Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

[AprilioMP]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Stop gambling not because of other people, but because of your own desires. Stopping gambling because of other people's causes, for me is still good because a ban can have a positive impact. What's unfortunate is that you can never stop despite strong encouragement from other people.
So, there is no specific answer in answering your question because it all depends on each individual.
If the question were reversed, what would you answer?

[Assface16678]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Absolutely not.The reason being the simple one as I do not believe anyone can quit gambling for good because as they say vice comes out only when our soul comes out meaning when we die.My wife knows and she does not say anything as long as I am a responsible gambler that maximum I spend 100 dollars a month for gambling which is nothing compared to our both salaries and as such she does not care,she sometimes tells me to stop for my own good when I keep buying the bonus in slot machines like crazy and spend several hours playing but she would never order me to quit.

It's easier said than done. Remember, you have a wife and probably a family. There may be circumstances in which you will come to your senses and limit or completely stay away from gambling. From my experience since I've met my girlfriend, I limit my gambling hobby because I want to be more responsible, and I want my girlfriend to see me as a responsible person who will not waste too much money doing gambling. Yeah, I still do gambling, but only a very small portion of my money or salary. I'll make sure it doesn't affect my daily life or that of my partner and family. In short, no, I still do not stop gambling, but only limitedly. Instead,  I do investment and trading to have another side hustle besides my job, and by doing investment and trading, I have a high chance of increasing my money; I just have to invest time and effort in it.

[Natsuu]

There must be a reason why your husband/ wife thought if that. If that was me, I definitely would do if my wife said so. Relationships are built on mutual respect and understanding, so if my future partner expressed concerns about my gambling, I would definitely take it seriously. It's important to prioritize the well-being of the relationship and if quitting gambling was a request made out of genuine concern and love, I would be open to discussing it openly and honestly. Maybe she notice something wrong in my gambling habits that I am not aware of and its affecting our relationship. Compromises are part of any relationship and I would consider finding healthier alternatives to gambling that still allow me to enjoy life while respecting my wife’s concerns. A strong relationship is about supporting each other's growth and happiness so I'd be willing to make positive changes if it meant strengthening our bond. Communication and compromise are keys! Gambling will always be there, I can come back to it if we talk about it, wife is more capable leaving an irresponsible husband.

[RockBell]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Stop gambling not because of other people, but because of your own desires. Stopping gambling because of other people's causes, for me is still good because a ban can have a positive impact. What's unfortunate is that you can never stop despite strong encouragement from other people.
So, there is no specific answer in answering your question because it all depends on each individual.
If the question were reversed, what would you answer?

People will not quit gambling because of other people; even if it is kept secret, they will continue to gamble. They won, especially during the quitting process, and with that it will be impossible to quit. People that urge people to avoid gambling have their own motivations and have been very reckless during their gaming days, so they know the effect of getting too far into gambling. I don't think there's anything wrong with gambling, but greed is what drives people into addiction, which is awful.  and it all depends on the individual if he or she is ready to get a job and change is view about depending on gambling alone.

[2Pizza410000BTC]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Honestly gambling even though I play for entertainment there is an expectation of income. But my wife knows that I participate in gambling but my wife always forbids me from gambling. Even today I will participate in the bet but on his request I could not participate in the bet. He forbade me to participate in gambling as my luck has been very bad lately. My wife told me that you will lose a lot of money by taking part in gambling, you should avoid this game. And I think it is natural for every wife to advise her husband not to participate. I always follow my wife's advice.

[adultcrypto]

Honestly gambling even though I play for entertainment there is an expectation of income.

Is it really possible to play gambling for entertainment without the motivation by money? How is the fun derived? How do you handle the feelings of loss, winning and all that? I am still trying so hard to picture where the motivation, endurance, and commitment will come from in the case of gambling for fun with real money.

I have always known that gambling is primarily to make money, this is why this concept of playing for fun is not making sense. Maybe it should be, having fun while playing....

But my wife knows that I participate in gambling but my wife always forbids me from gambling.

I think you need to sit your wife down and discuss the matter in detail so that the family will be at peace. You know luck is needed too so your wife wishing you good luck might go a long way in determining your winning.

[retreat]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

If it is the best for my relationship with my partner in the future, it is not a problem for me to quit gambling and start focusing on building my family with her. Sometimes we need to sacrifice something to achieve happiness in our family. Why should I continue gambling if in the end it continues to cause problems for me and my partner. It is much better to stop gambling and focus on building harmonious relationships.

