Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

[GigaBit]

People often say that people addicted to gambling and alcohol never know how to love and care for anyone in their hearts. No matter how many explanations they have, they only justify their wrong actions. Gambling addiction is in the blood. Do you believe that? Once the blood of gambling appears in any man or woman, it will take root, germinate, and overwhelm reason, conscience, and humanity. Especially for female gamblers, only brainwashing or blood transfusion can change. I say it's so severe that their ability to quit gambling is a challenge, even if their spouse advises them. If a person is truly addicted, it will be tough to stop.

There are some gamblers who become overly addicted. They may be addicted to either gambling or alcohol. But some say gambling can be even more deadly than alcohol. Be it male or female, once he becomes addicted, it is very difficult to get him back. I cannot agree with the statement that gambling is in people's blood because I have seen many people who do not have gambling in their family but one member has become such a gambler that he cannot be controlled. But in some sense gambler's family is more likely to be a gambler. It is very easy to get involved in gambling but it is definitely a difficult task to quit. No one can quit gambling easily.

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[Davidvictorson]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

When I got married, I signed up for peace in my home and I would under the right circumstances, reason, and logic give up gambling if it makes my partner uncomfortable and if it is threatening the stability of my marital life. It is a small sacrifice that I would make without thinking twice bout it.

On the other hand, of their purpose of telling me to quit gambling doesn't come from a place of purpose, logic, and not under the right circumstances, then I will resist it.

[Oilacris]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

When I got married, I signed up for peace in my home and I would under the right circumstances, reason, and logic give up gambling if it makes my partner uncomfortable and if it is threatening the stability of my marital life. It is a small sacrifice that I would make without thinking twice bout it.

On the other hand, of their purpose of telling me to quit gambling doesn't come from a place of purpose, logic, and not under the right circumstances, then I will resist it.

Even myself would definitely do the same thing on which making those sacrifices wont really be that much of an issue or a big deal as long you do make your partner in life to be happy.
There are really things which you wont really be able to get along specially if you have entered that marriage life on which there are really things which you would really be needing to get rid of
if you do want to have a happy life on which we know that it isnt something that could really be an issue but if you are that someone who cant resist on playing gambling then it would really be your choice and dont really wait up for the situation that you would really be needing to make out such choice which its really that hard.

If you cant really be able to quit  gambling then prepare on losing your loved ones or your wife to be. You do have the choice because you know that once women is fed up
then she would definitely be leaving you on which this had been the case for those couple who do have that misunderstanding or argument about things.

[Jody.Drummer]

Exactly, as usual and as we know that it is impossible for them to be addicted to gambling if they come with a reasonable purpose and in accordance with the perspective of gambling where the activity is only to fill spare time when bored and nothing but just to find a little entertainment from the remaining empty time you have. Honestly, I don't care what excuse they bring for a defense of their addiction, what is certain is that if they are too excessive in playing and are completely undisciplined and also without self-control then I clearly say they are in the addiction phase. Usually it's not just fun that makes them continue to play and increase the amount of the budget but the presence of victory even with a large enough amount but that's where they apply their greed, basically for those who are already addicted will never feel satisfied with any victory they get, even though it's big for us but for them it's not necessarily and they will always want more than that, none other than that because they assume that "I will be able to get a much bigger win than this", and finally yes the final result is the opposite, losing.

It is indeed difficult if you have entered into addiction, the self-control that they initially prepared will not be useful if they have played, the expectations are too high, usually they will only stop when the money runs out.

But most people who come to gambling initially just want to have fun and can't control their emotions, which causes many of them to go deeper into gambling because we know that the temptation of gambling is very big and can make a person lose the self-control he has built since At first he gambled. But if they can take good care of themselves and always renew their desire to use gambling as entertainment, they will not be tempted and can gamble comfortably. Those who are addicted to gambling will have many reasons that often don't make sense to us because they keep denying whatever we say and that happens to gamblers who cannot realize that they have a gambling addiction. And imagine if that person had a family and started using his family's money to gamble. It would disrupt his family's financial position and he would not be able to meet his family's daily needs.

Only a strong desire to stop his gambling habit can help him to cure his gambling addiction. To cure his gambling addiction, he must also get support from his family so that it is not too difficult for him to heal his gambling addiction.

