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The story of the gambling addict is, in fact, a very familiar and heartbreaking one. They often get stuck in a loop where losses make them want to win big, which leads to more losses. In this never-ending quest, the mind tricks itself into thinking that the next chance could fix all of life's problems. Even though this way of thinking makes sense, it is a dangerous illusion.
Think about it: gambling is, at its core, a fun activity; its a game of chance meant to be fun. But when it turns into an addiction, the fun goes away and people start to feel desperate. This sad change is shown very clearly in the story of your friend. Having fun should always be a top concern when gambling. If thats taken away, the whole point of the game is lost. If you want to gamble properly, you need to know when it stops being fun and becomes a burden. Balance, knowing yourself, and knowing when to leave are important.
well, what's very sad is that his own mindset destroys his life, whereas previously everything was fine, just because the mindset of wanting to win and getting money, a gambler becomes addicted and can't control himself and this often happens lately and even though the thought of wanting to win is normal, its normal. sometimes someone has the wrong mindset or even has very low control of their passions because they are unable to control their emotions or greed when they win or lose and gambling actually a fun place with various experiences in it but has a bad impact if you can't avoid the small things that happen. can push our minds to act beyond the limits of our abilities.
logically, all gamblers should have a strong idea that gambling is just a place to have fun, but the fact is that we gamble using money, whereas money is the most valuable thing in the world and money can make people better or even money can kill someone future because money can change everything. that why many gamblers become addicted because they can not appreciate the money that should be spent in small amounts to pay for the pleasure of gambling but turns into greed and emotionalism that takes away the pleasure.
a gambling addict, they dont feel happy about gambling anymore and they just like doing what their mind wants to do and this is the bad thing about a gambler who can not control his bad thoughts.
Like the proverb that says your heart and mind will make things difficult for you, in the sense that person destruction depends on how his heart evaluates and his thoughts determine every step he takes.
We must be able to assess and make truly measurable decisions in gambling so that bad things such as addiction or losing large amounts of money can be avoided.
Moreover, the use and positive side of gambling depends on each gambler himself, there are positive and negative impacts so we have to decide which steps to take for good development for ourselves.
This kind of understanding is only for those who can think logically and for those who only indulge in excessive lust or desires from gambling, they cannot have that kind of understanding.
It would be very difficult for gambler who is filled with ambition to have control and think clearly, they know that making money is not easy and money is very valuable, but they think that gambling will earn them more.
This is why many gamblers seem to have no respect for money and they are willing to lose large amounts to fulfill their impossible ambitions from gambling, and worse things usually happen to gambling addict.