[Awaklara]

Honestly gambling even though I play for entertainment there is an expectation of income.

Is it really possible to play gambling for entertainment without the motivation by money? How is the fun derived? How do you handle the feelings of loss, winning and all that? I am still trying so hard to picture where the motivation, endurance, and commitment will come from in the case of gambling for fun with real money.

I have always known that gambling is primarily to make money, this is why this concept of playing for fun is not making sense. Maybe it should be, having fun while playing....

Honestly, it is difficult, because in gambling games there is still a feeling of winning the game and getting a certain amount of money that can be withdrawn. it gives a sense of satisfaction. but there are those who gamble just for fun. their thought concept is pay-to-play. instead of risking their money to earn more. It's like you go to Timezone and deposit your money to spend on some of the games available.

I don't think such a concept is shared by gamblers, but we never know what other people are actually doing and thinking.

[komisariatku]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

If my wife tells me to stop gambling then I will stop. Usually if a wife tells me to stop, she will definitely threaten divorce if I don't obey. I thought it was a heavy consequence and I chose my wife and children over gambling

I think in this life there are many things that must be prioritized rather than just the pleasure of gambling, family is one of the most valuable things in my life. So if my family or wife asks me to stop gambling then of course I will and maybe if I want to gamble again I will tell her and ask my wife for permission.

[Accardo]

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He doesn't necessarily have to be a bad husband until such request emerges out of his wife's mouth. Mutual understanding plays a long role in choices and decision of people, especially married couple. The wife may come from a home where gambling is forbidden. She won't feel comfortable staying with a gambler for the rest of her life. She'll never get complete rest and harmony, until you stop and explain better. And it'll take a long time to build the mutual understanding before she'll allow you gamble or even join. But, stopping immediately she suggests it can help fasten the time it'll take before she gets comfortable with gambling. Because the attitudes we exhibit in a family can make the naysayer a yeasayer. She may have been set aside for a quarrel, before mentioning that to her husband. So, the best choice is to follow her guidance. Given time she'll wonder, why things changed with this particular gambler. Maybe the gamblers she's met in her life were toxic and would go crazy when someone tells them to stop. It depends on the beginning of the woman. Two wrongs can't make a right. Soon, the woman can see in the attitude of her husband that she, the woman, is wrong. The point is that agreeing to her terms should be the first step, towards letting her understand gambling better; mutualism. As she'll definite need her husband to know more on gambling. She'd ask questions like; why do you gamble? how did you start gambling? how much have you made in gambling? wives will definitely ask the last question. How we present the answers can build for the both parties a better discussion sections on gambling. With examples and proves. No matter how long it takes to convince her, it'll look like few days. When you look back. The fun of convincing your wife to understand the benefits and primary aim of gambling. Causes of gambling addiction. These are things that can be memorable and makes fun, the marriage. All can't be the same. Hence we must make every thing we do fun. Follow with caution.

Mutual understanding is the foundation of any relationship, especially marriage. In a household where gambling is taboo, the wife may be uncomfortable with her husband's gambling. it's human behaviour

Online gambling is about strategy, understanding, and discipline, not luck. You see, not everyone gets it. It's fine. Wives are naturally cautious of gamblers if they've had disastrous experiences. Communication, however, is critical. If the husband stops gambling immediately when she asks, it shows he values her feelings. Through open communication and understanding, she may change. She may ask why he gambles. When she does, he better have nice replies! Ladies constantly want specifics. Always

Thus, open communication and mutual understanding are the way forward. And remember, folks, always gamble responsibly. Playing well is as important as winning. Prioritise your relationship always

The three factors of gambling you mentioned can provide us with winning and money management. Thereby rendering the being lucky aspect of gambling useless. As it's normal for people to win in gambling. If they follow some strategies and get to understand how gambling works. Hence, they'll always have the capacity of withstanding anything rumor says. Because within them, they don't think of doing anything wrong. Even if the society does. First, no addiction. Second, gambling responsibly. It allows the player some advantage ahead of his spouse when it come to explaining gambling. Added to the fact that the wife is a critic and newbie in gambling. It'll be easier to convince her, since she knows nothing in gambling. The fun that follows is the benefits of not going head to head in a quarrel. As an experienced gambler. Unless a reckless gambler may face a hard time convincing his spouse. Thereby worsening the situation on the long term. Because she the wife won't be happy. Therefore, I agree with you where you said; prioritize your relationship. It'll be a double suffering if we lose in gambling and in our marriages too. The odd is to win at least 1 or the both. If we as gamblers take the advantage of people's desire for self improvement and respect or feelings. We'll definitely make them feel important. Soon or later, they'll replicate the attitude we've given to them. Saying she may change, is right because not everybody think in similar ways. But there is a high probability she will change, as many brains would fall prey to this technique. As emotional beings.