I think there are two assumptions from them or their intentions when they just came to gambling, first maybe it's still reasonable as you said they came just for fun and to fill spare time, and secondly there are also those who deliberately come to look for income from winning, no other than they can assume like that because they have seen some wins from other people or even from their own close friends. But in my opinion, even if they come just for fun, it will not always be able to rule out the possibility that one day they will become addicted, maybe you also know that gambling really involves a great sensation when winning and that means that if they are too serious in responding to that pleasure then they want to keep playing and over time it is very likely that they will enter into addiction without realizing it, and also may not care too much about the money they spend as long as they can feel that kind of pleasure again, and eventually they will enter into a cycle of addiction that usually does not accept defeat and continues to seek victory.

But well that's just a possibility that is worried about, if indeed they can keep their limits well then maybe it will not enter the addiction stage, depending on the person too. Basically, the impact of gambling is great so it's better to reduce it from now on, it's better friends.

[ethereumhunter]

I think there are two assumptions from them or their intentions when they just came to gambling, first maybe it's still reasonable as you said they came just for fun and to fill spare time, and secondly there are also those who deliberately come to look for income from winning, no other than they can assume like that because they have seen some wins from other people or even from their own close friends. But in my opinion, even if they come just for fun, it will not always be able to rule out the possibility that one day they will become addicted, maybe you also know that gambling really involves a great sensation when winning and that means that if they are too serious in responding to that pleasure then they want to keep playing and over time it is very likely that they will enter into addiction without realizing it, and also may not care too much about the money they spend as long as they can feel that kind of pleasure again, and eventually they will enter into a cycle of addiction that usually does not accept defeat and continues to seek victory.

But well that's just a possibility that is worried about, if indeed they can keep their limits well then maybe it will not enter the addiction stage, depending on the person too. Basically, the impact of gambling is great so it's better to reduce it from now on, it's better friends.

If they can be alert or control themselves while gambling, it will not negatively influence them, especially for newly married couples because they are committed to always being careful with their spending. Someone who gambles just for fun will always try to use gambling as entertainment and will not try to chase winnings because they know they are using money that will be used for their family. They will try to limit themselves in gambling so that nothing bad will happen after they finish gambling. They will not allow themselves to become addicted to gambling because they can take good care of themselves with these restrictions.

If their partner sees what they are doing is wrong, they will remind their partner that this is starting to be wrong and must stop immediately. And people who only gamble for entertainment will soon realize this so they will start trying to reduce their gambling activities. They will prioritize their family over their desire for pleasure because they know they can get pleasure from other things.

[Jody.Drummer]

I think there are two assumptions from them or their intentions when they just came to gambling, first maybe it's still reasonable as you said they came just for fun and to fill spare time, and secondly there are also those who deliberately come to look for income from winning, no other than they can assume like that because they have seen some wins from other people or even from their own close friends. But in my opinion, even if they come just for fun, it will not always be able to rule out the possibility that one day they will become addicted, maybe you also know that gambling really involves a great sensation when winning and that means that if they are too serious in responding to that pleasure then they want to keep playing and over time it is very likely that they will enter into addiction without realizing it, and also may not care too much about the money they spend as long as they can feel that kind of pleasure again, and eventually they will enter into a cycle of addiction that usually does not accept defeat and continues to seek victory.

But well that's just a possibility that is worried about, if indeed they can keep their limits well then maybe it will not enter the addiction stage, depending on the person too. Basically, the impact of gambling is great so it's better to reduce it from now on, it's better friends.

If they can be alert or control themselves while gambling, it will not negatively influence them, especially for newly married couples because they are committed to always being careful with their spending. Someone who gambles just for fun will always try to use gambling as entertainment and will not try to chase winnings because they know they are using money that will be used for their family. They will try to limit themselves in gambling so that nothing bad will happen after they finish gambling. They will not allow themselves to become addicted to gambling because they can take good care of themselves with these restrictions.

Well everything will come back to the caution and vigilance they have prepared and of course it will be very useful if they are firm in applying it every time they gamble, not tempted by any temptation there and also with a little getting rid of their greed, it would be better so that they end up with a normal feeling without any regret or disappointment due to bad conditions there. Management will be a very necessary thing in terms of balancing in any condition, including when we are married and have a big responsibility to provide for our children and wife, of course all expenses must be really considered and not let us buy something that is not necessary, because obviously in such conditions there will be many other more important needs. Therefore it is very appropriate to say that if you are a gambler then as much as possible you should try to get out of the zone, not gambling if it does not require a capital budget while on the other hand you have other interests, namely a family that must be prioritized, then yes it is better to change our mindset in gambling by slightly reducing or still considering that this is just an activity for entertainment only so that you will not overdo it in gambling.

