that because finding friends who really understand and can be good friends is very difficult, so it makes us very selective in choosing friends.

And I think everyone agrees that a friend who only comes when he needs it should be taught a lesson, because it is also to make him realize himself. Not everyone likes friends who behave like that, the attitude of such themes can make all friends uncomfortable because of their shameless behavior. And also all things will have reciprocity in accordance with what they have done, and this has become a natural law that cannot be denied, where a less good attitude will get less good treatment too.

A person's attitude will be easily revealed over time, especially when it comes to money. Because money has a sensitive nature for everyone even if the family itself when discussing money is very sensitive, so the attitude of a friend will be seen when we have a lot of money, then they will come by themselves without knowing the shame of wanting to ride and enjoy what we have, obviously if what he did was wrong, and this is not once because it has become a bad habit so naturally friends like this get lessons that make him uncomfortable.
Friends like this will last a long time if we still address them well, if they are treated badly then maybe they will leave with the awareness that is in them, and they will not last long if we treat them uncomfortably. But don't get me wrong, if we're like that it's not wrong, because they're the ones who are wrong by coming just because they need to. Generally we can all choose which friends are good and which are not, the winnings will be celebrated by those who are really friends like you said, if those who don't know themselves come when we have money maybe I will give them bad behavior to teach them a lesson. And anyway I myself am sick of a friend like this, friends like this are not worth keeping for a long time, it's better to give him a lesson to make him realize that he can behave well with other friends.

Like a high-stakes poker game, friendships reveal their true colors when corrupted by money. Players only show hands when it helps. As in gambling, life deals us fair and unfair hands. The trick is understanding when to play and fold.

Your tough position is justified. Who wants a one-sided bet relationship? Constantly betting on a losing horse never pays off. Do these "friends" act like players faking their way through? Only appears when pot is full. A dose of their prescription may wake them awake. Remember, the house always wins. You're the house. You control the game by setting rules. Cutting off? Not only giving them a lesson, but recovering your authority in relational dynamics.

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[Ever-young]

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

When I see stuff like this, it irritates me. Why do you have to change after winning money? Actually things like this happen frequently but it doesn't make sense. But use money to test people's behavior if you want to learn more about them. It Simply demonstrates that the guy is not a true friend. Why will you stop hanging out with your friend's now that you are wealthier than them? Perhaps he thing his friends will put all their financial problems on him, but if he is careless and ends up spending  the money carelessly, he will return to the friend's he avoiding when he was wealthy. Allow someone to be wealthy if you truly want to get a sense of their true character. Not everyone you call a friend is actually a friend, some are simply acting like one because they are getting something out of you, but once they have money, you'll be able to see what they're really like.

Do you that there's an amount of money that you'll have now your lifestyle will automatically drift from the way it used to be. There are people you'll start avoiding not because of pride but because you know too well if you hang around them, you will not make any resourceful use of your money, or maybe for security reasons too, if you become so wealthy today, bro there are people you call friends that you wouldn't wanna be around because you know what they are capable of, and you're sure your security isn't guaranteed if you're always around them. Have you not seen cases where people are poisoned by their friends just because they're more successful than them, so if you become rich today and find out one or few of your friends are a likes of that. Are you telling me that you'll still hang out with them and put your life and safety in danger. Or you don't know the same way money brings friends it also brings enemies and frienemies too?

[Shamm]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Actually this is a bad one, but we can't force people to join us after they won a big amount of money, and as you said it's about a million in local currency which is pretty big enough to sustain thier daily needs and build a business but like what you said above mate after that win those winner didn't see his friends. And that's a big sad part from his friends cause imagine 3 of them are playing most of a time but after that won the friendship are over which is pretty bad.

[OgNasty]

I recently heard a story about a man who is suing his significant other for letting the cat out of the bag so to speak on his lottery winnings. I could certainly understand why people want to keep these kinds of windfalls a secret, as the murder rate jumps quite a bit when people know you have money. Perhaps that is a possible motivation.

[Wiwo]

I recently heard a story about a man who is suing his significant other for letting the cat out of the bag so to speak on his lottery winnings. I could certainly understand why people want to keep these kinds of windfalls a secret, as the murder rate jumps quite a bit when people know you have money. Perhaps that is a possible motivation.