[Die_empty]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Absolutely not.The reason being the simple one as I do not believe anyone can quit gambling for good because as they say vice comes out only when our soul comes out meaning when we die.My wife knows and she does not say anything as long as I am a responsible gambler that maximum I spend 100 dollars a month for gambling which is nothing compared to our both salaries and as such she does not care,she sometimes tells me to stop for my own good when I keep buying the bonus in slot machines like crazy and spend several hours playing but she would never order me to quit.

Your answer has made me laugh especially your comment that someone cannot break free from any social vice until death. Although it makes a whole lot of sense because it is very difficult to stop some characters regardless of how hard you try. But sometimes one would have to strive hard to stop a vice especially when something is at stake. I think if you are working with a president and a new rule comes up that all staff of the presidency must quit gambling to maintain their jobs. I am sure we will put all our effort into quitting gambling.  But you are lucky to have such a wife who gives you all the support you need. But it is clear that she doesn't care because you are a responsible gambler who gambles within your means.

Stop gambling not because of other people, but because of your own desires. Stopping gambling because of other people's causes, for me is still good because a ban can have a positive impact. What's unfortunate is that you can never stop despite strong encouragement from other people.
So, there is no specific answer in answering your question because it all depends on each individual.
If the question were reversed, what would you answer?

I am guessing that you are not yet married based on your response. Friends or family members might not have much influence on you. But your spouse can make the marriage uncomfortable if you don't do their bidding. If this issue is not well handled between a husband and wife, it could lead to divorce.

[stomachgrowls]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

If my wife tells me to stop gambling then I will stop. Usually if a wife tells me to stop, she will definitely threaten divorce if I don't obey. I thought it was a heavy consequence and I chose my wife and children over gambling

I think in this life there are many things that must be prioritized rather than just the pleasure of gambling, family is one of the most valuable things in my life. So if my family or wife asks me to stop gambling then of course I will and maybe if I want to gamble again I will tell her and ask my wife for permission.

I dont really like that kind of set up or condition on which my wife is really that making up those kind of threats on divorcing me just because i havent obeyed on what she commanded? Dang, this isnt something that i dont really like on which those kind of threatening on where it turns out that you are really that being that too controlled by your wife. In that case then if she wants a divorce then just let her be.
Not all the times we would really be that too understanding women.Im not really that kind of man on whose really just that too simple on letting things pass away because on the time that someone is already that
getting that right for you to be happy or something that would really be controlling you then its not a healthy relationship anymore.

Well i might really be that strict to this part but this is my principle in life.If ever i do gamble and my wife to be would really be saying up something on quitting then i might
really be that not considering into those women who are really that stopping on things that i've been getting used to. Well, there might be something that needs to be changed
but we know that there are things which arent supposed or not really that necessary knowing that you could really be able to control yourself or make things just that normal
then its not right that you are really that being mandated on what to do.

[Zanab247]

I will not leave gambling, if I know that what am doing is not wrong like the way some gamblers used to sell their house things just to gamble which is not good for future husband or wife to continue such habit if truly there is a solid love. I don't sell things to gamble because there is amount of money budgeted from my salary that will reach me to gamble through out the month before another salary will come. I no my husband or wife to be will not stop me for gambling because some of my friends around me know that am good in gambling, and I have helped many of them to win big money that is making them to always draw my attention to such game.

[GigaBit]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

If it is the best for my relationship with my partner in the future, it is not a problem for me to quit gambling and start focusing on building my family with her. Sometimes we need to sacrifice something to achieve happiness in our family. Why should I continue gambling if in the end it continues to cause problems for me and my partner. It is much better to stop gambling and focus on building harmonious relationships.

Yes definitely it is not a problem If there is a good relationship with the partner then there is no problem. But if it is not then there may be some complications. But I will try to explain to my partner that I am not an addicted gambler. But I can enjoy the temporary pleasure of gambling so much. I will not listen to her if he obstructs me even in this matter. Because I also have the ability to understand good and evil. No such problem will arise if you convince your life partner. In most of the cases it is seen that people fail to understand their life partner because of which they get angry for no reason and thus the problem gets worse instead of being solved.