If their partner sees what they are doing is wrong, they will remind their partner that this is starting to be wrong and must stop immediately. And people who only gamble for entertainment will soon realize this so they will start trying to reduce their gambling activities. They will prioritize their family over their desire for pleasure because they know they can get pleasure from other things.

It is true, therefore from both spouses they must be able to establish an agreement and not to hide anything from their gambling to one of the spouses because in the household they will live together and that means they will need each other and exchange solutions to any problems. So it's better to just be honest with each other, especially if it's a financial problem which is very likely the impact of gambling will worsen your finances with your family and you will live in shortages there. Indeed, family is more important than anything, you or they must be able to defeat your sense of ego and greed to remain firm to avoid gambling or just reduce it is okay buddy. It's okay if you want to gamble but it must be with strong self-control so that you stay under control.

[Westinhome]

If they can be alert or control themselves while gambling, it will not negatively influence them, especially for newly married couples because they are committed to always being careful with their spending. Someone who gambles just for fun will always try to use gambling as entertainment and will not try to chase winnings because they know they are using money that will be used for their family. They will try to limit themselves in gambling so that nothing bad will happen after they finish gambling. They will not allow themselves to become addicted to gambling because they can take good care of themselves with these restrictions.

If their partner sees what they are doing is wrong, they will remind their partner that this is starting to be wrong and must stop immediately. And people who only gamble for entertainment will soon realize this so they will start trying to reduce their gambling activities. They will prioritize their family over their desire for pleasure because they know they can get pleasure from other things.

Everyone should respect the other people privacy,So both get respected in the equal way.If your future wife doesn’t like the gambling means,You can do the convince of playing for the less time period.If she still strict at their option,you can say he you quit the game and play the gambling in the secret way.Because playing is your right,So your friend or wife can’t force you to stop the game.If she again find the secret play by you and fight on you means,it will spoil your smooth relationship between you and your wife.It is not easy to quit the gambling immediately after playing over certain period of time.

[ethereumhunter]

Well everything will come back to the caution and vigilance they have prepared and of course it will be very useful if they are firm in applying it every time they gamble, not tempted by any temptation there and also with a little getting rid of their greed, it would be better so that they end up with a normal feeling without any regret or disappointment due to bad conditions there. Management will be a very necessary thing in terms of balancing in any condition, including when we are married and have a big responsibility to provide for our children and wife, of course all expenses must be really considered and not let us buy something that is not necessary, because obviously in such conditions there will be many other more important needs. Therefore it is very appropriate to say that if you are a gambler then as much as possible you should try to get out of the zone, not gambling if it does not require a capital budget while on the other hand you have other interests, namely a family that must be prioritized, then yes it is better to change our mindset in gambling by slightly reducing or still considering that this is just an activity for entertainment only so that you will not overdo it in gambling.

They must be able to eliminate their greed from within themselves, which means suppressing that feeling of greed so that it doesn't get bigger so that they won't lose a lot of money while gambling. But whatever it is, they better think about supporting their children and wives in other ways and not through gambling because they won't always be able to bring money home. But if they can try other ways, they can make money for their children and wives, which is better than using gambling. Financial management for the family must be a priority in their lives after they get married because they will be together all their lives and spend their time together. And if they use their money to gamble where they can lose money, it will disrupt their financial position and later, they will find it difficult to support their families.

It is true, therefore from both spouses they must be able to establish an agreement and not to hide anything from their gambling to one of the spouses because in the household they will live together and that means they will need each other and exchange solutions to any problems. So it's better to just be honest with each other, especially if it's a financial problem which is very likely the impact of gambling will worsen your finances with your family and you will live in shortages there. Indeed, family is more important than anything, you or they must be able to defeat your sense of ego and greed to remain firm to avoid gambling or just reduce it is okay buddy. It's okay if you want to gamble but it must be with strong self-control so that you stay under control.