If I am in his shoes,  I will do the same because if I win a lottery at least I would have the honour to announce it to anyone I feel that needs to know about the winning and not some other person letting the cat out of the bag by letting others know about my winning.

But then also that man that sues his friend for letting the cat out of the bag is not taking the right approach in all of this and at that,  he may be exposing himself more by going to public court to pursue such case,  instead, he should have just overlooked the whole scenario.

[junder]

And I think everyone agrees that a friend who only comes when he needs it should be taught a lesson, because it is also to make him realize himself. Not everyone likes friends who behave like that, the attitude of such themes can make all friends uncomfortable because of their shameless behavior. And also all things will have reciprocity in accordance with what they have done, and this has become a natural law that cannot be denied, where a less good attitude will get less good treatment too.

A person's attitude will be easily revealed over time, especially when it comes to money. Because money has a sensitive nature for everyone even if the family itself when discussing money is very sensitive, so the attitude of a friend will be seen when we have a lot of money, then they will come by themselves without knowing the shame of wanting to ride and enjoy what we have, obviously if what he did was wrong, and this is not once because it has become a bad habit so naturally friends like this get lessons that make him uncomfortable.
Friends like this will last a long time if we still address them well, if they are treated badly then maybe they will leave with the awareness that is in them, and they will not last long if we treat them uncomfortably. But don't get me wrong, if we're like that it's not wrong, because they're the ones who are wrong by coming just because they need to. Generally we can all choose which friends are good and which are not, the winnings will be celebrated by those who are really friends like you said, if those who don't know themselves come when we have money maybe I will give them bad behavior to teach them a lesson. And anyway I myself am sick of a friend like this, friends like this are not worth keeping for a long time, it's better to give him a lesson to make him realize that he can behave well with other friends.

Like a high-stakes poker game, friendships reveal their true colors when corrupted by money. Players only show hands when it helps. As in gambling, life deals us fair and unfair hands. The trick is understanding when to play and fold.

Your tough position is justified. Who wants a one-sided bet relationship? Constantly betting on a losing horse never pays off. Do these "friends" act like players faking their way through? Only appears when pot is full. A dose of their prescription may wake them awake. Remember, the house always wins. You're the house. You control the game by setting rules. Cutting off? Not only giving them a lesson, but recovering your authority in relational dynamics.

Some people may be silent when they get a victory where they enjoy the victory secretly not by expressing it, but there are also people who get a victory and invite their friends to enjoy the victory they get to enjoy together with a small party or with other things.

However, those of us who get the victory have choices and rules in choosing friends to enjoy it, by inviting those who have good solidarity and good behavior towards us, even though people who get the victory tend to spit but in my opinion there will be friends who are still remembered and want to be invited to enjoy the victory that has been obtained where these friends are not ordinary friends but friends.

[maydna]

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And I think everyone agrees that a friend who only comes when he needs it should be taught a lesson, because it is also to make him realize himself. Not everyone likes friends who behave like that, the attitude of such themes can make all friends uncomfortable because of their shameless behavior. And also all things will have reciprocity in accordance with what they have done, and this has become a natural law that cannot be denied, where a less good attitude will get less good treatment too.

A person's attitude will be easily revealed over time, especially when it comes to money. Because money has a sensitive nature for everyone even if the family itself when discussing money is very sensitive, so the attitude of a friend will be seen when we have a lot of money, then they will come by themselves without knowing the shame of wanting to ride and enjoy what we have, obviously if what he did was wrong, and this is not once because it has become a bad habit so naturally friends like this get lessons that make him uncomfortable.
Friends like this will last a long time if we still address them well, if they are treated badly then maybe they will leave with the awareness that is in them, and they will not last long if we treat them uncomfortably. But don't get me wrong, if we're like that it's not wrong, because they're the ones who are wrong by coming just because they need to. Generally we can all choose which friends are good and which are not, the winnings will be celebrated by those who are really friends like you said, if those who don't know themselves come when we have money maybe I will give them bad behavior to teach them a lesson. And anyway I myself am sick of a friend like this, friends like this are not worth keeping for a long time, it's better to give him a lesson to make him realize that he can behave well with other friends.