[Sanugarid]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Honestly gambling even though I play for entertainment there is an expectation of income. But my wife knows that I participate in gambling but my wife always forbids me from gambling. Even today I will participate in the bet but on his request I could not participate in the bet. He forbade me to participate in gambling as my luck has been very bad lately. My wife told me that you will lose a lot of money by taking part in gambling, you should avoid this game. And I think it is natural for every wife to advise her husband not to participate. I always follow my wife's advice.

We are the same, my wife told me several times before that I should stop gambling because I won't gain anything from it, I will just waste money and she has a point. There are many other activities besides gambling.

There are also women who allow their husbands to gamble but there are still more who don't. So if your partner doesn't like you gambling, think carefully about whether gambling is "worth it" for you to fight. Let's remember that gambling really destroys relationships.

[Altryist]

Absolutely not.The reason being the simple one as I do not believe anyone can quit gambling for good because as they say vice comes out only when our soul comes out meaning when we die.My wife knows and she does not say anything as long as I am a responsible gambler that maximum I spend 100 dollars a month for gambling which is nothing compared to our both salaries and as such she does not care,she sometimes tells me to stop for my own good when I keep buying the bonus in slot machines like crazy and spend several hours playing but she would never order me to quit.

Any forbid are perceived poorly, no one wants to be told what to do, and if there is no problem for the family budget in this, then there is no reason for such a conversation. I have the same situation, there are no restrictions, and there are no problems with controlling my game, so my wife is not even interested in anything related to gambling, she perceives it as entertainment for me, so it has never been a problem for us.

[komisariatku]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

If my wife tells me to stop gambling then I will stop. Usually if a wife tells me to stop, she will definitely threaten divorce if I don't obey. I thought it was a heavy consequence and I chose my wife and children over gambling

I think in this life there are many things that must be prioritized rather than just the pleasure of gambling, family is one of the most valuable things in my life. So if my family or wife asks me to stop gambling then of course I will and maybe if I want to gamble again I will tell her and ask my wife for permission.

I dont really like that kind of set up or condition on which my wife is really that making up those kind of threats on divorcing me just because i havent obeyed on what she commanded? Dang, this isnt something that i dont really like on which those kind of threatening on where it turns out that you are really that being that too controlled by your wife. In that case then if she wants a divorce then just let her be.
Not all the times we would really be that too understanding women.Im not really that kind of man on whose really just that too simple on letting things pass away because on the time that someone is already that
getting that right for you to be happy or something that would really be controlling you then its not a healthy relationship anymore.

Well i might really be that strict to this part but this is my principle in life.If ever i do gamble and my wife to be would really be saying up something on quitting then i might
really be that not considering into those women who are really that stopping on things that i've been getting used to. Well, there might be something that needs to be changed
but we know that there are things which arent supposed or not really that necessary knowing that you could really be able to control yourself or make things just that normal
then its not right that you are really that being mandated on what to do.

In general, everyone certainly doesn't like being controlled, but I have a scale of priorities and gambling is not something I need to fight for and I am ready to leave gambling because family is number one for me. I know everyone has principles and gambling is not a principle for me, it's just entertainment and I don't mind giving up one entertainment because there are many others.

I also have a plan that at a certain age I will stop gambling, so it doesn't matter when I stop (whether my wife tells me to or not) because I will definitely do it.

[Jemzx00]

This is really a case to case basis and many things should be considered before going through with a concrete answer.

As for me, I was once told to quit gambling by my love ones due to one instances that I've did during one of my gambling session as I've lost a significant amount which affected us financially. I choose not to quit but rather decided to make sure to avoid the same mistake and to be on the same position back then. Also, I personally chose not to stop as I enjoy gambling as one of my leisures and I use my winnings to have fun with my love ones.

Anyways, just as I've said, it is a case to case basis whereas financial and emotional factors should be a huge aspect to make this decision.

[alastantiger]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Before I get married I need to ensure during our courtship phase that the person knows my lifestyle and is okay with it. I would be pretty upset if the person I get married to tries to change me by telling me to quit something that gives me Joy and makes me happy. They say birds of a feather flock together so the husband or the wife must be people who understand what gambling is so that when one is over doing it, the other one can call the person back gently with love and not judgmentally.

[abel1337]

Will you leave gambling if your future wife/husband tells you to do this ?

Yes of course, I won't sacrifice the love because of gambling. If the consequence is to high like having a deep argument or broking up because of gambling, I wouldn't risk it. It will just stop doing gambling or try to negotiate with my wife because we all know that gambling isn't something that you can quit instantly if you are playing it regularly or it is part of your entertainment. I think slowing down or slow quitting will do until you quit gambling.