Agreement between husband and wife after living their domestic life is very necessary so that there is unity between them in living their days in their household. They can also support each other and work together well in running their household to avoid serious problems. But if a husband or wife still gambles and even spends money on their family, sooner or later, problem after problem will arise and they will find it difficult to solve these problems. Family is more important than gambling, so a husband or wife who still gambles must think more about the interests of their family than just gambling because that is their family's life.

Everyone should respect the other people privacy,So both get respected in the equal way.If your future wife doesn’t like the gambling means,You can do the convince of playing for the less time period.If she still strict at their option,you can say he you quit the game and play the gambling in the secret way.Because playing is your right,So your friend or wife can’t force you to stop the game.If she again find the secret play by you and fight on you means,it will spoil your smooth relationship between you and your wife.It is not easy to quit the gambling immediately after playing over certain period of time.

Even though it is private, if they are married, their partner might know what they are doing in terms of gambling. They could tell us to stop gambling because gambling can cause us to lose large amounts of money and we don't realize it and that is true. And even though we reason that we can take good care of ourselves and always limit our gambling, they may not be able to accept it, especially if they have seen the bad consequences of gambling. They don't want their partner to be like that because they are now married and living together. For this reason, it would be better for partners who are still gambling to think that family is the most important thing in their lives now that they are married. They must prioritize their family over gambling, which is only for entertainment, even though they can do many other entertainments.

[Salahmu]

On the other hand, of their purpose of telling me to quit gambling doesn't come from a place of purpose, logic, and not under the right circumstances, then I will resist it.

That's true, in every marriage listing to the wife is very important because that's one of things that fuels every marital home and in a situation were a man doesn't value the opinion of his wife that's when there ban to be misunderstanding and could lead to a serious arguments.

So just like you said if my wife ask me to leave gambling there must be a reason why she said so, although I no that women are known to be people who doesn't have passion for gambling or even like most persons who gamble because most of them believe that gambling are only meant for irresponsible people that's one of the mindset they normally have, so perhaps if that would be the reason why my wife will ask me to stop gambling, I will first consider what gambling meant for me and if perhaps gambling has done me more good than harm, if so I will have to decline her request because gambling has been of a great help but if however you have been losing instead of wining it will be better listening to our wife that says we should stop.

[slapper]

Exactly, as usual and as we know that it is impossible for them to be addicted to gambling if they come with a reasonable purpose and in accordance with the perspective of gambling where the activity is only to fill spare time when bored and nothing but just to find a little entertainment from the remaining empty time you have. Honestly, I don't care what excuse they bring for a defense of their addiction, what is certain is that if they are too excessive in playing and are completely undisciplined and also without self-control then I clearly say they are in the addiction phase. Usually it's not just fun that makes them continue to play and increase the amount of the budget but the presence of victory even with a large enough amount but that's where they apply their greed, basically for those who are already addicted will never feel satisfied with any victory they get, even though it's big for us but for them it's not necessarily and they will always want more than that, none other than that because they assume that "I will be able to get a much bigger win than this", and finally yes the final result is the opposite, losing.

It is indeed difficult if you have entered into addiction, the self-control that they initially prepared will not be useful if they have played, the expectations are too high, usually they will only stop when the money runs out.

But most people who come to gambling initially just want to have fun and can't control their emotions, which causes many of them to go deeper into gambling because we know that the temptation of gambling is very big and can make a person lose the self-control he has built since At first he gambled. But if they can take good care of themselves and always renew their desire to use gambling as entertainment, they will not be tempted and can gamble comfortably. Those who are addicted to gambling will have many reasons that often don't make sense to us because they keep denying whatever we say and that happens to gamblers who cannot realize that they have a gambling addiction. And imagine if that person had a family and started using his family's money to gamble. It would disrupt his family's financial position and he would not be able to meet his family's daily needs.

Only a strong desire to stop his gambling habit can help him to cure his gambling addiction. To cure his gambling addiction, he must also get support from his family so that it is not too difficult for him to heal his gambling addiction.