Yes, and we don't need friends who only come when they need them but are not there when we need them. It's not a good friend but just an ordinary friend. We all have friends like that, so we can do something to make them uncomfortable when they are in our house. The reciprocity of this friendly relationship can last a long time and even reach old age. Even though they are in different cities, they may look for him and come to his house to reminisce and remember the past so that their children and grandchildren can know their friendly relationship. They will teach you how to make friends so that your children and grandchildren can also make good friends. What we do with other people will definitely come back to us, so if we do good to people, we will definitely get good deeds from other people.

There is no doubt that a person's true attitude and character will be seen when it comes to money and the benefits he can get from other friends. He will not look at the friendship they have built over the years but will only look at the benefits, so he will take advantage of these benefits for himself without thinking about his other friends. And yes, you are right that even families can change easily when it comes to money because each person will definitely think about the benefits. But if someone really respects other people, he will not do things like that but will give what he can and will support his friends because he knows that friendship or family relationships are more than anything. There are even those who are not actually related but can consider their friends to be more than their siblings because they and their friends no longer look at wealth or anything and only think about their relationship with each other. In this day, it is very difficult to find friends who can truly share, especially if they already have a family, because their partner might not be happy to see that they can still share with their best friend. That's humans with all their uniqueness, and we can only try to choose friends who we can make as our friends.

[Coinzydollar]

Gamblers avoid friends  after  big win, yes I strongly  agree because  70% of human are  doe's  kind of people, money  in gambling money is really one the thing that ends  relationship  that causes problem between  two friends.   
But  how  every come to think  of it, a gambler  will  always  remember  times of loses, and how he took the risk to predict.

So when he wins he finds it difficult  to share  the money with anyone, so that why I said gambler  avoid  friends  after  big win.

[wendty]

I wouldn't do that. My friends has been with me through thick and thin. We are close knit and my win is theirs likewise my loss and vice versa. Knowing that my friends would not allow spend more that what is necessary, I will stick with them.

The person in the story has friends who are not his friends.

[Hirose UK]

I wouldn't do that. My friends has been with me through thick and thin. We are close knit and my win is theirs likewise my loss and vice versa. Knowing that my friends would not allow spend more that what is necessary, I will stick with them.

The person in the story has friends who are not his friends.

All of this is your own decision because when we say they are friends we have been around for quite long time with ups and downs, but we still have to prioritize people in our own home or family before deciding to share with friends.
But some people do have the idea that they will never use the proceeds from gambling or give them to family members at home and prefer to have fun or share with other people, including friends, because of different suggestions.
The belief that money from gambling is not good to give to the family has been instilled in the mindset of many gamblers, especially those who also have certain beliefs about things that cannot be explained logically.

Personally, it depends on how many wins I get, if the win is big enough then I will tell friend who I can really trust and give them small share.
But I will not tell all my friends about the victory because it is not certain that they will be able to accept it and there will always be different mindset or mindset of envy regarding the achievements we can get.

[angrybirdy]

I wouldn't do that. My friends has been with me through thick and thin. We are close knit and my win is theirs likewise my loss and vice versa. Knowing that my friends would not allow spend more that what is necessary, I will stick with them.

The person in the story has friends who are not his friends.

if you read OP's statement carefully and other users comment, they are not sure what level of friendship the winner has with the circles of friends he plays with. If that happens to me, of course I will somehow not avoid and forget my friend just because I won the gamble, but I will choose who are the people who will be by my side from the beginning, the friends that I will be approach when a problem comes to me.

[JMBitcointernational]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Their colleague who won the huge amount acted wisely , maybe he left them because he has something tangible that he has planned with the money And If he stays with his Friends they might end up spending the money carelessly ,However,the idea of keeping distance is quite nice So he can plan him self on the meaningful things that he wants To do with the money. Op To be sincere with you So many friends can be misleading And they might Succeed in giving him wrong advice which might surely lead To careless spending , he knows his friends And that Was why he distanced himself So i support him for that.

Morestill,there is this Notion people have that the money won from gambling cannot be used for something meaningful ,And this is the exact scenario that can lead To that because his friends might help him To spend the money without making any meaningful thing from the money. If i were To be the guy i will do more than him because i will avoid them till i have achieved something reasonable To Show Off.

[GideonGono]

That's one way to lose your true friends, they stay with you when you have nothing now you abandoned them when you have money.
I wonder how he will react after his life change back to how he is before he won the big amount of money, some says that people changed because of the money, but in reality it only reveal them, how they are or how they act when they have the power.