I think there are two assumptions from them or their intentions when they just came to gambling, first maybe it's still reasonable as you said they came just for fun and to fill spare time, and secondly there are also those who deliberately come to look for income from winning, no other than they can assume like that because they have seen some wins from other people or even from their own close friends. But in my opinion, even if they come just for fun, it will not always be able to rule out the possibility that one day they will become addicted, maybe you also know that gambling really involves a great sensation when winning and that means that if they are too serious in responding to that pleasure then they want to keep playing and over time it is very likely that they will enter into addiction without realizing it, and also may not care too much about the money they spend as long as they can feel that kind of pleasure again, and eventually they will enter into a cycle of addiction that usually does not accept defeat and continues to seek victory.

But well that's just a possibility that is worried about, if indeed they can keep their limits well then maybe it will not enter the addiction stage, depending on the person too. Basically, the impact of gambling is great so it's better to reduce it from now on, it's better friends.

Individuals adore the rush. And gambling? It provides that rush in plenty. The tough part comes when it comes to intentions. In the end, it's all about the experience: some people come for the money, others for the fun. That winning feeling, it's addictive. After tasting it, you're left wanting more. An infinite amount of more

Addiction is a serious issue. a legitimate worry. Individuals get dependent on that feeling, that high, and they pursue it. They pursue it without considering the financial costs or the repercussions. It's a cycle, a dangerous cycle. However, and this is important, it's not a given. It is possible to enjoy gambling without falling into the trap if you have the proper attitude, set reasonable boundaries, and exercise discipline. However, the line is really thin. Never forget to play it safe, play smart, and know when to give up

[Jody.Drummer]

Well everything will come back to the caution and vigilance they have prepared and of course it will be very useful if they are firm in applying it every time they gamble, not tempted by any temptation there and also with a little getting rid of their greed, it would be better so that they end up with a normal feeling without any regret or disappointment due to bad conditions there. Management will be a very necessary thing in terms of balancing in any condition, including when we are married and have a big responsibility to provide for our children and wife, of course all expenses must be really considered and not let us buy something that is not necessary, because obviously in such conditions there will be many other more important needs. Therefore it is very appropriate to say that if you are a gambler then as much as possible you should try to get out of the zone, not gambling if it does not require a capital budget while on the other hand you have other interests, namely a family that must be prioritized, then yes it is better to change our mindset in gambling by slightly reducing or still considering that this is just an activity for entertainment only so that you will not overdo it in gambling.

They must be able to eliminate their greed from within themselves, which means suppressing that feeling of greed so that it doesn't get bigger so that they won't lose a lot of money while gambling. But whatever it is, they better think about supporting their children and wives in other ways and not through gambling because they won't always be able to bring money home. But if they can try other ways, they can make money for their children and wives, which is better than using gambling. Financial management for the family must be a priority in their lives after they get married because they will be together all their lives and spend their time together. And if they use their money to gamble where they can lose money, it will disrupt their financial position and later, they will find it difficult to support their families.

It should be like that, but to be able to eliminate 90% of greed requires very strong assertiveness, while in gambling almost everything there is filled with temptation, so it is indeed a pretty tough task to do. Therefore, I honestly don't really believe that there are some people who are already addicted who will be able to eliminate their greed by applying very strict self-control, some of them succeed too but usually they fail. But on the other hand it's the only way to prevent bigger negative impacts from happening. In my opinion, only stupid and lazy people work who are determined to support their children and wives from gambling, of course it will never work because they only rely on luck there, so maybe the term if they are unlucky in gambling then they will not be able to eat at home haha. While on the other hand luck will only come once in a while from many trials, just try to imagine. So indeed back again buddy, nothing is better unless you stop doing this harmful activity, remember you have a family which means you already have a lot of responsibilities, so instead of being busy with gambling you better think about how to stop. Consider a lot of advice from other people and it's better to find another job that is more reasonable and promising.

[Kelward]

This is why it is good to share your likes and dislikes, your hubby and everything that makes you happy with your spouse to be, before entering into marriage. If you have habits that are hard to stop like gambling, smoking, alcoholic, die hard fan of a particular sport, it's good to be sincere and tell your partner before saying "i do". If the partner doesn't like what you do or share in what really makes you happy, then it's best to reconsider entering the marriage. Because little details that one might  overlook will became a big problem tomorrow in the marriage. So if your partner is OK with your gambling before entering into marriage, then that is an agreement that should be honoured, but if a spouse suddenly starts hating the gambling after entering marriage, then it'll have to come down to dialogue and making compromises. If the spouse presents reasonable facts to leave  gambling, then it's best to consider and leave it, so that peace can reign in the home. But the partner that doesn't want gambling has to exercise patience and have tolerance,, because it's not easy to just leave a habit overnight.

[Pierre 2]

This is why it is good to share your likes and dislikes, your hubby and everything that makes you happy with your spouse to be, before entering into marriage. If you have habits that are hard to stop like gambling, smoking, alcoholic, die hard fan of a particular sport, it's good to be sincere and tell your partner before saying "i do". If the partner doesn't like what you do or share in what really makes you happy, then it's best to reconsider entering the marriage. Because little details that one might  overlook will became a big problem tomorrow in the marriage. So if your partner is OK with your gambling before entering into marriage, then that is an agreement that should be honoured, but if a spouse suddenly starts hating the gambling after entering marriage, then it'll have to come down to dialogue and making compromises. If the spouse presents reasonable facts to leave  gambling, then it's best to consider and leave it, so that peace can reign in the home. But the partner that doesn't want gambling has to exercise patience and have tolerance,, because it's not easy to just leave a habit overnight.

I always think that its best to start sharing how you feel, what habits you have to your partner even when in your proper relationship. Marriages are obviously lot more important. I personally observe people hide their gambling habits mainly to avoid getting shamed by their partners and even parents. I always tell my girlfriend that I sometimes do sports betting, I find it very fun, and I like to make money through gambling. I even describe how I feel. She likes it.

[hedgeh0g]

This is why it is good to share your likes and dislikes, your hubby and everything that makes you happy with your spouse to be, before entering into marriage. If you have habits that are hard to stop like gambling, smoking, alcoholic, die hard fan of a particular sport, it's good to be sincere and tell your partner before saying "i do". If the partner doesn't like what you do or share in what really makes you happy, then it's best to reconsider entering the marriage. Because little details that one might  overlook will became a big problem tomorrow in the marriage. So if your partner is OK with your gambling before entering into marriage, then that is an agreement that should be honoured, but if a spouse suddenly starts hating the gambling after entering marriage, then it'll have to come down to dialogue and making compromises. If the spouse presents reasonable facts to leave  gambling, then it's best to consider and leave it, so that peace can reign in the home. But the partner that doesn't want gambling has to exercise patience and have tolerance,, because it's not easy to just leave a habit overnight.

I always think that its best to start sharing how you feel, what habits you have to your partner even when in your proper relationship. Marriages are obviously lot more important. I personally observe people hide their gambling habits mainly to avoid getting shamed by their partners and even parents. I always tell my girlfriend that I sometimes do sports betting, I find it very fun, and I like to make money through gambling. I even describe how I feel. She likes it.

Not everyone can share their gambling feelings with their wives. Many are afraid that this could become a trigger for immediate separation. But in general, I agree with you, because it is better to talk about it, because if this is not done, it may be revealed when we may have large debts or problems. Although if a person loves another, he will go through these problems with him. This is, to some extent, a test of the strength of marriage and stresstest. As for me, I don't tell my wife about my little gambling games.

[Rabata]

This is why it is good to share your likes and dislikes, your hubby and everything that makes you happy with your spouse to be, before entering into marriage. If you have habits that are hard to stop like gambling, smoking, alcoholic, die hard fan of a particular sport, it's good to be sincere and tell your partner before saying "i do". If the partner doesn't like what you do or share in what really makes you happy, then it's best to reconsider entering the marriage. Because little details that one might  overlook will became a big problem tomorrow in the marriage. So if your partner is OK with your gambling before entering into marriage, then that is an agreement that should be honoured, but if a spouse suddenly starts hating the gambling after entering marriage, then it'll have to come down to dialogue and making compromises. If the spouse presents reasonable facts to leave  gambling, then it's best to consider and leave it, so that peace can reign in the home. But the partner that doesn't want gambling has to exercise patience and have tolerance,, because it's not easy to just leave a habit overnight.

I always think that its best to start sharing how you feel, what habits you have to your partner even when in your proper relationship. Marriages are obviously lot more important. I personally observe people hide their gambling habits mainly to avoid getting shamed by their partners and even parents. I always tell my girlfriend that I sometimes do sports betting, I find it very fun, and I like to make money through gambling. I even describe how I feel. She likes it.