[Mahanton]

That's one way to lose your true friends, they stay with you when you have nothing now you abandoned them when you have money.
I wonder how he will react after his life change back to how he is before he won the big amount of money, some says that people changed because of the money, but in reality it only reveal them, how they are or how they act when they have the power.

Every action would really be having a corresponding effect on which it would really be that understandable that there's nothing that you could be able to back specially with your friends on whom you had left them on the time that you do have the money. We should really be putting up into our minds that not all people would really be just that aiming for the money but rather on the relationship or the friendship that you do have. It is really just that sad that there are people who can be definitely be changed up by money just because they were really that believing that they could do everything once they do have the money without even trying out to realize that there's no such thing about assurance into this world.

If you dont able to handle up those winnings well then it would really be something that will really be ending up for you to go back into being poor or average gambler and
since you have done something shit then you would really be able to taste shit situation. 

[Miles2006]

From my opinion, people will always judge you regardless and what if they just have this feeling the friend in question don’t want them without wanting to understand what’s wrong and my second thought, people nowadays feel the need to stay alone when they have money to avoid unnecessary spending and party although friends differs so I don’t expect everyone to behave in such manner. Some people I have seen and observed, whenever there’s money that’s the time they suggest different ideas about club, party and etc, I’m speaking from my personal experience and this is not even a new thing cause they’ll always come but I’m not saying spending with friends is wrong and bad but spend wisely when you’re around them mostly with gambling win cause the problem we get nowadays about gambling win, people win and fail to buy valuable property just because of excess spending like what I just mentioned, friends like this should be avoided after winning a bet cause it’s obvious most people spend more money when they’re around people

[tread93]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Maybe it was strategic, since he won big he wanted to quit gambling. There is a verse in the bible that reads something along the lines ' If your hand causes you to sin cut it off' of course I am paraphrasing here and i'm not exactly sure of the verse at the top of my head but perhaps this friend of their's didn't want to be tempted. I for one respect his decision. Also, those friends of his may get jealous or expect him to give them some money because they are friends and he fell into a small fortune. Who knows, but at the end of the day you show me your friends and i'll show you your future is also a true saying, one you should live by. Truly.

[Cryptoprincess101]

Some people may be silent when they get a victory where they enjoy the victory secretly not by expressing it, but there are also people who get a victory and invite their friends to enjoy the victory they get to enjoy together with a small party or with other things.

However, those of us who get the victory have choices and rules in choosing friends to enjoy it, by inviting those who have good solidarity and good behavior towards us, even though people who get the victory tend to spit but in my opinion there will be friends who are still remembered and want to be invited to enjoy the victory that has been obtained where these friends are not ordinary friends but friends.

Normally majority of gamblers show some kind of generosity when they have a huge win as some can go to the length of organizing a party to celebrate their winnings with friends and families but for me all this things are not necessary at all because the money you will use to organize this parties with friends and families is enough to use for some other productive things.
But it is not good to completely abstain oneself from friends who you were struggling to succeed in life together with simply because you have won big and you feel the are no longer your class and all that. For the fact that you made it in life doesn't mean you should despise your little beginning after all they are your friends that you guys were pushing on together to make a head way even if you can't assist them at that material time but celebrating your success with them is important. The table may turn tomorrow and they find their selves in better life than you then what will you say? No matter the level you reach in life those that started the journey with you should not be forgotten.

[junder]

Some people may be silent when they get a victory where they enjoy the victory secretly not by expressing it, but there are also people who get a victory and invite their friends to enjoy the victory they get to enjoy together with a small party or with other things.

However, those of us who get the victory have choices and rules in choosing friends to enjoy it, by inviting those who have good solidarity and good behavior towards us, even though people who get the victory tend to spit but in my opinion there will be friends who are still remembered and want to be invited to enjoy the victory that has been obtained where these friends are not ordinary friends but friends.