I think it's easy to share gambling with a girlfriend but it can be difficult to share with a life partner. Because girlfriends can give me some concessions for various reasons but life partners or wives most of the time will not want to do that. I have met many friends who gamble but they never want to share gambling with their wives. Because they think that if their wives come to know about gambling, they can prevent them from gambling. Moreover, since gambling is not viewed in a good side everywhere, everyone tries to hide it as much as possible. The main point here is that everyone who gambles wants to continue gambling because of which they are not willing to share with anyone. If someone advice to leave gambling after knowing the fact, I think most of the gamblers will not follow that advice.

[348Judah]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

When I got married, I signed up for peace in my home and I would under the right circumstances, reason, and logic give up gambling if it makes my partner uncomfortable and if it is threatening the stability of my marital life. It is a small sacrifice that I would make without thinking twice bout it.

On the other hand, of their purpose of telling me to quit gambling doesn't come from a place of purpose, logic, and not under the right circumstances, then I will resist it.

We know that people engage into a kind of relationship that remains a secret between the two of them, if your wife already knows about the gambling lifestyle you're into right before marriage, then there's no point in her requesting you for a withdrawal except if one is also being irresponsible, secondly the marriage is a thing that you begin to discover more things about your partner which if not in yiur favour, may lead to having a misunderstanding and the women may also demand her fiancee to quit or pause in ither to meet up with some certain conditions in preparation for their marriage.

[LUCKMCFLY]

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Yes because its easy to answer that if you are not addicted since you can easily quiet without any hesitation, unlike if you are really in worst situation where you can beat all the odds just to gamble for sure quitting is really a big problem since you would provably not listen to any advice given to you since what you always think is to gamble. We are surely get affected in all aspect with that condition including the relationship to our love ones since denial stage might come up and we always think about we are fine and they should not worry about on what we are doing. At this stage I think we need professional help since for sure a addicted person cannot cut off easily his activity even if her wife ask him to leave gambling and by the help of professionals he can be totally get aided then understand that what he is doing is totally excessive and destructive to any person near him.

People on the outside might think its just about quitting cold turkey, but its never that simple, is it? The mind of someone who's addicted isnt thinking logically. To them, gambling is oxygen, and advice becomes mere background noise. The saddest part? The denial. Oh, the denial! They're wrapped up in this bubble thinking everything's okay, but its not. Its really not.

However, its not just the personal cost; relationships deteriorate, trust vanishes. Its like a domino effect! And you nailed it: professional help becomes vital. This isnt just about willpower; its a systematic restructuring of one's psyche. Addiction blinds you, but with the right guidance, one might see the light. Professionals can tear down that wall of denial and help them see the real cost of their actions. Its not easy, but its necessary.

Professional help is good for quitting gambling. As soon as the addiction reaches the point where the person loses control the family has a role to play along with the professionals. A professional gives the right instructions but the family member helps to adapt. If a close person is getting addicted to gambling then first of all he should understand his problem and encourage him to get away from this addiction. Positive thinking should be done at the right time and the past should not be discussed. It is important to look only at the present problem and think about how gambling is endangering a person's life.

I think that when things get out of control and they always focus on doing something similar to speech, one should put the brakes on the game, because there are things that are being done wrong and disorderly, so this is not right, The things when it comes to how to do it to be able to establish a good scheme to do what is best for us is that each person, if he is a father of a family, has a wife, children, the responsibility never ends, that is a commitment for life. , it is something that is acquired, so based on this we must see that when we are playing and we have no control over our budget, when that happens and things become difficult, the only emergency brake option is the Afmlai, why? because a person who is responsible for his family is not going to put at risk the money he has to take home, that is, the money from the market, the money from his children, the money from all the things that must be fulfilled.

The people who do it without any type of scruples, well, for me, they are a very irresponsible person, who does not even deserve an apology, because what will it do for his family? It's okay to have fun, but don't go overboard or play with the well-being of your family, that's why I say, it's the emergency brake for anyone to not give up on everything and lose it, so that's when it becomes more evident. That when things are like this you have to establish a certain amount of money willing to lose, yes to lose, because to win or multiply if you can, congratulations, but if not? how is it? without money, and how do you explain to your children that they couldn't buy anything to play? What example will his children have when they see that his father is a person who couldn't Contain himself and spent all his ideas on a game? how will they see it? Will they respect it? Maybe yes, but over time he loses that role that makes him a good person who can take care of his family, that's what you should think about.

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I think that when things get out of control and they always focus on doing something similar to speech, one should put the brakes on the game, because there are things that are being done wrong and disorderly, so this is not right, The things when it comes to how to do it to be able to establish a good scheme to do what is best for us is that each person, if he is a father of a family, has a wife, children, the responsibility never ends, that is a commitment for life. , it is something that is acquired, so based on this we must see that when we are playing and we have no control over our budget, when that happens and things become difficult, the only emergency brake option is the Afmlai, why? because a person who is responsible for his family is not going to put at risk the money he has to take home, that is, the money from the market, the money from his children, the money from all the things that must be fulfilled.

The people who do it without any type of scruples, well, for me, they are a very irresponsible person, who does not even deserve an apology, because what will it do for his family? It's okay to have fun, but don't go overboard or play with the well-being of your family, that's why I say, it's the emergency brake for anyone to not give up on everything and lose it, so that's when it becomes more evident. That when things are like this you have to establish a certain amount of money willing to lose, yes to lose, because to win or multiply if you can, congratulations, but if not? how is it? without money, and how do you explain to your children that they couldn't buy anything to play? What example will his children have when they see that his father is a person who couldn't Contain himself and spent all his ideas on a game? how will they see it? Will they respect it? Maybe yes, but over time he loses that role that makes him a good person who can take care of his family, that's what you should think about.

Yes, you're right on the money. When things get out of hand, especially in enjoyable gambling, you must brake. Hard. Also fast. It's about life, family, and never-ending duties, not simply the game

A father, a mother, anyone with a family, they've got commitments. Lifelong commitments. When you lose sight of your budget or boundaries while playing or gambling, things get dicey. Very risky. As you said, the Afmlai is the emergency brake. You don't cross the line or jump the border. Because, honestly, playing with your family's health? That's no game. Absolutely not

Those that gamble irresponsibly without considering family? Irresponsible. Totally irresponsible. I agree - apologies can't fix that. Having pleasure is different from endangering your family's future. When you're betting at that table, consider the stakes. Assess your risk tolerance. Can't afford to lose it? Walk away. Walk away. Because money isn't everything. It's about respect, trust, and being one your family can trust. Always

[Onyeeze]

Their is some certain things that what listening to, if your future don't like gambling and you are the kind of person who takes gambling very serious and most at times you gamble very well, I think that you will have a limit of participating I a gambling, and secondly we need to understand that you make sure you pleased your wife because your wife is your part of body and you have to listen to her, myself if my partner ask me to stop gambling it doesn't necessarily mean that I will stop gambling but I will limit it, because it maybe that gambling is something that gives me joy.

[ethereumhunter]

It should be like that, but to be able to eliminate 90% of greed requires very strong assertiveness, while in gambling almost everything there is filled with temptation, so it is indeed a pretty tough task to do. Therefore, I honestly don't really believe that there are some people who are already addicted who will be able to eliminate their greed by applying very strict self-control, some of them succeed too but usually they fail. But on the other hand it's the only way to prevent bigger negative impacts from happening. In my opinion, only stupid and lazy people work who are determined to support their children and wives from gambling, of course it will never work because they only rely on luck there, so maybe the term if they are unlucky in gambling then they will not be able to eat at home haha. While on the other hand luck will only come once in a while from many trials, just try to imagine. So indeed back again buddy, nothing is better unless you stop doing this harmful activity, remember you have a family which means you already have a lot of responsibilities, so instead of being busy with gambling you better think about how to stop. Consider a lot of advice from other people and it's better to find another job that is more reasonable and promising.

If someone has a gambling addiction, he will find it difficult to get rid of his greed because when he gambles, he will have a stronger urge to continue gambling. Even though he has lost a few dollars, it doesn't make him stop but maybe he will become even more eager to continue gambling because he wants to keep playing. And if he wins, it also can't stop him from continuing to gamble so the winnings will probably be used as capital to continue gambling. But if that happens to most gamblers, they can still control their greed, especially those who have learned good self-control so they won't be tempted to continue gambling. They know that continuing to gamble will only result in bigger losses and they don't want that to happen to them so they will decide to stop gambling. And whatever money we have used to gamble, that is the amount of money we can afford, so if we continue gambling, we have to be prepared for everything that could happen.