Normally majority of gamblers show some kind of generosity when they have a huge win as some can go to the length of organizing a party to celebrate their winnings with friends and families but for me all this things are not necessary at all because the money you will use to organize this parties with friends and families is enough to use for some other productive things.
But it is not good to completely abstain oneself from friends who you were struggling to succeed in life together with simply because you have won big and you feel the are no longer your class and all that. For the fact that you made it in life doesn't mean you should despise your little beginning after all they are your friends that you guys were pushing on together to make a head way even if you can't assist them at that material time but celebrating your success with them is important. The table may turn tomorrow and they find their selves in better life than you then what will you say? No matter the level you reach in life those that started the journey with you should not be forgotten.

For those who hold winning parties, I think it depends on their environment, if their environment has a bad view of gambling then even if they get a profitable win it doesn't change the perspective of their environment, the winnings obtained at gambling will still be seen as bad. However, perhaps there are also some who don't want to accept the winnings they have obtained from gambling because they only think about winning and they put aside gambling which is actually not good. I myself, if I really get a big enough win, will just enjoy it myself in my own way.

It's not recommended to leave friends, especially friends who are used to hanging out together, but for friends who don't really know themselves, I would stay away from them, because I think no one wants to have friends who only think about themselves. I also think they have their own reasons for distancing themselves from their friends, but what is clear is that we shouldn't have feelings of revenge. If you really don't like it, it's better to just stay away from it, I'm like that myself because I don't want the hassle.

[ethereumhunter]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Maybe it was strategic, since he won big he wanted to quit gambling. There is a verse in the bible that reads something along the lines ' If your hand causes you to sin cut it off' of course I am paraphrasing here and i'm not exactly sure of the verse at the top of my head but perhaps this friend of their's didn't want to be tempted. I for one respect his decision. Also, those friends of his may get jealous or expect him to give them some money because they are friends and he fell into a small fortune. Who knows, but at the end of the day you show me your friends and i'll show you your future is also a true saying, one you should live by. Truly.

We never knows what is his reason avoids his friends after his winning. Many reasons can makes someone change and avoids or left his friends after he had a big money. One of the reasons is because he doesn't wants his friends comes to him and asks for the money as their part because they are his friends. That one popular reason that happens in many place so someone who had the money will avoids his friends. But there will be other reasons why he did that but he doesn't wants to explain his reasons. Maybe he will tells the reason to other friends or family because they don't related to his friends so they can accept his reason. Maybe his friends will jealous with his winning or else but his friends should accept what his decision and lets him do what he wants with his money.

[tread93]

At one of the local gambling shop I visited during the weekend I happened to listen to a conversation between two bald looking gamblers at the shop talking about one of their gambling colleague who had won a big amount of money amounting to a million in the local currency and due to that win this colleague of theirs' has been avoiding them since e won that money. From their conversation it was obvious that they were a circle of close three friends that gamble together.

After all I finished with my bet headed home and was asking myself what could the colleague act that way avoiding his close friends they all gambling together and just because luck shines on him first he decides to create a distance and class. I couldn't actually annex a good reason why anyone should do that.

Maybe it was strategic, since he won big he wanted to quit gambling. There is a verse in the bible that reads something along the lines ' If your hand causes you to sin cut it off' of course I am paraphrasing here and i'm not exactly sure of the verse at the top of my head but perhaps this friend of their's didn't want to be tempted. I for one respect his decision. Also, those friends of his may get jealous or expect him to give them some money because they are friends and he fell into a small fortune. Who knows, but at the end of the day you show me your friends and i'll show you your future is also a true saying, one you should live by. Truly.

We never knows what is his reason avoids his friends after his winning. Many reasons can makes someone change and avoids or left his friends after he had a big money. One of the reasons is because he doesn't wants his friends comes to him and asks for the money as their part because they are his friends. That one popular reason that happens in many place so someone who had the money will avoids his friends. But there will be other reasons why he did that but he doesn't wants to explain his reasons. Maybe he will tells the reason to other friends or family because they don't related to his friends so they can accept his reason. Maybe his friends will jealous with his winning or else but his friends should accept what his decision and lets him do what he wants with his money.

That is definitely without a doubt the main reason is my suspicion that he doesn't want to have his friends ask him for money. Now the question is to what extent is he ignoring his friends? Did he block his number or get a new number altogether? Maybe he saw this as a chance for a new life, a chance to start over with a clean slate and make a new life with new friends for himself. Regardless of what his decision is and what his reasons where its rightfully his money and his winnings, & his luck! Lucky man he is for sure. Hopefully some of that luck rubs off on us for participating in this discussion ;P